The game is only as cold as you allow it to be. Did you know I’ve never gotten cheated on, hurt, or played by a girl in my life? Here’s the secret: don’t ever attach to them or let them too close to the point they can ruin you. It works wonders with attracting other women to you as well. I’ve never spent over $50 on a girl in my life for a reason
@@marcusmcgraw3519 hmm u right, mastering the law of detachment and being wise as a man definitely guards your heart. but even at that, it’s an evil world we live in that requires strength in order to overcome. biblically, Satan and his buddies running around, so you gotta be “as wise as the serpent” (Matthew 10:16).
Genuine is a bit of an unlucky word choice. The crucial piece of the puzzle is: Always keep striving to become a better version of yourself and be genuine while living your best life without her. She is free to hop in, never the center of your world. As soon as a woman is done with her party years and gets her shit together she simply wants a man who has his shit together - without her - but is still willing to take her along for the ride.
Stop neglecting the skills, absolutely. The only reason why attracting women is so daunting to many men is their age. As you get older, life will shape you into a man with these skills naturally and in time you will become attractive. Many are simply young men trying to fast track this growth when it in fact takes time or intense effort. You lose nothing taking your time, i worry that prioritizing women will cause the downfall of many of you. It only takes one unwanted pregnancy, psycho gf, or std to have you searching for vastly different RUclips content. Best of luck
Makes no sense given that women need to develop the same skills to be successful. If you are handing them success because of their looks, well that makes you part of the problem. Learn to treat men and women equally instead of giving women preferential treatment they never earned
It makes complete sense. When they are in lala land dreaming about their dream guy. He is not accessible so when you show up and you are being nice, genuine, in love with her praising her. You don’t meet their standards so they will keep looking, hypergamy has not been satisfied. You have to be a challenge that’s what they dream about. Casey is a genius of this shit
not indifference, pure indifference is just psychopathy, it's more like not allowing yourself to be changed by externality (having strong character) and being willing to adapt when the need arises
With my last GF, I slightly slipped that maybe I did 70% "me" focus, and 30% "couple" focus, and it was enough for her to lose attraction. That and she felt I was committed. They really act the opposite of what they say they want. I actually think they deceive themselves, not that they do it on purpose, for most of them anyway.
1. Its like a test of your masculinity they do to see whether youll stick to your own path or join them in hyperfocusing on the relationship 2. They like when their man is focused on the ‘couple’ dynamic and is thoughtful about the relo just like how we all like a chocolately hot fudge sundae. Problem is: both get old quick and once you’ve had enough and keep having more, you start getting sick
@@lukapetch Yep. And not I disagree, as it is that. I wonder how could couples even last. It was probably mostly social pressures, by society/family/other women/customs. With their current near total freedom, 1000s of perceived options and their hypergamy, how can couples last now? There's some that do, but so very few, and how many of these are in happy couples? Yet just like gamblers going for that dopamine hit, the high times in this game - and sex drive - makes us keep at it. The high times can be worth it, its not just insanity ha ha. But the hurt can be crazy strong too.
@@MVProfitsthey don’t. it’s that simple. either the woman is the monogamous one in a relationship where she perceives the man as the higher value while knowing he sleeps/ can sleep with other women and is trying to lock him in. or it’s a “ dating with purpose “ women who have been around the block till she settled with a lower value guy who she’ll cheat on eventually. it’s all an act and a game of value
When she says she wants a man to be genuine, it means that she wants a man THAT SHE'S ATTRACTED TO to be genuine. When she says she wants a man to be kind, it means that she wants a man THAT SHE'S ATTRACTED TO to be kind. When she says she wants a man to be funny, it means that she wants a man THAT SHE'S ATTRACTED TO to be funny. When she says she wants a man to be emotionally available, it means that she wants a man THAT SHE'S ATTRACTED TO to be emotionally available. Are you beginning to sense a pattern yet?
Wisdom counts for a lot - older guys are more appealing to women because of experience - don’t be too serious - keep it fun and have options - women will share a guy if he is fun
6:06 what men dont realize is, if she wants your time and you give it up for her you think she will remain loyal and not go to another man because you making time for her. WRONG APPROACH. That will turn her off as she start to see you as weak. What you do is, stand on your time AND MAKE HER KNOW IF SHE SLIP UP IT'S AN INSTANT CUT OFF. But also, MAKE SURE the time you give her is an amazing experience that she wont want to lose.
Not always that easy ppl run in similar friend groups and will see that person regardless .. women can be persistent to get u when they want u. Generally I would agree. But no women makes a descion to be loyal to one guy instantly or from one or even a couple meet ups. So this approach will loose you most women u like everytime. ..ur best bet is not care no reason u should fron only a few meet ups and see how much interest she has goin forward. Without being demanding or needy. If she is sleeping with multiple dudes most likely that's all you will be at best. Make it known what u want. And if it goes nowhere or u don't get what u want move on after a period of time. There's a time limit on every women thinking one comes easy. That's attractive doesn't happen today majority of the time. Takes time and if she actually likes you it will take even more time. Witch boils down to you being ok with what she does outside of you. Most arnt worth the bs..or the wait. Cause most don't even know what they want. And have too many options...any relationship I got into took minimum 6 months some even a year. And yeah they were banging at least one other dude or multiple..and I showed her a great time every time....women's emotions dictate a relationship witch is slow moving. And or ur desirabllity factor if she thinks she may loose you. Cutting a chick off fast. Would amount to 99 percent of the time never getting one...only women that move fast want sex and or are drunk ...and generally u either never see em again. Or your thrown in a bucket of guys she rotates u with at her leisure...if she sees you as weak it's only if it bothers you early on. If 6 months down the road it does u got every right too be .
How often are we talking about? I don’t think anyone is seeing each other everyday unless they live together. If y’all are dating just keep it to like once a week, do all the things you need to do before seeing her.
That's exactly what I did wrong in my first relationship. Became too genuine, too nice. I became way to available to her and didn't focus on my own goals. I lost that mystery about me and didn't keep her on edge. And yep, you bet she lost the attraction in me and dumped me about 1.5 months ago. At least I have seen these faults and have now got the experience and knowledge for dating thanks to Casey.
They do it because they crave the drama of Chad-like behaviour, so this is their way of weeding out honesty or niceness. It’s not sexy to them. It also explains why if they eventually settle for a good guy….they still cheat on him. Because where’s the drama in that?
They have no power though. Why would you care what they want? I can attract more than her by being more valuable, why would I care what a girl wants? What I want is much more important and valuable
I'm not understanding how or why nature selected for females who thrive on drama-seeking to remain alive long enough to reproduce. While apparently females who avoided drama & went after men committed to them did not live long enough to reproduce. Why did all this bizarre behavior we see women exhibiting (always opposite of what makes sense) lead to being successful over millions of years? Back during cave man days & even earlier times, wouldn't the selfish man protect himself first & let the lion eat the female & her children?
When they get curious about my past, I always mention how I walk away in my past relationships, then they see that I really don’t give a fuck if they stay or not. It’s either you’re with me or not don’t waste my time. Have balance be yourself, funny, romantic and a dickhead but like playful. don’t want to scare her or be weird.
Very deep video. Had no idea until now… women see you as stronger when you do not be yourself. When you’re aiming towards your higher self, that’s strength. By not being yourself, you are resisting yourself. Deep.
In other words just like a Rolls Royce is hard to obtain so should you be. You must become the luxury item everyone wants and must lock that in and keep it that way. No one, no friend, no family member should break your focus to where you go from a Rolls Royce to a lower value item.
I'd use the word "heartfelt" instead of "genuine". She doesn't want you to get your direction from your heart. She wants to be directed by her heart and the natural balance says then he must be directed by his mind. The attitude is "I'm going this way and if she wants to come then she'll follow and if she doesn't then the woman who wants to follow will show up later. And in that case I got better shit to be doing today. Deep into a relationship this attitude cannot change. It must be 100% genuine and never heartfelt or she won't feel safe to follow hers. Desire only goes one way and that way is him forward and her follow.
@@A.mShaymamaybe if you focused more on treating men and women the same instead of putting women on pedestals, you wouldn’t be begging for success. Maybe that is your problem along with every other man on here
There's a difference between weakness and being free. Me going and running and hiking is genuine, it's freeing, all girls like it. But me being free once I have a lady is also genuine, which is relied onto the girl.
There’s this famous book called “Models: Attract Women Through Honesty” which is a very mainstream book, but I think it’s just one of those books that tells people things that sound pleasant but not the real truth. I think Napoleon said it best “The best way to stay poor is to be an honest man” and perhaps this applies to dating as well, “the best way to NOT get laid is to be an honest man”. Women aren’t screening for honesty or authenticity, they are screening for good genetic material (looks and fitness) and odds of survival (social skills and intelligence). Hence why science shows dark triad men tend to do well with women - because they are pretty much the exact opposite of authenticity - cunning, calculated, and emotionally detached.
@@chadlift6723 - You are saying follow the example of Napoleon. He was not very successful with women. He also caused the deaths of 600,000 of his own soldiers and 6 million people during his wars.
2:32 women dont know what they want, they respond to how they feel. if she state what she want she is replaying what she heard. this why EVERY NARRATIVE THAT COMES UP, you have majority of them repeating the same. When it was 6 ft, 6 pack abs, 6 figures they repeated that. Now it's no bare minimum must take on dinner dates and trips, and the list goes on and on. One time it was he must have tattoos, or is hair in a certain style, they just repeat WHATEVER is the current narrative.
He's absolutely right about women who are not children of the heavenly Father. High level spiritual women will not fall into these categories. Exact same for men and how females see and judge men. We're a different breed. But seriously this guy is on point about non believing women
Hey Casey, u should make a video on how to improve social circle and the overall behavior required to get good interactions. I know you have some stuff on this but a longer video focused solely on social circle would be great.
True. It's great to understand what you're supposed to be, but actually executing social stuff is all that really matters. Anyone can go to the gym, but social whatever is like.... an abstract thing without a clear path to practice.
Be well rounded. Get good at multiple things. Get elite at one 1 of those things. Pay your bills with that skill then when you have enough passive income and social media presence built. Show the world your other skills. As long as your putting like 18 mins a day into each of the things your good at. They’ll be cold enough by the time your business and own name is built 🔥 then your business will sky rocket even more. The most talented celebs are usually the A-List celebs.
Yes I get that you're saying that women don't like genuine sounding guys. But how does one project that energy when you're at the texting phase? I mean you have to ask stuff to keep the conversation going. Cause less than 20% of women I match with actually proactively communicate. The rest I have to take the initiative and I always end up coming like a good dude who's interested in her life
I coached my three daughters not to consider committing to a man if she hasn’t seen how he acts when he is sick. And when she is. Genuine matters. Imagining being with a man who is fully fake makes me feel unsafe.
Last summer: Work to make yourself outwardly attractive. Focus on SMV. Last winter: Don't worry about your external attractiveness. Women only care about your internal fortitude; who you are inside. This summer: Focus 100% on your external SMV. Find a unique look & identity. 😆
If you follow his content, you'll end up so confused you won't even know what to do anymore. Do I be myself and come at it with dont-give-a-fuck energy ? ✅ Can I be genuine about who I am ? ❌ This section of RUclips will make us men as confused as the bitches (this term being used affectionately, i love women and their mysteries) that we are interested in.
I was in a bar with my girl friend and she told the 2 bar maids her sisters planned to party into their 30s then get serious with a man and the 2 bar maids said that was what they where going to do. 1 of them was hot but the other was a 4. So it may be better to thing the way they think and protect your heart
Dudes that take this advice using indifference and that hot and cold actions are not worth any woman putting any time into. Yeah go for your purpose but listen to some of us when we tell you our needs. Be genuine. Thanks for helping me to discover I am not attracted to men anymore!
I'll add that a man can't 'just be himself' (genuine) because SHE wants to be herself, which she can't do if you are doing it too. It's about her fantasy, not yours. Remember, we all ALREADY change our behavior with everyone in our lives, so saying 'I just want to be myself' is a lie, you really mean I want to be the girl in the relationship, plus, I am lazy & don't want to work at it, which are bigger issues that probably are already leaking into all aspects of your life.
Eh you’re being too general. Every person is different, so being yourself doesn’t always mean you’re genuine. I have a mix of being a dickhead and romantic. Some people may just be flat out awkward and weird ect. Being real gets you places, I’ve been successful in all parts of my life being ME. All you need is boundaries. You can’t let people walk over you and still be this “nice guy”. Just be real and see how many girls you get. It’s not hard. There’s a girls for everyone but you gotta start dating to find them if they don’t meet your standards don’t be afraid to walk away
What he mean probably all those lazy man who want to just being lazy in relationships Who doesn't want to learn emotional intelligence to talk with woman too
Why women dont want you to be genuine 1.she Don't want you to be genuine but want attractive ...women get into relationship with guy who give love snd care but only sleep with man who are rude arrogant self centred and does not get attached 2.when you say look im goof guy ..youre proving you that turn her off ..you have to be selfish...male youre smv ,style higher ..you should be unreplicable man .. fitness fashion scoial skills date , carrier .spend time on it
this is all true and great advice, but the biggest obstacle is where to meet fit intelligent single women that didn't get the bioweapon injection? The rest is pretty easy, just a desert out there though; even the life guards at the beach, very few actually in shape; and the people on the beach, nobody looks human anymore, just flab and tattoos.
At the end of the day we all just putting together a playbook to go catch hyenas…Go getcha life right get in a good Jesus filled church and get yourself a lioness 💪💯🌹
Hey Casey I want (if you want) you to try negative marketing, say our community is so bad just don't join and I mean it. Please test this I swear with your curious following they can't help but click
Fellas can you help me on this, when I approach a girl at a party, etc. How do I get her number or Snapchat without showing them that I care a lot about her and exposing myself emotionally
forget that thing asking her number in the beginning.. the key is getting a good conversation with her, see if she is excited. At the so to speak clifhanger point, U can do three things in that moment: 1) drag her to another place. to sit and talk abit closer so without away from their friendsgroup..2) say u have to go was nice talking with u, but if u like we can exchange numbers.. 3) say u have to go and make a date with her on the spot, if she dont know when , exchange number, and say app me.. This make more sense u get each number, there has to be some plan or feeling left for her and want to talk with u more.. before u give her the number..
always go for women who chooses you, prolonged/repetitive eye contact, staying close to you etc.. even if you don’t fancy her. it’ll be easier for you to stay masculine. never cold approach
You've been on fire lately Casey, however I have to disagree with you here, a dude can be genuine with women who you don't want, why not with the women you do want? What is the secret? The secret is wanted them without wanting them, much like Lao Tzu's Wu-Wei, or action-nonaction. It sounds like a paradox but makes sense. If you enjoy a woman, and want to mate with her as creatures do, you can at the same time take or leave her. It is only if you really want her validation and body that being genuine will reveal this. If you can take or leave it, like with a woman you aren't attracted to, I dont see why you can't be genuine. Still a good video with many good points, but on the title for sure I'd have to say I disagree. Still a great way to pull men into the truth tho :) good job lately, just remember who your audience is and to stay humble. You're helping wake up the masculine spirit in men all across the world, just never forget your roots and your brothers and you'll go far.
Hey this is random, but I wanted to reach out to the followers of this page. I believe that Jesus Christ is coming back soon to rapture His Church so I wanted to reach out to as many as possible. Please remember that there is only God that leads to Heaven, the Trinity (God the Father, God the Son Jesus Christ, and God the Holy Spirit) and it’s about a personal relationship through Jesus Christ, not religion (John 14:6 ESV). Blessings.
Is it me or I think Casey contradicts himself, or is it perhaps me who misunderstand, I remeber something about game isnt needed if you are strong in your frame, or similar. Now game is good ?
Yea you understood him but he made no sense on the last ones a vital part on getting “women” is communication without it you’re just going to be thrown in the pile with the rest of the guys unless you look like a fucking model.
@@Realb1ackboiIf there’s no genuine burning desire aka lust, all what you learn is better off thrown away. be with women who lust after you and act accordingly, there’s no winning them over. it’s either she wants you and fantasies about you or you’re getting played
its sad, genuine love doesnt exist. you cant care for her more than yourself except when you both are in danger. order is 1. God 2. yourself 3.Parents 4.her
4th option shouldn’t exist. You provide “ protection “ when she’s with you because if anything happens it’s disrespect to you. other than that I could care less about her
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Without explicitly saying it, Casey telling you that the game is cold, and you gotta be colder.
The game is only as cold as you allow it to be. Did you know I’ve never gotten cheated on, hurt, or played by a girl in my life?
Here’s the secret: don’t ever attach to them or let them too close to the point they can ruin you. It works wonders with attracting other women to you as well. I’ve never spent over $50 on a girl in my life for a reason
@@marcusmcgraw3519 hmm u right, mastering the law of detachment and being wise as a man definitely guards your heart. but even at that, it’s an evil world we live in that requires strength in order to overcome. biblically, Satan and his buddies running around, so you gotta be “as wise as the serpent” (Matthew 10:16).
@@fr0ntr0w90oh I totally agree. I’m mad at my parents for not raising me in that manner. They raised me correctly and I resent them for it
Can you be real with them if you are a cold person naturally.
@@Brent-z2s yea, but you gotta be real with yourself first.
"I know that's hard for some of you to put yourself first." lol - used to be - now it is freedom
Facts
Worked like a charm for me. She bought me food. I used to be a simp💀💯
Be the best version of yourself and genuine. If you're not chosen despite this, close the door. No appeasing, pursuing, and waiting.
Way to go
Amen brother
Genuine is a bit of an unlucky word choice.
The crucial piece of the puzzle is: Always keep striving to become a better version of yourself and be genuine while living your best life without her. She is free to hop in, never the center of your world.
As soon as a woman is done with her party years and gets her shit together she simply wants a man who has his shit together - without her - but is still willing to take her along for the ride.
@@Tim666-o5nafter her party years? 😂 She can keep on partying by herself no thanks
Afghanistan here. Casey is consistently dropping knowledge bombz.
Holy shit, taliban in the chat!
@@nikonnikiforoffI am from Palestine
It's indeed raining truth bomba here
@@nikonnikiforoff😂😅😂
the whole country showed up damn
Broo
Stop neglecting the skills, absolutely. The only reason why attracting women is so daunting to many men is their age. As you get older, life will shape you into a man with these skills naturally and in time you will become attractive. Many are simply young men trying to fast track this growth when it in fact takes time or intense effort. You lose nothing taking your time, i worry that prioritizing women will cause the downfall of many of you. It only takes one unwanted pregnancy, psycho gf, or std to have you searching for vastly different RUclips content. Best of luck
I’m learning bro
Makes no sense given that women need to develop the same skills to be successful. If you are handing them success because of their looks, well that makes you part of the problem. Learn to treat men and women equally instead of giving women preferential treatment they never earned
true brother
Have had all 3 in 1💀💀keep in mind I used to be big time simp
golden
It makes complete sense. When they are in lala land dreaming about their dream guy. He is not accessible so when you show up and you are being nice, genuine, in love with her praising her. You don’t meet their standards so they will keep looking, hypergamy has not been satisfied. You have to be a challenge that’s what they dream about. Casey is a genius of this shit
The man of her dreams has depth of character. He loves her but most of the time he doesn’t treat her that well
The bad news is that this is absolutely true, the good news is that you can do it too.
Indifference is the key to everything.
not indifference, pure indifference is just psychopathy, it's more like not allowing yourself to be changed by externality (having strong character) and being willing to adapt when the need arises
With my last GF, I slightly slipped that maybe I did 70% "me" focus, and 30% "couple" focus, and it was enough for her to lose attraction. That and she felt I was committed. They really act the opposite of what they say they want. I actually think they deceive themselves, not that they do it on purpose, for most of them anyway.
1. Its like a test of your masculinity they do to see whether youll stick to your own path or join them in hyperfocusing on the relationship 2. They like when their man is focused on the ‘couple’ dynamic and is thoughtful about the relo just like how we all like a chocolately hot fudge sundae. Problem is: both get old quick and once you’ve had enough and keep having more, you start getting sick
@@lukapetch Yep. And not I disagree, as it is that. I wonder how could couples even last. It was probably mostly social pressures, by society/family/other women/customs. With their current near total freedom, 1000s of perceived options and their hypergamy, how can couples last now? There's some that do, but so very few, and how many of these are in happy couples? Yet just like gamblers going for that dopamine hit, the high times in this game - and sex drive - makes us keep at it. The high times can be worth it, its not just insanity ha ha. But the hurt can be crazy strong too.
@@MVProfitsthey don’t. it’s that simple. either the woman is the monogamous one in a relationship where she perceives the man as the higher value while knowing he sleeps/ can sleep with other women and is trying to lock him in. or it’s a “ dating with purpose “ women who have been around the block till she settled with a lower value guy who she’ll cheat on eventually.
it’s all an act and a game of value
70/30 and she still wasn’t happy. If it was 80/20 or 90/10 then why bother being with her?
When she says she wants a man to be genuine, it means that she wants a man THAT SHE'S ATTRACTED TO to be genuine.
When she says she wants a man to be kind, it means that she wants a man THAT SHE'S ATTRACTED TO to be kind.
When she says she wants a man to be funny, it means that she wants a man THAT SHE'S ATTRACTED TO to be funny.
When she says she wants a man to be emotionally available, it means that she wants a man THAT SHE'S ATTRACTED TO to be emotionally available.
Are you beginning to sense a pattern yet?
You can make women attracted to you.
Yes you can but it’s easier if they just are really into you from the start.
The bro Casey has a profoundly broad understanding of human nature.
Wisdom counts for a lot - older guys are more appealing to women because of experience - don’t be too serious - keep it fun and have options - women will share a guy if he is fun
6:06 what men dont realize is, if she wants your time and you give it up for her you think she will remain loyal and not go to another man because you making time for her. WRONG APPROACH. That will turn her off as she start to see you as weak. What you do is, stand on your time AND MAKE HER KNOW IF SHE SLIP UP IT'S AN INSTANT CUT OFF. But also, MAKE SURE the time you give her is an amazing experience that she wont want to lose.
Not always that easy ppl run in similar friend groups and will see that person regardless .. women can be persistent to get u when they want u. Generally I would agree. But no women makes a descion to be loyal to one guy instantly or from one or even a couple meet ups. So this approach will loose you most women u like everytime. ..ur best bet is not care no reason u should fron only a few meet ups and see how much interest she has goin forward. Without being demanding or needy. If she is sleeping with multiple dudes most likely that's all you will be at best. Make it known what u want. And if it goes nowhere or u don't get what u want move on after a period of time. There's a time limit on every women thinking one comes easy. That's attractive doesn't happen today majority of the time. Takes time and if she actually likes you it will take even more time. Witch boils down to you being ok with what she does outside of you. Most arnt worth the bs..or the wait. Cause most don't even know what they want. And have too many options...any relationship I got into took minimum 6 months some even a year. And yeah they were banging at least one other dude or multiple..and I showed her a great time every time....women's emotions dictate a relationship witch is slow moving. And or ur desirabllity factor if she thinks she may loose you. Cutting a chick off fast. Would amount to 99 percent of the time never getting one...only women that move fast want sex and or are drunk ...and generally u either never see em again. Or your thrown in a bucket of guys she rotates u with at her leisure...if she sees you as weak it's only if it bothers you early on. If 6 months down the road it does u got every right too be .
How often are we talking about? I don’t think anyone is seeing each other everyday unless they live together. If y’all are dating just keep it to like once a week, do all the things you need to do before seeing her.
That's exactly what I did wrong in my first relationship. Became too genuine, too nice. I became way to available to her and didn't focus on my own goals. I lost that mystery about me and didn't keep her on edge. And yep, you bet she lost the attraction in me and dumped me about 1.5 months ago. At least I have seen these faults and have now got the experience and knowledge for dating thanks to Casey.
They do it because they crave the drama of Chad-like behaviour, so this is their way of weeding out honesty or niceness. It’s not sexy to them. It also explains why if they eventually settle for a good guy….they still cheat on him. Because where’s the drama in that?
They have no power though. Why would you care what they want? I can attract more than her by being more valuable, why would I care what a girl wants? What I want is much more important and valuable
I'm not understanding how or why nature selected for females who thrive on drama-seeking to remain alive long enough to reproduce. While apparently females who avoided drama & went after men committed to them did not live long enough to reproduce.
Why did all this bizarre behavior we see women exhibiting (always opposite of what makes sense) lead to being successful over millions of years?
Back during cave man days & even earlier times, wouldn't the selfish man protect himself first & let the lion eat the female & her children?
When they get curious about my past, I always mention how I walk away in my past relationships, then they see that I really don’t give a fuck if they stay or not. It’s either you’re with me or not don’t waste my time. Have balance be yourself, funny, romantic and a dickhead but like playful. don’t want to scare her or be weird.
Very deep video. Had no idea until now… women see you as stronger when you do not be yourself. When you’re aiming towards your higher self, that’s strength. By not being yourself, you are resisting yourself. Deep.
Thanks Casey. I really needed to hear this. That was me.
In other words just like a Rolls Royce is hard to obtain so should you be. You must become the luxury item everyone wants and must lock that in and keep it that way. No one, no friend, no family member should break your focus to where you go from a Rolls Royce to a lower value item.
I'd use the word "heartfelt" instead of "genuine". She doesn't want you to get your direction from your heart. She wants to be directed by her heart and the natural balance says then he must be directed by his mind. The attitude is "I'm going this way and if she wants to come then she'll follow and if she doesn't then the woman who wants to follow will show up later. And in that case I got better shit to be doing today. Deep into a relationship this attitude cannot change. It must be 100% genuine and never heartfelt or she won't feel safe to follow hers. Desire only goes one way and that way is him forward and her follow.
Sometimes though if they’re super interested you won’t need game. Hence the point about leveling up. All full circle. Good stuff
U still need game. You can just make a few more mistakes but u should always be on your toes
Good to see you out walking brother. That's a great way to strengthen your heart. Keep it up until you feel like a stag.
Remember this wasn’t built In a week.
But somehow the woman was, so you should respect her or something
Thanks Casey.
@@A.mShaymamaybe if you focused more on treating men and women the same instead of putting women on pedestals, you wouldn’t be begging for success. Maybe that is your problem along with every other man on here
@@marcusmcgraw3519get some sleep you naggin , don’t Die.
There's a difference between weakness and being free. Me going and running and hiking is genuine, it's freeing, all girls like it. But me being free once I have a lady is also genuine, which is relied onto the girl.
There’s this famous book called “Models: Attract Women Through Honesty” which is a very mainstream book, but I think it’s just one of those books that tells people things that sound pleasant but not the real truth. I think Napoleon said it best “The best way to stay poor is to be an honest man” and perhaps this applies to dating as well, “the best way to NOT get laid is to be an honest man”. Women aren’t screening for honesty or authenticity, they are screening for good genetic material (looks and fitness) and odds of survival (social skills and intelligence). Hence why science shows dark triad men tend to do well with women - because they are pretty much the exact opposite of authenticity - cunning, calculated, and emotionally detached.
Napoleon was a failure whose woman did not even love him.
@@autoclearanceuk7191men need respect, not love
@@autoclearanceuk7191 You’re missing the point there bud
@@chadlift6723 - You are saying follow the example of Napoleon. He was not very successful with women. He also caused the deaths of 600,000 of his own soldiers and 6 million people during his wars.
2:32 women dont know what they want, they respond to how they feel. if she state what she want she is replaying what she heard. this why EVERY NARRATIVE THAT COMES UP, you have majority of them repeating the same. When it was 6 ft, 6 pack abs, 6 figures they repeated that. Now it's no bare minimum must take on dinner dates and trips, and the list goes on and on. One time it was he must have tattoos, or is hair in a certain style, they just repeat WHATEVER is the current narrative.
@@mrbabyhugh they’re not even good enough for any of that though. Why would you ever give any of them merit? Bad choice on your part
lol fact
He's absolutely right about women who are not children of the heavenly Father. High level spiritual women will not fall into these categories. Exact same for men and how females see and judge men. We're a different breed. But seriously this guy is on point about non believing women
You are doing a great great job! Respect to you man!
Being focused on yourself and purpose will automatically make you magnetic
Good thing I have schizo affective disorder with high functioning autism. Never have to worry or be concerned about none of it.
My man dropping facts
Hey Casey, u should make a video on how to improve social circle and the overall behavior required to get good interactions. I know you have some stuff on this but a longer video focused solely on social circle would be great.
True. It's great to understand what you're supposed to be, but actually executing social stuff is all that really matters. Anyone can go to the gym, but social whatever is like.... an abstract thing without a clear path to practice.
Damn this shit goes deep. Great video brother
Be well rounded. Get good at multiple things. Get elite at one 1 of those things. Pay your bills with that skill then when you have enough passive income and social media presence built. Show the world your other skills. As long as your putting like 18 mins a day into each of the things your good at. They’ll be cold enough by the time your business and own name is built 🔥 then your business will sky rocket even more. The most talented celebs are usually the A-List celebs.
You just got a new subscriber my friend, thank you for the wake up call
Great video as always bro. You have no clue how much headache you've saved for me!
UK here. Casey is consistently dropping knowledge bombz.
Hang in there UK
Bombz? How old are you?
Good video. More meta concepts to internalize. Thank you CASEY
7:20 i have never been to a gym and i dont work out. I just focus on MY GOALS AND COMPLETELY IGNORE WOMEN. And that ATTRACTS THEM TO ME.
You have to have a big circle a guy with a disability has a small circle so he has less value and is doomed think about that
No it doesn’t
Yes I get that you're saying that women don't like genuine sounding guys. But how does one project that energy when you're at the texting phase? I mean you have to ask stuff to keep the conversation going. Cause less than 20% of women I match with actually proactively communicate. The rest I have to take the initiative and I always end up coming like a good dude who's interested in her life
I coached my three daughters not to consider committing to a man if she hasn’t seen how he acts when he is sick. And when she is. Genuine matters. Imagining being with a man who is fully fake makes me feel unsafe.
For next video, tey recappi g again. Every time yku recap the whiteboard I absorb the most of the knowledge.
Listen to this man’s words or it will burn slowly
Casey dropping bombs
I would say most guys also prefer the woman not to be too genuine. That is why the clever ones make you think they are in love with you.
Last summer: Work to make yourself outwardly attractive. Focus on SMV.
Last winter: Don't worry about your external attractiveness. Women only care about your internal fortitude; who you are inside.
This summer: Focus 100% on your external SMV. Find a unique look & identity.
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You really gotta do both anyway.
There's no consistency to his content anymore. Constant rebranding.
If you follow his content, you'll end up so confused you won't even know what to do anymore.
Do I be myself and come at it with dont-give-a-fuck energy ? ✅
Can I be genuine about who I am ? ❌
This section of RUclips will make us men as confused as the bitches (this term being used affectionately, i love women and their mysteries) that we are interested in.
SMV gets you in the door. Internal fortitude helps you stay there.
@@danmurray1143 your external SMV increases your options your internal value increases the retention of those options.
Yes, for sure I'd love to do your program help me thank you❤
Dude got straight into it with no table talk or sitdowns lol
For anyone saying his dropping bombs
Im saying his dropping nuclears
sauce 🔥🔥 “become a non-replicable character”
I was in a bar with my girl friend and she told the 2 bar maids her sisters planned to party into their 30s then get serious with a man and the 2 bar maids said that was what they where going to do. 1 of them was hot but the other was a 4. So it may be better to thing the way they think and protect your heart
I can't believe the ebook Magnetic Aura from Borlest isn't a hot topic. It's an incredible read
insightful,I am learning each video,how about a lapel microphone,reduce the echoing & volume fluctuations when you look at the board,thank you Casey
THEY WONT LIKE ME FOR THIS ONE 🗣🗣
This guy is a chad. If he was ugly and shy, yet still successful with women, his ideas would be more believable.
bro why is casey running out of breath making me out of breath😂😂😂
This takes time and you find out when trying to become that, on the way you have succes sporadicly, im not there yet but keep trying
7:58 and THAT is the man that women CHASE. That is why I have NEVER had to approach a woman.
Dudes that take this advice using indifference and that hot and cold actions are not worth any woman putting any time into. Yeah go for your purpose but listen to some of us when we tell you our needs. Be genuine. Thanks for helping me to discover I am not attracted to men anymore!
I'll add that a man can't 'just be himself' (genuine) because SHE wants to be herself, which she can't do if you are doing it too. It's about her fantasy, not yours. Remember, we all ALREADY change our behavior with everyone in our lives, so saying 'I just want to be myself' is a lie, you really mean I want to be the girl in the relationship, plus, I am lazy & don't want to work at it, which are bigger issues that probably are already leaking into all aspects of your life.
Eh you’re being too general. Every person is different, so being yourself doesn’t always mean you’re genuine. I have a mix of being a dickhead and romantic. Some people may just be flat out awkward and weird ect. Being real gets you places, I’ve been successful in all parts of my life being ME. All you need is boundaries. You can’t let people walk over you and still be this “nice guy”. Just be real and see how many girls you get. It’s not hard. There’s a girls for everyone but you gotta start dating to find them if they don’t meet your standards don’t be afraid to walk away
This advice is for guys that are in their teens and twenties.
It's crazy how nobody is talking about the banned ebook Magnetic Aura from Borlest
Can you be genuine with them if you are a cold person naturally.
Very true woman say they want this yet in actual fact they crave the other
Please make video on handsome mans game
Love you content 🎉
Join the Tribe #HeadmanNation
All true, sadly.
A dry erase board with every square inch used just to get a burping farting good for nothing ran through . 😂
First one 🔥
i have to disagree when u arent genuine like a nice guy women can feel the lack of authenticity in you tbh
What he mean probably all those lazy man who want to just being lazy in relationships
Who doesn't want to learn emotional intelligence to talk with woman too
Thank you 🙏🙂
Bro 👏🏼
In a nutshell..... Women will reward the men that are competent enough to properly drive them emotionally.
Why women dont want you to be genuine
1.she Don't want you to be genuine but want attractive ...women get into relationship with guy who give love snd care but only sleep with man who are rude arrogant self centred and does not get attached
2.when you say look im goof guy ..youre proving you that turn her off ..you have to be selfish...male youre smv ,style higher ..you should be unreplicable man .. fitness fashion scoial skills date , carrier .spend time on it
this is all true and great advice, but the biggest obstacle is where to meet fit intelligent single women that didn't get the bioweapon injection? The rest is pretty easy, just a desert out there though; even the life guards at the beach, very few actually in shape; and the people on the beach, nobody looks human anymore, just flab and tattoos.
At the end of the day we all just putting together a playbook to go catch hyenas…Go getcha life right get in a good Jesus filled church and get yourself a lioness 💪💯🌹
In a church find love all I saw was couples and rich stuckup woman they all gold diggers
The worse the handwriting the better the lesson
Play or get played
Then, wherever she finds you, I guess.
Are the rules different if your PLAYFULLY pretending ROMANTIC 😅
I really wish your writing was more clear. Have to zoom in, squint, consult a Rosetta Stone, break out an abacus. It's just taxing
Hey Casey I want (if you want) you to try negative marketing, say our community is so bad just don't join and I mean it. Please test this I swear with your curious following they can't help but click
Women changes when they can live on welfare if both their husband and boss gets enough of them. We see it here in Scandinavia.
Not being replicatable.
Based
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Who would bother with any of this. It almost seems cuckish to do all these games
Fellas can you help me on this, when I approach a girl at a party, etc. How do I get her number or Snapchat without showing them that I care a lot about her and exposing myself emotionally
forget that thing asking her number in the beginning.. the key is getting a good conversation with her, see if she is excited. At the so to speak clifhanger point, U can do three things in that moment: 1) drag her to another place. to sit and talk abit closer so without away from their friendsgroup..2) say u have to go was nice talking with u, but if u like we can exchange numbers.. 3) say u have to go and make a date with her on the spot, if she dont know when , exchange number, and say app me..
This make more sense u get each number, there has to be some plan or feeling left for her and want to talk with u more.. before u give her the number..
always go for women who chooses you, prolonged/repetitive eye contact, staying close to you etc.. even if you don’t fancy her. it’ll be easier for you to stay masculine. never cold approach
You've been on fire lately Casey, however I have to disagree with you here, a dude can be genuine with women who you don't want, why not with the women you do want? What is the secret? The secret is wanted them without wanting them, much like Lao Tzu's Wu-Wei, or action-nonaction. It sounds like a paradox but makes sense. If you enjoy a woman, and want to mate with her as creatures do, you can at the same time take or leave her. It is only if you really want her validation and body that being genuine will reveal this. If you can take or leave it, like with a woman you aren't attracted to, I dont see why you can't be genuine. Still a good video with many good points, but on the title for sure I'd have to say I disagree. Still a great way to pull men into the truth tho :) good job lately, just remember who your audience is and to stay humble. You're helping wake up the masculine spirit in men all across the world, just never forget your roots and your brothers and you'll go far.
4:12 "women will enter relationships with men who are caring and kind". Oh..... so it's not necessarily bad to be caring and kind?
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Hey this is random, but I wanted to reach out to the followers of this page. I believe that Jesus Christ is coming back soon to rapture His Church so I wanted to reach out to as many as possible. Please remember that there is only God that leads to Heaven, the Trinity (God the Father, God the Son Jesus Christ, and God the Holy Spirit) and it’s about a personal relationship through Jesus Christ, not religion (John 14:6 ESV). Blessings.
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Is it me or I think Casey contradicts himself, or is it perhaps me who misunderstand, I remeber something about game isnt needed if you are strong in your frame, or similar. Now game is good ?
You said nothing here really
Yea you understood him but he made no sense on the last ones a vital part on getting “women” is communication without it you’re just going to be thrown in the pile with the rest of the guys unless you look like a fucking model.
@@MenacedAssassin much is open for interpretation I suppose.
@@Realb1ackboiIf there’s no genuine burning desire aka lust, all what you learn is better off thrown away. be with women who lust after you and act accordingly, there’s no winning them over. it’s either she wants you and fantasies about you or you’re getting played
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I was first
@@colenewcomb3752that only matters if you’re riding the short bus with 2 seats
yeah but what is the point of dating anyone if you can't be genuine? I don't see thst worth it then, just for thevsake of sex?
not denying your advice doesn't work btw,
its sad, genuine love doesnt exist. you cant care for her more than yourself except when you both are in danger. order is
1. God
2. yourself
3.Parents
4.her
Don’t even put them up there just God and myself for me
Her doesnt exist 😂
4th option shouldn’t exist. You provide “ protection “ when she’s with you because if anything happens it’s disrespect to you. other than that I could care less about her
If god exists, unconditional loves exists. If unconditional love doesn’t exist, god doesn’t exist.
Banger 🤍👑
When women are hot and cold is it because you just the entertainment for the day ? lol
Woman go hot and cold because you are displaying hot and cold behavior to her. Look to yourself.
I believe all of this follows the Bible also