Shane Needs Surgery and We Are Worried / Squirmy and Grubs

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  • Опубликовано: 8 янв 2025

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  • @tyraaiken6884
    @tyraaiken6884 3 года назад +275

    I was in dentistry, as a dental assistant, for over 14 years at a dental school....please go to a hospital dental clinic where they are very well prepared and used to cases that are more difficult for "regular dentists and oral surgeons". Wishing you the best Shane!! You will be fine!!!

    • @megahoneybee5
      @megahoneybee5 3 года назад +1

      That's where my mom went for her teeth cleaning and oral surgery. There was never an issue.

  • @terrybonfiglio-lopez4936
    @terrybonfiglio-lopez4936 3 года назад +606

    As an old surgical nurse, I’d definitely have your oral surgery in a hospital setting and NOT in an oral surgeon’s office. It’s for your safety! The concern about anesthesia is most likely related to maintaining your airway and not the medications, hence being told in the past about possibly needing a trach. As a general rule, tiny mouths present issues with airways. Good luck, Shane. Keep us posted.

    • @tracyterry3783
      @tracyterry3783 3 года назад +19

      As another surgical Nurse, I totally agree! Its the only safe way, and most oral surgeons have privileges to hospitals and surgery centers.

    • @tiffanybrown9848
      @tiffanybrown9848 3 года назад +2

      As just a plain ol' woman/mom/social worker, I wholeheartedly agree that the procedure should be done in a hospital! Good luck Shane!!

    • @angelak9456
      @angelak9456 3 года назад +10

      As a nurse, I agree. However....IV sedation isn't like general anesthesia. With general you're totally "asleep'' and on a ventilator. With IV sedation you're still breathing on your own, they will probably give you oxygen via a nasal cannula. You won't be in as deep a "sleep" as with general.

    • @megannoe2057
      @megannoe2057 3 года назад +1

      As a young nurse..lol. Absolutely! Airway would be my immediate concern as well plus just his medical history in general I'd say everybody in the situation would rather be safe, not sorry if heaven forbid he crashes in any way! The simple things we take for granted sometimes and my worst fear is the dentist and shane has to go through hell over a cavity! You hot this shane🖤

    • @junbh2
      @junbh2 3 года назад +1

      @@angelak9456 I wonder if they want him to be in an environment where intubation or other measures are quickly available if there is any complication?

  • @cassiehunt2686
    @cassiehunt2686 3 года назад +802

    Hi! Adult with craniofacial defect here. Often dental clinics located within hospitals specialize in treating people with unique situations including people with mobility limitations. It’s also really helpful because if the persons airway or muscle tone is not typical they often have tools and techniques that work better for some people.
    Obviously our situations are different but this was a game changer in my life. In my situation it means an actual anesthesiologist is in the room doing any necessary anesthesia and the dentists/doctors use pediatric sized tools since I can’t completely open my mouth.

    • @judyayson
      @judyayson 3 года назад +11

      Awesome info.thanks for sharing.

    • @laurelmoon2
      @laurelmoon2 3 года назад +29

      I agree you need a pediatric maxilla facial specialist.

    • @rosebud20
      @rosebud20 3 года назад +13

      Superb and very useful Information! So kind of you to share ! X

    • @cyndilanders1409
      @cyndilanders1409 3 года назад +7

      Very informative! Thanks for sharing!

    • @Hannah-cy3ri
      @Hannah-cy3ri 3 года назад +27

      Yes to all the above. Also teaching programs often have a special clinic for people with complex needs. In LA USC has their Roseann Mulligan Special Patients Clinic so I'm sure there's a similar program in the midwest. Maybe Mayo?

  • @carolynwilson7806
    @carolynwilson7806 3 года назад +642

    I’m a pediatric dentist who sees lots of patients with complex health care needs. We do see patients in their wheel chairs and we see adult patients who have special needs. In your case, I would definitely recommend your treatment in a hospital setting. With limited opening, if a tooth particle breaks off and gets into your airway it would be a big problem. You need to have as controlled an environment as possible to protect your airway.

    • @kaley4788
      @kaley4788 3 года назад +36

      I’m a dental assistant and my step dad is a DMD and I completely agree with you! I was about to write the same thing!

    • @mmmfun77
      @mmmfun77 3 года назад +24

      I’m a general dentist! I agree

    • @lostonpath
      @lostonpath 3 года назад +15

      Well Dr. Wilson how about you invite Shane to your location and do that ma'am ... We all love Shane and Hannah 💖🐾🐕🐾

    • @sagittariusmoon1043
      @sagittariusmoon1043 3 года назад +8

      Agreed,,, I'm just a mother with a disabled child not so mutch a professional 😂 xx but definitely the hospital 👀❤️

    • @tomp.226
      @tomp.226 3 года назад +4

      Best of luck to you!! I’m sure things will work out great!

  • @julietc2867
    @julietc2867 3 года назад +365

    Shane as a practicing oral surgeon I can't emphasize enough that this procedure needs to only take place in a hospital setting. Besides the oral surgeon and his team there should also be a board certified anesthesiologist and a RN present in case your airway should become obstructed. I'm not trying to frighten you but these are actual scenarios that have the potential to occur. Much luck to you.

    • @puddlesplasher7
      @puddlesplasher7 3 года назад +7

      I would hope they do that!! When I had oral surgery for wisdom teeth I had to have it done at a hospital, fully intubated with anesthesia team due to history of laryngospasms. They weren't messing around. I appreciated it.

    • @MissNeko76
      @MissNeko76 3 года назад +2

      I’m NOT an oral surgeon but have a 9ur old son w type 2 SMA, je is fourtunate enough to have all his dentistry at the children’s hospital... I just want to second what the Dr above said... I’ve had to have my wisdom teeth removed after having chemo and it was done in a hospital setting... I am in Canada so it may be more difficult in the states but if it’s an option I also think a hospital setting would be ideal...good luck with everything.

    • @MissNeko76
      @MissNeko76 3 года назад

      Meditation Relaxing Music WTF I hope you mean to his tooth ... otherwise that's a terrible comment!!!!!! Yeesh.....

    • @meditationrelaxingmusic1035
      @meditationrelaxingmusic1035 3 года назад

      @@MissNeko76 of course that it was about the destist problem

    • @meditationrelaxingmusic1035
      @meditationrelaxingmusic1035 3 года назад

      @@MissNeko76 🙅🏼‍♂️

  • @tracylisamayer2238
    @tracylisamayer2238 3 года назад +796

    My son has SMA also, he’s 22 and most recently had surgery 3 years ago to place a port in his spine for his spinraza injection and did just fine coming off the vent post surgery. Also, Gillette has a dental clinic. Check there as they deal with people with disabilities all the time. We are from MN too. So sorry you are going through this!

    • @fzzypurpleturtle
      @fzzypurpleturtle 3 года назад +30

      I hope they see this comment!

    • @deedeejohnson3452
      @deedeejohnson3452 3 года назад +39

      Tracy & Lisa Mayer if There’s a email in description I would recommend you contact them you are just 1 of hundreds of people and I’d hate to see such valuable information got lost on them .

    • @jlemieu1
      @jlemieu1 3 года назад +10

      X2 Gillette

    • @bridgetekeberg1304
      @bridgetekeberg1304 3 года назад +11

      I go to Gillette dental too

    • @yanetcortez3789
      @yanetcortez3789 3 года назад +10

      Hi I’m glad your son is ok🙏🏼 I have muscular dystrophy at it’s almost worst. I hate the dentist,, I actually want to try the spinraza

  • @SprouseLovers55
    @SprouseLovers55 3 года назад +215

    My dad is an oral maxillofacial surgeon and one of his patients had a similar case to Shane"s. I just asked my dad and he said its possible to remove the tooth without breaking the jaw! Wish you guys all the best:)

    • @rustyshack1707
      @rustyshack1707 3 года назад +3

      Be very careful giving medical advice online my friend, even if you're just passing along advice or information from another source. You could face a lawsuit. I know you only have the best interests in mind and this is nigh impossible with this couple, but you never know.

    • @rustyshack1707
      @rustyshack1707 3 года назад

      ^ Can't be too careful. You'd be blown away by some of the meticulous and devious ways people have filed lawsuits and won.

    • @christopherleveck6835
      @christopherleveck6835 3 года назад +1

      @Steven Glansberg a girl went to jail for texting "kill yourself" to her boyfriend.
      Capitol rioters who were encouraged by their livestreaming subscribers are finding out the subscribers are being charged in some states.
      Legal advice of any kind can get a youtuber sued even if in the comments.
      Anyone can use anyone for just about anything.
      If you find yourself in the wrong state or county or even get the wrong judge anything can happen.
      Which is one of the biggest reasons there is to avoid exposing yourself to anything or anyone for any reason.
      With that said, there's probably a case to be made here that they could use some help or advice.
      However, it should probably be you dad who reaches out to them and the first words out of his mouth will probably be something like, "now before we begin I need to tell you......"

    • @rustyshack1707
      @rustyshack1707 3 года назад

      ^ Will you stop being such an insufferable jackass just for the sake of being right?? Point is it CAN happen and probably has, but if it hasn't, oh well I warned ya!

    • @rustyshack1707
      @rustyshack1707 3 года назад

      ^ but *can* it happen?

  • @kristenhitchcock1031
    @kristenhitchcock1031 3 года назад +176

    It makes my heart break every time you mention accessibility issues you encounter. Things need to change. That is just so effed up. Thank you for teaching us all how to be better humans. We need to do better!

    • @skullembzxm2210
      @skullembzxm2210 3 года назад

      Well said.

    • @ElayaHell
      @ElayaHell 3 года назад +2

      I think my dental office here in Stockholm has like wheel chair rooms... sad that not all places has it.. :(

    • @junbh2
      @junbh2 3 года назад +6

      They should at least know exactly who to refer him to. It would be different if they said 'we don't have the right kind of equipment or expertise to treat you, but here is the name and phone number of the nearest local person who can'. Surely there could be at least one specialist in each area, and other dentists could keep the information on hand to quickly refer patients to that specialist.

    • @alibhg3063
      @alibhg3063 3 года назад +1

      @@junbh2 Exactly! That isn't asking too much to get a referral who sees patients in wheelchair, especially when people were giving them wrong information.

  • @Typhoidandswans
    @Typhoidandswans 3 года назад +37

    Holding your partner on your lap while they get an x-ray, that’s love. You two are amazing

  • @TheGinchiest
    @TheGinchiest 3 года назад +32

    Shane! This is Viola, a fellow SMAer, the next time you search for a dentist just ask whether they have a room where you can fit in with your wheelchair and then explain that you require to stay in your chair and that the chair can modify itself (tilt, raise, etc) like a dental chair can. I’ve found many dentists who were more understanding and accommodating than what you’ve encountered and I attribute that to the way the situation was explained to them. Also, go back to PA and to PENN medicine oral surgery. They’re familiar with people like us to do these types of procedures. All the best! P.S. you guys inspired us to start our own vlog, The Ginchiest, about our disability experiences.

  • @Orangenkraft
    @Orangenkraft 3 года назад +347

    I'm a wheelchair taxi driver and I've had so many dentists in my taxi to see patients whose chairs wouldn't fit through the door. Where there's a will, there's a way!

    • @wildflower1397
      @wildflower1397 3 года назад +59

      Sounds like this is a common problem. We need some advocacy to change this!

    • @Orangenkraft
      @Orangenkraft 3 года назад +15

      @@wildflower1397 Definitely is! Missing or too small elevators are also a problem at all kinds of doctors.

    • @robincranford8360
      @robincranford8360 3 года назад +30

      Could he tolerate a water pik? That is what I use because I have TMJ pretty bad if I open my mouth to far my jaw pops out or locks. I put warm water a bit of mouth wash and a bit of peroxide. Just a thought. I will be praying for your safety, for the success of a surgery, and a quick recovery.

    • @Orangenkraft
      @Orangenkraft 3 года назад +8

      One dentist's office in my city has a wooden ramp that is so steep, narrow and slippery when it's wet that we're forbidden to push a wheelchair up there on our own - but the receptionists always refuse to come help, because "someone has to stay with the phone"

    • @pattyfluegel7816
      @pattyfluegel7816 3 года назад +7

      @@robincranford8360 maybe a water pick and a sonic toothbrush.

  • @LynneWright
    @LynneWright 3 года назад +580

    This sounds crazy but for a toothbrush, go to a specialty pet store and get a small dog toothbrush. They are smaller than infant toothbrushes, have a longer handle and are triangle shaped.

    • @Asdfgqedfglo
      @Asdfgqedfglo 3 года назад +31

      That’s the greatest idea! Perfect.

    • @janina8559
      @janina8559 3 года назад +13

      Brilliant! Hope they see that comment!

    • @rhodalle
      @rhodalle 3 года назад +26

      Hehe.. I can so picture Shane laughing about his "small dog" toothbrush.

    • @kate4biglittlevoices
      @kate4biglittlevoices 3 года назад +4

      I mean that IS a good idea !!!

    • @kate4biglittlevoices
      @kate4biglittlevoices 3 года назад +2

      And / or ... make or adapt one using thermal beads from Amazon to morph one

  • @abbymiller5242
    @abbymiller5242 3 года назад +498

    Hi! So I’ve been a dental assistant in a general office for 5 years, 2 years prior to that I worked with an oral surgeon. The first thing I want to tell you is that oral surgeons typically use conscious sedation for IV sedation, which is much different than general anesthesia. The patient is unaware of what’s going on but they are able to breathe and move a little bit on their own. Also, the method they will use to open your mouth is to use a mouth prop. Essentially they will insert a “car jack” and crank it open, which we can do when patients are awake but they don’t like it 😂 Another thing I’d like to recommend is that if Shane has more wisdom teeth, he may consider removing them all at once. Most able bodied people who can open their mouths very wide are not able to reach their wisdom teeth in order to keep them clean. Shane will be fighting a losing battle trying to prevent this from happening again. Please let me know if you have any questions! I genuinely believe any surgeons I’ve worked with would be able to help you. But I have to ask - why is Shane unable to be transferred to the dental chair? Good luck guys!

    • @queenofstitcheswarrior2668
      @queenofstitcheswarrior2668 3 года назад +6

      Crack it open with a car Jack? Sounds terrible 😨 Maybe a bit to much information but on the other hand you have to know what the options are. Dental things make me anxious as well, while having an 30 cm open stomach that i had to clean myself for 7 months was’nt a problem😂

    • @PixelSheep
      @PixelSheep 3 года назад +1

      .

    • @BrittanyLynn1106
      @BrittanyLynn1106 3 года назад +30

      I don't think he can sit/ lay into the dental chair without falling out. He can't hold himself up or still either. The straps on his chair keep him in place from leaning any further forward.

    • @abbymiller5242
      @abbymiller5242 3 года назад +24

      @@BrittanyLynn1106 that’s what I was thinking but wasn’t sure. I asked because if he were my patient, I would ask if we could try to use pillows to support him. I’ve done that many times for patients who are unable to lay flat.

    • @MagnanimousMinotaur
      @MagnanimousMinotaur 3 года назад

      +

  • @randyblair8978
    @randyblair8978 3 года назад +87

    A tip about stretching Shane's jaw: don't just stretch it down from the front of the mouth. Instead, find the place where Shane's jaw connects to the skull on either side of the face. You can find this by placing your fingers on either side of his face and have him "chew." It's not the temples by the eyes, it's a spot that's about an inch away from the center of the ear. There are ligaments here at the TM joint and what you need to do is take your thumbs or pointer finger and press in on the spot. You can massage it with your fingers or put pressure on it, although I'm not sure how hard you will want to press with Shane specifically given his medical issues. Typically, if you've never massaged this area it will "hurt" for the first few times and get easier the more you do it. But the ligament will eventually start to release the more times you massage it and it will increase his flexibility. Most everyone holds tension here that closes up the bite. Similarly, you can grab onto Shane's chin but instead of forcing it down like you were doing, have him completely relax his jaw muscles and just move it up and down for him in a chewing motion. The key is for him not to be holding tension at all, the jaw should feel completely free for you to move. You want to be focusing on exercising/eliminating the tension from the muscles and ligaments that hold the jaw to the skull rather than just pushing down.

    • @brib2252
      @brib2252 3 года назад +1

      Yes! I hope Shane and Hannah see this!

    • @mallory816
      @mallory816 3 года назад +1

      Also a registered massage therapist who does TMJ treatments, even intra-oral (inside the mouth).

    • @aprilwallace2791
      @aprilwallace2791 3 года назад +1

      I did this exercise while reading. I really need to exercise this tendon more. Thanks!

    • @jvrock7
      @jvrock7 3 года назад

      Is it normal for the tendon/ligament to hurt after doing this? And the joints now feel swollen. I can only open my mouth comfortably about an inch maybe a little less, due to tmjd and a previous dentist said that the discs in the joints swell because of my night clenching which is what is limiting my ability to open my mouth.
      After a minute, yup definitely swollen more because now I can't even close my jaw all the way

    • @randyblair8978
      @randyblair8978 3 года назад +1

      @@jvrock7 If you have never put pressure on this spot, you will definitely have sensation in the area. But if you are experiencing that adverse of a reaction where it is actually painful and causing swelling, stop the exercise. It's possible that you are massaging the wrong spot. Look up TMJ kneading/friction massage for more specific input.

  • @asha.2223
    @asha.2223 3 года назад +63

    This is crazy. As a dental hygienist who works in 2 offices - we have never ever turned patients down in a wheelchair. We do everything we can to accommodate anyone no matter what!

    • @shan22777
      @shan22777 3 года назад +3

      and are you american tho?

    • @asha.2223
      @asha.2223 3 года назад +9

      @@shan22777 absolutely not! OH CANAAADA 🇨🇦❤️

    • @bethanysummers3377
      @bethanysummers3377 Год назад

      Its the same in Australia, we see people in wheelchairs all the time. The tray with the instruments on it moves around, the patient can stay in their chair. If the wheelchair leans back it would help tho. There are also special clinics for people with special needs that can accommodate alot better.

  • @courtneyleigh6456
    @courtneyleigh6456 3 года назад +177

    It literally breaks my heart that Shane looks like his about to cry through most of this video. Just make me what to hug them

    • @cherylreaves490
      @cherylreaves490 3 года назад +1

      So sorry you are going through this. I will be praying for you.

  • @jilljoemolly
    @jilljoemolly 3 года назад +54

    So then it was actually a blessing that you went to the dentist and found this infection that you didn’t even know you had so now it can be taken care of.

  • @wonderfulonethree
    @wonderfulonethree 3 года назад +257

    Get a Waterpik or similar "oral irrigation" device. The tips are much smaller than a toothbrush and should help reach where brushing can't.

    • @lindacondray7918
      @lindacondray7918 3 года назад +13

      I was thinking same thing. My hygienist recommended doing waterpic in the shower when I complained of the mess. GAME CHANGER! It’s so much easier to use in the shower. Hannah could do it when she’s doing his bathing routine.

    • @pamboatwright8281
      @pamboatwright8281 3 года назад +3

      Waterpik - great idea!!!

    • @naturelover6111
      @naturelover6111 3 года назад

      I was going to suggest a water pic too.

    • @naturelover6111
      @naturelover6111 3 года назад +2

      Great idea to use it in the shower!

    • @naturelover6111
      @naturelover6111 3 года назад +3

      I don't think Shane showers every day.

  • @Casper-jx1zd
    @Casper-jx1zd 3 года назад +46

    This just sucks big time that you two kids have to deal with a “dental dilemma”! It’s going to be a hassle to go through, but in the end Shane will be healthier and stronger than ever before. Proud of you both. All will go well. Bless you two!

  • @kaylamcallister7088
    @kaylamcallister7088 3 года назад +9

    I’m a teacher of students with Severe Multiple Disabilities in Australia. Many of my students have differences in muscle tone and limited range of motion in the jaw, they all use wheelchairs. They go to the hospital every 6-12 months to have their teeth thoroughly cleaned under general anaesthetic. Many of them have also had teeth removed under general anaesthetic without issues. No one has ever needed a tracheostomy, they all come out of it fine. It can be done! The thorough professional cleaning every 6 months is also a great preventative.

    • @jvrock7
      @jvrock7 3 года назад

      It was probably iv sedation, which(taken from anesthesiologists comments), reduces consciousness but you can still breath on your own. General anesthesia process is a deeper loss of consciousness and includes a paralytic which requires intubation to help you breathe. ... which would mean they wouldn't be able to have work on their mouths done because the trach would be in in the way lol. 😊

    • @jvrock7
      @jvrock7 3 года назад

      Probably the students and/or parents that told you confused the two which is common. I didn't even fully know the difference till reading through comments here of anesthesiologists explaining it lol.

    • @jvrock7
      @jvrock7 3 года назад

      Also I was thinking along the same lines that it might just be nerves and these procedures are common and shouldn't be an issue but the more I thought about what they said, plus other doctors' and anesthesiologists comments, explained that with Shane's SMA, the muscle wasting presents a bigger risk of the airway collapsing even with just iv sedation, and that plus how small the space is in his mouth and inability to oen it enough for intubation would mean in the event of his airway collapsing it would incredibly difficult if not impossible to incubate quickly enough to to save his life or at least prevent brain damage from the longer period of loss of oxygen.

  • @garlandfraley734
    @garlandfraley734 3 года назад +75

    Prayers to find the dental surgeon to get the job done

  • @joannadavis1881
    @joannadavis1881 3 года назад +102

    Until you find a dentist GET a water pick. They are amazing. They get stuff out of your teeth that regular tooth brushing can't AND they get down into the smallest areas in your mouth.

    • @vl2425
      @vl2425 3 года назад +3

      Great idea!

    • @elizas3249
      @elizas3249 3 года назад +5

      Seconded. Water pick has saved my mouth after a countless dental issues. NO dentist ever reccomended a waterpik to me. It was a hygienist about 6 months ago who said it would help me with my inflamed gums and excessive calcified tartar buildup I have always gotten between cleanings and OH MY GOD. She was right, my teeth and gums have been obviously so so much more healthy for the first time in my life!

    • @rachelsmithkey9191
      @rachelsmithkey9191 3 года назад

      @@elizas3249 did you ever get rid of the calcified tartar build up??

    • @elizas3249
      @elizas3249 3 года назад +1

      @@rachelsmithkey9191 a hygienist always manages to scrape it off, but the waterpik has KEPT it off. And now I'm wondering why dental practices are so shady that in my 37 years this is the first this has been reccomended to me. My gums also are sooo happy, no longer red/inflamed.

    • @marieclairelebel
      @marieclairelebel 3 года назад +2

      If that's what I think, my dental hygienist used one at my last appointment. And honestly, that was the most painful thing I've ever had done in my mouth (and I have a few fillings!). I know my teeth and gums are sensitive, but I cried the entire time.

  • @juliajones2283
    @juliajones2283 3 года назад +54

    As someone who has a fear of dentists I really sympathise with you Shane. Prayers it all goes ok. Xx

  • @grandmaheidi5757
    @grandmaheidi5757 2 года назад +1

    I love that you kids can still laugh, even when you're stressed. I truly believe that your love for and support of one another is what helps get you through times like this. Keep it going!

  • @caitliin13
    @caitliin13 3 года назад +6

    When I worked as a dental assistant I actually did see one case in which the endodontist(root canal specialist) did recommend physical therapy over a couple weeks to widen the patient’s bite, so that’s not completely unheard of! It helped with access and then recovery for the jaw after since it wasn’t as abrasive to have it open after the widening. Maybe you can ask if that would help your case at all? Good luck Shane!!! Sending positivity and love to you both💜 you’ve got this!!!

  • @BPDjen747
    @BPDjen747 3 года назад +70

    I’m a nurse & worked in oral surgery for years. I feel like there’s a good chance they’ll do your case in the hospital OR rather than in the office.

    • @reno5964
      @reno5964 3 года назад +6

      I worked for an oral surgeon. I too was thinking they'd do it at the hospital.

  • @KSalmon74
    @KSalmon74 3 года назад +77

    One thing I have learned from my primary doctor is that you don’t tell them you’re in a wheelchair. Show up and let them try to accommodate you. My chair is way bigger than yours and I am also bigger than you. My dentist sees me in my chair. They always have. I have been to two other dentists and have been accommodated as well.

    • @sandraebrown5386
      @sandraebrown5386 3 года назад +10

      I agree with you. Unfortunately when you ring a dental clinic you’re talking to a naive receptionist who knows nothing about different needs. If you just turn up like you suggested then they’re forced to get a dentist to come out and talk to you and discuss options.

    • @DHU11
      @DHU11 3 года назад +5

      Eh but some of them folks got no bedside manner at all just clinical and cold as hell... will dismiss you then and there wheelchair and all. I suppose you do have more of a chance of some being more compassionate and empathetic once they actually see you physically, but some will not also

    • @lindamatthews4939
      @lindamatthews4939 3 года назад +2

      Hello...I worked at both the (front admitting, and back surgery, of an oral surgery office). I'm not a receptionist, I 'm an RN!!..Just saying..

    • @SoCalJellybean
      @SoCalJellybean 3 года назад +3

      Sort of along the lines of “it’s easier to ask forgiveness than to ask permission”!! 😂

  • @nlarose5
    @nlarose5 3 года назад +32

    Good luck. Sending positive vibes for quick healing ❤️

  • @catieelizabeth3879
    @catieelizabeth3879 3 года назад +277

    Listening to you talking about how dental offices wouldn’t accommodate your wheelchair makes me so angry. I’m a dental hygienist in upstate New York and we have many patients in wheelchairs that we treat. Some transfer and some can’t. Our office is 100% wheelchair accessible. I can’t believe there are so many offices around you that wouldn’t treat you because of that.

    • @ZairaBandy
      @ZairaBandy 3 года назад +4

      what exactly do your dental office have to make it accessible?? does the chair has different form? you can remove the chair and have the human in their wheelchair?

    • @beverlyt.5526
      @beverlyt.5526 3 года назад +1

      I'm also from Upstate NY, Honeoye Falls 20 minutes outside of Rochester.

    • @Glueby
      @Glueby 3 года назад +6

      Exactly I went to the dental surgeon for a CT yesterday and they rolled me up to it. Also they say I can stay in my chair at the actual dentist. This makes me sad that they did that too you!

    • @sunlitmountain6436
      @sunlitmountain6436 3 года назад +4

      When a business like this -- uh, a medical office, of all places -- says they can't accommodate a wheelchair user it's like saying, "In order for us to serve you, we require you to remove your legs."

    • @RG-hf4et
      @RG-hf4et 3 года назад +4

      Before all you people bash dentists, which I am sick of hearing, some offices can't handle wheelchair patients especially if it is an older office. Years ago, there were no building standards that had to be met, there were no ramps, wide hallways or doors and treatment rooms and bathrooms were small. Things changed when new laws went into effect to make everything handicapped accessible with new construction. Now, most offices can accommodate a wheelchair. Now, if my office got a call describing Shane's situation needing wisdom teeth extractions in a wheelchair with also other physical issues to consider, I would tell him we could not accommodate him, not by of wheelchair sizing, but because of his special needs, which would require hospitalization for wisdom teeth extractions. Extracting wisdom teeth can be very difficult and a good dentist will know when to treat a patient and when to refer them out to an oral surgeon who generally always have hospital privileges. Shane's call wasn't for bonding a front tooth, folks, which can easily be done in a wheelchair.

  • @sandrabaker1588
    @sandrabaker1588 3 года назад +2

    I have had mobility issues requiring an electric wheelchair so seeing dentists, oral surgeons and maxillofacial surgeons has been really difficult. I started going to special needs clinics first Mount Sinai Hospital,Toronto. Now, Ottawa Civic Hospital. I can’t open my jaw very much so I understand what you are dealing with. Good luck to you both.❤️

  • @davebones6120
    @davebones6120 3 года назад +35

    I'm so sorry. We will be praying for both of you.

  • @lindacondray7918
    @lindacondray7918 3 года назад +53

    I just kept thinking about your access advocacy goals for this channel and this is a PERFECT example. I never even thought about the difficulty wheelchair bound people would have accessing something as basic as BASIC dentistry. More Dentists offices should look into having at least one room of a clinic being fully wheelchair accessible and how to accommodate bodily limitations. It’s not like Shane is the only person with limitations out there! GOOD LUCK!

    • @khushbupatel3199
      @khushbupatel3199 3 года назад +4

      @madge bullwinkle this is extremely ignorant and insensitive. Although some wheelchair users are able to transfer to the dental chair themselves/with assistance, if isn't possible for everyone

    • @khushbupatel3199
      @khushbupatel3199 3 года назад +2

      In the UK there's something called "community dental services" which have special facilities/dentists to provide care to patients with additional needs. Maybe this is something America needs to look into!

    • @disconnect9084
      @disconnect9084 3 года назад

      @madge bullwinkleyou are a heartless person. I hope you find your karma and face difficuilties n your life that makes you understand this couple's struggles. And i hope you overcome them but not without feeling what they feel. Good luck

    • @disconnect9084
      @disconnect9084 3 года назад +1

      @madge bullwinkle Did you listen them carefully? Is this your first time watchng them? If it is check out his condition. He is saying he can't find a dentist to help him with his condition. And there is no one definition of karma. I lived in India everyone has a different opinion like all religions it's open to interpretation. Call it karma call it forced emphaty.. You need to soften your heart and understand what you judge.

    • @myleemae7858
      @myleemae7858 3 года назад +3

      Just for information, we are not "bound" to our wheelchairs. We "use" them for mobility. If someone tries to bind me to mine, there will be a fight!

  • @avedomineinferni5245
    @avedomineinferni5245 3 года назад +103

    I’m a 22 yr old addict in recovery. I used meth and heroin for almost 10 years,I got sober and went in to a dentist who then pointed to A oral surgeon to get 12 teeth surgically cut out in 1 day.. it was hard, but i felt so much better getting them out! I know your situation is different but I hope it makes you feel comforted you aren’t alone 🖤

    • @shellymcdonough6876
      @shellymcdonough6876 3 года назад +8

      Good job 👏

    • @Thestephouse1
      @Thestephouse1 3 года назад +7

      Well done ❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @amyhendricks3627
      @amyhendricks3627 3 года назад +16

      Congratulations for overcoming! The "difficult factor" involved in your recovery is often misunderstood and underestimated. You are strong and powerful! :) Never forget it!

    • @grandmaknows9320
      @grandmaknows9320 3 года назад +26

      My son is a homeless heroin addict. Your recovery gives me hope. It's been 8 years. I'm grateful he's alive. I've tried to help him. It's heartbreaking. 😭

    • @diananickel3086
      @diananickel3086 3 года назад +12

      @@grandmaknows9320 prayed for your son, asking for a miracle in his life that glorifies God. 😊

  • @delciagarcia8287
    @delciagarcia8287 3 года назад

    I’m so sorry to hear. I completely understand Shane’s apprehension. Please do make sure this is done in a good hospital and that your oral surgeon has all necessary staff booked for this. Come prepared to the first consultation with as many questions as you can. Wishing you an uneventful procedure. Please keep us posted. Best to you and lovely Hannah. 💕

  • @christinaodaniel510
    @christinaodaniel510 3 года назад

    I have such a heart for you two. I am praying for you and hope all the best. I am a 48 year old mama of 3 and grandma of 3. It helps me to feel better about this world knowing that you two are a part of it. ❤

  • @nancymerchant7444
    @nancymerchant7444 3 года назад +52

    I was a dental assistant for 8 years we weekly went to the hospital and put children and special needs patients under while we fixed the entire mouth. If you can find a pediatric dentist and or oral surgeon who routinely does that you will be in good hands. Don't worry the anesthesiologist will manage your breathing and the surgeon can take your infected molar out and nobody needs wisdom teeth they cause nothing but problems.

    • @carolcline2830
      @carolcline2830 3 года назад +3

      A pediatric OMF surgeon was exactly what I was going to recommend as well!

    • @localwalker5696
      @localwalker5696 3 года назад

      I worked in max fax for 25 years this is not a massive problem in the UK
      Adults with special needs are aenastetised and operated on
      Routinely even with this problem
      Once your asleep a mouth prop or Ferguson's mouth gag will be used it's not a problem

    • @sixmercer2504
      @sixmercer2504 3 года назад

      My daughter has special needs and has a feeding tube and a ton of dental problems because she doesn't chew and water doesn't wash over her teeth to help with buildup of plaque and tarter. She has severe GI issues and anything that gets close to her mouth causes her to have severe gagging episodes that can last for 5 minutes. She had a nissen (they tied off the top of her stomach so she couldn't throw up) because she had severe reflux and couldn't keep anything down. It was the worst thing and has cause nothing but problems...such as....we can't brush her teeth. She has been going to the hospital to a special needs dentist every 2 weeks and they put her under the first 6 months probably and slowly she got to the point where she hasn't needed sedation. They are so good with her, they let her inspect each tool and ask questions and they tell her everything that it does (without the "it yanks out your teeth" talk) and the suction and drill they let her play with and they'd turn it off and on. This is exactly why she lives in Norway under the care of my best friend. The insurance crap and carelessness of the medical system in America almost killed her. We never would have found a dentist like that or been covered by insurance for it. Norway has been a dream come true. She has no issues at the dentist. She gets into the chair and is ready before anyone else is and her adoptive mom, my best friend, doesn't even have to stay in the room with her anymore. She even had braces and extractions etc. Her dirty mouth gets her into trouble, but not because she has rotten teeth! It's impressive what they can do for people with special needs

  • @wheelie26
    @wheelie26 3 года назад +36

    I have an amazing dentist where I drive my chair onto a special platform where I’m strapped down and then the platform raises to lay me down. It’s so accessible and the staff are all amazing.
    Sadly for you I’m in the UK.

    • @irenedavo3768
      @irenedavo3768 3 года назад +4

      Wow!

    • @wheelie26
      @wheelie26 3 года назад

      @@irenedavo3768 it’s so impressive and enables me to go to the dentist after many years of not being able to.

  • @dianeharnisch634
    @dianeharnisch634 3 года назад +126

    Go to a major hospital. A learning hosp. They have the latest equipment and very knowledgeable.

    • @madelinemodrak7644
      @madelinemodrak7644 3 года назад +1

      Great idea!

    • @chairninja
      @chairninja 3 года назад +4

      True I had a rare condition called reabsorption and I went to a teaching hospital. Always had students gathered round me watching their teacher work on me weird but the treatment worked. Betting the Dentist got a paper out of my case 👍☺️

    • @judyivie4181
      @judyivie4181 3 года назад +2

      Also the cost is minimal compared to a specialist.

    • @chairninja
      @chairninja 3 года назад +1

      @@judyivie4181 Also true nice one 👍☺️

    • @ruthmiller4513
      @ruthmiller4513 3 года назад +2

      Your right there in Minnesota maybe check with Mayo clinic. Everything will be ok Shane. Sending prayers your way.

  • @cstar6682
    @cstar6682 3 года назад

    Once again I can count on you to educate me on the inaccessibility issues people with disabilities face. It never occurred to me that seeing a dentist would be so difficult! Sending positive thoughts your way for a quick and speedy procedure and recovery.

  • @jenny-hamel
    @jenny-hamel 3 года назад +3

    Oh Shane :( That's so scary, sorry you have to go through this --- sending all the good vibes your way!

  • @cynthiascott3056
    @cynthiascott3056 3 года назад +48

    There is a large difference between general anesthesia and conscious sedation by IV. I would not think IV sedation would be as dangerous.

  • @theheartoftexastv
    @theheartoftexastv 3 года назад +51

    So sorry. Y'all have had a rough week. I promise everything does get better with time.

  • @lolly5453
    @lolly5453 3 года назад +122

    IV sedation is titrated so that you’re still conscious and closely monitored so that you’re breathing for yourself etc - not as risky as a general anaesthetic. An oral surgeon will be able to access the tooth and have the tools to get the trickiest teeth out. No one will be breaking your jaw! 😱 You’ll be in great hands, I’m sure. Are there oral surgeons in hospital you could see who would have better equipment to accommodate you?
    For future reference, there are orthodontic type toothbrushes that are basically tiny little tufts on a long handle which are great for getting to those back teeth and tricky areas!
    I’m so sorry you’ve had a rough week, but I’ve worked with some amazingly talented oral surgeons and I know you’ll be absolutely fine. Best of luck and thinking of you both 😘

    • @Boredchinchilla
      @Boredchinchilla 3 года назад +8

      I go to a special needs dentist who just does everything while I’m under IV sedation. Some of my medications have just destroyed my teeth and made them so fragile, but he has never even cracked a tooth while doing work. Special needs dentists also often factor in the cost of the IV sedation since they use it all the time- mine charges $750 for it, but once the dental work is over $500 (which is every time, let’s be honest) the sedation is free. The only issue I have had with IV sedation is that I crave junk food right after, and I don’t even remember eating it since I am still under the influence of the sedation even though I look wide awake- if I’m going to make myself ill eating a Big Mac I want to at least remember it.

  • @carolynwilson7806
    @carolynwilson7806 3 года назад +12

    We also see patients in the hospital and have the capability of taking X-rays and and do all dental work needed.

  • @flowerpower1054
    @flowerpower1054 3 года назад

    I love your positive outlook, joking and trying to keep it lighthearted. I’m sorry you’re having such a difficult time finding the assistance you need.
    Sending you positive thoughts, all the best.

  • @rosieschweebie
    @rosieschweebie 3 года назад +15

    Prayers for a good outcome, and no fears and anxiety. I had my tooth pulled in January and the dentist looked at me and he could tell I was praying as his drilling my tooth out!! He actually said, Are you praying I’ll be done soon?” Yes I was!!😀😀

    • @natalielunceford5222
      @natalielunceford5222 3 года назад +1

      Will be praying for you and I'm sure you will do fine! I was able to transfer into the oral surgeons chair , but I also have issues with opening my mouth very far and I had all of my teeth removed. I have low O2 SATs and am bedridden but I did very well. Contacting a teaching hospital is probably the best idea.

  • @enaidu58
    @enaidu58 3 года назад +16

    I feel badly. I’m in Ontario, Canada. For me this is very strange. It is quite common to have I.V. sedation with a nurse for extraction of wisdom teeth. We accommodate patients in a wheelchair all of the time.. I’m glad you you found an office that can accommodate you. 🙏🏻

    • @Nasarae
      @Nasarae 3 года назад +3

      Insane to me how you pay so much for medical in the US but still get this poor of a service.

  • @kelseylynnmac
    @kelseylynnmac 3 года назад +174

    Kudos to that dentist for accommodating for you. I had no idea there were so many dentists that couldn’t work with wheelchairs.

    • @AlinneaDarklordsSis
      @AlinneaDarklordsSis 3 года назад +9

      Often it isn’t that dentists can’t work with wheelchairs, so much as most dentists/staff don’t want to put in the effort to accommodate wheelchairs. I’m also a powerchair user and most newer (post-ADA) clinics can move equipment and dentists chairs around to make the space accessible, it’s just a bit of a hassle. Many dentists and dental technicians are also afraid to work with disabled people who have mobility issues that might complicate their work, IMO.

    • @archangel5395
      @archangel5395 3 года назад +10

      I mean, shouldn't we be thinking about wheelchairs in the medical system lol. I feel like that would be important but it's a complex problem.

    • @chicago280803
      @chicago280803 3 года назад +8

      I thought all businesses especially hospitals,doctors offices, dentist... were required to accommodate? If it’s not required it really should be... at the very least.. they should have thought of that... when planning... it should not be that hard to receive care... doctor dentist or other... I’m so sorry you had to go through that! Absolutely love you both! Keep being wonderful! Take care!

    • @kelseylynnmac
      @kelseylynnmac 3 года назад +1

      @@archangel5395 all the dental offices I’ve worked at have had at least one room with a chair that moves, but not all dentists probably have the experience and equipment available to them to help patients with accessibility needs.

    • @archangel5395
      @archangel5395 3 года назад +1

      @@kelseylynnmac Right. That's a problem in my opinion.

  • @ovenmicrowavemamma1
    @ovenmicrowavemamma1 3 года назад

    I'm so sorry to hear this news.
    Both of you will be in my prayers for this procedure to go smoothly.
    Sincerely,
    Deb.

  • @dom19945
    @dom19945 3 года назад +151

    We sent a Tesla into space, but can't clean someone's teeth who's in a wheelchair?

    • @ReZnMusic
      @ReZnMusic 3 года назад +4

      That's because we didn't send a tesla into space all that shit is fake

    • @AP-uj2fg
      @AP-uj2fg 3 года назад +2

      Thaaaat's ableism!

    • @rojava1619
      @rojava1619 3 года назад +2

      I also use an electric wheelchair going to the dentist is a nightmare I live in the U.K. we have some good access imagine what it is like in a country without any access like the U.K.

    • @Person-lx1qu
      @Person-lx1qu 3 года назад +4

      @@ReZnMusic I'm gonna assume you're a flat earther.

    • @emilievalentine9876
      @emilievalentine9876 3 года назад +1

      That’s the real question right there.

  • @djbby13
    @djbby13 3 года назад +17

    The stretch that Hannah demonstrated was actually recommended to me post oral surgery. And helped with my pain. Not sure how much it will loosen his jaw... but I seriously hope it does! Fingers crossed! 🤞🏼

  • @amandaz5789
    @amandaz5789 3 года назад +148

    I recommend getting a children’s electric toothbrush or toothbrush head because they’re smaller so I find they can get the back teeth better.

  • @Toffee146
    @Toffee146 3 года назад +39

    In the UK, cases like Shane's would either be seen in a dental hospital, or a general hospital.
    With Shane's condition, it's far too risky, just to be seen at a regular dentist.

    • @deborahfollowscornell9007
      @deborahfollowscornell9007 3 года назад +1

      I agree, I think the hospital would bed the safest place,they are more equipped to handle any thing that could come up.

    • @joanparkinson6378
      @joanparkinson6378 3 года назад +1

      I hope you will be able to relax and not get to worked up when you have your treatment when my daughter was about 7 I took her to the dentists and she was crying and running round the the room and she kicked dentist I was so embarrassed and the dentist said he could not treat her as she was so naughty she was always a good girl but she was scared she panicked I didn't take her back again

  • @lisalooft8770
    @lisalooft8770 3 года назад

    I can see by the redness on your right cheek that goes down your neck, you do indeed have a serious infection going on. Thank goodness you're on an antibiotic. Good luck with your search and prayers for you during your surgery. Keep us posted. Love your channel! 💙

  • @Shadowstar971
    @Shadowstar971 3 года назад +5

    I’ve never thought about the difficulties of dental care for those with disabilities! There really should be more dentists that can accommodate people who can’t move into a dentist chair!

  • @yasminealice
    @yasminealice 3 года назад +12

    I love Shane's mindset. The amount of people I've recommended his books to are... many!

  • @fluffyclouds555
    @fluffyclouds555 3 года назад +38

    Hearing about how Hannah balanced Shane for the X-ray. That is so mundanely sweet

  • @donnaa858
    @donnaa858 3 года назад +26

    Make sure whoever you choose you talk to him or her personally about your concerns. Dentists are usually very kind, but they need to meet you beforehand. It'll make you feel better & the dentist will know what they are getting into. (Yeah yeah, your mouth!!) Good luck 💐💐

  • @katherinerae521
    @katherinerae521 3 года назад +1

    I can’t imagine how frustrating this must be. I once thought that I could never get a license because two driving schools turned me away because I was a “liability” (I have cerebral palsy and needed adaptive equipment). Finally, one school accepted me and treated me like I was a normal person; which I am. If it wasn’t for them, I would have given up. And that was just driving!! No one should go without basic medical care because people refuse to or can't accommodate them. ESPECIALLY MEDICAL PROFESSIONALS!! I just wish we were seen as human beings rather than inconveniences. I’m so sorry you’re going through this, Shane... Nothing but love for the both of you.

  • @sharonchristian8508
    @sharonchristian8508 3 года назад

    You both made me feel so much better today. Really puts all my LITTLE complaints in perspective. Much love and prayers to both of you.

  • @wildflower1397
    @wildflower1397 3 года назад +9

    Stay strong and share the love... you can handle anything together! 💕💖

  • @erinmartin9133
    @erinmartin9133 3 года назад +7

    Hi guys! I am so sorry you’re having to go through this!! BUT- I am so happy you’ve found a caring, competent dentist. Thank god for that! I am sending you all the positive love, vibes, prayers, and energy!! Set your mind in a positive manner and you got this!!!! I am hoping your video message will help you in your search for an oral surgeon!!! ♥️☀️💯🙌🏼

  • @evelynbustos2620
    @evelynbustos2620 3 года назад

    Good luck, Shane.prayers are coming your way. Sending my Angles to watch over this procedure. You are so Amazing! You will get through this. You have such a loving family, and friends sending love for a speedy recovery.

  • @emmalavinnia9457
    @emmalavinnia9457 3 года назад

    I had a similar scenario to take care of & live in Minnesota! We had it done at the Mayo Clinic- they can fully put you under to remove your wisdom teeth, are use to accommodating wheelchairs, and have a full surgical team/hospital if something should happen. Highly suggest if your still looking!

  • @Julessa
    @Julessa 3 года назад +13

    Omg! I will pray for you, Shane. You guys are gonna get through this. 🙏🏽

  • @natalielomske
    @natalielomske 3 года назад +16

    Hello! I have muscular dystrophy and have a similar jaw issue. When the surgeon removed my wisdom teeth they cut my gum on the side and removed the teeth sidewise while only using local anesthetic. Maybe that is a possibility? My surgeon is in Michigan! Let me know if you'd like their info :)

  • @darylmcbride5426
    @darylmcbride5426 3 года назад +13

    Due to having have MS and being told surgery wasn’t an option for me. I ruptured 2 discs, I lived in pain but finally found a surgeon that said I could have surgery I had a spinal fusion done and I’m still alive! Don’t give up!!!

    • @DHU11
      @DHU11 3 года назад +1

      My bro also has MS (PPMS) and his muscles are all atrophied including those in his mouth. One surgeon said they wouldn’t do the surgery he needed because of the risk, but for that one there was like three others we consulted who said they would be happy to do it. He had an 8 hour surgery under GA and he the surgery went amazingly, this was around 4 years ago and the surgery vastly improved his life and was totally fine. I hope Shane gets his surgery and is fine too.

    • @rachelcastaneda1381
      @rachelcastaneda1381 3 года назад

      Oh I feel your pain. I have been dealing with increased pain in my back and have arthritis in my back. My hip has mild to moderate arthritis as well. And I am in chronic pain too.
      I had all 4 of my wisdom teeth removed at once. I say take a breathe and call insurance plan if there is B a as dentist who can work with you to remove your tooth safely and quickly.

    • @caity8904
      @caity8904 3 года назад

      Why wouldnt surgery be an option because you have ms?

    • @darylmcbride5426
      @darylmcbride5426 3 года назад

      @@caity8904I was told that almost 20 Dr’s know more now than then. 20 yrs ago I also think that due to be MS being a disease of the central nervous system Dr’s were afraid to take a chance on getting close to my spinal cord, but I don’t know for sure.

    • @caity8904
      @caity8904 3 года назад

      @@darylmcbride5426 interesting. I have MS and cant imagine being told I couldn't get surgery because of it. Although, like you said, they didn't know as much back then.

  • @edelweissacres
    @edelweissacres 3 года назад +1

    Hey Shane, I think you are super brave! I was petrified of going under. I wouldn’t even get my blood drawn until I was pregnant. When I had to go under to have my gallbladder removed I was pleasantly surprised at how relaxed I was when I woke up. It was like having the best nap of my life. I understand your fear though. I recommend you ask as many questions as you want to before you go under. A lot of surgeons are open to having consultation for people who have fears. I wish you the best of luck and sending you love from Canada!

  • @ellaevans1809
    @ellaevans1809 3 года назад

    Hi Shane and Hannah! Thank you so, so much for speaking in front of my school! (The Blake School) Your stories are so inspiring and your relationship is adorable! I recently moved to Minnesota from Colorado and I learned that you both live in Minnesota! That you so much for zooming with us. I hope to see you both again soon!

  • @latoyajackson9016
    @latoyajackson9016 3 года назад +5

    Sending prayers to you all. I'm sure everything will work out.

  • @JamesRocks920
    @JamesRocks920 3 года назад +12

    Good luck for the surgery ✝️ 🙏🏻

  • @animallover48083
    @animallover48083 3 года назад +13

    I’m sending good vibes! I’ve also been prolonging going to the dentist.... maybe this is my sign to go 😬

  • @momperkins55
    @momperkins55 3 года назад +1

    Prayers 💙

  • @bluehairedoldlady
    @bluehairedoldlady 3 года назад +1

    Sending out love and support for you two. Haven't seen a new video in days, so starting to worry. Hoping you are both doing well.

  • @calicat1996
    @calicat1996 3 года назад +75

    Sedation and anaesthesia/general anaesthetic are two completely different things. Sedation you can breathe on your own, anaesthesia is where you would require intubation aka a breathing tube and has much more risks than just sedation. So if they are thinking he will only need sedation not anaesthesia, that’s a GOOD thing. No intubation, no breathing tube. Surgical nurse here :)

    • @pememepee
      @pememepee 3 года назад

      Here in greece i had my appendix out and seems inkiba woke or began groaning so the upped the
      Sedation/ir was it anesthesia, which do you think they possibly did .I was 55 when i had the op

    • @calicat1996
      @calicat1996 3 года назад

      @@pememepee did you have a spinal (epidural) at all?

    • @JennyLouRN
      @JennyLouRN 3 года назад +1

      Yes, I made a similar comment above. People often mistake IV sedation for general anesthesia. Many people will be “out” with a little IV versed, but it is short acting and simply reduces consciousness, yet the person breathes on their own, unless there are complications. But in general anesthesia, muscle paralytics are often used, as well as amnesiacs, and intubation is necessary.

    • @joanbaczek2575
      @joanbaczek2575 3 года назад +1

      With his condition even sedation is dangerous

  • @berthagreen1620
    @berthagreen1620 3 года назад +6

    Just remember to follow instructions. My husband didn’t think is was bad until his cheek was like a chipmunk and the pain hit. He was supposed to come home and put ice but he went back to work. By that time , he was in bad shape. The funny part is our daughter worked for the surgeon.

  • @WaterRat13
    @WaterRat13 3 года назад +6

    I couldn’t open my mouth wide enough to remove my wisdom teeth. They had to put me on anesthesia and did something to my jaw to get it wide enough. I was up in MN, but this was 20 years ago. I hope you find a good surgeon and it goes well.

  • @keonapolhamus5949
    @keonapolhamus5949 3 года назад

    Oh Shane I’m sorry to hear this! You’ll be okay! I had emergency dental surgery last year - not as risky as yours, but I understand the urgency and fear. It’s so scary, but once it’s over you’ll feel so much relief!

  • @pkmagic
    @pkmagic 3 года назад +1

    Hi you guys. I'm a nurse and was just discussing this with an anesthesiologist. We recommend that you seek care through a university dental program. You will need a thorough pre OP work up and university hospitals will have everything available there. Dont worry. It can be done safely. Blessing.

  • @nicolebutterfly1982
    @nicolebutterfly1982 3 года назад +96

    I’m so aggravated that there’s not adaptive equipment for this! I mean, just an adaptable toothbrush for people with SMA would be helpful!

    • @erincashengoode8443
      @erincashengoode8443 3 года назад

      Totally wrong!

    • @ziutasow2244
      @ziutasow2244 3 года назад

      There are smaller toothbrushes. It sounds like they just welp it doesnt reach hopefully mouthwash does it. 🤷🏼‍♀️🤯

    • @tiffanybrown9848
      @tiffanybrown9848 3 года назад

      I agree. It's total crap!

  • @thomas.alexander.
    @thomas.alexander. 3 года назад +59

    Remember that the sedation is not the same as a General Anaesthetic, which requires the patient to be on a ventilator.

    • @troopertaylor498
      @troopertaylor498 3 года назад +12

      That’s what I’m sitting here saying as I’m watching the video. Sedation for oral surgery is totally different than general anesthesia.

    • @GrandmaSue75
      @GrandmaSue75 3 года назад +5

      You don’t have to be on a ventilator for general anesthesia, as most patients can still breathe on their own, but they have to be able to fit an oral airway in your throat, which might be difficult in Shane’s case. I would definitely suggest going to a a hospital that also has oral surgeons practicing in it.

    • @gaillittle1700
      @gaillittle1700 3 года назад

      that's how I've had my wisdom teeth taken out.

    • @thomas.alexander.
      @thomas.alexander. 3 года назад

      @@GrandmaSue75 During any surgery that requires general anesthesia, a ventilator is necessary. There are also times when a ventilator is required after surgery, as the patient may not be able to breathe on their own immediately after the procedure.

    • @GrandmaSue75
      @GrandmaSue75 3 года назад +1

      @@thomas.alexander. You’re right. I misspoke. Thank you for correcting me.

  • @parismather5734
    @parismather5734 3 года назад +52

    Just reading the title makes me worried and hearing that it is the worst week yet.

  • @blumberg1982
    @blumberg1982 3 года назад +1

    There has to be someone in 2021 that can work on you Shane, exactly. I am in 100% agreement Hannah.

  • @rachelkingsley668
    @rachelkingsley668 3 года назад

    A friend of mine has dental phobia- it nearly killed him when he had an abscess and the infection was so bad he was hospitalised as he was near septicaemia. Dental health is so important! Because the blood supply goes around the body so it can spread serious infection. I’m so shocked that it was so difficult for you to find a dentist who could help! I’m sure there must be some dentists who specialise in working with people with all kinds of disabilities- they may have special brushes, tools or techniques to help? Or maybe an OT could help with regular brushing strategies?
    Praying for a smooth surgery and a swift recovery! xx

  • @jessicamoore1227
    @jessicamoore1227 3 года назад +5

    I worked for an oral surgeon for a while, iv sedation and anesthesia can be different, most oral surgeons do a "moderate" sedation where you are able to more easily breathe on your own! Hope everything goes well!

  • @balancingroom2281
    @balancingroom2281 3 года назад +44

    I will ask my oral surgeon if he has any suggestions. It’s shocking to me that no dentist would accommodate you all these years.

    • @PedromyChichi07
      @PedromyChichi07 3 года назад

      He can't open the back of his mouth is why

    • @madeleinecho8469
      @madeleinecho8469 3 года назад +5

      @@PedromyChichi07 Dentists weren’t accommodating him in his wheelchair, it had nothing to do with how wide he could open his mouth. If he could have transferred to the dentist chair they would have done his regular teeth cleaning.
      The mouth not opening is only the issue now that he needs a tooth removed.

  • @ubbyswife
    @ubbyswife 3 года назад +4

    How in the world are there so few dentists who can serve those who deal with mobility challenges?
    I’m really sorry that you’re having to deal with this. Prayers for a speedy resolution! 💝

  • @naturelover6111
    @naturelover6111 3 года назад

    Thinking of you Shane. * sending hugs * I hope you find a good solution soon.

  • @Annabel92L
    @Annabel92L 3 года назад

    Hey sorry to hear about your tooth!! I used to be a nurse and I also suffer from bruxism (clenching of jaw). I’d recommend doing some stretches for TMJ (temporal mandibular joint) pain. I know it isn’t the problem you have but these stretches help to relax the jaw and help to open mouth wider. If you do it daily it should help for the surgery. Sending good thoughts!!

  • @winter2625
    @winter2625 3 года назад +132

    Shame on the dentists who wouldn’t even try to find a solution! Unbelievable!

    • @Fordgroup00
      @Fordgroup00 3 года назад +15

      Oh for Pete’s sake. If a place isn’t equipped then they can’t just suddenly make exceptions

    • @SarahsCraftyCreation
      @SarahsCraftyCreation 3 года назад +32

      @@Fordgroup00 right but they should have someone they can refer the patient to, disabled people shouldn’t have to sacrifice their dental health because he can’t physically get out of the chair

    • @desteni1992
      @desteni1992 3 года назад +26

      @@Fordgroup00 So many people are in wheelchairs and more medical places should be accessible

    • @sandraebrown5386
      @sandraebrown5386 3 года назад +5

      I agree @Winter. Shame on them.

    • @sandraebrown5386
      @sandraebrown5386 3 года назад +12

      @@Fordgroup00 Rubbish. There is always a solution. At the very least the first dental clinic Shane contacted should’ve made the effort to find a dentist for him that was suitable.

  • @morganb.507
    @morganb.507 3 года назад +47

    The University of Iowa Dental College (Iowa City, IA) is one of the top dental programs in the country! They have a lot of patient services to accommodate for unique cases and they also provide emergency dental services so I would assume you'd be able to get an appointment fairly soon.

    • @hollyhock3945
      @hollyhock3945 3 года назад +3

      They really are great. My dentist is an instructor there.

    • @rhondawarren3176
      @rhondawarren3176 3 года назад

      Best place to go for an unusual situation!

  • @ShadowTheFosterCat
    @ShadowTheFosterCat 3 года назад +11

    Oh no, I'm so sorry!! This story was frustrating from start to finish. I hope everything turns out well, and you're able to find an expert who can work with you. Also, on a personal note, thanks for sharing this story. Three years ago, I had bad experiences with two different dentists, and I haven't been to one since. This video is the push I needed to do the frustrating but necessary work of finding another dentist.

    • @tinydancer7426
      @tinydancer7426 3 года назад

      Wish you were here. My dentist is so kind and patient ...... and as gentle as one can be when drilling holes in teeth. And the oral surgeon he referred me to for a dental implant ...... well, I can only sing praises about him.

  • @Dnosirrom
    @Dnosirrom 3 года назад

    This brings light to the struggle persons with disabilities have finding proper healthcare. I work as a direct support worker and if people knew how often situations like this came up, they would be shocked to action. I've supported persons who couldn't get their gall bladder out because surgons "didn't know how they would manage" or just refused because the individual was in a wheelchair. The list goes on.
    Shane, I hope you find that wonder dentist who is able to do this for you and find a creative solution, and I hope if anything this opens peoples eyes to the struggle persons with disabilities have finding fair and proper healthcare.

  • @ladytinag4276
    @ladytinag4276 2 года назад

    Thank you for being a shining example of what marriage is. Through the thick & thin, good & bad & all other vow commitments.

  • @skiakardia3966
    @skiakardia3966 3 года назад +9

    I hope all goes well for you both.

  • @amberfairclough9892
    @amberfairclough9892 3 года назад +5

    Amazing strength in your couple well done xxx hope everything goes well

  • @Sophia.K
    @Sophia.K 3 года назад +6

    I removed at an oral surgeon all 4 very impacted wisdom teeth, all at once, all while awake!! It was so difficult and hard and the pulling and pressure was just so much.. Surgery lasted 2 hours. I can only imagine the stress this is causing you due to the situation that is of course more difficult in your case.. You ve got this, it is a thing that needs to be done and get over with , and you will👏💕

  • @melissaz6778
    @melissaz6778 3 года назад

    Yep I can relate. I'm a paraplegic and pretty much can't go to a lot of appointments for the same reason. The place I go to get my eyes checked constantly send me reminders to go in, but I only go in when I have to renew my drivers license and no more than I have to because their access is bad and I end up in pain for a couple of weeks after each appointment because I have to go out of my way to accommodate them. I tell them every time that if they were actually accessible I'd be there more often.

  • @kaymanning9911
    @kaymanning9911 3 года назад

    Praying for Shane and Hanna. You two are Blessings to the world

  • @gracep2910
    @gracep2910 3 года назад +33

    Shane, IV sedation is different than general anesthesia (which requires a breathing tube). Feel free to ask the oral surgeon questions. I think this would be pretty safe for you.

    • @jamesosteen09
      @jamesosteen09 3 года назад +1

      Agreed. I've had both and the experience (and my post-op reaction) was night and day. My IV sedation for oral oral surgery was nothing.

    • @Miss_Distress
      @Miss_Distress 3 года назад +1

      That’s what I was thinking.. it would be the twilight sedation right(that’s what it’s called in Australia anyway)?