Ask these women, if they're so independent and these younger generations believe in equality. How many guys have they asked out on dates and paid for the date? I doubt if any have the courage to deal with constant rejection that guys have to endure, when they show interest in a woman and they're not good enough in this demanding world.
Ask what is their opinion about long distance (international) dating and if for Love they would ever consider changing country and establishing far away from Norway, or if they would never consider moving away (so basically the guy should do it). And make them pick a country where they hypothetically would like to live
I really like those ladies that talked about getting the men in their lives to connect with each other more and generally be emotionally available. That was such a positive and selfless message.
Women say that men has to be emotionally available but when men decides to open up, it's often seen as too clingy and needy and the woman decides to leave the man which leads to men closing their feelings even more. Advice for women: Sort out what you really want in a relationship and don't just name a bunch of stuff without real thought behind it. Advice for men: Try and talk about your feelings in a more open way with friends and family so it's not a barrier/hurdle when you are in a relationship.
@@ianarn That's my hypothesis as well, they want to build an inner mental model of your brain, not your knowledge, more like your 'emotional apparatus' . Then they tests you in different scenarios to see if you behave as the model predicts. If not she updates the model with the new info. The model is useful so she can predict and also influence/manipulate our behavior to her benefit.
Absolutely false. If they leave it's for another reason. Most keep to themselves and complain in pubs , bars with guys and look at other women. It cannot work.
1st rule of dealing with a woman (and some men): Don't believe in what they say. Observe what they do and their surroundings (family, friends, work, etc...)
Absolutely. Though culture in Norway seems more straight-speaking. See these chicks admitted they want a guy with a good job, 10cm taller, "height is important"; in the US they say such things don't matter.
THIS. Including what they say they want. DO NOT think your women is in anyway related to your Mother. Be unbreakable and don't listen to their "I want you to be open and emotional". They do not want that I promise!
@@ivanivan5511 I'm in the US and they say the exact same thing. Tall, and loaded with money. Its the exact same girl, different culture. Obviously fatter and more masculine, but the same values.
I’m 56 and so glad I’m single , and not worried about impressing anyone … been single for almost 10 years and loving it … no drama , no arguments, no problems , just chilling and doing my thing …
Unlike you i am young but sometimes being alone for a long time makes me depressed. Unfortunately it is very difficult to find friends in my country or I cannot make them.
I think the selection of interviewees was spot on. It demonstrated beautifly how different the expectations are and what is liked by one isn't always by others. You just have to find the people who vibe with you.
I absolutely love Astrid and Mia's outlook. They completely nailed their points and I 100% support their suggestions. They conveyed their ideas so well. Great girls!
I liked Mia, she is full of positive vibe. But she is lying about ugly funny guys I bet. Many people loved Astrid because she says she is okay with shorter guys. She is with someone but in the beginning of the video she looked at reporters lips several times, so she is not reliable.
bro they are just like the average western women, they say they want a "emotional man who likes to talk about problems" but then if they find a man like that, they consider it a weakness. its the same old song.
@@TheRickfire imo women have reached men in terms of promiscuity and horniness. Women were much much much less sexual 10 years ago. I remember hearing a very progressive man in a documentary say that women still had a lot of catching up in terms of "hornyness" and I heard that and in my mind that was impossible. Yet, the nordic liberal man in the documentary was right in the end.
Sorry i haven’t been on youtube 😅. So im in America But I’ve noticed that doing things for woman like (paying for a date) has somehow become a controversial topic. Woman are more picky and dont seek men based of values but off status and money now. Also ive seen an increase of woman not taking accountability and becoming more sexual while having no shame doing it. Men are struggling to find a good wife and its really sad to see
(A brazilian guy watching this) Astrid and Mia were sooo interesting! And so different from all the other girls. Both of them were talking about things that really matter to make a relationship work, like being communicative, being open to the other person's ideas. Almost all the other girls in the video were just talking about an image of the ideal man, that would make them get closer to an idealization of what they think they should be (that's a recipe for disaster, in my opinion). It was fun to see so much difference between Astrid and Mia and the other girls, and they weren't even the oldest ones. Besides that, I like listening to the language, nice video.
Jesus Christ wants a personal relationship with you through the Holy Spirit, not religion and blind faith. You see, we all have sinned, and have broken God’s law (The Ten Commandments). Wrong doing deserves justice and must be punished (just like how a criminal has to pay for the crime they have committed) but God saved us from the eternal punishment of our sins by sending His Son Jesus Christ, fullness of God in flesh, a perfect, sinless sacrifice to pay the penalty for our sins by dying on the cross and resurrecting, so that we may have everlasting life. It is all finished and now for you to accept the free gift of grace, you must repent of your sins and put your faith in Jesus Christ and Bible says that His Blood will cover all of your sins, you will be forgiven, saved from eternal punishment, and be given everlasting life. By faith you will receive the Holy Spirit, become born again, know Jesus personally and He will transform your heart and clean you from the inside out. Turn away from sin, read the Bible, pray for the Holy Spirit to fill you and change you, obey the Word. Much love and God bless you!
Saw something the other day: Woman want emotional intelligence in a Man. 'open, emotional, knows his own boundaries, knows how to attain, hold and chooses for his inner peace. But that is also a man that will drop any woman who disturbs his peace due to a lack of emotional intelligence in the woman.
@@ericmieremetwhen we say we want emotional intelligence in a man we just mean a man who knows how to regulate his emotions maturely--i.e. doesn't throw tantrums, punch walls, etc. we dont care for the mushy, gushy woe-is-me shit. leave that for your buddies.
A very talented interviewer, asking excellent questions and then getting out of the way and to give his subjects the space to answer. He has good follow-up also.
I know that it could be an overlooked topic, but I would like to hear about what young Norwegians read, such as novels, papers and so on. As far as I know, you guys read a lot compared to other European countries. Keep up the good work! 👍🏻
An exceedingly well-made series of interviews, where open-ended questions are quickly followed up on -- a rare combination in this genre of RUclips channels! Kudos to you and to all the interviewees! 💕
Ask the fish how to catch it 😛. They dont even know themselves unfprtunately, stuck up on height, have an attitude. Yet, sometimes I do find good women, like in this vid. 1 normal, the rest either confused and have no clue what to say or simply superficial
@@andrehansen4325 I have had 70 years of London experience and other than the times that they change their mind, overthink things, give 7 reasons to do something and 7 reasons not to,are not sure,are indecisive, they are fine making and sticking to decisions.:)
@@Isleofskye london is the worst place to be in a relationship but the best place to learn about anglo-saxon women psychology in a minute. Many foreigners leaves London/England and go back to their country when they are looking for a wife
The difference between 2:30 and 3:40 . The first thing one of them says is that he needs to be goofy and emotionally available and the other basically just says "have money, be a man, be on your game 24/7 and provide for me". Pick your woman carefully guys. They are all women, but some are much better than the others.
that's the same girl. There is a difference between what they want and what they think they want. If you think the first girl only want a "emotionally available, goofy / funny guy who can't provide and act like a teenager" you are wrong.
@@viking6985Pretty sure she said emotionally available and goofy/funny but you totally made up the other stuff which is completely unrelated. You can be funny and not act like a teenager. You can be emotionally available and be a responsible adult (in fact I would say you're not really an adult if not emotionally mature).
It sounds very much like Swedish, its not much different. But there is nothing to do with German, I’m a native German speaker and I understand just some stuff because I learn Swedish.
As a generalization, this 69-year-old Londoner agrees with the phrase "Women like to chat, gossip and talk" while Men "Exchange Information" as in a typical Male-To-Male phone conversation: First Male "Hello, Mate, all right? " Second Male: Yes, Thanks, mate, and you ?" First Male: All Good, what time are we meeting at the Pub tomorrow night?" Second Male: "About 9.00pm" First Male"Great. See you then!" Second Male "Bue! " THE END FEmale to FEmale: Still Chatting 30 minutes later and then when you ask The Woman would they chatted about for so long, they reply "Nothing In Particular!" LOL
very enlightening video it seems in 2023 in norway 1 of the most egalitarian countries in the world it looks like Norwegian women are starting to lean towards wanting traditional old school men when women in western countries especially Norway are fatherliest from traditional women.
''fatherless'' is also true for scandinavian countries. They are raised by single moms. And these girls are all lying. They wouldn't date a single guy who is not ''model tier'' goodlooking. No matter how he behaves doesn't matter to females. As long as he is attractive and good in bed he can do whatever he wants.@@Comeup2024
As an American guy who is much older than everyone in this video, I must say that Mia and Astrid seemed to be the most mature of everyone in this video. The twin sisters come in a close second. The group of three girls are perfect examples of the problem with dating nowadays. I predict that the three of them are going to be single for awhile The other girls were fine given their ages. Men everywhere learn very early on that we should not be open because sooner or later it will be used against us in one way or another. Women love and need to talk out their feelings, while men, rightly or wrongly, do not. I have found that a woman can get their guy to open up if, and only if, she is very loyal to him. True loyalty doesn't take hold until a woman is over thirty. Before that age, women cannot break free from the opinions of their girlfriends. If one of her girlfriends doesn't like the guy, she will most likely end the relationship Women must learn that women value love, and men value complete loyalty. Loyalty is everything. Not being loyal is the kiss of death in a relationship with a guy. Also after 30, women begin to realize that the small things do not matter. And this allows women to break free from their female friends and become more independent and focused on their romantic relationships and marriage.
I agree/disagree. Yes what you said about men and women’s expectations is 100% accurate in my opinion. However I don’t think it has something to do with a womans age, but rather a realization that her beauty will fade away and her biological clock is ticking, so she has to find a man that’s good in her eyes after many years of only caring about superficial stuff like status, friends and attention.
I believe Anna and Ella are up there with Mia and Astrid and only 18 year olds too. Where as the twins were meh... Jorid said she didn't know a few times. Kari is just traditional and I don't know if it's maturity or not but she makes less exceptions, similar to the rest of the other girls.
I work security at Epcot (Walt Disney World) at Norway...it's hard to stay focused with all the beautiful tall, blonde haired, blue eyed Norwegian girls there. They are all so nice and polite and also have such cool personalities. If I was a younger single guy I'd definitely be politely asking a couple of them out.
Kari has great values in my opinion (I'm a Swedish guy). The really tall girl is not my type at all, too superficial. But it was very fun to hear everyone's opinions.
The younger girls seem to have a better grasp of what really matters in a relationship, and life in general if we're being honest, than the older girls. Is it a generational thing or just their personalities/character traits?
I saw those other women. Before they speak. They just scream feminism on them. Those 3 and the tall one, yeah. I didn't expect anything else. There's good and bad people, just easier to see bad people. Do they still got some good qualities? Maybe... still it just screams entitlement and they look quite manly how they carry themselves. It's not a good bet.
ALL of that shit is a lie. Here in the states it's the same thing with white liberals saying blacks deserve everything, yet they themselves live in areas 15km from any black people. Same with mass migration of fighting age men from the 3rd world, they say they want all of them and more, but never have anything to do with them or give up anything they have for them. All leftist "progressive" doctrine is bullshit.
It's interesting how biology is synced in us despite our cultural differences/social engineering which also plays a role. I live in Germany and am born and raised in Greece yet I have heard the same statements from girls from every country concerning ( height, money, confidence etc...). Bottom line is women want men who can basically outsmart them, outearn them and low key overpower them physically if necessary ( fitness plays that role here and genes of course that is why height is important ) to feel safe and have respect for the guy. If not then sooner or later it is not going to work out. So when ladies are talking 50 50 they lowkey want dominance from the other side and basically have reasons to struggle to get there in my honest opinion and although our 'progressed' society implies the 50 50 rule women still seek out the other 70 30 guy.
Feminism is a recipe for an unhappy future for women, since it teaches them to suppress their own nature. Also because demanding rights without the equivalent duties and sacrifices that come along is unrealistic and unfeasible. So when they have to pay the price of the duties and sacrifices of the so-called rights they've demanded they are frustrated.
@siliconiusantogramaphantis2122 Like Freud has always said the women are looking for the D. Yes, SIZE MATTERS to them: this EXPLAINS why they doN'T want a short guy. (Ha! Ha!) Ken, Toronto, CANADA
This is the best interview of its kind I’ve ever seen. The answers are honest, logical and proof that “all women are not alike.” I am super impressed with Norwegian women! You would get much more shallow, entitled, gold-digger answers in the US, for example. These women are gorgeous and feminine, yet confident and assertive. Wow! 🥰
Jesus Christ wants a personal relationship with you through the Holy Spirit, not religion and blind faith. You see, we all have sinned, and have broken God’s law (The Ten Commandments). Wrong doing deserves justice and must be punished (just like how a criminal has to pay for the crime they have committed) but God saved us from the eternal punishment of our sins by sending His Son Jesus Christ, fullness of God in flesh, a perfect, sinless sacrifice to pay the penalty for our sins by dying on the cross and resurrecting, so that we may have everlasting life. It is all finished and now for you to accept the free gift of grace, you must repent of your sins and put your faith in Jesus Christ and Bible says that His Blood will cover all of your sins, you will be forgiven, saved from eternal punishment, and be given everlasting life. By faith you will receive the Holy Spirit, become born again, know Jesus personally and He will transform your heart and clean you from the inside out. Turn away from sin, read the Bible, pray for the Holy Spirit to fill you and change you, obey the Word. Much love and God bless you!
Mia is the cutest... and also seems to have the sweetest personality.. 👍 Hopefully she finds a good match... The guy who gets her will be one very lucky dude.
Some video ideas: - Ask people how they met their boyfriend/girlfriend or wife/husband - Ask people what they think of USA and Americans Takk! One day I will get good at speaking Norsk. Thank you again for sharing Norwegian Opinion with us
These are great video ideas! I will make both of them. Thanks for the valuable feedback. It's very nice to hear you want to learn Norsk. I hope our videos will help you get better :)
What do you mean Americans? There is not one thing that comes to mind when thinking about Americans because it is a multiracial country and there is no one look to an American.
The two girls at 7:02 are simply cute and beautiful human beings not just because of their looks, but also because of their honest and kind attitude. I hope her boyfriend always treats her like a queen. Unfortunately, there aren’t many girls like these two any more. And if you‘ll meet one, she always has a boyfriend.
Over a few years, I have fallen in love with Norway and everything Norwegian: The fjords, the countryside, the mountains, the people, the culture and mythology, the language, the art, the history, the food, the way of life, the political system, ALL OF IT. I am taken back by the insight and enthusiasm of Astrid and Mia especially. Where I’m from, young women, and people in general, very rarely show the same level of maturity on matters of relationships (amicable and romantic). My life partner may well be in Norway, so thanks for this video, sir!
I have lived in Norway for 27 years. I have had 3 different Norwegian girls for 25 years. I think Norwegian girls are the kindest and most beautiful girls in the world. They understand love and understand if you just want a girlfriend. I wanted to live a stable life and tried to show my girl that I loved her. But I was young and made several mistakes as well. The only thing that was difficult to understand was that they think and think very much especially when it comes to sex. But I learned that too and did my best to get my girl and be satisfied and happy. Norwegian people are extremely kind and good-hearted people. I still love them and wish I could rewind time and work less and be with my girl more.
I just realized the height thing is funny when most women want a taller man but many of those women also wear high heals and platform shoes a lot as well.
You would think a 5'10 woman wouldnt be wearing 6 inch stilettos if she wants to attract a man. Height preference works both ways. Yet I see tons of girls walking around unaware it is turning most men off.
In my high school girls always say bad things about short dudes but they still madly love the short popular dude. I’m sure many famous short actors get tall lovers frequently
I was surprised at how mature and aware of adult life these young women are. You definitely do not get that vibe when you see them out in a club. It seems like people need better social settings to really get to know each other.
I read comments from men saying “there are still genuine women who don’t have unrealistic standards”, but personally I cannot see any differences between them and the other ones. They said they want tall, attractive masculine men with high social status, just like any other women from another nation.
All women in the western world have such inflated egos and self-importance. They want the best of the best which is 0.1% of the population, but then the wall hits at 34 and they start caring less about finding Greek Gods.
119 subscribers with 5.5k views !?! wow , bruh you need to step up your game and post more , because it's obvious that people are fascinated by a Norwegian asking for dating advice from Norwegian girls.
In general, these aren't unreasonable takes. I definitely don't agree with all of them. But overall not bad. I did appreciate that they all seemed like complex people. I also appreciated that there were no leading questions. A wider range in age would be nice for next time. Also different questions than only dating questions in other videos would keep me coming back. If your videos are only dating related than I won't stick around.
Somehow stumbled upon this and it made me happy to be honest. Compare this video to similar ones from the US "market" and you`ll be flabbergasted by the difference. Approach and maturity of the interviewer and intelligence of women who actually have a personality, compared to sad and pathetic overly sexualized US youth, is something to ponder upon.. These women literally think and form sentences before speaking. Good job, Europe, there is hope.
Doesnt mean they do better than us girls in the dating scene... I lived in Poland for 3 years. Girls are real beauties, educated, well read blabla... BUT their love/sex life is chaos. They fuck the same mofos, are also stucked in situationships with fuckboys, date for status, use their satellites in a kind way...
Hey man, i totally enjoyed this clip. Also, thanks for the subtitle, must have been a lot of hard work to do that... Looking forward to more contents from you
Hello, I'm Brazilian, my name is Paulo, I live in São Paulo - Brazil, I'm 54 years old, I've been married for 31 years and I have a son, I'm a fan of Norway, its people, its culture, music, football, hockey, nature, cities. I have a big dream of one day visiting Norway with my family, it's a dream I've had since I was 9 years old, but I'm financially poor and I've never been able to make this dream come true financially, my son's dream is to work and study in Norway! .I speak a little Norwegian but not fluently, I didn't complete the course due to an accident I had, on my RUclips channel he talks about this accident and how I learned a little Norwegian!. Since I was 9 years old I have dreamed of working and getting to know Norway, but today I see this dream far from me, I don't have the financial means to make this come true, I am very indebted, I don't have the means to pay my debts and see my beloved wife and my beloved son suffering with me, I cry a lot without anyone's help and I live on medication.😢😭😭😢🙏
They should let in hardworking Christian people like you and your son. Not cultural leeches like thay are now. Prayers that your son can study someplace nice and that your dream trip will happen!
Join the club. That's life. Now you gotta start being thankful for what you do have. If you were to have ALS/Lou Gehrig's disease, you're dream - in fact ALL you'd want - is to be able to walk and move again
Trust me, if you spoke Norwegian you would not consider this beautiful language, some of them are clearly drunk as hell and the others are using a ton of slang. Only two of them speak a relatively consistent dialect. The subtitles are doing a lot of heavy lifting for their coherence.
"He" must be loyal, funny, serious, good-looking is a bonus, confident, sensitive, communicative, strong, independent, emotional. With other words: A. An arxehole (which she thinks she can improve/train/change), or B. a boring slouch (someone who always makes the same jokes forever, but she will only know this 20 years later). Same as everywhere.
I dated my ex who was 6ft I am 5'10/5'11ish and only my height became a problem after we broke up. Funny that after 2 years it wasn't a problem before. lol
Men don't talk about breakup details and that sort of things. Meanwhile women cannot spend 30 seconds without divulging every single personal detail from home that should be kept at home. We are different in so many ways ands women cannot understand that
@@NorwegianOpinion That’s how we’re wired, I suppose. Those men opening up to their girlfriends/wives about some things are viewed differently afterwards, and not in a good way. Showing vulnerability like that makes you lose manly points, especially in the eyes of your woman. These chicks don’t know what they want. Most of them say something and then when they have what they asked for, they don’t like it and don’t want it anymore. Why? Because they can easily get another. Tear up in front of your wife once but that’s it. She’s gonna want you to grow a pair and act like a man after that. Do that a habit and you’re done. Why do women go for bad boys in the first place? They are tough, hot, know what to say, are fun and a little, or very toxic. If there’s anything I learnt until this point in my life is that women in general love drama. If you’re always understanding and don’t show a tad bit of toxicity towards your woman, she starts to get bored and guess what follows after that. Anyway, the only way a man should be emotionally available to his woman is by listening to what she has to complain about and comfort her. The moment he becomes the vulnerable one it’s like taking her place. Don’t listen to the BS these chicks are advising. You’re gonna get cheated on and guess whose fault that’s gonna be. Be a man and stay strong, to all those maybe confused!
@@dragos-lucian 100%. You shouldn't be too available emotionally as she will simply start loosing interest and attraction to yourself. They simply don't know what they want or just spit out whatever is socially acceptable to say. The more toxic/mischevious ones will use your vulnerability against you in the future. You should open up to your family, male friends or therapist.
Do the same interview in the US. The average woman here is not as eloquent, feminine, nor fit as these women but have higher and more unreasonable standards...
they look the same as women in the US lol idk what you’re talking about, they’re pretty much equal across the board. You’re acting like America is some third world LEDC country
Lol. Scandinavia is officially the most feminist region in the world. What American women tolerate from American men, a Norwegian woman wouldn’t spend even 2 seconds
IMO the american women can't even compete with the average european let alone Nordic women which are known to be the most feminine and beautiful women in the world.
@@theegyptianconqueror7100 I’m a European, and in addition to other neighboring countries on my continent, I have also met many other countries and cultures in the world.
I don't mean to sound like I'm coping and I know at the end of the day basically all girls do it to some extend but I will say it's relieving that the ones who cared most about things like height were also the ones that looked the most excessively and superficially overdressed and covered with makeup
Why do the first girls defelct any kind of resposibility form themsleves and other women ? why should only other men listen to the struggles of men? theres literally not a single thing in the world that stops you as a woman to check on your brother, your firend, or your dad... yall women love preaching men should open up more but only as long it doesnt affect your life..." let the men handle it.."
I think the point they were trying to raise is that men need to open up more, both to their partners and to each other. They believed that society teaches men to be strong and independent and doesn't let men open up about how they feel. The first girl also said she wanted a man to be able to talk about problems with her.
@@NorwegianOpinion you dont Seem to fully understand my Point. I understand what they are trying to say, yet they are searching the responsibilty fully in the men, Not even a Bit in themselves. Listen, why do they say men need to Open Up more and dont say WE as a soceuty, including Them as women, need to listen more. They are giving Up any Kind of self respobility and placing any responsibilty men ( they need to Open Up more, they need to Support each Other) why ? Because its so much easier to say men are allowed to be vunlerable, than to actually listen to vunlerable men. Why arent they checking on their bf, Brothers, fathers, ? Why should only Other men do it ? ITS so easy to say Others should do, when you can do it yourself
@@marvin2678 No you didn't listen to what his reply was. They did indeed say those things. And btw you are doing the exact same thing rn, just with women.
Perhaps a Scandinavian thing, you and all the women in the video seemed to me to be very self reflective and introspective about things. Interestingly, the young women too! No fumbling, elaborated each key word they spoke in detail. On the other hand, you enabled that kind of conversation and carefully listened to things. Followed up with great questions. Seeing you all, no wonder Norway is consistently a top nation every year in all key metrics such as happiness, democracy, human rights, development etc.
Interesting comment because I noticed this in a program with two identical twin who got adopted; one in Norway and one in the US. Both girls were quite similar. Not surprising given that they were identical, but I do remember the girl adopted to Norway was a lot more introspective than the American girl. But I think the American girl was more outgoing. You could see a bit why though when you followed their upbringing. American girl got driven to a lot of organized activities. A lot of action with other people all the time. The Norwegian girl roamed around a lot more on her own. She would go into an abandoned house and explore it, or just bike around the hillside or whatever. She did much less organized activity and spent more time by herself reflecting on things. I do remember that from growing up myself in Norway and my experience in the US. It is much more action and activity focused in the US. In Norway I think being bored is almost seen as something positive. You like kids to figure out what they want to do themselves. Take their own initiative. And I noticed we probably have more autonomy as children in Norway. We can go a lot more around on our own without supervision.
Well done. Your interviewing skills are above average. Great questions, flow, no one got too uncomfortable and you let them speak. And yes.the current dilemma I believe is as you suggested... too many options. With the lack of time and energy required to meet new people, there is a lack of investment and therefore perceived value in potential partners, easier to believe The grass is always greener, so to speak. And wow, lovely girls.
@ullvm1112 …hi yes. Anyone who states that education is not very important in choosing a mate, is ignorant and denying some evolutionary facts of the strong surviving. Blondes, typically the air-headed type in the U.S. and from California, which Hollywood promotes, always go after the jock at the gym, who has little to no brains. We now see that playing out in the type of politicians elected by such voters. And so the U.S. is in free fall decline, like much of the West. Thank you for allowing me to give my opinion. Woman, like men, should choose the best mate; that is the smartest, most hardworking mate to mate with. Society, and civilization in general, depends upon it.
15:37 the girl says: “we should go back to more traditional approach and men must be more traditional. Does that mean she will fulfill her feminine traditional role?
@@Ufu4847obviously not (she won't). First getting drunk and Oslo partying. Traditional values after 30 years of age😉Or more like 35+ now(2020+). It is what it is.
great new channel. I was in Norway this summer I hope you ask them attraction long-term vs short-term partners. I think arousal and attraction are separate things. attraction can be more about long-term relationships . arousal is more dating apps/hookups/casual flings . This video was helpful. Could you think of posting a video or two with Norsk and English side by side? maybe you could fit in both texts that would be a great language learning tool . just a thought.
Thank you for watching! Okey, I do understand what you mean. I will try to make a video about that. Yes, it would be a great idea to have both Norwegian and English subtitles at the same time. Thank you for the advice.
I would love to help or provide insight. I was in Norway about 9 days and met many people and was in 4 cities. @@NorwegianOpinionI am learning the language for about 1 year now.
Communication is key and everything but can only do so much if the other side doesn't respect limits and is constantly trying to push the partner to be something he or she is not. In these cases very often one side comes to that mentioned outcry: "I don't want to be with you anymore." or is ghosting or worse. It took me a few relationships, with women from different cultures and backgrounds, an abusive marriage, an ugly divorce and traumatic fight for child care to learn when and how to say no and to stand by it.Similar story with most of my family, friends and colleagues in recent years. It's like a plague once you dive into the dirty details. There's too much dishonesty on both sides because that mentioned "subconsciousness" tells us something very different than social expectations, norms, beliefs, stereotypes, tropes have burned into our minds. Up to the point that I can't be bothered with "active" dating anymore. I just want to be allowed to be me, feel free and have a laugh. Call it post midlife crisis in the 30s xD
I've been trying for 4 years to get to know a woman in Norway and they dont want to laugh or enjoy life with a partner. It was weird how women weren't socializing
Im always so curious about the requirement of havin goals in life. i wonder what this actually means because if someone has certain desires and tries to achieve it, if thats still cool. it seems what they really mean is provide riches and things like that, so its not about having goals in general, but one specific goal
Yeah, well other guys who do the same thing, interviewing women, spend much less time on them. You gave the women a chance to not only answer the question at hand but to say why. Which is really important to understand the reason. Then we can start to understand women. Thanks, very cools. Keep it up.
There seems to be a need to keep AND break tradition at the same time, if you look at their opinions and values. However, that was only a small part of what was said. Even though I'm too old and out of the romantic picture, I was actually optimistic about the future for young people after watching this video. Many of their opinions were practical and useful to help relationships grow. I wish everybody said these things. They were attractive looking women. Also, I really liked everything Mia said, she was really great! And Rigmor was funny, definitely a good laugh to spend time with. I liked them all.
@@eosohand Yes, problem is that people with citizenship in other Nordic countries, can freely come and go as they please in Norway. Immigrants that's gotten a citizenship in Sweden, can live in Norway, Finland, Denmark and Iceland whenever they want to because of the treaty. I can go and live in Denmark if I choose just with my Norwegian citizenship. Right now I live in Italy, and have an Italian citizenship which unlocks a lot of EU countries that I can move to live in if I want to in the future.
I'm 34 (German) and have never had a girlfriend. I don't get to know women and people in general. I have one close friend but I'm lonely. I'm not able to find friends and women despite living in a big city. My life feels like living on Mars. Some hours ago I visited cinema alone again (98 % of my cinema visits had been without a companion). I'm not happy at all.
It´s all about falling in love with yourself and sharing that love with someone who appreciate you, rather than looking for love for a self love deficit! ding dong; WAKE UP!
To all Men :" Height is important" they said. Again this i what they said that :"Height is important". You do realize that all these women (and this applies for all women in every nation) they all say the same thing that height is important. Looks is very important and they want all these qualities they said they want from THESE men (tall ,handsome and successfull) not from the rest of the average to below average men. No surprise. PC: Consequently these interviews that take place quite often for years now are referring to this kind of men not to the average vast majority of men.
I signed up for a Norwegian dating website a while ago and I must say Norwegian women are cool, intelligent and honest. They do not discriminate racially. Had an interesting time, haha...
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Ask these women, if they're so independent and these younger generations believe in equality. How many guys have they asked out on dates and paid for the date? I doubt if any have the courage to deal with constant rejection that guys have to endure, when they show interest in a woman and they're not good enough in this demanding world.
@NorwegianOpinion 👉YOU are definitely a descendant of 💪🏾THOR ODINSON 🇸🇪
Ask what is their opinion about long distance (international) dating and if for Love they would ever consider changing country and establishing far away from Norway, or if they would never consider moving away (so basically the guy should do it). And make them pick a country where they hypothetically would like to live
@@iAmJoshC Great idea, will try to make a video about that!
I really like those ladies that talked about getting the men in their lives to connect with each other more and generally be emotionally available. That was such a positive and selfless message.
Women say that men has to be emotionally available but when men decides to open up, it's often seen as too clingy and needy and the woman decides to leave the man which leads to men closing their feelings even more.
Advice for women: Sort out what you really want in a relationship and don't just name a bunch of stuff without real thought behind it.
Advice for men: Try and talk about your feelings in a more open way with friends and family so it's not a barrier/hurdle when you are in a relationship.
No.
It’s so that they can find out your weaknesses so that they can later manipulate you to get what they want!
@@ianarn That's my hypothesis as well, they want to build an inner mental model of your brain, not your knowledge, more like your 'emotional apparatus' . Then they tests you in different scenarios to see if you behave as the model predicts. If not she updates the model with the new info.
The model is useful so she can predict and also influence/manipulate our behavior to her benefit.
Absolutely false. If they leave it's for another reason. Most keep to themselves and complain in pubs , bars with guys and look at other women. It cannot work.
@@ianarnwomen, the apex predators of the chain
1st rule of dealing with a woman (and some men): Don't believe in what they say. Observe what they do and their surroundings (family, friends, work, etc...)
Absolutely. Though culture in Norway seems more straight-speaking. See these chicks admitted they want a guy with a good job, 10cm taller, "height is important"; in the US they say such things don't matter.
You're spitting harsh truth bro
THIS. Including what they say they want. DO NOT think your women is in anyway related to your Mother. Be unbreakable and don't listen to their "I want you to be open and emotional". They do not want that I promise!
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@@ivanivan5511 I'm in the US and they say the exact same thing. Tall, and loaded with money. Its the exact same girl, different culture. Obviously fatter and more masculine, but the same values.
I’m 56 and so glad I’m single , and not worried about impressing anyone … been single for almost 10 years and loving it … no drama , no arguments, no problems , just chilling and doing my thing …
Unlike you i am young but sometimes being alone for a long time makes me depressed. Unfortunately it is very difficult to find friends in my country or I cannot make them.
@@fratsan9979sorry to hear that bro. I dont have much friends Either, alot of alone time
I think the selection of interviewees was spot on. It demonstrated beautifly how different the expectations are and what is liked by one isn't always by others. You just have to find the people who vibe with you.
I absolutely love Astrid and Mia's outlook. They completely nailed their points and I 100% support their suggestions. They conveyed their ideas so well. Great girls!
9:38 is powerful.
I liked Mia, she is full of positive vibe. But she is lying about ugly funny guys I bet. Many people loved Astrid because she says she is okay with shorter guys. She is with someone but in the beginning of the video she looked at reporters lips several times, so she is not reliable.
@@cagdasnarin525She also like to be a "boss ass bitch" towards her shorter boyfriend.
what the fuck? Looking at lips is very normal lol@@cagdasnarin525
bro they are just like the average western women, they say they want a "emotional man who likes to talk about problems" but then if they find a man like that, they consider it a weakness. its the same old song.
Ive been in a relationship for almost 9 years and its crazy seeing how the dating scene has changed so much in so little time
What specifically are you seeing that is different? Thanks
Yes, its interesting to actually read about the differences you had noticed, so please share
@@TheRickfire imo women have reached men in terms of promiscuity and horniness. Women were much much much less sexual 10 years ago. I remember hearing a very progressive man in a documentary say that women still had a lot of catching up in terms of "hornyness" and I heard that and in my mind that was impossible. Yet, the nordic liberal man in the documentary was right in the end.
Social media happened, and the illusion of infinite choices. Impossible to please most of them anymore.
Sorry i haven’t been on youtube 😅.
So im in America But I’ve noticed that doing things for woman like (paying for a date) has somehow become a controversial topic. Woman are more picky and dont seek men based of values but off status and money now. Also ive seen an increase of woman not taking accountability and becoming more sexual while having no shame doing it. Men are struggling to find a good wife and its really sad to see
(A brazilian guy watching this) Astrid and Mia were sooo interesting! And so different from all the other girls. Both of them were talking about things that really matter to make a relationship work, like being communicative, being open to the other person's ideas. Almost all the other girls in the video were just talking about an image of the ideal man, that would make them get closer to an idealization of what they think they should be (that's a recipe for disaster, in my opinion). It was fun to see so much difference between Astrid and Mia and the other girls, and they weren't even the oldest ones. Besides that, I like listening to the language, nice video.
Age doesn't equate to much that said... The older generation is inherently more evil and stupid
Yes Mia and Astrid are so refreshing in their point of view. Very common sense and down to earth and not at all superficial.
I think they were also a bit more drunk ;)
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Astrid 10/10. Refreshing common sense, little to non makeup, a beautiful normal girl.
she impressed me too. Smart even when drunk
You got the point perfectly
Is it common sense to be a "bitch ass boss" against her shorter boyfriend?
Little to non make up😂 tell me you’re a man without telling me.
yup, she is an elf im an orc
If a man "opens up" he usually finds out it was a mistake.
Truth
I tryed opening up very time i wanted girl to leave me, it didnt worked so well tbh :D
Jesus Christ wants a personal relationship with you through the Holy Spirit, not religion and blind faith. You see, we all have sinned, and have broken God’s law (The Ten Commandments). Wrong doing deserves justice and must be punished (just like how a criminal has to pay for the crime they have committed) but God saved us from the eternal punishment of our sins by sending His Son Jesus Christ, fullness of God in flesh, a perfect, sinless sacrifice to pay the penalty for our sins by dying on the cross and resurrecting, so that we may have everlasting life. It is all finished and now for you to accept the free gift of grace, you must repent of your sins and put your faith in Jesus Christ and Bible says that His Blood will cover all of your sins, you will be forgiven, saved from eternal punishment, and be given everlasting life. By faith you will receive the Holy Spirit, become born again, know Jesus personally and He will transform your heart and clean you from the inside out. Turn away from sin, read the Bible, pray for the Holy Spirit to fill you and change you, obey the Word. Much love and God bless you!
Saw something the other day:
Woman want emotional intelligence in a Man.
'open, emotional, knows his own boundaries, knows how to attain, hold and chooses for his inner peace.
But that is also a man that will drop any woman who disturbs his peace due to a lack of emotional intelligence in the woman.
@@ericmieremetwhen we say we want emotional intelligence in a man we just mean a man who knows how to regulate his emotions maturely--i.e. doesn't throw tantrums, punch walls, etc. we dont care for the mushy, gushy woe-is-me shit. leave that for your buddies.
A very talented interviewer, asking excellent questions and then getting out of the way and to give his subjects the space to answer. He has good follow-up also.
I know that it could be an overlooked topic, but I would like to hear about what young Norwegians read, such as novels, papers and so on. As far as I know, you guys read a lot compared to other European countries. Keep up the good work! 👍🏻
Thanks for leaving a comment, I really appreciate the support! Sounds like a really good idea 😀 I will definitely make a video about that topic.
An exceedingly well-made series of interviews, where open-ended questions are quickly followed up on -- a rare combination in this genre of RUclips channels! Kudos to you and to all the interviewees! 💕
Glad you enjoyed it!
The *host* is actually showing some decent emotion himself. For the first time interacting-he seems to be doing quite a gregarious job. 🤣
Men still believing they will understand women by asking them, love this naivety
Ask the fish how to catch it 😛. They dont even know themselves unfprtunately, stuck up on height, have an attitude. Yet, sometimes I do find good women, like in this vid. 1 normal, the rest either confused and have no clue what to say or simply superficial
@@andrehansen4325 I have had 70 years of London experience and other than the times that they change their mind, overthink things, give 7 reasons to do something and 7 reasons not to,are not sure,are indecisive, they are fine making and sticking to decisions.:)
@@Isleofskye london is the worst place to be in a relationship but the best place to learn about anglo-saxon women psychology in a minute. Many foreigners leaves London/England and go back to their country when they are looking for a wife
This language is a trip. Beautiful and fun people. Great questions and dialogue from the interviewer.
The difference between 2:30 and 3:40 . The first thing one of them says is that he needs to be goofy and emotionally available and the other basically just says "have money, be a man, be on your game 24/7 and provide for me".
Pick your woman carefully guys. They are all women, but some are much better than the others.
that's the same girl. There is a difference between what they want and what they think they want. If you think the first girl only want a "emotionally available, goofy / funny guy who can't provide and act like a teenager" you are wrong.
They r younger that’s why lol 😂
@@viking6985Pretty sure she said emotionally available and goofy/funny but you totally made up the other stuff which is completely unrelated. You can be funny and not act like a teenager. You can be emotionally available and be a responsible adult (in fact I would say you're not really an adult if not emotionally mature).
@viking6985 also to say that "they are the same girl" like all women are the same and don't have personalities is just gross dude
Dude 3:40 didnt say AT ALL "have money and provide" lol
The Norwegian language sounds very interesting. Almost like muffled German.
These girls speak muffled Norwegian. The speak a trendy childish version of norwegian.
LIKE A MUFFLED PUSS.
¿Cual otro existe? , y como lo distingues , no se nada de noruega, asi que no des nada por hecho, en alguna explicacion futura. @@Robbinsffxi
It sounds very much like Swedish, its not much different. But there is nothing to do with German, I’m a native German speaker and I understand just some stuff because I learn Swedish.
@@Robbinsffxi Depends on who you're referring to. The twins were speaking a clear, clean western dialect.
The Oslo chicks...sure, lots of slang.
As a generalization, this 69-year-old Londoner agrees with the phrase "Women like to chat, gossip and talk" while Men "Exchange Information" as in a typical Male-To-Male phone conversation: First Male "Hello, Mate, all right? " Second Male: Yes, Thanks, mate, and you ?" First Male: All Good, what time are we meeting at the Pub tomorrow night?"
Second Male: "About 9.00pm" First Male"Great. See you then!" Second Male "Bue! " THE END
FEmale to FEmale: Still Chatting 30 minutes later and then when you ask The Woman would they chatted about for so long, they reply "Nothing In Particular!" LOL
Its cuz the conversation is about many things, you don't talk about one thing for half an hour usually 😅 Thought that was common sense lol
@@banjotiki3910 "half an hour". lol
I have witnessed many Women talk about a thing or person for well over 30 minutes😀😀
Mia needs her own channel, I'm a subscriber since yesterday!!!
She's smart and frank. A woman you can trust is rare.
very enlightening video it seems in 2023 in norway 1 of the most egalitarian countries in the world it looks like Norwegian women are starting to lean towards wanting traditional old school men when women in western countries especially Norway are fatherliest from traditional women.
Furthest/farthest.
Seems the same as US girls tbh. They want all the same traits.
Step aside soy boys, they want BBC.
@@jaybee2402I was also confused by his wording lol
''fatherless'' is also true for scandinavian countries. They are raised by single moms. And these girls are all lying. They wouldn't date a single guy who is not ''model tier'' goodlooking. No matter how he behaves doesn't matter to females. As long as he is attractive and good in bed he can do whatever he wants.@@Comeup2024
Norwegian is such a beautiful language, came here mainly to practice my listening
Guys, you are young, what a woman likes and what she wants can be two very different things.
And what they need really can be at the opposite. ;)
As an American guy who is much older than everyone in this video, I must say that Mia and Astrid seemed to be the most mature of everyone in this video. The twin sisters come in a close second. The group of three girls are perfect examples of the problem with dating nowadays. I predict that the three of them are going to be single for awhile The other girls were fine given their ages.
Men everywhere learn very early on that we should not be open because sooner or later it will be used against us in one way or another. Women love and need to talk out their feelings, while men, rightly or wrongly, do not. I have found that a woman can get their guy to open up if, and only if, she is very loyal to him. True loyalty doesn't take hold until a woman is over thirty. Before that age, women cannot break free from the opinions of their girlfriends. If one of her girlfriends doesn't like the guy, she will most likely end the relationship Women must learn that women value love, and men value complete loyalty. Loyalty is everything. Not being loyal is the kiss of death in a relationship with a guy. Also after 30, women begin to realize that the small things do not matter. And this allows women to break free from their female friends and become more independent and focused on their romantic relationships and marriage.
Those are my younger twin sisters. They are indeed very mature ❤️
I agree/disagree. Yes what you said about men and women’s expectations is 100% accurate in my opinion. However I don’t think it has something to do with a womans age, but rather a realization that her beauty will fade away and her biological clock is ticking, so she has to find a man that’s good in her eyes after many years of only caring about superficial stuff like status, friends and attention.
I believe Anna and Ella are up there with Mia and Astrid and only 18 year olds too. Where as the twins were meh... Jorid said she didn't know a few times. Kari is just traditional and I don't know if it's maturity or not but she makes less exceptions, similar to the rest of the other girls.
Really sucks that women don't mature until over 30 when they peak appearance wise from 20-25
@@RekzaFS In China over 30 they become "leftover" women.
Digging that Astrid girl - pretty, has a casual look and her points of views aren't all that bad either.
thats why she has a boyfriend lol
I work security at Epcot (Walt Disney World) at Norway...it's hard to stay focused with all the beautiful tall, blonde haired, blue eyed Norwegian girls there. They are all so nice and polite and also have such cool personalities. If I was a younger single guy I'd definitely be politely asking a couple of them out.
Mia is soulful. She deserves a good partner.
There you go..you have lost already.....you are Mr nice guy..and you lose
Kari has great values in my opinion (I'm a Swedish guy). The really tall girl is not my type at all, too superficial. But it was very fun to hear everyone's opinions.
What girls say and what they react to emotionally are 2 completely different things
Yea in high school girls always say bad things about short dudes but they still madly love the short popular dude.
The younger girls seem to have a better grasp of what really matters in a relationship, and life in general if we're being honest, than the older girls. Is it a generational thing or just their personalities/character traits?
I saw those other women. Before they speak. They just scream feminism on them. Those 3 and the tall one, yeah. I didn't expect anything else. There's good and bad people, just easier to see bad people. Do they still got some good qualities? Maybe... still it just screams entitlement and they look quite manly how they carry themselves. It's not a good bet.
@@theegyptianconqueror7100oh damn you went there?
8+ years of hook up culture made them think they're special. The younger one's are not yet ruined by it.
how would that make sense? so you're saying these young woman will have the same views as they get older or it shifts as they get older?
If a woman is older and single, then there is no hope for her. She is angry, bitter and tainted for sure.
Is it possible to believe in body positivity and still rule out men by height? I'm purely curious.
ALL of that shit is a lie. Here in the states it's the same thing with white liberals saying blacks deserve everything, yet they themselves live in areas 15km from any black people. Same with mass migration of fighting age men from the 3rd world, they say they want all of them and more, but never have anything to do with them or give up anything they have for them. All leftist "progressive" doctrine is bullshit.
It's interesting how biology is synced in us despite our cultural differences/social engineering which also plays a role. I live in Germany and am born and raised in Greece yet I have heard the same statements from girls from every country concerning ( height, money, confidence etc...). Bottom line is women want men who can basically outsmart them, outearn them and low key overpower them physically if necessary ( fitness plays that role here and genes of course that is why height is important ) to feel safe and have respect for the guy. If not then sooner or later it is not going to work out. So when ladies are talking 50 50 they lowkey want dominance from the other side and basically have reasons to struggle to get there in my honest opinion and although our 'progressed' society implies the 50 50 rule women still seek out the other 70 30 guy.
This is so true
you nailed it
Feminism is a recipe for an unhappy future for women, since it teaches them to suppress their own nature. Also because demanding rights without the equivalent duties and sacrifices that come along is unrealistic and unfeasible. So when they have to pay the price of the duties and sacrifices of the so-called rights they've demanded they are frustrated.
Most women won't realize this but modern women also equate height with D size nowadays. Many know this but won't say it outright.
@siliconiusantogramaphantis2122 Like Freud has always said the women are looking for the D. Yes, SIZE MATTERS to them: this EXPLAINS why they doN'T want a short guy. (Ha! Ha!) Ken, Toronto, CANADA
This is the best interview of its kind I’ve ever seen. The answers are honest, logical and proof that “all women are not alike.” I am super impressed with Norwegian women! You would get much more shallow, entitled, gold-digger answers in the US, for example. These women are gorgeous and feminine, yet confident and assertive. Wow! 🥰
Ah, you're mostly on your own there buddy
Jesus Christ wants a personal relationship with you through the Holy Spirit, not religion and blind faith. You see, we all have sinned, and have broken God’s law (The Ten Commandments). Wrong doing deserves justice and must be punished (just like how a criminal has to pay for the crime they have committed) but God saved us from the eternal punishment of our sins by sending His Son Jesus Christ, fullness of God in flesh, a perfect, sinless sacrifice to pay the penalty for our sins by dying on the cross and resurrecting, so that we may have everlasting life. It is all finished and now for you to accept the free gift of grace, you must repent of your sins and put your faith in Jesus Christ and Bible says that His Blood will cover all of your sins, you will be forgiven, saved from eternal punishment, and be given everlasting life. By faith you will receive the Holy Spirit, become born again, know Jesus personally and He will transform your heart and clean you from the inside out. Turn away from sin, read the Bible, pray for the Holy Spirit to fill you and change you, obey the Word. Much love and God bless you!
Fascinating to hear their various views and I found it funny to hear so many English words or phrases thrown into the conversation !!
Mia is the cutest... and also seems to have the sweetest personality.. 👍
Hopefully she finds a good match... The guy who gets her will be one very lucky dude.
Nice interviews. These ladies are so practical. It's refreshing to hear.
Some video ideas:
- Ask people how they met their boyfriend/girlfriend or wife/husband
- Ask people what they think of USA and Americans
Takk! One day I will get good at speaking Norsk. Thank you again for sharing Norwegian Opinion with us
These are great video ideas! I will make both of them. Thanks for the valuable feedback. It's very nice to hear you want to learn Norsk. I hope our videos will help you get better :)
@@NorwegianOpinion Adding to that, just ask an opinions on Indians too
@@HipsterBrooo okey
What do you mean Americans? There is not one thing that comes to mind when thinking about Americans because it is a multiracial country and there is no one look to an American.
@@HipsterBroooBhai 😂
The two girls at 7:02 are simply cute and beautiful human beings not just because of their looks, but also because of their honest and kind attitude. I hope her boyfriend always treats her like a queen. Unfortunately, there aren’t many girls like these two any more. And if you‘ll meet one, she always has a boyfriend.
Over a few years, I have fallen in love with Norway and everything Norwegian: The fjords, the countryside, the mountains, the people, the culture and mythology, the language, the art, the history, the food, the way of life, the political system, ALL OF IT. I am taken back by the insight and enthusiasm of Astrid and Mia especially. Where I’m from, young women, and people in general, very rarely show the same level of maturity on matters of relationships (amicable and romantic).
My life partner may well be in Norway, so thanks for this video, sir!
This was fun :D Thanks for that experience ! Hope there is more to come, gonna follow! :D
Thanks! Really appreciate the kind words ✌️😊
1. Money
2. Status
3. Height
pretty simple haha
Lol true🤣
1.Looks
2.Looks
3.Looks
Loved how you managed the questions! Thumbs up!
Glad you enjoyed it!
Yeah--very good job of keeping the questions and answers flowing without interrupting.
I have lived in Norway for 27 years. I have had 3 different Norwegian girls for 25 years. I think Norwegian girls are the kindest and most beautiful girls in the world. They understand love and understand if you just want a girlfriend. I wanted to live a stable life and tried to show my girl that I loved her. But I was young and made several mistakes as well. The only thing that was difficult to understand was that they think and think very much especially when it comes to sex. But I learned that too and did my best to get my girl and be satisfied and happy. Norwegian people are extremely kind and good-hearted people. I still love them and wish I could rewind time and work less and be with my girl more.
Here's what they like
1. Be attractive
2. Don't be unatrractive
is that not how guys think too?
@@Ashley-fc7kd It's how everybody thinks.
1. make more money then me
2. dont make less money then me
@@stoned8034 you dont need to make a lot of money as long as you are attractive you can date 3 women at once.
@@dbz9393 money you can make, being sexy for me is already impossible xD
You guys have such a BEAUTIFUL language.
It's cool to ignore the captions and try to imagine "what are they talking about?".
I just realized the height thing is funny when most women want a taller man but many of those women also wear high heals and platform shoes a lot as well.
You would think a 5'10 woman wouldnt be wearing 6 inch stilettos if she wants to attract a man. Height preference works both ways. Yet I see tons of girls walking around unaware it is turning most men off.
In my high school girls always say bad things about short dudes but they still madly love the short popular dude. I’m sure many famous short actors get tall lovers frequently
@@jamiemohan2049they just rejected Jeff Bezos, Mark Zuckerberg, and Jack Ma unfortunately.
Very outspoken women in Norway!!! Awesome.
Congrats that your first video just passed and surpassed 11k views.
This is no coincidence.
RUclips rewards you and sends more people to your videos!
Thank you 🙏 Really surprising to see so many people watching my video!
I was surprised at how mature and aware of adult life these young women are. You definitely do not get that vibe when you see them out in a club. It seems like people need better social settings to really get to know each other.
Very true 👍
What mature? what adult? The yhave they same skewed istagram expectations about men and life except maybe 2 of them...
I noticed that being a trait of scandinavian women.
I read comments from men saying “there are still genuine women who don’t have unrealistic standards”, but personally I cannot see any differences between them and the other ones. They said they want tall, attractive masculine men with high social status, just like any other women from another nation.
All women in the western world have such inflated egos and self-importance. They want the best of the best which is 0.1% of the population, but then the wall hits at 34 and they start caring less about finding Greek Gods.
I bet you want a pretty girl, isn't it?
119 subscribers with 5.5k views !?! wow , bruh you need to step up your game and post more , because it's obvious that people are fascinated by a Norwegian asking for dating advice from Norwegian girls.
Gonna step up! 👊
In general, these aren't unreasonable takes. I definitely don't agree with all of them. But overall not bad. I did appreciate that they all seemed like complex people. I also appreciated that there were no leading questions.
A wider range in age would be nice for next time. Also different questions than only dating questions in other videos would keep me coming back. If your videos are only dating related than I won't stick around.
Thank you for the feedback! There will be other topics, than dating. So, stick around! :)
Somehow stumbled upon this and it made me happy to be honest. Compare this video to similar ones from the US "market" and you`ll be flabbergasted by the difference. Approach and maturity of the interviewer and intelligence of women who actually have a personality, compared to sad and pathetic overly sexualized US youth, is something to ponder upon.. These women literally think and form sentences before speaking. Good job, Europe, there is hope.
Doesnt mean they do better than us girls in the dating scene... I lived in Poland for 3 years. Girls are real beauties, educated, well read blabla... BUT their love/sex life is chaos. They fuck the same mofos, are also stucked in situationships with fuckboys, date for status, use their satellites in a kind way...
Hey man, i totally enjoyed this clip. Also, thanks for the subtitle, must have been a lot of hard work to do that... Looking forward to more contents from you
Thank you for the kind words! New video coming very soon 👌
Norway = Plan Kalergi
Føink til å intervjue 👍👍
Props til de norske jentene her, dem virker ærlige og ikke urimelige i sine preferanser ❤
Det er oppmuntrende
Hello, I'm Brazilian, my name is Paulo, I live in São Paulo - Brazil, I'm 54 years old, I've been married for 31 years and I have a son, I'm a fan of Norway, its people, its culture, music, football, hockey, nature, cities. I have a big dream of one day visiting Norway with my family, it's a dream I've had since I was 9 years old, but I'm financially poor and I've never been able to make this dream come true financially, my son's dream is to work and study in Norway! .I speak a little Norwegian but not fluently, I didn't complete the course due to an accident I had, on my RUclips channel he talks about this accident and how I learned a little Norwegian!. Since I was 9 years old I have dreamed of working and getting to know Norway, but today I see this dream far from me, I don't have the financial means to make this come true, I am very indebted, I don't have the means to pay my debts and see my beloved wife and my beloved son suffering with me, I cry a lot without anyone's help and I live on medication.😢😭😭😢🙏
They should let in hardworking Christian people like you and your son. Not cultural leeches like thay are now. Prayers that your son can study someplace nice and that your dream trip will happen!
@@cult_of_tyrWhat's up being Christian? Are they special or something? Nah, considering you, they should be Asatru at least.
Best wishes to you and your family Mr. Paolo. You deserve the best!
Join the club. That's life. Now you gotta start being thankful for what you do have. If you were to have ALS/Lou Gehrig's disease, you're dream - in fact ALL you'd want - is to be able to walk and move again
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Never heard Norwegian before but it’s a beautiful language. Norwegian women seem to know what they want 😊
the best comparison I've dated was a Dutch girl. pretty, tall, very straight-talking, good sense of humour, bit arrogant. not my ideal girls really...
Trust me, if you spoke Norwegian you would not consider this beautiful language, some of them are clearly drunk as hell and the others are using a ton of slang. Only two of them speak a relatively consistent dialect. The subtitles are doing a lot of heavy lifting for their coherence.
Hahaha 😂
@@luxborealisyes drunk ha ha ha !
"He" must be loyal, funny, serious, good-looking is a bonus, confident, sensitive, communicative, strong, independent, emotional.
With other words: A. An arxehole (which she thinks she can improve/train/change), or B. a boring slouch (someone who always makes the same jokes forever, but she will only know this 20 years later).
Same as everywhere.
that is the quietest and cleanest city i have ever seen (in this video.)
8:17 Silly response... How can you be dominant just by been taller..? That none sens, even if I'm smaller, you can't dominate me.
That’s it my short man you got it right 💯💯💯
next video interviewing girls if haaland is attractive PLEASE
This is actually a very funny idea!
He's not
I visited Oslo and Bergen 5yrs ago. Such beautiful cities and people...have fond memories of our visit.
Great to hear that you made some great memories here 👍😀
Ironic i have only dated women taller then me and its been good. Just because her experience didnt work out doesnt mean height is bad
I dated my ex who was 6ft I am 5'10/5'11ish and only my height became a problem after we broke up. Funny that after 2 years it wasn't a problem before. lol
Trust me, they just rejected Jeff Bezos, Mark Zuckerberg, and Jack Ma unfortunately.
All Women think the same, doesnt really matter if they from Portugal or Norway.
"Its all about the money" - Money is the main factor.
Norwegians are the most beautiful women in scandinavia💜
Astrid has the looks but I like Kari's traditionalist attitude.
Men don't talk about breakup details and that sort of things. Meanwhile women cannot spend 30 seconds without divulging every single personal detail from home that should be kept at home. We are different in so many ways ands women cannot understand that
Very great point, but why do you think that is? Do you think it has something to do with the culture or is it more to do with biology?
@@NorwegianOpinion That’s how we’re wired, I suppose. Those men opening up to their girlfriends/wives about some things are viewed differently afterwards, and not in a good way. Showing vulnerability like that makes you lose manly points, especially in the eyes of your woman. These chicks don’t know what they want. Most of them say something and then when they have what they asked for, they don’t like it and don’t want it anymore. Why? Because they can easily get another. Tear up in front of your wife once but that’s it. She’s gonna want you to grow a pair and act like a man after that. Do that a habit and you’re done. Why do women go for bad boys in the first place? They are tough, hot, know what to say, are fun and a little, or very toxic. If there’s anything I learnt until this point in my life is that women in general love drama. If you’re always understanding and don’t show a tad bit of toxicity towards your woman, she starts to get bored and guess what follows after that.
Anyway, the only way a man should be emotionally available to his woman is by listening to what she has to complain about and comfort her. The moment he becomes the vulnerable one it’s like taking her place. Don’t listen to the BS these chicks are advising. You’re gonna get cheated on and guess whose fault that’s gonna be. Be a man and stay strong, to all those maybe confused!
@@dragos-luciani agree, if theese standards is what they are after they should all have a man right now, but still almost evry one of them are single😂
@@dragos-lucian 100%. You shouldn't be too available emotionally as she will simply start loosing interest and attraction to yourself. They simply don't know what they want or just spit out whatever is socially acceptable to say. The more toxic/mischevious ones will use your vulnerability against you in the future. You should open up to your family, male friends or therapist.
Astrid and Rigmor are my types.
But seriously, Rigmor's parents f'd up by naming her "Rigmor" tf kind of strong masculine name is that
They have two different points of view and personalities, how can you like them both?
@@asamicat8323 definately for their looks
@@user-gp2mq8le3c men blaming women for having aesthetic preferences and caring about the men's look but men do the same 😂👏🏻 or even worse
They dont want a man who will speak with them about problems, they actually want a man who can solve the problems and prevent the problems...
Yup. Never listen to what a woman says, but observe what she does. Actions speaks louder than words.
If we don't address, discuss and solve problems then society will slip into downward spiral. Then again, it already has, due to deteriorating values.
Do the same interview in the US. The average woman here is not as eloquent, feminine, nor fit as these women but have higher and more unreasonable standards...
they look the same as women in the US lol idk what you’re talking about, they’re pretty much equal across the board. You’re acting like America is some third world LEDC country
@emperorhideyoshi3223 where you talking? Most these girls are fat and sound like thugs.
Lol. Scandinavia is officially the most feminist region in the world.
What American women tolerate from American men, a Norwegian woman wouldn’t spend even 2 seconds
IMO the american women can't even compete with the average european let alone Nordic women which are known to be the most feminine and beautiful women in the world.
@@theegyptianconqueror7100
I’m a European, and in addition to other neighboring countries on my continent, I have also met many other countries and cultures in the world.
"Don't explain your philosophy. Embody it."
- Epictetus.
Ask for their type or like celebrity crush would be pretty interesting
Great video idea! Thank you ✌️
each girl of them energy and thoughts matched her friend, if you know law of attraction you will understand what I'm talking about
I don't mean to sound like I'm coping and I know at the end of the day basically all girls do it to some extend but I will say it's relieving that the ones who cared most about things like height were also the ones that looked the most excessively and superficially overdressed and covered with makeup
Why do the first girls defelct any kind of resposibility form themsleves and other women ? why should only other men listen to the struggles of men? theres literally not a single thing in the world that stops you as a woman to check on your brother, your firend, or your dad... yall women love preaching men should open up more but only as long it doesnt affect your life..." let the men handle it.."
I think the point they were trying to raise is that men need to open up more, both to their partners and to each other. They believed that society teaches men to be strong and independent and doesn't let men open up about how they feel. The first girl also said she wanted a man to be able to talk about problems with her.
@@NorwegianOpinion you dont Seem to fully understand my Point. I understand what they are trying to say, yet they are searching the responsibilty fully in the men, Not even a Bit in themselves. Listen, why do they say men need to Open Up more and dont say WE as a soceuty, including Them as women, need to listen more. They are giving Up any Kind of self respobility and placing any responsibilty men ( they need to Open Up more, they need to Support each Other) why ? Because its so much easier to say men are allowed to be vunlerable, than to actually listen to vunlerable men. Why arent they checking on their bf, Brothers, fathers, ? Why should only Other men do it ? ITS so easy to say Others should do, when you can do it yourself
@@marvin2678 No you didn't listen to what his reply was. They did indeed say those things. And btw you are doing the exact same thing rn, just with women.
@@peacefulminimalist2028 read my second comment again and slowly this time
@@marvin2678 no need.
Perhaps a Scandinavian thing, you and all the women in the video seemed to me to be very self reflective and introspective about things. Interestingly, the young women too! No fumbling, elaborated each key word they spoke in detail.
On the other hand, you enabled that kind of conversation and carefully listened to things. Followed up with great questions. Seeing you all, no wonder Norway is consistently a top nation every year in all key metrics such as happiness, democracy, human rights, development etc.
Absolutely appreciate the positive feedback, thank you! 😄
Interesting comment because I noticed this in a program with two identical twin who got adopted; one in Norway and one in the US. Both girls were quite similar. Not surprising given that they were identical, but I do remember the girl adopted to Norway was a lot more introspective than the American girl. But I think the American girl was more outgoing.
You could see a bit why though when you followed their upbringing. American girl got driven to a lot of organized activities. A lot of action with other people all the time. The Norwegian girl roamed around a lot more on her own. She would go into an abandoned house and explore it, or just bike around the hillside or whatever. She did much less organized activity and spent more time by herself reflecting on things.
I do remember that from growing up myself in Norway and my experience in the US. It is much more action and activity focused in the US. In Norway I think being bored is almost seen as something positive. You like kids to figure out what they want to do themselves. Take their own initiative. And I noticed we probably have more autonomy as children in Norway. We can go a lot more around on our own without supervision.
Well done. Your interviewing skills are above average. Great questions, flow, no one got too uncomfortable and you let them speak.
And yes.the current dilemma I believe is as you suggested... too many options. With the lack of time and energy required to meet new people, there is a lack of investment and therefore perceived value in potential partners, easier to believe The grass is always greener, so to speak. And wow, lovely girls.
Thanks a lot man! Its my first time doing this, always looking to improve 👍 Yes, having to many options can be a real problem
@@ronan2670 thank you very much! :)
Great job on your above average skills lol😅
I find it interesting how they sometimes switch back and forth between Norwegian and English when speaking.
“Education not very important.” These are real blondes.
@ullvm1112 …hi yes. Anyone who states that education is not very important in choosing a mate, is ignorant and denying some evolutionary facts of the strong surviving. Blondes, typically the air-headed type in the U.S. and from California, which Hollywood promotes, always go after the jock at the gym, who has little to no brains. We now see that playing out in the type of politicians elected by such voters. And so the U.S. is in free fall decline, like much of the West. Thank you for allowing me to give my opinion. Woman, like men, should choose the best mate; that is the smartest, most hardworking mate to mate with. Society, and civilization in general, depends upon it.
15:37 the girl says: “we should go back to more traditional approach and men must be more traditional. Does that mean she will fulfill her feminine traditional role?
Norway is a feminist hellhole
@@user-ci4bm3vp6n They can’t demand traditional role from men if they aren’t traditional themselves.
@@Ufu4847obviously not (she won't). First getting drunk and Oslo partying. Traditional values after 30 years of age😉Or more like 35+ now(2020+).
It is what it is.
great new channel. I was in Norway this summer I hope you ask them attraction long-term vs short-term partners. I think arousal and attraction are separate things. attraction can be more about long-term relationships . arousal is more dating apps/hookups/casual flings . This video was helpful. Could you think of posting a video or two with Norsk and English side by side? maybe you could fit in both texts that would be a great language learning tool . just a thought.
Thank you for watching! Okey, I do understand what you mean. I will try to make a video about that. Yes, it would be a great idea to have both Norwegian and English subtitles at the same time. Thank you for the advice.
I would love to help or provide insight. I was in Norway about 9 days and met many people and was in 4 cities. @@NorwegianOpinionI am learning the language for about 1 year now.
Norweigan women are so beautiful
you are great for the updated post with the language =) @@NorwegianOpinion
Those two girls who said that we should normalize men having more social support groups and sharing more with their friends are hella based
I’m russian girl. And I don’t understand why I don’t see comments as “omg so many beautiful girls!”? Why? That’s girls looks amazing!!
Nice girls... but honestly, I really like the interviewer !
Great patience, questions and attention.
Love the wholesomeness of Scandinavian women.. So many stunning values and natural beauty…
Is so nice in this modern age…
That is how they present themselves to fool guys like you.
i find very interesting how friends have almost the same opinion,slightly different but same mindset,you know..
I guess birds of a feather flock together? If you're familiar with that expression.
Communication is key and everything but can only do so much if the other side doesn't respect limits and is constantly trying to push the partner to be something he or she is not.
In these cases very often one side comes to that mentioned outcry: "I don't want to be with you anymore." or is ghosting or worse.
It took me a few relationships, with women from different cultures and backgrounds, an abusive marriage, an ugly divorce and traumatic fight for child care to learn when and how to say no and to stand by it.Similar story with most of my family, friends and colleagues in recent years. It's like a plague once you dive into the dirty details.
There's too much dishonesty on both sides because that mentioned "subconsciousness" tells us something very different than social expectations, norms, beliefs, stereotypes, tropes have burned into our minds. Up to the point that I can't be bothered with "active" dating anymore. I just want to be allowed to be me, feel free and have a laugh. Call it post midlife crisis in the 30s xD
I've been trying for 4 years to get to know a woman in Norway and they dont want to laugh or enjoy life with a partner. It was weird how women weren't socializing
From my experience they are beautiful and great personality...
"GUYS i took the co00k carousel.. now i m ready to settle down "
youve spent too much time online buddy
Im always so curious about the requirement of havin goals in life. i wonder what this actually means because if someone has certain desires and tries to achieve it, if thats still cool. it seems what they really mean is provide riches and things like that, so its not about having goals in general, but one specific goal
I think it is about having a guy that has more interests than gaming stoned
@@yellowstoneisthecoolestparkeve stoned gamers dont get girls, so this doeant make sense. These two are mutually exclusive
that`s what is wrong with this world@@fetB
You can also make a video by yourself, on "most common female/male names in Norway".
I know of several Astrid too, besides Astrid Smeplass.
Sounds like a great idea! Yes, the Norwegian singer. You like her music?
@@NorwegianOpinion haha I like the actress Josefine Frida Pettersen. Skam is just a TV show for tenngers....
@@Aidan_Au Yes I know. Almost every teenager in Norway watched that show :)
Yeah, well other guys who do the same thing, interviewing women, spend much less time on them. You gave the women a chance to not only answer the question at hand but to say why. Which is really important to understand the reason. Then we can start to understand women. Thanks, very cools. Keep it up.
Thank you! Really appreciate the compliment 🙏
There seems to be a need to keep AND break tradition at the same time, if you look at their opinions and values. However, that was only a small part of what was said. Even though I'm too old and out of the romantic picture, I was actually optimistic about the future for young people after watching this video. Many of their opinions were practical and useful to help relationships grow. I wish everybody said these things. They were attractive looking women. Also, I really liked everything Mia said, she was really great! And Rigmor was funny, definitely a good laugh to spend time with. I liked them all.
Well that was a nice random video to appear😁
This just makes me want to move back to Norway even more.
I'm coming with u.
@@JK-gu3tl Lol then you're studying in the Norwegian military with me as well 🤣🤣
@@natibot Norway isn't world police, fine by me.
@@natibotlook at how beautiful Norway looks when they are strict on migrants in unlike Sweden which is becoming a mini Asia and Africa
@@eosohand Yes, problem is that people with citizenship in other Nordic countries, can freely come and go as they please in Norway. Immigrants that's gotten a citizenship in Sweden, can live in Norway, Finland, Denmark and Iceland whenever they want to because of the treaty.
I can go and live in Denmark if I choose just with my Norwegian citizenship. Right now I live in Italy, and have an Italian citizenship which unlocks a lot of EU countries that I can move to live in if I want to in the future.
I'm 34 (German) and have never had a girlfriend. I don't get to know women and people in general. I have one close friend but I'm lonely. I'm not able to find friends and women despite living in a big city. My life feels like living on Mars. Some hours ago I visited cinema alone again (98 % of my cinema visits had been without a companion). I'm not happy at all.
Same... I feel your pain.
It´s all about falling in love with yourself and sharing that love with someone who appreciate you, rather than looking for love for a self love deficit!
ding dong; WAKE UP!
To all Men :" Height is important" they said.
Again this i what they said that :"Height is important".
You do realize that all these women (and this applies for all women in every nation) they all say the same thing that height is important.
Looks is very important and they want all these qualities they said they want from THESE men (tall ,handsome and successfull) not from the rest of the average to below average men.
No surprise.
PC: Consequently these interviews that take place quite often for years now are referring to this kind of men not to the average vast majority of men.
also the girl was 184 cm oof, she said she wanted a minimum 10 cm difference good luck finding a 194 cm+ guy. :D
I’m sure shawty jeff bezos and el chapo are not below average my friend
Many short guys are jealous of tall guy’s heights but many tall below average guys are also jealous of short kings’ women. 😂
I signed up for a Norwegian dating website a while ago and I must say Norwegian women are cool, intelligent and honest. They do not discriminate racially. Had an interesting time, haha...
I would love to date a Norwegian girl. Their beauty is undeniable.