Tammy's New Boyfriend Doesn't Like Women Under 300-Lbs | 1000-Lb Sisters
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- Опубликовано: 22 мар 2022
- Chris and Misty visit Tammy to confront her about her new boyfriend, who has posted on social media that he would not propose to a woman who was under 300-lbs. Tammy's family are alarmed and concerned that this new man will discourage her from losing weight.
From season 3 episode 3.
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They need to leave Tammy to her own destruction. She loves the attention. Being 600+lbs is her identity.
As the sibling of an addict, that is soooo much easier said than done.
Watching your sibling deteriorate in real time is one of the most desperate feelings
@@brookejustesen8925 I agree but I honestly think she does enjoy it to an extent
@@dansanders2002 she does love it. I'm just saying it's easier to tell loved ones to just "leave them to their own destruction" than to actually leave loved ones to their own destruction
@@brookejustesen8925 and it burns you out destroying your quality of life.
@@purrfection2208 exactly !!
"You're asking a fat man to walk on water" i spilled my water, chris is so funny and yet so genuine and kind. Everyone needs a chris in their life
You can lead a horse to water, but you can’t make it drink.
Hearing her say “maybe I don’t want to be under 300” was so heartbreaking. I can’t imagine how frustrated her loved ones must be.
A horse that does not like the taste of water.
She’s so backed into a corner trying to make any kind of point because she knows that everything they’re saying is true. It’s such a sad and frustrating situation because in leaving her to deal with natural consequences (if her family finally just gave bottom lines and backed off intervention style) she’s going to die in months.
@@carolinamurtha3102 she's going to die either way at least if they just cut the cord she can hit rock bottom & see it for herself & if not what is there to lose? She's dying anyway what's gonna happen double death? 😂
Chris standing up and walking out was everything for me
Chris is such a good guy!!!! I don’t feel like I’ve ever seen him be just plain out mean. It’s always tough love, you can tell he genuinely cares.
It's really not even tough love. Some family's don't even care enough to even become involved. He is a really good guy and brother.
@@pricklykitty939 I’m saying that when he’s talking to Tammy over something frustrating he isn’t rude to her, he lets her know he’s supportive and wants the best for her and that’s why he’s pushing her so hard.
They never talk about a dad, I think cris has played the dad figured with all the sisters for along time. In that’s why he’s loving and caring towards them, but also concern in strict with them when he has to be.
Tammy is probably reading these comments with a pile of nachos
I mean he did just say Bitch get on that scale
Tammy’s family is honestly too good for her. She has an excuse for literally everything and then once she runs out of them she just yells and shuts down. I know it’s killing her family everyday seeing her live like this and be so dense. At some point though they need to just let her eat herself into immobility, and then put her in a home with people who are paid to put up with her BS. Chris and Amy really doesn’t deserve this treatment after they’ve put in the work. They don’t need to be held back anymore smh.
I have a family member like that, it's literally exhausting dealing with their excuses and then blaming everyone else except themselves. It's affected everyone in our family both mentally and physically.
People like this often end up in nursing homes before they're even old. My mom has mostly worked in nursing homes and they don't get paid enough to put up with this kind of bull, especially the damage it does to your body (facilities stay understaffed so rolling someone over is almost literally back-breaking). I agree with you and others that this woman can lose weight...she just doesn't want to. But then her immobility will become someone else's problem, if not her family's, then the poor workers at whatever facility she'll have to go to. And nobody deserves that.
They're just as sick as she is. They sure can talk the talk when it comes to Tammy, but they are still DANGEROUSLY overweight. They're in the same boat she is.
@@ButtPunisher At least most of them are actually trying to loose that weight though.
Obviously Tammy is doing this for other reasons than her health. It would be different if she was trying but she isnt. Why wont her family just stop..they deserve to be happy since they are trying to do better. Tammy relies on everyone else...she also blames everyone else. Its pathetic...her family should turn and walk away just one time and let her do for herself. Shes grown...best wishes
I love how no matter what they never give up on her. That’s unconditional love
Chris is honestly awesome. He’s so real and just a good person. Exactly what you want in a brother 👏🏼
Chris: “Step on that scale right now.”
Tammy: “I’m not doing it.”
I’m sorry, but that had me dead. 😂
Right🤣🤣🤣 I love Chris and Amy they always give me a good laugh 😂
Me too ☠️
“You’re asking a fat man to walk on water” 😂😂😂😂
😭
Lmfao 🤣 I’ just bursted out laughing at that. I’m dead too 💀
Tammy doesn’t try or care, she deserves her situation, all she gets is support and she can take the step for herself to change, so it’s really hard to feel any sympathy
A agree with you but this is a old one she’s a lost cause
@@lizbradford7706 oh believe me Ik I’m almost as addicted to TLC as Tammy is to food
She's a waste of space. Seriously, she treats everyone like total and complete sh*t. She doesn't want to change because she's getting all the attention and sympathy from this. She's a nasty person. There are so many people that would give anything to have the help and services she is getting but throws it all back in everyone's face.
@@Schiffon get into 90 day fiancé, that’s the real gold mine.
She should never have checked out her rehab. She needs to be in a controlled environment, and that's what she had in rehab. She wants to act like she can do it by herself, and obviously she can't. This new man is going to be her focus now rather than losing weight.
You CAN only help someone who wants the help. She clearly likes the life she has.
I'd love to have Chris as a brother. He truly does care about and love his family. 💜💜
Trust me u don’t, he’s an opportunist he just criticizes Tammy and is there for camera time and free surgury
In my opinion it’s disgusting how some men only want “bigger women” and allows the women to stay the way they’re just so they can stay with them … well not force but the women allow theirselves to stop all the hard work they put into losing weight just to have the comfort of a partner But Tammy is her own person and obviously she isn’t serious about anything at all not even if it’ll help her live longer …
Yeah its like him saying...if the girl gets below 399 lbs he will leave sounds like a sadistic person right there
It's so frustrating. I'm not sure why they do this, but if I had to guess it would probably be because they like to prey on woman who don't have a lot of confidence and has to depend on them.
@@nggapraying4392 yep exactly all that you said it’s sad smh
I agree that partners that enable and encourage morbid obesity are awful but I don't agree with the word forced.
It's their body their choice, the men aren't "forcing" them to do anything. This is in most cases way more about the complacency that was already there.
“and that, is the bottom line” -walks out-
CHRIS IS A NATIONAL TREASURE AND NEEDS TO B PROTECTED AT ALL COSTS 😩 pro tip for tam tam tho, if u start doing things you say you’re going to do, people will start believing in uuuu
Well, that
Period
I can't imagine the world through Tammy's eyes. Chris getting up and leaving in an instant must be like an action movie stunt to her. Just getting up like that is such a luxury.
so y’all didn’t catch the “what kind of foods are you eating?” chris: *everything* 🤣🤣 tell her chris!
Tammy doesn’t care about anything people are saying to her. She wants a Man, food, and her family to cater to her. So at this point it’s like watching a life before death documentary.
You are so right
Yeah... This is depressing.. what's the point of trying to help her? It's like talking with a brick wall.
You don't have time to live and learn from your mistakes,... You are going to die, get it die,be in the ground!! Your family LOVES YOU!!! THEM MEN don't give a crap about you !!!
thats what makes it so interesting
what happened to jerry?😮
Literally the worst kind of person she could date. She’s already distracted and not committed on her own, this will make it so much harder.
I've heard she's on those fetish dating sites. The ones where men are looking for that. She either likes that. ( I think she does) or she thinks she cant do better. That's where her boyfriends are coming from. Sad.
@@davidroberts4248 right, so it’s just another bad bad choice she’s making. She only makes bad choices, every time.
No WAY is Tammy ever to survive. Not even close. Seeing this pop up post is as depressing as reading the news lately.
@@davidroberts4248 she more likely has low self esteem- so being liked for being bigger regardless of circumstances is okay with her
@Nggaplz xanax ruins people I have alot xanax experience hence my name is xAnner lmao
@Nggaplz when someone is not happy in their own skin it impacts how they navigate the world, socialization and communication takes a hard hit as well- therefore their relationships suffer. it can make the most sweetest most pure hearted person make terrible decisions/actions.. high or low self esteem is truly life altering..
Chris is an amazing guy, who really does have his family’s best interests at heart. He is such a genuine dude
There is a spot in heaven reserved just for Chris. He is lovely!
I love Tammy's family they seem to really care for her.
They do, but at some point they need to realize that they cannot help her and that she has to take responsibility for herself. If she doesn't do that, then nothing that they do will be enough.
They can’t, but mental health people could, maybe. She isn’t self sufficient and should live in a group home
The whole family need to protect Chris as a whole because he has got every single one of them’s backs. He’s a true family man
Well it seems like they all respect Chris and seem to all have a lot of love for him. Even Tammy although she’s the most selfish. I would love to have a big brother like Chris ❤
She's such a Liar. She's so Defensive
brittany, looking a lot secretive: "have you seen tammys instagram?"
chris: "oH LoRd help me- *no* ... i better sit down for this one...!"
😭😭😭
this is amazing.
You can tell that her brother is the only one that gets through to her… he has the most affect on her. Made her cry. Amy has yelled at her and Tammy just yells back. But her brother puts his foot down and she feels it…
She probably looked up to him as a child and he looked out for her and stood up for her against bullys…she feels love from him so when he speaks up and says things to her she definitely feels that shit
also the truth hurts
They have said before that Chris was their father figure growing up, so that’s why.
Chris is the older brother and they looked up to him as the only male figure in their lives....so it's like a dad figure scolding you
there's no love in a fetish.
I love how forward Chris always is, it really shows how much he cares!
Tammys “weight-loss” journey has gone on too long. I don’t know how her family has been able to stick around this long to support her because at the end of the day she doesn’t want to take the necessary steps to change her life.
Chris is the goat. Always being real and saying what’s on his mind with no filter not many people like that are here nowadays.
I feel so bad for this women, she is clearly addicted and has severe addiction problems. You can see addiction in how she thinks and behaves.
Poor woman.
Facts
So true. Last summer I was eating a huge bag of chocolate and large bag of chips EVERY NIGHT.. at first I felt so sick but eventually I felt sick when I didn't have it. 4 months later I had gained 40lbs, I knew if I didn't stop I would be huge in NO time. It's hard and I still eat junk sometimes but I only have half the bag instead of the whole bag now, no more pop, no more m&ms or chocolate. 3 months later in back at my normal weight.. it was all because of the gross amount of chocolate and chips I had daily.
@@Whynotcreate congratulations on realizing you had a problem and doing something about.
Tammy is probably reading these comments with a pile of nachos
Definitely an addiction but she’s a grown woman who lacks accountability
"you can't love somebody for their size." Well said, Khris!
this whole situation just makes me very sad. you can tell her family is trying so hard to help her but nothing comes from it
I’m over Tammy I want Chris to get his own spin off. That would make her irate 😂😂💀
Chris is such a good brother honestly. He really cares about his family, and he sees right through that BBW guy and what problems that brings along.
I'm glad your family still cares enough to come see you and help you
There’s such a big difference between loving someone for who they are & liking them only for what they look like. There are always enablers who want a partner who is dependent on them & who can do absolutely anything to them, knowing they probably are too scared of being alone to leave them.
Chris is my favorite character on this show. Give him a spin off of his own!!
Tammy needs to stop dating and focus on herself she needs to start finding guys that are into her for her, and that guy only likes feeding girls and getting them fat for his satisfaction… that’s ruining her goal she was doing so well I don’t want her going back to where she started she lost a good amount of weight and if she keeps going she’s gonna end up in the hospital death bed and her lungs , heart is gonna give up she already had 2 scares 😐 He’s a bad influence🙅🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
Ikr
She'll never get better.
@@HalloweenFreak31 I mean I wouldn’t be negative but I can see where you’re coming from but there’s always hope and then I seen people like her in the same situation and they made it through she just needs to surround herself with good people
@@chevellerevero9316 Totally agree. I just feel this is gonna be a broken record. We all know how she is. Don't get me wrong i hope she gets better but I'm just not feeling it. 😔
If she'd stay off those dating sites for men who love fat girls, she mite actually meet a normal guy.
I mean honestly, you really think she is gonna get under 300?
She isn’t make it past 2024-5
"Knowing my luck."
It's not luck, Tammy. It's hard work and willingness.
It’s a mystery how she’s still alive
I guess miracles happen. But...she's pushing her luck.
To learn from her I think. That's a power of a bad attitude toward everyone and everything.
It's crazy how resilient the human body actually is
It's just a matter of time.
Call Scooby Doo and the mystery gang 💯 🤣 they will get to the bottom of it.
Why can't Tammy realise that her OWN family cares for her truly. AND NOT HER BF!!! He's a fetishist
this shows me how my heart isn't as pure as I thought it was. because I would leave Tammy to her damn devises..she clearly doesn't care.
Why even be with someone who views women under 300 lbs as unattractive…When your goal in the long term is to get healthy and weigh under 300lbs…It’s not true love if your spouse would leave you for getting healthier and weighing under 300.
Also not true love if he leaves if you gain weight
Not true love if the main criteria is weight/ shape whether slim, fat or morbidly obese
Chris is a great guy and always looking out for his sister.
You can't change someone who doesn't want change point blank PERIOD.
Lord Im suffering from alcholol addiction as I was raped as a child... my family literally disowned me, even though I cared for them all when THEY were sick... Tammy has amazing support but she treats them so badly she annoys me... if I had that support I would be over the moon
So basically she loves the one that will help her die. At this point in time she obviously loves food more than life. Short of having her incarcerated against her will nobody can do anything about that. Her life, her choice.
Exactly this. Let her be, it's getting boring.
The man is just using her.
If Tammy is going to fight everyone, just walk away from her.
It's harsh but sometimes it just needs to be done.
we can all agree he left Tammy’s house like a badass
“and THAT is the bottom line”
She has the audacity to say that her family won't let her learn from her mistakes , but she keeps repeating her mistakes ! She refuses to learn from them..
NO---If Tammy had a fire to lose weight when she left rehab Early, she wouldn't have left rehab.
I feel so bad for her family they care about her so much . she’s so annoying and tbh spoiled.
Men like tammy because of the welfare money she gets and money from these programmes she likes meals and they like a meal ticket 🎟
Chris has come so far! It is so great to see him setting boundaries and making so much progreaa
This is disturbing.
Losing weight is more of mental battle than anything. I struggled with obesity was a child. I reached 250 before I stopped growing. My health was poor, and I felt trapped in my body.
I feel for Tammy, but at some point, we have to be accountable.
I am down 95lbs and I am sharing my journey here on RUclips. I am currently trying keto for my PCOS and autoimmune challenges if you are struggling with weight loss, please know that you are not alone. You can do what you set your mind to. Never give up, even if you fail several times like me. If you fall 7 times, get up 8. 🙏🏼
Stop by and visit for support.
Congratulations!
How can the producers of this fiasco let Tammy struggle so much just to get ratings. This is a person’s wellbeing/life at stake here. For goodness sake PLEASE help her.
They can only do so much. Tammy has walked away from multiple rehabilitation centers, countless diets, countless small weight loss goals and countless exercises regimens.
The fact is that she's so childish and cruel to everyone around her is excatly why she's burned bridges with so many people in her life. She's a toxic, self centred person who thrives off being treated like the victim. You can't help someone who doesn't want to be helped. She'll never ever change, I'm damn sure of it.
@@Lee-ht1st then why keep making a mockery of this reality television if that’s the case! It’s pathetic and again, the producers have a lot to answer for !
It doesn’t make any difference what sort of person she is, they don’t care !
@@SharonMWells when a show is called "1000 lb. sisters" It's purely made to be a mockery. The whole reason this family has a show is because they're a mess. That's what TLC does! If the sisters were both highly motivated and doing great it would be cancelled halfway through the first season lol
I lost my 300 pound best friend I‘ve known for over 35 years last Easter from a thrombosis. She passed suddenly and it left me heartbroken 💔
Some times you got to hurt feeling's to save a life. That's how Soldiers use to be made in the 90s. I cared and loved my in-laws cleaned up soiled clothing and bedding. Horrible,, Very sorry to hear that. I have in-laws that are still dying in front of my child and their grandchildren each day. The Ambulance has come twice for their diabetes and it hasn't even been a year.
Oh Lord. We'll be hearing on social media that she has died. Sad. Really sad.
7:00 what a king, strutting out of the house and all
As someone who’s made tons of excuses and had avoidant behaviors (not about weight tho) Tammy reminds me of a worse version of myself so much. Her family is amazing, but she’s the only one who can change herself.
Tammy has to love herself. She has to be the one to change herself & her lifestyle. No one else can't do it for her. Yes! It's frustrating when you care for someone & try your hardest to motivate them & they seem like they don't care as much.
They need to literally stop talking to her. It’s been the same conversation every week for years. Leave her all the way alone and she’ll come around on her own or pass away. The choice has to be Tammy’s
Because TLC pays them to repeat this silly BS. TLC can't wait for her to kick the bucket so they can do a special about her death.
they can't leave her cause once she dies they'll feel bad about themselves so to keep from feeling bad they'll have to be by her
it's basically a fcked up situation on both sides because of Tammy
I really enjoy Chris he's doing what he has to and working towards his goals. He definitely makes good TV!
Chris does his own harmony every time he speaks
"Secretly Dating" somehow means posting it on social media. Strange kind of secret
Meaning her family had to find out on social media, not from her own mouth.
The thing about Tammy is, she wants independence and her family to trust her so badly but doesn’t give them any reason to. Her actions consistently show she is not making progress to lose weight. If she can’t look after herself, others who care about her will obviously feel the need to step in and take that role. She reminds me of a teenager who doesn’t want to be treated like a little kid anymore, yet isn’t mature enough to be treated as a responsible adult. She just needs to focus on herself and not worry about relationships.
For the life of me I can't understand how someone like Tammy doesn't really care if she dies today. She won't diet, she gets with guys that just use her cause she's easy to use. That guy that's with her now can't care about her very much or he would want her to be healthy and not try to keep her trapped in a mountain of lard with no hope of her having a life.
Facts
@@shirleymartin5825 this is behavior that she is comfortable with, even though it's destructive, there's no risk of failure or of having to face something that she doesn't want to face. She is addicted to food, she wants the attention of men, and the only men who will give her attention are the men who want her to stay fat.
I wonder what Tammy is crying for at the end of the video. Why don’t she understand her siblings are questioning her because they love her
Tammy wants to live and learn but she won't do it she is so selfish
Let's be honest, it must be tough for Tammy to see all the praise Amy gets, compared to all the critisism she receives. That's not easy. But she must also realise that being so overweight is dangerous, and that her family is only trying to help her. She's blessed with such supportive family members.
Chris is the best brother. Genuinely wants the BEST for his sisters. Keep showing the love 🤍🤍
Chris is that big brother everyone needs
“I told her we ain’t gon take no bullshit… and this is bullshit.”😂kills me
Tammy is such a disappointment 😔☹️
This is so disgusting.
anyone else notice how chris was holding the ipad upside down the entire time? 🤣🤣🤣
They're not holding you back, your family is giving you tough love!
“Live and learn” she won’t be living for long if she doesn’t learn right now
Bedroom smells like a toilet, food,crumbs, roaches in bed, refrigerator in bedroom. Fastfood containers on the floor, TV on since 2007.
Your track record Sis Took me out 😂 😭 🤣 😩 💀 😂 😭 🤣
8:06
She is beyond help.
Why are you with him Tammy.. He will LEAVE you.. You need a true friend and support on your journey to live your life.. Don't get with someone that would just be with ANY other big person....
She wants someone to love her too. Can't blame the Tammy for making yet another bad decision
Hello dear
How are you doing today?
Chris finally didn’t give in this time with Tammy’s bullsh*t. He told her how it is.
No man is worth being that heavy
I would give anything to have a supportive family like she does
Hunny, you are SELF SABOTAGING your weight loss goals!! Your family LOVES YOU and their concerns are not a reflection of them not believing in u, but they're worried because they can see what you refuse to! THEY WOULDNT BE UP UR ASS IF THEY DIDNT CARE & WANTED DESPERATELY TO SAVE UR LIFE! We are all rooting for you Tammy!! PLEASE don't give up on yourself, and especially, don't let some dude be what ends up costing u your future♥️
I love me some Chris 🫶🏾 best big brother anybody could ask for. Oh & I love his raspy voice 🙂
Why does he have that raspy voice?
@@jessicamammoliti8894smoking
Her saying they don’t wanna bury Tammy literally made me cry and it shows her how much they really care for her and want her to do good and go to being healthy
So nice her family sticks with her ❤️. Don't think my family would if I acted like her.
He’s such a caring and thoughtful brother!!!
this is so sad…she’s not going to live to learn from her mistakes if she doesn’t lose the weight. she really needs listen to these reality checks not just hear them!!! my heart goes out to this family
I thought I had bad taste in men. Until Tammy arrived !
Haha..
That mic drop Chris dud went so hard
I'd really like to see how much Chris has progressed since his weight loss, seems like he's finally living happy
That bf was a feeder, also a married man... theyre broken up now thankfully. She misses him but recognizes she cant get healthy with him in her life. Chris is such a great brother, wish i had one like him.
Tammy is literally the most unhappy person I’ve ever seen
Well she does have 600+ reasons to be unhappy 😂
@@MORiverFishing 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
God bless you chris. You're a very patient man
In my opinion I really think she should not be focusing on having a boyfriend she should be focusing on losing weight and her health and her mental health
Im under 300lbs and I've made changes that i need because i have 2 kids to live for and I will be DAMNED if someone wants my health to suffer just because they want my ankles to buckle...F that!
Girl get it together! Love yourself and work on YOU! Damn
She is. She went into rehab and list 60lbs so far. The guy dumped her
@@mysterygirl30011 oh woe good for her
I understand her wanting a boyfriend i just think she needs to keep working on herself first. Thank you so much for that update.
"You're asking a fat man to walk on water" 😂
God bless her brother, he never gives up on Tammy.
Shes so lucky to have such a supportive family, u see alot sometimes on shows like my 600lb like their family sometimes works against them but they get throught it and lose weight despite the lack of support, crazy how she has every tool neccessary but still doesnt change