This is the BEST message praising femininity (aside from learning from Shera7, Chrissie's femininity videos and Chloe). Thank you for sharing your beautiful experience to enjoy femininity! I've given you a thumbs up and subscribed to your channel xx Edit: I had to learn the art of femininity from scratch recently. I was raised in a way where being feminine was perceived as something dirty, slutty or shameful. Little did I know, that a few women in my family were just jealous and attention-starved 🙄
Thank you so much. Your kind words means a lot to me💕 I totally understand what you mean about being raised to think femininity was what it's not. Thank God for technology, at least now it's easy for us to re educate ourselves. Peace sister 💕💋
I was more feminine before moving to NYC. Then I adopted a harder face. Also my ex said I was too flirty. He said I batted my eyes at the waiter. Bad relationships make you miserable and drain our energy. I been wearing pink allot since noticing that people even women stare at me in pink. I get compliments often however me in pink makes people smile. I been so into pink. I have pink sweaters. I always liked gold and yellow. They actually go well with pink in the right shade.
Your so right, it has absolutely change my life as well. When you carry yourself a certain way, people notice. Now when I go out I get a lot of stares and for a while I thought why are these people looking at me, is there something wrong but I think that just comes with stepping into your femininity and it flowing from the inside out!
I'm still trying to get over being extremely uncomfortable with being stared at lol. Wish people could be more subtle or even flirty instead of just looking at you dead in the face without blinking for 30 seconds.
Che Henderson they can’t believe they’re seeing a feminine black woman, they think you’re a unicorn🦄 I experience that type of response too sometimes, it baffles me.
I grew up with a masculine mother who encouraged me not to be feminine and it's only now that I'm starting to understand my femininity and embrace it. I find that our culture doesn't encourage women to be feminine because it's looked down on and seen as silly, masculine traits are praised which is a by-product of modern feminism, so it's nice that there are women out there leading the movement for women to act like women instead of second-rate men. Femininity used to be praised highly and it's our modern society that doesn't value it. I'm still on my journey towards being feminine so hopefully one day I will be complimented at the shops too!
I leveled up too thanks to shera, but femininity was the game changer ( thanks too Nicole inner beauty movement) . I closed my boutique, now a stay at home mom. I just look beautiful and serve sugar, be sweet to everyone AND IT JUST FLOWS TOO ME. 💍🍓💕😍🦄🍀💐👘🏆🥇
I've always been feminine but started acting more masculine when I had to work more hours. I wasn't meeting quality men. Just 50/50 guys. Very annoying! Now I've cut back on my working and stress.
The comment about how much power you have just being feminine brought joy to my heart. Being 65 years old it is wonderful to see young women such as yourself being positive role models for our girls.
Im just so proud of this femininity movement thats happening right now especially for women of colour. Its just so exciting and i feel a real sense of community.
I’ve always been feminine but I need more inner work because I’ve been down on myself and need to kick all of my negative self talk💕💕💕 Thanks for sharing Queen
Bre I know exactly how you feel I hav been battling the same thing. Meditation has worked for me, and when the negative thoughts come up I replace them with positive it hard but it helps. I started telling myself things I would tell someone that I love dearly.
I knew I had to work on femininity because I started noticing the masculine behavior that I was developing. I have not started physically demonstrating much but I am noticing how I have to pause and assess my thinking, the people around me and it also explains why I was not able to bond with the ‘herd’. My thinking in the past was on point but through experiencing different things and people, I’ve warped into some dude. LOL I am a work in progress.
I'm going to see what I can learn. Honestly though I think I was feminine but I'm in a position in my life where I dont want to attract attention so I have been wearing pants & jackets all year. Dressing down & not being put together has worked wonders bc I am tired of telling men no. They don't take no for an answer, I have to hear their rebuttals, comments then repeat myself 3x to strangers I wasn't even talking to. Nowadays I am so glad for looking plain bc every time a stranger dude comes up u have got to smile, and be kind when what I really want to say is, 'I've given you an answer there's no need for me to repeat myself because you're not interested in the answer let's just change the subject." Since guys don't want to listen being plain has been a haven for me. Hwr I'm open to brushing up on any skills in the time that I want to get back in the game
Jennifer Hill Hmmm interesting I have also been doing that. After getting out of a 14 year relationship I just didn’t want to be bothered so I dressed down also. I needed time to heal but it’s been two years and I’m ready to get back in the game so these videos have been very helpful
It’s changed my life as well! I’ve always been feminine in a way but not as much dealing with men! So that’s been the best transformation I’ve seen is how men respond differently to me being in my 100% in my feminine energy 🙌🏾
I have a very feminine mother and often saw it as a weakness, I’ve dabbled in a out out my own femininity over the years and find when I let it flow good things happen to me. Now we are in quarantine I am adding rebalancing my feminine energy as part of my glow up. Good luck on your journey x
Love 💕 that hair. I started listening to shera this summer and I started looking and acting more feminine, your 💯 right men and women are kinder to you I still have a ways to go.💕💅🏿
I guess I must be really feminine even when I'm not being feminine or pretty. Men and women compliment me all the time and men have always offered to hold my bags.
Thanks for sharing lady.. love your honesty. I have been on the journey of becoming my greater version and taking back my power. But girl, I just learned that it's another power of being feminine. Thank you! we are sure taking back our real heritage of being an intention lady. I'm from West Africa-Liberia. This is sure my next self project starting Now.
Omgg love this video with examples,its like easier to understand how should u act in feminen energy,im so masculine in my behaviour,its so hard to flip in feminen...so Pink color do magic,what about red? Wonder why is that,since every color is beautiful in its own way..
Adela I seriously can’t believe this is 3 bundles ,child I’m still shoooookkkk‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️ girl I’m gonna place an order a freaking sap . How long can the hair last with good care . And is the hair processed in any way ? Steam etc . Some of the vendors will literally send the hair to the owner straight from the donors head and then the owner of the brand will wash and then send it off . Is it the same for you , do they send the hair in its absolute natural form or do they like straighten it etc
If you're really good at looking after your hair, the hair can last a quarter to a lifetime, no jokes. The hair isn't processed, its pure raw hair. I myself I'm the vendor babe. There's a whole story/video/pictures in the about us and about me section of the website www.dellahshair.com
Ooh, weird, when I play this video on headphone (right side), I will just hear some piano music. When I unplug them, I can hear you talking and none of the music comes through.. That's weird!
It's very hard to be smiley all the time! When I do smile I attract unwanted attention. It's either from very old men like well over 60 or young men under 25.
Girl them men over 60 wine and dine! I had one who was 72😂 He took me out and took me shopping. I actually enjoyed his company until he started flirting with women in front of me. Then had the nerve to tell me I better give up the "sweet pocket" or I can hit the road. I hit the road lol
Hi Hina, its things like smiling more, wearing very girly cloths (no jeans and trainers), making sure your hair, skin and nails are on point ALL the time, basic etiquettes, being soft spoken, walking in a more girly way, asking men for help etc this video has a bit more - ruclips.net/video/EFnmSTgd4r0/видео.html
I see people saying they are feminist but they end up looking masculine. The subtlety and softness of REAL feminism is much much more powerful than masculine women intimidating everyone around.
Hey Queens, I'd love to know if you are naturally feminine or if you've had to learn how to be feminine?
I need to learn
Join me on this journey sis, I'm learning too 💕
On a feminine journey now
Naturally but I'm actually trying to tap A LITTLE into my masculine so I'll stop coming off as a doormat 😩😂
I had to learn, now it’s natural. I love it! It’s everything a girl wants to be! & what we naturally are! 💜
Femininity is also within not just outside looks .. It's energy. It's about being in the present, being in your body and enjoying life !
Yes sis, you're very right 💕
Yes!!
This is the BEST message praising femininity (aside from learning from Shera7, Chrissie's femininity videos and Chloe). Thank you for sharing your beautiful experience to enjoy femininity! I've given you a thumbs up and subscribed to your channel xx
Edit: I had to learn the art of femininity from scratch recently. I was raised in a way where being feminine was perceived as something dirty, slutty or shameful. Little did I know, that a few women in my family were just jealous and attention-starved 🙄
Thank you so much. Your kind words means a lot to me💕 I totally understand what you mean about being raised to think femininity was what it's not. Thank God for technology, at least now it's easy for us to re educate ourselves. Peace sister 💕💋
You should also check out Dr. Michelle!
Another YTer is " Miss feminine " and aisha c
I was more feminine before moving to NYC. Then I adopted a harder face. Also my ex said I was too flirty. He said I batted my eyes at the waiter.
Bad relationships make you miserable and drain our energy. I been wearing pink allot since noticing that people even women stare at me in pink. I get compliments often however me in pink makes people smile. I been so into pink. I have pink sweaters. I always liked gold and yellow. They actually go well with pink in the right shade.
We've started the pink movement and I'm here for it!! @
Karenmarie Pomba Gira Very appropriate name, I like. 😉 (Also in NYC so I know your pain!)
NYC is terrible I moved from there years ago the men are weak and soft women there are very hard I can not be around that type of energy
I love pink too! It's my favorite color! ☺💖
idk why but listening to british voices is just so soothing and makes me want to sit around and sip tea.
We are sipping tea my dear 💐😂😂
Your so right, it has absolutely change my life as well. When you carry yourself a certain way, people notice. Now when I go out I get a lot of stares and for a while I thought why are these people looking at me, is there something wrong but I think that just comes with stepping into your femininity and it flowing from the inside out!
Very rightly said Marche. Same experience as me 💕
Marche Roz yes honeyyy
I'm still trying to get over being extremely uncomfortable with being stared at lol. Wish people could be more subtle or even flirty instead of just looking at you dead in the face without blinking for 30 seconds.
Che Henderson they can’t believe they’re seeing a feminine black woman, they think you’re a unicorn🦄 I experience that type of response too sometimes, it baffles me.
they are not use to it and when they see you in person it's like wow in a good way
I grew up with a masculine mother who encouraged me not to be feminine and it's only now that I'm starting to understand my femininity and embrace it. I find that our culture doesn't encourage women to be feminine because it's looked down on and seen as silly, masculine traits are praised which is a by-product of modern feminism, so it's nice that there are women out there leading the movement for women to act like women instead of second-rate men. Femininity used to be praised highly and it's our modern society that doesn't value it. I'm still on my journey towards being feminine so hopefully one day I will be complimented at the shops too!
My mother is the same way.
I leveled up too thanks to shera, but femininity was the game changer ( thanks too Nicole inner beauty movement) . I closed my boutique, now a stay at home mom. I just look beautiful and serve sugar, be sweet to everyone AND IT JUST FLOWS TOO ME. 💍🍓💕😍🦄🍀💐👘🏆🥇
So happy for you darling 💕
Stephanie TV yes Nicole Michele love her! And sheera
I started watching shera but idk. Something was throwing me off.
I love innerbeautyTV, Chloe_, and Chrissie!!
😁💕
Ann Betsa something was throwing me off with Shera too. I enjoy those same channels too!
I've always been feminine but started acting more masculine when I had to work more hours. I wasn't meeting quality men. Just 50/50 guys. Very annoying! Now I've cut back on my working and stress.
how have things been going?
@@honeydew5963 things are going alot better! I got a more feminine job(receptionist) and I accept more dates(I used to turn guys down alot!).
The comment about how much power you have just being feminine brought joy to my heart. Being 65 years old it is wonderful to see young women such as yourself being positive role models for our girls.
Its so beautiful to see black women like this!. We need to keeo this up
Agreed Tandis! I even started my own channel dedicated to the black women's level up journey! So happy to see all of this happening.
She speaks all truth femininity power is my greatest discovery in the past 5 years.
It is indeed Alana 💕
Yes! I remember the day I discovered femininity. It's wonderful and I was even inspired to start my own channel. 💕
I had to learn how not to get so irritable with people. Lol by me doing that ive been able to let things go instead of letting other people upset me.
Im just so proud of this femininity movement thats happening right now especially for women of colour. Its just so exciting and i feel a real sense of community.
I’ve always been feminine but I need more inner work because I’ve been down on myself and need to kick all of my negative self talk💕💕💕 Thanks for sharing Queen
Bre I know exactly how you feel I hav been battling the same thing. Meditation has worked for me, and when the negative thoughts come up I replace them with positive it hard but it helps. I started telling myself things I would tell someone that I love dearly.
Insecure Sally Thank You so much 😊 💕💕💕we will conquer this. Meditation has helped me on so many levels as well.
You’re so right. I noticed a change in how people related to me when I changed how I spoke and carried myself. Thank you so much for the video❤️
Afia Papabi same! I’ve learned so much from this channel and the Femininity & Finance channel
Put together but not feminine: Cardi B.
She's a Pick Me chick. Makes her own money but spends on her man while he continues to cheat
Starr Johnson definitely a pick me and it’s sad all the young girls that look up to her.
Sylvia Mcwhite Who’s someone who’s not put together but not feminine ?
Cardi embodies feminine and masculine energy and rich women poor women all get cheated on it’s in a mans nature
@@kaitlynmadison. Khloe Kardashian. The way she yelled at Jordyn on National TV was classless. I understand her anger but on Tv 🤨
I knew I had to work on femininity because I started noticing the masculine behavior that I was developing. I have not started physically demonstrating much but I am noticing how I have to pause and assess my thinking, the people around me and it also explains why I was not able to bond with the ‘herd’. My thinking in the past was on point but through experiencing different things and people, I’ve warped into some dude. LOL
I am a work in progress.
Yes thank you so much for this. Black woman femininity is extremely important.
I'm going to see what I can learn. Honestly though I think I was feminine but I'm in a position in my life where I dont want to attract attention so I have been wearing pants & jackets all year. Dressing down & not being put together has worked wonders bc I am tired of telling men no. They don't take no for an answer, I have to hear their rebuttals, comments then repeat myself 3x to strangers I wasn't even talking to. Nowadays I am so glad for looking plain bc every time a stranger dude comes up u have got to smile, and be kind when what I really want to say is, 'I've given you an answer there's no need for me to repeat myself because you're not interested in the answer let's just change the subject." Since guys don't want to listen being plain has been a haven for me. Hwr I'm open to brushing up on any skills in the time that I want to get back in the game
Jennifer Hill Hmmm interesting I have also been doing that. After getting out of a 14 year relationship I just didn’t want to be bothered so I dressed down also. I needed time to heal but it’s been two years and I’m ready to get back in the game so these videos have been very helpful
It’s changed my life as well! I’ve always been feminine in a way but not as much dealing with men! So that’s been the best transformation I’ve seen is how men respond differently to me being in my 100% in my feminine energy 🙌🏾
Feminine energy is MAJOR KEY! I was even inspired to start my own channel! 💕
I have a very feminine mother and often saw it as a weakness, I’ve dabbled in a out out my own femininity over the years and find when I let it flow good things happen to me. Now we are in quarantine I am adding rebalancing my feminine energy as part of my glow up.
Good luck on your journey x
Fit, feminine and friendly is all us men want
Yes I had that happen to me the person left the store and came back to give me the compliment
femininity is so powerful.....great video
It is indeed. Thank you hun 💕
Love 💕 that hair. I started listening to shera this summer and I started looking and acting more feminine, your 💯 right men and women are kinder to you I still have a ways to go.💕💅🏿
Yes!! We love to see it. I was inspired to start my own channel on femininity as well💕
I guess I must be really feminine even when I'm not being feminine or pretty. Men and women compliment me all the time and men have always offered to hold my bags.
Me too! But the question remains is she attracting "quality" guys that she would actually date tho? I haven't heard any of those happy endings yet.
That's awesome! So exciting to see other black women embracing femininity 💕 I just started my own channel on this topic as well!
I love Sherah!! She definitely changed my thinking!
Yeah im not smiling at strangers... thats not even safe im not about to get followed home because of practicing femininity..
Monique J 😂😬😬🤣 true
Monique J lmfao, i’m crackin up right now 😭😭😂😂😂
Monique J 💀😂😂 it’s sad how it’s that way in this world, but I get where you’re coming from.
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
she is speaking truth... it's amazing!
Thank you 💕
Shera is the GOAT REALLY
Love this video...this is much needed for today time..Blessing on Feminnity Power
Well said my love. Femininity also changed my life.
Thanks for sharing lady.. love your honesty. I have been on the journey of becoming my greater version and taking back my power. But girl, I just learned that it's another power of being feminine. Thank you! we are sure taking back our real heritage of being an intention lady. I'm from West Africa-Liberia. This is sure my next self project starting Now.
I Just found your channel and I am in love with your content!thank you so much for sharing with us your videos ❤
The grocery bags..is the one I struggle with😂😂 people here steal grocery
Yessss ladies.
So true, Thanks for sharing💙
Femininity is powerful! 💕 I started my own femininity channel as well to help others.
Hey girl you look amazing! I will take some of your tips. Thank you for sharing.
I loved watching this video. and it has made me strongly consider practicing femininity. thanks b 💕
YAAAAAAAAS serve me curls
Awesome video, lots of love from india :)
Thank you boo💓
Omgg love this video with examples,its like easier to understand how should u act in feminen energy,im so masculine in my behaviour,its so hard to flip in feminen...so Pink color do magic,what about red? Wonder why is that,since every color is beautiful in its own way..
YOUR 👏 HAIR 👏 IS 👏 AMAZING
So happy for you 💕 stay beautiful, stay classy and check out this RUclipsr by the name of Chloe_ 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 that’s all i have to say, amazing
Thank you so much hun💕
Chloe is awesome. She never shows her face and she still exudes femininity from her voice. Femininity is very powerful.
Omg the hairrrrr, how many bundles and what lengths are you wearing ,sis you need to add these details in the intro, this is some thick hair 🥰🥰🥰
Aww thank you so much, I will start introducing the hair 😬Its 3 bundles of 28 inches Cambodian wavy with same length 5x5 closure 💕
Adela looks more like 4 bundles , i like the natural texture of the hair . Sis gonna buy some hair
Yeah the hair is super double drawn so very full from roots to tips...the link is in the description hun 💕
Adela I seriously can’t believe this is 3 bundles ,child I’m still shoooookkkk‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️ girl I’m gonna place an order a freaking sap . How long can the hair last with good care . And is the hair processed in any way ? Steam etc . Some of the vendors will literally send the hair to the owner straight from the donors head and then the owner of the brand will wash and then send it off . Is it the same for you , do they send the hair in its absolute natural form or do they like straighten it etc
If you're really good at looking after your hair, the hair can last a quarter to a lifetime, no jokes. The hair isn't processed, its pure raw hair. I myself I'm the vendor babe. There's a whole story/video/pictures in the about us and about me section of the website www.dellahshair.com
Ooh, weird, when I play this video on headphone (right side), I will just hear some piano music. When I unplug them, I can hear you talking and none of the music comes through.. That's weird!
hmm thats weird lol
I can hear it too, it's so creepy 😂
I’m definitely going to but all your tips to work this year 🌸
It's very hard to be smiley all the time! When I do smile I attract unwanted attention. It's either from very old men like well over 60 or young men under 25.
Girl them men over 60 wine and dine! I had one who was 72😂 He took me out and took me shopping. I actually enjoyed his company until he started flirting with women in front of me. Then had the nerve to tell me I better give up the "sweet pocket" or I can hit the road. I hit the road lol
@@starrjohnson1327 😂😂😂
Smile when it’s needed but don’t frown always
Can you summarise how to be intentionally feminine..so i cn understand better
Hi Hina, its things like smiling more, wearing very girly cloths (no jeans and trainers), making sure your hair, skin and nails are on point ALL the time, basic etiquettes, being soft spoken, walking in a more girly way, asking men for help etc this video has a bit more - ruclips.net/video/EFnmSTgd4r0/видео.html
I see people saying they are feminist but they end up looking masculine. The subtlety and softness of REAL feminism is much much more powerful than masculine women intimidating everyone around.
Thaís Amaral Really? Have you experience this yourself?
@@danielleatangana6071 yes
Hina B. The Femininity & Finance channel goes in DETAIL on how to do this and Chrissie too for dark skin women!
Yep I watch her too!
Hello fellow Londoner ❤️
I always thought we were feminine because we were girls. I guess I just didn’t understand that there was more to it.
Her: Don't look at my hair
Me: It's everywhere, it got in my mouth
Hey love, do you think you found out too late or do you think you’re right on track?
Nice, Thanks
Hallow Dear, how many inches hair you had on now..looks very nice,
Love this video
Thank you Patricia💕
Your hair is beautiful!!
Thank you Zawadi 💞
This one good video 👌
Thank you so much 💕
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💕💋
I love England 😘
Love this video and will U please stock up on ur hair I got to have it!!! 😂
Thank you so much hun. This length is coming back soon💕
My mother is trying to make me a airing independent black woman but it is not in my nature at all.
What kind of hair is that
Raw Cambodian Hair
Hair.
Obviously fake hair & nails changed your life ? 🤭
Hater
I dont understand this word a woman feminine it goes together but its more than outside look hm listening to you interesting