Producing men’s content I can’t find anywhere else. Always on point. I am 35 and have experienced everything you warn about because no one taught me. I have made all the mistakes, and now I have women coming to me, largely because of philosophies like these. Pay attention, younger guys, he is spot on.
@@Nita-qx2fkwould have to agree with both of u guys in parts lol. Im 33 atm and can attest to this for sure. I have also come to the conclusion that most of the women that are like this are best o stay away lmao
@@Nita-qx2fk you can’t change female nature this is 99% of women, and if you think you can make more accurate content on female nature then upload some videos… otherwise shut the fk up
Guys listen up , I got the hottest gf of my life when i didnt have a car , was renting , and painted houses for a job. I didnt realize this until watching his videos but i would naturally create chaos, drama, and uncertainty in relationships. At that time the girl left her boyfriend who owned multiple houses and had a 6 fig income, to be with me. Its Internal and leading emotions, so spot on my man.
i would never date a girl if she's leaving her boyfriend to jump into my arms, that's a huge red flag because she could do the same thing again, she showed her character and values right there but most guys ignore that just to "Get the girl" thinking she could never do that to "me" because "im different"
This is very spot on. I am a lawyer and single and when I was younger I was a mess, hotheaded and always in trouble. I had a lot more women when I was younger. I assumed that becoming successful would get me the very good looking women I wanted, but I have found that a lot of women are now intimidated by me and I have actually had women say "they are not feeling it" after a date or too. Especially good looking women who are in the service industry, like waitresses or women who make much less than me. Instead of seeing me as a catch, they think you are too educated and perfect and get intimidated. Like there is nothing she can bring to a relationship with you. I have learned to downplay almost everything about me when I meet women. Do not brag I know how to cook or mention I have travelled, etc.., say I am a mess. It actually seems to spark interest more if you are the "successful guy who needs a woman to fix his life" than being too perfect. I think that is why a lot of very beautiful women who are famous are single or divorce a lot. They land a rich, good looking, nice guy, but just get bored with them because there is no drama.
That’s fucking crazy and also spot on! Women love drama especially the good looking ones! though they end up single for too long yet still choose to go for bad guys 🤦🏻♂️
Im in a very similar position. The more I learn about them, the more they disgust me. If not for that thing between their legs, there's absolutely nothing a modern woman can offer me.
Just stay focused on making yourself better. More often than not, dating down doesn't work. You need to find a woman who is intellectually on your level.
That's because emotionally they are children. They still have fantasies about some guy they had the hots for in high school. And even though the guy is now fat, bald, has disgusting hygiene, and is an alcoholic, she fantasizes that she could of fixed him and prevented his decline.
This is the KNOWLEDGE. I'm telling this to the young generation out there. Guys, pay attention to this. I'm 32 years old and i've made alot of mistakes in the past because i had nobody who could teach me all that stuff Casey is talking about. Now i have a hot girl who's begging for my attention. It works guys. It truly does.
Facts because with my ex I used to be super cold in the beginning and she was always in tears of love then later when I started to feel more for her I softened and she lost gradually the interest
Being Problematic is actually easy when you become obsessed with what you're fixing in the external world. You are more likely to say No to a woman, contact them less or not at all and even disappear for days.
Things like disappearing are immature mind games, a behavior that makes her lose trust in you and signals uncertainty in an inappropriate way. Not masculine at all!
Its true. The more I understand female nature the more I want nothing to do with them. Casey is good at this because he's just straight up stating facts, rather than other PUA who tells you "i can help you get any chick you want". You just either go by this playbook or gets red pilled/black pilled, and Casey doesnt shame you either option you choose.
@@rejectwokeness1314 It's a different world, yes, but it's the world we have. Deal. Are you a man or a complaining woman? There are gradations of women (incl. hoes), but the principles here are useful to understand and apply. You are still in the denial/bargaining phase of blue pill life. Take the RP. Read into Albert Ellis and CBT. Helps get you into the right mindset to be able to intake Casey and others info without anger or resentment or sadness...
@@ncp321 Huh your brain fried or sth? What you're saying now is the blue pill shit, which is to have woman at all costs no matter how shitty they are. You can go ahead and do whatever u like, no one's stopping you, why do you think you have the right to dictate what others want?
@@ncp321A man will walk his own path despite the obstacles. Tell me how precisely standing on your own two feet and choosing is complaining. Your statement sounds way more feminine my dude.
It takes some cold hearted lessons, to understand not givinng a F about the blah blah blah's and to just keep it moving, Coldest dudes i ever knew were smooth relaxed and just didn't give a F about making attention.
@@Heartstarts2poundyep and I went through that a couple times and finally got my doctorate in it. They really ain’t shit, if you find one that’s stable enough to marry then cool have kids and do all that but also know if she ever cheats or leaves you it’s not a big loss in life. Why? Because life doesn’t revolve around them and neither should your happiness. Simply focus on life and find another one. And even men who can’t find one, life ain’t that bad alone. Have hobbies, get a dog and enjoy watching sports with some liquor stress free without the constant female stress and Debbie downer vibes.
Don’t forget to let her fix things sometimes. If you’re just constant drama and turmoil and she never sees any results for her efforts, the relationship never progresses, she will lose hope
@@hotchocexpressowhat do you mean how does that work? You just don’t let her fix anything about you and this causes trauma bonding or something? Genuinely curious. This psychology is fascinating.
I used to think that is something wrong with me, now I think that I am perfect lol. I suppose that the biggest turn on for woman is when you one day dont like her because she said or did something stupid that pissed you of and you dont even want have sex with her. This blows her mind and she starts really working for your attention.
@@rm6857 It doesn’t go like that. That’s feminine in you talking, scared that she’ll go away if you don’t please her in every possible way. And she’ll go, if you do that.
Once I started focusing more on me and doing my thing, planned a trip to Japan in Jan. makes her feel like I’m leaving or have other options, I’ve been getting way more intimacy and affection. Thanks coach I’ve been watching all your videos for a while now, never commented before but thanks for what you do Xander ❤❤
its not necessarily about making her feel that you will leave, but that you have a life outside of her and are on your purpose. Being unavailable doesn't have to imply there are other women, but other THINGS going on in your life
Exactly stay on purpose. They will come. I’ve stopped texting or calling. With my purely focus on me. My thought on it is, if a woman wants to hear ya voice she will reach out or make herself available to be reach out to. Never initiate or don’t always initiate.
There are many. Casey is tops. He knows the true nature of woman which more men need to understand. Especially now that more homes are without a father. Deep gratitude to this man! 🍻
No father or a father/stepfather(s) who were problematic in the bad way--alcoholics, actual narcissists, etc. Men who 'don't want to be like their dads' also don't have good role models. Casey has clickbait titles, but his details are clearly about being a *controlled*, mocking, cocky, fun-loving guy that a gal can feel safe and alive being with. Casey never once advocates (that I've seen, at least) physical or verbal abuse.
100% true,99% all young woman i knew feel fully atracted in these kind of relation. 50 shades of gray, twilight, etc.. is always that kind of sexual-romantic relation. Woman like sex more than us but not in the same way, they are turned on by one man who creates the story.
Everything else is spot on except from “women like sex more than men” hmmm could be the case within a dynamics where she just desire that guy, yes. But, in general ….nah.
Now I can say that I apply some of this knowledge that was just shared by Casey, and not because I'm bright, but because I'm 58 and I have some life experience that led me to where I'm at now. One thing is for certain, I wish I knew all this 20, 30 years ago. The internal vs external world is totally, absolutely on point. He describes the dynamics of relationships perfectly. I've been watching Casey's vids for a while now and I can assure that every video is full of eye opening gems. Keep it up and thanks.
I've been with girls to whom this applies 100%, but I've also been with girls on whom these techniques will absolutely not work (I also see in several of my friends' relationships). Saying that this applies to all women is simply not true. I'd say it's a 50:50 split.
Great wishings from germany everything you told in mention in your videos i could find in my own life experience with woman thank you for your great content an keep going
Yeah women destroy relationships they don't fix it. Try it give her the steering wheel and see what happens. Let her lead and she will lead you out of the relationship. Go ahead try it if you don't believe it.
The guys who said “they destroy it” are 100% true. They’ll cheat and just destroy a family simply because they were “bored” or “didn’t get the attention and effort I deserve” it’s so common that this is at this point basically an indisputable fact.
Casey you are a wizard. I am following your wisdom to the letter and it works 10/10 times . I'm currently pulling a top notch chick thanks to all of your tips.
As a young pup, I APPROVE this message ✅ Seriously take in everything this man is saying, people pay for advice like this and he just gives it to us. - 🐶🐾
The thing is girls nowadays have too many options. Even if I be problematic to her, she would likely leave me and go after another guy who seems more problematic in her eyes
Always with the negative thinking haha. What’s your plan? Just to be “problematic” to get women? Mate, just go out there and be yourself and don’t care about the other guys.
Out of high school I focused 100% on my mission and that was when even dad's were offering their daughter's to me. The happiest days of my life were those when I was single and dating multiple women. Marriage = the worst days of my life as I discovered soon after you commit to any woman she shuts down the awesome sex & soon monkey-branches to another man.
Is that what happened to you? She monkey branched to another man? It’s crazy how many women commit this same mistake. And almost always they don’t end up happier or more stable. After some months or years pass they then get the realization “maybe my husband wasn’t so bad” it’s so common that it’s proof generally speaking they’re not as intelligent as men in decision making.
I have to learn to do all of this without thinking about it or relationships are forever going to be a headache. I would love to see a video on how to internalize masculine traits. Perhaps this is what the MBT is all about.
MBT is in the videos. Just piggyback habits to what you already do (James Clear), and just one at a time. If you had one trait that wasn't masculine before, change that one. Once you don't even 'think' about that one anymore, you're literally rewired, then move on to the next...
Hi Casey. I must say that from my personal experience, I feel that women tend to leave grown men, with a quality live, hard working and with their things together because of laziness. They just cannot accept that the way of live these men have comes with a lot of good adventures but requires sacrifices and stoicism which women are not able to accept.
Oh God, I was a chilled dude few months back until I came to know this beautiful cougar in my apartment. She is very intelligent and I did all the simp things against my cool attitude. Now watching this made me realise I was ok at first. These tips are gold. Thanks Casey buddy
See i only do want 1. I am red pilled. Here i am 41 and listening to this young man. Never too late. I find this man highly respectable in what he is saying. So much i am and trying what he is saying. I would also say give up corn and anking. This will add confidence. Great video keep up informing our fellow Kings.
So I’m talking to girl #2, and I casually mention “I’m going on a date tomorrow to a wine tasting. What should I wear?” And she’s taken aback, but she says “Wear a button down with the sleeves rolled up.” So 2 days later I tell her “It worked. We had s3x in the hot tub” Now, you’d THINK that Girl #2 would get all huffy and leave/ block me. Nope. Guess what? 4 days later? Yup! Worked like a charm. Amazing.
This doesn’t even sound realistic lmao. You told her “it worked” what worked? You only asked her for clothing advice. You didn’t ask her on what works to get laid. So why would you say “it worked” in this context? Idk why people lie about shit like this lol so embarrassing.
Correct ... Its a test of our masculinity Becoming a simp to Fuc.. women To get women or keep women is masculine failure & it doesn't work most of the time Which affects our whole lives & our success Most men are way too emotional & feminine today We must learn to control our emotions That's what we were taught a few generations ago Lack of control is Causing all sorts of confusion , frustration & failure in men
I dont mind watching all this dude's video (and im currently on progress) because all of them are on point, solid without unnecessary bs, and very complete it even covers the extra scope i dont even know related to the topics
if you want that type of girl so yes. go ahead. i'm a sigma male i don't follow any rules. i treat celebrities, royal family or a janitor the same With respect!! Girls comes up to me and talk, i will continue that path.
Me too this is a real stupid way to live always walking around eggshells watching out not to f****** Who wants to live like this😮 not me But there is a few good advice in here I can adapt😮 cheers mate😅
Its submission, when man goes all-in and shows the woman that he loves her he submits. A submissive role. Thats her role not his. So, the polarity is flipped. When you ask the wife to go to your friends your submitting, So you should instead TELL her you're going to your friends which forces her to submit to you.
Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it
its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.
@DailamiPuang F*ck therapy, bro, that's all talking. Talking is for women. Men do. Just start *leading* in your relationship. (Re)grow a pair and start piggybacking the techniques and understandings of Casey into your life, habit by habit. You have no other option.
What I like about this channel is I watched a lot of videos, not one supercar, not one camera panning slowly to the main character amazon dropshipping boss makes 50k a month, not scolding people not making big money from their business. Just helping people to become the man who gets what all men want. Not just improving yourself, but BECOMING that person.
Great video, Casey. Yeah, I've pretty much chosen path 1. BUT, I continue listening to/watching these videos in case I ever change my mind and since this still helps me learn how to deal with women, especially since no matter how tough, masculine, and red-pilled we try to become, developing--and not being able to get rid of--romantic feelings for women may not be avoidable for some of us. Therefore, these videos are EXTREMELY helpful. Thank you
Ok Casey, All of Your vids are spot on ! Now what I'm confused about is this: Where and how to tell the difference between being with a NPD woman , and a woman that uses same tehnics as Woman with NPD but it's not a NPD. There is alot of woman up there with personality disorders, I would love to see a video from You talking about it. It's quite a hot topic atm. Peace bro !
Yes, all these guys I was in love with were problematic and I was trying to fix them! Skater smoked weed every day and after 2-3 years in relationship with me stopped, illuminati was using drugs and was evil, spiritual leader didnt want kids (like never) and had issues with narcissism, player was telling he still cant grow up and had also issues with commitment (and had also depression and low control of anger) and I spot some issues with innter world of last crush too. But I wasnt happy about these problems and sometimes it was the reason why I stopped be in love with somebody.. Like the more problematic ex I had the quicker I exit if I spot some of those problems (so maybe in the end I would want to boring grinding guy without boredom with him?). I want unproblematic guy, but I can spot only the problematic ones (but I break up because of these problems). So I have to learn to perceive good guys and my problems would be solved. And I also solve and care about my inner world (not only guy inner world).
Great info, helpful for those interested in dating. This information has helped me understand where i stand, for me, taking the time to "create" chaos, uncertainty, and other things you mentioned just sounds like i have to break away from my personality and also interfere with my mental health and peace by creating "drama" with another human.
There is a lot of good advice here, but it just needs a little bit of extra refining. You don’t want to be problematic as such. Problematic implies toxic masculine traits. You can share the blanket with her or get another one for her lol big whoop. Nor do you have to treat her like shit and put her down. You also shouldn’t pursue a girl who wants someone that treats her badly because that’s just insecurity and sad as f. Rather what you want to do is embody healthy masculine traits and set up your life in a way where you are genuinely happy and fulfilled within yourself without needing her and Without getting lonely. This means heal your inner child wounds. Inner child wounds BLOCK your ability to man up naturally so it’s important you do your inner work. A man who is in touch with his true self will naturally embody healthy masculine energy without even trying - and the right girls (girls on his wavelength) will be drawn into his life as a byproduct. Healthy masculine traits alone should be all you’d ever need to attract the girls you want in your life. Period. If you’re not getting girls in your life it means you likely have internal blockages that prevent you from being your true authentic self. Heal the boy and the man will appear. Best of Luck.
Casey: I don’t like this video. I f*cking LOVE it bro !! This tutorial explains so many past relationships I had end and I never knew why. Thank you sir.
True ive had a few girlfriend s that left me for high drama guys with unstable situations..like separated guys goin through a divorce..crazy but true...a stable responsible single guy gets friend zoned ? I found this upsetting but but have witnessed this a number of times
thats narcicism in my book, trying to thrive upon someone being toxic, demanding and making fuzz after fuzz, but not getting responsible of their own shitty life.
I'm such a problematic, cold-hearted man. Women even tell me this. It doesn't turn them on one bit. They all prefer the warm-hearted docile men who will be their simp servants.
I need to raise the blood pressure not against her but against my opponents because the blood pressure I will raise against her will not be very healthy
5:04 after 6 years, I tried to strengthen the relationship... Tried to fix all of the problems and the better everything got, she left.... Well atleast I proved that I'm better at fixing shit than what she was
I completely agree with you. Most of them require a dose of drama. There are just a few exceptions. An emotionally secure woman who understands her attachment style and is capable of reprogramming her natural emotional patterns from her subconscious would not subscribe to such a theory. Only 10% of them exist, and I refer to them as "high value women" or "rare pearls". You are doing a good job Casey
I would rather just play my guitar. When you have been with hundreds you start to see repetition. They are all the same, and none of them are worth it.
Thanks bro.. This applies I guess to people who are married too. I divorced once because of wife cheating because i guess I was so boring. I was actually perfect and philosophical.
True, it shows my internal lack of value too, women's are not like that without a reason, it is even understandable why are they looking for provider and external protector
When you see all these Casey videos, the blackboard, the tecniques, how women operate, etc etc... At the end theres only one question left : Is this shit worth more than a PS5? Lol, Im starting to think it isnt
The worst mistake you can make is trying to be fair with a woman. That's actually worse than being nice to her, and being nice to her is very bad itself.
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Producing men’s content I can’t find anywhere else. Always on point. I am 35 and have experienced everything you warn about because no one taught me. I have made all the mistakes, and now I have women coming to me, largely because of philosophies like these. Pay attention, younger guys, he is spot on.
seriously
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If you want all the WRONG type of girls then by all means do what he says 😄
@@Nita-qx2fkwould have to agree with both of u guys in parts lol. Im 33 atm and can attest to this for sure. I have also come to the conclusion that most of the women that are like this are best o stay away lmao
@@Nita-qx2fk you can’t change female nature this is 99% of women, and if you think you can make more accurate content on female nature then upload some videos… otherwise shut the fk up
I thought my father was toxic but now realized that he was right
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@@rartrial2581 facts
Lol
Same here funny that always they are trying to fix and the man is still causing her to even cry
Guys listen up , I got the hottest gf of my life when i didnt have a car , was renting , and painted houses for a job. I didnt realize this until watching his videos but i would naturally create chaos, drama, and uncertainty in relationships. At that time the girl left her boyfriend who owned multiple houses and had a 6 fig income, to be with me. Its Internal and leading emotions, so spot on my man.
That’s crazy
Yea because she actually probably fell in love with you… she didn’t like you because of the drama smh🙄
@@Nita-qx2fk girls will actually date down that’s extremely rare I’m in Miami and they well lost date up!!
Lost?
i would never date a girl if she's leaving her boyfriend to jump into my arms, that's a huge red flag because she could do the same thing again, she showed her character and values right there but most guys ignore that just to "Get the girl" thinking she could never do that to "me" because "im different"
This is very spot on. I am a lawyer and single and when I was younger I was a mess, hotheaded and always in trouble. I had a lot more women when I was younger. I assumed that becoming successful would get me the very good looking women I wanted, but I have found that a lot of women are now intimidated by me and I have actually had women say "they are not feeling it" after a date or too. Especially good looking women who are in the service industry, like waitresses or women who make much less than me. Instead of seeing me as a catch, they think you are too educated and perfect and get intimidated. Like there is nothing she can bring to a relationship with you. I have learned to downplay almost everything about me when I meet women. Do not brag I know how to cook or mention I have travelled, etc.., say I am a mess. It actually seems to spark interest more if you are the "successful guy who needs a woman to fix his life" than being too perfect.
I think that is why a lot of very beautiful women who are famous are single or divorce a lot. They land a rich, good looking, nice guy, but just get bored with them because there is no drama.
That’s fucking crazy and also spot on! Women love drama especially the good looking ones! though they end up single for too long yet still choose to go for bad guys 🤦🏻♂️
That’s why to have to posses a very special set of skills.
Im in a very similar position. The more I learn about them, the more they disgust me. If not for that thing between their legs, there's absolutely nothing a modern woman can offer me.
Just stay focused on making yourself better.
More often than not, dating down doesn't work.
You need to find a woman who is intellectually on your level.
@@troyvan6952they get bored to! Don’t be boring be interesting. And being perfect is not interesting
Its so sad that we gotta play games with them like children..
That's because emotionally they are children. They still have fantasies about some guy they had the hots for in high school. And even though the guy is now fat, bald, has disgusting hygiene, and is an alcoholic, she fantasizes that she could of fixed him and prevented his decline.
Half of it is really "don't be too available, and don't act overly grateful that she's your gf/wife". I swear. Keep it simple.
I think about this all the time. So fucked up
This is the KNOWLEDGE. I'm telling this to the young generation out there. Guys, pay attention to this. I'm 32 years old and i've made alot of mistakes in the past because i had nobody who could teach me all that stuff Casey is talking about. Now i have a hot girl who's begging for my attention. It works guys. It truly does.
%100 true, ıf you dont care your girl she cares about you,if you care your girl she gets bored and leaves you.
Facts because with my ex I used to be super cold in the beginning and she was always in tears of love then later when I started to feel more for her I softened and she lost gradually the interest
We've all been there, chuckle.
Classic tale young buck
We’ve all been there young buck lol don’t worry it gets so much better.
Stay cold to keep her warm.
@@b.d.128Very wise comment my friend!
Setting boundaries are perfect to create problems and tension
Being Problematic is actually easy when you become obsessed with what you're fixing in the external world. You are more likely to say No to a woman, contact them less or not at all and even disappear for days.
That's basically me
Is being problematic really the word for it though
I just don't give af fr I'm on a mission to greatness
Things like disappearing are immature mind games, a behavior that makes her lose trust in you and signals uncertainty in an inappropriate way. Not masculine at all!
@@thinkingoutthebox7253No, and I don‘t think it is an appropriate masculine trait.
Its true. The more I understand female nature the more I want nothing to do with them. Casey is good at this because he's just straight up stating facts, rather than other PUA who tells you "i can help you get any chick you want". You just either go by this playbook or gets red pilled/black pilled, and Casey doesnt shame you either option you choose.
Divestment is one option, but all of our male ancestors chose involvement...
@@ncp321 they don't know hoeflation though, they need to know none of these shit to get women better than those we see out here
@@rejectwokeness1314 It's a different world, yes, but it's the world we have. Deal. Are you a man or a complaining woman? There are gradations of women (incl. hoes), but the principles here are useful to understand and apply. You are still in the denial/bargaining phase of blue pill life. Take the RP. Read into Albert Ellis and CBT. Helps get you into the right mindset to be able to intake Casey and others info without anger or resentment or sadness...
@@ncp321 Huh your brain fried or sth? What you're saying now is the blue pill shit, which is to have woman at all costs no matter how shitty they are. You can go ahead and do whatever u like, no one's stopping you, why do you think you have the right to dictate what others want?
@@ncp321A man will walk his own path despite the obstacles. Tell me how precisely standing on your own two feet and choosing is complaining.
Your statement sounds way more feminine my dude.
“Don’t look at me like that or else I’m not gonna like you” 😂 trying that today
“Don’t give me that look.” reduced 13 words to 5
@@mat7083LOL
I'm 58, and learning so much from literally THE best dating coach
You are a fool
Wasted 58 years being a moron?
Same
It takes some cold hearted lessons, to understand not givinng a F about the blah blah blah's and to just keep it moving, Coldest dudes i ever knew were smooth relaxed and just didn't give a F about making attention.
This here is the key plus going through a heart break and realizing women ain't shit. It's hard to fake it, it should be a natural state
@@Heartstarts2poundyep and I went through that a couple times and finally got my doctorate in it. They really ain’t shit, if you find one that’s stable enough to marry then cool have kids and do all that but also know if she ever cheats or leaves you it’s not a big loss in life. Why? Because life doesn’t revolve around them and neither should your happiness. Simply focus on life and find another one. And even men who can’t find one, life ain’t that bad alone. Have hobbies, get a dog and enjoy watching sports with some liquor stress free without the constant female stress and Debbie downer vibes.
Don’t forget to let her fix things sometimes. If you’re just constant drama and turmoil and she never sees any results for her efforts, the relationship never progresses, she will lose hope
Very important!
@@hotchocexpressowhat do you mean how does that work? You just don’t let her fix anything about you and this causes trauma bonding or something? Genuinely curious. This psychology is fascinating.
I used to think that is something wrong with me, now I think that I am perfect lol.
I suppose that the biggest turn on for woman is when you one day dont like her because she said or did something stupid that pissed you of and you dont even want have sex with her. This blows her mind and she starts really working for your attention.
Yes, or just sleeeps with neighbour
@@rm6857 Not if you're doing what you need to to pique her feminine interest in your masculine mystique.
@@rm6857 It doesn’t go like that. That’s feminine in you talking, scared that she’ll go away if you don’t please her in every possible way. And she’ll go, if you do that.
You don't want to over do it either otherwise she will wise up and leave you.
OP is legit, can confirm, 36 made many mistakes in the past.
Once I started focusing more on me and doing my thing, planned a trip to Japan in Jan. makes her feel like I’m leaving or have other options, I’ve been getting way more intimacy and affection. Thanks coach I’ve been watching all your videos for a while now, never commented before but thanks for what you do Xander ❤❤
*spells name wrong/smokes so much weed, brain thinks first name "Xander"
Mate never smoked or done drugs in my life. Know his name is Casey. Xander means protector of men ❤
its not necessarily about making her feel that you will leave, but that you have a life outside of her and are on your purpose. Being unavailable doesn't have to imply there are other women, but other THINGS going on in your life
Exactly stay on purpose. They will come. I’ve stopped texting or calling. With my purely focus on me.
My thought on it is, if a woman wants to hear ya voice she will reach out or make herself available to be reach out to. Never initiate or don’t always initiate.
I literally do all these things, and they still fuck up.😂 just stay single bruh. They’re for recreational use only
There are many. Casey is tops. He knows the true nature of woman which more men need to understand. Especially now that more homes are without a father. Deep gratitude to this man! 🍻
No father or a father/stepfather(s) who were problematic in the bad way--alcoholics, actual narcissists, etc. Men who 'don't want to be like their dads' also don't have good role models. Casey has clickbait titles, but his details are clearly about being a *controlled*, mocking, cocky, fun-loving guy that a gal can feel safe and alive being with. Casey never once advocates (that I've seen, at least) physical or verbal abuse.
You are a genius Sir. I have kind of sensed these things at a gut level, but couldn't bring myself to believe it. It's counterintuitive.
100% true,99% all young woman i knew feel fully atracted in these kind of relation. 50 shades of gray, twilight, etc.. is always that kind of sexual-romantic relation. Woman like sex more than us but not in the same way, they are turned on by one man who creates the story.
I don’t think women like sex more than men. Only thing I disagree on
@@blackshadexl They can enjoy much more sex, like more in a different way. Is more complex for them to enjoy but more intense with the right guy
@@blackshadexl You haven't found the right women. The right women rides your d*ck till it falls off.
"one man who creates the story" is a great way to put it.
like I tell my sons -- have fun, and always lead. warmly grab her by the wrist and go..
Everything else is spot on except from “women like sex more than men” hmmm could be the case within a dynamics where she just desire that guy, yes. But, in general ….nah.
Now I can say that I apply some of this knowledge that was just shared by Casey, and not because I'm bright, but because I'm 58 and I have some life experience that led me to where I'm at now. One thing is for certain, I wish I knew all this 20, 30 years ago. The internal vs external world is totally, absolutely on point. He describes the dynamics of relationships perfectly. I've been watching Casey's vids for a while now and I can assure that every video is full of eye opening gems. Keep it up and thanks.
I've been with girls to whom this applies 100%, but I've also been with girls on whom these techniques will absolutely not work (I also see in several of my friends' relationships). Saying that this applies to all women is simply not true. I'd say it's a 50:50 split.
Thanks. I am glad you spoke up. It seems revolutionary.
Those women who for these techniques do not work are the real treasures.
@@ArjunaKunti Absolutely, but they are rare like unicorns
Yeah thats what i find with this guy, he generalises too much and assumes all women react the same im beginning to doubt hes even had that many women🤔
@@maxdecmer616 i know what u mean 😂😂
Women need a RANGE of emotions.
You can't live there, being distant.
Of course you approach his advise with common sense!
Just the thought of the implementation of this knowledge is exhausting.
I thought I was the only one
Agrree. Casey's mad scientist theories work only for broken women who will quickly dump your ass anyways. Keep making love to your whiteboard Casey.
Just be a hard ass and don’t let her get away with anything
@@jorgenriveros... After some time it just becomes a lifestyle 😂😂😂
Doing nothing is too hard lmao
Great wishings from germany everything you told in mention in your videos i could find in my own life experience with woman thank you for your great content an keep going
Sadly this has been proven time and time again.
I’m reasonably certain this is all true. I’m not sure any woman is worth all of this drama.
Men fix gadgets. Women fix relationships. Both like to be engaged in what they like to fix. You deprive them of that and it’s boredom and frustration.
Women destroy relationships.
Yeah women destroy relationships they don't fix it. Try it give her the steering wheel and see what happens. Let her lead and she will lead you out of the relationship. Go ahead try it if you don't believe it.
@@303machineThey destoy it only if there's nothing to fix. If there's nothing to chase cause you're too certain
Women fix relationships?! 🤣 80% of divorces are initiated by women.
The guys who said “they destroy it” are 100% true. They’ll cheat and just destroy a family simply because they were “bored” or “didn’t get the attention and effort I deserve” it’s so common that this is at this point basically an indisputable fact.
We need to win over our emotions first
Casey you are a wizard. I am following your wisdom to the letter and it works 10/10 times . I'm currently pulling a top notch chick thanks to all of your tips.
How
My god he is so spot on it’s scary
You are one of a kind in the manosphere. This is esoteric knowledge, keep it up Casey.
As a young pup, I APPROVE this message ✅
Seriously take in everything this man is saying, people pay for advice like this and he just gives it to us.
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Us dogs need to UNITE and LISTEN to what this man has to say. Some of the best advice I've heard literally, ever. Thx bro! Keep up the amazing content
My take away is don't focus on fixing the relationship, focus on building yourself instead
'Future Pacing ' I like that term
Never forget that we're animals. We're human but still animals. So we respond to positive stimulus and negative stimulus.
Nah we ain't animals TF? lol
@@sourdiesel681
Mammals include humans and all other animals that are warm-blooded vertebrates (vertebrates have backbones) with hair.
You probably the most important teacher on RUclips in this Era man Thanks for the Wisdom you share 🙏🏽
The thing is girls nowadays have too many options.
Even if I be problematic to her, she would likely leave me and go after another guy who seems more problematic in her eyes
Always with the negative thinking haha. What’s your plan? Just to be “problematic” to get women? Mate, just go out there and be yourself and don’t care about the other guys.
Out of high school I focused 100% on my mission and that was when even dad's were offering their daughter's to me. The happiest days of my life were those when I was single and dating multiple women. Marriage = the worst days of my life as I discovered soon after you commit to any woman she shuts down the awesome sex & soon monkey-branches to another man.
Is that what happened to you? She monkey branched to another man? It’s crazy how many women commit this same mistake. And almost always they don’t end up happier or more stable. After some months or years pass they then get the realization “maybe my husband wasn’t so bad” it’s so common that it’s proof generally speaking they’re not as intelligent as men in decision making.
Men are rational woman are emotional & all their decisions are made by their emotions. @@erko78
"I found the man at the end of time...
And he made sense"
Right? We're at the beginnings of f*ckin WWIII. What are the odds?
Saving so many peoples life’s🙏🏼
you will have many women if you do not depend on their opinion
I have to learn to do all of this without thinking about it or relationships are forever going to be a headache. I would love to see a video on how to internalize masculine traits.
Perhaps this is what the MBT is all about.
MBT is in the videos. Just piggyback habits to what you already do (James Clear), and just one at a time. If you had one trait that wasn't masculine before, change that one. Once you don't even 'think' about that one anymore, you're literally rewired, then move on to the next...
I already have these qualities you just taught me ways to intensify them💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
the key is you do this naturally, you have a life that natural creates these feelings, your an alpha dude who's a cut above the rest.
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Hi Casey. I must say that from my personal experience, I feel that women tend to leave grown men, with a quality live, hard working and with their things together because of laziness. They just cannot accept that the way of live these men have comes with a lot of good adventures but requires sacrifices and stoicism which women are not able to accept.
Oh God, I was a chilled dude few months back until I came to know this beautiful cougar in my apartment. She is very intelligent and I did all the simp things against my cool attitude. Now watching this made me realise I was ok at first.
These tips are gold.
Thanks Casey buddy
This guy is a Jedi master
See i only do want 1. I am red pilled. Here i am 41 and listening to this young man. Never too late. I find this man highly respectable in what he is saying. So much i am and trying what he is saying. I would also say give up corn and anking. This will add confidence. Great video keep up informing our fellow Kings.
If you like the catchy but problematic and troubled women then yep, someway its true.
just be rude and impolite to her to create tension in a playful way and she will be more attracted to you, plain and quite simple
So I’m talking to girl #2, and I casually mention “I’m going on a date tomorrow to a wine tasting. What should I wear?”
And she’s taken aback, but she says “Wear a button down with the sleeves rolled up.”
So 2 days later I tell her “It worked. We had s3x in the hot tub”
Now, you’d THINK that Girl #2 would get all huffy and leave/ block me.
Nope.
Guess what?
4 days later?
Yup!
Worked like a charm. Amazing.
What does that even mean ? She dumped you after four days ?
This doesn’t even sound realistic lmao. You told her “it worked” what worked? You only asked her for clothing advice. You didn’t ask her on what works to get laid. So why would you say “it worked” in this context?
Idk why people lie about shit like this lol so embarrassing.
@@riomyself2438pre selection
@@erko78 in reality: there was no girls and only his hand 🙄🧴
This truth sucks to hear. It’s so easy to go weak for her. It sucks.
Correct ...
Its a test of our masculinity
Becoming a simp to Fuc.. women
To get women
or keep women
is masculine failure
& it doesn't work most of the time
Which affects our whole lives & our success
Most men are way too emotional & feminine today
We must learn to control our emotions
That's what we were taught a few generations ago
Lack of control is
Causing all sorts of confusion , frustration & failure in men
I dont mind watching all this dude's video (and im currently on progress) because all of them are on point, solid without unnecessary bs, and very complete it even covers the extra scope i dont even know related to the topics
The guy is talking about only certain kind of women, the problematic ones.
"These problems need to start right away" lol you ain't wrong
if you want that type of girl so yes. go ahead.
i'm a sigma male i don't follow any rules. i treat celebrities, royal family or a janitor the same With respect!! Girls comes up to me and talk, i will continue that path.
Me too this is a real stupid way to live always walking around eggshells watching out not to f******
Who wants to live like this😮 not me
But there is a few good advice in here I can adapt😮 cheers mate😅
Its submission, when man goes all-in and shows the woman that he loves her he submits. A submissive role. Thats her role not his. So, the polarity is flipped. When you ask the wife to go to your friends your submitting, So you should instead TELL her you're going to your friends which forces her to submit to you.
Bro spitting fax I now see where I went wrong damn....
Kudos. Understanding of error is the first step in improvement.
Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it
its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.
Are you two for real? You sound like chat gpt in simping mode
@DailamiPuang F*ck therapy, bro, that's all talking. Talking is for women. Men do. Just start *leading* in your relationship. (Re)grow a pair and start piggybacking the techniques and understandings of Casey into your life, habit by habit. You have no other option.
@@hadriusreznor3247 Yes, it's bots. I remember this same exchange somewhere like a year ago.
What I like about this channel is I watched a lot of videos, not one supercar, not one camera panning slowly to the main character amazon dropshipping boss makes 50k a month, not scolding people not making big money from their business.
Just helping people to become the man who gets what all men want. Not just improving yourself, but BECOMING that person.
Please tell me more and take ALL my money!
Exactly. The best coaches are nerds who went through the grind themselves. Casey and his notebooks full of failures and triumphs ftw.
My baby mama is all over me this last month and she just called me emotionally cold last night 😂 good timing
Great video, Casey. Yeah, I've pretty much chosen path 1. BUT, I continue listening to/watching these videos in case I ever change my mind and since this still helps me learn how to deal with women, especially since no matter how tough, masculine, and red-pilled we try to become, developing--and not being able to get rid of--romantic feelings for women may not be avoidable for some of us. Therefore, these videos are EXTREMELY helpful. Thank you
Ok Casey, All of Your vids are spot on ! Now what I'm confused about is this: Where and how to tell the difference between being with a NPD woman , and a woman that uses same tehnics as Woman with NPD but it's not a NPD. There is alot of woman up there with personality disorders, I would love to see a video from You talking about it. It's quite a hot topic atm.
Peace bro !
Yes, all these guys I was in love with were problematic and I was trying to fix them! Skater smoked weed every day and after 2-3 years in relationship with me stopped, illuminati was using drugs and was evil, spiritual leader didnt want kids (like never) and had issues with narcissism, player was telling he still cant grow up and had also issues with commitment (and had also depression and low control of anger) and I spot some issues with innter world of last crush too. But I wasnt happy about these problems and sometimes it was the reason why I stopped be in love with somebody.. Like the more problematic ex I had the quicker I exit if I spot some of those problems (so maybe in the end I would want to boring grinding guy without boredom with him?). I want unproblematic guy, but I can spot only the problematic ones (but I break up because of these problems). So I have to learn to perceive good guys and my problems would be solved.
And I also solve and care about my inner world (not only guy inner world).
Is English not your first language? It’s a bit hard to read your comment.
@@erko78 yes, not first language..
You just have low af standards
Great info, helpful for those interested in dating. This information has helped me understand where i stand, for me, taking the time to "create" chaos, uncertainty, and other things you mentioned just sounds like i have to break away from my personality and also interfere with my mental health and peace by creating "drama" with another human.
There is a lot of good advice here, but it just needs a little bit of extra refining. You don’t want to be problematic as such. Problematic implies toxic masculine traits. You can share the blanket with her or get another one for her lol big whoop. Nor do you have to treat her like shit and put her down. You also shouldn’t pursue a girl who wants someone that treats her badly because that’s just insecurity and sad as f.
Rather what you want to do is embody healthy masculine traits and set up your life in a way where you are genuinely happy and fulfilled within yourself without needing her and Without getting lonely.
This means heal your inner child wounds. Inner child wounds BLOCK your ability to man up naturally so it’s important you do your inner work.
A man who is in touch with his true self will naturally embody healthy masculine energy without even trying - and the right girls (girls on his wavelength) will be drawn into his life as a byproduct.
Healthy masculine traits alone should be all you’d ever need to attract the girls you want in your life. Period. If you’re not getting girls in your life it means you likely have internal blockages that prevent you from being your true authentic self.
Heal the boy and the man will appear.
Best of Luck.
except there are no girls like this any more, they are all broken
Casey:
I don’t like this video.
I f*cking LOVE it bro !!
This tutorial explains so many past relationships I had end and I never knew why.
Thank you sir.
1:38 'The problems need to start right away' haha :):)
True ive had a few girlfriend s that left me for high drama guys with unstable situations..like separated guys goin through a divorce..crazy but true...a stable responsible single guy gets friend zoned ? I found this upsetting but but have witnessed this a number of times
I've been missing for 3 months…
I've just posted my first video with an explanation.
Thank you for supporting my journey.
We got this men.
🤜🤛
Real shit... keep it up.
Thanks Zander. Tips have been eye opening, some of it hard to swallow. But it's legit.
thats narcicism in my book, trying to thrive upon someone being toxic, demanding and making fuzz after fuzz, but not getting responsible of their own shitty life.
sorry no ofense to no one intended
Only works after you develop a bond. It can be done on the first meeting but you have to be a pro
This is good content. You are saying very simple things over and over. Maybe this is the best way to learn unintuitive laws.
Casey you’re the “Truth”.
This the best dude on RUclips for real advice
Casey Zander is like the white Patrice O'Neal. Fawk yeah!
🤘🤓🤘
😂😂😂😂😂 this dude is on point, welcome to the modern alpha family brother.
Thx Casey, you are so on point… keep it coming
If you feel like this is unfair or sucks and you want to give up, don't, keep learning!! You can beat this game easily one day
I'm such a problematic, cold-hearted man. Women even tell me this. It doesn't turn them on one bit. They all prefer the warm-hearted docile men who will be their simp servants.
Bro you been on point
I need to raise the blood pressure not against her but against my opponents because the blood pressure I will raise against her will not be very healthy
Oh boy.... 3years ago I went through most of famous YT videos about relationships but did not hear the things U say 👍👍👍👍
5:04 after 6 years, I tried to strengthen the relationship... Tried to fix all of the problems and the better everything got, she left.... Well atleast I proved that I'm better at fixing shit than what she was
Banger
I completely agree with you. Most of them require a dose of drama. There are just a few exceptions. An emotionally secure woman who understands her attachment style and is capable of reprogramming her natural emotional patterns from her subconscious would not subscribe to such a theory. Only 10% of them exist, and I refer to them as "high value women" or "rare pearls".
You are doing a good job Casey
Can you explain more?
Good stuff Casey, as always.
I would rather just play my guitar. When you have been with hundreds you start to see repetition. They are all the same, and none of them are worth it.
Enjoy gay sex
Thanks bro.. This applies I guess to people who are married too. I divorced once because of wife cheating because i guess I was so boring. I was actually perfect and philosophical.
True, it shows my internal lack of value too, women's are not like that without a reason, it is even understandable why are they looking for provider and external protector
Dude, I don’t know how you learned all this, but holy shit! Crazy insight!
Much of what he says is accurate….if your dealing with high school girls
Woew i just shiited myself, amayzing content boii, it took some time to admit being gay, you got it brother
When you see all these Casey videos, the blackboard, the tecniques, how women operate, etc etc... At the end theres only one question left : Is this shit worth more than a PS5?
Lol, Im starting to think it isnt
If it doesn't challenge you, it doesn't change you.
Applicable to all modern women 😅
Just hit the like button, this is my comment and i just subscribed. Thank you for this knowledge transfer.
The worst mistake you can make is trying to be fair with a woman. That's actually worse than being nice to her, and being nice to her is very bad itself.