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  • Опубликовано: 22 мар 2022
  • Chris and Misty visit Tammy to confront her about her new boyfriend, who has posted on social media that he would not propose to a woman who was under 300-lbs. Tammy's family are alarmed and concerned that this new man will discourage her from losing weight.
    From season 3 episode 3.
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  • @purrfection2208
    @purrfection2208 2 года назад +5229

    They need to leave Tammy to her own destruction. She loves the attention. Being 600+lbs is her identity.

    • @brookejustesen8925
      @brookejustesen8925 2 года назад +380

      As the sibling of an addict, that is soooo much easier said than done.
      Watching your sibling deteriorate in real time is one of the most desperate feelings

    • @dansanders2002
      @dansanders2002 2 года назад +116

      @@brookejustesen8925 I agree but I honestly think she does enjoy it to an extent

    • @brookejustesen8925
      @brookejustesen8925 2 года назад +97

      @@dansanders2002 she does love it. I'm just saying it's easier to tell loved ones to just "leave them to their own destruction" than to actually leave loved ones to their own destruction

    • @purrfection2208
      @purrfection2208 2 года назад +9

      @@brookejustesen8925 and it burns you out destroying your quality of life.

    • @alicjagodlewska1059
      @alicjagodlewska1059 2 года назад +8

      @@purrfection2208 exactly !!

  • @sunnyblue7800
    @sunnyblue7800 2 года назад +1527

    "You're asking a fat man to walk on water" i spilled my water, chris is so funny and yet so genuine and kind. Everyone needs a chris in their life

  • @Elsisalittleconcerned
    @Elsisalittleconcerned 2 года назад +618

    You can lead a horse to water, but you can’t make it drink.
    Hearing her say “maybe I don’t want to be under 300” was so heartbreaking. I can’t imagine how frustrated her loved ones must be.

    • @generalshepherd457
      @generalshepherd457 Год назад +10

      A horse that does not like the taste of water.

    • @carolinamurtha3102
      @carolinamurtha3102 Год назад +12

      She’s so backed into a corner trying to make any kind of point because she knows that everything they’re saying is true. It’s such a sad and frustrating situation because in leaving her to deal with natural consequences (if her family finally just gave bottom lines and backed off intervention style) she’s going to die in months.

    • @ccink3931
      @ccink3931 Год назад

      ​@@carolinamurtha3102 she's going to die either way at least if they just cut the cord she can hit rock bottom & see it for herself & if not what is there to lose? She's dying anyway what's gonna happen double death? 😂

  • @coffeebean2370
    @coffeebean2370 2 года назад +89

    Chris standing up and walking out was everything for me

  • @eclaire1783
    @eclaire1783 2 года назад +6041

    Chris is such a good guy!!!! I don’t feel like I’ve ever seen him be just plain out mean. It’s always tough love, you can tell he genuinely cares.

    • @pricklykitty939
      @pricklykitty939 2 года назад +106

      It's really not even tough love. Some family's don't even care enough to even become involved. He is a really good guy and brother.

    • @eclaire1783
      @eclaire1783 2 года назад +55

      @@pricklykitty939 I’m saying that when he’s talking to Tammy over something frustrating he isn’t rude to her, he lets her know he’s supportive and wants the best for her and that’s why he’s pushing her so hard.

    • @giavonnigotti8818
      @giavonnigotti8818 2 года назад +49

      They never talk about a dad, I think cris has played the dad figured with all the sisters for along time. In that’s why he’s loving and caring towards them, but also concern in strict with them when he has to be.

    • @Justynbrodsky123
      @Justynbrodsky123 2 года назад +30

      Tammy is probably reading these comments with a pile of nachos

    • @Taradise34
      @Taradise34 2 года назад +10

      I mean he did just say Bitch get on that scale

  • @littlebit10196
    @littlebit10196 2 года назад +2642

    Tammy’s family is honestly too good for her. She has an excuse for literally everything and then once she runs out of them she just yells and shuts down. I know it’s killing her family everyday seeing her live like this and be so dense. At some point though they need to just let her eat herself into immobility, and then put her in a home with people who are paid to put up with her BS. Chris and Amy really doesn’t deserve this treatment after they’ve put in the work. They don’t need to be held back anymore smh.

    • @user-bv6fh7nk8g6x
      @user-bv6fh7nk8g6x 2 года назад +43

      I have a family member like that, it's literally exhausting dealing with their excuses and then blaming everyone else except themselves. It's affected everyone in our family both mentally and physically.

    • @BewareTheLilyOfTheValley
      @BewareTheLilyOfTheValley 2 года назад +23

      People like this often end up in nursing homes before they're even old. My mom has mostly worked in nursing homes and they don't get paid enough to put up with this kind of bull, especially the damage it does to your body (facilities stay understaffed so rolling someone over is almost literally back-breaking). I agree with you and others that this woman can lose weight...she just doesn't want to. But then her immobility will become someone else's problem, if not her family's, then the poor workers at whatever facility she'll have to go to. And nobody deserves that.

    • @ButtPunisher
      @ButtPunisher 2 года назад

      They're just as sick as she is. They sure can talk the talk when it comes to Tammy, but they are still DANGEROUSLY overweight. They're in the same boat she is.

    • @aeinq
      @aeinq 2 года назад +4

      @@ButtPunisher At least most of them are actually trying to loose that weight though.

    • @heatherbanks67
      @heatherbanks67 2 года назад +7

      Obviously Tammy is doing this for other reasons than her health. It would be different if she was trying but she isnt. Why wont her family just stop..they deserve to be happy since they are trying to do better. Tammy relies on everyone else...she also blames everyone else. Its pathetic...her family should turn and walk away just one time and let her do for herself. Shes grown...best wishes

  • @Jordeyleigh
    @Jordeyleigh 2 года назад +71

    I love how no matter what they never give up on her. That’s unconditional love

  • @Joeistheking
    @Joeistheking Год назад +97

    Chris is honestly awesome. He’s so real and just a good person. Exactly what you want in a brother 👏🏼

  • @Bajanprince67
    @Bajanprince67 2 года назад +2645

    Chris: “Step on that scale right now.”
    Tammy: “I’m not doing it.”
    I’m sorry, but that had me dead. 😂

    • @Ebrie0903
      @Ebrie0903 2 года назад +66

      Right🤣🤣🤣 I love Chris and Amy they always give me a good laugh 😂

    • @roobeebakes
      @roobeebakes 2 года назад +12

      Me too ☠️

    • @noseyandneutral
      @noseyandneutral 2 года назад +61

      “You’re asking a fat man to walk on water” 😂😂😂😂

    • @angelJ5820
      @angelJ5820 2 года назад +7

      😭

    • @nxssadiane8463
      @nxssadiane8463 2 года назад +9

      Lmfao 🤣 I’ just bursted out laughing at that. I’m dead too 💀

  • @eddiehumphrey8171
    @eddiehumphrey8171 2 года назад +1305

    Tammy doesn’t try or care, she deserves her situation, all she gets is support and she can take the step for herself to change, so it’s really hard to feel any sympathy

    • @lizbradford7706
      @lizbradford7706 2 года назад +20

      A agree with you but this is a old one she’s a lost cause

    • @eddiehumphrey8171
      @eddiehumphrey8171 2 года назад +13

      @@lizbradford7706 oh believe me Ik I’m almost as addicted to TLC as Tammy is to food

    • @vixxenreigns
      @vixxenreigns 2 года назад +6

      She's a waste of space. Seriously, she treats everyone like total and complete sh*t. She doesn't want to change because she's getting all the attention and sympathy from this. She's a nasty person. There are so many people that would give anything to have the help and services she is getting but throws it all back in everyone's face.

    • @eddiehumphrey8171
      @eddiehumphrey8171 2 года назад +10

      @@Schiffon get into 90 day fiancé, that’s the real gold mine.

    • @cremebrulee4759
      @cremebrulee4759 2 года назад +12

      She should never have checked out her rehab. She needs to be in a controlled environment, and that's what she had in rehab. She wants to act like she can do it by herself, and obviously she can't. This new man is going to be her focus now rather than losing weight.

  • @sammyscrappy
    @sammyscrappy 2 года назад +11

    You CAN only help someone who wants the help. She clearly likes the life she has.

  • @crimsonclover9871
    @crimsonclover9871 Год назад +16

    I'd love to have Chris as a brother. He truly does care about and love his family. 💜💜

    • @tammyslaton4975
      @tammyslaton4975 Год назад +1

      Trust me u don’t, he’s an opportunist he just criticizes Tammy and is there for camera time and free surgury

  • @Queen_Maii
    @Queen_Maii 2 года назад +2025

    In my opinion it’s disgusting how some men only want “bigger women” and allows the women to stay the way they’re just so they can stay with them … well not force but the women allow theirselves to stop all the hard work they put into losing weight just to have the comfort of a partner But Tammy is her own person and obviously she isn’t serious about anything at all not even if it’ll help her live longer …

    • @susiefairfield7218
      @susiefairfield7218 2 года назад +58

      Yeah its like him saying...if the girl gets below 399 lbs he will leave sounds like a sadistic person right there

    • @nggapraying4392
      @nggapraying4392 2 года назад +56

      It's so frustrating. I'm not sure why they do this, but if I had to guess it would probably be because they like to prey on woman who don't have a lot of confidence and has to depend on them.

    • @Queen_Maii
      @Queen_Maii 2 года назад +6

      @@nggapraying4392 yep exactly all that you said it’s sad smh

    • @that.ll_do_pig
      @that.ll_do_pig 2 года назад +11

      I agree that partners that enable and encourage morbid obesity are awful but I don't agree with the word forced.

    • @SinfulCadence
      @SinfulCadence 2 года назад +17

      It's their body their choice, the men aren't "forcing" them to do anything. This is in most cases way more about the complacency that was already there.

  • @odawgxo4973
    @odawgxo4973 2 года назад +682

    “and that, is the bottom line” -walks out-
    CHRIS IS A NATIONAL TREASURE AND NEEDS TO B PROTECTED AT ALL COSTS 😩 pro tip for tam tam tho, if u start doing things you say you’re going to do, people will start believing in uuuu

  • @MJ-py7dm
    @MJ-py7dm Год назад +135

    I can't imagine the world through Tammy's eyes. Chris getting up and leaving in an instant must be like an action movie stunt to her. Just getting up like that is such a luxury.

  • @ARISZN
    @ARISZN Год назад +11

    so y’all didn’t catch the “what kind of foods are you eating?” chris: *everything* 🤣🤣 tell her chris!

  • @gpxoooo
    @gpxoooo 2 года назад +769

    Tammy doesn’t care about anything people are saying to her. She wants a Man, food, and her family to cater to her. So at this point it’s like watching a life before death documentary.

    • @nastasiascott2883
      @nastasiascott2883 2 года назад +15

      You are so right

    • @darthjerh12
      @darthjerh12 2 года назад +27

      Yeah... This is depressing.. what's the point of trying to help her? It's like talking with a brick wall.

    • @dianestevenson4996
      @dianestevenson4996 2 года назад +1

      You don't have time to live and learn from your mistakes,... You are going to die, get it die,be in the ground!! Your family LOVES YOU!!! THEM MEN don't give a crap about you !!!

    • @rex1800
      @rex1800 2 года назад +4

      thats what makes it so interesting

    • @gal_targareayn6721
      @gal_targareayn6721 2 года назад

      what happened to jerry?😮

  • @queeneliane7745
    @queeneliane7745 2 года назад +347

    Literally the worst kind of person she could date. She’s already distracted and not committed on her own, this will make it so much harder.

    • @davidroberts4248
      @davidroberts4248 2 года назад +15

      I've heard she's on those fetish dating sites. The ones where men are looking for that. She either likes that. ( I think she does) or she thinks she cant do better. That's where her boyfriends are coming from. Sad.

    • @Schiffon
      @Schiffon 2 года назад +7

      @@davidroberts4248 right, so it’s just another bad bad choice she’s making. She only makes bad choices, every time.
      No WAY is Tammy ever to survive. Not even close. Seeing this pop up post is as depressing as reading the news lately.

    • @maesithebutterfly841
      @maesithebutterfly841 2 года назад +10

      @@davidroberts4248 she more likely has low self esteem- so being liked for being bigger regardless of circumstances is okay with her

    • @xannermilonakis8535
      @xannermilonakis8535 2 года назад

      @Nggaplz xanax ruins people I have alot xanax experience hence my name is xAnner lmao

    • @maesithebutterfly841
      @maesithebutterfly841 2 года назад +2

      @Nggaplz when someone is not happy in their own skin it impacts how they navigate the world, socialization and communication takes a hard hit as well- therefore their relationships suffer. it can make the most sweetest most pure hearted person make terrible decisions/actions.. high or low self esteem is truly life altering..

  • @ajandrianjafymusic
    @ajandrianjafymusic 2 года назад +24

    Chris is an amazing guy, who really does have his family’s best interests at heart. He is such a genuine dude

  • @CerebralTombstone
    @CerebralTombstone 2 года назад +7

    There is a spot in heaven reserved just for Chris. He is lovely!

  • @amandabanks7181
    @amandabanks7181 2 года назад +550

    I love Tammy's family they seem to really care for her.

    • @cremebrulee4759
      @cremebrulee4759 2 года назад +16

      They do, but at some point they need to realize that they cannot help her and that she has to take responsibility for herself. If she doesn't do that, then nothing that they do will be enough.

    • @M_SC
      @M_SC 2 года назад +2

      They can’t, but mental health people could, maybe. She isn’t self sufficient and should live in a group home

  • @mymyMelly
    @mymyMelly 2 года назад +294

    The whole family need to protect Chris as a whole because he has got every single one of them’s backs. He’s a true family man

    • @Smurfyis730
      @Smurfyis730 Год назад +3

      Well it seems like they all respect Chris and seem to all have a lot of love for him. Even Tammy although she’s the most selfish. I would love to have a big brother like Chris ❤

  • @marbear4273
    @marbear4273 Год назад +2

    She's such a Liar. She's so Defensive

  • @billieseyelashes
    @billieseyelashes Год назад +37

    brittany, looking a lot secretive: "have you seen tammys instagram?"
    chris: "oH LoRd help me- *no* ... i better sit down for this one...!"
    😭😭😭
    this is amazing.

  • @Quyllur1
    @Quyllur1 2 года назад +388

    You can tell that her brother is the only one that gets through to her… he has the most affect on her. Made her cry. Amy has yelled at her and Tammy just yells back. But her brother puts his foot down and she feels it…

    • @formerswimsuitmodel1610
      @formerswimsuitmodel1610 2 года назад +25

      She probably looked up to him as a child and he looked out for her and stood up for her against bullys…she feels love from him so when he speaks up and says things to her she definitely feels that shit

    • @kayharding771
      @kayharding771 2 года назад +9

      also the truth hurts

    • @michaelamack-white117
      @michaelamack-white117 2 года назад +32

      They have said before that Chris was their father figure growing up, so that’s why.

    • @willowalexander2975
      @willowalexander2975 Год назад +6

      Chris is the older brother and they looked up to him as the only male figure in their lives....so it's like a dad figure scolding you

  • @yanelymontoya1274
    @yanelymontoya1274 2 года назад +85

    there's no love in a fetish.

  • @xantheg2944
    @xantheg2944 2 года назад +2

    I love how forward Chris always is, it really shows how much he cares!

  • @Hannahrp23
    @Hannahrp23 2 года назад +18

    Tammys “weight-loss” journey has gone on too long. I don’t know how her family has been able to stick around this long to support her because at the end of the day she doesn’t want to take the necessary steps to change her life.

  • @noah3983
    @noah3983 2 года назад +217

    Chris is the goat. Always being real and saying what’s on his mind with no filter not many people like that are here nowadays.

  • @Kellycreates123
    @Kellycreates123 2 года назад +566

    I feel so bad for this women, she is clearly addicted and has severe addiction problems. You can see addiction in how she thinks and behaves.
    Poor woman.

    • @bkny6767
      @bkny6767 2 года назад +8

      Facts

    • @Whynotcreate
      @Whynotcreate 2 года назад +42

      So true. Last summer I was eating a huge bag of chocolate and large bag of chips EVERY NIGHT.. at first I felt so sick but eventually I felt sick when I didn't have it. 4 months later I had gained 40lbs, I knew if I didn't stop I would be huge in NO time. It's hard and I still eat junk sometimes but I only have half the bag instead of the whole bag now, no more pop, no more m&ms or chocolate. 3 months later in back at my normal weight.. it was all because of the gross amount of chocolate and chips I had daily.

    • @cremebrulee4759
      @cremebrulee4759 2 года назад +26

      @@Whynotcreate congratulations on realizing you had a problem and doing something about.

    • @Justynbrodsky123
      @Justynbrodsky123 2 года назад +23

      Tammy is probably reading these comments with a pile of nachos

    • @zebracookii1019
      @zebracookii1019 2 года назад +28

      Definitely an addiction but she’s a grown woman who lacks accountability

  • @leannestrong1000
    @leannestrong1000 8 месяцев назад +3

    "you can't love somebody for their size." Well said, Khris!

  • @CharlotteAndWhiskey
    @CharlotteAndWhiskey 2 года назад +3

    this whole situation just makes me very sad. you can tell her family is trying so hard to help her but nothing comes from it

  • @heatherlynsey3092
    @heatherlynsey3092 2 года назад +171

    I’m over Tammy I want Chris to get his own spin off. That would make her irate 😂😂💀

  • @alwaysfreezing130
    @alwaysfreezing130 2 года назад +276

    Chris is such a good brother honestly. He really cares about his family, and he sees right through that BBW guy and what problems that brings along.

  • @lindamalo4537
    @lindamalo4537 2 года назад +3

    I'm glad your family still cares enough to come see you and help you

  • @allisonjames2923
    @allisonjames2923 2 года назад +8

    There’s such a big difference between loving someone for who they are & liking them only for what they look like. There are always enablers who want a partner who is dependent on them & who can do absolutely anything to them, knowing they probably are too scared of being alone to leave them.

  • @bayleewinkler8920
    @bayleewinkler8920 2 года назад +70

    Chris is my favorite character on this show. Give him a spin off of his own!!

  • @chevellerevero9316
    @chevellerevero9316 2 года назад +274

    Tammy needs to stop dating and focus on herself she needs to start finding guys that are into her for her, and that guy only likes feeding girls and getting them fat for his satisfaction… that’s ruining her goal she was doing so well I don’t want her going back to where she started she lost a good amount of weight and if she keeps going she’s gonna end up in the hospital death bed and her lungs , heart is gonna give up she already had 2 scares 😐 He’s a bad influence🙅🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @ifykyk679
      @ifykyk679 2 года назад +7

      Ikr

    • @HalloweenFreak31
      @HalloweenFreak31 2 года назад +8

      She'll never get better.

    • @chevellerevero9316
      @chevellerevero9316 2 года назад +9

      @@HalloweenFreak31 I mean I wouldn’t be negative but I can see where you’re coming from but there’s always hope and then I seen people like her in the same situation and they made it through she just needs to surround herself with good people

    • @HalloweenFreak31
      @HalloweenFreak31 2 года назад +9

      @@chevellerevero9316 Totally agree. I just feel this is gonna be a broken record. We all know how she is. Don't get me wrong i hope she gets better but I'm just not feeling it. 😔

    • @davidroberts4248
      @davidroberts4248 2 года назад +8

      If she'd stay off those dating sites for men who love fat girls, she mite actually meet a normal guy.

  • @dreadmaster99
    @dreadmaster99 2 года назад +6

    I mean honestly, you really think she is gonna get under 300?

  • @saraflint2982
    @saraflint2982 2 года назад +3

    "Knowing my luck."
    It's not luck, Tammy. It's hard work and willingness.

  • @dagmarb7158
    @dagmarb7158 2 года назад +177

    It’s a mystery how she’s still alive

    • @debcarpenter8519
      @debcarpenter8519 2 года назад +23

      I guess miracles happen. But...she's pushing her luck.

    • @jumpiam8477
      @jumpiam8477 2 года назад +5

      To learn from her I think. That's a power of a bad attitude toward everyone and everything.

    • @soepsoep6445
      @soepsoep6445 2 года назад +11

      It's crazy how resilient the human body actually is

    • @nancykathleenr
      @nancykathleenr 2 года назад +5

      It's just a matter of time.

    • @travislocklear1370
      @travislocklear1370 2 года назад +9

      Call Scooby Doo and the mystery gang 💯 🤣 they will get to the bottom of it.

  • @ifykyk679
    @ifykyk679 2 года назад +94

    Why can't Tammy realise that her OWN family cares for her truly. AND NOT HER BF!!! He's a fetishist

  • @heyitsbrya2749
    @heyitsbrya2749 2 года назад +12

    this shows me how my heart isn't as pure as I thought it was. because I would leave Tammy to her damn devises..she clearly doesn't care.

  • @AmayaRenee01
    @AmayaRenee01 2 года назад +42

    Why even be with someone who views women under 300 lbs as unattractive…When your goal in the long term is to get healthy and weigh under 300lbs…It’s not true love if your spouse would leave you for getting healthier and weighing under 300.

    • @20PINKluvr
      @20PINKluvr 2 года назад +6

      Also not true love if he leaves if you gain weight

    • @mysterygirl30011
      @mysterygirl30011 2 года назад +3

      Not true love if the main criteria is weight/ shape whether slim, fat or morbidly obese

  • @Cheddarslife
    @Cheddarslife 2 года назад +72

    Chris is a great guy and always looking out for his sister.

  • @moniquelove701
    @moniquelove701 2 года назад +2

    You can't change someone who doesn't want change point blank PERIOD.

  • @marietighe6328
    @marietighe6328 2 года назад +11

    Lord Im suffering from alcholol addiction as I was raped as a child... my family literally disowned me, even though I cared for them all when THEY were sick... Tammy has amazing support but she treats them so badly she annoys me... if I had that support I would be over the moon

  • @dingo1666
    @dingo1666 2 года назад +386

    So basically she loves the one that will help her die. At this point in time she obviously loves food more than life. Short of having her incarcerated against her will nobody can do anything about that. Her life, her choice.

    • @nancysmits8087
      @nancysmits8087 2 года назад +12

      Exactly this. Let her be, it's getting boring.

    • @jaynekittycat9252
      @jaynekittycat9252 2 года назад +2

      The man is just using her.

    • @gretchenjaenisch1826
      @gretchenjaenisch1826 2 года назад

      If Tammy is going to fight everyone, just walk away from her.
      It's harsh but sometimes it just needs to be done.

  • @darlin105
    @darlin105 2 года назад +24

    we can all agree he left Tammy’s house like a badass
    “and THAT is the bottom line”

  • @Supernova304
    @Supernova304 Год назад +3

    She has the audacity to say that her family won't let her learn from her mistakes , but she keeps repeating her mistakes ! She refuses to learn from them..

  • @dwhitman3092
    @dwhitman3092 2 года назад +2

    NO---If Tammy had a fire to lose weight when she left rehab Early, she wouldn't have left rehab.

  • @danielafernandez7484
    @danielafernandez7484 2 года назад +138

    I feel so bad for her family they care about her so much . she’s so annoying and tbh spoiled.

    • @cb4883
      @cb4883 Год назад

      Men like tammy because of the welfare money she gets and money from these programmes she likes meals and they like a meal ticket 🎟

  • @chronicallymel3510
    @chronicallymel3510 2 года назад +57

    Chris has come so far! It is so great to see him setting boundaries and making so much progreaa

  • @TheFitnessPlaylistt
    @TheFitnessPlaylistt 2 года назад +6

    This is disturbing.
    Losing weight is more of mental battle than anything. I struggled with obesity was a child. I reached 250 before I stopped growing. My health was poor, and I felt trapped in my body.
    I feel for Tammy, but at some point, we have to be accountable.
    I am down 95lbs and I am sharing my journey here on RUclips. I am currently trying keto for my PCOS and autoimmune challenges if you are struggling with weight loss, please know that you are not alone. You can do what you set your mind to. Never give up, even if you fail several times like me. If you fall 7 times, get up 8. 🙏🏼
    Stop by and visit for support.

    • @Ririkins
      @Ririkins Год назад

      Congratulations!

  • @SharonMWells
    @SharonMWells 2 года назад +8

    How can the producers of this fiasco let Tammy struggle so much just to get ratings. This is a person’s wellbeing/life at stake here. For goodness sake PLEASE help her.

    • @Lee-ht1st
      @Lee-ht1st 2 года назад +5

      They can only do so much. Tammy has walked away from multiple rehabilitation centers, countless diets, countless small weight loss goals and countless exercises regimens.
      The fact is that she's so childish and cruel to everyone around her is excatly why she's burned bridges with so many people in her life. She's a toxic, self centred person who thrives off being treated like the victim. You can't help someone who doesn't want to be helped. She'll never ever change, I'm damn sure of it.

    • @SharonMWells
      @SharonMWells 2 года назад

      @@Lee-ht1st then why keep making a mockery of this reality television if that’s the case! It’s pathetic and again, the producers have a lot to answer for !
      It doesn’t make any difference what sort of person she is, they don’t care !

    • @MORiverFishing
      @MORiverFishing 2 года назад +4

      @@SharonMWells when a show is called "1000 lb. sisters" It's purely made to be a mockery. The whole reason this family has a show is because they're a mess. That's what TLC does! If the sisters were both highly motivated and doing great it would be cancelled halfway through the first season lol

  • @mrs.dr.spencerreid3992
    @mrs.dr.spencerreid3992 2 года назад +124

    I lost my 300 pound best friend I‘ve known for over 35 years last Easter from a thrombosis. She passed suddenly and it left me heartbroken 💔

    • @chrisvintage1399
      @chrisvintage1399 2 года назад +9

      Some times you got to hurt feeling's to save a life. That's how Soldiers use to be made in the 90s. I cared and loved my in-laws cleaned up soiled clothing and bedding. Horrible,, Very sorry to hear that. I have in-laws that are still dying in front of my child and their grandchildren each day. The Ambulance has come twice for their diabetes and it hasn't even been a year.

  • @debcarpenter8519
    @debcarpenter8519 2 года назад +18

    Oh Lord. We'll be hearing on social media that she has died. Sad. Really sad.

  • @sidneyr1281
    @sidneyr1281 Год назад +3

    7:00 what a king, strutting out of the house and all

  • @Bxzzxd
    @Bxzzxd 2 года назад +6

    As someone who’s made tons of excuses and had avoidant behaviors (not about weight tho) Tammy reminds me of a worse version of myself so much. Her family is amazing, but she’s the only one who can change herself.

  • @ashleydavis2775
    @ashleydavis2775 2 года назад +70

    Tammy has to love herself. She has to be the one to change herself & her lifestyle. No one else can't do it for her. Yes! It's frustrating when you care for someone & try your hardest to motivate them & they seem like they don't care as much.

  • @cuterthaneva101
    @cuterthaneva101 2 года назад +23

    They need to literally stop talking to her. It’s been the same conversation every week for years. Leave her all the way alone and she’ll come around on her own or pass away. The choice has to be Tammy’s

    • @aichejaye363
      @aichejaye363 2 года назад

      Because TLC pays them to repeat this silly BS. TLC can't wait for her to kick the bucket so they can do a special about her death.

    • @DokiDokiLiteratureClubPlus
      @DokiDokiLiteratureClubPlus 2 года назад +2

      they can't leave her cause once she dies they'll feel bad about themselves so to keep from feeling bad they'll have to be by her
      it's basically a fcked up situation on both sides because of Tammy

  • @pwrplnt1975
    @pwrplnt1975 Год назад +1

    I really enjoy Chris he's doing what he has to and working towards his goals. He definitely makes good TV!

  • @CB-iu6wh
    @CB-iu6wh 2 года назад +1

    Chris does his own harmony every time he speaks

  • @AndukeMTGEDH
    @AndukeMTGEDH 2 года назад +29

    "Secretly Dating" somehow means posting it on social media. Strange kind of secret

    • @jesussaves7849
      @jesussaves7849 2 года назад +9

      Meaning her family had to find out on social media, not from her own mouth.

  • @itszenbaby
    @itszenbaby 2 года назад +223

    The thing about Tammy is, she wants independence and her family to trust her so badly but doesn’t give them any reason to. Her actions consistently show she is not making progress to lose weight. If she can’t look after herself, others who care about her will obviously feel the need to step in and take that role. She reminds me of a teenager who doesn’t want to be treated like a little kid anymore, yet isn’t mature enough to be treated as a responsible adult. She just needs to focus on herself and not worry about relationships.

    • @shirleymartin5825
      @shirleymartin5825 2 года назад +8

      For the life of me I can't understand how someone like Tammy doesn't really care if she dies today. She won't diet, she gets with guys that just use her cause she's easy to use. That guy that's with her now can't care about her very much or he would want her to be healthy and not try to keep her trapped in a mountain of lard with no hope of her having a life.

    • @wishingwolf3365
      @wishingwolf3365 2 года назад +2

      Facts

    • @cremebrulee4759
      @cremebrulee4759 2 года назад +4

      @@shirleymartin5825 this is behavior that she is comfortable with, even though it's destructive, there's no risk of failure or of having to face something that she doesn't want to face. She is addicted to food, she wants the attention of men, and the only men who will give her attention are the men who want her to stay fat.

  • @Gigilovehugs
    @Gigilovehugs Год назад +2

    I wonder what Tammy is crying for at the end of the video. Why don’t she understand her siblings are questioning her because they love her

  • @kathywright9323
    @kathywright9323 Год назад +2

    Tammy wants to live and learn but she won't do it she is so selfish

  • @alwaysfreezing130
    @alwaysfreezing130 2 года назад +56

    Let's be honest, it must be tough for Tammy to see all the praise Amy gets, compared to all the critisism she receives. That's not easy. But she must also realise that being so overweight is dangerous, and that her family is only trying to help her. She's blessed with such supportive family members.

  • @thegirlwithribbons
    @thegirlwithribbons 2 года назад +6

    Chris is the best brother. Genuinely wants the BEST for his sisters. Keep showing the love 🤍🤍

  • @arifahx3790
    @arifahx3790 2 года назад +1

    Chris is that big brother everyone needs

  • @natbat-_-
    @natbat-_- 10 месяцев назад +3

    “I told her we ain’t gon take no bullshit… and this is bullshit.”😂kills me

  • @Sav-ze4iz
    @Sav-ze4iz 2 года назад +18

    Tammy is such a disappointment 😔☹️

  • @mega-hb4re
    @mega-hb4re 2 года назад +5

    This is so disgusting.

  • @lovebug.0_0
    @lovebug.0_0 Год назад +1

    anyone else notice how chris was holding the ipad upside down the entire time? 🤣🤣🤣

  • @iColHax
    @iColHax 2 года назад

    They're not holding you back, your family is giving you tough love!

  • @dankmeme1990
    @dankmeme1990 2 года назад +24

    “Live and learn” she won’t be living for long if she doesn’t learn right now

  • @chrisvintage1399
    @chrisvintage1399 2 года назад +9

    Bedroom smells like a toilet, food,crumbs, roaches in bed, refrigerator in bedroom. Fastfood containers on the floor, TV on since 2007.

  • @you_tried_it_
    @you_tried_it_ 2 года назад

    Your track record Sis Took me out 😂 😭 🤣 😩 💀 😂 😭 🤣

  • @robertbryant3805
    @robertbryant3805 Год назад +1

    She is beyond help.

  • @mycampfirestories
    @mycampfirestories 2 года назад +15

    Why are you with him Tammy.. He will LEAVE you.. You need a true friend and support on your journey to live your life.. Don't get with someone that would just be with ANY other big person....

    • @AndukeMTGEDH
      @AndukeMTGEDH 2 года назад +1

      She wants someone to love her too. Can't blame the Tammy for making yet another bad decision

    • @robertgreen1131
      @robertgreen1131 2 года назад

      Hello dear
      How are you doing today?

  • @americandragon8612
    @americandragon8612 2 года назад +5

    Chris finally didn’t give in this time with Tammy’s bullsh*t. He told her how it is.

  • @Reneebenson
    @Reneebenson Год назад +2

    No man is worth being that heavy

  • @juliesnider7840
    @juliesnider7840 2 года назад +4

    I would give anything to have a supportive family like she does

  • @mistypfitzer111
    @mistypfitzer111 2 года назад +8

    Hunny, you are SELF SABOTAGING your weight loss goals!! Your family LOVES YOU and their concerns are not a reflection of them not believing in u, but they're worried because they can see what you refuse to! THEY WOULDNT BE UP UR ASS IF THEY DIDNT CARE & WANTED DESPERATELY TO SAVE UR LIFE! We are all rooting for you Tammy!! PLEASE don't give up on yourself, and especially, don't let some dude be what ends up costing u your future♥️

  • @94babyxo
    @94babyxo 2 года назад +19

    I love me some Chris 🫶🏾 best big brother anybody could ask for. Oh & I love his raspy voice 🙂

  • @michelledickson2155
    @michelledickson2155 Год назад +3

    Her saying they don’t wanna bury Tammy literally made me cry and it shows her how much they really care for her and want her to do good and go to being healthy

  • @mindfullminds38
    @mindfullminds38 Год назад +2

    So nice her family sticks with her ❤️. Don't think my family would if I acted like her.

  • @laurencollins4092
    @laurencollins4092 2 года назад

    He’s such a caring and thoughtful brother!!!

  • @mariahmoore5403
    @mariahmoore5403 2 года назад +12

    this is so sad…she’s not going to live to learn from her mistakes if she doesn’t lose the weight. she really needs listen to these reality checks not just hear them!!! my heart goes out to this family

  • @anushkaa28
    @anushkaa28 2 года назад +12

    I thought I had bad taste in men. Until Tammy arrived !

  • @miroh3540
    @miroh3540 2 года назад

    That mic drop Chris dud went so hard

  • @callilove8378
    @callilove8378 Год назад +3

    I'd really like to see how much Chris has progressed since his weight loss, seems like he's finally living happy

  • @jessyvalentine7492
    @jessyvalentine7492 2 года назад +5

    That bf was a feeder, also a married man... theyre broken up now thankfully. She misses him but recognizes she cant get healthy with him in her life. Chris is such a great brother, wish i had one like him.

  • @gyrlgeorge
    @gyrlgeorge 2 года назад +28

    Tammy is literally the most unhappy person I’ve ever seen

    • @MORiverFishing
      @MORiverFishing 2 года назад +3

      Well she does have 600+ reasons to be unhappy 😂

    • @maryanomar3777
      @maryanomar3777 2 года назад +1

      @@MORiverFishing 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @jamescall9163
    @jamescall9163 2 года назад

    God bless you chris. You're a very patient man

  • @rania6321
    @rania6321 Год назад +2

    In my opinion I really think she should not be focusing on having a boyfriend she should be focusing on losing weight and her health and her mental health

  • @lizalphonse5416
    @lizalphonse5416 2 года назад +9

    Im under 300lbs and I've made changes that i need because i have 2 kids to live for and I will be DAMNED if someone wants my health to suffer just because they want my ankles to buckle...F that!
    Girl get it together! Love yourself and work on YOU! Damn

    • @mysterygirl30011
      @mysterygirl30011 2 года назад +1

      She is. She went into rehab and list 60lbs so far. The guy dumped her

    • @lizalphonse5416
      @lizalphonse5416 2 года назад

      @@mysterygirl30011 oh woe good for her
      I understand her wanting a boyfriend i just think she needs to keep working on herself first. Thank you so much for that update.

  • @jt5733
    @jt5733 2 года назад +8

    "You're asking a fat man to walk on water" 😂

  • @susanb5058
    @susanb5058 2 года назад +1

    God bless her brother, he never gives up on Tammy.

  • @duckhugger7692
    @duckhugger7692 11 месяцев назад

    Shes so lucky to have such a supportive family, u see alot sometimes on shows like my 600lb like their family sometimes works against them but they get throught it and lose weight despite the lack of support, crazy how she has every tool neccessary but still doesnt change