Respecting Our Husbands
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When I was single, I had wise older woman say to me, “it’s easy to please your spouse. They only require 3 things. Give him food. Give him sex. Give him respect publicly and privately.” That’s it? After I got married, I didn’t realize how hard that actually was...
You are a smart woman 👩
Alana, I have been listening to you since I was 17, I am 25 now married with 5 kiddos. I just wanted to tell you I never had anyone teach me how to do my job as a wife and mother well and you have been that person for me. So thank you, I pray Yah bless you and keep you beloved sister!
What?!?! That’s unreal girl! God bless you! Thanks for sharing❤️
@@AlanaL3 ❤️❤️❤️
My tone definitely gets me in trouble with my husband. Trying to pray for patience and a softer tone of voice at all times.
God bless u. I'm a disrespectful stubborn wife. I justified myself saying my husband is a backsliden. Thank you for all these videos. I'm changing and praying
I found after having kids that our marriage has not been as easy. I miss my spouse! Great video thank you!!
You're absolutely right The Bible exhorts us to be yielding To put the needs of others before our own Especially when it comes to the marriage arrangement ... this results in many blessings for both husbands and wives.
I just found your channel, and I praise God that you put all of this Biblical truth out here for us! God bless you, your husband, your family, and your ministry!
You respect the guys and the guys respect you! 😃👍
I would love to see a Marriage Monday where you address how to deal with strife and bitterness in your marriage. The enemy is attacking us on all our weak points to destroy our union and I am praying for God to uproot the spirit of strife and heal us in Jesus name.
You aare led by the Holy Spirit.... That is the best way to keep a marriage strong!!!!! Your positive attitude and your spirit filled soul is always a joy to hear from you....
You have such a beautiful spirit.. I’m 24 married almost 2 years to a godly man and we have our first baby on the way in a few months.. I’ve been really struggling with respecting and submitting to my husband. I want to.. because I know God tells us these things for our good. It’s just been difficult.. thank you for sharing all your tips.. new subscriber here!
Hard to find a real woman who is not afraid to be a wife once married.
Speaking truth like always God bless sister.
I desperately needed this message today. God sent it to me through you. Thank you!🧡
New subscriber. I am binge watching all your marriage and faith videos. Great insights and advice. Really appreciate you doing this. God bless you
Ahhhhh, another Alana video. Oh happy day!!!🤗 on point again, thanks for sharing!
Really loved the content in this video! Thanks for making it :)
Thank you, Alana.
Your videos are a blessing for me. Thank you!
As a man, I understand when you say its "Very simple........." when the wife (and also husband) are grounded and anchored in Christ and embrace the calling!
which part of it is the most difficult in ur opinion?
@@91722854 The difficult part for me is when husband and wife are operating from different frame of reference when it comes to Christian values; not recognising their roles as a calling (a call to serve Christ). As humans we are equal in dignity as male and female being before God and one another but with different roles as husband and wife (which are not equal) because of the different responsibilities attached to the roles.
This might be the best video I’ve seen on this topic.
Definitely can relate with needing to be mindful of how my passion comes across, because I am the exact same way! I really appreciate your thoughts, because it helps me realize things from a different perspective.
Wife like this = happy husband that adores his wife.
wow every one of your videos are so encouraging
Omggggg a new video yayyyy!!!! 🤩🤩
Wonderful!
Alana I am so much like you on the passionate side. I get so passionate about things and my husband and others have pointed that out and don’t really like that about me. I have been working on this myself for quite sometime and tend to get down (sad/depressed) about this. It’s so hard not to get worked up about certain things that I am passionate about.
I know...it’s hard to feel misunderstood when you’re just excited:) don’t feel down though, that’s focusing on wrong thing. We need to focus on how we can bless and love others best even if it means controlling ourselves a little. The great thing is, you don’t have to hold back with a God. :)
@@AlanaL3 thank you Alana. This is true I’m focusing on the wrong thing. 💛
SO timely Alana! Thank you!!
I was the opposite of a godly wife last night and I woke up feeling guilty and ashamed and went to the Lord in prayer and for forgiveness. Then I saw this video and Boom, encouragement! Also, Thank you for waiting for the spirit to lead you when making these videos. I agree it can be much more timely and on point than if you were to plan something out. I appreciate you sister!!
My marriage ended in divorce with 1 child in a co-parenting situation.
It wasn't a Godly marriage, though we were together for 12 years.
If I ever marry again it would be absolutely nothing but a Godly marriage to a Godly woman and we both go all-in on God together - it's the only way to do it.
Sin sucks.
Children growing up in broken homes sucks.
Betrayal sucks.
We can't cheat God.
God bless you and your family.
And all families - who manage to keep it together through the years.
I am also a bull just as you are. Did a bull cause your divorce with your wife?
@@WILD-CAVEMAN-123 No, but you could say that I was Samson and she was Delilah. I guess I should have read the Bible sooner...
@@peterthebull8578 Did she actually cut your hair while you were sleeping? If so this is disgusting and makes me angry.
@@WILD-CAVEMAN-123 That's how Philistine women be. God's plan.
Yes longer video ....... 🥰🥰
Thank you for your obedience to Christ in sharing His truth. It’s a blessing!
I so needed this today! Thank you!
I’m single and desire to be married are there any books you recommend that will help prepare me to be a wife?
Nope, be grounded in THE BOOK the word of God that will guide you through all of life. It’s rich in wisdom and brings the best counsel for all areas of life.
Sadly, most women are not marriage material these days.
Same for men:( Satan is making leaps and strides. Let’s fight back!
@@AlanaL3 what makes a man marriage material? I truly want to become one, I'm 25, where should I start?
@@91722854 1. Loves and is devoted to Jesus/his life shows it to everyone
2. Hard worker provider/honest worker/high standards
3. Loving, gentle, kind, patient, but strong and of honorable character/brave in Christ
4. Cherish his family, puts them first.
5. Encourager not critic
Hello Alana I have been listening to a number of your videos on you tube but I have never heard your testamony of your conversion. Could you tell me when you were saved and how you experienced?
respect for the spouse goes both ways and it is the very same respect. man should respect his wife just as much as the wife respects her husband. the same way
Of course
Im loving those teeny tiny baby hairs🤭🤭 I have those to
Ditto! So cute!
Alana l any advice on how to get my husband not to talk about dirty stuff at work and I don’t like it and I don’t want him to partake any advice
I don’t think you can control that:/ it has to be a genuine desire that come from him because if his devotion to Christ and his respect for you. Pray for him earnestly.
Okay Alana l thank you so much for the great advice
Alana l could you also give me some advice on being the only woman in a meeting because sometimes I feel out powered or when I try to say something to my male peers they won’t listen and they won’t give my ideas a thought or chance and it makes me mad and upset
@@sarahsmithee3129 probably not her area on this channel but there’s a lot of YT videos about this 🙏🏾
Do you sell your coffee online?
Not anymore. Too much work:)
talk about rambling
Thanks for the comment!
noise ruined it
Thanks for your thoughts