Do Relationships Kill Careers? featuring Melanie Fiona
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Dating someone in the entertainment industry has its ups and downs. Grammy-Award winning singer Melanie Fiona and music mogul Jared Cotter share their experiences.
Do you get jealous of your partner's work relationships?
Do you have a hard time turning off work at home?
Do you think relationships are a distraction to individual success?
In an ideal world, what career does your significant other have and definitely NOT have?
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Can I just sidebar to say how much I love my core subscribers? In this video my eyebrows and hairline desperately need to be filled in but is anyone here mentioning that?? Nope! Just comments about how appreciative you are of the content. It’s the little things that makes me love y’all ❤️❤️
We didn't even see it.. Until you said it because the content is AMAZING.. i love you!!! Keep it coming!!!
I noticed it. But I thought "Oh hey, she has it also. Cool.". How do you normally fill it in? Or did you already discuss that in a video?
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*goes back to look* I actually prefer brows that way, but I didn't notice. And I guess I see what you mean about the hairline, but it wasn't something I noticed until I saw you had pointed it out! I think you look dope in all the forms I've seen you in! (Also, I'm slowly trying to update my okc by using your guidelines from your video about it. Wish me luck!)
Hush goddess you look amazing as usual
This series is like everything I have ever wanted. And I just think Shannon and Jared and all their guests are always so gorgeous and well spoken! It's honestly hard to find advice on healthy manageable relationships like this, so thanks Shan.
Also, as someone with anxiety, your voices are just really really calming.
If it does, maybe you are in the wrong relationship. In my experience, my partner is the reason I got so far in my career. He gives me the energy and the drive to do more, and to believe in the fact that I CAN do more.
I've been a silent watcher for over a year now, and I have to say that I can't be silent anymore because you really deserve credit. You make beautiful videos, your content and visuals are always amazing and so meaningful. I know some people get turned off by long videos but If I see that your video is 16 plus minutes long I know I'm gonna end that video with some growth. So far this is my favorite series that you have. I'm not sure what it is about it that makes it my favorite. Maybe it's because it just seems so genuine from both you and your partner as well as your guests, maybe it's because it's in a natural setting like at dinner, and it probably has a lot to do with the actual content of the videos. Either way I love these, and I appreciate your time and effort to give us videos like this one. As for your question in the start of the video. I don't know which profession i would or would not date. I'm only 18 and never had a boyfriend, so although I feel like I know myself I don't know what I'm like in a romantic relationship and what it is that I need. I'm open to anyone, and occupation at least now isn't a deal breaker or maker. I'm willing to let love win despite the obstacles that careers might bring.
you guys should do one with Timothy Delaghetto and Chia, especially since they have that long-distance perspective and they been very trusting with each other since Timothy does vids with other girls that are sometimes sexual. You can tell they have a very trusting relationship
ayah h word!!
It’s all about learning yourself and who best illuminates and enhances you. Choosing a partner is choosing a lifestyle. It has to be quality and the return on investment flourishing. The process to learn that is a different topic though. Dope video.
Naturally Lit beautifully said
Wait...Shannon is out here having full conversations with Drake??
ROUND OF APPLAUSE FOR OUR GIRL👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Arent they both from Toronto? There's alot in that group that know each other.
@@brieoliver was going to say that lol all the celebs or popular people from Toronto seem to know each other at least in passing
@@jasminevaliente96 All of them. Its like a thing lol. I feel like Toronto peeps have their own FB group or something 😂
Her bff was an actress who co-starred on a TV show with Drake, maybe she met Drake through her?
ding ding!
Melanie Fiona is so cancerian and I’m living for it. Transparent about feelings, being a lover, even had a thoughtful gift at the end. Glad you can be successful, a creative, a sensie and have a partner in crime too 🦀💕✨
PrincessOfTheYew I was about to look up her sign, because I just knew she had to be a cancer lol.
listen when I say I was grinning like a fool at the end when y'all all touched on the crystal...there was something so special about that moment!
riiight!! it made me so happy they got them a crystal!! 😍 and Kyanite is powerful af!
When Melanie said: its an earthquake Shannon 😂😂😂 it was such a cute moment!
Straight up witchcraft
“Your dream can be a nightmare!” WOW! That is the quote of the month. Sounds like a book TDJakes wrote. It was titled, “Can You Stand To Be Blessed.”
Being in a relationship actually pushed me even harder to be better in everything I did because my actions and my energy directly impacted my partner in a way that no other person in my life would experience. I wanted to always bring my best to them. That love energized me and I was happy and it boosted my ego so I performed in life better. It only amplified my pre-established work ethic and it made me aware that what I do is not just for my fulfillment but it impacts those around me in a way I never got before. Even now that I am single again, my work feels more meaningful, knowing that it (as an extension of me) has direct contact with others. Before I had that experience, I felt like it was going to be a distraction so I was really apprehensive to the idea but my feelings almost immediately changed. It made me a better person😌
I'm feelings this "Dine and Dish" segment. I'm like Jared, I rarely get jealous b/c I feel like a relationship shouldn't stop you from being your authentic self.
When Melanie goes in about the 7 months if incubating with family I felt that...the way both of you couples communicate, vibe and support each other is everything to me 💜💜💜
when melanie said its easier to write sad songs than happy songs who else thought of her song "sad songs"? its one of my faves
I LOVE that song!! One of my favs by her ultimate fav, Other Side of the Love Song
🗣 *sad songs, are the best songs...*
I love this series Shan, love love them. I work in a non-profit that advocates for policy improvements in an Asian country, here I live with my husband and our 3m daughter. As far as the business my husband is in is legal, I would support him no matter what, we all go through different stages and ...m'am...life is just too short to not give away tries to different things we want to try out.
Our biggest challenge is that I am a morning person, he is a night owl. I wake up at 5am, do my thing, work, come back home late..he likes to wake up late in the day and work till late at night, that's our challenge so we can consider ourselves lucky.
Your family sounds awesome
Thanks!!! @@shanboody
"every person has to be their own human"
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I think relationship do not necessarily have to be distracting but STARTING a new relationship definitely is
"Does a Relationships Slow Down Your Career?"
Dunno, I need to be a relationship to answer that!
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Lmfaoo. I don't know why this was so funny to me.
My answers to your questions:
1. To also be in the arts and entrainment industry. I am a Fashion Stylist and Creative Director. I'm building and also working full time at a responsible day job. So I need that understanding 🙏🏾
2.A non creative career and/or entrepreneur . Passion and happiness drives my career and life.
Loved this video it was totally insightful and telling x
Shannon you motivate me to much to believe that everything is possible. Like from the type of woman you've become to the life you're leading including your partnership with Jared. Most people dont relate when I say I want that type of love. You're so awesome!!! Best from Montreal xx
This energy is everything. So genuine!
Great Content! Why VH1, MTV, WETV, and BET haven't reached out to Shan for content on national TV?? Conversations like this is highly needed in our generation today to help people more aware of the purpose to live before jumping into a commitment with someone who haven't lived out their mistakes and or found their own individual purpose.
This is so timely. I'm one year into a relationship after a very long hiatus and I worry all the time about not being focused enough on my career and goals. At times I feel like he provides that healthy dose of distraction that I need from constantly being on the grind. But I also feel awful sometimes because my routine has changed. No more getting home from work... to do more work... unless I'm trying to meet a deadline. I feel like I'm in a better place, but I also miss being consumed by my work. But, I guess it's all about work life balance and partnering with someone who can still motivate you.
I love this series!! and movement of open communications and reflections we are experiencing! The world is becoming a better place and it's thanks to all of us making an effort, loving ourselves unapologetically, honestly and collectively. 🙏🏾
Thank you for this video, i'm a workaholic juggling my creative projects as well as working a regular job. And I have struggled to hold down past relationships to the extent that my art has become my significant other , this video has given hope, such an informative and honest video, thank you so much.
I don’t think the job matters as long as it doesn’t not compromise their or our morals or values. At the end of the day it has to make you happy. Their job does not have to necessarily have to define that person but it has to compliment them.
Heg Shan, can you discuss the B.SMITH situation with her husband having a live in girlfriend. I would appreciate your point of view on the matter if time allowed you. Viewing you through the years has made me question traditional relationships (as not being the only option) and not limit to western one man one woman dynamics. I do think its a grey area.
Do relationships kill careers? I'm going to answer this the best way I can. I feel like when it comes to careers and being in a relationship the most important things are to encourage each other to each others potential. Your other half is called your other half because they make you complete. It does not matter what your wife or girlfriend does for a career so when you support that person with your whole being then that's what matters. Me and my wife work together we are on different levels but I always try to get her to be more then I will ever be. If you love your relationship and the love of your life are worth it then nothing else matters.
I LOVE THIS SERIES SOOOOO MUCH, Shan. This is definitely my favorite from the series so far. Melanie and her man are too adorable. Can’t wait for the next episode.
Ideally... my partner would be in an industry that is also about serving other people. And they would care about health and wellness and helping others. I also think it would be hard for me to be in a relationship with someone "in the industry" someone famous. My partner, now, is very well known just in my small town, and I find it difficult. But, that said, the more I work on myself and my person, the easier that gets. However... I still am not about "that life", the lack of routine and normalcy that is associated with "the industry" as my own independent person, so if I were in a relationship with someone who "lived that life", which, again my current partner kind of dips their toes into, boundaries would definitely need to be set as far as our needs and wants... haha but I digress x'''D
This was hella interesting thank you for sharing
Not in a romantic relationship or in the entertainment world but I loved this conversation...so much can be applied to everyday life in terms of work/life balance and communication xo
I absolutely LOVED this video! Such radiating energy from both sides. The one word that was on my mind through this whole thing was GENUINE! Genuine conversation, genuine emotions, genuine connections! 👏🏾
I’m always so excited for your videos because they’re the perfect mix of entertainment and education. As a young person looking to transition from “kid” relationships to mature, adult relationships, I love hearing experiences and advice from a range of people in such a well spoken and safe environment 😊
I so fucking love this series, I literally find myself truly smiling and laughing because I connect with every topic you choose. Please don’t stop doing them, you are such a creative diamond!
Lots of love. ❤️
For me its the other way around. My bf’s career is slowing down out relationship. We want to have kids but we cant yet cuz he’s still studying..
David Isaac No and im glad😅. But he just finished a 4 year mechanical engineering bacholar an next year he’s starting his major
Thats good! He wants to have money for a kid before having a kid lol
I love these. I'm not with a conversationalist, so it vibes me with the interactions I enjoy.
Love all these perspectives from imperfect couples who make it work. These are the kind of relationships I look up to ♥️
I just want to say that you inspire me a lot. I’ve have grown so much just through watching you videos. I left a shitty relationship, learned about safe sex, but more over I learned about self worth. Love you girl!
I have such a good image of squarespace just because of y'all lol. I like this video!
As for my partner's career, I hope it is a career where it doesn't cause him stress concerning like the ethics of his work. Like feeling guilty for working for an unethical company, or things like that, I don't want my partner to feel that type of stress from their job that they need to make a living.
What a beautiful and insightful conversation!! MORE PLEASE
This is a great format. There's no screaming and talking over each other. It's relaxed, and it really encourages the subjects to get to the heart of the issue being discussed. Keep it coming.
i’ve followed shan for so long and this is by far my favorite series she’s put out, mainly also bc it revolves around food and great conversation! it makes me feel i’m sitting at the table too and privileged to walk away w another perspective or some forward thinking! what a blessing :) thank you...
agggghhhhh possibly the best video i have watched this year i love this collab more than any collab i've seen! shout out torontoooooo
That last question was great, it goes back to that video where you were talking about how if youre dating someone well known, that won’t be how you see them everyday. The person will get used to the love and the fame but thats not what they’ll feel when theyre home with you so they gotta get used to that. Cant remember the video now but 👌🏼 full circle, love it
Prefect timing and totally in sync 😘🤗
Blessings to both couples.
Ideally, he'd be something like an engineer or an architect. Careers I would "never" date or marry: Actor, Politician, Pastor. I don't want to say never ever, it's just severely ever likely I'd date a person who had these careers.
IM LOVING DINE N DISH, cant wait of for the new episode
love that you play Jared's music in your videos. so supportive
ideal career would be something in fitness like owns his own rockcliming gym. but honestly i would be glad to have someone by my side that loves what they're doing- I'd be happy for them.
That was a beautiful gift !! I LOVE THEM. Please have them on again !! Congratulations again 💕💕
honestly this series is so damn insightful. it genuinely feels like I'm eating dinner there with y'all. love these conversations that promote an open dialogue and a non-judgemental safe space.
Loved this conversation. Thank you for sharing gems like this girl ✨
wow i loved this so much as someone who is pursuing a personal creative project and starting a relationship with someone who it feels right with cause he’s so supportive. i love both of your energies. love your channel.
i love this so much! great video Shanny!!
It definitely can regardless of either of your intentions
Goal for 2019 - let go of expectations and enjoy what's happening. Learning that right now.
Your channel always allows me moments to question my experiences. Thank you for the space that you provide. Also, didn't know Melanie had a channel!
Here is the type of entertainment I’m here for thank you I LOVE YOU❤️
Another good episide from this series! I like to listen to the varying experiences from everyone’s perspective and I love how you all ask each other questions and how the conversation flows nicely! Job well done, Brady’s!
In relation to the attention/energy split between the two...
The choice in timing.
Bingo.
Wow, this gave me so much life. Like the positivity, openness, just the love in the room, amazing people and energy. I just love your content!
SO SAWWWWEEEEEEEEET!!! ThanQ oxo
This is probably my first time commenting on one of your videos. I'm an up and coming screenwriter/director and I find dating difficult because a "9-5" person doesn't get that an artist sometimes has to always be on. I might get a call at 2am that I have to take. I may have to cancel plans to go have a meeting. I think the dynamics between both couples were eye opening to me. Trust and understanding is key to having a successful relationship as an artist. I hope I can find that.
So insightful. Great content Shan. ⚡️
i'm genuinely invested in this series and you can tell the hard work and dedication you put into creating your content. I just felt like i had to say i appreciate your insight and the insight of those around you, it's truly enlightening.
This is my favorite series on all of RUclips by a long shot!!!
Love love love this. I enjoy seeing the conversation you and Jared have with other couples along with the connection and dynamic of the couples you bring to your channel. 🖤
This vid is so dope! I love Melly Mel... The couple's relationship dynamic is on point from the angles presented.
For me, I would want my ideal life partner to be working for the government (being Canadian, our gov hasn't had any shutdowns) due to the job security, benefits and job availability. And a job I wouldn't like is... probably working retail. Great video Shan! Its been a minute since i've seen Melanie Fiona :)
i love this episode. you're both such ideals when it comes to communicating and being with a partner and i love seeing the differing opinions in this series, so thanks for producing it~
I really enjoyed this episode. The honesty and love that you shared for each other was great to see.
love you guys. legit watched the squarespace bits all the way through just cause jareds voice is pretty
Get Tim and Chia on here ASAP !!
WOW that was a good video. I can say I walked out with way more than I intended to and I’m grateful. Love the overall energy in this video and the honest answers. The editing was also pretty neat
Ideal: teacher deal breaker: military
I love everything about this!!! I love Melanie Fiona and listening to you guys chatting about relationships was everything I didn’t know I needed! 😍
I LOVE THIS SERIES! Thanks for the insight
Yes Shannon! I really needed this! 👏🙌 I’ve been following you since the beginning and I adore you so much! Thank you!!!
Shannon is so cuuuuteeeee I love her sensitivity
I loved this video. People need the reality of life and love. I'm finding the ugly truth but also the amazing beauty in it. Romantic/rom-coms are problematic fantasies and I'm happy that these videos dismantle unhealthy idealisms. THANK YOU ♥️
I never comment. But I had to say... one of the dopest videos to date!
I love this series so much.
I love "Dine and Dish"!!! I learn a lot from these videos and the content is very thought-provoking.
Stumbling upon this video is definitely a good indication of being on the right path.
Forever LOVING these discussions Shan!!
I love this series. It just keeps better and better
I LOVEEEEE this series! You’re amazing Shan!!!
This is my f a v o r i t e video series!! Thank you Shannon for all the heart and hustle you put into this content. Much love.
H.E.R just dropped the visuals for ‘Hard Place’ and the video depicts exactly what you guys were talking about regarding dating people in the entertainment industry and managing your own insecurities about your significant others fame/career.
Jared “you’re shaking it” Hahahah
i love melanie fiona so much and she and her jared are so beautiful together.
This series is amazing
Lol Shan this video cracked me up but was also super insightful! Keep doing what you’re doing
This is fucking amazing. I love hearing about the interworking of relationships. It's so inspiring.
It seems like they ain’t open anymore 🤗
They definitely are though lol
Yeah I think so too cuz she said “during the time that we were open...” 6:49
Them is some married peoples now lol
Absolutely loved this edition of dine & dish
Please upload more from this series
I thought it was her in the thumbnail. I love you guys talk
LOVE this video. LOVE this series. Thank you, Shan.
*I really enjoy this 'dine and dish' series👌🏿*