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  • @robchurch881
    @robchurch881 Год назад +123

    When I was dating as a heterosexual adult man of 49. I was on the dating apps and kept matching with Trans women not one after another but about 5 over 3 weeks.
    Some of them were actually way better looking then the women I was matching with. Also, many had breast surgery but were preoperative down below. Each time I said no thanks, they would fly off the handle.
    I finally asked one of them, why they didn't just go to a gay dating site and he replied, "why would I do that, I am not gay"! But wait, you still have man parts and you are attracted to men, doesn't that mean you umm, are gay? I guess not. Because it started yelling at me and insulting me.
    I found out that as a heterosexual male who enjoys vajayjay, I am not allowed to dislike the "D". If I do, I am transphobic, I have a mental disorder, and I need therapy to get my mind straight. Wait! You were a woman who claims to be born in a man's body and I am the one with the mental disorder? I am the one that needs therapy because I was actually born in the same body thar my mind says is the right one? The fact that I actually want a woman who was born as a woman makes me the one in the wrong? So I had to go to a therapist just to get help to figure out that conversation. Then my therapist had to go see his therapist. We were even more confused.

    • @emilianosintarias7337
      @emilianosintarias7337 Год назад +20

      I guarantee you are American or Canadian or something. In most of the world, transwomen openly say they are not “ real women”, and have no problem with being turned down over it, as long as it’s polite. No drama.

    • @jeffreiland7463
      @jeffreiland7463 Год назад +20

      @Rob Church --- "they would fly off the handle" because they're nuts. Any further analysis is counter productive.

    • @LadyDoomsinger
      @LadyDoomsinger Год назад

      Straight guy: "Go on a gay dating site, we don't want you here, because you're a guy!"
      Gay guy: "Go on a straight dating site, we don't want you here, because you're not a guy!"
      Straight woman: "Go on a gay dating site, we don't want you here, because you're not a guy!"
      Gay woman: "Go on a straight dating site, we don't want you here because you're a guy!"
      And people wonder why trans people don't feel accepted.

    • @robchurch881
      @robchurch881 Год назад +23

      @@LadyDoomsinger why is it everyone else job to accept a Trans person? I don't agree with accepting all people and as a straight man, I definitely don't want to date or be around a Trans person. If you want to call me transphobic, that's fine, I've been called worse by better people. It is not my problem that a Trans person is broken at birth. I don't give a crap. I am not gay, so I do not date someone that has the same male parts as I do. I am not going to change my speech patterns to use their pronouns because their feelings do not matter to me. If a Trans person wants to be accepted, hang out with other Trans people. Even as a heterosexual, adult man, do you think everyone accepts me? No they don't. Am I going to walk around crying like a baby over it? No I'm an adult.

    • @robchurch881
      @robchurch881 Год назад +2

      @@emilianosintarias7337 yes, I am American.

  • @TwistedSisterHaratiofales
    @TwistedSisterHaratiofales Год назад +16

    (Robert Downey Jr.) I'm a dude that's pretending to be a dude that's playing a different dude.

  • @Hilariumosis
    @Hilariumosis Год назад +8

    I've said and heard trans-sexual for 15+ years. "Transgender" is new to me. A lot of gender terms have been new to me the past 2 years or so.

  • @paulhampton2087
    @paulhampton2087 Год назад +9

    Hey Momo, Bill now has a Star Wars figure because he was in The Mandalorian tv series. Getcha' one. 😆

  • @TwistedSisterHaratiofales
    @TwistedSisterHaratiofales Год назад +69

    I have 3 different shades of red hair in my beard to my surprise I found out that I was a Trans-Ginger.

    • @BigDaddyMoMo1
      @BigDaddyMoMo1  Год назад +9

      How awful

    • @skillaxxx
      @skillaxxx Год назад +11

      No worries, it will turn into 50 shades of gray over time...

    • @kinghur
      @kinghur Год назад

      @@BigDaddyMoMo1 wow, gingerphobe

    • @christopherherrle8589
      @christopherherrle8589 Год назад +1

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    • @JoseRodriguez-um8jm
      @JoseRodriguez-um8jm Год назад +4

      You might have some Irish inside you 😂

  • @clevelandcbi
    @clevelandcbi Год назад +15

    *"SHE* wanted to take things slow."
    Me: "Uh oh"

  • @majrgaming2633
    @majrgaming2633 Год назад +43

    Imagine being part of a group that promotes acceptance of different sexual preferences and not excepting someone’s sexual preference, fuckin wild, isn’t trying to pressure someone into being attracted to u without their consent verbal sexual harassment and in some cases sexual assault? All from the people who are “fighting rape culture”, it’s fuckin wonderful ain’t it

    • @yourenotthatguypal99
      @yourenotthatguypal99 Год назад

      Well said.

    • @sirsir90
      @sirsir90 Год назад

      Excepting ? U mean accepting Really smh

    • @majrgaming2633
      @majrgaming2633 Год назад +2

      @@sirsir90 Says the guy who capitalized “really” mid sentence with no punctuation

    • @xx3astmanxx928
      @xx3astmanxx928 Год назад

      @@majrgaming2633 And too lazy to type Y and O as well 🤣😂😂🤣😂

  • @captaindeliciouspants6910
    @captaindeliciouspants6910 Год назад +9

    Letting it go that far along is wrong point blank no matter how well you seem to be "passing" you know the truth and eventually the other person will find out. Once you're entertaining getting physical its dangerous some dude will inevitably have a very harsh reaction or verge of a mental break and someone will get hurt

  • @marcosanchezjr.7222
    @marcosanchezjr.7222 Год назад +2

    “Balls in your court, no pun intended.” 🤣 I just died.

  • @tarrker
    @tarrker Год назад +3

    Ok so, "sex" is meant to refer to physical attributes while "gender" is meant to refer to mental attributes. Thus a transexual person should be someone who has or wants to change their physical attributes while a transgender person would be someone that has mental attributes that contradict their physical parts. That's the literal definition. Realistically, however, people often use these terms interchangeably and get REALLY defensive about them due to their own, preconceived notions of the words. Also, they kinda both mean the same thing...
    So, at the end of the day, it's probably better if everyone just uses the term "trans". LoL :)

  • @cdronk
    @cdronk Год назад +2

    I dated a trans woman once. They were attractive in their photo, and they were upfront about it, so I thought why not? Once I met them, I could see the man underneath the makeup and the wig, and the hormone shots. I couldn't do it. No harm on their end though. They were honest about it. To be deceived like the guy in this story would have truly angered me. It seems the Trans woman is really putting her life at risk by this behaviour.

  • @BasementPepperoni
    @BasementPepperoni Год назад +7

    Straight up, if someone is "trans" or whatever is trendy these days, if that person does not tell whoever they're dating that they're not trans and waits until the last minute like this, then yea it's not only fucked up but it also makes you a predator.
    By not telling that person who or what you really are, then all you're doing is lying to them just so you can be romantically involved. You know, just like some people do on social media when they pretend to be someone they're not as a way to reel in some shallow rube to bang. It's like "Catfishing" but worse IMO, and I'm absolutely positive that 9/10 people would agree with that. Seriously though, what do these people expect is going to happen when they do this? Do they think that they're going to be able to guilt trip them into sleeping with or dating them? Or try to "shame" them as a "transphobe" if they're not down with someone willfully and BLATANTLY lying to them?
    You see, that's the thing about these kinds of people. They're so narcissistic and live in such a warped reality that they're completely incapable of seeing someone else's point of view, and nobody else's opinion or view matters. IF someone was to do this same exact thing to one of them, then it would be THE END OF THE WORLD. They would get on social media and lie for clout about being a "victim" or a "survivor" of almost being "assaulted" or some other clout chasing, perpetual victim clout shenanigans.

  • @robertutes4850
    @robertutes4850 Год назад +5

    well said, the light should shine on what you said about "why can they be who they want to be, but we can't" the culture now seems to be that if you're straight you're not right, the bottom line is that it doesn't matter what they wish to call themselves, you were either born a Female or a Male - that is all. But i will not allow them to make me feel guilty for being straight, I don't answer to them and I don't have to defend my position or my thoughts about it to them, nor should anyone else, God gave us all free will.

  • @peterhudson23
    @peterhudson23 Год назад +25

    Completely agree with you when it comes to dating a trans person; it's just not something I'm interested in the same way I'm not interested in dating a man. It's something people should absolutely be open about when it comes to going out with people, and it's kind of a betrayal of trust if they aren't.
    Obviously (I hope) I'm not saying they are "lesser than" or anything, but it should be okay if it's not something you're into; and with that acknowledged, my sexuality or preferences shouldn't be considered "lesser than" either.
    So a little mutual respect when it comes to all that would be nice

    • @lolocaust4967
      @lolocaust4967 Год назад +2

      Exactly this. I've heard some trans women say they shouldn't have to tell anyone they are trans.
      Well what if I want to start a family? You've just wasted a large chunk of my life with an expectation that can never be a reality. To alter someone's life in that way at best is disrespectful.
      In fact a lot of them get off on tricking people. So much so it has its own term. They call it stealthing. That's a really worrying mindset to have.

    • @tozu777
      @tozu777 Год назад

      @@lolocaust4967 Stealthing sounds about par for the course; based on what I've heard. There are good people in the trans community but they get drowned out by the negative influences. The kind that have started to pop up in schools as of late.
      Apparently laws and curriculums are changing in various states where they introduce the topics to kids. From one video I saw compiling information on the topic; they're trying to influence kids behind the parents' backs. You can watch the documentary: "What is a woman?" to get more info.
      While I'm not against the idea of transitioning, I'd advise people to look into what others have gone through first. Just get an idea of what their jumping into first because it sounds like shark infested waters.

    • @miken.2847
      @miken.2847 Год назад

      There would be a benefit to dating a trans. Until the hormones started to get pumped into their blood stream, you'd be able to have a rational conversation with them.
      After the estrogen gets skyrocketed, logic and sense of humor goes out the window.

    • @RoninDave
      @RoninDave Год назад

      @@lolocaust4967 not telling someone they were a different gender seems like a rather large trust issue. The chances they won't eventually find out is unlikely such as missing photos of their childhood, etc... It's dishonest

    • @maxxandubar503
      @maxxandubar503 Год назад

      @@RoninDave luckily you can usually alwwys tell.

  • @jeffreiland7463
    @jeffreiland7463 Год назад +7

    Geez! In the not to distant past, (like 10 years) the word transexual was used to make a distinction between someone who had actually undergone surgery and a man who just liked to dress like a woman. That was called a transvestite This whole issue was also almost always addressed in the context of man to woman, and very few people ever even used the term "gender." It was basically interchangeble with the word "sex". And it still is to a lot of people. ..... like me. Most people have the memory of a flea. And I don't know why Burr is playing dumb. He damn well knows this.

    • @lolocaust4967
      @lolocaust4967 Год назад +1

      They do have the memory of a flea. They often forget that the term Gender was made up by a paedophile Dr John Money. He forced one of a pair of twins to undergo reassignment and then photographed them simulating sex acts.
      They both committed suicide after what he'd put them through.

    • @jeffreiland7463
      @jeffreiland7463 Год назад

      @@lolocaust4967 --- You have hit on the whole purpose of this entire issue. The end game is to normalize pedophilia. The narrative will go something like this. ----- " If a young person 8, 10, 12 years old, can make the decision to surgically transform or change his or her sex, .... surely they have the right to choose who they want to have sex with." Bet on it.

    • @ramaslambert7200
      @ramaslambert7200 Год назад +2

      I'm not judging your criticism of Bill but being only 1 percent or less of the population are either/or. It is not that well known unless you are looking for it.

    • @jeffreiland7463
      @jeffreiland7463 Год назад

      @@ramaslambert7200 ---- Are you drunk or on meth? Your post to me doesn't even make sense.

    • @ramaslambert7200
      @ramaslambert7200 Год назад +1

      @@jeffreiland7463 hA! Here is another lol!! Have a good day sir/ma'am

  • @paulm8830
    @paulm8830 11 месяцев назад +1

    The first time I saw Bill Burr doing stand up I recognized his voice from something on TV . It was Breaking Bad .

  • @thucnguyen9559
    @thucnguyen9559 Год назад +1

    I just found your channel and love your reactions. Bill is hilarious .I like your personal story.

  • @TrashBoat11
    @TrashBoat11 Год назад

    One of the things I've heard you say in your New York accent that lives in my head rent free is the word "Cancer".
    "Can-seh" It kills me every time when I hear somebody say it or on a commercial announcement thing🤣🤣

  • @redukos
    @redukos Год назад +9

    I get where she's coming from, but that could've end up WAAAYY differently. Most dudes would've got pretty angry, some would've even beat her up, I'm glad it ended up the way it did.
    But uhm....I bet he's gonna hit that ass and hide it from his friends 😂
    Oh, and we love you too Big Durty !

    • @haunterdragon4580
      @haunterdragon4580 Год назад +2

      He sounded like 80% into it like the meatballs are the only thing making him second guess 😂

  • @RoarTheRapper
    @RoarTheRapper Год назад +1

    Ayo, I totally hear you about dating frustrations. I've never felt more at peace with my life and even have a basis to start loving myself when I wasn't clawing my way into "being good enough" in a relationship. No disrespect to women, it's just the whole culture of nitpicking each other and disrespecting each other is so damn stupid.

  • @J.P1981
    @J.P1981 Год назад +3

    Oh that's how you know you love someone, getting a cardboard cutout of the one.

  • @vovindequasahi
    @vovindequasahi 10 месяцев назад

    When you said, "There'd be no slappage of the meatballs" I spit out my drink laughing!! Hahahahaa EXCELLENT! *cue Mr. Burns gif here*

  • @belkoreth
    @belkoreth Год назад +3

    I lived in Kentucky for a couple years ages ago. One of my best friends there was this huge black dude. But yes, only black dude I remember there

  • @BuzzingRocks
    @BuzzingRocks 8 месяцев назад +1

    Be honest from the beginning. People really need to think before making life changing choices like changing sex, it is not a comfortable road to go down. Rejection is a part of life, take the good with the bad. I know being rejected does not make a person feel good but that is life, Rejection is part of that life.

  • @RandomRoger
    @RandomRoger Год назад +2

    I may be incorrect so correct me if I'm wrong, but from my understanding, transsexual is with the operation. Transgender is without the operation. Like I said I'm just an old hetero male so I don't know all the proper designations but that's my understanding.

    • @BigDaddyMoMo1
      @BigDaddyMoMo1  Год назад

      Ohhhh thank you. I was just as confused lol

    • @Beefnhammer
      @Beefnhammer Год назад

      Those are the correct definitions, but I'm pretty sure the term 'transsexual' isn't really used anymore and all trans people with or without surgery are just called transgender or trans. From what I understand, surgeries are rare these days and most of them opt to just take hormones and change how they dress, but keep the plumbing they were born with.

  • @matthewdisbrow507
    @matthewdisbrow507 Год назад +1

    I have not saw anymore videos from you BidDaddyMoMo. I wonder if you have called it quits. Best of wishes, I hope everything works out for you in your life.

  • @serelryk5365
    @serelryk5365 Год назад +5

    It's hard to say without knowing the specifics. Personally, if I was seeing someone in the sense of a potential relationship, who was trans, I'd want to be told before things got physical. Even if it was just kissing. It just seems more considerate. According to the guy, they were taking things slow, and things got hot and heavy while they were out one night and started making out. I don't know if that was their first time kissing each other or not. But I can understand maybe not having the best judgement when you've got a few drinks in you and sparks are flying. So maybe she normally would have told him before things got that far, but things escalated while they were out and having some drinks.
    Stuff like that can be hard to judge when is the best time to divulge certain information to someone you're interested in. Part of me is like "Yeah, it's good to be open and honest right from the get-go. If you're concerned that something about you is going to be a potential deal-breaker, then better to just get it out of the way so that you don't waste each other's time, or someone ends up getting invested and then hurt or disappointed." But on the other hand, you don't want to just lay *all* of your cards out on the table right from the start, because that could understandably put someone off.
    Let's say that the guy is an alcoholic, but has been sober for 7 years. Would he really want to tell you that on a first date right off the bat lol? I mean if you've been seeing each other for a little while, and you can see that he's clean and has his act together, and *then* he told you, it might land better than if he'd just told you about his history of addiction immediately. Or what if you're a woman who is physically unable to bear children? What if the guy is someone who really wants to have kids eventually, and would strongly prefer them to be his own biological kids. Eventually you should tell him, just in case it's going to be a problem for him. But it might be kind of random and awkward to just lay that out there right when you're meeting up together for the very first time over coffee or something lol.
    I think I can understand why someone might be hesitant to reveal that they're trans *immediately.* But I do think that it should definitely be divulged very early. Like right after the hint that there might be something beyond just playful flirting between you. I'm unsure about the dating app scene though. I mean the fact that you're meeting that way and messaging each other in the first place implies that you're both at least considering something with each other. I don't know really. I can understand the stance of maybe it should just be right there on their profile, just so that no one wastes their time. But on the other hand, I could also understand them maybe wanting to have a couple of messages or a conversation or two with someone first before telling them.

  • @patrickjohnson9175
    @patrickjohnson9175 Год назад

    Yes this would have been a difficult situation to deal with but I stand with you on the being upfront with each other in a dating situation
    I just recently found your Channel and have been enjoying your reactions to Bill Burr because he is so funny

  • @braddicken6776
    @braddicken6776 Год назад

    Hey MoMo. I'm an old Texan but absolutely am in love with you. (not in the creepy way :))You and your channel are wonderful. Keep it up. Best reactor I've seen.

  • @BradAaronTaylor
    @BradAaronTaylor Год назад

    Cannot believe I've only _just_ discovered Momo. Best reactor on youtube, fr.. (that laugh 😍😩).
    Beautiful.

  • @MichaelWilliams-dp2lk
    @MichaelWilliams-dp2lk Год назад +2

    In full agreement but that community is no longer accepting of anyone that doesn't accept them or agree with them. It's like, you are either with is or against us for most of them. I've never been called transphobic in my life because of my personal preference, until the last 5-10 years.

  • @ESUSAMEX
    @ESUSAMEX Год назад +4

    I would tell him/her that it is over. I love woman and he/she is not a woman.

  • @stevetrap8220
    @stevetrap8220 Год назад +2

    Big daddy Moooo best looking reactor everrrr 😁 keep the Bill Burr cominnn

  • @alexkaen1701
    @alexkaen1701 Год назад +1

    Sadly, the issue is fairly simple: Medical science cannot change a male to female or vice versa. It's only cosmetic, they can't do full gender reassignment because gender goes down to the DNA. Plus, everyone has the right to their own preferences.

  • @MrJools70
    @MrJools70 Год назад

    Absolutely agree with you on the disclosure,that is a game changer and understandably upsetting

  • @californiacentralcoast649
    @californiacentralcoast649 11 месяцев назад

    "LIKE A BARBIE". My new favorite line.......... And you're pretty smart too.

  • @pepelapiu2004
    @pepelapiu2004 11 месяцев назад

    Now you know what it's like to be a white man, asking a black guy with a thick African accent where he is from, and get called a racist.

  • @klk1900
    @klk1900 Год назад

    So idk why I thought of this but in the Bible: Galatians 3:28: “There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is no male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.” - I’m not religious but I read all the books because they have good advice. Don’t think of it in context or with religion just think about what that means. “you are all one”. So hell sounds like advice that would generate peace and unity. I dont support the child abuse where they transition children who don’t know what sexuality even is. But if your an adult that wants to transition or change that’s your business in a free country. But understand it’s usually caused from a void in your heart usually trauma or parents were not emotionally available so you start craving acceptance in different ways. Also people that lack self worth have been transitioning left and right. Unfortunately people don’t wanna help them because they feel the world is over populated so they wanna transition people so they are literally sterile or neutered. That’s why the dems are pushing it on kids who know nothing about sexuality. It’s also why they allowed roe vs wade to over turn. They don’t need abortion anymore since they are achieving population control via the LGTBQ movement. This is why the dems are having doctors transition 5yr olds because they wanna make them sterile so they can’t reproduce because again they feel the world is over populated. - this is why the majority of the 79Million raised by BLM the majority went to transgenders and paying for operations and transitions they are serious about population control which is what abortion was for except in a racist way since abortion targeted black females. White females didn’t get targeted and abused mentally by planned parent hood as black females were.

  • @joecatapano710
    @joecatapano710 Год назад

    Absolutely love your videos ☺️. Forgive me but are you from Brooklyn? My god i love it! Stay true and always be yourself 😉

  • @seang9450
    @seang9450 Год назад

    Lol farm raised😂🤣. That's funny asf! U should react to the Philly hotel in upper Darby bit. Classic bill burr!

  • @ttooooll24
    @ttooooll24 Год назад

    Hey Momo, you were really good as April in Hot Tub Time Machine.

  • @hardlymovinson9405
    @hardlymovinson9405 Год назад

    This guy didn’t listen to the FULL hot/crazy matrix briefing. He didn’t hear the “over a 9 hot, and under a 4 crazy” part.
    Poor guy. Howeverrrrr, he did learn about the FAFO matrix. He fucked around (well almost) and then he found out. 😂

  • @TwistedSisterHaratiofales
    @TwistedSisterHaratiofales Год назад +6

    I love buying a new car and finding out you have a full size spare tire in the trunk!

  • @frankmustermann7272
    @frankmustermann7272 Год назад

    great reaction, thanks. With these two examples, I'm wondering why
    (well, I know why, because it restricts the "prey scheme".)
    these people don't write in their profiles, for example: ..."I'm a transman/woman looking for "preference "...that would prevent misunderstandings and heartbreak.

  • @FergusScotchman
    @FergusScotchman Год назад

    I had a similar thing where a newspaper personals (yes, before widespread internet) response got me a date. Went to dinner, and she was really polite, but I had just a twinge of detecting something off. She told me, and I said I was flattered, but that's not what I'm looking for, and we finished dinner and had a nice conversation. I've also gone with my wife's gay friends to clubs and stuff. Let me just say that I'm glad I had "official" gay men to point out which hot-as-hell chicks weren't chicks at all. Lol. Like, I can see where you might actually in that situation say "what the f*ck" and go for it.

  • @zakfrisch2997
    @zakfrisch2997 Год назад +5

    Momo! Where've you been? I've missed your content! 🤣 Hope to see more!
    Edit: also 100% on your closing thoughts. I can admit I got matched with someone who was trans and it's like... I respect it, but you're basically lying and catfishing me. There definitely should be another category.

    • @serelryk5365
      @serelryk5365 Год назад

      @Mezjean I sympathize to an extent with transgender people. I say "to an extent" because the key word for me is still "people". If you're transgender then you have the same potential to be either an awesome person, a complete piece of crap, or anything in-between, same as someone who isn't trans. Being trans tells me nothing about you other than you're trans.
      All that being said: I don't think that people who are biologically male should have any business playing competitive physical sports with people who are biologically female. They created the WNBA etc for a reason, and every sane and rational person knows what that reason is.
      They also created a Special Olympics so that people who are physically challenged could still play and compete on fair terms. I think the answer to the question "Why don't they just create a Trans Olympics (etc)?" is because there wouldn't be enough trans athletes available to even merit holding the event. And that's just the simple truth of it. Is it sad for trans athletes? Sure. I think so. But it isn't fair that biological female athletes should have to suffer for it.

  • @ghefley
    @ghefley Год назад

    The term "transsexual" refers to a person who identifies as a gender different from the sex they were assigned at birth. Transsexual people may experience a deep sense of discomfort or dysphoria with their physical body and the gender roles and expectations associated with their assigned sex. Many transsexual people seek medical interventions such as hormone therapy and gender confirmation surgery to help align their physical body with their gender identity. It's important to note that transsexual people are a part of the larger transgender community, which includes people whose gender identity differs from the gender they were assigned at birth in a variety of ways.

  • @bobhenry6159
    @bobhenry6159 Год назад +1

    20:00 It seems many Trans people like to tell others that body parts shouldn't matter, but they go thru a whole lot to change their parts. Talk about hypocrisy.

  • @GlaciusTS
    @GlaciusTS Год назад +10

    Honestly, I get it. If I were bamboozled like that, I’d be sore about it, but at the same time, I’d get it. It’s not as simple as fear of rejection for them. How many times has a friend told me growing up that if someone tricked them like that, they’d kick the shit out of them. That’s not me, I wouldn’t be able to just jump into bed with them, but I also wouldn’t necessarily blame them for being afraid to come forward. I know that the person I am now couldn’t hate them for it, or really blame them, it’s just the shit reality they live in, and yeah it’s unfortunate for me too. But I know the person I am now isn’t really looking for something like that. Call me Transphobic if need be, it honestly would just lessen the impact of the word if you did, but I grew up with a specific definition for what a woman is, and for me at least, the definition has always been the more important part of what a thing is, not the word behind it. So yeah, you ARE a woman now, by definition, and I’m cool with that. But you are not what that word had always meant to me growing up, and that’s the part I’m looking for, not 5 letters. And another thing I can tell you is that while you are a woman, the original definition of “man” still exists, and that means that by definition, you are biologically a man, regardless of whether or not you have a claim to being a woman. So if I’m sitting there and looking at someone that is both a man and a woman, and not the kind of woman I was looking for, I’m not going to be able to just throw caution to the wind and give you the answer you want right away. Maybe if I REALLY like you, I might come around to it, honestly I’ve never been in that position to find out. All I can say is that right now, that sort of thing isn’t what I’d want from somebody, but I get it and I do think that if I genuinely cared about them, I wouldn’t just ghost them. It has to be a very lonely existence. I wouldn’t want to hurt them and I do support their rights and efforts to be who they want to be and I recognize the struggle. But I grew up under certain conditions and understood certain things to be what a man or a woman is, those neurons are like roots and they go deep. My head just isn’t there, and I can’t say for certain if it ever will be. But I do wish them the best and I hope they find the happiness they fight for. 🤷‍♂️

    • @lazyboylarry4345
      @lazyboylarry4345 Год назад +2

      Why don't you be more descriptive?!

    • @drewj128
      @drewj128 Год назад

      Could I please get this in long form?? 🤔 I HATE short comments

    • @GlaciusTS
      @GlaciusTS Год назад +1

      @@drewj128 Sure, here’s an essay about what I said written from an external perspective:
      The topic of gender identity and its relation to personal and societal definitions of gender has been a source of controversy and confusion for many individuals. The passage in question showcases one person's struggles with reconciling their personal understanding of gender with someone else's gender identity. While the author expresses sympathy towards the struggles of those whose gender identities do not align with societal norms, they also acknowledge the deeply ingrained roots of their own understanding of gender, which makes it difficult for them to fully accept and understand someone else's gender identity.
      The author begins by expressing understanding towards someone who may feel bamboozled in a situation where their understanding of someone's gender identity is challenged. However, they also acknowledge that fear of rejection is not the only reason why someone may hesitate to disclose their gender identity. The author notes that they personally would not react with violence, but they also understand why others may feel angry or frustrated in such a situation.
      The author then goes on to explain that their own understanding of gender is rooted in their upbringing and the definitions of gender they were taught growing up. They acknowledge that while they are aware that someone else's gender identity may not conform to these definitions, it is still difficult for them to fully comprehend it. The author specifically states that the definition of what a woman is, for them at least, is more important than the word itself.
      The author then moves on to the idea that someone can be both a man and a woman, biologically speaking. While they understand the importance of gender identity and the rights of individuals to define their own gender, they also recognize that their personal understanding of gender is tied to biology. They note that if they were faced with someone whose gender identity does not align with their personal understanding of what a woman is, they may not be able to immediately accept them as a romantic partner.
      However, the author does express sympathy towards those whose gender identities do not align with societal norms. They recognize that it can be a lonely and difficult existence, and they would not want to hurt someone in that situation. They also express support for the rights of individuals to define their own gender and the struggles they may face in doing so.
      Overall, the passage represents a common struggle that many individuals face when it comes to understanding and accepting gender identity. While the author expresses sympathy and support for those whose gender identities do not conform to societal norms, they also acknowledge the deeply ingrained roots of their own understanding of gender. This struggle highlights the need for more education and understanding about gender identity and the importance of respecting individual choices and definitions of gender.

    • @drewj128
      @drewj128 Год назад

      @@GlaciusTS I need a more detailed description of things noone should care about 🤔 Now, easily obtaining affective mental therapy, is something we should ALL actually get behind and support

    • @GlaciusTS
      @GlaciusTS Год назад +2

      @@drewj128 Pocket lint may seem like a harmless and insignificant substance that accumulates in the pockets of our clothing. However, the truth is that pocket lint can pose a range of dangers to our health and well-being if left unchecked.
      One of the most immediate dangers of pocket lint is the risk of fire. Lint is highly flammable, and if it accumulates in large amounts in your pockets, it can easily ignite if exposed to a spark or flame. This can lead to serious burns, injuries, or even death if you are not careful. In fact, according to the National Fire Protection Association, clothing dryers are responsible for more than 15,000 fires in the United States each year, many of which are caused by lint buildup.
      Another danger of pocket lint is its potential to cause skin irritation or infection. Lint can harbor bacteria and other microorganisms, which can lead to skin irritation, rashes, or even infections. This is especially true if you have an open wound or a compromised immune system. In some cases, pocket lint can also cause allergic reactions or respiratory problems if it contains certain types of fibers or dust.
      In addition to health risks, pocket lint can also damage your clothing and other items. Lint can accumulate in the seams and crevices of your clothing, causing them to wear out more quickly or become damaged over time. It can also damage electronic devices or other small items that you carry in your pockets, such as your phone or keys. Lint can clog up the ports and buttons of these devices, making them less effective or even causing them to malfunction.
      Perhaps the most insidious danger of pocket lint is its ability to accumulate over time. If you do not regularly clean out your pockets, lint can build up to the point where it becomes a serious problem. This can lead to a range of health and safety risks, as well as damage to your clothing and other items. It is therefore important to take steps to prevent pocket lint from accumulating in the first place.
      One way to reduce the risk of pocket lint is to avoid carrying loose items in your pockets. If you must carry small items such as coins or keys, use a keyring or other holder to keep them organized and prevent them from accumulating in your pockets. You should also consider carrying a small lint brush or roller with you, which can help to remove lint and other debris from your clothing and prevent it from building up.

  • @ramaslambert7200
    @ramaslambert7200 Год назад +1

    This situation is almost like somebody having a STD and not telling you that you have it and then they tell you. Then you go to the doctor and get tested to find out and it takes 3 days. You have to reflect on how many times you looked at her in a sexual way and how many times you kissed her or even held her hand as well. People can easily be confused. Truth is though if he can't get passed her man parts he needs to leave her and tell her to move on. The longer you wait the more emotionally connected she is gonna be to him. Surgery or not it does not matter because when the clothes come off and the Johnson is there she might be insulted you can't perform as well also. As much as someone that is transgender might feel disphoria it can be just as bad if you feel like you are with a dude and not a female. He just needs to leave it alone.

  • @jasonslayer1717
    @jasonslayer1717 Год назад

    Lol @ "farm raised, organic". I love me some Big Duuuurty! 🤣

  • @NanarsBananars
    @NanarsBananars Год назад

    "Extensive Eye Contact" it's official then for sure 😂

  • @walteralcaraz5898
    @walteralcaraz5898 Год назад +1

    The terminology may be confusing for many and is often misapplied. "Transgender" is the term we all have come to know. A man identifying as woman, or a woman identifying as a man. "Transsexual" was a term often used in the 1980s and 1990s, and early 2000s. Old medical dramas used that term frequently. Only recently (the last 15 years) has it become supplanted by transgender. The transsexual term now comes to mean a transgender person that has undergone the full sex reassignment surgery. So, the original genitalia is removed and reconstructed to have as much as the other sex as possible. Obviously, a transsexual woman, who was once a man, cannot bear children as there is no uterus construction. Now, a transsexual man, once a woman, can possibly still bear children, as there is a uterus in some instances. It depends on the surgery. Some surgeries remove it, others keep it. In either case, the ovaries are definitely removed. The patient may choose to have some eggs frozen for possible later use. Then there are post-op hormone therapies to keep things going. Either testosterone or estrogen injections on a regular basis. Thus, this transsexual woman, if the term is properly used, has no male genitalia anymore. It is as close to female genitalia as possible, without the uterus. She probably receives estrogen injections regularly to keep the post-op female look going.

  • @l.piloto7964
    @l.piloto7964 11 месяцев назад

    I know what you mean it is like not only do you have to do a background check for criminal proclivities but now you have to check sex at on birth certificate. The Crocodile Dundee check just doesn't cut it anymore.

  • @shawngroganwhatifs
    @shawngroganwhatifs Год назад +3

    I,m from Tennessee we call you fell for the okie doke guy seems to be okay with it he wants to explore

    • @shawngroganwhatifs
      @shawngroganwhatifs Год назад

      Thanks for the like if that was you liking the comments and may you have a blessed day

  • @petepuchalski3253
    @petepuchalski3253 Год назад +3

    Is your chair nailed down ? Lol

  • @launchsquid
    @launchsquid Год назад

    About Bill's fanmail, I say first be honest, tell her he's weirded out about the situation, maybe even say (if he feels this way) that a relationship is out of the question but if she's interested your willing to see what will happen if you start something sexual.
    However it's done, however you feel, just be honest and then the pair of them can move forward either together or apart knowing the lay of the land.
    Personally it's a bridge I can't cross, but there are people that can, there are people that wouldn't be phased, there are even people that would feel like they won the lottery.
    I just feel that stringing her along is wrong even if she was wrong to wait as long as she did to disclose the truth.
    Personally I think this is sad for both because my feeling is neither will get what they were seeking from each other.

  • @user-en6ru8nf4z
    @user-en6ru8nf4z Год назад

    Been to Paducah.. it’s out there..had a serial killer there back in the day

  • @stfutruck68
    @stfutruck68 Год назад +1

    For the long term it's about dating the person not the body. If he/she has had an operation and is passing (obviously) then you should go for it. Finding someone who you can love for life is very very hard. This person really likes him. Why give that away? It would be hard and good luck.

    • @Rebel-cd6gc
      @Rebel-cd6gc 11 месяцев назад

      If this happened to me I'd still be angry and would walk away immediately but this guy seems to be thinking about it still, he is still on the fence meaning it doesn't seem to be too much of a problem for him. So in this case I would be in agreement, he might as well if he feels a certain way about the trans woman even after finding out.

    • @normie2716
      @normie2716 8 месяцев назад

      It's certainly about the person moreso than the body, but when then body is that of the opposite sex than you're attracted to, that's a big damn deal. Sexuality is a big part of most relationships and if you aren't attracted to it, or even disgusted by it, that's going to be a problem. It seems weird to even have to say this.

  • @purplehayes5718
    @purplehayes5718 Год назад

    She thinks it's a joke and doesn't realize it's all based on facts. That's what makes it funny.

  • @mattcoyle5867
    @mattcoyle5867 Год назад

    Hey MoMo...loved your insight into this BB podcast...i rekon you could give him a run and start your own similar podcast having people write in to you with their question and you read out and answer...BigDaddyMoMo Agony Aunt...cheers for the giggles and also for sharing a little of your private life xx

  • @russellburress6240
    @russellburress6240 Год назад +1

    They used the term transsexual in The Rocky Horror Picture Show

  • @a_texan7503
    @a_texan7503 Год назад +1

    There is nothing wrong with liking a straight man BigDaddymomo.

  • @John-km7ld
    @John-km7ld Год назад

    I have a story from back in the early 90s and i was outa there whew close.

  • @jaguarrising390
    @jaguarrising390 Год назад

    Some of these comments are treasures. I agree with you by the way.

  • @428chase
    @428chase Год назад

    If you seen my previous comments and the list of material, from George Carlin, you'll have plenty of new stuff to listen to even if it's in the back ground. He also has 3 Audio books that he himself reads. FYI he released 20 lp's 14 of which were HBO specials. part of 14 movies had is own sitcom tv series, and 100s of other tv appearances and interview. You will then need a new life size cardboard guy

  • @andygonzales7380
    @andygonzales7380 Год назад

    My former federal probation officer was a "trans-probation officer. He was an idiot who identified as a probation officer. 😎

  • @inspirednaija7204
    @inspirednaija7204 Год назад +1

    Apologizing for not being attracted to someone when you find out they are Trans only encourages such behavior of tricking people...
    Demand an apology instead and resist the urge to make excuses on their behalf for such bad behavior.

  • @ryanholmes18
    @ryanholmes18 Год назад

    I agree with your comment on being upfront with someone, while dating if that's the situation. Not to be disrespectful, but I think it would be disrespectful not to be. I enjoy your content and like that you like Bill Burr lol. Women rarely do.

  • @gregorymcgraw5940
    @gregorymcgraw5940 Год назад +1

    Grab this insane thought! ( You must accept me as me, only after the surgery to change me into someone else ) and if you do not accept me trying to be someone else , then you are the problem! ( I will lie about everything because i know you will not accept me as my new me of trying to be someone else.

  • @BuzzingRocks
    @BuzzingRocks Год назад

    Some guys don't like being deceived like that and end up being murdered because of that. Trans, be honest from the beginning. Honesty is always the best policy, relationships based on lies do not end well. Merry Christmas 🎄⛄️❄️🌲

  • @ragemadness
    @ragemadness Год назад

    Well. you just coinned a new Category: Meatball slappage

  • @observingrogue7652
    @observingrogue7652 7 месяцев назад

    Youre absolutely right. I hate that about situations like this. I understand a trans person can be afraid of being rejected, or attracting bullies, or people with some unhealthy fetish obsession. But I think itbus still better to be upfront about being trans.
    Maybe it's better to befreind many people they are attracted to, then reveal they are trans, and in that pool of friends that remain, somehow reveal they want a romantic relationship with one of those friends, or consentingly more, if they are into poly relationships, on top of being trans.
    I don't know.
    But I do know its not right to purposely trick or trap anyone. I say Traps are hot, as in Male-to-Female trans, and "Fishy" style Dragqueens who fully pass, and look like natural women, are attractive. And a Trans setting a trap, is a cute idea or fantasy.
    But to literally do that, to a random person, no.
    That is horribly rude. Don't do that.
    Also for your own sake. Not just hurt feelings and wasted time, but some may REALLY not take it well, and become a physical threat to you.
    So trans people out there. Outside of consensual roleplaying, don't really trap anyone. Don't wait until the literal second before intimacy to reveal you are trans. Don't blindfold them, keep the lights off and use toys, or whatever to trick them. Not only are you delaying the inevitable of being caught. Your are making it far, far worse.
    Just sort though potential partners, and anyone who says no, is not worth your time, energy, or love.

  • @johncook8930
    @johncook8930 Год назад

    Happy xmas 🎅🎅

  • @spudmuffin2688
    @spudmuffin2688 Год назад +1

    I’m glad that bill referred to her correct pronouns. Even if he stumbled a few times, he tried.

  • @fmartingorb
    @fmartingorb Год назад

    Having BB with you, I had to chuckle

  • @timpalmer5740
    @timpalmer5740 Год назад

    Farm raised lol. Its not just physiology its emotional masculinity that you're attracted to.

  • @jblazer9804
    @jblazer9804 Год назад

    I'm friends with plenty of trans people, they would be horrified to hear that somebody screwed with somebody like that in either situation. Full disclosure day one is the only way to go!

  • @russellburress6240
    @russellburress6240 Год назад

    Don't give up I'll be your Bill Burr!

  • @seanford4542
    @seanford4542 Год назад +1

    He kiss it!!!!! Smh

  • @bobhenry6159
    @bobhenry6159 Год назад

    That's a major deception by her. If it were me, I would be pissed at the deception.

  • @serelryk5365
    @serelryk5365 Год назад

    I don't like to paint *entire* areas, groups, etc with the same brush. And I'm sure that the whole state of Kentucky isn't filled with "transphobic" people, or even people who just aren't open to dating a trans person. But I would imagine that for a trans individual, the pickings are probably pretty slim there as far as potential dating partners. I live in Louisiana, which definitely counts as "the South" (or even the "Deep South"), and while I would personally have no problem dating her if I was the guy in that situation, I also know that my entire family would instantly disown me if I did lol.
    I think people being so concerned about labels is just another negative byproduct of modern day society's obsession with identity politics. Gotta know which boxes you fit into etc. I don't consider myself to be "gay" or even Bi, because I'm not attracted to masculinity. The thought of getting sexual with a big, burly, hairy man, or even just an effeminate man, makes me physically nauseous. But if I met a transwoman such as in this scenario, who I clicked with that much, and who is obviously very feminine and "passable", since this guy apparently didn't even have a *suspicion* until he was told, then I'd be open to it, even if she was rocking a twig and berries down there lol. Now to me and some other people, that doesn't classify me as "gay". But I know to a lot of other people around this area, the fact that I would even *consider* it would make me a flaming "homo" in their eyes.
    I could be wrong, but I got the impression from this guy's writing that he's also probably really hung up on what other people might think of him if he dated her. And maybe I have no room to talk, because I've never been in that situation, but if they were really getting along that well before the "reveal", I'd suggest adopting an attitude of "Fuck what other people think", taking it slow, and just seeing where it goes. Also that he should really just sit down with her and have an open conversation about it all (respectfully and with consideration of course).
    Regarding the end of the video story, it's completely valid if you just aren't sexually attracted to something, and I think it's dumb for people to suggest otherwise. Like if you aren't sexually attracted to someone who is morbidly obese, well then you must be "fatphobic", and think that fat people are subhuman, or some other nonsense. To each their own. I don't know how "normal" or "abnormal" it is (and frankly don't care lol), but to me I'm fine with either a male (dick and balls) or female (vagina) "configuration" down there. It's everything else that it's attached to (as well as personality, compatibility, etc) that's the determining factor. If it's the former, but everything else about them screams "woman", then I'm good to go. Just as if it was Dwayne Johnson but with a vagina, I would not be down for that XD
    I have no idea why this comment turned into a novel lol. Love your content btw =)

  • @JesusGarcia-tk9nq
    @JesusGarcia-tk9nq Год назад

    100 percent correct

  • @philliplambson9482
    @philliplambson9482 Год назад +1

    I don’t agree with ghosting. Just tell that person what you think. If they get mad, that is their problem.

  • @Lokahi-fo-life
    @Lokahi-fo-life Год назад

    I think the trans person thinks they will win the person over and then spill the beans. I agree with you, be straightforward and it will save everyone’s hurt, time and maybe the person is alright with it. I will say, most people are not all themselves when they start dating. Eventually the real person will show and that’s when you really decide if it will last.

  • @Neknesch
    @Neknesch Год назад +1

    The problem in that situation is, that your brain can't figure out what to do, you see an attractive woman that your brain tells you "Put a baby in her", but you know you can't, because it is a dude, but then you see that hot woman, but then your brain... and it goes on and on and on.

  • @clevelandcbi
    @clevelandcbi Год назад +12

    Bill being miserable at the Grammy's and trying to pronounce all the foreign artists' names was one of the funniest things I've ever seen. Then after that one performance: *"Did anyone else wanna kill themselves???"*

  • @robpursley7607
    @robpursley7607 Год назад

    what MOMO said was absolutely true ....quite hating .......absolutely the truth !!!!!!

  • @craigfowler7098
    @craigfowler7098 Год назад

    Well said

  • @ronhall5395
    @ronhall5395 Год назад

    You have to be up front on this stuff. Tricking someone makes them seem desperate. It sucks, but just be friends first. Disclose who and what you are before the first date. I get it, 9 out of 10 times the dude is going to reject you. It sucks, but you can't just suddenly reveal it during an intimate moment. Some guys lose their minds in this situation.

  • @Luckydog1159
    @Luckydog1159 Год назад

    Oh boy...disclaimer, this is my personal opinion so take it or leave it as you may. I have friends who are a part of the LBGT+ community. Far as I'm concerned you judge people by their intentions and their integrity when it comes to who I call my friends. But becoming romantic becomes a very different story. When two people start off as friends before becoming romantically involved, you tend to learn a lot about them and who they are. But dating sites make this really difficult. THe amount of competition for finding someone you truly match with almost becomes a full-time job in itself. Personally, I am a straight man. I am attracted to women. If I was in this situation, and was told by someone I found attractive and a potential partner that they were trans, I would need time to think about it as well as a few questions to keep on the table. One of my biggest would be if they had bottom surgery and fully recovered? I ask this because I have friends who are trans and I've learned the procedures and what comes along with it. Post Op you really have no major differences sexually after someone has had the surgery and recovered. The only exception to that rule and it is a very big one is, naturally, they cannot conceive and carry a child. Outside of that, plus the constant hormone therapy they'd be on essentially the rest of their life, they are anatomically female. Therefore, if those conditions have been put in place, then why not recognize them as female? You've only known them as a woman, they have female tendencies and their personality is like a typical woman, and Post Op, you can have the same kind of traditional sex no different than any other natural born woman. So why not?
    Now this part is going to seem harsh and cruel but understand I mean it with good intentions. If you are not 100% transitioned over to the opposite gender than you are not THAT gender. YOu are Trans. And as such should identify as one when looking for a romantic relationship on a dating site with strangers. As a straight male, I attracted to the female anatomy, period. And if you identify as a woman but don't have the 100% anatomical match as a woman, then I'm not going to be attracted to you. You can dress as a woman, walk and talk like a woman, and even have breasts like a woman. But the moment you include male genetalia into that realm, I'm going to be turned off. I'll be honest, the whole idea of an*l sex to me isn't a big deal. Name one straight man who hasn't asked a partner to do it for them cuz I haven't found one. So it isn't that which throws me off, it's the subconscious decision of being with someone that has the same reproductive organs as you, which in turn makes me feel like I'm doing something people who are gay enjoy doing, which isn't what I want, which in turn becomes unattractive and a turn off. And that's just the way it is. You should feel ashamed of what you like and who you love, AND THAT GOES BOTH WAYS! Simple as that....
    Thanks for reading my TedxTalk.

  • @cupidlsu
    @cupidlsu Год назад

    It's not that they're going to be rejected - it's that they're putting a target on their back by being upfront. If people could be safe while being out, then they wouldn't be here.

    • @RoninDave
      @RoninDave Год назад +1

      but if they aren't upfront and tell someone months into a relationship they are risking a murder-suicide

  • @pramitbiswas8772
    @pramitbiswas8772 Год назад

    React to late bodybuilder Nasser El Sonbaty. He was even bigger than Ronnie Coleman.

  • @blueyed_gemini6420
    @blueyed_gemini6420 Год назад

    I dunno what part KY you were at lol.. I live in KY and they are definitely some parts that are white WHITE. LOL.. but areas are pretty diverse. I'm just curious what city.. 😂😂

  • @edwardbec9844
    @edwardbec9844 Год назад

    Ok I take it from what is stated By Bill this he's in a very small town with limited female options he gets involved with what he thinks is a Woman ..but firstly The transsexual should have been open and Honestly told him from the start Now I have no Idea of his age or his future dreams like a having a family ... but it's up to him which he chooses end or continue the relationship either way it will be a short term hookup .

  • @goozh
    @goozh Год назад

    Just discovered your channel, so a bit late on comments. You are not transphobic, you have a right to date whoever you want..whether it's guys who are over 6' tall, or brown hair only...whatever, there are personal preferences that no one has a right to say it's wrong.

  • @TheGeekBox
    @TheGeekBox Год назад

    Think this flew by with the explanation. Trans is any state of the change etc the transexual has been through the 'full change' etc

  • @robertrogers074
    @robertrogers074 Год назад +1

    Hi momo I hope your good.

  • @clos49er05
    @clos49er05 11 месяцев назад

    How would a dude not think all of the above!!! In the end you want sex but you got blindsided by a person that wanted to switch life decisions drastically! Your not gay but it feels fkd up and it's really fkd up that it got that far b4 the truth came out. That would fk me up!! Fr!!

  • @yasicduile
    @yasicduile Год назад

    not from kentucky but i live here now, and yeah it's like that here. You should be up front with that sort of thing if you think it's going to matter, and it usually matters.