Shout out to the gay men who weren't afraid to call out the issues within the gay community regarding discrimination, appropriation and etc as these are real issues in our community and I feel like there aren't more opportunities on platforms to talk about it like this for fear of backlash but these issues are real. Thanks cut!!
This felt so light hearted and honest! It’s nice that it didn’t become an “us versus them” kind of thing that happens more often than not (speaking as a lesbian)
There’s nothing honest in the video all lies , women dressed like a dude denying she acting like a man . The cloth shouldn’t define the person’s gender identity. For example transgender that’s actually taught at birth .
As a straight male I really appreciated this insight into their lives. I don't personally know many gay or lesbian people so this was definitely a learning experience for me.
@@andrea-wd7jt Thanks, I was raised in a very religious house and was taught it's a 'sin' to be anything but hetero. I'm so glad I've been able to open my mind to other people's lifestyles and choices.
For me, the thing that most annoys me about straight people (or better yet, our society) is that so many unintentionally seem to reduce our identity and relationships to sex. Examples would be people saying that it's not appropriate to mention that you have a same-sex partner, immediately asking questions about sex. etc. Someone else also mentioned in the video that we want platonic relationships, and are not inherently attracted to all our friends or want to prey on them. Being a lesbian does not make me sex-crazed or make my identity inherently inappropriate, nor does any relationship I have with another woman revolve only around sex. It really hurts to be thought of that way, even if it's not always conscious choice by others to do so. (Edited to remove a line about LGBTQ+ community and the amount of sober/21+ events that are offered, as it's a more nuanced conversation and a problem with society overall)
Oh, gods, yes. This one person was like "It's literally called 'homoSEXuality' so we shouldn't teach children about this!" And I was like "May I introduce you to heteroSEXuality." But they moved the goalpost, saying it wasn't the same.
You are a lesbian, us gay men make you all look bad because thats all gay men do is think about sex. I have never met a monogamous gay male partnership ever!! Go to any gay event and u will notice it is nothing but a cruising ground for gay men.
when it comes to the everything being 21+ thing (or 18+ in most cases), I don’t think it’s fair to act like it’s the lgbtq+ community’s fault. because really, if those safe spaces existed for minors in broad daylight, I can’t imagine it would be very safe. I mean shit, there are already shootings in american gay nightclubs, imagine if the cishets had to walk past a gay cafe everyday on their way to work. the outrage!! “they’re indoctrinating our children!!” they would scream. so yeah, I can’t imagine any lgbtq+ safe space situated where anyone can get in without trouble would be a recipe for success. it’s definitely a societal flaw but the fault lies with the cishets for it yk
@@ivorynovature2339 Yes, definitely. I don't the fault lies with the LGBTQ+ community in terms of how it was created, but I do think we can sometimes perpetuate it. We don't necessarily need events targeted at minors, either, for the reasons you explained. I meant more fun activities that don't involve drinking or partying so that most of our LGBTQ+ spaces are centered around that. But like you said, it's more of a societal flaw.
im jealous of the fact straight people can like someone and they are probs straight but if not it’s kinda laughed off. it’s so hard to date in a world where most people are straight as options are way more limited and moving to a straight person can get you seriously hurt sometimes
OMFG for reaaaal. My straight friends will be like "oh you havent moved on from your ex who you were in love with? Cmon let's go to the park or something, we'll find a cute guy for you there" Like sis I love you but aint no way i'm meeting a guy at the park who happens to be single, gay and we get mutual interest. It's dating apps or social media or nothing really
@@andrewstier You're very welcome! I've loved you, your kindness and your energy since the first time I saw you in the Match House to Person video and I'm just happy that Cut decided to have you in this video. PS. I didn't know you were gay but couldn't be happier now I know that you are 😉
This was one of the most genuine Side x Side episode I've seen on this channel. I only wish you gave them more time to think about something nice to say to the other "side" as an "end credit".
People usually do when it comes to a topic that they relate to. We can relate to a lot of different groups based on our multifaceted identities (e.g. ethnicity, sexual orientation, gender, mental health, physical health, special needs, nationality, religion, etc.). Even though we might hate the beliefs that some people have, we usually can find one aspect we can come together on. It's interesting to look at sometimes.
Love the lesbian who said she came out and was supported by gay men, and the gay man who said he came out to lesbians first. Gay-lesbian solidarity let's go!!!
I would love to see this with with people who are attracted to one gender (gay, lesbian, even straight) vs people attracted to more than one gender (bi, pan, poly, omni).
@@redberryterf As someone who studied advanced biology, I can confidently say that there are not two sexes. Sex chromosomes aren’t always XX or XY, and people have variations within their reproductive systems that aren’t completely male or female. And no, they’re not always genetic deformities.
People often forget besides straight and gay. There are lot of men who are bisexual probably more than gay. And lot of those men choose to be in closet, marry and live in heterosexual life. In which they are seen completely straight. And some of these men can’t even come out to themselves that much internalised homophobic they have. And then we can’t forget toxic masculinity. Every men have some kind of toxic masculinity gay or straight doesn’t matter. Even me for example I don’t even know when last time I cried, it was very long back and that to in empty room never in front of anyone.
@@lovemyself6441 I think you’re right about closeted gay/bisexual married men. I’ve heard about them a lot. But if you think every single man has toxic masculinity, then by default every woman has toxic femininity. So that means everyone is toxic
wow our community is so like-minded it’s crazy 😭 never noticed until they put the responses side by side. (lesbian over here btw. just wanna say huge thank you to my gay guy friends who are truly the most caring and understanding people)
LOVED THIS!! Love the comradery and support going both ways! As a lesbian with a gay dad, I know firsthand how we have different lived experiences from being socialized in a heavily gendered world, but there's also so much common ground in being gay in a heteronormative society! May more of us continue to support each other and not create false hierarchies within the LGBTQIA+ communities.
I got worried for a moment with that title, because it reminds me of a certain, similar RUclips channel which always asks "Do all [social group] think the same?". They claim to be all about empathy, and yet they enable conspiracy theories, pseudoscience and trying to reach an agreement with bigots. Luckily, the people from Cut are way smarter than that, and this video proves it. These lovely folks are honest, introspective and defy assumptions. Well done!
I don't think their point is to reach agreement, it's to challenge people's thinking. How are they going to change their views without being willing to listen to different ones?
The editing was top notch!!! I would love to see the answers that got Cut. Especially for the who do you think sleeps with more straight people question. When Deonte said how are you standing I almost dropped my phone! 🤣
I'm 57, came out at 17, and shared homes, and had many fantastic lesbian friends. From experience we are mixed totally, with each side having a broad spectrum covering " femininity" to "masculinity. But the massive difference that makes our community so special is that personalitywise we have a much more broad common crossover of common character, humour, and personality, without the male/female straight sexual tension and chauvinism screwing life up.
I´m gay and I was a little scared to watch it because gay videos turn out to be often really clischee and cringe, but this one was wholesome and nice to hear people speak about problems in the gay community. We aren´t only good people, gay community is as problematic as straight people, at the end of the day we are all humans and there will always be bad people, the only difference is who we sleep with and fall in love really
i love that you ended on that positive question! so refreshing to see that we can engage in healthy criticism and still love and admire our differences within the LGBT community - i wouldn't be where i am today in my identity without the support of some beautiful gay brothers ❤️
Pretty spot on about gay men (because, well, that’s how most of us are 😅) and definitely spot on about gay slang and appropriation from Black women and the Black Queer community.
i always wonder how they do the side by side reactions. do they just pick out random moments where the person reacts and it matches what the other person says? or do they actually show them a little clip of what that other person said?
2:24 The wildest thing was I had to educate my gay Uber driver about the fact that Roe v Wade was overturned (he had no idea) and why it was important for women’s right. The issue of women’s rights were just completely non existent in his world
Ngl the thumbnail title had me nervous but this turned out to be one of the most wholesome videos on the chanel. Enough that I took the time log in and liked it.
I love this but the only thing that gets me. Is if we’re all about support and diversity, why then when straight people come up they’re less fun and "boring"
I think the concept of gay people appropriating black culture, especially black women it’s such an enigma of a conversation. Because stating that then portrays that black people aren’t part of the community. Also that gay men equates white and cis, which is wilding untrue. It comes down to the diversity of the community and the history. Black and brown women, especially trans-women are some of the founders of so much of what is queer culture. Even rupual and all of his problematic-ness is a gay queer black icon that everyone can identify with, especially his iconography. So the culture and attitude that gay men “appropriate” is subjective to what they are really doing, because the line is so vastly blurred since black culture is fundamentally apart of queer culture. The real conversation is that black and brown queer culture and art is so heavily appropriated by heteronormative black and brown cultures. The statement of saying gay men appropriate black culture kinda imposes that black queer people aren’t one of the largest contributors to ALL black culture. Which it is quite the opposite. That being said I think all white gay men need to learn the boundary of what is acceptable. The slay in our community has roots that we all are apart of. However, no white gay man has any business acting like a sassy black woman caricature. Just wanted to say this because I feel like there is a lot of conversation between gay/queer and black communities of who’s oppression is who and who is victim of what… understand that queerness is a wide connection of diversity.
This was so fun and wholesome, which i think is often a chracteristic of the queer community nowadays as a whole, i love that and it may be difficult at times but i'm so happy and accepting of who i am no thanks to this inclusive and supportive approach
As a lesbian, I can definitely say that there's sooo many lesbians that sleep with straight women 😂 So many straight women are curious, or want to be with a woman for the sake of men.
@@fUNNY-do6rb Plenty that definitely are, just want to try out something new. That you sleep with someone of the same gender, doesn't straight away make you lgbtq. Plenty of people want to try something new to spice up their sex life, but find out it's not for them.
@@CB-jv6cj that's where men and women differ i think ; men are more tightly wound in my experience they are usually VERY clear who they want to sleep with or not
sometimes. I’m not personally gay, but uh, I know many, many ‘straight’ men who absolutely do on the downlow, they just try to keep it a secret out of shame and fear of judgement. If I had to be honest? I’d say half the straight men I know probably fall into that category, tbh
Gay men definitely sleep with more "straight" people. In my expeirnce the lesbian community strongly cares that you are full lesbian and even better have never been with a man. Gold star lesbians. Im bisexual and have had a really hard dating lesbians cause they always assume I'm just dating them till I find a man or thst I'll cheat and talking with other bisexual women and even my lesbian friends it's very much the norm.
Does anyone else think that Diante would be a resounding success if he were a drag queen and performed in the drag race. It would be one of my favorite contestants.
"For those of you that dress well, thank you." Omg, as a gay guy Im giggling at what that lesbian said (if only men complimented me like that in real life!!)
The only bit of straight privilege I want is to hold hands with my partner and not get occasional stares. I don't blame people for staring, and I don't feel they have negative thoughts, but it still makes me feel meh. But I'm actually being a total hypocrite here because I also look at gay guys when they hold hands 💀
they talked about that in the past i think? basically they just film people without talking for a while and get reactions and edit them together. it's just well cut! ;)
The director said they ask people to pretend they are waiting in line. That’s how they get good expressions that usually match what the other person is talking about
![I.N "HALLUCINATION" | [Stray Kids : SKZ-PLAYER]](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/n5B5q1Hwt_U/mqdefault.jpg)
Shout out to the gay men who weren't afraid to call out the issues within the gay community regarding discrimination, appropriation and etc as these are real issues in our community and I feel like there aren't more opportunities on platforms to talk about it like this for fear of backlash but these issues are real. Thanks cut!!
They're not just issues but issues so prevalent within the community they become the culture itself
ikr?
"who is more problematic?"
lesbians: them 👀
gays: 🙋♂🙋🏾♂🙋🏾
@@cristian-bull
Men are more problematic than women regardless their sexuality, so the answer was really obvious
@@br6735 yeah, the answer was obvious, their explanations was the interesting part
gay men are still men
This felt so light hearted and honest! It’s nice that it didn’t become an “us versus them” kind of thing that happens more often than not (speaking as a lesbian)
Yeah, same
There’s nothing honest in the video all lies , women dressed like a dude denying she acting like a man . The cloth shouldn’t define the person’s gender identity. For example transgender that’s actually taught at birth .
Except for the fuck straight people part.
Not so light-hearted.
"how are you standing" GAGGED HER REAL BAD
As a straight male I really appreciated this insight into their lives. I don't personally know many gay or lesbian people so this was definitely a learning experience for me.
i’m a gay woman and it makes me so happy to see straight people try and understand us in this way so this was sweet to read :,)❤
This was so sweet to read:)
@@andrea-wd7jt Thanks, I was raised in a very religious house and was taught it's a 'sin' to be anything but hetero. I'm so glad I've been able to open my mind to other people's lifestyles and choices.
@@kyriakoskanlis228 Thank you!
This is beautiful sir. Thank you 4 being open minded
Im SO glad they said the thing about gay men and black women
The white gays get it from the black gays who get it from their mothers, sisters, cousins etc.
Me too. Of all groups, how are Black American women the ones to appropriate?
@@blessingsoutlaw I wish I knew sis. Its always us smh
@@savageunitato100 I think it’s because you guys are just simply to put fabulous. And everyone wants to be fabulous…
@@Judexxxxxjjjjj wait aww that’s sweet 🥰 ur fabulous too luv 🫶🏽
For me, the thing that most annoys me about straight people (or better yet, our society) is that so many unintentionally seem to reduce our identity and relationships to sex. Examples would be people saying that it's not appropriate to mention that you have a same-sex partner, immediately asking questions about sex. etc. Someone else also mentioned in the video that we want platonic relationships, and are not inherently attracted to all our friends or want to prey on them.
Being a lesbian does not make me sex-crazed or make my identity inherently inappropriate, nor does any relationship I have with another woman revolve only around sex. It really hurts to be thought of that way, even if it's not always conscious choice by others to do so.
(Edited to remove a line about LGBTQ+ community and the amount of sober/21+ events that are offered, as it's a more nuanced conversation and a problem with society overall)
Oh, gods, yes. This one person was like "It's literally called 'homoSEXuality' so we shouldn't teach children about this!"
And I was like "May I introduce you to heteroSEXuality." But they moved the goalpost, saying it wasn't the same.
You are a lesbian, us gay men make you all look bad because thats all gay men do is think about sex. I have never met a monogamous gay male partnership ever!! Go to any gay event and u will notice it is nothing but a cruising ground for gay men.
@@jonnyfendi2003 Speaking facts
when it comes to the everything being 21+ thing (or 18+ in most cases), I don’t think it’s fair to act like it’s the lgbtq+ community’s fault. because really, if those safe spaces existed for minors in broad daylight, I can’t imagine it would be very safe. I mean shit, there are already shootings in american gay nightclubs, imagine if the cishets had to walk past a gay cafe everyday on their way to work. the outrage!! “they’re indoctrinating our children!!” they would scream. so yeah, I can’t imagine any lgbtq+ safe space situated where anyone can get in without trouble would be a recipe for success. it’s definitely a societal flaw but the fault lies with the cishets for it yk
@@ivorynovature2339 Yes, definitely. I don't the fault lies with the LGBTQ+ community in terms of how it was created, but I do think we can sometimes perpetuate it. We don't necessarily need events targeted at minors, either, for the reasons you explained. I meant more fun activities that don't involve drinking or partying so that most of our LGBTQ+ spaces are centered around that. But like you said, it's more of a societal flaw.
im jealous of the fact straight people can like someone and they are probs straight but if not it’s kinda laughed off. it’s so hard to date in a world where most people are straight as options are way more limited and moving to a straight person can get you seriously hurt sometimes
True
Right?!
Bro this is so true the Internet made me feel like everyone was gay and when in reality like almsot everyone is Straight its so weird 😂
îts so freaking annoying i sweeaaarr
OMFG for reaaaal. My straight friends will be like "oh you havent moved on from your ex who you were in love with? Cmon let's go to the park or something, we'll find a cute guy for you there"
Like sis I love you but aint no way i'm meeting a guy at the park who happens to be single, gay and we get mutual interest. It's dating apps or social media or nothing really
I am obsessed with this video and so honored that I got to be a part of it. Thank you, Cut!
It was so fun to have you Andrew!
Thanks for coming in Andrew! 🙂
Yo Andrew, I love you man!
@@dmskbr Haha thanks!
@@andrewstier You're very welcome! I've loved you, your kindness and your energy since the first time I saw you in the Match House to Person video and I'm just happy that Cut decided to have you in this video.
PS. I didn't know you were gay but couldn't be happier now I know that you are 😉
The editor is the real MVP of this video.
This was one of the most genuine Side x Side episode I've seen on this channel.
I only wish you gave them more time to think about something nice to say to the other "side" as an "end credit".
i love seeing this solidarity! as a lesbian, it's a wonderful thing to find community in people who can understand you despite our differences
People usually do when it comes to a topic that they relate to. We can relate to a lot of different groups based on our multifaceted identities (e.g. ethnicity, sexual orientation, gender, mental health, physical health, special needs, nationality, religion, etc.). Even though we might hate the beliefs that some people have, we usually can find one aspect we can come together on. It's interesting to look at sometimes.
Love the lesbian who said she came out and was supported by gay men, and the gay man who said he came out to lesbians first. Gay-lesbian solidarity let's go!!!
❤
I would love to see this with with people who are attracted to one gender (gay, lesbian, even straight) vs people attracted to more than one gender (bi, pan, poly, omni).
There are only 2 sexes...
@@redberryterf As someone who studied advanced biology, I can confidently say that there are not two sexes. Sex chromosomes aren’t always XX or XY, and people have variations within their reproductive systems that aren’t completely male or female. And no, they’re not always genetic deformities.
The laugh I let out when the gay man said lesbians would build stuff and the lesbian said she would build stuff😂
I fucking loved this omg. Everything was so... honest? if that's the word. It felt real, true and genuine. Let's go lgbtq+ people
"How are you standing?"😭😭😭
I died hahaha that part was so funny
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I love how even the gay guys agree that they sometimes sleep with straight people 😂😂
The girl definitely had a great point too! 😂😂
Those people don't seem very straight. Seems more on the DL
i heard from a gay guy that there's a lot of gay men who are into the "converting straight ppl" kind of p0rn
People often forget besides straight and gay. There are lot of men who are bisexual probably more than gay. And lot of those men choose to be in closet, marry and live in heterosexual life. In which they are seen completely straight. And some of these men can’t even come out to themselves that much internalised homophobic they have. And then we can’t forget toxic masculinity. Every men have some kind of toxic masculinity gay or straight doesn’t matter. Even me for example I don’t even know when last time I cried, it was very long back and that to in empty room never in front of anyone.
@@lovemyself6441 I think you’re right about closeted gay/bisexual married men. I’ve heard about them a lot. But if you think every single man has toxic masculinity, then by default every woman has toxic femininity. So that means everyone is toxic
i loved this. i think it would be cool and interesting to have one of these with trans men and women
agreed
I agree
It really wouldn't be interesting in the slightest
@@isak1496 would be for trans people
@cut take note! :)
wow our community is so like-minded it’s crazy 😭 never noticed until they put the responses side by side.
(lesbian over here btw. just wanna say huge thank you to my gay guy friends who are truly the most caring and understanding people)
Remember this is through an Seattle lens (even American lens). You won't get the same responses globally, I'm sure.
@@DA-js7xz maybe that should be a video suggestion?
LOVED THIS!! Love the comradery and support going both ways! As a lesbian with a gay dad, I know firsthand how we have different lived experiences from being socialized in a heavily gendered world, but there's also so much common ground in being gay in a heteronormative society! May more of us continue to support each other and not create false hierarchies within the LGBTQIA+ communities.
Devonte (spelling?) is just too adorable. His expressions/mannerisms were so animated & fun. Love him!
I got worried for a moment with that title, because it reminds me of a certain, similar RUclips channel which always asks "Do all [social group] think the same?". They claim to be all about empathy, and yet they enable conspiracy theories, pseudoscience and trying to reach an agreement with bigots. Luckily, the people from Cut are way smarter than that, and this video proves it. These lovely folks are honest, introspective and defy assumptions. Well done!
Soooo….basically your throwing shade at jubilee 😂
@Jubilee 🤭
I don't think their point is to reach agreement, it's to challenge people's thinking. How are they going to change their views without being willing to listen to different ones?
Wait isn't jubilee associated or part of cut?
They're all such awesome people, but I always love Bella 😂🔥 Bella needs her own channel!
The editing was top notch!!! I would love to see the answers that got Cut. Especially for the who do you think sleeps with more straight people question.
When Deonte said how are you standing I almost dropped my phone! 🤣
"they will drive 3000 miles for a date" 💀💀💀 truuuuuuuuu
This was so sweet. Loved the ending. ♥️♥️
Yeah Bella looking like a boss as usual. 3:38 Thank you for acknowledging it! 👊🏽👊🏽👊🏽👊🏽✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾
Wow it was one rare moment where everyone was nice and peaceful to each other, it felt good seeing that
I stopped buttoning my top collar, because of this stereotype… lmao
I'm 57, came out at 17, and shared homes, and had many fantastic lesbian friends. From experience we are mixed totally, with each side having a broad spectrum covering " femininity" to "masculinity. But the massive difference that makes our community so special is that personalitywise we have a much more broad common crossover of common character, humour, and personality, without the male/female straight sexual tension and chauvinism screwing life up.
"for those of you who dress well, thank you"
youre welcome :) lol
I loved this! It made me sooo happy and grateful for our community ❤
I´m gay and I was a little scared to watch it because gay videos turn out to be often really clischee and cringe, but this one was wholesome and nice to hear people speak about problems in the gay community. We aren´t only good people, gay community is as problematic as straight people, at the end of the day we are all humans and there will always be bad people, the only difference is who we sleep with and fall in love really
I loved this video! It would be great to see more but with different groups like trans men and women, or bisexual men and women
They got kinsey 6 homosexuals who are hilarious!
Wait that's how I'm describing myself from now on hahaha
so if gay men are loud, take a lot of space and talk with their hands...that means they are basically Italians
It's true. We have a superpower, and our superpower is to walk fast
And 1:41 and 1:44 guys are so cuuute!!!
Also I agree, that guy at 1:44 is cute haha what's his at
Camille is so fucking pretty I’m cryin
"Cause I do that" wowww
i love that you ended on that positive question! so refreshing to see that
we can engage in healthy criticism and still love and admire our differences within the LGBT community - i wouldn't be where i am today in my identity without the support of some beautiful gay brothers ❤️
“And it can never be bad” oh gal… you lucky thing.
Pretty spot on about gay men (because, well, that’s how most of us are 😅) and definitely spot on about gay slang and appropriation from Black women and the Black Queer community.
That guy is a teacher lmao in the right 0:16
Not how are you standing lmfaooooo
Beautiful conversation, and quite enlightening. There are so many different experiences and unique opinions. Definitely learnt a lil something 👏🏼
"How are you standing" LMAOOOO
"How are you standing," SENT ME!
i always wonder how they do the side by side reactions. do they just pick out random moments where the person reacts and it matches what the other person says? or do they actually show them a little clip of what that other person said?
I'm a gay dude and before I really started dating men, queer women (especially lesbians) made me feel like I was lovable.
NOTE TO THE VIDEO EDITOR: This editing is top notch!
2:24 The wildest thing was I had to educate my gay Uber driver about the fact that Roe v Wade was overturned (he had no idea) and why it was important for women’s right. The issue of women’s rights were just completely non existent in his world
Man just explained gay sex in 3 seconds 3:10 😭
blue haired gay is cute
Ngl the thumbnail title had me nervous but this turned out to be one of the most wholesome videos on the chanel. Enough that I took the time log in and liked it.
And everyone ATE in this video ✨
This was interesting to watch, most of what they said were spot on imo from what I've seen (I'm straight).
I love this but the only thing that gets me. Is if we’re all about support and diversity, why then when straight people come up they’re less fun and "boring"
I think the concept of gay people appropriating black culture, especially black women it’s such an enigma of a conversation. Because stating that then portrays that black people aren’t part of the community. Also that gay men equates white and cis, which is wilding untrue.
It comes down to the diversity of the community and the history. Black and brown women, especially trans-women are some of the founders of so much of what is queer culture. Even rupual and all of his problematic-ness is a gay queer black icon that everyone can identify with, especially his iconography. So the culture and attitude that gay men “appropriate” is subjective to what they are really doing, because the line is so vastly blurred since black culture is fundamentally apart of queer culture.
The real conversation is that black and brown queer culture and art is so heavily appropriated by heteronormative black and brown cultures. The statement of saying gay men appropriate black culture kinda imposes that black queer people aren’t one of the largest contributors to ALL black culture. Which it is quite the opposite.
That being said I think all white gay men need to learn the boundary of what is acceptable. The slay in our community has roots that we all are apart of. However, no white gay man has any business acting like a sassy black woman caricature.
Just wanted to say this because I feel like there is a lot of conversation between gay/queer and black communities of who’s oppression is who and who is victim of what… understand that queerness is a wide connection of diversity.
This was so fun and wholesome, which i think is often a chracteristic of the queer community nowadays as a whole, i love that and it may be difficult at times but i'm so happy and accepting of who i am no thanks to this inclusive and supportive approach
that last part was so wholesome
This may be one of my favorite cut clips. I appreciate all of the individuals in this video
Great that they agree on most things
Regarding same sex topics, yes. Individually they all vary in other beliefs, just like straight folks.
@@DA-js7xz My comment wasn't assuming they wipe their ass the same way, it was commenting on the video and the questions that were asked.
I'm a gay man and most of the gay men I hang out with don't act like how they say. Maybe because my friend group is on the more masculine side.
Same, I'm gay but very straight passing
I love gay people soo god damn much
Okay, now they all need to have a chat with bisexual people.
YES!!!!
0:45 I'm genuinely in love with her💕💕💕
Deonte totally reminds me of my coworker. My coworker is so high energy and very expressive (also black and gay too). Ugh I love my boy.
girl he said "shout out to nas X"
This is such a well rounded video I love my community ❤
5:33 I love her she's so true
so glad they mentioned that most gay slang is aave because i was literally listening to them say phrases that i have heard since i was a kid
After my first BF and I broke up, the local sisters took me under their wings and made me an honorary lesbian.
Thank you sisters.
Ok, but can we talk about the fact they recorded them giving random reactions. It gives such a vibe.
As a lesbian, I can definitely say that there's sooo many lesbians that sleep with straight women 😂 So many straight women are curious, or want to be with a woman for the sake of men.
but then they are not striaght
@@fUNNY-do6rb Plenty that definitely are, just want to try out something new. That you sleep with someone of the same gender, doesn't straight away make you lgbtq. Plenty of people want to try something new to spice up their sex life, but find out it's not for them.
@@CB-jv6cj if your straight you should never want gay sex
@@CB-jv6cj that's where men and women differ i think ; men are more tightly wound in my experience they are usually VERY clear who they want to sleep with or not
sometimes. I’m not personally gay, but uh, I know many, many ‘straight’ men who absolutely do on the downlow, they just try to keep it a secret out of shame and fear of judgement. If I had to be honest? I’d say half the straight men I know probably fall into that category, tbh
god i love my community😭😭
“Gay” slang didn’t originate from RuPaul it originated by Black Queer and Trans people alot of it is Ballroom terminology ‼️‼️
Did he really say shout out to Lil Nas X… I’m Dead!
omg the person with the braids is fine af
the way cut edits
This felt wholesome 😢😊
No, not the 'w' word! 😆
I felt safe in this video 💓
i’m a lesbian and my best friend is a gay man so this will be interesting (it was, it was really wholesome)
How does that work?
@@Truth72500 They met eachother and decided to be friends???
That's perfect, since you won't be attracted to each other.
Gay men definitely sleep with more "straight" people. In my expeirnce the lesbian community strongly cares that you are full lesbian and even better have never been with a man. Gold star lesbians. Im bisexual and have had a really hard dating lesbians cause they always assume I'm just dating them till I find a man or thst I'll cheat and talking with other bisexual women and even my lesbian friends it's very much the norm.
This is an insult
also because a lot of women call themselves bi because its a trend
Can you do this with lesbians and bisexual women? I'd love to see the result!
YES THIS!
They say they were interviewed seperately, but they be reacting to each other's comments🌚
Does anyone else think that Diante would be a resounding success if he were a drag queen and performed in the drag race. It would be one of my favorite contestants.
"For those of you that dress well, thank you." Omg, as a gay guy Im giggling at what that lesbian said (if only men complimented me like that in real life!!)
Surprised to hear the dude say that the LGBT community as a whole only care about issues that personally involve them & and their peoples.
It’s true, I’m just surprised to hear it admitted.
That's pretty much every group.
If you look enough in the blue hair guy's eyes he'll look like a Sim from The Sims.
I read the comments before the video and they don't do the video justice. It's really good!
The only bit of straight privilege I want is to hold hands with my partner and not get occasional stares. I don't blame people for staring, and I don't feel they have negative thoughts, but it still makes me feel meh. But I'm actually being a total hypocrite here because I also look at gay guys when they hold hands 💀
You should do one with bi women and men
DANTE is such a vibe🔥🔥
Loved the editing here 🫶🏾
Yes me too! A lesbian woman was also instrumental in my coming out, she was the first person in college I came out to!
Jay looks like Hector Bellerin.
I'm confused are they watching a clip of the other person or are they in the same room answering questions?
Please give Diante his own show. Thank you in advance.
I have one
@@deauntedamper3274 ❤ sorry I spelled your name wrong!
The loveliest people and the most wholesome video ever on this channel!!!
omg please do lesbians and straight men
PLEASE DO A VIDEO ON HOW YOU FILM THESE HOW DO YOU GET THE REACTIONS AND EVERYTHING IN TIME WITH THE OTHER PERSON??? DO YOU FILM IT SIDE BY SIDE??
You‘re welcome ruclips.net/video/FNt9s5987AE/видео.html
they talked about that in the past i think? basically they just film people without talking for a while and get reactions and edit them together. it's just well cut! ;)
The director said they ask people to pretend they are waiting in line. That’s how they get good expressions that usually match what the other person is talking about