For Twenty Year Olds Who Have Never Been Loved

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  • Опубликовано: 21 сен 2024
  • It's finally here! "For Twenty-Year-Olds Who Have Never Been Loved" is originally written by Meggie Royer from "Writings for Winter" I shortened it a bit to make it work with our budget and abilities. You can read the full essay here: bit.ly/2AevLwT
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Комментарии • 20 тыс.

  • @Fancynancytv
    @Fancynancytv  6 лет назад +4744

    We're planning on doing a Q&A so if you have any questions about how we filmed it or questions for the cast etc. Leave them below!

    • @mohitkerketta5176
      @mohitkerketta5176 6 лет назад +5

      Fancy Nancy TV were all of your friends youtubers or your friends .

    • @AshleyKaulitz007
      @AshleyKaulitz007 6 лет назад +11

      To everyone: How awkward did you feel? Which scene had the most takes? How would you rate your own acting skills? Are you going to be doing more short films?

    • @leamogree
      @leamogree 6 лет назад +6

      How long did it take you to film? (it's so beautiful and well done 💕)

    • @filicia2582
      @filicia2582 6 лет назад +2

      To whay extend do you relate yourself to this story? Really nice one btw! 💖

    • @skycedi
      @skycedi 6 лет назад +3

      1) What equipment/gear did you use for filming? Camera, lenses, gimble, etc. 🤔 and 2) what was your general process for planning how to record the short film?

  • @DadsGirl2000
    @DadsGirl2000 5 лет назад +16204

    “Falling in love with dozens of people a day was a coping mechanism for not having anyone to love you in return.” I felt that hard.

    • @rahulpanjwani5765
      @rahulpanjwani5765 5 лет назад +185

      I have been through this! 😥

    • @davidbolha
      @davidbolha 5 лет назад +210

      The desperation is nigh. 😎

    • @partyintheclouz
      @partyintheclouz 5 лет назад +13

      same

    • @Hermit_Wish
      @Hermit_Wish 5 лет назад +184

      I've had this so much that; Now I have reached a point, that I don't know what love feels like anymore.
      I have forgotten how to love myself, lost my motivation of life, wanting to be alone for eternity.
      I thought to myself "Man, if I can't stay motivated I can just forget about life as a whole; Who would love me for who I am?"
      But then I realized and thought to myself that I lost motivation because people called me smart, that they said that I help people because I am smart; I wouldn't succeed.
      What gives you motivation is something you worked hard for; which gives you happiness, which would attract every normal human being.
      Basically, motivation beats everything and if you fail, great!
      You have just tried a way that didn't work out for you and you've gotta work slightly harder to keep on fighting.
      Fight against the coping mechanism.

    • @DadsGirl2000
      @DadsGirl2000 5 лет назад +18

      Personal Dedicated Humor Not Found you are a wonderful person! Thanks for this :)

  • @antoniodurante2123
    @antoniodurante2123 5 лет назад +4884

    Am I the only one who went to the comments to prove it to myself that I'm not the only one

  • @_Themis_0896
    @_Themis_0896 3 года назад +4960

    The "falling in love with strangers" part hit me like a truck. I feel so starved of love, appreciation & care that the smallest gesture of kindness from a stranger is enough for me to think of them for days.

    • @imeatingaburgerful
      @imeatingaburgerful 3 года назад +185

      No bc I’m literally still thinking about a stranger that went to my job over a year ago, he was so sweet and handsome and I literally can’t let the thought of him go, maybe if I had someone I wouldn’t be so strung up on this stranger.

    • @_Themis_0896
      @_Themis_0896 3 года назад +20

      @@imeatingaburgerful 😭 i feel you.

    • @andrewfreiji4647
      @andrewfreiji4647 3 года назад +114

      And you are precisely the very kind of person that would appreciate and enjoy that love more than those that have always had it but the fact that you dont have it is tragedy. I pray it finds you.

    • @_Themis_0896
      @_Themis_0896 3 года назад +7

      @@andrewfreiji4647 Thankyou for your kind words. I wish the best for you too🌼

    • @_Themis_0896
      @_Themis_0896 3 года назад +6

      @@sai6016 I'm not on snapchat (do i belong in the Stone age? Probably yes🙃) but i appreciate your kindness. I too wish you find whatever you are seeking😊

  • @eatthatass9727
    @eatthatass9727 3 года назад +2632

    I hate how some people in this com section say: "You don't need to be in relationship to be happy", bullshit. Some people (including me) need exactly that. To be loved. Its a missing part in our lifes. Finding love will make me happiest man in the world, I don't ask for anything else, im already happy with my life but being alone hurts.

    • @greenbanana1001
      @greenbanana1001 3 года назад +360

      Exactly! People don’t understand they say “you don’t need a relationship to be happy” well no you don’t .. but what if you recognise that this is the part of you’re life that’s missing and you long for that human contact and to feel loved and to feel special

    • @ChurlzVA
      @ChurlzVA 3 года назад +135

      Exactly. I wasn't really loved at all growing up, and now I yearn for it more than anything. More than money, sex, fame, etc.
      Also, I love how people say "everyone's different in their own unique way," but everything's the same when it comes to love. Miss me with that bs. SOMEONE LOVE ME ALREADY.

    • @wednesdayaddams7033
      @wednesdayaddams7033 3 года назад +67

      True. All i need right now is just someone who can love me the way i love them. You know , i have been giving and keep giving my loves for others , but nobody ever give it back to me , even a tiny bit. Am i really that ugly ? Am i really unworthy of love ?

    • @sierracook3343
      @sierracook3343 3 года назад +40

      I feel that way too. I have my family and some discord friends, but that's not really enough for me. I tell myself I'm fine, but sometimes I do yearn for that intimacy with a guy who's also looking for that intimacy like me. And right now, we need that more than evee, because I've already encountered guys who rather text forever versus meeting face to face. We need that loving connection. And I hate to admit this, but even I need it now.

    • @sierracook3343
      @sierracook3343 3 года назад +10

      @Carter Swinton Unfortunately you're correct. For then to understand they need to know what it's like to not ever have that deep love in their lives before.

  • @CaioOLino
    @CaioOLino 3 года назад +6953

    The saddest part about this video is that RUclips didn't recommend me,I searched for it

  • @clarevelezz
    @clarevelezz 6 лет назад +1951

    "For you, falling in love with dozens of people a day was a copping mechanism, for not having anyone to love you in return."
    So true!! :'''(

    • @anamira2908
      @anamira2908 6 лет назад +26

      I'm over it. What's meant to be is meant to be... you can't force anything :') it just happens...

    • @solodaph
      @solodaph 6 лет назад +2

      This is so true

    • @unicornisland3457
      @unicornisland3457 6 лет назад +1

      clarebieber28 yes I agree

    • @SooBeautyFull
      @SooBeautyFull 6 лет назад +63

      I honestly thought I was the only one that did that and that there was something wrong with me! I'll fall in love with a random boy in class that literally just smiled at me once; I'll fall in love with the guy at the grocery store that looked at me for more than 1.2 seconds, etc. Hahaha how sad, I know

    • @unicornisland3457
      @unicornisland3457 6 лет назад +17

      Honey Bunny no. Because I use to do that too! I thought something was wrong with me too. But I got over it. So it’s just that I can’t talk to guys.. I get to nervous in front of guys. I don’t know what else to say, they say hi, how are you. I say good how are you. And that’s about it! 😔 how that is sad!! Because I don’t know how to change the topic...

  • @menash8313
    @menash8313 5 лет назад +3538

    i am genuinely finding it difficult to imagine another person loving me wtf how do people do this

    • @emin3808
      @emin3808 5 лет назад +297

      I feel like i cant be the loved one

    • @miragespl
      @miragespl 5 лет назад +426

      I can't see anyone loving me romantically either

    • @VenganceWarrior
      @VenganceWarrior 4 года назад +266

      I had that thought too.
      It's just a completely strange concept. It gives you some sort of hope when in reality the hope just hurts more.

    • @jenniferdsouza2105
      @jenniferdsouza2105 4 года назад +4

      Exactly menash

    • @jenniferdsouza2105
      @jenniferdsouza2105 4 года назад +10

      @@VenganceWarrior exactly

  • @gigidrawer
    @gigidrawer 2 года назад +626

    All of these hit me. I’m 23 and I have never been loved. The part where “Am I really that ugly, that unwanted, that unintestering, that boring” hit me so much especially after the experiences of falling in love with people but not loving you back. I really wished there is someone who made me feel valued, loved, and heard.

    • @sabinaleichtova5134
      @sabinaleichtova5134 2 года назад +8

      same 😭 it hurts to see all of my friends dating guys since I've never dated anyone, guys call me pretty and stuff, but that's all

    • @s0beIT_SS
      @s0beIT_SS 2 года назад +16

      Don't worry my guy. It doesn't get better, get used to it. Find a hobby, something to do. You will remember you're all alone just once a year, maybe twice, it is what it is.

    • @cameronbondwe_the_cuz
      @cameronbondwe_the_cuz Год назад +12

      @@sabinaleichtova5134 same, it hurts seeing my friends with their girlfriends, and I can't even get a girlfriend

    • @sabinaleichtova5134
      @sabinaleichtova5134 Год назад +2

      @@cameronbondwe_the_cuz uhhhhh ikrr :((
      welll I'm bi and i like my female friend, she's also bi. I'll update u xd

    • @devashrijoshi9079
      @devashrijoshi9079 Год назад +1

      I actually curse myself at 20 since I did dated a guy who lost interest in me so quick I regretted even stepping into this dating zone

  • @shafeeqahj6955
    @shafeeqahj6955 6 лет назад +12238

    Watched this 8 months ago : single
    Watching it again : still single
    Watching 5yrs later : in a relationship!

    • @spaceoutmisfit1738
      @spaceoutmisfit1738 6 лет назад +58

      Kkoochkie BTS me lmao cuz my mom remind me of it ughh I hate when ppl remind me of it

    • @amanbawa1556
      @amanbawa1556 6 лет назад +13

      yes still

    • @Yamuel9999
      @Yamuel9999 6 лет назад +32

      This Plot twist suprised me

    • @shafeeqahj6955
      @shafeeqahj6955 6 лет назад +21

      Ghost_Gamer 😂 It's confirmed I have a sad life😂

    • @Yamuel9999
      @Yamuel9999 6 лет назад

      @@shafeeqahj6955 nah I wouldn't say so. But who is responsible for you current Situation?

  • @antoniovalencia2984
    @antoniovalencia2984 4 года назад +3919

    The more I get older, school was never really about education, it was about becoming socially sophisticated. I focused too much on the first and now I’m lost mentally

    • @brendielahooha
      @brendielahooha 3 года назад +210

      Wow this one hit hard

    • @brendielahooha
      @brendielahooha 3 года назад +40

      But still you are not alone

    • @antoniovalencia2984
      @antoniovalencia2984 3 года назад +172

      @@brendielahooha I feel like I can’t hold a regular conversation that’s after hey, if you know any thing that helps that sort of thing then I’m listening

    • @kunjavyas7425
      @kunjavyas7425 3 года назад +60

      Well well. If only I had someone tell me this before

    • @sydhergy
      @sydhergy 3 года назад +32

      damn that really got me thinking, same here

  • @urfatherkookoo9381
    @urfatherkookoo9381 6 лет назад +752

    falling temporarily in love with anybody who slightly touches me or glances at me is too relatable :/

    • @alwaysbefifi
      @alwaysbefifi 6 лет назад +7

      tRUTH

    • @Mimmuro
      @Mimmuro 6 лет назад +5

      TRUE 😭😭 That's literally me...

    • @brashlybold8805
      @brashlybold8805 6 лет назад +30

      Tfw you can't tell if your bi or just really desperate for anyone to show interest. 🤔

    • @PrincezzHeartsManga
      @PrincezzHeartsManga 6 лет назад +2

      @koma SAME idk if i'm keeping my options more open or what

    • @neongirll_
      @neongirll_ 6 лет назад +1

      It's me

  • @xalciaqx9026
    @xalciaqx9026 2 года назад +359

    I don't even want love anymore, I just want a genuine friendship.

    • @themusicera7028
      @themusicera7028 2 года назад +7

      I am ur genuine friend lol

    • @Rinkyu
      @Rinkyu 2 года назад +5

      Same :(

    • @EkTwRLoveGarlic
      @EkTwRLoveGarlic 2 года назад +6

      Oh, I just want to get rid of my virginity already, I don't care about relationships or friendships.

    • @sreelakshmiramadas2392
      @sreelakshmiramadas2392 2 года назад +15

      exactly I just want one friend who makes me a priority...like someone who talks with many ,walks with many but will just think of me when asked about priority

    • @NomadicWanderer11
      @NomadicWanderer11 Год назад

      I Can be your friend! Respond and I’ll give you my email…

  • @Gunnedpunk
    @Gunnedpunk 4 года назад +4861

    This has got to be the most depressing comment section in the history of comment sections

    • @Manic_Panic
      @Manic_Panic 4 года назад +171

      Eh people need to chill. We think our happiness will increase artificially if we are "loved" by someone but it really doesn't. With it also comes more responsibility, more drama, more insecurities, more financial instability, etc. Rather than focusing on getting a significant other, just have a couple of good friends and you're set. Focus the rest of your attention on your career and health. If the right person comes, cool, but if it doesn't, it's cool as well.

    • @jcers
      @jcers 4 года назад +1

      Literally go into any Monday FA Monday comment section and it’s like this every time

    • @ChurlzVA
      @ChurlzVA 4 года назад +23

      @@Manic_Panic nah.
      Some people like myself need more.

    • @JulianJamesProd.
      @JulianJamesProd. 4 года назад +32

      @@Manic_Panic ive got some of the best friends you could ask for, i also am focusing the rest of my time to fitness, boxing and school but i still feel incomplete and i still get jealous of friends i have who are in a relationship

    • @jcers
      @jcers 4 года назад

      Ruseau he’s a RUclipsr who talks about the forever alone/incel thing

  • @mimo__.-
    @mimo__.- 4 года назад +1129

    "...was a coping mechanism for not being loved in return" So THATS why I crush so hard on so many strangers in a single week

  • @imkorona6592
    @imkorona6592 3 года назад +3766

    I'm 21, and it's kind of depressing how there's billions of people in the world and not one single soul really loves me enough to be in a relationship. Sometimes i get so fucking sad to think about how i can't have something special with someone, and that the love i'm willing to give is slowly fading cause there's no one around to take it

    • @youtyrr23
      @youtyrr23 3 года назад +207

      Same here, it’s so sad 😞. I’m trying very hard no to think of relationship so that I won’t feel depressed. But when I do that I know I’m gonna be doing it forever
      Sad af life , they say get a job and love will eventually come. It’s complete BS , at job when you are stressed out, wouldn’t it be nice if you have someone to talk to and share your day. I’m out

    • @GreedAndSelfishness
      @GreedAndSelfishness 3 года назад +61

      Yeah. Your gift is slowly dying and you along with it.

    • @ceooflonelinessinc.267
      @ceooflonelinessinc.267 3 года назад +5

      San Angelo Central High School

    • @christiansollner440
      @christiansollner440 3 года назад +2

      I'm with you🥲

    • @brayangamboa6366
      @brayangamboa6366 3 года назад +54

      @@ceooflonelinessinc.267 bro feel ya, what you have to do is believe, create your on fate, don't carry your past everywhere you go, let it go, if you were bad at girls, that is past, focus on now, do nice things for others and be happy bro!!!

  • @lilly34567
    @lilly34567 Год назад +182

    Everyone seems so lucky in finding someone for themselves , it looks so easy for them

    • @Anonymous-cs5ui
      @Anonymous-cs5ui 10 месяцев назад +8

      Exactly it feels like relationships are on difficult mode only for me

    • @ajrhy6243
      @ajrhy6243 10 месяцев назад +2

      @@Anonymous-cs5uihm.. may I ask, in any situation with dating, did you ever feel it was your mindset stopping you?

    • @Anonymous-cs5ui
      @Anonymous-cs5ui 10 месяцев назад +3

      @@ajrhy6243 yes many times. I feel like the problem is with me😅

    • @ajrhy6243
      @ajrhy6243 10 месяцев назад

      @@Anonymous-cs5ui hm.. my advice is, this helped me break a 4 year dating / physical intimacy spell; I got in bed with a girl recently finally! My thing was I just focused on having fun and being humorous but be genuine, be you yeah? No intense talks about emotions until we build a good rapport, and remembering details about that person! People love when you ask them about them. Let it flow, don’t think if it as you selling yourself, get in a dance with them so to speak, slowly start stepping, then go in for the complicated moves, and take your time my friend!! Be your own best friend and advocate.

    • @Amber-yu2ph
      @Amber-yu2ph 9 месяцев назад +1

      plss don't compare your life to them,we all have struggles,we never know even in relationships,they have many fights and frustrations

  • @gamerdude746
    @gamerdude746 4 года назад +18032

    The RUclips algorithm is becoming too advanced.

  • @kivvvvvv
    @kivvvvvv 6 лет назад +1843

    *Falling in love with a dozen of people a day was a coping mechanism* this hit me hard 😭😭

    • @LukasM-r9e
      @LukasM-r9e 6 лет назад +56

      The sad thing is: it isn’t actually real love :’(

    • @TheSnogbox1
      @TheSnogbox1 6 лет назад +8

      Well, that would explain about myself

    • @elizabethl9065
      @elizabethl9065 6 лет назад +3

      Same ):

    • @TheSnogbox1
      @TheSnogbox1 6 лет назад +7

      @Lucy Coco I feel this on too many levels

    • @floresliz2596
      @floresliz2596 6 лет назад +40

      I’m sick and tired of having crushes...

  • @swiftplus7398
    @swiftplus7398 6 лет назад +8146

    This comment section makes me feel at home lol...

  • @robin9321
    @robin9321 3 года назад +295

    I was 18 years old when I first watched this video. I really hoped I could make things change before I turned 20. I turned 20 recently and things are still the same... I pretty much missed out on everything you can miss out on in your teens.

    • @availablekiwi7042
      @availablekiwi7042 3 года назад +11

      Same :(

    • @pouyan_m
      @pouyan_m 3 года назад +6

      You're not alone same here

    • @annieleonhart1710
      @annieleonhart1710 3 года назад +16

      i watched this when i was 18 too and im turning 22 and i feel the same myself

    • @maryyyxiao8581
      @maryyyxiao8581 2 года назад

      I feel you

    • @tonyelhambresstark6948
      @tonyelhambresstark6948 Год назад +3

      Igual yo, no puedo creer que nunca tuve un romance en la adolcecencia como todos, que tuvieron pareja antes de los 18.

  • @LoneWolf-sl6uv
    @LoneWolf-sl6uv 5 лет назад +2589

    Roses are red
    I have a phone
    Nobody texts me
    Forever alone

    • @sanjaykrishnannair8153
      @sanjaykrishnannair8153 5 лет назад +23

      Hey mate, dont worry. You can send me a friend request on facebook and we
      can have weekly chats. WHAT DO YOU SAY?

    • @greetingstraveler7962
      @greetingstraveler7962 5 лет назад +47

      At least you can play the new Diablo immortal.

    • @vandiemen8266
      @vandiemen8266 5 лет назад +17

      Congrats on the phone though

    • @puritanicaleuphoricmisanth4676
      @puritanicaleuphoricmisanth4676 5 лет назад +2

      I know right? i´m so upset that they´d think i have a phone.... now i can´t even play diablo :( @@greetingstraveler7962

    • @b.luong2
      @b.luong2 5 лет назад +15

      It’s ok I’ll talk to you. All I need is your credit card number, the expiration date, and the those three lonely numbers on the back. Don’t worry I’ll be there for you friend.

  • @kaangelstar10
    @kaangelstar10 5 лет назад +2769

    I´m a 23 year old hopeless romantic who has never had a boyfriend, nor a first kiss/ date ... and I felt like this video spoke to me, I loved it and couldn't help but cry

    • @utsavimishra106
      @utsavimishra106 5 лет назад +98

      I'm 19 and the rest your comment said everything about me ...lol ..but it's sad

    • @isawblackpinkinberlin9426
      @isawblackpinkinberlin9426 5 лет назад +58

      Your comment is literally about me but the only difference that I am 22 and I had a date but we have not kissed or something....Only we drank an orange juice lol

    • @tankthepitbull520
      @tankthepitbull520 5 лет назад +39

      I’m a 24 year old guy with the same problem.

    • @MegaUnwetter
      @MegaUnwetter 5 лет назад +50

      I’m a 30 year old guy with same problem

    • @NabilahSafira
      @NabilahSafira 5 лет назад +61

      Hey.. I'm a fellow 23 year old girl too, this September. You're not alone!
      This video itself feels like a warm hug that soothes the pain.
      I think I spoilt myself a little too much with disney movies and rom-coms from my childhood until now..

  • @rraawwaarr
    @rraawwaarr 6 лет назад +846

    "Falling in love with dozens of people a day was a coping mechanism for not having anyone to love you in return"
    Has got to be my favorite line. Love this.

    • @Imyourcherryybomb
      @Imyourcherryybomb 6 лет назад +1

      Sue T. Ikr i related to that line so much ㅠㅠ

  • @senademir8840
    @senademir8840 3 года назад +276

    I am 23 and she is saying 'someone out there...' girl, I don't believe in this 'someone out there ' thing anymore. Cuz it is hard to accept for me but loved by someone u love is seriously like a miracle. So low chance. I used to say 'online chatting is a relationship too' but no... It is just a childhood game. I am 23 and I didn't even hold anyone's hands except my friends. And it is breaking my heart, I started to feel like sick when I see a couple or watch romantic movies /drama. So I decided to just accept that. Some people don't taste love, real love and other stuff and die. Yeah that's real.

    • @WeebSlayer71
      @WeebSlayer71 3 года назад +14

      It's just a basic theory of chance, that even if you don't meet 'that' person, it existed at least one out of all the million of people in the world.
      Obviously it doesn't come down to anything useful in real life, because it's not like all people can afford or have the conviction to go around all the countries to find a single person.
      The theory isn't very logical neither, because if said 'special person' existed, then why out of the billions of people that exist it has to be that 'one' person? Why can't there be more than one person?
      It has to do with the origins of polygamy and what logically makes a person unique or special.

    • @senademir8840
      @senademir8840 3 года назад +1

      @@WeebSlayer71 :)

    • @divyarawat5991
      @divyarawat5991 3 года назад +24

      I am 23 and never been approached by any guy.
      Yeah it does feel a bit odd
      I remember it all starts at the tender age of around 13 in school..those weird feeling and stares..but I never got that.
      Then in college..no guy even approached as friends.
      I do have my lady friends here but now as I am in final year college it really does feel a bit odd I'll say. I might shift continents for a masters degree but now I hav totally given up and my mind says that if anything didn't happen last 10 yrs I don't expect anything in next 10 yrs too.
      I am notbbeing negative ..just realistic.
      I am not introvert or dint talk to guys..its just that I don't know whats there that the talks just don't last.
      I will rather focus on self development..my goals to become a sports physician of a top league team..earn good money...get a good fit athletic body and just stay by myself and travel the world.
      I do wish I could have a baby though...
      But u don't get everything in life right? Thats it.

    • @WeebSlayer71
      @WeebSlayer71 3 года назад +5

      @@divyarawat5991 The unending search for the true self... the hardest fight indeed.

    • @emmanueljuma5420
      @emmanueljuma5420 3 года назад +3

      Very sad really and unfair life

  • @filipmilosavljevic8316
    @filipmilosavljevic8316 6 лет назад +513

    Forever alone level : so high that even RUclips sees that and puts it into your recommendations page

    • @elebs86
      @elebs86 6 лет назад

      Filip Milosavljević hahahhahahahahah crying because i relate to this 100000%😢😢😢😂😂😂

    • @shigo6350
      @shigo6350 6 лет назад

      😂😂

  • @aaronsalamante
    @aaronsalamante 3 года назад +1909

    “Are you really that ugly? That unwanted? That uninteresting? That boring?”
    These are the questions on my mind right now 😞

    • @tanyaroy2996
      @tanyaroy2996 3 года назад +5

      Same

    • @russelrommel8293
      @russelrommel8293 3 года назад +44

      By looking at your profile pic u seemed like an attractive one, you'll find someone someday.. If its not you then ok my bad

    • @anedmfanguy1629
      @anedmfanguy1629 3 года назад +8

      Actually I am

    • @congductruong6546
      @congductruong6546 3 года назад +53

      If someone is as good looking as you still have those question pop up in your head, then i'm doomed

    • @ssssss.s
      @ssssss.s 3 года назад +9

      @Aaron Salamante you really are not. It’s the voice in our heads that tries to makes us feel miserable and hopeless. Everyone goes through that in their lives. Try not to take serious that thoughts. You really are precious.

  • @chimiw3311
    @chimiw3311 6 лет назад +1470

    Sometimes I be like 'I don't need anyone I'm good' but then night comes and I feel alone, in need of someone to hug me idk it's weird

    • @jessiquedunord9617
      @jessiquedunord9617 6 лет назад +31

      Saaaaame!!!

    • @nochucomethru467
      @nochucomethru467 6 лет назад +74

      It's just human being human, that's normal. We all crave love, we need love to survive

    • @Ironmaniacs7
      @Ironmaniacs7 5 лет назад +18

      Same, but then when I had someone to hug, I couldn't get to sleep at all.
      Go figure.

    • @chimiw3311
      @chimiw3311 5 лет назад +5

      @@Ironmaniacs7 I never had anyone so I don't know 😅 but yeah that's possible

    • @thiebautjoel
      @thiebautjoel 5 лет назад +9

      chimi w
      For my personal experience (I know some people won't like this), my best comfort in anything I can go through, is my best friend, the one who will never let me : Jesus
      Like, even if I love my girlfriend so much, she never know what is really happening in me, whereas He does

  • @ShoaibKhan-bz5qm
    @ShoaibKhan-bz5qm 3 года назад +781

    Ignore the BS advice to wait for the perfect person and "you'll find someone" - absolute crap. It won't automatically happen. We must take personal responsibility and put ourselves out there consistently, get rejected, learn, improve and then things will work out.

    • @natalias3502
      @natalias3502 3 года назад +122

      The most sober advice I've seen in this comment section

    • @marceldavisss1815
      @marceldavisss1815 3 года назад +100

      True, but even then some people will still fail. And atleast for me when that time should come, i wont have any regrets because knowing i tried my Best will put me at ease.

    • @youneseslami3427
      @youneseslami3427 3 года назад +6

      @@marceldavisss1815 exactly

    • @mrsuns10
      @mrsuns10 3 года назад +22

      And even then we still fail

    • @ShoaibKhan-bz5qm
      @ShoaibKhan-bz5qm 3 года назад +30

      Yea if you fail at least you have some piece of mind knowing you put your best foot forward

  • @_SY77
    @_SY77 6 лет назад +496

    "For you, falling in love with dozens of people a day..." That's so me 😂. The cashier, sometimes people at work, on the bus... What is wrong with me?! 😂😂

    • @xuc
      @xuc 6 лет назад +29

      SY Territory it scared me for so long.... but reading these comments here I feel better 😅

    • @btsruinedmylifeau1834
      @btsruinedmylifeau1834 6 лет назад +20

      Omg finally I found people who can relate to me, Espically since Im bisexual I legit fall in love with dozens of girls and guys a day. I tought I'm weird but reading these comments and knowing I'm not alone finally made me feel better.

    • @aureliaavalon
      @aureliaavalon 6 лет назад +11

      I hope that when we finally find that someone we don't think it's just 'the usual' falling in love routine we do everyday 😂😂😅

    • @viacostuna
      @viacostuna 6 лет назад +3

      me everyday. hahaha

    • @SoroOrenji
      @SoroOrenji 6 лет назад +3

      That’s not love, then lol. That’s fleeting attraction.

  • @applecakes807
    @applecakes807 5 лет назад +3065

    1 year after watching this I am now 21 and still alone 😂 RUclips recommending it again just to rub it in my face

    • @andi3601
      @andi3601 5 лет назад +21

      Time is all it takes :)

    • @valenzine9423
      @valenzine9423 5 лет назад +86

      lmfao same, when I first watched it a year ago I felt hopeful but now watching it again I just feel bitter af lmao

    • @andi3601
      @andi3601 5 лет назад +3

      @@valenzine9423 just wait the right will come :)

    • @samratmalik9638
      @samratmalik9638 5 лет назад +49

      I am 21 and I fear watching it again at 22

    • @applecakes807
      @applecakes807 5 лет назад +17

      Victoria Dsunny Same and it's getting worse everytime I come back lol

  • @adamgeorge5496
    @adamgeorge5496 3 года назад +2158

    “Someone out there is wondering what it would be like to meet someone like you”
    I don’t kid myself with that anymore

    • @_daki
      @_daki 3 года назад +86

      lmfao same

    • @hayaatiilove
      @hayaatiilove 3 года назад +246

      Riight? Tired of this bullshit

    • @dose869gad5
      @dose869gad5 3 года назад +68

      Right...no females ever watch me I feel like I failed as a man because I'm not attractive

    • @good-gpt2-chatbot
      @good-gpt2-chatbot 3 года назад +35

      ikr, that so bullcrap

    • @inactivegoodbye.
      @inactivegoodbye. 3 года назад +80

      @@dose869gad5 your worth and masculinity isn’t determined by a woman’s opinion even if it feels like it does. i promise.

  • @petarmarjanovic4607
    @petarmarjanovic4607 2 года назад +84

    Its sad how we all know that love won't just come out of nowhere and, in reality, you won't just bump into your soul mate on the street and fall in love. I didn't think I would cry to this, yet an uncontrolled tear rolled down my cheek as I couldn't think of anyone worthy of my love, as they don't even know I exist. I really need a hug bros.

    • @benjaminex3009
      @benjaminex3009 2 года назад

      I feel you man, it's a weak time period for love all around.

    • @farzeen7475
      @farzeen7475 2 года назад +3

      I understand what you're saying but I don't wanna believe it. I really wanna believe if it's meant to be, it will happen. I don't want to believe that I will have nobody in my corner for forever. And I don't want you to give up too. Sending you lots of virtual hugs and love🖤

    • @tonyelhambresstark6948
      @tonyelhambresstark6948 Год назад

      Estoy arto de los que dicen ya llegara la indicada carajo siempre dicen eso y no pasa nada me independice a los 19 compre ropa me duchaba segudo usaba perfume algo que no hacia antes y aun asi nadie se fija en mi asi que deje de hacerlo.

    • @iiCounted-op5jx
      @iiCounted-op5jx Год назад +1

      it's ovER

    • @iiCounted-op5jx
      @iiCounted-op5jx Год назад +2

      @@farzeen7475 cope, we will never find anyone, ITS OVER

  • @94lovinlife
    @94lovinlife 5 лет назад +2042

    im almost 25 and i have a feeling i'll keep coming back to this video for the rest of my life lmao

    • @Frankya92
      @Frankya92 5 лет назад +67

      I’m almost 27, I feel your pain 😭

    • @sumanphukan6316
      @sumanphukan6316 5 лет назад +24

      24! 😢

    • @Petttywise
      @Petttywise 5 лет назад +19

      22 😅

    • @Jimmy_Jones
      @Jimmy_Jones 5 лет назад +44

      21. Had a look at online dating. Never sent anything. I just feel like I will be moving too much whilst at uni. Also I'm very quiet and don't like drinking.

    • @watcher5320
      @watcher5320 5 лет назад +11

      28 , a guy same condition. And sad part is our Indian parents don't understand and if they do they don't care

  • @aishiiixxi
    @aishiiixxi 6 лет назад +1745

    I just turned 20 and I dont think its a coincidence that youtube recommended this to me.

    • @mariagonzales427
      @mariagonzales427 6 лет назад +17

      Ishe Dulay I KNOW!!!!! It's creepy as hell!

    • @cristalm0th
      @cristalm0th 6 лет назад +6

      Maria Gonzales 0--0 who knows probably youtube secretly stalks us

    • @alFaCentauri16
      @alFaCentauri16 6 лет назад +15

      I'll be 20 soon, and right, I don't think it's a coincidence.

    • @Grace-nl2rr
      @Grace-nl2rr 6 лет назад

      Ishe Dulay Same, I'll be 20 exactly in two months today wtf

    • @ioanna6205
      @ioanna6205 6 лет назад

      Omg same it's been only a month for me

  • @Compins
    @Compins 4 года назад +1637

    Video title: For 20 y/o's...
    Me, a 19 y/o: _It's free real estate_

    • @zml8025
      @zml8025 4 года назад +62

      Im 19 yo too (00 liner) but even before 2020 comes I was feeling like a 20 years old hopeless adult. Now I have months to be that useless trash

    • @asuckerspicy
      @asuckerspicy 4 года назад +2

      Jup!, same feel

    • @gguksmole
      @gguksmole 4 года назад +1

      sameee

    • @cWjkL8ysxOkrH66
      @cWjkL8ysxOkrH66 4 года назад +1

      @@zml8025 same same same

    • @kpopfannoob3412
      @kpopfannoob3412 4 года назад

      Yes!💰💰

  • @Sofia-xn2ei
    @Sofia-xn2ei 3 года назад +439

    4 years later I rewatch this video ...
    I was 20, I'm 24 now and a lot has changed since but one thing didn't. I'm still single.
    I'm happier now and much proud of myself, I love who I became even if everybody still points out how "bad" it is to be a 24yo girl who never had a bf, but guess what... I realized that every person their pace, some faster than others. Maybe I'm from the VERY slow side hahaha

    • @Jazzatic2011
      @Jazzatic2011 2 года назад +3

      Funny things is - who makes it bad? Us or someone else?
      It’s one thing when we do not find it desirable but it’s debatable when it’s someone else...
      Also I wanna know at what point what counts as slow as molasses

    • @Anon-f7f
      @Anon-f7f 2 года назад

      It’s harder when ur Muslim

    • @SweetHeart-rq5hd
      @SweetHeart-rq5hd 2 года назад

      We are in the same age, hope you always happy and healthy

    • @noelle1030
      @noelle1030 2 года назад +6

      I'm still 20 and haven't fall in love. Thank you for saying that. It makes me think that it's okay to be single lol. It's not that I don't want to fall in love. I still want to explore myself and everything else in the world. So having a partner is not on my mind yet.

    • @hakeemsd70m
      @hakeemsd70m 2 года назад +4

      26 year old guy and I've only had one girlfriend. We initially were very attracted to each other another physically. But in the end, it was an awful relationship that should have never happened, as I allowed her to use me to buy things for her because I was too loveless to myself and naive to know any better. We eventually broke up after like 2 months. Four years later, and I'm still single. But the feeling still hurts the same, and it feels as if I haven't grown at all.

  • @t.c.9029
    @t.c.9029 5 лет назад +3506

    Even she found someone at the end but you're still single

    • @Hi-vf9wx
      @Hi-vf9wx 5 лет назад +82

      🙃

    • @emanuela4223
      @emanuela4223 5 лет назад +31

      😭

    • @epicberrymode3575
      @epicberrymode3575 5 лет назад +4

      Hagh cough gahghg

    • @seko3374
      @seko3374 5 лет назад +2

      well....

    • @Mfmail12484
      @Mfmail12484 5 лет назад +18

      @@shreyakhanna1708 hahaha yeah right . when i was in highschool they used to call me freak. so i kinda feel sorry for the girl who is just right for me

  • @paulinski011
    @paulinski011 6 лет назад +16942

    RUclips knows me so well that it's kinda sad

  • @Iroh12345
    @Iroh12345 5 лет назад +1343

    See you in three years, when youtube recommends this again and I'm still single

  • @extra-lives
    @extra-lives Год назад +40

    I feel it's not true for some people. For people like us, we have to accept that no one is going to love you back ever. We are gonna end up alone, and that's the hard truth. Being unloved is one of the most depressing feeling for sure

    • @iminlove1148
      @iminlove1148 Год назад +7

      Yep unfortunately some people genuinely never find love

    • @samanthasamsimpson7201
      @samanthasamsimpson7201 Год назад +3

      ​@@iminlove1148"It's gotta be me"

    • @godnyx117
      @godnyx117 9 месяцев назад

      You won't be sure about that till you live your life and try to connect to people when you have the chance.

    • @adritaroy839
      @adritaroy839 3 месяца назад

      ​@@iminlove1148 yes mannnn...I am 18 and I see each of my friend getting in and out of relationship but here I am not able to find a single one

  • @elsaberndtsson2595
    @elsaberndtsson2595 3 года назад +3880

    My biggest fear is the fact that every person I meet will know how to do all the relationship stuff while I can't even kiss

    • @flowertheone
      @flowertheone 3 года назад +29

      @I'm jungkook's dynamite milk U know I'm also 14 and I feel the same lol I want to fall in love life is so sad

    • @flowertheone
      @flowertheone 3 года назад +8

      @Claudiu 985 haaaa

    • @flowertheone
      @flowertheone 3 года назад +56

      @Claudiu 985 now, I recently grew up, I'm actually 25 now

    • @flowertheone
      @flowertheone 3 года назад +41

      @Claudiu 985 oh man happy birthday

    • @silviut6120
      @silviut6120 3 года назад +81

      28 kissless guy that's the main reason i stay away from family meetings cause its hurts so much you dont wanna know

  • @dvbgnn4379
    @dvbgnn4379 5 лет назад +1191

    "Fell in love with everybody" MAN THAT'S MY ENTIRE LIFE

    • @MiracleAstonvilla
      @MiracleAstonvilla 5 лет назад +5

      Yeah. Me too.

    • @dvbgnn4379
      @dvbgnn4379 5 лет назад +62

      @@MiracleAstonvilla Like everytime someone is nice to me or cute.

    • @MiracleAstonvilla
      @MiracleAstonvilla 5 лет назад +11

      @@dvbgnn4379 different places, different people and same situation .

    • @dvbgnn4379
      @dvbgnn4379 5 лет назад +9

      @@MiracleAstonvilla Yep.I think I'm too single and alone to live lmao.

    • @borealssb1384
      @borealssb1384 5 лет назад +39

      I relate to that so badly. I crush on every 2nd guy I meet but get over them after around a day, maybe to make room in my mind for new ones. And I'm disgusted by it. I'm literally a crush slut. But I can't help it. At least now I know the reason for that, and that it'll probably change the day I'll finally find requited love ^-^

  • @ninikim3765
    @ninikim3765 4 года назад +637

    I don't know. Being single since birth, without ever experiencing someone say that he has a crush on me at least, got me so curious how it feels like to be appreciated. No matter how many times people around me say that I'll eventually find the one, still, I can't erase the thought that maybe I'm bound to be alone forever, or that I'm too ugly to be someone else's love interest.
    And that thinking worn me out so much that what I am doing now is learning to love myself to the extent that I won't ever long for someone else to love me anymore.

    • @dark_screed_5640
      @dark_screed_5640 4 года назад +1

      Hey,how old r u?

    • @agees924
      @agees924 4 года назад +28

      That is so true. I feel the same way. I will be 20 this summer and have never had a boyfriend...not even close. I haven’t had a mutual crush with anyone, at least that I know of. On the bright side, I don’t know what it’s like to go through a breakup or see an ex boyfriend find someone else. I think it’s much easier to be alone since birth than it would be to have dated a lot in the past and then find yourself alone.

    • @Cajade_pandora
      @Cajade_pandora 4 года назад +3

      @@agees924 I understand you, feel the same way

    • @ninikim3765
      @ninikim3765 4 года назад +4

      @@dark_screed_5640 23

    • @ninikim3765
      @ninikim3765 4 года назад +5

      @@agees924 I agree. Each time I get sad, I just think to myself that maybe, being alone at the moment is better cause I got spared from heartaches

  • @Valkerson
    @Valkerson 8 месяцев назад +8

    “Don’t do this, don’t give me hope.” - A 24 Year Old Girl Who Comes Back To This Video Every Once in A While

  • @Narra7925
    @Narra7925 4 года назад +3661

    "Are you really that ugly?
    That unwanted?
    That uninteresting?
    That boring??"
    Oohhh..I never felt attacked like this one. This is totally my normal train of thoughts.

    • @nicolen3177
      @nicolen3177 4 года назад +68

      STOPPP I'M SAD NOW... I know for me my standards are very high, I don't settle 😂 It's not us, it's just that better is in store for us. We need to learn to appreciate other things in life...

    • @piyadas3193
      @piyadas3193 4 года назад +10

      I just got reminded...

    • @Narra7925
      @Narra7925 4 года назад +44

      It's funny that this is just 2 months ago.Tomorrow I'm turning 21, I'm proud to say that I'm now in the progress of loving myself more. Sometimes i still have those thoughts, but now I can remind myself that those are untrue and brought only by my emotions. And that there is a long list of people who accepted and love me.
      For the days that I can't feel their love, I still have the most important person to love me who will never leave me, which is MYSELF.

    • @veronicataylor8430
      @veronicataylor8430 4 года назад +11

      My psychologist diagnosed me with antisocial personality disorder, with sociopathic tendencies, so that it's impossible for me to make friends. I don't even know what people mean by words like 'sad', 'happy', or 'love', because of my disorder. It also makes me violent, so if I have any emotions at all it's usually just violent anger. I smashed a wine bottle over a girls head because she said I was "beautiful but crazy".

    • @abinothayyilsanoj4182
      @abinothayyilsanoj4182 4 года назад

      @@veronicataylor8430 wow that's bad.
      But life if not fair anyway we have to through .
      Nice profile tho..👍

  • @Ina-bc4if
    @Ina-bc4if 4 года назад +4233

    Im 20 years old and never had a boyfriend, youtube knows me so well

    • @Nehaprathap
      @Nehaprathap 4 года назад +42

      Same 😳

    • @theinnerdesire1134
      @theinnerdesire1134 4 года назад +177

      I dont know if im wrong, but i think that girls definitily have more chances of getting in a relationship than man; Thats beacuse guys aproach women, but most of the women dont aproach men, so in the end being a shy man is the worst thing. That means sooner or later you are going to get along with someone.

    • @abbascoolhot
      @abbascoolhot 4 года назад +2

      Same lmao

    • @sm11_ss99
      @sm11_ss99 4 года назад +44

      I’m already 21 and still single 🤣 . I didn’t know how I got to this videos!

    • @cuteblini
      @cuteblini 4 года назад +7

      Welcome to the squad

  • @morganlemons1694
    @morganlemons1694 6 лет назад +4486

    Why youtube...don't remind me

    • @BiaMends_
      @BiaMends_ 6 лет назад +28

      Here as well...

    • @zemima7999
      @zemima7999 6 лет назад +24

      Wooow u seriously are everywhere

    • @Binu4903
      @Binu4903 6 лет назад +10

      WHY ARE HERE OH MY GAWD WHAAAT

    • @markuskruber1893
      @markuskruber1893 6 лет назад +26

      Morgan Lemons That explains why you comment everywhere.

    • @lilifaria2477
      @lilifaria2477 6 лет назад

      It's just so sad whyyyyyy 😭

  • @cakegirlsdefender
    @cakegirlsdefender 3 года назад +132

    watching this at 17 and joking: haha that would be me
    watching this at 20 and still single: 😐😐

  • @The_Dylan_Snow
    @The_Dylan_Snow 4 года назад +716

    Don't do that. Don't give me hope.

    • @peacemekka
      @peacemekka 3 года назад +2

      Ronin.

    • @mementomori5388
      @mementomori5388 3 года назад +27

      This comment is both sad and hilarious.

    • @jemandoondame2581
      @jemandoondame2581 3 года назад

      @@mementomori5388 Why hilarious?

    • @salsabillafurqanizalma838
      @salsabillafurqanizalma838 3 года назад +1

      @@peacemekka yeah, dont gimme hope (stare desperatefully)

    • @cherrybomb9330
      @cherrybomb9330 3 года назад +8

      I don't think I'll ever find someone. I do believe in soulmates but I just have this feeling that I'm never gonna meet mine.

  • @nickgior3849
    @nickgior3849 4 года назад +229

    Lately I have stopped watching most of the movies, because they always show people falling in love so easily and deeply. When I see those things I get at the same time both depressed and frustrated, because I say to myself" it cannot be that easy to fall in love and succeed like that".

    • @davidbolha
      @davidbolha 4 года назад +1

      We need MGTOW movies.

    • @iBloodxHunter
      @iBloodxHunter 4 года назад +5

      That's a narrative trick. Nobody wants to spend 5 extra hours chronicling 3 months of dating.

    • @alayna.gallardo
      @alayna.gallardo 4 года назад +6

      And seriously, serious relationships take work, a giving-heart, and so many other things. Why don’t we teach that in our movies?

  • @mohomadanaas8668
    @mohomadanaas8668 3 года назад +1061

    " Dont worry you"ll find someone someday "
    Said every individual i met the last 20 years ☺

    • @Churrohs
      @Churrohs 3 года назад +11

      Relatable

    • @christiansollner440
      @christiansollner440 3 года назад +6

      ... feel you

    • @formidable6069
      @formidable6069 3 года назад +3

      Same

    • @davoforjazz
      @davoforjazz 3 года назад +49

      I know right. It’s the worst thing anyone can say to a single person.

    • @Gothraven
      @Gothraven 3 года назад +16

      Right, it's like washing a burn with hot water

  • @걸키셔느유
    @걸키셔느유 Год назад +69

    I remember watching it when I was 18, now I'm 23 and this vid is still relatable 🥲

  • @digit4lflow476
    @digit4lflow476 4 года назад +375

    Y’all ever hate going on social media cause you see couples happy and wonder why you could never have that?...

    • @keur2454
      @keur2454 4 года назад +4

      JeremyS You just inspired me to unfollow people that make me jealous. Thanks

    • @modu345
      @modu345 4 года назад +2

      Because I am very ugly, ugly to the core

    • @dacanation12
      @dacanation12 4 года назад

      Yes

    • @pscraft1337
      @pscraft1337 4 года назад +12

      I never really fee jealous. I just feel saddened and crushed and wish I could get the same too.

    • @zml8025
      @zml8025 4 года назад +5

      But some of those bitches are always sharing them boyfriend like they had nothing to do with them life. Like them only achievement in life was finding a partner. Im single but not a garbage

  • @firedude1Productions
    @firedude1Productions 4 года назад +941

    See yall in 5 years when youtube recommends this again and I'm still single lol

    • @HeyMomonia
      @HeyMomonia 4 года назад +12

      See you in 20 years

    • @ajsouza3720
      @ajsouza3720 4 года назад +8

      Bold of you to assume RUclips will be around in five years.

    • @firedude1Productions
      @firedude1Productions 4 года назад +8

      @@ajsouza3720 very bold indeed.

    • @MicroCheese64
      @MicroCheese64 4 года назад +7

      actually feels bad, seeing that I've already seen this video and liked it and here I am again lol

    • @saud2
      @saud2 4 года назад +4

      Leaving comment here so I can come back after 5 years.

  • @ashlidanielle
    @ashlidanielle 6 лет назад +1287

    The whole falling in love with random strangers thing is so true for me. I always wondered if anyone else did that and I'm glad to know I'm not alone. It does suck tho bc after that brief encounter, you can't stop thinking about that person and it drives you crazy throughout the day.

    • @shre9
      @shre9 6 лет назад +13

      AshDani It absolutely happens with me!!

    • @odd__piko6246
      @odd__piko6246 6 лет назад +7

      Yea its true..

    • @belleame572
      @belleame572 6 лет назад +7

      Exactly! That thing hits the bullseye😂

    • @Vinex3431
      @Vinex3431 6 лет назад +37

      Happens to me as well it's pretty fucking obnoxious trying to get over the hump of knowing they dont give a damn which makes sense honestly

    • @LessoeursLefebvre
      @LessoeursLefebvre 6 лет назад +20

      falling in love is a strong way to put it though

  • @elinanikolopoulou1769
    @elinanikolopoulou1769 2 года назад +40

    This is the most relatable thing ever. I’m 18, never been in a relationship and feel so deprived of love. I’m literally desperate. I see a good looking guy and I imagine what being in a relationship with him would be like

    • @baronhelmut2701
      @baronhelmut2701 Год назад +3

      Can you imagine being a good looking guy with the same problem ? I mean I know my personality wouldnt be a match for everyone, but being 26 and never having anything reciprocated feels like life is telling me I am somehow worth less than most people I know.

    • @iCupcakeMelaniex3
      @iCupcakeMelaniex3 2 месяца назад

      @@michalthekind Not really. I found someone at 25.

  • @cassiuscyparissus5567
    @cassiuscyparissus5567 4 года назад +845

    Last time I was someone's type was when i donated my blood

    • @gayudevi7288
      @gayudevi7288 4 года назад +36

      And I can't even do that coz I'm anemic😶

    • @rofangirl1302
      @rofangirl1302 4 года назад +7

      😂😂😂😂

    • @Valkerson
      @Valkerson 4 года назад +5

      **insert cry-laughing emoji**

    • @MICROKNIGHT3000
      @MICROKNIGHT3000 4 года назад +2

      bruh

    • @woaaliii8947
      @woaaliii8947 4 года назад +1

      and I can't even do that due to health issues in the past. oof

  • @_empty_4945
    @_empty_4945 4 года назад +1931

    Ever since I was 24, people have told me that I’ll find someone eventually. I was never one to hook up with someone just for the “fun” of it, I just wanted to find my soulmate. Call me picky or whatever, but I wanted to find my other half in the world. And if they didn’t exist, then there was no need for me to settle for someone. I’m 48 now, and I’m still single. But not alone. I don’t regret a thing because while I see my friends divorce and go through marriage issues, I’m happy to know that I never got to that point. I adopted a child 2 years ago and we are so happy! We are a small and happy family, that is complete! She completed my other half. Please don’t stress everyone, not everyone finds someone and that is the truth.

    • @TheBongoJeff
      @TheBongoJeff 4 года назад +117

      This doesnt sound healthy

    • @1Insurgency1
      @1Insurgency1 4 года назад +43

      @@TheBongoJeff Why not?

    • @TheBongoJeff
      @TheBongoJeff 4 года назад +107

      @@1Insurgency1 using a child to fill a void sounds pathological.

    • @keur2454
      @keur2454 4 года назад +42

      TheBongoJeff This is fake anw, adopting a kid is super hard and there’s NO WAY that she could’ve adopted with no partner

    • @keur2454
      @keur2454 4 года назад +14

      TheBongoJeff Or he* idk if the person who wrote this is a man or a woman but it doesn’t matter since it’s fake lol

  • @franzinostalgia
    @franzinostalgia 5 лет назад +1636

    my fbi agent knew i needed to see this

    • @thegamersuknow6389
      @thegamersuknow6389 5 лет назад +3

      Literally what I thought to myself :'D

    • @ikaros4203
      @ikaros4203 5 лет назад +2

      *nsa

    • @CayenneGT
      @CayenneGT 4 года назад +2

      @I'm done 😂

    • @Lena-sk7rp
      @Lena-sk7rp 4 года назад +3

      Franziska Vazquez somebody in the World will Love you so much it‘ll feel like you‘ve always been loved

    • @Lena-sk7rp
      @Lena-sk7rp 4 года назад +1

      Franziska Vazquez somebody in the World will Love you so much it‘ll feel like you‘ve always been loved

  • @truehzrecords
    @truehzrecords 10 месяцев назад +9

    I’ve been “loved” but normally only for shallow reasons. Either for someone to use me to get over their ex, or for my money and status.
    I deeply want a love that I can call my own. That I can pour into someone and they’d appreciate and see all the effort I put in.
    I hope to meet them soon. Maybe I already have. I want to make someone happy. Someone smile. Be kind and virtuous. Help them be their best selves.
    If you’re reading this don’t give up the love in your heart. It’s part of what makes being alive wonderful.

  • @heyitsrin6556
    @heyitsrin6556 6 лет назад +7754

    RUclips how did you know

  • @rontubman6953
    @rontubman6953 4 года назад +5268

    "Someone in the world is wondering what it's like to meet someone like you"
    And other hilarious jokes you can tell yourself

    • @fluffyfeather39
      @fluffyfeather39 4 года назад +48

      youtube person no

    • @shrivarshini4681
      @shrivarshini4681 4 года назад +91

      stop breaking my hope now xD

    • @yourallbrainwashed
      @yourallbrainwashed 4 года назад +46

      @youtube person I had someone before.. but it's meaningless when you realize love doesn't exist. I have my noose. It's an extension cord with visegrip pliers. Because I live in my car and don't have a place to hang. I have tried a few times, But I have a hard time getting past no breathing. I wish I could afford the max dog brewing suicide kit. I hate hurting, and I know it's only going to get worse. I want out.

    • @yourallbrainwashed
      @yourallbrainwashed 4 года назад +12

      @@fluffyfeather39 sometimes, that's the only way to stop the pain.

    • @shionnatsume3503
      @shionnatsume3503 4 года назад +20

      @@yourallbrainwashed 🙁 are you ok this pass few weeks

  • @estherfaith
    @estherfaith 6 лет назад +387

    I'm 20, never been kissed and never dated. Sure, I had 3 am convos, been pursued once but that's it. My friends will talk about past relationships and I'll just keep my mouth shut.
    Right now I'm at the point of my life where I have stopped wondering what's its like to be in a relationship. I have successfully convinced myself that I do not need one to be fulfilled and happy.

    • @arialba7890
      @arialba7890 6 лет назад +24

      I'm in a very similar situation! When everyone is talking about their relationships, I'm like quietly disappointed and sad but I'm kind of accepting it as well. So you are not alone!

    • @estherfaith
      @estherfaith 6 лет назад +13

      River Liz *high five!* OR friends will ask me about my opinion and I'd give them the most rational answer (like "leave him. you dont deserve that kind of toxic relationship") and they're like, "No. You dont understand. Why dont you try to be in a relationship?" Well... point taken. Only if I can just buy a relationship. Jk haha I'm just thinking, probably I'm not that attractive enough to be asked out or what but oh well, it's not the end of the world.

    • @arialba7890
      @arialba7890 6 лет назад +8

      Faith Gabriel Omg I know that so well! That a lot of people are like don't you want a relationship? But I think it just has to happen and if I look after one it wouldn't work.
      I also have the feeling that the things I like, for example playing the ukulele or writing poems and short storys aren't that interesting for many people.
      But it isn't the end of the world, I'm okay with being single. I know it sound kind of stupid, but sometimes I think that creativity is like my boyfriend.

    • @estherfaith
      @estherfaith 6 лет назад +5

      River Liz Nope you're totally wrong about one point. You have really awesome talents! And I do appreciate them ( btw I have the same interests too :D). Anywayz let's just live our lives to the fullest. If love comes, then it comes. No expectations, no pressure, no frustrations.

  • @Strawberry-dz6dw
    @Strawberry-dz6dw Год назад +20

    I’m 22 now. Still single and not been in love ever before . I’m normally fine with not dating but there’s sometime that it just hit you so hard; that you don’t have that special person to share moments with. I’ll come back every year. Let’s see where life goes

    • @manosijroy8282
      @manosijroy8282 Год назад +1

      Are you a girl? BTW I am a 22 year old guy so same age as you and never had a girlfriend and if you are a female then I am sure you are a very beautiful girl and I bet I would have got a crush on you if we were in the same college or something. Here is one virtual hug for you just to make you smile. Hugggggs. Do you know what makes a girl cuter? Its her sweetness. I honestly feel a girl is too cute if she is a very sweet person but I might pinch her cheeks gently and softly a lot if I find her too cute hehe.

    • @youtyrr23
      @youtyrr23 Год назад +3

      @@manosijroy8282 I have seen your comment before. Life is tough bro. I’m 24 and forever single 😅

    • @devashrijoshi9079
      @devashrijoshi9079 Год назад

      I've actually given up on both dating & relationships since the last guy I dated never wanted a relationship & just dated me. And this trope seems to be super popular with Gen-Z now

  • @rizma8143
    @rizma8143 4 года назад +1157

    The last time I'm watching this was 2 years ago, I was 17 at that time. I thought "Would I have a boyfriend before I turn 20?" And then in 2020, youtube recommend me this, and this year I'm gonna turn 20, and still single. Never in loved for the past 2 decades. Idk if youtube would recommend me this video again before I turn 30 lmao I wish when youtube recommend me this video again, I would have a boyfriend or someone who love me the way I am...
    Edit : it's freaking 16th of december 2023 that means I'm 23 now in college and STILL no signs I'm gonna be in a relationship soon lmao I've talked to some guys, thinking that I will end this journey soon but god say "nah ah, not today" 😂 I hope you guys in this reply already found your other half now, stay healthy guys 💜

  • @organic2976
    @organic2976 4 года назад +2702

    Instead of looking for a soulmate start looking for your soul, mate.

    • @GreenGoblinCoryintheHouse
      @GreenGoblinCoryintheHouse 4 года назад +22

      Where do I look?

    • @rip8641
      @rip8641 4 года назад +71

      I think mine is in the garbage, somewhere.

    • @lyonixx9886
      @lyonixx9886 4 года назад +25

      r/Iam14AndThisIsDeep

    • @iximmalicexl9749
      @iximmalicexl9749 4 года назад +3

      Lmao wut m8

    • @furensuko
      @furensuko 4 года назад +40

      Listen to this guy, after having some horrible relationship experiences, I just wanna say this. Relationship is not as pretty as it looks on the outside, it's tiring, it's consuming and when something goes wrong, it can really go horribly wrong.
      Start with yourself and be a better version of yourself. If you are too emotionally dependent on the relationship, you and your partner will only find hurt at the end of the road. Don't find a relationship when you're hurt and wants someone to share the pain with but instead find it when you are happy and want to share your happiness with someone. It will be more fulfilling connection that way.

  • @eon_mp4
    @eon_mp4 3 года назад +1955

    I watched this at 17 thinking "Meh, I still have time. Can't relate." I am now 21 sitting here shocked at how accurate this is. Esp the "falling in love w/ strangers" bit. Lol

    • @pandakat6937
      @pandakat6937 3 года назад +54

      I feel you.. I saw this when I was 17 years old and I don't even care about this but I'm 21 now i feel so sad 😭

    • @GreedAndSelfishness
      @GreedAndSelfishness 3 года назад +42

      Been like you since 17 too. I'm 26 now. I'm SURE you will do better than me.

    • @JoystickJay15
      @JoystickJay15 3 года назад +38

      I’m 17 rn watching it😭

    • @greenbanana1001
      @greenbanana1001 3 года назад +34

      I’m 26 and now I’ve given up .. before I know it 4 years will of passed and I’ll be 30 and alone

    • @Pslakom
      @Pslakom 3 года назад +40

      I'm 17 rn I've already accepted my sad single life.

  • @Lena-vv7mz
    @Lena-vv7mz 2 года назад +49

    Does anyone still comes back to this video and gets more depressed each year?

  • @melanie7278
    @melanie7278 4 года назад +3319

    Imagine if all people in comment section had a big meeting, some would find their love there😳

  • @joselumateo7567
    @joselumateo7567 4 года назад +873

    The hard reality is that some people will never meet love and will die alone...

    • @donatotusi9140
      @donatotusi9140 4 года назад +92

      That's a reality I've learned to accept :)

    • @wildbloodyrose9311
      @wildbloodyrose9311 4 года назад +29

      @crawlingrainbow GAWD SAME!! I am proud of my genes but it's not helping. 23 but I look and sound like a 14 year old and the only people who give me the second look are just a bunch of creepy old men.

    • @DeathSurgeonKid
      @DeathSurgeonKid 4 года назад +10

      @@wildbloodyrose9311 on that with you. Turning 20 this year, still asked if I'm even 16 yet. I have a round baby face and that ain't helping lol

    • @obi-quankenobi7844
      @obi-quankenobi7844 4 года назад +1

      Same

    • @mee091000
      @mee091000 4 года назад +7

      Wild Bloody Rose There is a SIGNIFICANT difference in your case. Most men are attracted to women with child-like faces. You are thinking of it as a pedo thing but that's not the case. Apparently it has been scientifically proven. Personally as a 22 year old man. I've never looked at a woman and liked her because she "looks KIND OF childish". But that's not the case for most men.

  • @itisalexmydudes1171
    @itisalexmydudes1171 4 года назад +414

    "Please don't do that, don't give me hope"

  • @f1sh_st1cks
    @f1sh_st1cks Год назад +90

    For me, the hardest part of being 20 and single probably is all of my friends forgetting about me after finding love. I knew that when people fall in love they often start paying less attention to their friends but I wasn't mentally prepared for how harsh it would actually be. Friends that I used to hang out with a lot now barely keep any contant with me. It's weird and sad how people are ready to ditch a long-term friendship for someone they met just a few months ago. I've never had anyone being interested in me and I have zero romantic experience. I don't see myself as a person anyone would fall for in the first place. I've even thought about paying for sex or cuddling etc. so that I could experience it at least once in my life. Some people are fine with being "single forever" but I long for love and affection. It's kind of comforting to read about other people's similar experiences.

    • @kosta5706
      @kosta5706 Год назад +7

      I feel exactly the same way, my friends grew distance & ditched me too after getting gfs. Brutal world

    • @ninjacortadordecebola1215
      @ninjacortadordecebola1215 Год назад +7

      @@kosta5706 I must have a fucking awesome friend then, cause he didn't abandoned me after getting a gf.

    • @iiCounted-op5jx
      @iiCounted-op5jx Год назад

      brutal, its truly over my dude

    • @samanthasamsimpson7201
      @samanthasamsimpson7201 Год назад +1

      I was friend with one girl for 11 years... Yep, since elementary school... She ditched me for her bf :))

    • @godnyx117
      @godnyx117 9 месяцев назад

      @@samanthasamsimpson7201 When you guys say "they ditched" me, do you mean that they stopped talking with you at all? Like, they broke up with you?

  • @kooketh-shooketh_imdone580
    @kooketh-shooketh_imdone580 6 лет назад +27057

    *crying virgin tears*

  • @Fulgrim88
    @Fulgrim88 5 лет назад +1225

    There's people who've had plenty of french kisses and plenty of sex even yet have never been loved.It's a tricky thing

    • @caroln.9849
      @caroln.9849 5 лет назад +25

      Absolutely true

    • @RiruKrypto_
      @RiruKrypto_ 5 лет назад +53

      Just because people have sex doesn’t mean it’s real love.

    • @kowsikowsi238
      @kowsikowsi238 5 лет назад +3

      Yess it's ok to be alone.

    • @Crazy_Rich_Asian
      @Crazy_Rich_Asian 5 лет назад +55

      I've had too much sex, almost all kinds of it, but believe me, it's nothing, you still feel empty and hungry, because your soul hasn't found that only one person for you. I'm abstaining from sex now, and nofap too. Feeling a lot better.

    • @bobrohubres7704
      @bobrohubres7704 5 лет назад +24

      Atleast they have some sort of contact

  • @andreeashaleta8658
    @andreeashaleta8658 6 лет назад +396

    I dont even want a romantic relationship, i just want someone that has the same excitment as me and urge to talk a lot like long conversations

    • @Nasaesa
      @Nasaesa 6 лет назад

      I couldn't agree more...

    • @matanai8883
      @matanai8883 6 лет назад

      same here 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @raphaelalavi9385
    @raphaelalavi9385 3 года назад +92

    I’m 22 and I’ve given up. I have to accept being alone for the rest of my life. While biologically wanting a companion.

    • @ceooflonelinessinc.267
      @ceooflonelinessinc.267 3 года назад +4

      I must be the CEO of Unattractive Inc.
      I am 31 and have been rejected by every Girl I asked out. That a girl once showed interest in me, also never happend.
      I never had a hug, a kiss or sex. And off course I never had a realationship or something similar. I tried everything. I tried register on Dating Websites and Apps, I asked girls out, I visited single-Events. Nothing worked.
      It just feels bad knowing that every girls rejected you. And off course I have the urge like every humen to experience physical and mental intimacy with the opposite sex. A lack in this human need, especially if it has been so long, just makes you sick.
      I dont know what to do anymore.
      Beside that I work in a low paying job and struggling with poverty. I have almost no money.

    • @Isabella-sk8ey
      @Isabella-sk8ey 8 месяцев назад

      How’s it going for you right now?

    • @raphaelalavi9385
      @raphaelalavi9385 8 месяцев назад +5

      @@Isabella-sk8ey same as before.

  • @CallerOfTheWild
    @CallerOfTheWild 6 лет назад +562

    It hurts how much I relate to this. I'm 20 and nobody has ever even crushed on me. Never been on a date, never been kissed. Growing up you tend to question how easy it is for everyone else, or rather how hard it is for you to find someone. I'm thankful that I'm such an independent person, and I know when I meet someone, they will mean something.

    • @samatoki3495
      @samatoki3495 6 лет назад +16

      lol same and im ugly

    • @CallerOfTheWild
      @CallerOfTheWild 6 лет назад +4

      Dang girl don't say that!!

    • @WolfieXp
      @WolfieXp 6 лет назад +14

      21 year old and in the same boat. The closest i ever got was a long distance relationship with a girl from America, but that only lasted until she found someone else closer to her. Maybe i'll find someone, maybe i won't. Atleast it helps to know that i'm not the only one

    • @CallerOfTheWild
      @CallerOfTheWild 6 лет назад +4

      You're def not the only one. tbh I don't think I've met someone like me (never kissed etc etc) but I've met people that haven't been in a relationship since middle school, and they don't count those relationships because they weren't considered real to them. I feel like it's just hard for people to really connect now.

    • @WolfieXp
      @WolfieXp 6 лет назад +5

      I haven't really met anyone who haven't been in a relationship. Even my clostest friend who is a lot like me and has openly stated many times that he's not interested in relationships still managed to have a girlfriend for a couple of months. It's hard to tell if it's harder for people to connect these days in general, or if it's just harder for someone as shy, introverted and not-goodlooking like me. And even then, i still see other people just as introverted and average looking as me somehow land a relationship and me still having no luck. It's discouraging to say the least

  • @riyaabdi
    @riyaabdi 6 лет назад +996

    It’s safe to say that RUclips knows me so well they put this in my recommendation list........

  • @Urgaas
    @Urgaas 6 лет назад +1231

    Lonely girls with K-Pop idol avatars and lonely boys with cute anime girl avatars is the same

    • @bluvs_tae
      @bluvs_tae 6 лет назад +44

      D Kh me af 😂 I'm 23 😂🤣🤣✌

    • @miadepp9702
      @miadepp9702 6 лет назад +112

      The kpop/anime virgins squad 😆

    • @Alex-ve6ey
      @Alex-ve6ey 6 лет назад +60

      D Kh kpop pfp girls and anime pfp boys need to start mingling with each other.

    • @moonjjk17
      @moonjjk17 6 лет назад +20

      D Kh Why is this accurate omg 😂

    • @Jojosiwo
      @Jojosiwo 6 лет назад +1

      Lool xdd

  • @ChrizzyYeahh
    @ChrizzyYeahh Год назад +177

    "Love is overrated, I don't need anyone, I'm happy to be alone. Single life is the best life"
    -This is me when I lie to convince myself.
    Edit: I wrote this comment 10 months ago & now I think finding a purpose in life is more important than finding a partner. I've given up. I don't even know if I am capable of loving anyone.

    • @iiCounted-op5jx
      @iiCounted-op5jx Год назад +9

      brutal, we're all going to suffer through life and die alone, its OVER

    • @devashrijoshi9079
      @devashrijoshi9079 Год назад +1

      Used to be me until I did hit a date💀 tho he dumped me 2 months later, I'm thankfully moving on & doing a bit better but yeah you'll find someone, you just have to try out new things tho.

    • @musicer_
      @musicer_ Год назад +2

      That's me too

    • @Soda.Pop01
      @Soda.Pop01 Год назад +2

      Same

    • @panziemniak1261
      @panziemniak1261 9 месяцев назад

      But you can fill this void with something other than love

  • @hazrinazawani7542
    @hazrinazawani7542 6 лет назад +833

    Real life isn't a fairytale. It's not guaranteed, and some people just die alone. There's more to life than being in a relationship

    • @ladansemakabre
      @ladansemakabre 6 лет назад +74

      you're right, but because of society, we think being alone is the worst thing to ever happen

    • @anjar.2910
      @anjar.2910 6 лет назад +30

      It's also about biology, we have the urge to find the parent of our future children

    • @lunamonbebe8728
      @lunamonbebe8728 6 лет назад +26

      Anja R. Some of us strange people don’t want to settle down and have children though

    • @feanorkiu
      @feanorkiu 6 лет назад +23

      It depends. There's definitely more to life then being in a sexual relationship. But I find meaning and importance in all my relationships. They drive me forward.

    • @_hector__
      @_hector__ 6 лет назад +8

      Dont listen to him as if you shouldn't try. Try it a few times and if you REALLY see its not for you then great! You won't die in regret.
      Though, I'd hate for my friends and family members from my parents to be the only ones attending my funeral...

  • @MezzoForte4
    @MezzoForte4 6 лет назад +533

    I'm too terrified of relationships to even try. I've never fallen in love, dated, or anything. I'll be 28 this year. I've basically given up and I want to focus more on myself but the loneliness burns my soul sometimes.

    • @Frickenrock
      @Frickenrock 6 лет назад +7

      MezzoForte4 why does the idea of a relationship scare you.

    • @MezzoForte4
      @MezzoForte4 6 лет назад +43

      Frickenrock
      Nearly everything I know about relationships is from friends and family and that it doesn't last, it's abusive and there's no love, just tolerance. I know better than to gauge it from other people's experiences but it's what I've witnessed for most of my life. Why should I take a chance and get hurt or worse to see if I can find someone?
      I'd rather be pained with loneliness than be hurt by someone else, toying with my heart and leaving it worse than how I started.

    • @IMStillUnbroken7
      @IMStillUnbroken7 6 лет назад +18

      MezzoForte4 'Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.
      Try!

    • @arinaaaarr
      @arinaaaarr 6 лет назад +2

      Omgg i feel u~ dont be sad. Ur not alone.🤗

    • @bloodnessx
      @bloodnessx 6 лет назад +3

      Mycroft Holmes u not gonna die of rejection and you prob never gonna meet the person again (if its a stranger). Better try than regret

  • @drincmusic2769
    @drincmusic2769 5 лет назад +629

    I'm pretty much settled on the idea that no matter what, I'm only going to be friends with the people I meet.

    • @donatotusi9140
      @donatotusi9140 5 лет назад +4

      SAME 😂😂

    • @Annabel-ew5nx
      @Annabel-ew5nx 5 лет назад +1

      stfu girls will people will love you i know so many people who are willing to fall in love

    • @emanuela4223
      @emanuela4223 5 лет назад +6

      I don't even have friends :)

    • @Mfmail12484
      @Mfmail12484 5 лет назад

      atleast u got friends. in my highschool days they used to call me loner wolf .

    • @revengegamer8838
      @revengegamer8838 4 года назад

      Me 2

  • @iActuallyLiveinUtah
    @iActuallyLiveinUtah 3 года назад +121

    I'm 21, and ... I'm realizing that life is really shorter then I thought. I've been focused with school all my life up till 2019. Finding a lover just, wasn't...you know...the right time...for years. Now that I'm out of school I want to date. But I ended up at a dead end job with no were to go dying inside knowing that someday...I will die *ALONE.*

    • @sergiu3596
      @sergiu3596 3 года назад +3

      Sorry to hear that, i'm in the same situation.

    • @ceooflonelinessinc.267
      @ceooflonelinessinc.267 3 года назад +2

      I must be the CEO of Unattractive Inc.
      I am 31 and have been rejected by every Girl I asked out. That a girl once showed interest in me, also never happend.
      I never had a hug, a kiss or sex. And off course I never had a realationship or something similar. I tried everything. I tried register on Dating Websites and Apps, I asked girls out, I visited single-Events. Nothing worked.
      It just feels bad knowing that every girls rejected you. And off course I have the urge like every humen to experience physical and mental intimacy with the opposite sex. A lack in this human need, especially if it has been so long, just makes you sick.
      I dont know what to do anymore.
      Beside that I work in a low paying job and struggling with poverty. I have almost no money.

    • @wallacerangel616
      @wallacerangel616 3 года назад +1

      @@ceooflonelinessinc.267 I’m sorry that happened. I’m in a similar situation as you but in my problem, I haven’t dated anyone since I graduated high school. I’m slowly now wanting to date the same gender as me not because I wanna be gay but because I just wanna try it out to see how things go.
      Part of me doesn’t feel exactly 100% heterosexual anymore. Never has in a way.

    • @iiCounted-op5jx
      @iiCounted-op5jx Год назад +1

      absolutely brutal, you wasted all your chances

    • @iiCounted-op5jx
      @iiCounted-op5jx Год назад +1

      @@wallacerangel616 same, did u do it?

  • @evaristegalois6282
    @evaristegalois6282 5 лет назад +1202

    Lvl 1: *Virgin*
    Lvl 35: *Kissless virgin*
    Lvl 100: *Kissless, hugless virgin*
    *_That's how virginity works_*

    • @evaristegalois6282
      @evaristegalois6282 5 лет назад +35

      This video actually cuts deep ... I've never had a girlfriend before

    • @helloworld2054
      @helloworld2054 5 лет назад +6

      And useless

    • @racingjets1
      @racingjets1 5 лет назад +11

      Does hugging friends of opposite gender count? :P

    • @fusetuber9291
      @fusetuber9291 5 лет назад +20

      lmao looks like I'm level 100000 then

    • @ava5940
      @ava5940 5 лет назад +2

      I'm just level 1

  • @quasicroissant
    @quasicroissant 4 года назад +550

    As a 20-year-old who this was recommended to, I feel personally attacked

    • @zml8025
      @zml8025 4 года назад +17

      the disrespect
      I was just depressing over this situation and youtube litteraly gave me the middle finger

    • @emxjjk
      @emxjjk 4 года назад

      Ok bu same...

    • @dawngrove7053
      @dawngrove7053 4 года назад +3

      Same, I was minding my own business. What the hell, RUclips?

    • @DubidubidubaP
      @DubidubidubaP 4 года назад

      Sameee

    • @priscillaruiz687
      @priscillaruiz687 4 года назад

      Same....

  • @heretic14
    @heretic14 5 лет назад +1891

    Why fall in love when you can fall asleep

  • @dolphrimp
    @dolphrimp 2 года назад +37

    First part is relatable, last part I just tell myself "No, it won't happen. EVER."

  • @jamsnbutters7132
    @jamsnbutters7132 6 лет назад +1960

    How the hell does RUclips know I'm single

    • @Blu3Purple
      @Blu3Purple 6 лет назад +26

      Jams N'butters Youre always here

    • @viaanima577
      @viaanima577 6 лет назад +47

      Maybe because of a crying meme as your profile picture

    • @raihanabasirah
      @raihanabasirah 6 лет назад +1

      samee

    • @raihanabasirah
      @raihanabasirah 6 лет назад +2

      i really want a boyfriend but suddenly this video pop up on my youtube😂

    • @finansium9637
      @finansium9637 6 лет назад

      Jams N'butters tbh

  • @josefagonsalves1951
    @josefagonsalves1951 4 года назад +2501

    Why don't all of us just find a pair in the comments section?! 😂

    • @luluska007
      @luluska007 4 года назад +75

      Great idea 😂

    • @davidltmt3889
      @davidltmt3889 4 года назад +168

      So far the greatest idea of this decade

    • @drogenfeld
      @drogenfeld 4 года назад +66

      everyone here knows that won't happen. And even if everyone did that, it'd be a wonder if it was a good match

    • @nobodycansaveme733
      @nobodycansaveme733 4 года назад +23

      Well I'm single

    • @lil2280
      @lil2280 4 года назад +32

      @@drogenfeld bruh this is a joke 😂

  • @liarmask1759
    @liarmask1759 4 года назад +1186

    I'm tired of being the ugly one ,the unwanted one.......the one who's always losing

    • @priyamvadhas4983
      @priyamvadhas4983 4 года назад +83

      No stop saying that. You are not ugly. God has plans for you. But it will take time. You just have to be patient. When you don't want something you actually get that thing. Just wait more. Love yourself please. If you don't love yourself you can't love others.
      Baby steps okay? Start loving yourself from today. But remember I love you. I truly love you

    • @AswathReacher
      @AswathReacher 4 года назад +29

      Liar Mask don't worry I'm ugly too never have I ever being liked by a girl or anyone.

    • @jamesphillips531
      @jamesphillips531 4 года назад +1

      Do nofap my dude

    • @kiakaffash3039
      @kiakaffash3039 4 года назад +11

      You are not ugly, actually, I believe that no one is ugly. I've been in your place and still am you feel like your ugly and you don't have anything to be proud of and literally nothing to enjoy. I feel this every day but I'm realizing that nothing can help me if I'm not willing to help myself. I mean how can I expect love and acceptance from other people when I don't even love myself. I know all are just old stuff that everyone says it but it is true we don't want to believe it, I don't want to believe it, because not believing it, is much easier than believing it. I'm not like others saying that you will find a one or God has a plan because no matter what everybody tells you if you don't have a plan for yourself or you only think negative nothing is going to happen. I felt lonely and unwanted for the last four years of my life and I'm still feeling it and it feels terrible, these feelings just consume you from inside you have to stop them I'm trying and I know it is hard but nothing is easy in this life :D. You just have to move forward and believe in yourself even if others don't believe you. The only thing that matters is that you believe yourself if you do others gonna believe you too.
      You can do this don't give up

    • @sirkalilak6841
      @sirkalilak6841 4 года назад +1

      Over time, perception will change - and accordingly, things will eventually play out differently than what you are used to.
      Your actions, your passions, your social skills and even your smile - are playing a much bigger role than sheer looks. Sounds cheesy, but that's just how it is.

  • @marinef1422
    @marinef1422 3 года назад +57

    It’s midnight and I’m ugly crying in my bed wondering what it feels like and if it’s going to happen to me at some point. but also thinking what less does I have for that I’m alone since forever. just feel so lonely and frustrated.

    • @swatiee
      @swatiee 3 года назад

      ❤️

    • @cronix1314
      @cronix1314 2 года назад

      how old are you

    • @marinef1422
      @marinef1422 2 года назад

      @@cronix1314 20

    • @cronix1314
      @cronix1314 2 года назад

      @@marinef1422 give me your social media maybe we can try

  • @caricakes
    @caricakes 6 лет назад +5220

    omg the falling in love on public transit I RELATE this was really creative - great work girl!!

    • @Fancynancytv
      @Fancynancytv  6 лет назад +136

      hahah thanks! that's like me every day XD just checking out people on the subway

    • @myfavoritedatingshows
      @myfavoritedatingshows 6 лет назад +174

      Me too, I thought it was weird. Sometimes I don't even want to look at people (when I see a very handsome guy) I don't want my head to imagine things.

    • @milahh6422
      @milahh6422 6 лет назад +2

      same haha

    • @Socialrenaissance
      @Socialrenaissance 6 лет назад +80

      IKRR sometimes i'll just see a cute guy and get all shy but then one of us just walks the other way and i never see him again :(

    • @sevcankara607
      @sevcankara607 6 лет назад +61

      My parents bumped into each other in the bus. My father stalked my mom for months, tried to get her attention everyday. Now they are married for 22 years, they have two children and one dog. And they are pretty pleased with their small happily ever after

  • @ariannalista4069
    @ariannalista4069 6 лет назад +147

    I've found that I tend to act extremely uninterested in someone when I'm actually really interested. Also, if I become friends with them first, I don't want to potentially ruin that friendship by trying to make it into a romantic relationship. Yup, definitely gonna end up alone.

  • @8ri1
    @8ri1 6 лет назад +1708

    Why was this in recommendations?? What is RUclips trying to say?? I feel attacked

    • @saraakhrouf6951
      @saraakhrouf6951 6 лет назад +45

      SSS Bri from the comments section in this video, i concluded that all ARMYS are single, and even youtube recommended this vid for us!!

    • @lilhomeboundx258
      @lilhomeboundx258 6 лет назад +32

      Omg my whole recommendations was bts then this popped up. WTF is youtube trying to say😂😂😂

    • @christianobangnaldo
      @christianobangnaldo 6 лет назад +1

      Sara Akhrouf ikrrr

    • @khadijah5595
      @khadijah5595 6 лет назад +1

      SSS Bri same 😣😂

    • @paintingthemirrors6159
      @paintingthemirrors6159 6 лет назад +8

      ARE YOU JUNGSHOOKED?

  • @user-cr5bx8kd2k
    @user-cr5bx8kd2k 3 года назад +24

    I saw this video when I was 17 first and I thought damn I'm single but maybe by the time I'm 20 things would be different
    Girl you're turning 21 and .....
    Nothing's changed.

  • @DespressoEspresso43
    @DespressoEspresso43 4 года назад +913

    Video: someone is wondering what it’s like to meet someone like you
    Me: *doubt*

    • @nickgior3849
      @nickgior3849 4 года назад +17

      Everybody: doubt

    • @HeyMomonia
      @HeyMomonia 4 года назад +37

      Meet someone like me? Depressed, jobless, virgin, introvert, negative, pessimist, nihilist, no energy, only eat sleep and play video games or watch stupid video, skinny, short
      You sure someone wants this? I don't even want myself

    • @sokolov.legacy
      @sokolov.legacy 4 года назад +3

      @@HeyMomonia fucking same man

    • @ArgonYouTube
      @ArgonYouTube 4 года назад +4

      heymomonia One Damn man, just summed up my existence in a sentence.

    • @ivannguyen7305
      @ivannguyen7305 4 года назад +2

      the43rdGuru X

  • @ashin4299
    @ashin4299 5 лет назад +3620

    People : So for how long have you been single?
    Me: birth
    Edit : 2022 well......im 21 and
    guess what?🤡 still the same lets all cry together

  • @iseegreatness
    @iseegreatness 6 лет назад +965

    As stupid as this is, I feel so much better upon finding this video and reading the comments. I knew I couldn't be the ONLY person who felt this way/was in this position, but to know so MANY of you can relate makes me feel a million times better. All of you deserve love and happiness in life :)

    • @cindyatieno8380
      @cindyatieno8380 6 лет назад +6

      Kimberly Hobson you deserve love and happiness too :)

    • @saka4200
      @saka4200 6 лет назад +8

      AFAVWVQUSHSBAB I'M SCREAMING. I seriously thought IT'S ONLY ME. but when I watch the video and read the comments section,, there are actually people who are just like me...
      The video tho... it's just too accurate.... I fall in love temporarily with dozens of people even with strangers!! Like what the heck!!!

    • @shre9
      @shre9 6 лет назад

      Well.. a lot of us saw ourselves in that video.

    • @cocolovesgod5723
      @cocolovesgod5723 6 лет назад

      Kimberly Hobson i relate 100 % you deserve it as well

    • @lghths
      @lghths 6 лет назад

      😭😘😘😘😘