The Gift of Adversity | Marcus Aurelius Andersen | TEDxCoMo

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  • Опубликовано: 27 ноя 2024
  • This talk discusses how we as Citizens can use the Adversity that we face every day as a way to change the world in which we all live for the better.
    While training to deploy with the United States Army Marcus suffered a serious spinal injury. During the ensuing surgery he died on the operating table twice. Subsequently he was left paralyzed from the neck down. Unsure of his future, Marcus went into a deep depression. In his darkest hour he had a personal epiphany that force him to see his injury as a learning opportunity. Through this Gift of Adversity Marcus was able overcame my paralysis and walk again. His message is that Adversity is a gift that demands our greatest efforts to rise above our current obstacles and to become better citizens and leaders.
    This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

Комментарии • 107

  • @ronaldp7573
    @ronaldp7573 7 лет назад +63

    Named after a great man and he has well earned that name.

  • @jojobrosnan1081
    @jojobrosnan1081 5 лет назад +18

    After losing three family members who died young in the last few weeks I have had to learn to deal with the loses. These videos, walking in the woods, and now facing adversity is what may pull me through. Thank you for sharing your struggles with us it helps others who are suffering live another day and learn to be grateful for what we have. I however miss my loved ones so much but I know I must go on. I hope this helps someone who suffered lose. Love and thank you again.

    • @nighthawk7667
      @nighthawk7667 4 года назад +1

      Chin up, Have a great day from one stranger to another.💪😎🇺🇸

  • @stacyrosmanhappyholistiche3467
    @stacyrosmanhappyholistiche3467 4 года назад +7

    I’ve had the same experience and I’ve had 37 major operations. Changing the mindset and living through gratitude is so empowering and freeing. It’s actually healed me completely. It seems that we both made a magical miraculous recovery. I believe in magic and dreams to come true. Tenacity, dedication, motivation, determination, inspiration and education. Ultimately can be the biggest gift of your life. I didn’t think I’d ever walk again either. I was hit by car is a pedestrian and before that I was in a horrible accident. I totally understand everything that you’re saying. So much gratitude to you peace and love always, Stacy Rosman

  • @alexsalinas32381
    @alexsalinas32381 3 года назад +2

    Man his opening statement..... brought me to tears...... what a warrior.

  • @stacyrosmanhappyholistiche3467
    @stacyrosmanhappyholistiche3467 4 года назад +3

    Put those blinders on, and go full speed forward. Tenacity, determination, motivation, inspiration and education! You are a hero! Much gratitude, Stacy

  • @arlinegeorge6967
    @arlinegeorge6967 3 года назад

    Adversity is our greatest teacher . With no choice, but it makes u stronger helps you grow. Thank you, bless you. All your dreams come true.

  • @buttimerconsulting
    @buttimerconsulting 7 лет назад +43

    You did a superb job, Marcus! Your story and the eloquent way you told it is truly inspiring. Your stage presence is solid and compelling! Well-done and thank you for the gift you gave us.

    • @marcusanderson140
      @marcusanderson140 7 лет назад +3

      Thank you for your kind words my friend! I loved your TEDx talk as well!!

  • @rajbeekie7124
    @rajbeekie7124 7 лет назад +6

    Hi Marcus, this presentation is beautiful. Thanks.
    Epictetus, Seneca, and Marcus Aurelius are my favorite stoic philosophers. Seneca's work on life is short also comes through in your presentation.
    Your presentation embodied the saying, "Feeling are an internal state. Things (adversity, etc.) and people are external. We must never let the external determine the internal."
    He is a wise man who does not wish for the things which he has not, but rejoices for those which he has. - Epictetus

    • @marcusanderson140
      @marcusanderson140 7 лет назад +2

      Thank you so much Raj. I also love the Stoic writings, especially of Seneca and Marcus Aurelius. Indeed, it was this Stoic mindset that helped me focus on what I could control while working with as much intensity as I could muster to recover. My book and TEDx talk very much about Modern Stoicism.

  • @fineshimaambo847
    @fineshimaambo847 6 лет назад +4

    Flashback to 171 AD. Literally came here because of the name and I didn't regret a second of it.

  • @valerymkabeta3242
    @valerymkabeta3242 7 лет назад +1

    I can relate to Marcus. And I have found that my defiance have been my redemption in the chances and opportunities I was given... I cannot thank you enough for what it cost for you to not give up!

    • @marcusanderson140
      @marcusanderson140 7 лет назад +1

      Thank you for you kind words 🙏🏻 I’m so glad that you found strength by defying the very thing trying to hold you back! Keep defying and improving!!

  • @ВенциславМаринов-з3п

    Hi Marcus! I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for sharing your story with us. It's just really incredible! Me, just like you, have read about probably more than I like to admit, cases of disabled people, or in other disadvantageous situations, just to try to be more appreciative and stronger myself but it never really worked in the long run.. I'm 21 year old, 100% healthy & fit old male hustling on my dream and I promise you... this video will have a long term change of perspective in my life. My intuition has never been screaming as loud as it is right now that something is the right thing to adopt, like the stoic philosophy. I'm aware I will probably have to read and re-read some stoic books and content in general but I will be forever grateful for hearing you today! Thanks man! Haven't experienced such a deep feeling of respect in a while, nor have I written such comments on RUclips but thought this one has to be written. Thank you again Marcus!

    • @marcusanderson140
      @marcusanderson140 7 лет назад +2

      Thank you my friend, I’m glad my TEDx Talk was able to wake you up from your slumber of mediocrity! I hope you maintain this path of excellence that I was able to inspire.
      If you like my TEDx talk, then you’ll be interred to know that my book “The Gift of Adversity” will be available on Amazon on October 31th. It tells the rest of the story that I didn’t have time to cover in my talk.
      I hope for and wish you the best my friend, keep working towards your goals and don’t quit!!

    • @ВенциславМаринов-з3п
      @ВенциславМаринов-з3п 7 лет назад +1

      I'd love to take a closer look into your thoughts, especially during your "handicapped" times and after! Keep up the good work man, highly appreciated, people are waking up to this kind of thinking thanks to people like you, I wish you influence millions of people with your message!

    • @marcusanderson140
      @marcusanderson140 7 лет назад

      Thank you, I’m glad that people are waking up to this as well!!

  • @yogurtandbananas4552
    @yogurtandbananas4552 6 лет назад +14

    Marcus your speech is like a hand pulling me out from the darkness...thank you very inspiring indeed..will be sharing this on my FB.

  • @valserrato6583
    @valserrato6583 6 лет назад +1

    Very moving and inspirational story. Thank you for taking the time to speak about it. "In the end, we are only as strong as the adversity we have overcome"- words to remember.

    • @marcusanderson140
      @marcusanderson140 6 лет назад

      Thank you so much Val! I’m honored that my words made a positive impact on you! Reactions and comments like yours are why I did my TEDx talk and wrote my book in the first place! Thank you again 🙏🏻🙌🏻

  • @Abheydeep
    @Abheydeep 3 года назад +1

    Please accept my sincere respect and gratitude.🙏🏾

  • @ShannonKnight
    @ShannonKnight 6 лет назад +1

    Marcus , I would have panicked going through what you did. I watched Jill Kinmont Boothe, a champion ski racer's journey when I was younger and her struggle to recuperate from a paralyzing fall on an icy slope skiing was such an inspiration. Your story is very empowering and gives us hope. Thank you!

    • @marcusanderson140
      @marcusanderson140 6 лет назад +1

      Shannon thank you so much for your kind words 🙏🏻 I was absolutely terrified. But without genuine fear, we can’t discover our deepest courage. I’m grateful for my Adversity because it helped me discover my strength 🙌🏻💪🏻

  • @Maccafiveone1
    @Maccafiveone1 6 лет назад +3

    Snapped me out of a very dark place , many many thanks

  • @WalterStrongIIIthehuddle
    @WalterStrongIIIthehuddle 4 года назад +2

    I keep watching this video to encourage myself that I am going to get through this period of being out work. Through the Lord help I will find another which help support my family financially.

  • @greenarm
    @greenarm 7 лет назад +1

    This is a transformational premise. Thanks for sharing. If only in the midst of adversity we can ponder....

    • @marcusanderson140
      @marcusanderson140 7 лет назад

      Thank you for your kind words and I couldn't agree more! It's an important premise needed to grow!

  • @Scottymotv8td
    @Scottymotv8td 6 лет назад +1

    Thanks for being so inspirational, we are blessed with the daily challenges that we sometimes don't see and feel

  • @vinilodigitalmediaadvertis4285
    @vinilodigitalmediaadvertis4285 2 года назад +1

    Wow! Thanks! This is almost an epifany for me, and a great lesson for my life, God Bless You!

  • @nighthawk7667
    @nighthawk7667 4 года назад +1

    You pulled thoughts out of my head and placed them online, I have food water and shelter and nothing is never good enough for me and ungrateful but I always help people that don't asked because I've always been able to feel others pain even if I didn't want to. Thanks man for your words.Glad you can stand up for us.💪😎🇺🇸

  • @Azmat1968
    @Azmat1968 5 лет назад +2

    Beautiful. To the point yet complete. Thank you for this service to fellow humans

  • @stacyrosmanhappyholistiche3467
    @stacyrosmanhappyholistiche3467 4 года назад

    Peace, love, happiness, compassion, joy, bliss,simplicity and gratitude sent to you. They save the toughest challenges for the strongest souls that can handle it and ultimately turn it into something positive. Empowered by adversity! This is who you are a real superhero! This lesson that we dealt with I hope you feel as I do has become my biggest gift because everything we have learned most people will never have This opportunity to experience the Depth, truth, freedom, limitless, unconditional self love, unconditional passion, and appreciation for every moment in life. What it really means and the simplicity of true happiness
    means. Peace, love, serenity of just being and breathing properly. Everything is just about pure unconditional love for oneself and that creates love for everything. That’s right and obstacles or opportunities. Inconveniences yes but what a gift it is to have the miraculous Magical recovery of your health. Health is all wealth and abundance! Peace and love, Stacy

  • @vinMAR3
    @vinMAR3 4 года назад +5

    "Adversity is a gift we should embrace it." Take a step forward to your adversities.

  • @NickC769
    @NickC769 4 года назад +2

    Beautiful speech delivered with mastery

  • @Everything-is-Figuroutable
    @Everything-is-Figuroutable 7 лет назад +4

    Thanks for reminding us of how blessed we are. You speak very well too ! :-) Thanks for sharing your story with us.

    • @marcusanderson140
      @marcusanderson140 7 лет назад +1

      Thank you Kim Z! Indeed we are very blessed, and the more we realize this the more blessings we see! 🙌🏻🙏🏻

  • @burnsaga
    @burnsaga 5 лет назад +5

    Thank you Marcus. Great speech. Really helps put things in perspective.

  • @chrsfavel5506
    @chrsfavel5506 6 лет назад +2

    A sincere thank you, you made an impact on my life at this moment in time in my life. Your words moved me forward a lil more. Bravo on this topic and speech.

    • @marcusanderson140
      @marcusanderson140 6 лет назад

      Thank you so much Chris, I’m honored that my words made a positive difference for you my friend! You are stronger than you even realize Chris, believe it 🙌🏻🙏🏻

  • @stormrider1375
    @stormrider1375 2 года назад

    "In Italy for thirty years under the Borgias they had warfare, terror, murder and bloodshed, but they produced Michelangelo, Leonardo da Vinci and the Renaissance. In Switzerland, they had brotherly love; they had 500 years of democracy and peace - and what did they produce? The cuckoo clock." - From the 1949 film, "The Third Man"

  • @Sacred.Wombwisdom
    @Sacred.Wombwisdom 6 лет назад +1

    Touched my heart and soul to do better each day! Thnk you 🌠💙🌠

    • @marcusanderson140
      @marcusanderson140 6 лет назад

      Thank you Tamara I’m honored to inspire 🙏🏻🙌🏻

  • @fivebigideas9553
    @fivebigideas9553 7 лет назад +15

    How awesome wouldn't it be to have the same name as an ancient Roman Emperor?
    Well, Marcus does: Marcus Aurelius, the last of the 5 good Emperors (ruling nobly between 160-181 AD) who was also a philosopher!
    If you were to change your name to (or add a name) what one of your favorite heroes/role models are called, what would it be? (I'd probably pick something like Emerson or Leonardo!)

    • @marcusanderson140
      @marcusanderson140 7 лет назад +2

      Thank you so much my friend, I love the comment!!

  • @Satsui_No_Hado
    @Satsui_No_Hado 6 лет назад +1

    ☯️ All one family - Bruce Lee. We should all live like this , we're all one family , we are all one ☯️

  • @CesarGomezPicasso
    @CesarGomezPicasso 7 лет назад +16

    Inspirational. One of the best TedTalks I've seen.

    • @marcusanderson140
      @marcusanderson140 7 лет назад +2

      Thank you so much for your kind words Cesar, I absolutely appreciate you!!

  • @marcusanderson140
    @marcusanderson140 7 лет назад +2

    Thank you Scarbs!

  • @ylmonkeyU2
    @ylmonkeyU2 6 лет назад

    Thank you.

  • @rinkysingh5452
    @rinkysingh5452 6 лет назад +1

    Absolutely great & awesome! ❤ Thank you so much for sharing your experience and story with us. 🙏

    • @marcusanderson140
      @marcusanderson140 6 лет назад

      Thank you Rinky I’m honored that my TEDx talk resonated with you! 🙌🏻🙏🏻

  • @dr.vincewong
    @dr.vincewong 4 года назад +1

    Awesome TedX talk @marcusaureliusanderson ! 🙏❤️💪🧠😌😇

  • @magdaline9627
    @magdaline9627 6 лет назад +1

    Powerful & inspiring

    • @marcusanderson140
      @marcusanderson140 6 лет назад

      Thank you! 🙏🏻 I’m glad that my TEDx talk inspires! 🙏🏻👏🏻😀

  • @victoriaguidici5574
    @victoriaguidici5574 Год назад

    I too have learned from adversity. He is very inspiring.

  • @andreaharkins6887
    @andreaharkins6887 7 лет назад +4

    Awesome and powerful. A good reminder for us all. Thank you. Nice: ""the martial art instructor who humbles you"

    • @marcusanderson140
      @marcusanderson140 7 лет назад +2

      Thank you so much that's quite the compliment coming from a martial artists of your caliber Andrea!

  • @priyanshkumar4321
    @priyanshkumar4321 6 лет назад +1

    Great, Superb speech🙏🙏🙏

  • @abhijitjadhav4418
    @abhijitjadhav4418 7 лет назад +3

    Its directly touching nto heart, Powerful message man

    • @marcusanderson140
      @marcusanderson140 7 лет назад

      Thank you so much my friend! I truly appreciate you! 🙌🏻🙏🏻

  • @adeledull
    @adeledull 7 лет назад +2

    _thank you..._

    • @marcusanderson140
      @marcusanderson140 7 лет назад

      You’re absolutely welcome, I’m glad you enjoyed the TEDx talk! 🙏🏻

  • @stacyrosmanhappyholistiche3467
    @stacyrosmanhappyholistiche3467 4 года назад +1

    Beautifully done!

  • @alineuwiragiye7704
    @alineuwiragiye7704 6 лет назад +12

    My mind is my biggest enemy.

    • @GouravSharma-jo8fc
      @GouravSharma-jo8fc 4 года назад +1

      The mind is our biggest enemy and our biggest friend.

  • @sydneywilliams3369
    @sydneywilliams3369 7 лет назад +2

    This is awesome! Thank you so much for sharing!

  • @rogerlaisiuwakk
    @rogerlaisiuwakk 5 лет назад +2

    Inspiring

  • @TWROC96
    @TWROC96 6 лет назад +1

    Powerful!

  • @ShinkaTV
    @ShinkaTV 6 лет назад +1

    Well said.

  • @rachelwilliamsglyda
    @rachelwilliamsglyda 7 лет назад +2

    Incredible story, amazing individual, and such a powerful message! Thank you for sharing your experiences to empower others!

    • @marcusanderson140
      @marcusanderson140 7 лет назад

      Thank you so much for your kind words Rachel I truly appreciate it!

  • @roshinslive
    @roshinslive 7 лет назад +2

    Wow powerful and deep

    • @marcusanderson140
      @marcusanderson140 7 лет назад

      Thank you Roshin, I’m glad you appreciateed the strength and depth of my TEDx Talk! I truly appreciate your comment!

  • @Drjenebyplasticsurgery
    @Drjenebyplasticsurgery 6 лет назад

    Great job Well timed

    • @marcusaureliusanderson5431
      @marcusaureliusanderson5431 6 лет назад

      Thank you so much Thomas, I’m glad my TEDx Talk was well timed for you my friend! 🙏🏻

  • @troyharrison7804
    @troyharrison7804 7 лет назад +2

    Loved your video. Thanks for your service!

    • @marcusanderson140
      @marcusanderson140 7 лет назад

      Thank you so much, I'm glad my talk made a positive impact!

  • @tomhunt6588
    @tomhunt6588 7 лет назад +2

    Nice man. Very real.

    • @marcusanderson140
      @marcusanderson140 7 лет назад +1

      Thank you so much, I'm glad it made a big impact on you my friend!!

  • @BrianDonato
    @BrianDonato 4 года назад

    I appreciate the content - people must take responsibility to overcome their adversity! I discuss this idea in the last video on my channel w/ a parenting twist - Though I have just 45 subscribers I hope people vibe with the message like I did w/ this video. Thanks again for the video.

  • @valerieangell7588
    @valerieangell7588 6 лет назад

    Great talk...

  • @poojapandey613
    @poojapandey613 6 лет назад

    🙏

  • @RUGGEDBREED
    @RUGGEDBREED 7 лет назад +2

    this bald man shaves his head so good, I wonder what razor did he use

  • @shesamessteam8372
    @shesamessteam8372 7 лет назад +2

    Shared on fb SoulBeautiful

  • @mynametrong5508
    @mynametrong5508 5 лет назад +1

    Dam this was good

  • @nellydahl4952
    @nellydahl4952 Год назад

    How were you able to move your arms and walk ?

  • @stephenridley1153
    @stephenridley1153 6 лет назад +2

    This approach to life might truly make America great again. Trumps Trump !!

  • @TheNanoSan
    @TheNanoSan 7 лет назад

    Great talk! :)

  • @EdizauraeRodrigo
    @EdizauraeRodrigo 6 лет назад

    Por favor alguém pode traduzir este vídeo para português?

  • @JasonGafar
    @JasonGafar 5 лет назад

    Next up: Socrates Hitchens gives a talk. ;)

  • @MekonenMeteor123
    @MekonenMeteor123 7 месяцев назад

    I’m gonna have to push back on this is toxic advice

  • @JM-fo1te
    @JM-fo1te 6 лет назад

    Rip my ears

  • @jeremiahwilkinson9452
    @jeremiahwilkinson9452 4 года назад

    done

  • @vibefrequencyable
    @vibefrequencyable 6 лет назад

    Im considering fund raising to bring a poor palastinian student to the u.s. from his abject poverty in gaza....

  • @nellydahl4952
    @nellydahl4952 Год назад

    May be your injury wasn’t complete

  • @sttran3460
    @sttran3460 4 года назад +1

    Anyone else felt a little weird when he basically said your current problems aren't valid because you haven't faced true problems? Just because there are worse problems in life doesn't just make my problems a non-problem. He basically using the "there are children starving in africa" fallacy.
    The implication is that anything short of starving children is not worthy of serious discussion. More precisely the fallacy is "arguing that expressing concern about a (relatively) small problem means that the person doesn't care about any larger problems.

  • @stormrider1375
    @stormrider1375 2 года назад

    "In Italy for thirty years under the Borgias they had warfare, terror, murder and bloodshed, but they produced Michelangelo, Leonardo da Vinci and the Renaissance. In Switzerland, they had brotherly love; they had 500 years of democracy and peace - and what did they produce? The cuckoo clock." - From the 1949 film, "The Third Man"