Dating a married man is as much of a flex as finding cold half eaten food in someone else’s house and eating it in the bathroom while they’re distracted
A round of applause to Serene Serena. She's so beautiful and chill even when describing something horrible. Bragging about dating a married man is the epitome of classless.
@@ghanacryptogurl3574 she still KNEW he was married and made the choice to be a mistress in an apartment he rented for her next to his daughter's school??? Doesn't matter if he topld her excuses, he was married, point blank.
Story 1, the lady just doubled down on her mistakes: 1. WHY would you park in a Reserved spot? 2. Why continue after being warned? 3. Why out yourself with your address? 4. Why write an actual note that threatentens someone else? 5. Why show up at the door so your face is recorded? If I was OP, I would sue for harassment and get a restraining order.
Men throwing the crazy card hurts women who do suffer from mental illness. I had a high school girlfriend who at the time was undiagnosed manic bipolar. I tried telling people that she had issues and no one believed me because "If I had a dollar for every time a man calls his girlfriend crazy..." Because of this she ended up suffering even more because no one would help her seek proper medical attention while everyone tried to twist, enable and gaslight her illness into a sick twisted high school teen drama. Luckily she eventually did get the medical help (after years of destructive behavior and hardcore drugs) and now she has the support and treatments and is happily married with kids. So it did have a happy ending but still, she didn't need to go through all that pain when she needed her friends and family the most.
Thank you for repeatedly saying that dating a married man isn’t a flex. I heard from a female the other day “watch me take her man.” I’m thinking billions of other single men you want to take a married man.
They do that because they see a man who could provide her a stable environment and give her, her "ideal" family. But in reality, he will lose his assets to his STBXW, and she will most likely be sued for "alienation of affection."
For people wondering, the thumbnail is slightly misleading. The wife posted a separate tiktok clearing the air. She didn't know the woman from the duet video, she was just saying she was the wife in an identical situation
It feels like the trifecta of lazy, stupid, & delusional It's the adult version of 'Hold my drink while I snog your Boyfriend' - oh, BTW someone *actually* put that on a shirt; how low-rent do you have to be for that kind of quality of character...?
Oh please. 99.9% of men heat. Yall think your man faithful cuz you at home believing he is. You got actual proof? NOPE! No man can control himself 100% of the time. 😂😂
If the guy you’re dating tells you a story in which his ex “went crazy” just ask “but what was her point? What was her crazy delusion that she was screaming about?” If he doesn’t know or doesn’t remember, he either doesn’t listen to his partner or he’s only telling half the story.
I like to make it seem like I believe him that she's crazy and ask what she accused him of. Then I consider it a warning just in case he really did the thing lol
ladies listen up, if you hookup with a man in a marriage or in a relationship in general, dont believe anything they say ANYTHING (much less about their partner). this person is already cheating on their spouse, if they can look at the "love of their lives" and lie to their faces to cheat, they can lie to anyone about anything.
"if you hook up with a man in a marriage or in a relationship".... How about just DON'T do that. Then you don't have to worry about whether or not he's lying to you about his spouse. Big WOW.
@@angelahounschell of course thats the point of the message. But many delusional people enter relationships with married men/women unaware of their status, and then the lies start pouring "im in the process of divorce", "we have been living apart many years", "they are crazy im scared", etc. But the truth is, married people seeking new partners are to shameless or too cowardly to end their previous relationship
If they say they’re in a relationship, I say goodbye! One of my friend’s fiance’s said he wanted to see us kiss. So I’m explaining in detail why that will NEVER happen, and my friend is literally doubled over with laughter. The second he said it, she knew what my reaction would be! Apparently, seeing a 5’11” man be scolded by a 5’0” translad is hilarious I looked about 14 at the time, not 26
HANG ON A MINUTE. I feel really bad for that dinner date guy. He legitimately seemed like he couldn't afford to pay, but he asked about washing the damn dishes instead of even asking her to chip in. I don't think he deserves to have everyone taking the piss out of him.
His date is being tacky. Instead of doing something to help the situation, she's sitting there doing snark face and sucking on a very overpriced drink. Miss Entitled probably insisted that he take her to an expensive place and then proceeded to order the most expensive items, and now she's acting like he's the trashy one while she's trying to publicly humiliate him with her attempted character assassination. GTFO!
No, no, no….this woman didn’t spring this date on him. She accepted his date and he left the damn house knowing he only intended to pay for his meal. Then he loudly and in front of his date explains how he can only pay for basically half the bill HOPING it would force her to step in and be like…..ooooh it’s ok, I’ll pick up my half. If he truly didn’t realize he was financially strapped or left his wallet at home he would have sought out the server IN PRIVATE to work out the situation. He wouldn’t have embarrassed himself AND his date in front of god and everyone else within ear shot. I have experienced a very similar situation, only my date didn’t try to pull the….”I didn’t bring enough money/or a single credit card” deal. It was apparent he wasn’t attracted to me in person after spending weeks trying to convince me to give him a shot and let him take me to dinner. After the most awkward date of my life where this clearly disinterested guy wouldn’t even talk to me….I was having to drive the entire conversation, not because I liked him but because we were already there, so why not chat a bit and have a good time….. The pub is clearly closing and he’s sitting in silence so I finally wave down the server to ask for the bill…the bill comes and gets placed between us. It sits and sits and sits….he doesn’t pick it up or even mention it. I finally snatch the bill to figure my half when he finally pipes up with…..”oh, oh….yeah..:: so how do you want to do this??” Pfft. I threw down 30 bucks and walked out
@@Chick4choiceI wouldnt have stayed. The moment he seemed disinterested I would have said I dont feel like you're that interested in this interaction so I'm going to excuse myself but you have a great night and got up and walked out
Moral of the story guys, take cash in various denominations and if it becomes obvious she’s just there for a free meal just figure out what you’ve eat/drank, pay that and walk away.
I like the guy in dating in 2023, he was willing to take the bullet of the bill, and not asking her to pay, even willing to work off the debt when he knew it was too much. Good on them.
I can see both sides. I'd say the classy thing would be taking the waiter aside to settle it privately or just told her from the start he couldn't afford anything but going dutch. Being in her situation would be so awkward. But also def dick move to film it, not a classy thing to do either. No shame on him for doing what it takes though.
That poor lady who was cheated on by the worm for 3 years. I hope her life is amazing and she gets everything she wants in life. She deserves all the happiness in the world.
The serenaserena lady? She is a random lady on the internet that pretended to be the wife on TikTok and didnt realize it’d go viral she doesnt know any of these people she stitched
If you can’t afford a date, don’t take someone on a date. He should’ve done his research and checked the menu. If you can only afford a cheap date, then be honest about it. What matters is that you get to know the person. Who cares if you do it over lobster or a Big Mac. He did the right thing in taking responsibility for it, but a lot of places don’t let you take the manual labor route anymore.
@@erikarussell1142 It is hard to hear but I hear him say "Is there a possibility that she can go, and I'll wash the dishes in the back." That part starts at about 3:55 in the video.
@@BAChambers-235 that's true but I just got done watching Charlotte's bad dating video where the dude ordered 100 tacos made the woman pay then was super weird about it, so I might be biased. The internet has ruined my standards in men, so a guy that will go out of his way like this seems rare. He messed up and is willing to own the mistake instead of trying to screw the woman over.
Oh my God I identify so much with the wife who got cheated on. Gaslighting is a real thing. Abusive people make their partners believe so much lies about ourselves 😩
Yeah... my soon-to-be ex-husband gaslit me so much. I actually thought I was losing my mind. He really fucked me up, but karma has been his best friend since then.
I use press ons an it really is all about the nail prep. They've even been mistaken for salon nails. It always feels nice when someone compliments them.
Seeing a press on nail like that in the bed reminds me of stories of women invited back to a mans house purposefully leaving 'evidence' because they realize the guy might have a girlfriend
Yup...for me it was a foreign lipgloss in the bed. It was one of the worst days of my life. After he and I broke up they got together, ended up married with a kid, and then he cheated on her. He didn't change much. Clearly
Or someone else's hair on the kitchen counter, bathroom floor , bath mat and bed and checked the clear canister of the vacuum cleaner for another color and texture. Flew all the way across the country to see that shit. Mr " you are the only one" had a rather loose zipper. Glad the rest of his life now sucks even worse
My sister did this, she put her underwear under the sheet knowing damned well he probably didn't wash his owns sheets...cause he had a wife and 2 year old!
That one about the girl being in a relationship with a married man wasn't bragging. She was saying she was disgusted. And that she hopes his ex-wife forgives her. That she realized he was a narcissist. Unfortunately so many take her as she's bragging before they listen to her whole video. This why you shouldn't judge, so many times we misjudge
She dated a married man with a kid for 3 years that's all I need to know, it is a little bit late to be disgusted he probably cheated on her too... so she is sorry for herself.
@nad0862 if you take a second from being all high and mighty and watch her video she states she was unaware that they were still married narcissist are great at that. And you just proved how well they work 👏. You're condemning a woman you don't know before you know all the information. Get down off your high horse. There are 3 sides to every story you only heard one and FYI the wife and the ex girlfriend are friends I do believe
right I kinda got the impression that she was gearing up for a 'my trash ex' story, not a brag. and you can have made a mistake in a certain window of time, and later be completely disgusted WITH YOURSELF, FOR YOURSELF- your feelings don't need to be only to honor others. you don't have to feel bad purely because of the other person. you can think back on something (like a bad relationship) and feel grossed out because of your own actions as well as the other person's. you're allowed to regret.
If this is true, she isn't very smart. It never tipped her off that he was still married when he never took her to meet his family or friends in the 3 years they were dating?
The walk of 'shame' made me laugh. When we first moved into our house we had a single guy living across the street and a single mom next door. Both were in late 30's early 40's. (Her kids were older teens.) As time went on we'd watch her hanging out at his house (around here people hang out in garages a lot. It's a whole thing). Eventually I'd be up in the morning and watching one of them crossing the street at 6 am to go back home. When they finally told us he was selling his house and moving in with her we wanted to say 'no shit, Sherlock! Never saw that coming!' Sad ending though. They lived together a few years, got engaged, and then 3 weeks before the wedding he came home to find her dead from a stroke. She was 49.
I had a car towed from my PAID, RESERVED spot when I lived in my apartment...the satisfaction of seeing the tow truck driver pull up is real! I had left notes multiple times. The best part is when the heiffer came out and tried to get the tow truck driver to unhook her car! It was already hooked and ready to go! She never parked in my spot again!
4:28 K, but why did she at no point offer to pay for herself? And if he knew he was that hard pressed, why go to such an expensive place? Google has a $-$$$$$ rating system readily available to people for most restaurants now...
I swear, Charlotte's adorable personality is always the best part. I have so much fun with her vídeos, they ALWAYS makes me feel better, especially when i'm sad or tired. Charlotte is our treasure. A very beautiful and funny treasure. 😂👑♥️
0:35 Because there are many people in this world that have either never faced real consequences, or believe, for whatever reason, they can do what they want and if someone delivers consequences then they are the bad guy. Like Rogan once said, there's a lot of people that have never been punched in the face.
I could listen to the girl who stitched the video of the idiot bragging about dated a married man talk all day she's very well spoken and her voice speaks to my soul
If you listen closely before the stich cuts the story off, The OP of the married man says it is "something you say after getting out of a toxic relationship". Now I am not saying that is an excuse, but the stich makes it seem worse than it is.
Omg, that poor woman that was married to the cheater. My heart goes out to you honey! I hope all is well with you and that you are safe and happy with your daughter. ❤️
Hold ON!!!!!! the audacity of NOT having a part two of the get ready with me while I tell you about my boy friend cheating!!! The girls side eye was too telling but we need more! 😂😂😂😂
Ladies, if you’re ever in that situation on a date, ask the sever to split the check, pay for your meal and leave. Both parties should look up restaurants beforehand to see if the menu is affordable
First of all, how could anyone cheat on that woman Serena, she is literally gorgeous? Second of all, if the person that you are with thinks that everyone around them is toxic, perhaps they're the problem. I'm glad she got away from that monster
What makes that video weird to me is the filter... you can see it glitches around the lips (like around 8:49). I mean, she might be speaking the truth, and using filter isn't a bad thing but that just gives me off vibe... Another comment said these two videos were actually unrelated, but I never checked if it was true or not...
Cheating is not about the looks. Narcissists cheat constantly because they need supply to inflate their egos. Some people like the excitement of doing something forbidden. It is almost never really about the cheated on partner.
I got called Petty for being the reason one of my coworkers got written up for her rude behavior. I just said, "Thank you! Courtesy of Charlotte Dobre." Thank you for shaping my life with the pettiness ❤
congratulations on learning to drive!! as a former city girl myself, I didn’t learn until I was 21 and put myself in driving school. It only took a little less than a year for it to become second nature like riding a bike. You’ll be cruising in no time!
I didn't get my license until 19, hated driving so much I'd find any excuse. Even after having a license I'd bribe my sister with food to drive me places. She always got to pick the restaurant so no complaints from her.
I love that you’re getting your drivers license! I grew up in Alaska and my parents made me get my permit when I was 14 and the thought of a 14-year-old driving on the ice is TERRIFYING 😅 but when I was 27 my license expired and I had to take a drivers test again and I was SO proud of how well I did… even thought I’d been driving for 17 years lolol - have fun! Driving is awesome
My mom told me that if anyone accuses you of cheating, they are usually the ones who are cheating. I've been cheated on twice by men who would tell me they loved me, only to turn around and physically and emotionally abuse me.
The girl saying she dated a married man, she was starting the story and it really wasn’t a flex but a horror story of this man lying and playing with her. But yeah I wouldn’t put on the internet 😅
I kinda feel bad for the guy who couldn't afford the date.... Like yeah it was stupid to take her there but at least he offered to do what he needs to to make it right and make sure she wasn't dragged into it or ask her to pay
Same I felt sorta bad like it was actually sorta sweet how much work he was willing to put in and I definitely wouldn't be able to sit there pulling faces then posting that, not like he tried to run off or even make her pay he was a gentleman about it considering, but he definitely should hold off on dating till he can sort his own financials out 😅 and actually we don't even know what the whole order was for the night, maybe she ordered more than he could handle or expected and was being polite about how he said it
@@awessauce exactly how I'm feeling- should he be dating if he's having a rough go? Probably not (definitely not dating this woman especially)....but he handled himself in a very respectful way and how she treated him and the situation says way more to me about who she is than who he is. You can't buy character. I hope you figures his stuff out and find somebody who will appreciate him no matter what circumstances life may bring
Here to defend press on nails 😂 In my job we can't wear false nails or nail polish so the gel manicures are out, since we can only keep them on for weekends before having to get them removed. Not worth the money for 2 days
This is where sexism hurts guys. Why should they have to pay? If he makes more money than his date, yes, he should pay. If they have equal salaries, then it should be dutch or take turns. Or, if one asks the other out, the person doing the asking should do it with eyes open about cost so there aren't surprises like this. If there are surprises, both should pony up. Only jerks laugh at the person caught out.
@@LiseWrigleywhoever asks pays. Sucks that it is usually expected for a man to ask but wmen didn't create the patriarchy. If you aren't financially solvent then you should either not date or date someone who doesn't mind and not expect that every woman should have to lower her standards.🥴
An ex of mine is a lawyer and partner in his law firm. His best, number one piece of advice, to people regarding legal issues, is this: Don’t say a f*cking word!
Thank you for your videos Charlotte! Your videos cheer me up everyday. My friend died yesterday & idk why just hearing "HEY EVERYBODY!" made me feel better. Thank you! You're a sunshine. ❤
4:15 dude don't act surprised help him if you're going to order expensive stuff at least pay some of it you left your wallet at home on purpose or something
In regards to writing on the paperbag: About 8 years ago I was in a rally bad car wreck. Broken bones, half a year of physical therapy and ptsd while being on the road, as a driver or as passenger. I got a nice lawsuit payout from it and never shared about it. A family member assumed I did and on my birthday sent me a lovely note front and back on a letter envelope basically calling me a worthless pos for not giving them money they were entitled too. Threw my dead dad under the bus that had died 3 months prior and told me I wasn't worth a 💩 and said I would burn in hell. 😅
Girl falling asleep b4 goin out is relatable! Usually I get ready quick than am waiting on friend who takes 4ever. Next thing I know it's morning & bunch of miss calls from her. I can't party no more. I need a week notice to pull an all nighter now. Lol
Without more information, we should not be judging the man who couldn't pay that harshly. Also, he didn't storm out or off, he didn't flip an attitutide...he realized his mistake and offered his labor to make up for his blunder. I don't know how you don't feel a little sad and also a little proud of his response to a terrible MISTAKE. Y'all there is petty and then there is straight up mean. We can do better.
He indeed made a blunder, but his response and offering of an honest solution that didn’t put the burden on his date was honorable. This may be the sign of a very decent man.
I take it as a positive thing that when I put your videos on while feeding my 9mo old, he smiles and giggles. Especially when your voice goes deep from filters.
Hi potato fam!! I am feeling pretty good after my surgery for the most part. Thank you for all the support! I love you Charlotte thanks for all the good times!!
I once had a co-worker who bragged about going out with married man. In her experience married men always made better gifts than single men and that was apparently one of the reasons why she did it 😖 She did indeed came with designer bags and stuff to the office but I‘m not sure if they were THE gifts
Married men have a good experience because they ARE MARRIED!!! He is already committed to one lady and how come someone just date a Married man for better gifts!!??
I hung up the alcohol in 2012 😅... Too close to losing control. Had to get a grip! It's so easy to start drinking too much as a small town bartender. Those early to mid 20s were great but I'm just happy I survived them 😂
4:45 the girl on the date..He was asking the waiter to cut down the bill or w/e. And that poor server had to go talk to the manager. At that point I would’ve put him out of his misery, offered to pay the rest and made sure that poor waiter got TIP. Nothing is wrong with splitting the bill especially on a first date but that should be established at the beginning! Ahh 2023.😂
Lol i remember when i was dating and out of courtesy i would ask my date what i could order so i didn't push him over his finances. I don't understand these people who order $100 worth of food/drink when the date keeps hinting that they need to pick things less expensive.
No, there have always been women (and men) that expect you to pay for their meal on a first date. Depends on who asks who. My now boyfriend asked me to go to a really expensive steak house and I asked him, Just to be clear, are you paying for all of it, or will I paying my share? I knew he could afford it if I got the most expensive thing on the menu, but I just wanted to CMA. He still picks up the tab most of the time, as I make a lot less, but I don't expect it every time. I generally pick something that I can afford unless he insists on 'just get what you want." He's not the romantic type, this is as close as he gets.
It’s your life and nobody else’s business, but I do want to hear Charlotte’s adventures in learning to drive and why now. Thanks for all the videos. You really make insomnia easier to deal with.
I learned a long time ago, whether it be with friends or a date I always need to have the ability to pay for my own meal. I went out with a friend once, and his card was declined. He was treating me to dinner. Fortunately, I was able to pay for both of us. So now I make sure I can at least pay for myself.
People should appreciate careful/ sober friends more. While it can be fun, being inebriated has more downsides in the long run. Going out drinking without being safe and prepared is playing with unnecessary risks and danger. I'm a lightweight and enjoy some nights with relaxed drinking and such- but I am also very careful when it comes to make sure there are sober people to drive everyone home. I've known too many people that don't have a good time after a period of partying. I've heard too many deaths due to reckless driving and substance abuse. I get it, feeling different with substances can be fun and great- when done responsibly. No one wants to take care of a drunk friend who reverts into a toddler just because they kept drinking. Sidenote: Mango Tequlia from Mexico is amazing. Stay safe peeps!
If you don't have money for a restaurant, you take your girl out for a picnic: make NICE sandwiches, some fruit, drinks, maybe a Chocolate cake or desert (can be from a shop). Give her hand-picked flowers, make sure to find a place with benches, seats or bring pillows to sit on.
I feel this video was both funny (as all of them are) and a good reinforcement on choices and perspectives. First one makes me happy I don't have a vehicle. Fourth the person made a good recommendation to avoid that drink in case I cross paths with it. Next one that there is benefits to social media to catch awful people, while also allowing people mistreated by their partners to have a platform to tell their story of what happened. Another reminded that is probably good I don't club lol, I prefer sleep as well. For most of these it makes me glad that I make no effort (lack of interest too) in the dating realm so I don't have to deal with any BS. I learned a lot while drinking my morning tea. Thanks Charlotte, you're the best!
I'm torn on the date video. I like to go out with friends and on dates but I have always been tight with money so I developed ways to do both. I feel like you can look up restaurant prices beforehand, even if its a first date and you don't know what the date is going to order, you can get an idea of what the prices are so it isn't a surprise when you get there. On the other hand, it was really sweet he offered to do the work himself instead of splitting or putting on his date, who was being an asshole btw. I wouldn't record someone feeling bad and having to ask something potentially embarrassing, if I see that he's genuinely trying to find a solution I would offer to pay my part and then see how things go. Idk I feel like you can decide to not keep seeing the guy but don't add salt to the wound with the recording and making faces.
Yeah, I think that ultimately they both made some rough choices. He should've done a little more research up front and picked a more budget-friendly place, and she should've offered to pay her half, or at least not filmed herself judging the dude for trying to make things right.
@@spoonfulofsalt i mean even a budget friendly place can be become outrageous if your date orders expensive drinks, finds the priciest item on the menu, and then wants dessert on top of that. I’ve known a couple women who would do that because “if he really wants to keep me, he has to show it.” I never once expected a man to pay for my dinner on a date. I always wanted to pay at least for what I ordered. IF she’s even his date, sitting there and not even offering to pay for at least her half as she sips on her fancy drink, laughs, and records him from her phone is gross.
I get a feeling it's fake, but even if not, like, don't take someone on a date to a place you can't afford? I don't like these TikToks that shame people, but also....this was avoidable.
Okay, for the one about the married man; I think that was the start of her possibly telling her side. If what the ex wife said is true, then it's all on the ex-husband. Again, I don't think the woman was bragging at the beginning of that stitch, but her about to give a tale of warning.
Just said this same thing , she wasn't bragging she was telling her side. I saw her video first then saw the ex-wife's stitch later. The way she stitched it makes it look bad but not going to accused or blame her for anything she has all the right to be salty to the woman her ex cheated on her with for 3 years. But yes she was not bragging at all she was in shock of it all
it's literally a reserved parking space right next to a visitor space. she's then left a threatening note. if she continues i'd get a restraining order and file complaint for harassment and threatening behavior
5:25 Fun fact. You can use regular pink nail glue to attach press on nails (even with the glue strip that comes on them) and they'll stay on waaay better and look almost as good as a salon. 😁
Lmaooo the girl that fell asleep right after getting ready to go to the club ahahah felt that pain 😭 like now I’m the ride back home for this hœs ahaha
I agree. Don't take nobody out if you can't afford it, but at the same time, I think it shows his character. the fact that he's trying to work for the meal instead of just getting it for free. I'm pretty sure he was embarrassed that I should feel bad for him❤❤❤ but that's just my opinion. You should probably order something extremely expensive. Most expensive restaurants don't even have two prices on the menu. I feel bad for him. Love you, Charlotte❤❤❤❤❤!!!
@@CharlotteDobre hey Charlotte my favorite salad is ceasar salad. I also love watching your videos and would love it if you came up a few hours north of Toronto to the wannabe Toronto city named sudbury. We are similar in size to Toronto however we are much more spaced out. I'd love to recommend some nice places to see if you'd ever swing by sudbury 🥰🙂
The drunk behavior story reminded me of something I was involved with way back in the late 1970's. My friend and I had been to the local tavern and we had heard of a party nearby. Now I am a very moderate drinking but my friend is the sort of person who starts his day off with a half gallon flagon of cheap white wine to kick start his day, and was no stranger to drugs. So he was already drunk before we got to the party, and things progressed from there. I passed my time catching up with an old college friend. Eventually I managed to pull my friend away to go home. He came away with a bottle of tequila and then proceeded to start mixing drinks as I drove. My car stank of tequila for weeks. But wait, there's more. He then asked me to stop at a late night take out shop for what we would call, "greasies". I Immediately told him that I had no money. He still insisted and off we went. we got to the shop and he proceeded to place an order for a huge pile of take out, and I kept saying quite loudly that I had no money. Come the time when the shop owner wanted some payment my friend turned to me expecting me to pay, and I said very forcefully, "I TOLD YOU, I HAVE NO MONEY!" The message finally got through to him. No food. So I drove him home and left him there. But wait, there's more. I go back the next day and he is lamenting that while he was passed out during the night one of his cronies had crawled through his window and, being the generous type, while my friend was oblivious, gave him a hit of heroin. Was my friend concerned that in his drunken state he could have overdosed? NO. He was pissed off that he felt nothing and to him it was a wasted dose. And so passed another weekend. This is the gospel truth, definitely not unusual for my friend.
The fourth clip of the married man: I wish more people were able to identify that the man is 100% a narcissist. Narcissists are highly manipulative and will not take accountability; they are mentally ill and ruin lives.
That's not a walk of shame that's a stride of pride.
That just made my day
@@yourlocalvintagegal 🥲😆 happy to help 😅
That's hilarious. 😂 i Love it.
Never heard one that before 🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡
I literally just said that lol walk if shame?? 😂 Nah bruh.. that's the "stride if pride" 🙌🎉
Dating a married man is as much of a flex as finding cold half eaten food in someone else’s house and eating it in the bathroom while they’re distracted
That's hilarious and also true 😂
Daaaaamn. Slapped and walked away….
Best analogy 👌
Has someone done this to you?! Great analogy, just oddly specific lol
Ewwww
A round of applause to Serene Serena. She's so beautiful and chill even when describing something horrible. Bragging about dating a married man is the epitome of classless.
Doesn’t seem she was bragging much or…… cos she said she got to contact her and the guy told the other woman that she was abusive and stuff
@@ghanacryptogurl3574 she still KNEW he was married and made the choice to be a mistress in an apartment he rented for her next to his daughter's school??? Doesn't matter if he topld her excuses, he was married, point blank.
Story 1, the lady just doubled down on her mistakes: 1. WHY would you park in a Reserved spot? 2. Why continue after being warned? 3. Why out yourself with your address?
4. Why write an actual note that threatentens someone else? 5. Why show up at the door so your face is recorded? If I was OP, I would sue for harassment and get a restraining order.
Agreed that lady just keeps digging a bigger hole for herself. How dilulu can she be?
Straight up. But be careful. She is obviously mentally ill, and sometimes these things can go waaaay south.
@lw3269 - Not to mention there was a guest parking spot right next to it! How silly can you get?
OP can counter sue for harassment, threats, payment for OP's lawyer. OP has video proof
AND why do that when there was literally a visitor spot next to the reserved spot 😅
Men throwing the crazy card hurts women who do suffer from mental illness. I had a high school girlfriend who at the time was undiagnosed manic bipolar. I tried telling people that she had issues and no one believed me because "If I had a dollar for every time a man calls his girlfriend crazy..." Because of this she ended up suffering even more because no one would help her seek proper medical attention while everyone tried to twist, enable and gaslight her illness into a sick twisted high school teen drama.
Luckily she eventually did get the medical help (after years of destructive behavior and hardcore drugs) and now she has the support and treatments and is happily married with kids. So it did have a happy ending but still, she didn't need to go through all that pain when she needed her friends and family the most.
This is such a compassionate post. ✅ green flag for this man
Thank you for repeatedly saying that dating a married man isn’t a flex. I heard from a female the other day “watch me take her man.” I’m thinking billions of other single men you want to take a married man.
I'd be thinking: Well, there's a low rent hooker.
Agreed. A married man is the wooden spoon of dating 'prizes'. So demeaning.
It just makes the woman a cow for helping destroy a family
@@what_equals_42 😂 I’m putting that in my hilarious phrases brain-file 😂
They do that because they see a man who could provide her a stable environment and give her, her "ideal" family.
But in reality, he will lose his assets to his STBXW, and she will most likely be sued for "alienation of affection."
For people wondering, the thumbnail is slightly misleading. The wife posted a separate tiktok clearing the air. She didn't know the woman from the duet video, she was just saying she was the wife in an identical situation
If they'd cheat WITH you, they'd cheat ON you."Bagging a married man" just means you have low standards for men who don't stay loyal.
It feels like the trifecta of lazy, stupid, & delusional
It's the adult version of 'Hold my drink while I snog your Boyfriend' - oh, BTW someone *actually* put that on a shirt; how low-rent do you have to be for that kind of quality of character...?
What i always say ^^^
Oh please. 99.9% of men heat. Yall think your man faithful cuz you at home believing he is. You got actual proof? NOPE! No man can control himself 100% of the time. 😂😂
If the guy you’re dating tells you a story in which his ex “went crazy” just ask “but what was her point? What was her crazy delusion that she was screaming about?” If he doesn’t know or doesn’t remember, he either doesn’t listen to his partner or he’s only telling half the story.
I like to make it seem like I believe him that she's crazy and ask what she accused him of. Then I consider it a warning just in case he really did the thing lol
@@littlekitty210 oh clever, im taking notes
If an ex is crazy.
What did they do to make them
Go crazy? It’s a legit question. Perhaps nothing. But perhaps a lot.
ladies listen up, if you hookup with a man in a marriage or in a relationship in general, dont believe anything they say ANYTHING (much less about their partner). this person is already cheating on their spouse, if they can look at the "love of their lives" and lie to their faces to cheat, they can lie to anyone about anything.
Also remember that old saying the way you got them is the way you're going to lose them 😮
"if you hook up with a man in a marriage or in a relationship".... How about just DON'T do that. Then you don't have to worry about whether or not he's lying to you about his spouse. Big WOW.
@@angelahounschell of course thats the point of the message. But many delusional people enter relationships with married men/women unaware of their status, and then the lies start pouring "im in the process of divorce", "we have been living apart many years", "they are crazy im scared", etc. But the truth is, married people seeking new partners are to shameless or too cowardly to end their previous relationship
Facts. If they cheat WITH you, they'll cheat ON you.
If they say they’re in a relationship, I say goodbye!
One of my friend’s fiance’s said he wanted to see us kiss. So I’m explaining in detail why that will NEVER happen, and my friend is literally doubled over with laughter. The second he said it, she knew what my reaction would be!
Apparently, seeing a 5’11” man be scolded by a 5’0” translad is hilarious
I looked about 14 at the time, not 26
HANG ON A MINUTE. I feel really bad for that dinner date guy. He legitimately seemed like he couldn't afford to pay, but he asked about washing the damn dishes instead of even asking her to chip in. I don't think he deserves to have everyone taking the piss out of him.
His date is being tacky. Instead of doing something to help the situation, she's sitting there doing snark face and sucking on a very overpriced drink. Miss Entitled probably insisted that he take her to an expensive place and then proceeded to order the most expensive items, and now she's acting like he's the trashy one while she's trying to publicly humiliate him with her attempted character assassination. GTFO!
@@LazyIRanchI don't disagree, but I will say he needs to learn how to say "no"to women or he'll never have money
No, no, no….this woman didn’t spring this date on him. She accepted his date and he left the damn house knowing he only intended to pay for his meal.
Then he loudly and in front of his date explains how he can only pay for basically half the bill HOPING it would force her to step in and be like…..ooooh it’s ok, I’ll pick up my half.
If he truly didn’t realize he was financially strapped or left his wallet at home he would have sought out the server IN PRIVATE to work out the situation. He wouldn’t have embarrassed himself AND his date in front of god and everyone else within ear shot.
I have experienced a very similar situation, only my date didn’t try to pull the….”I didn’t bring enough money/or a single credit card” deal. It was apparent he wasn’t attracted to me in person after spending weeks trying to convince me to give him a shot and let him take me to dinner. After the most awkward date of my life where this clearly disinterested guy wouldn’t even talk to me….I was having to drive the entire conversation, not because I liked him but because we were already there, so why not chat a bit and have a good time…..
The pub is clearly closing and he’s sitting in silence so I finally wave down the server to ask for the bill…the bill comes and gets placed between us. It sits and sits and sits….he doesn’t pick it up or even mention it. I finally snatch the bill to figure my half when he finally pipes up with…..”oh, oh….yeah..:: so how do you want to do this??” Pfft. I threw down 30 bucks and walked out
@@Chick4choiceI wouldnt have stayed. The moment he seemed disinterested I would have said I dont feel like you're that interested in this interaction so I'm going to excuse myself but you have a great night and got up and walked out
Moral of the story guys, take cash in various denominations and if it becomes obvious she’s just there for a free meal just figure out what you’ve eat/drank, pay that and walk away.
I like the guy in dating in 2023, he was willing to take the bullet of the bill, and not asking her to pay, even willing to work off the debt when he knew it was too much. Good on them.
That's guilt tripping her into dating her. I rather he asks me to pay the bill or atleast half of the bill.
I can see both sides.
I'd say the classy thing would be taking the waiter aside to settle it privately or just told her from the start he couldn't afford anything but going dutch.
Being in her situation would be so awkward. But also def dick move to film it, not a classy thing to do either.
No shame on him for doing what it takes though.
@@ricebeansrockroll882 Yeah, that would be a good way to go about it as well.
That poor lady who was cheated on by the worm for 3 years. I hope her life is amazing and she gets everything she wants in life. She deserves all the happiness in the world.
The serenaserena lady? She is a random lady on the internet that pretended to be the wife on TikTok and didnt realize it’d go viral she doesnt know any of these people she stitched
@@Shadowhunter420 hahah what
WHaaaaAAT!? @@Shadowhunter420
@@Shadowhunter420no, she isn’t. She clarified later that she wasn’t the wife in the stitched videos scenario, but her own scenario
4:00 THIS IS WHY YOU HAVE YOUR OWN MONEY, HER FACES WERE PRICELESS!! Lmao
That guy from the bad date video is a keeper. He didn't even ask her to split the bill. He said let her go and I'll do manual labor to work this off.
I thought he said she would do dishes and he did something else. I must’ve misheard
If you can’t afford a date, don’t take someone on a date. He should’ve done his research and checked the menu. If you can only afford a cheap date, then be honest about it. What matters is that you get to know the person. Who cares if you do it over lobster or a Big Mac. He did the right thing in taking responsibility for it, but a lot of places don’t let you take the manual labor route anymore.
@@erikarussell1142 It is hard to hear but I hear him say "Is there a possibility that she can go, and I'll wash the dishes in the back." That part starts at about 3:55 in the video.
@@BAChambers-235 that's true but I just got done watching Charlotte's bad dating video where the dude ordered 100 tacos made the woman pay then was super weird about it, so I might be biased. The internet has ruined my standards in men, so a guy that will go out of his way like this seems rare. He messed up and is willing to own the mistake instead of trying to screw the woman over.
I heard him say SHE could wash dishes out back...? 😂
I was kind of obsessing over your butterfly shirt Charlotte! It is super cute! Girl be strutting out of that guy's place with pride! As she should.
Oh my God I identify so much with the wife who got cheated on. Gaslighting is a real thing. Abusive people make their partners believe so much lies about ourselves 😩
Unfortunately been there more than once 😮
@@janetcallanan7020Same! Sometimes our ex's ARE crazy/cheaters and we just had cripplingly low self-esteem with a side of "this is all I deserve" 😅
Same this man claimed I slept with numerous men and I asked name date time the irony he doesn't have proof! He was in a world of delulu world 😂
@@ultimatefrisby2079yes! So true! Hope you are doing well now
Yeah... my soon-to-be ex-husband gaslit me so much. I actually thought I was losing my mind. He really fucked me up, but karma has been his best friend since then.
I use press ons an it really is all about the nail prep. They've even been mistaken for salon nails. It always feels nice when someone compliments them.
Seeing a press on nail like that in the bed reminds me of stories of women invited back to a mans house purposefully leaving 'evidence' because they realize the guy might have a girlfriend
Yup...for me it was a foreign lipgloss in the bed. It was one of the worst days of my life. After he and I broke up they got together, ended up married with a kid, and then he cheated on her. He didn't change much. Clearly
@@IrieRogueKarma full circle it’s okay you’ll get someone who deserves you and your time
Or someone else's hair on the kitchen counter, bathroom floor , bath mat and bed and checked the clear canister of the vacuum cleaner for another color and texture. Flew all the way across the country to see that shit. Mr " you are the only one" had a rather loose zipper. Glad the rest of his life now sucks even worse
My sister did this, she put her underwear under the sheet knowing damned well he probably didn't wash his owns sheets...cause he had a wife and 2 year old!
My ex had the other baby moms bras and underwear hidden in our room. Between our bed and the wall. On my side of the bed.
That one about the girl being in a relationship with a married man wasn't bragging. She was saying she was disgusted. And that she hopes his ex-wife forgives her. That she realized he was a narcissist. Unfortunately so many take her as she's bragging before they listen to her whole video. This why you shouldn't judge, so many times we misjudge
She dated a married man with a kid for 3 years that's all I need to know, it is a little bit late to be disgusted he probably cheated on her too... so she is sorry for herself.
@nad0862 if you take a second from being all high and mighty and watch her video she states she was unaware that they were still married narcissist are great at that. And you just proved how well they work 👏. You're condemning a woman you don't know before you know all the information. Get down off your high horse. There are 3 sides to every story you only heard one and FYI the wife and the ex girlfriend are friends I do believe
right I kinda got the impression that she was gearing up for a 'my trash ex' story, not a brag. and you can have made a mistake in a certain window of time, and later be completely disgusted WITH YOURSELF, FOR YOURSELF- your feelings don't need to be only to honor others. you don't have to feel bad purely because of the other person. you can think back on something (like a bad relationship) and feel grossed out because of your own actions as well as the other person's. you're allowed to regret.
If this is true, she isn't very smart. It never tipped her off that he was still married when he never took her to meet his family or friends in the 3 years they were dating?
None the less, cheaters are the lowest life form. No excuse.
Slept through 5 alarms? She still looked fierce. Find a brunch and look fabulous! ❤
Period!
Yes!!😂
But you can tell she was using a filter. One of her digital eyelashes was flickering in the middle of her eye. 😂
Take advantage!!!
To be fair, i can't sleep often and can sleep through 5 alarms.
@7:24 the lady talking with that filter... her mouth is BARLEY moving 🤣☠️ I hate it hahahaha
Such a brutal story though heart out to her❤
The walk of 'shame' made me laugh. When we first moved into our house we had a single guy living across the street and a single mom next door. Both were in late 30's early 40's. (Her kids were older teens.) As time went on we'd watch her hanging out at his house (around here people hang out in garages a lot. It's a whole thing). Eventually I'd be up in the morning and watching one of them crossing the street at 6 am to go back home. When they finally told us he was selling his house and moving in with her we wanted to say 'no shit, Sherlock! Never saw that coming!' Sad ending though. They lived together a few years, got engaged, and then 3 weeks before the wedding he came home to find her dead from a stroke. She was 49.
Damn. That took a sad turn
Shittttt. How cruel life is.
Loved the story, but life aint fair 😢. At least they got a few good years❤. Thats worth more then nothing.
Damn it!
😢 well shit. Don't waste any time, folks. That's a good moral to take away from this lovely, yet tragic story
I love your butterfly shirt. Its giving me some sweet 90s vibes!
Me, too! I would love to know where it’s from so that I can get one for myself! 🦋
I had a car towed from my PAID, RESERVED spot when I lived in my apartment...the satisfaction of seeing the tow truck driver pull up is real! I had left notes multiple times. The best part is when the heiffer came out and tried to get the tow truck driver to unhook her car! It was already hooked and ready to go! She never parked in my spot again!
Haha, heifer 😂😂
4:28 K, but why did she at no point offer to pay for herself? And if he knew he was that hard pressed, why go to such an expensive place? Google has a $-$$$$$ rating system readily available to people for most restaurants now...
I swear, Charlotte's adorable personality is always the best part. I have so much fun with her vídeos, they ALWAYS makes me feel better, especially when i'm sad or tired. Charlotte is our treasure. A very beautiful and funny treasure. 😂👑♥️
Love you!
Soooo truuuueeeee
I agree with you 💯
Exactly this!
0:35
Because there are many people in this world that have either never faced real consequences, or believe, for whatever reason, they can do what they want and if someone delivers consequences then they are the bad guy.
Like Rogan once said, there's a lot of people that have never been punched in the face.
I could listen to the girl who stitched the video of the idiot bragging about dated a married man talk all day she's very well spoken and her voice speaks to my soul
we didnt even see whole video how do we know she knew all she said was i dated a married man
If you listen closely before the stich cuts the story off, The OP of the married man says it is "something you say after getting out of a toxic relationship". Now I am not saying that is an excuse, but the stich makes it seem worse than it is.
Right?! Her voice is so soothing. She could be mad as all get out and I'd be okay with it as long as she's using that voice.
Her husband only has one lie. “she mentally ill”
@@Haileyhardinn 💀
"What do we say on this channel? FOAFO"😂😂😂😂
❤HER voice!!!!
3:33 this is why I always told my daughters to have enough cash for what they intended to eat. Don't Assume a damn thing ❤
And always have a escape plan!
My mom called it "mad money", as in, if he becomes intolerable, don't get mad, get OUT! Call a cab or friend, pay your part, and leave asap.
Omg, that poor woman that was married to the cheater. My heart goes out to you honey! I hope all is well with you and that you are safe and happy with your daughter. ❤️
Hold ON!!!!!! the audacity of NOT having a part two of the get ready with me while I tell you about my boy friend cheating!!! The girls side eye was too telling but we need more! 😂😂😂😂
Yeah, I want to see her being reminded she knows where the door flipping is. He’s all yours, good luck to you both, trash.
Right?!?
sorry, the whole story is fake. i looked it up and it was a joke
It's a joke, that's why there's no part 2
I swear I've seen those 3 before in a similar cheating story
Ladies, if you’re ever in that situation on a date, ask the sever to split the check, pay for your meal and leave. Both parties should look up restaurants beforehand to see if the menu is affordable
First of all, how could anyone cheat on that woman Serena, she is literally gorgeous? Second of all, if the person that you are with thinks that everyone around them is toxic, perhaps they're the problem. I'm glad she got away from that monster
What makes that video weird to me is the filter... you can see it glitches around the lips (like around 8:49). I mean, she might be speaking the truth, and using filter isn't a bad thing but that just gives me off vibe... Another comment said these two videos were actually unrelated, but I never checked if it was true or not...
They want cake and to eat the second one
Cheating is not about the looks. Narcissists cheat constantly because they need supply to inflate their egos. Some people like the excitement of doing something forbidden. It is almost never really about the cheated on partner.
I checked her TT. She is attractive but not gorgeous. She made this when the bold filter came out (February) so I don’t judge her.
@@A_Lien. I felt so weird watching that bit, uncanny valley vibes lol I could see her furrow her brows, but not a single wrinkle or anything anywhere
Tequila is the only beverage that always comes with a story. 😂
I got called Petty for being the reason one of my coworkers got written up for her rude behavior.
I just said, "Thank you! Courtesy of Charlotte Dobre."
Thank you for shaping my life with the pettiness ❤
6:20 That there is some smooth tequila... and it goes for $160-$250 in the liqour stores in the US.
congratulations on learning to drive!! as a former city girl myself, I didn’t learn until I was 21 and put myself in driving school. It only took a little less than a year for it to become second nature like riding a bike. You’ll be cruising in no time!
I didn't get my license until 19, hated driving so much I'd find any excuse. Even after having a license I'd bribe my sister with food to drive me places. She always got to pick the restaurant so no complaints from her.
I love that you’re getting your drivers license! I grew up in Alaska and my parents made me get my permit when I was 14 and the thought of a 14-year-old driving on the ice is TERRIFYING 😅
but when I was 27 my license expired and I had to take a drivers test again and I was SO proud of how well I did… even thought I’d been driving for 17 years lolol - have fun! Driving is awesome
My mom told me that if anyone accuses you of cheating, they are usually the ones who are cheating. I've been cheated on twice by men who would tell me they loved me, only to turn around and physically and emotionally abuse me.
Never again - you know the signs
Same here.
@@Sar-ahGnot always. Some are very sneaky.
Turning down shots after a night of drinking is absolutely self care 😅😂
The girl saying she dated a married man, she was starting the story and it really wasn’t a flex but a horror story of this man lying and playing with her. But yeah I wouldn’t put on the internet 😅
5:03 Idk how many times that has flew over my head. It was only until I let Charlotte speak that it stuck what happened.
Lesson learnt.
I kinda feel bad for the guy who couldn't afford the date.... Like yeah it was stupid to take her there but at least he offered to do what he needs to to make it right and make sure she wasn't dragged into it or ask her to pay
fair, but he went there. definitely bad choices originally made.
Same I felt sorta bad like it was actually sorta sweet how much work he was willing to put in and I definitely wouldn't be able to sit there pulling faces then posting that, not like he tried to run off or even make her pay he was a gentleman about it considering, but he definitely should hold off on dating till he can sort his own financials out 😅 and actually we don't even know what the whole order was for the night, maybe she ordered more than he could handle or expected and was being polite about how he said it
She should’ve offered to pay her half. I know that pina colada cost a lot so she should really be more respectful.
@@awessauce exactly how I'm feeling- should he be dating if he's having a rough go? Probably not (definitely not dating this woman especially)....but he handled himself in a very respectful way and how she treated him and the situation says way more to me about who she is than who he is. You can't buy character. I hope you figures his stuff out and find somebody who will appreciate him no matter what circumstances life may bring
Didn’t he say he can pay half the bill n that she can go wash dishes. Instead of I can pay half and wash dishes.
6:41 Your butterfly dress is exquisite. However, it added JUST the right touch with the video effect! 🦋🦋😍😍
3:40 At no point during that conversation did she feel like maybe she should pay for her own shit?
Can never click fast enough for Charlotte 😊❤
Got an appetite for some spicy salad 😋🥗❤
10:05 exactly, they always say she was crazy, then a few weeks down the road THEY make you go crazy
That last video wasn't a walk of shame, it was a stride of pride 🤣
Here to defend press on nails 😂 In my job we can't wear false nails or nail polish so the gel manicures are out, since we can only keep them on for weekends before having to get them removed. Not worth the money for 2 days
If you cannot afford to date don’t date. If you can only afford a picnic then let them know.
This is where sexism hurts guys. Why should they have to pay? If he makes more money than his date, yes, he should pay. If they have equal salaries, then it should be dutch or take turns. Or, if one asks the other out, the person doing the asking should do it with eyes open about cost so there aren't surprises like this. If there are surprises, both should pony up. Only jerks laugh at the person caught out.
@@LiseWrigleywhoever asks pays. Sucks that it is usually expected for a man to ask but wmen didn't create the patriarchy. If you aren't financially solvent then you should either not date or date someone who doesn't mind and not expect that every woman should have to lower her standards.🥴
@@LiseWrigley тнe one wнo aѕĸѕ тнe oтнer ѕнoυld pay...
6:28....i also no longer do shots....i've learned my lesson...F dat....LOL!
An ex of mine is a lawyer and partner in his law firm. His best, number one piece of advice, to people regarding legal issues, is this:
Don’t say a f*cking word!
Colleen needs that advice
@@chaosspy6723😂
Yes, let's just sue someone AFTER you threatened their life with written proof of that.
Best day to be an attorney
Thank you for your videos Charlotte! Your videos cheer me up everyday. My friend died yesterday & idk why just hearing "HEY EVERYBODY!" made me feel better. Thank you! You're a sunshine. ❤
I'm so sorry for that. I lost a friend a few years back and it was awful. Take care.
@@lotstodo she was supposed to be attending my wedding later this year but then it happened.
4:15 dude don't act surprised help him if you're going to order expensive stuff at least pay some of it you left your wallet at home on purpose or something
All Rise! The court of the honourable judge Charlotte Dobre residing. Please hold onto your Potatoes tightly, this will be a fun ride.
In regards to writing on the paperbag: About 8 years ago I was in a rally bad car wreck. Broken bones, half a year of physical therapy and ptsd while being on the road, as a driver or as passenger. I got a nice lawsuit payout from it and never shared about it. A family member assumed I did and on my birthday sent me a lovely note front and back on a letter envelope basically calling me a worthless pos for not giving them money they were entitled too. Threw my dead dad under the bus that had died 3 months prior and told me I wasn't worth a 💩 and said I would burn in hell. 😅
Why would they be entitled to the money tho?
The fact that I'm actually having a salad rn is just perfect ❤️
Girl falling asleep b4 goin out is relatable! Usually I get ready quick than am waiting on friend who takes 4ever. Next thing I know it's morning & bunch of miss calls from her. I can't party no more. I need a week notice to pull an all nighter now. Lol
Without more information, we should not be judging the man who couldn't pay that harshly. Also, he didn't storm out or off, he didn't flip an attitutide...he realized his mistake and offered his labor to make up for his blunder. I don't know how you don't feel a little sad and also a little proud of his response to a terrible MISTAKE. Y'all there is petty and then there is straight up mean. We can do better.
He indeed made a blunder, but his response and offering of an honest solution that didn’t put the burden on his date was honorable. This may be the sign of a very decent man.
I take it as a positive thing that when I put your videos on while feeding my 9mo old, he smiles and giggles. Especially when your voice goes deep from filters.
Hi potato fam!! I am feeling pretty good after my surgery for the most part. Thank you for all the support!
I love you Charlotte thanks for all the good times!!
Glad your doing ok do you mind if I ask what your surgery was?
So glad you’re doing ok!
@@Moony13-p8whysterectomy. I had possible cancer and a confirmed tumor
I’m so glad!!! I’m praying for super fast healing and recovery. Stay strong bestie
I hope you heal quickly Jess. Take care of yourself.
I once had a co-worker who bragged about going out with married man. In her experience married men always made better gifts than single men and that was apparently one of the reasons why she did it 😖
She did indeed came with designer bags and stuff to the office but I‘m not sure if they were THE gifts
Married men have a good experience because they ARE MARRIED!!! He is already committed to one lady and how come someone just date a Married man for better gifts!!??
I refuse to be friends with anyone who cheats. Life is too short.
I hung up the alcohol in 2012 😅... Too close to losing control. Had to get a grip! It's so easy to start drinking too much as a small town bartender. Those early to mid 20s were great but I'm just happy I survived them 😂
Good job!! You should be super proud of yourself, it couldn't have been easy in that profession. Hope it continues to go well for you :3
@@kuehnerthanyou3409 thank you 💞
Yup, we look back at the past and see the stuff we missed noticing then
I would NEVER tell them that I’m towing their car. I would just call the tow and pretend I didn’t know about it.
4:45 the girl on the date..He was asking the waiter to cut down the bill or w/e. And that poor server had to go talk to the manager. At that point I would’ve put him out of his misery, offered to pay the rest and made sure that poor waiter got TIP. Nothing is wrong with splitting the bill especially on a first date but that should be established at the beginning! Ahh 2023.😂
As a victim of Don Julio, I can confirm this is an accurate description of how your night go if you partake in this drink of death 💀💀⚰⚰
I have to say this, that hair and make up looks great on you Charlotte! You look good girl!
virgo vibes judging the paper bag. I LOVE YOU CHARLOTTE NEVER CHANGE
Lol i remember when i was dating and out of courtesy i would ask my date what i could order so i didn't push him over his finances. I don't understand these people who order $100 worth of food/drink when the date keeps hinting that they need to pick things less expensive.
Going on dates for the free meals is a trend now, and too many of them feel entitled.
No, there have always been women (and men) that expect you to pay for their meal on a first date. Depends on who asks who. My now boyfriend asked me to go to a really expensive steak house and I asked him, Just to be clear, are you paying for all of it, or will I paying my share? I knew he could afford it if I got the most expensive thing on the menu, but I just wanted to CMA.
He still picks up the tab most of the time, as I make a lot less, but I don't expect it every time. I generally pick something that I can afford unless he insists on 'just get what you want." He's not the romantic type, this is as close as he gets.
Tequila doesn't always lead to bad things. It's how my mom got me! Lol😂
It’s your life and nobody else’s business, but I do want to hear Charlotte’s adventures in learning to drive and why now. Thanks for all the videos. You really make insomnia easier to deal with.
I dont even click on a text from my mom as fast as i click on Charlotte's new videos 🥰🥰
I’m loving the headphones around the neck look.
I love you so much Charlotte!!!! I’ve been subbed to you for over a year now and I am SO glad I found you 😭❤️❤️❤️
You're the best!
I'm so glad I found you as well
I learned a long time ago, whether it be with friends or a date I always need to have the ability to pay for my own meal. I went out with a friend once, and his card was declined. He was treating me to dinner. Fortunately, I was able to pay for both of us. So now I make sure I can at least pay for myself.
People should appreciate careful/ sober friends more. While it can be fun, being inebriated has more downsides in the long run. Going out drinking without being safe and prepared is playing with unnecessary risks and danger. I'm a lightweight and enjoy some nights with relaxed drinking and such- but I am also very careful when it comes to make sure there are sober people to drive everyone home. I've known too many people that don't have a good time after a period of partying. I've heard too many deaths due to reckless driving and substance abuse. I get it, feeling different with substances can be fun and great- when done responsibly. No one wants to take care of a drunk friend who reverts into a toddler just because they kept drinking.
Sidenote: Mango Tequlia from Mexico is amazing. Stay safe peeps!
The second girl's facial expressions are killng me. That is the look of, "oop, me?, oh really, he got me fucked up!" 😂😂
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If you don't have money for a restaurant, you take your girl out for a picnic: make NICE sandwiches, some fruit, drinks, maybe a Chocolate cake or desert (can be from a shop). Give her hand-picked flowers, make sure to find a place with benches, seats or bring pillows to sit on.
I so needed this today!!!! Thank you, Charlotte!!! Love you.
Took his soul and his clothes is ah-mazing lol I love it.. City Girls Up!
I feel this video was both funny (as all of them are) and a good reinforcement on choices and perspectives. First one makes me happy I don't have a vehicle. Fourth the person made a good recommendation to avoid that drink in case I cross paths with it. Next one that there is benefits to social media to catch awful people, while also allowing people mistreated by their partners to have a platform to tell their story of what happened. Another reminded that is probably good I don't club lol, I prefer sleep as well. For most of these it makes me glad that I make no effort (lack of interest too) in the dating realm so I don't have to deal with any BS. I learned a lot while drinking my morning tea. Thanks Charlotte, you're the best!
The vicarious satisfaction is complete
AHHHH! Need the whole story to the 2nd to last story!!!
I'm torn on the date video. I like to go out with friends and on dates but I have always been tight with money so I developed ways to do both. I feel like you can look up restaurant prices beforehand, even if its a first date and you don't know what the date is going to order, you can get an idea of what the prices are so it isn't a surprise when you get there. On the other hand, it was really sweet he offered to do the work himself instead of splitting or putting on his date, who was being an asshole btw. I wouldn't record someone feeling bad and having to ask something potentially embarrassing, if I see that he's genuinely trying to find a solution I would offer to pay my part and then see how things go. Idk I feel like you can decide to not keep seeing the guy but don't add salt to the wound with the recording and making faces.
I thought she was eavesdropping. Either way, it was painful.
It was so exaggerated that it just seems fake. Who makes those kinds of faces in that situation and says nothing?
Yeah, I think that ultimately they both made some rough choices. He should've done a little more research up front and picked a more budget-friendly place, and she should've offered to pay her half, or at least not filmed herself judging the dude for trying to make things right.
@@spoonfulofsalt i mean even a budget friendly place can be become outrageous if your date orders expensive drinks, finds the priciest item on the menu, and then wants dessert on top of that. I’ve known a couple women who would do that because “if he really wants to keep me, he has to show it.” I never once expected a man to pay for my dinner on a date. I always wanted to pay at least for what I ordered. IF she’s even his date, sitting there and not even offering to pay for at least her half as she sips on her fancy drink, laughs, and records him from her phone is gross.
I get a feeling it's fake, but even if not, like, don't take someone on a date to a place you can't afford? I don't like these TikToks that shame people, but also....this was avoidable.
Okay, for the one about the married man; I think that was the start of her possibly telling her side. If what the ex wife said is true, then it's all on the ex-husband. Again, I don't think the woman was bragging at the beginning of that stitch, but her about to give a tale of warning.
Just said this same thing , she wasn't bragging she was telling her side. I saw her video first then saw the ex-wife's stitch later. The way she stitched it makes it look bad but not going to accused or blame her for anything she has all the right to be salty to the woman her ex cheated on her with for 3 years. But yes she was not bragging at all she was in shock of it all
7:48 face filter on 100 OMG
it's literally a reserved parking space right next to a visitor space.
she's then left a threatening note.
if she continues i'd get a restraining order and file complaint for harassment and threatening behavior
5:25 Fun fact. You can use regular pink nail glue to attach press on nails (even with the glue strip that comes on them) and they'll stay on waaay better and look almost as good as a salon. 😁
Lmaooo the girl that fell asleep right after getting ready to go to the club ahahah felt that pain 😭 like now I’m the ride back home for this hœs ahaha
I agree. Don't take nobody out if you can't afford it, but at the same time, I think it shows his character. the fact that he's trying to work for the meal instead of just getting it for free. I'm pretty sure he was embarrassed that I should feel bad for him❤❤❤ but that's just my opinion. You should probably order something extremely expensive. Most expensive restaurants don't even have two prices on the menu. I feel bad for him. Love you, Charlotte❤❤❤❤❤!!!
Most underrated red flag imo is the “my ex was crazy” line bc exactly what you said Charlotte next question is “what did you do to make her crazy?!”
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@@CharlotteDobre hey Charlotte my favorite salad is ceasar salad. I also love watching your videos and would love it if you came up a few hours north of Toronto to the wannabe Toronto city named sudbury. We are similar in size to Toronto however we are much more spaced out. I'd love to recommend some nice places to see if you'd ever swing by sudbury 🥰🙂
Literally word for word everything my fiance had said about his ex's I slowly realized it was him. Not them. 😅run!!! 😂😂
9:44 seeing Charlotte on the other side made me uncomfortable 😆
The drunk behavior story reminded me of something I was involved with way back in the late 1970's. My friend and I had been to the local tavern and we had heard of a party nearby. Now I am a very moderate drinking but my friend is the sort of person who starts his day off with a half gallon flagon of cheap white wine to kick start his day, and was no stranger to drugs.
So he was already drunk before we got to the party, and things progressed from there. I passed my time catching up with an old college friend. Eventually I managed to pull my friend away to go home. He came away with a bottle of tequila and then proceeded to start mixing drinks as I drove. My car stank of tequila for weeks.
But wait, there's more. He then asked me to stop at a late night take out shop for what we would call, "greasies". I Immediately told him that I had no money. He still insisted and off we went. we got to the shop and he proceeded to place an order for a huge pile of take out, and I kept saying quite loudly that I had no money. Come the time when the shop owner wanted some payment my friend turned to me expecting me to pay, and I said very forcefully, "I TOLD YOU, I HAVE NO MONEY!" The message finally got through to him. No food.
So I drove him home and left him there. But wait, there's more. I go back the next day and he is lamenting that while he was passed out during the night one of his cronies had crawled through his window and, being the generous type, while my friend was oblivious, gave him a hit of heroin. Was my friend concerned that in his drunken state he could have overdosed? NO. He was pissed off that he felt nothing and to him it was a wasted dose. And so passed another weekend.
This is the gospel truth, definitely not unusual for my friend.
Yes, keep the note for court but also send the videos & note to the Property Manager of the apartment complex.
The fourth clip of the married man: I wish more people were able to identify that the man is 100% a narcissist. Narcissists are highly manipulative and will not take accountability; they are mentally ill and ruin lives.