Most men/women comes in relationship at early age just to look cool , it is very much possible that your partner can see someone much much more successful than you , and then your relationship starts to get spoil. So , be at a level where you're confident enough on your past, present,future. I think that's the right time to get into a relationship.
exactly my friend . Love , relationships etc all that bonding will die one day as we dont know whose turn is next . Then the dependant one faces too much problems to lead rest of life. Hence only things we should get attach is learning & our work.
Without a solid career getting married is like committing family suicide now a days. Relationship is good but it takes money to maintain that. You can ignore reality but reality will not ignore you. 👍👍👍
Best line- "pyaar itni sweet chiz h ki baaki sbhi kaam phike lagte hai"..thats why people don't achieve what they want in life, because Aim needs focus and time which people give to their relationships.....
It was like an elder brother sitting me down and clarifying my blur thought on if I’m doing the right thing. I’m 23 year old girl, focusing on career and building the best future for myself and others around me. The fear of ending up alone is no longer gonna bother.
HEALTH- The most important pillar of your career. I lost both love and career even after achieving the thing I wanted. Please take care of your health gauys trust me.. The moment you get any incurable deases(I pray to God nobody should get any) you'll see the darkest part of the LIFE.
I am in struggling part of my carrier , I know it is not the time to run after a girl . But sometimes my mind likes to thinking about her . Also one fear is that I will not get any girl like her . It takes a lot of time to convince me that I am losing my valuable time in thinking about her , rather I should focus on buliding my carrier . This is my present situation .
According to my experience, you may love and care her but many times girls don't think about relationship at this stage so my advice is simple that you need to take care of your career
we have similar kind of situation.,., I constantly keep on thinking about her, while I know I can not get her. but ., my career is going in good direction.
Very well explained, if the same thing is told by our parents , we might not understand but the way you explained feed the thing in out DNA and out of entire video "Meet people but see where your focus is going" hit me so hard. !!
Totally agree sir but if we get someone who don’t waste time and force us to work more hard to achieve our goals . Then both things can be fixed at the same time 💖💖
Career First Love latter This is what is important in our lives. If you make your career you will find love very easily that's what Chetan sir is trying to explain thank you, sir :)
Awesome advice sir. While growing up and having so many confusions about self and career instead of going to babas and random self acclaimed saints people like you are the need of the hour. Hopefully the youth will take your words more seriously than the babas of current times. Talking to parents is not easy about these stuffs and friends are also immature , relatives are unreliable.
I had been through so many motivational speaker in my life but I found only Chetan sir who not only motivates us but also teaches us how to cope with this changing society.
Sir im 15 and getting such useful knowledge from you so early in life will surely help me in future . Our generation is so lucky to have people like you, shwetabh, ranveer and salil. You guys are gems. Thank you soo much
Agree with u Sir.......haa agr pyaar ho bhi jaye to hmara attention career pr hona chahiye....., that's more important.... Thanks Sir...., your videos are very helpful........ ❤️
your videos are very much practical and true hope all can relate with it and will get lots of benefit out of it now and in future..keep making such video..this are burning problem now a days...we are losing talent because of this..
Correct. You need atleast a good bank balance that can sustain you after marraige or should have a stable job. Otherwise taking responsibility is a huge headache.
Sir it is justtt soo amazing and astonishing how each one of your video connects and relate to everyone and it is 100% true at the same time . You are awesome sir, thank you for sharing your wisdom and experience with us ... you literally are shaping our futures 🙏🙏
Sir.... Wat I like most in ur video.... Is truth of life.... Like nobody is discuss on dis topic..... Where is our attention in present is really going to decide our future ❤
This is quite helpful. Thank you for sharing. However, I would request you to make video 1step beyond this- 'being ambitious vs married life'. Shadi and baby k baad ambitious hona is a crime. That's what I m experiencing due to diverted time. Frustrating at times. Please share your thoughts. Thanks!
Being ambitious is absolutely not a crime. Probably your wife is only craving for quality time. And her resentment might only be a reflection of her unfilled emotional love-tank. I would recommend you to read this book by Gary chapman: 5 love languages (available on Amazon). It will help you to learn about the primary & secondary love languages of your spouse & act accordingly. All the best 😊
My present situation is, I am in a relationship of long distance and I am stable too by focusing on my career. I have improved and developed myself being with him. I am grateful to have him in my life.
Every guy should understand this "When you are searching for a bride/lifepartner, you will only be looked upon as a bank. Nothing more, nothing less. Sure, your partner and their family may warm up to you in the future, but who cares about what comes later, right? So it is upon you, what do you want to be? HDFC Bank or some local co-op bank? Prioritize your growth over everyone and everything else. All the best to the kings hustling out there 💯
The best advice a youth could ever get Sir ! People around are like yr you're just so insane about building an apt career that you are missing fun but I'm always like dude there is no limit on fun , age is definitely not but for Career and success , It is Now or Never!!
Before your advice, I used to think that carrier and relationship can't be balanced simultaneously. But your long story teaches me that how wrong I was. With respect to the timeframe of anyone's carrier growth.
Ya absolutely right sir We can't give our attention simultaneously for two different things if we try to do so then I will not attention it will distraction and at last we will find that we r not getting as much as we expected both things can't run together smoothly .so , we must give priority to career then love and other things . if we make good career then other things automatically comes behind. So career first ✍️💪 then love💞💞💞 ,sadi 💑💑💑 and other things
Sad part is that after knowing every consequences of falling at the young age u still fall in love becoz soch kr pyar thodi hta he,me khud yahi sochti thi ki first my career then relationship but ye chiz asi he jisme aap apni marzi se nahi jate ye ho jata he (I knw ye thoda filmy he but I am just sharing my experience)
Totally agree, it takes your time and divert you from your goal . It should be but not while building your career. Good going sir... Revolution 2020 Fan..
watched ur off the cuff with shekhar, agree with most of the things you said....more power to you and pls keep doing what you are doing even if you dont think you are being appreciated enough. There are many of us who see the value in what you are saying n doing. And also, stop belittling urself, u r not a loser just bcos the elites say so, you have reached every height possible and you're not even old...keep going!
Sir aakpe video ka timing bhi bhut satik hai jab bhi mai kisi topic ke bare me sochta hu ki ye kaise hoga ya kya krna chahiye mujhe, aap ka video kuch din baad aa hi jata hai 😄😄 Thanks u Sir for your great advice Ur guidance is superb 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Sir please make a vedio on "ART OF COMMUNICATION" we are eagerly waiting to listen it in your words 😌😌 (Most important factor for our success sir , please make it)
Love makes Life Live But Career Aacha Nahi Bana To Waat Lag Jayegi . Zamana Bahut Kharab Chal Raha hai and Corona Pandemic Also Taught Very Tight Lessons To Indian Public. Be Careful 👍
I strongly think that if you are ambitious enough and have a solid plan for your future in terms of financial growth, then a girl will definitely get convinced about you . She can seriously think about you as your future husband. She may even consider helping you out in your endeavor for your lucrative career financially. I think I have answered the topic from my perspective......thnxxx.
Sir then how did you manage your relationship in IIM and secure a 5th rank at the same time? You didn't cover your romantic life in the long video series. How did you study, maintain a balance in IIM when there were downs in your relationship?
First in 16 instead of my goal ,I choose love that was my biggest ever mistake I make, because of no guidance through all Thing. Today I realize that, in life both should maintain. They are both are nutrient of our life. And make I thing which person you love, make a light of trust in your heart to that person. 💙
superb line “..lekin swipe left right karne se naukriyan nahi na milti..”❤️❤️❤️
Right
Most important things in life for me
1. Time
2. Goal= Creating value= Money
3. Health
Health & Wealth
Most men/women comes in relationship at early age just to look cool , it is very much possible that your partner can see someone much much more successful than you , and then your relationship starts to get spoil.
So , be at a level where you're confident enough on your past, present,future.
I think that's the right time to get into a relationship.
Right bro
Yes bro 🥺
Love/relationship/ marriage may betray you but career will never betray you........
You are absolutely right
exactly my friend . Love , relationships etc all that bonding will die one day as we dont know whose turn is next . Then the dependant one faces too much problems to lead rest of life.
Hence only things we should get attach is learning & our work.
But some time we betrayed the career...😂😂😂
@@World18750 kya baat haai
@Santosh Parvatikar My friend if you don't earn for some months your so called wife will leave you for sure(in most cases)
Without a solid career getting married is like committing family suicide now a days. Relationship is good but it takes money to maintain that. You can ignore reality but reality will not ignore you. 👍👍👍
Nailed it bro
Yes bro
Best line- "pyaar itni sweet chiz h ki baaki sbhi kaam phike lagte hai"..thats why people don't achieve what they want in life, because Aim needs focus and time which people give to their relationships.....
1. Health
2. Career
3. Love
“Shadi k baad drame bohot hain” lol 😂. Would love to pick your brain on this topic and I’m sure that video will be in high demand!
It was like an elder brother sitting me down and clarifying my blur thought on if I’m doing the right thing. I’m 23 year old girl, focusing on career and building the best future for myself and others around me. The fear of ending up alone is no longer gonna bother.
HEALTH- The most important pillar of your career. I lost both love and career even after achieving the thing I wanted. Please take care of your health gauys trust me.. The moment you get any incurable deases(I pray to God nobody should get any) you'll see the darkest part of the LIFE.
This was such a wholesome video, sir. I resonated with you and felt a sense of relief that I'm not thinking in the wrong direction.😊
Felt the same thing.
Me too
Same here.
I am in struggling part of my carrier , I know it is not the time to run after a girl . But sometimes my mind likes to thinking about her . Also one fear is that I will not get any girl like her . It takes a lot of time to convince me that I am losing my valuable time in thinking about her , rather I should focus on buliding my carrier . This is my present situation .
According to my experience, you may love and care her but many times girls don't think about relationship at this stage so my advice is simple that you need to take care of your career
Goru piton dim. Poha huna kor lora
we have similar kind of situation.,.,
I constantly keep on thinking about her, while I know I can not get her.
but .,
my career is going in good direction.
@@sonamdeshpande7281 him*
@@Woyseng মজা
Very well explained, if the same thing is told by our parents , we might not understand but the way you explained feed the thing in out DNA and out of entire video "Meet people but see where your focus is going" hit me so hard. !!
I completely agree but I also believe that sometimes not controlling the life too much can also be beneficial.
Kaun bolega, this man has done one mic stand. Truly inspiring ❤️👍
Totally agree sir but if we get someone who don’t waste time and force us to work more hard to achieve our goals . Then both things can be fixed at the same time 💖💖
True....
Love at a wrong part of life is toxic and if one can't manage it will destroy everything.
I cleared state prelims exam. This channel was my only daily constant... Gratitude..Thank you Chetan sir💚💚💚
Which state Pcs exam brother 🤷🏻♂️
Odisha
Congratulations. ❤️
@@bindu1922 congratulations 🎉🥳👏
@@bindu1922 congratulations brother, remember save your money, and take care of your own health and mindset.. keep the grind on
Straightforward.. and honest talk.. thanks sir. Gave me a great lesson ❤️
When you have a good career love comes automatically 💖💖
Career First Love latter This is what is important in our lives. If you make your career you will find love very easily that's what Chetan sir is trying to explain thank you, sir :)
Obviously Career zyada zaruri hai sir........uske baad hi Relationship sahi hoga
Appreciate your POV. Some kids may learn from it and some will not....but your advice is very sound
Real words as always by Chetan sir ❤️ #bittertruth of the 🌎
Awesome advice sir. While growing up and having so many confusions about self and career instead of going to babas and random self acclaimed saints people like you are the need of the hour. Hopefully the youth will take your words more seriously than the babas of current times. Talking to parents is not easy about these stuffs and friends are also immature , relatives are unreliable.
I had been through so many motivational speaker in my life but I found only Chetan sir who not only motivates us but also teaches us how to cope with this changing society.
Sir im 15 and getting such useful knowledge from you so early in life will surely help me in future . Our generation is so lucky to have people like you, shwetabh, ranveer and salil. You guys are gems. Thank you soo much
Important question to ponder about is if you are in between the whole thing (you are married, you have a good job) - how do you manage all of that?
Sir
Aap har mudde per jitna honestly bolte hai baisa real experience mujhe or kahi nahi mila.
So I m really thankful.
I have seen too much videos of excellent people. But this is the best video on love n education n carrier..n whole aspect of life..Thank u sir..
Agree with u Sir.......haa agr pyaar ho bhi jaye to hmara attention career pr hona chahiye....., that's more important....
Thanks Sir...., your videos are very helpful........ ❤️
Thanks for your priceless advice 💗
It's very important to know every young people.. Career is your first priority⚔️.
Thank you sir so true!! Virat Captan nehi hota to sayat Anushka nehi milti 🤣 .. kidding
Ya celebrities ko pta hota kis cricketer ko target krna. Wriddhiman Saha ki to nhi bani koi celebrity.
Just what I needed! Everything you said made perfect sense to Me!!!
your videos are very much practical and true hope all can relate with it and will get lots of benefit out of it now and in future..keep making such video..this are burning problem now a days...we are losing talent because of this..
Correct. You need atleast a good bank balance that can sustain you after marraige or should have a stable job. Otherwise taking responsibility is a huge headache.
Sir it is justtt soo amazing and astonishing how each one of your video connects and relate to everyone and it is 100% true at the same time .
You are awesome sir, thank you for sharing your wisdom and experience with us ... you literally are shaping our futures 🙏🙏
Absolutely 110% sir, thanks for being so blunt and straightforward on some of the important issues 🎉😊
This is video i saw at very right time...i needed that cause he married secretly and I was rolling my tears down for him... Thanks
Sir.... Wat I like most in ur video.... Is truth of life.... Like nobody is discuss on dis topic..... Where is our attention in present is really going to decide our future ❤
Yes everything can wait , except time and career. Thanks sir 😊
Thats very true ... and I undoubtedly agree with your point.
Thank you & love you... great learning from all your view
This is quite helpful. Thank you for sharing.
However, I would request you to make video 1step beyond this- 'being ambitious vs married life'. Shadi and baby k baad ambitious hona is a crime. That's what I m experiencing due to diverted time. Frustrating at times. Please share your thoughts. Thanks!
Being ambitious is absolutely not a crime. Probably your wife is only craving for quality time. And her resentment might only be a reflection of her unfilled emotional love-tank. I would recommend you to read this book by Gary chapman: 5 love languages (available on Amazon). It will help you to learn about the primary & secondary love languages of your spouse & act accordingly. All the best 😊
@@dr.surabhimishra6671 thankyou for your advice. I'll definitely try out.
@@ishankaggarwal9629 👌👌
What exactly is the problem?
True sir if we achieve our goals then we will get our partner very easily...
Thanks sir
Ur words are very true at this young age our goal should be priority 💯
My present situation is, I am in a relationship of long distance and I am stable too by focusing on my career. I have improved and developed myself being with him. I am grateful to have him in my life.
Every guy should understand this "When you are searching for a bride/lifepartner, you will only be looked upon as a bank. Nothing more, nothing less. Sure, your partner and their family may warm up to you in the future, but who cares about what comes later, right? So it is upon you, what do you want to be? HDFC Bank or some local co-op bank? Prioritize your growth over everyone and everything else. All the best to the kings hustling out there 💯
❤️
awesome...you change the society your great.....
True…so true….you sum up things in such a simple way Chetan sir…lot to learn and kept in mind from your videos
Yes one has to be practical in life.Love cannot thrive on hunger and homelessness
This video every Indian parent must watch will change their way of thinking. Well, some of them at least
The best advice a youth could ever get Sir ! People around are like yr you're just so insane about building an apt career that you are missing fun but I'm always like dude there is no limit on fun , age is definitely not but for Career and success , It is Now or Never!!
Before your advice, I used to think that carrier and relationship can't be balanced simultaneously.
But your long story teaches me that how wrong I was.
With respect to the timeframe of anyone's carrier growth.
very true. extremely helpful. thank you so much sir.
Ya absolutely right sir
We can't give our attention simultaneously for two different things if we try to do so then I will not attention it will distraction and at last we will find that we r not getting as much as we expected both things can't run together smoothly .so , we must give priority to career then love and other things . if we make good career then other things automatically comes behind.
So career first ✍️💪 then love💞💞💞 ,sadi 💑💑💑 and other things
Sad part is that after knowing every consequences of falling at the young age u still fall in love becoz soch kr pyar thodi hta he,me khud yahi sochti thi ki first my career then relationship but ye chiz asi he jisme aap apni marzi se nahi jate ye ho jata he (I knw ye thoda filmy he but I am just sharing my experience)
I was looking for this kind of video that give right guidance to me!! Thankyou sir!! I completely agree with you!!❤
You're most welcome!
Totally agree, it takes your time and divert you from your goal . It should be but not while building your career. Good going sir... Revolution 2020 Fan..
watched ur off the cuff with shekhar, agree with most of the things you said....more power to you and pls keep doing what you are doing even if you dont think you are being appreciated enough. There are many of us who see the value in what you are saying n doing. And also, stop belittling urself, u r not a loser just bcos the elites say so, you have reached every height possible and you're not even old...keep going!
That's suggestion is very helpful for others
Make this kind content and quality video s sir thank you sir very much
Yours attention towards career is more important than love relationships...
Pyaar Mohabbat to kismat ki baatein hain 😇
I Feel some positive energy while listening your Videos - Thank you so much sir
100% true.....I fully agree with this person.
This is probably the most prominent video for our youths❤💫shukriya sir🙏
Sir aakpe video ka timing bhi bhut satik hai jab bhi mai kisi topic ke bare me sochta hu ki ye kaise hoga ya kya krna chahiye mujhe, aap ka video kuch din baad aa hi jata hai 😄😄
Thanks u Sir for your great advice
Ur guidance is superb 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Thanks sir for your precious advice at such a crucial time.❤
Obviously career is first priority sir!
My favourite teacher ever❤❤❤❤ love you so much
Always love your videos sir
Such a wonderful session sir this time i m going through this situation 😌
Sir please make a vedio on "ART OF COMMUNICATION" we are eagerly waiting to listen it in your words 😌😌
(Most important factor for our success sir , please make it)
Love makes Life Live But Career Aacha Nahi Bana To Waat Lag Jayegi . Zamana Bahut Kharab Chal Raha hai and Corona Pandemic Also Taught Very Tight Lessons To Indian Public. Be Careful 👍
Always a most needed vedio comes my way.....always missed a guide in my life....but am happy I got u....genuinely like ur thoughts sr😊
Absolutely correct said sir 🙏🙏😊😊
Thank you sir..... I was in this trouble very now....Thank you sir presenting this video @ ri8 time... Dil se sukriya
I strongly think that if you are ambitious enough and have a solid plan for your future in terms of financial growth, then a girl will definitely get convinced about you . She can seriously think about you as your future husband. She may even consider helping you out in your endeavor for your lucrative career financially. I think I have answered the topic from my perspective......thnxxx.
Carrier is first sir🙏🌹 it make you happy all the lifetime.
amazing advice. thank you sir
sir please Make more videos like this
Every word you said is true 🙏❤️... From a 23yo woman
Sir may Allah bless you great health wealth and prosperity throughout in your life.
Great advice......
Most awaited content thanks you boss
Thank u so much sir. ... Y vedio phle aana chahiye tha. But it's okkkk .career is more imp.than pyr sadi
Aap mujhe, zindagi m jab m sbse bure daur s gujar rha, lga sb kch khatam ho gya,, tb aapne bhagwaan bnkar mujhe sahara diya,, pls ek baar aapke darshan krn h, mujhe
Hope to look as fitter as you at this age.
you look the best now sir.
Sir then how did you manage your relationship in IIM and secure a 5th rank at the same time? You didn't cover your romantic life in the long video series. How did you study, maintain a balance in IIM when there were downs in your relationship?
He couldn't that's why he's giving us that advice, he went through it....
Health 🍎
Wealth 💸💸💸
Love 🥰😍💘
Happiness 😀☺️😇
This is life .
Well said sir !!! Thanks for your guidance..
Sir it's true that career is more important because once times goes for making career it will never come back..
कैरियर, हैल्थ, रिलेशनशिप ❤️
thanks sir for your good advice
bhot hard video ! waise bhi agar life main paisa nahi hai to pyaar bhi bhoj lugge ga !
First in 16 instead of my goal ,I choose love that was my biggest ever mistake I make, because of no guidance through all Thing. Today I realize that, in life both should maintain. They are both are nutrient of our life. And make I thing which person you love, make a light of trust in your heart to that person. 💙
Thank you very much for guiding me my inspiration
Career is most important 🙏👍👌🙏
Informative session sir, thank you so much