they ARE little individual human brings...I spanked my children as well as used reward /punishment system with them growing up. now that i have grandchildren, i wish i had let them have more atonomy and respected them more as little people, rather than MY children (almost like MY property ). my daughter does things completely different. she doesn't spank at all. although I still believe some children need it now and again, I do like how she does things.
I also don't understand why they didn't come up with the punishments beforehand, so the child would know exactly what to expect when he misbehaved. I think they were trying to accomplish that; but at one point the smoking mom said next time she came up with a punishment it was going to be extra tough, because the children gave her a tough punishment.
geckomom74 yeah..well there was something wrong with her in general as well as not seeming that involved with the kids as the dad seemed to be the main one involved in all aspects...she seemed a bit slow or something...i honestly thought she was on some type of medication or something at first
and children are hard work! Taking the easy way out is not the best option, although probably the most tempting. I loved watching the little boy melt in his mother's arms when she was holding him. I'm sure when they went back to spanking he didn't get cuddles like that as often.
I agree he is LOVING the positive attention, then again her spanking him had NOTHING to do with actual punishment but just frustration on HER PART! If you set up rules and boundaries it takes a LOT of patience and TIME to enforce them. I think spanking are a GOOD thing but ONLY as a last resort for partially BAD things that could REALLY hurt the child! It shouldn't be the FIRST option or even the third AND the child MUST know WHY it is happening and HOW he could STOP it from happening!
I felt like hitting my child once in her life.. then i took a breather and realised how awful it would be for both of us.. so i didn't. She is now nearly 15 and is the best behaved in her year at school. She is a wonderful person.. so glad i have never hit anyone
I was never hit or spanked. The punishment was my elders' disappointment in me if I misbehaved. All my mother had to do was give me a certain look, with one raised eyebrow, to make me straighten up.
Setting up rules and then following through takes a TON of time and effort for the parents. Spanking or Smacking is the same way, IF you choose to do it as part of a course of punishment for certain behavior you have to do the WARNINGS and stand by your RULES! IF it's done without that I think it plainly doesn't work. In other words the child has to KNOW the consequence AND be given a chance to NOT get the punishment. Growing up I was spanked with a belt or wooden spoon however I ALWAYS knew WHY it happened and it didn't make me afraid of my parents. Of course they also grounded me, took away privileges and other forms of punishment. So in general it wasn't used frequently. I've maybe been spanked 10 times from birth to 14 when it stopped. However I wasn't spanked out of ANGER and frustration EVER!!! I and COMPLETELY knew I DESERVED it and I was WILLING to take the punishment bc your choices have CONSEQUENCES! This of course has served me well in the real world where the consequences to poor choices are MUCH harsher then a spanking!
brilliant Jasmine. I wish everyone had your sensible attitude then we wouldn't have streets full of violent yobs and schools full of children who are practically psychopathic in the UK. Not disciplining children properly is true child abuse. We have a responsibiliy as adults to give them boundaries and safe rules to follow. Smacking shouldn't be done out of anger but children need to learn the seriousness of their bad bahaviour. I think the Christian family seemed to have it about right, you wouldn't expect a random whack from nowhere, you would know very well what you would get if you behaved a certain way. Those kids looked calm and well adjusted.
Aaliyah Dé Valentino I don't know about that...i would say overall they were not very _bad_ parents but I wouldn't say they were overall awesome parents
Just give her the chips it's only chips I would then problem solved just put it in a bowl don't have to give the whole lot. As son having chips both should be allowed.
People seem to try reasoning with a child having a tantrum. With me it was 'I said no and if you carry on, you'll be punished.' No explaining themselves, etc. I was the child, and they were the adult, end of.
Yeah, I don’t plan on using the reward/punishment system on my future kids. In the real world, no one is going to reward you for doing what you need to do. I also won’t punish, but let the natural consequence of their behavior be “punishment” enough.
I can't believe anyone can understand each other with those accents! I can't understand a word from the kids and can't understand a quite bit of the adults.
lj033 well maybe it is *_YOU_* with the problem....certainly you are not so damned arrogant to think that everyone in that world should sound or speak just like you do!!! I understood them just fine!
My mum says she smacked me sometimes when i was a child though i cant remember it,, cant have been that traumatic for me or it would be memorable ? Its not something i think we should say is good to do or be encouraged to do but i dont think smacking is that terrible,, i think there are lots of things parents sometimes do that are worse then occasionally smacking ,, if your a loving parent and listen to them accept them for who they are spend quality time ect show love and encourage your child in what they like to do and teach your child ect the odd smack will not change anything really,, you can be a bad parent even if you never smacked, and a pretty decent one who has smacked,, the problem can be some people go too far with smacking sometimes and this is wrong ect the odd smack wont do any harm , some people can go too far in other ways and end up putting their child in time out for far too long ect you can go too far with lots of things but my opinion is a simple smack that doesnt leave a mark wont hurt them long term if your a good parent in most other ways, although i think its better if you can find other ways as noone likes smacking their kid but sometimes feel like its the only thing left to do which i cant say is wrong of them it might have been the only thing the child actually took notice of
daisy j oh my...do you know what a sentence is or how to use a period?? If you are interested in people reading your opinion or comments you might consider practicing that as it is difficult to read and makes you appear not very well educated which in turn makes people less likely to care about what you have to say...if you don't care about that then maybe you are one that just likes to hear yourself talk (or write in this case but same effect)
I didnt claim to be very educated and i am still interested in others opinions even if they are less intelligent or more so then me , but are you saying that if your not really clever then you cant state an opinion? I am not very educated but your just being rude , anyone can have children so anyone can have an opinion , you dont need a degree to bring one up well
Gina Powell Oh fuck off this is a RUclips comments section not an English class in college if you disagree with some one and you can't even come up with any argument better than "YoU hAve BAd gRamMaR" your the one that's an idiot
@@randommess6667 obviously your reading comprehension skills leave a lot to be desired as well! I never said someone could not have an opinion and I especially did not say that someone could not have an opinion if they were not well educated. By no means was I trying to be rude...I was not condescending nor did I call you names nor cuss you out, etc. I simply made an observation and a suggestion . I won't even comment on what you said about "anyone can have kids" (for the sake of not being rude). If you want people to respect what you say or be interested in it or even if you just want people to be able to read it and understand it then you could at least write proper sentences/use punctuation. You do not have to be highly educated to do this, only have made it through about the 3rd grade.
I just wonder how it feels to these little people looking up to their parents whilst being smacked...ats it gona be when the kids areteenagers onwards,does it mean they will get a punch for misbehaving...I don't agree with it...
Gina Powell I don’t have any children and won’t, but the Canadian government passed a bill to criminalize this domestic corporal punishment. Canada is a torture-free country and that means smacking is outlawed.
my mom says it didn't do her any harm to get a smack as young girl through the 1970s. the law on not being able to smack the children for not behaving isn't right
@@razzdarkstar It's got nothing to do with fighting back. It's about being disciplined for bad behaviour and disobedience, most of which is well deserved. Children need to realise that adults are the ones who are in authority, and that they must submit to the authority of an adult without question. If they don't then they need to realise that there will be consequences. These consequences are either supposed to deter or prevent children from doing the same naughty or disobedient behaviour again. With a lot of kids these days nothing but the threat of getting their bottom smacked will scare them enough to do as they are told when they are told to do it. Some kids stop needing to be smacked by the time that they are 7, others still need to be smacked when they are 17.
The Scottish family is amazing! So much love in that house.
Love the music at the end!
dog walking with Dad as a treat 😊 says it all
Yes indeed it does.
Em LeBlanc agreed
they ARE little individual human brings...I spanked my children as well as used reward /punishment system with them growing up. now that i have grandchildren, i wish i had let them have more atonomy and respected them more as little people, rather than MY children (almost like MY property ). my daughter does things completely different. she doesn't spank at all. although I still believe some children need it now and again, I do like how she does things.
I also don't understand why they didn't come up with the punishments beforehand, so the child would know exactly what to expect when he misbehaved. I think they were trying to accomplish that; but at one point the smoking mom said next time she came up with a punishment it was going to be extra tough, because the children gave her a tough punishment.
geckomom74 yeah..well there was something wrong with her in general as well as not seeming that involved with the kids as the dad seemed to be the main one involved in all aspects...she seemed a bit slow or something...i honestly thought she was on some type of medication or something at first
and children are hard work! Taking the easy way out is not the best option, although probably the most tempting. I loved watching the little boy melt in his mother's arms when she was holding him. I'm sure when they went back to spanking he didn't get cuddles like that as often.
geckomom74 and r
geckomom74 who said they went back to spanking? I must have missed that
I agree he is LOVING the positive attention, then again her spanking him had NOTHING to do with actual punishment but just frustration on HER PART! If you set up rules and boundaries it takes a LOT of patience and TIME to enforce them. I think spanking are a GOOD thing but ONLY as a last resort for partially BAD things that could REALLY hurt the child! It shouldn't be the FIRST option or even the third AND the child MUST know WHY it is happening and HOW he could STOP it from happening!
I felt like hitting my child once in her life.. then i took a breather and realised how awful it would be for both of us.. so i didn't. She is now nearly 15 and is the best behaved in her year at school. She is a wonderful person.. so glad i have never hit anyone
smelly cat you only have one child?? That makes a big difference as far as patience and time goes
it's like the ending to the waltons
Sophie Francis noooo....you think?
Those Scottish kids need to be outside far far more to run off their energy.
Holly Palmer yes
Yes, I agree!
I think this was filmed during the winter
Warwick drier system sound like a good choice to try too
Or supernanny
I noticed no swearing, which was good
I am watching 2020
I was never hit or spanked. The punishment was my elders' disappointment in me if I misbehaved. All my mother had to do was give me a certain look, with one raised eyebrow, to make me straighten up.
Connie Cook well you are the exception
Sad. Parents who beat their children have lost communication with them. Bullies.
Setting up rules and then following through takes a TON of time and effort for the parents. Spanking or Smacking is the same way, IF you choose to do it as part of a course of punishment for certain behavior you have to do the WARNINGS and stand by your RULES! IF it's done without that I think it plainly doesn't work. In other words the child has to KNOW the consequence AND be given a chance to NOT get the punishment. Growing up I was spanked with a belt or wooden spoon however I ALWAYS knew WHY it happened and it didn't make me afraid of my parents. Of course they also grounded me, took away privileges and other forms of punishment. So in general it wasn't used frequently. I've maybe been spanked 10 times from birth to 14 when it stopped. However I wasn't spanked out of ANGER and frustration EVER!!! I and COMPLETELY knew I DESERVED it and I was WILLING to take the punishment bc your choices have CONSEQUENCES! This of course has served me well in the real world where the consequences to poor choices are MUCH harsher then a spanking!
brilliant Jasmine. I wish everyone had your sensible attitude then we wouldn't have streets full of violent yobs and schools full of children who are practically psychopathic in the UK. Not disciplining children properly is true child abuse. We have a responsibiliy as adults to give them boundaries and safe rules to follow. Smacking shouldn't be done out of anger but children need to learn the seriousness of their bad bahaviour. I think the Christian family seemed to have it about right, you wouldn't expect a random whack from nowhere, you would know very well what you would get if you behaved a certain way. Those kids looked calm and well adjusted.
Yep agreed !!
haha a Woolworths bag lol!
Overall these are VERY good parents. Well done :)
Aaliyah Dé Valentino I don't know about that...i would say overall they were not very _bad_ parents but I wouldn't say they were overall awesome parents
Apart from the Christian Family “smAckInG is nOt vIolEnT”
Just give her the chips it's only chips I would then problem solved just put it in a bowl don't have to give the whole lot. As son having chips both should be allowed.
People seem to try reasoning with a child having a tantrum. With me it was 'I said no and if you carry on, you'll be punished.' No explaining themselves, etc. I was the child, and they were the adult, end of.
I just don't like to use because I said so unless there's a fire, people are trying to gives me drugs or try to take me (kidnaping).
Christina B. What??? That made no sense whatsoever!! What in the world were you trying to say??
Yeah, I don’t plan on using the reward/punishment system on my future kids. In the real world, no one is going to reward you for doing what you need to do. I also won’t punish, but let the natural consequence of their behavior be “punishment” enough.
What happened to,part two..?
I can't believe anyone can understand each other with those accents! I can't understand a word from the kids and can't understand a quite bit of the adults.
lj033 well maybe it is *_YOU_* with the problem....certainly you are not so damned arrogant to think that everyone in that world should sound or speak just like you do!!! I understood them just fine!
Sitting smoking in front of the children 🧒
Why do they have 2 be such strict parents all 3 of them?!.
Are you living on another planet? If parents are not strict with their kids then they will grow up to become tomorrow's bullies and criminals.
These people have way too many children.
My mum says she smacked me sometimes when i was a child though i cant remember it,, cant have been that traumatic for me or it would be memorable ? Its not something i think we should say is good to do or be encouraged to do but i dont think smacking is that terrible,, i think there are lots of things parents sometimes do that are worse then occasionally smacking ,, if your a loving parent and listen to them accept them for who they are spend quality time ect show love and encourage your child in what they like to do and teach your child ect the odd smack will not change anything really,, you can be a bad parent even if you never smacked, and a pretty decent one who has smacked,, the problem can be some people go too far with smacking sometimes and this is wrong ect the odd smack wont do any harm , some people can go too far in other ways and end up putting their child in time out for far too long ect you can go too far with lots of things but my opinion is a simple smack that doesnt leave a mark wont hurt them long term if your a good parent in most other ways, although i think its better if you can find other ways as noone likes smacking their kid but sometimes feel like its the only thing left to do which i cant say is wrong of them it might have been the only thing the child actually took notice of
daisy j oh my...do you know what a sentence is or how to use a period?? If you are interested in people reading your opinion or comments you might consider practicing that as it is difficult to read and makes you appear not very well educated which in turn makes people less likely to care about what you have to say...if you don't care about that then maybe you are one that just likes to hear yourself talk (or write in this case but same effect)
I didnt claim to be very educated and i am still interested in others opinions even if they are less intelligent or more so then me , but are you saying that if your not really clever then you cant state an opinion? I am not very educated but your just being rude , anyone can have children so anyone can have an opinion , you dont need a degree to bring one up well
Gina Powell Oh fuck off this is a RUclips comments section not an English class in college if you disagree with some one and you can't even come up with any argument better than "YoU hAve BAd gRamMaR" your the one that's an idiot
@@PrimateProductions i agree with you.x UK😊x
@@randommess6667 obviously your reading comprehension skills leave a lot to be desired as well!
I never said someone could not have an opinion and I especially did not say that someone could not have an opinion if they were not well educated.
By no means was I trying to be rude...I was not condescending nor did I call you names nor cuss you out, etc. I simply made an observation and a suggestion .
I won't even comment on what you said about "anyone can have kids" (for the sake of not being rude).
If you want people to respect what you say or be interested in it or even if you just want people to be able to read it and understand it then you could at least write proper sentences/use punctuation. You do not have to be highly educated to do this, only have made it through about the 3rd grade.
Paloma knows her mam can’t smack her so she is using that to push her to the limit
Heck no parents need to quit spending money to make kids behave bills first and save none of that foolishness
I just wonder how it feels to these little people looking up to their parents whilst being smacked...ats it gona be when the kids areteenagers onwards,does it mean they will get a punch for misbehaving...I don't agree with it...
Kids need to respect the authority of adults without question. These kids didn't respect their parents' authority, that's why they were given smacks.
@@darrenmiles-morland8038 and that's not the right way to get them to respect their authority either
I’m okay with not having kids really to many people in world anyway
Some kids are really hard to raise and fight you on evrything kids like that need a smack.
Yes they do
Jackie sounds monged
Gina Cable was she the mom of the Winn (Wynn?) Family?
Smacking is assault under any circumstances
Liam Watson oh whatever
Liam Watson how many children so you have?
Gina Powell I don’t have any children and won’t, but the Canadian government passed a bill to criminalize this domestic corporal punishment. Canada is a torture-free country and that means smacking is outlawed.
Rubbish
@@liamwatson5125 smacking is not torture, get a grip
They lodst control heck no my kid will never punish me
Good old tatts
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my mom says it didn't do her any harm to get a smack as young girl through the 1970s.
the law on not being able to smack the children for not behaving isn't right
Neil Daw So do you believe you should be able to smack adults? No? Then why is it OK to hit a being much less capable of fighting back.
if I started screaming like that kid on this video my pa would given me a smack and sent me to my room my is no longer with us jhollick
Jj Hh I would have gotten more than a smack I would have gotten my ass beat..not saying that's ok just saying...
@@razzdarkstar It's got nothing to do with fighting back. It's about being disciplined for bad behaviour and disobedience, most of which is well deserved. Children need to realise that adults are the ones who are in authority, and that they must submit to the authority of an adult without question. If they don't then they need to realise that there will be consequences. These consequences are either supposed to deter or prevent children from doing the same naughty or disobedient behaviour again. With a lot of kids these days nothing but the threat of getting their bottom smacked will scare them enough to do as they are told when they are told to do it. Some kids stop needing to be smacked by the time that they are 7, others still need to be smacked when they are 17.
Their house is soo messy not to be rude..
Kitty Cat how many children do you have? How many square feet is your house??
I can’t stand messy houses
Send a photo of your home.
They need supernanny
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