When you realise we live in a fallen world, we are all susceptible to pain, misunderstanding and wrong view. Hurt people hurt, we can take the right view and take on a more compassionate perspective. Also accepting that it’s a test of faith we can step back and change our view on how to approach that moment. It helps me so much with this perspective. Thank you for sharing video here’s my experience
I love the advise. I try to understand people's suffering and why they act the way they do. But everyone has problems. I choose not to take it out on others....I think this is why at hurts the most when thry take it out on U. I i try my best to NEVER hurt someone because of my own baggage..I do not want to take it to work or my family..That is why it so hard to put up with someone else's own behavior...I do not even like to label people toxic. I will take thisbgreat advise and meditate on it.
Thank you Buddha for this message. I hope it helps everybody around the world who are toxic and are hanging around with groups filled with toxicity👍👍🙏🙏💙💙❤️❤️😇😇
Yes i have a bunch of toxic people who who ruined my life supposed to be my own family.They are so happy for what they have done to me. They rejoiced to see me unhappy.
His best advice is to cut toxic people out of your life. You can`t change others. If you can`t cut them out, then just be " business like" with them and don`t be " personal". It wont be perfect, but it gives you a framework to handle toxic individuals. Also always be polite to all people, without beeing a " doormat/mr nice". You are not peoples servant, and neither are they yours. Handle all people and your self with respect. Most people included our self are at some level narcissistic/obsessed with our self. The difference of a toxic person and a healthy person, is that the toxic person abuse,neglect,harm others while the healthy person is mostly content with his/her own state of mind. And can handle the fact that the world is " transient" and that pain/suffering/unpleasant feelings is a natural part of life.
Thank you for reminding me of this beautiful practice. I found this worked for me when accused in public of doing something I had not done. So, May I add, start practicing loving kindness now and it will help you in future.
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"When you fully understand, you are liberated."😊
Wonderful mantra: "My mind will not be affected."👍
When you realise we live in a fallen world, we are all susceptible to pain, misunderstanding and wrong view. Hurt people hurt, we can take the right view and take on a more compassionate perspective. Also accepting that it’s a test of faith we can step back and change our view on how to approach that moment. It helps me so much with this perspective. Thank you for sharing video here’s my experience
I love the "broken radio" example. So simple and yet so profound.
So important, so wise. Especially when he reminds us to ask ourselves if we have ever been toxic people. Something to contemplate.
"When you fully understand, you are liberated"- Simply beautiful.🙏
I love the advise. I try to understand people's suffering and why they act the way they do. But everyone has problems. I choose not to take it out on others....I think this is why at hurts the most when thry take it out on U. I i try my best to NEVER hurt someone because of my own baggage..I do not want to take it to work or my family..That is why it so hard to put up with someone else's own behavior...I do not even like to label people toxic. I will take thisbgreat advise and meditate on it.
Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu🙏🙏🙏
First of all, I would like to pay my respect to you.
wise words he said we can't fight anger w anger amazing if I only knew it would it save me from so many bad situations wise reaching ty greetings
Thank you 🙏
Great wisdom from a kind monk with such a kind and soft voice . He teaches the Buddha’s instructions well sadhu sadhu sadhu
Greetings from a vazrayana monk from Nepal
Thank you Buddha for this message. I hope it helps everybody around the world who are toxic and are hanging around with groups filled with toxicity👍👍🙏🙏💙💙❤️❤️😇😇
Have more kindness and compassion cause they are suffering) if you have kindness and softness calmness you can desarm any toxique person.) GUARANTEED
Ignore them let them be and take in charge your own happiness !
Namo buddhaya 🌸
Wow! Very practical. Thanks so much. This is very helpful especially for dealing with toxic parents.
Bhuddam saranam gachami
My mother is so Toxique I am all right now.. But it took time to detach from her toxicity it just dont touch me any more..
Yes i have a bunch of toxic people who who ruined my life supposed to be my own family.They are so happy for what they have done to me.
They rejoiced to see me unhappy.
Namobudhaya 🙏🙏❤️🙏
Sathu Sathu Sathu 🙏🙏🙏
Great video, thank you
Causes and Condition ❤️🙏❤️🧘🏻♀️❤️ right understanding
His best advice is to cut toxic people out of your life. You can`t change others. If you can`t cut them out, then just be " business like" with them and don`t be " personal". It wont be perfect, but it gives you a framework to handle toxic individuals. Also always be polite to all people, without beeing a " doormat/mr nice". You are not peoples servant, and neither are they yours. Handle all people and your self with respect.
Most people included our self are at some level narcissistic/obsessed with our self. The difference of a toxic person and a healthy person, is that the toxic person abuse,neglect,harm others while the healthy person is mostly content with his/her own state of mind. And can handle the fact that the world is " transient" and that pain/suffering/unpleasant feelings is a natural part of life.
Thankyou sending love to all
Great Dhamma. sadhus 🙏🙏🙏
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Unhappy people 🧘🏻♀️
Yes, karma is something that we don’t understand. We are going to have to deal with them now or it keeps going in cycles.
Sathu Sathu Sathu
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Thank U, infinite intelligence. ♾
Lower the expectation.
Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu
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Thank you for reminding me of this beautiful practice. I found this worked for me when accused in public of doing something I had not done.
So, May I add, start practicing loving kindness now and it will help you in future.
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This was helpful. How do we practice being more calm when someone is jumping down your throat?
Pity them. Their suffering is real to them. Help if you can, accept when you can’t. Then distance yourself.
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I would rather criticise and discuss the human faults of others than examine and admit and eliminate my own.
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Thank you
Be apart of a positive encouragement movement going on world wide ...... Encouraging Life Success Day......... October 3rd Encouraging Life Success Day is a day where we all wear green, which represents GOING for our goals and dreams while encouraging others to GO after their dreams as well. October 3rd, Encouraging Life Success Day, wear GREEN 😊😊😊
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A confirmation regarding a recent reflection: Look at them- the toxic person- through the lens of compassion.
Wow the content is really helpful. It make me feel calm and warm. I'll definitely practice it in my daily life.
Thanks
Nie wiem jak sobie radzić z toksycznymi ludźmi. Spotykam ich codzienne. Nie szanują mojej wolności i tego że mam prawo samemu decydować o tym z kim się będę zadawał. Próbują narzucić mi kogoś i strasznie cierpię z tego powodu
Rev. Thero.....
Kind enough to say How to meditate on or with scrupulous....... without using the
Mobile. Instead how to practice The Scrupulousim........... thought you would help me......🙏
Zen
All are suffering, some just more acutely than others.
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Disengage ,go!
My neighbour is very toxic people
What about our hurt?
My younger sister and brother in law is very toxic people
My neighbour is indonesian they like to used black magic means in malay language bomoh
You never live in reality , if you do , you will know , loving kindness doesnt solve the problems . You need to have power to overcome them .
തൻ്റെ മൊൈൽഫോണിൽ നിന്നും
അനാവശ്യം ആയ സകല നമ്പരുകളും എന്നന്നേക്കുമായി
എടുത്തു കളയുക.
Toxic people should go from everyone life
Correct I am toxic people don't come again ok
Do not go into their world!
You talk too fast..
Thank you 😊
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