Man killed in dispute over not saying 'thank you' at NYC smoke shop
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- Опубликовано: 2 окт 2024
- 'It was just about not saying 'thank you' for opening the door for him,' employee Kharef Alsaidi said. Janice Yu reports. 7ny.tv/3f1kf0p
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If someone is rude to you in public, let them keep their unhappy energy to themselves. Be unbothered & keep it moving. You never know who is crazy. 😢
and IT MIGHT JUST SAVE YOUR LIFE!
💯
Yep
Absolutely!!!!
I'd rather die knowing I did the right thing instead of being a b**** and letting things slide, that's a coward. My death wouldn't be in vain
If you do something out of your kind heart don’t ever expect anything in return, not everyone cares that’s just life ….
Definitely not worth your life-
Ego is not your amigo-
Stay on point people -
Life is truly a gift…
Well said! ✌
Absolutely said it well
“Ego is not your amigo” 🤣
the literal best way to tell someone to get over themselves.
100% Walter!!!
Dont worry people, the AG of NYC is suing Trump for reaestate deals. I guess the rampid crime rate will have to wait. Be careful and defend youself, OOPS I forgot, YOU CANT!!!
My late father was standing in line one day and a young person stepped in front of him saying she was in a hurry and added, “ you look old enough to be retired so I know you have more time to wait”. He admitted his time on this planet was limited and that was a good thing because he’d have less time to deal with rude and entitled people like her.
LOL, good one.
Yeah I may have less time but that dont mean you can disrespect me. I'd have to remove her from the line.
I'd give her a lesson equality with the back of my hand right there if she spoke to an old man like that
@@IkesPimpHand 😅🤣
@@torig.5864 imagine some young (word beginning with c and ending with unt) speaking to your father like that. Lord help me, I'd get put in prison for what i did and enjoy it.
Wait....did he expect someone to tell him "Thank you" in NYC of all places?
😂true
NYC are extremely friendly though. Almost always excuse me, thank you etc. I expected people to be rude. I spent a week in Manhattan, and 2 weeks on Long Island. Almost everyone was friendly. One LYFT driver in Montauk was rude, but generally people were cool.
A lot of men are too emotional and disturbed to the point where any act outside of their " mind" sets them off
gender has zero to do with it..... don't be a feminist simp trying to posture for women
Government funded children
This is what happens when we put pride above humility.
I use to be one of them, however the rare type that could self repair, most will end up dead or shot. They do not know the strength in sitting back and observing non reactively.
Exactly
I’ve held the door open for so many people that at this point it’s become just a habit of mine. This video made me realize that not once have I ever expected a thank you.
What do you want, a cookie?
@@karma4greedyslumlords490 I don't even think you got what the guy said honestly.
@@karma4greedyslumlords490 keyboard warrior alert, hahahaha
@@karma4greedyslumlords490 actually he realizes we do nice things for nothing quite the opposite! This petty man played the game and won!
@@markr1018 Yeahhhhhh....didn't even read your comment dude. You wasted your time 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The "victim" was looking for trouble - the "suspect" was merely defending himself from a lot of aggression. He attacked the "suspect",
followed him outside and tried to prevent him, hands on, from riding off on his bike. Holding the door was simply the aggressor's excuse
to confront someone he thought was weaker. I vote to acquit.
I've been to this smoke shop a handful of times. Beyond shocked at what happened, especially over a "thank you". Gotta be careful about the people you interact with on the streets b/c there are a lot of mentally unstable folks in the city.
But the stabber wasn't unstable. He was being attacked by the unstable.
@@disf5178 exactly
@@disf5178 exactly
@@disf5178 was you there?no u wasn't so shuttfUp
You mean “criminals”
Can’t believe this headline 🤦🏿♂️ people dying and get killed over the stupidest things you can imagine
New america
Bet it has something to do with addiction,that leads to mental illness.
People react on impulse and emotions rather than logic.
Well if you are saying they are black then you need glasses as well as a little lesson. Because black people aren't the only ones out there in the streets or in prison for that matter. Hispanics in which those guys most likely were have played are large part in crime when it come to gangs and drug trafficking. So stop blaming just black people.
A stabbing over not saying thank you??? I blame Trump and Karens and KKK and Proud Boys and White Supremacists and Kyle Rittenhouse and racist police. They always killing black people.
Listen, if you choose to be nice, never expect anything in return, most of the times, being nice will lead to disappointment. It's either be nice, sincere and go on with it or keep to yourself, the latter hurts nobody anyway.
@BOGDAN SERBAN being walked over for years makes it hard to to be nice just for the sake of being nice. But you just gotta learn the difference of being nice and doing favors for people who will never return one. I know I had to learn.
@@yayawawasy This. Just being nice to people in general has helped fight my depression so much. After a while being nice and just smiling can become an amazingly positive habit.
Facts
Well said I learn being kind to people does pay off as time went on I do less keep my distance
Thats why i never help people unless theyre elderly or you know they cant help themselves
This is a self-defense case! The victim was the aggressor!
Ask yourself - why was he wearing slash protectors on both arms?
It’s New York and he on a bike
I have actually had people walking in front of me open a door with barely enough space for their body to get through, dive through the door, then turn around and yank it shut just to eliminate the possibility of me accidentally arriving at even a partially open door.
I just accept that they are stupid and move on.
I am a woman and I hold the door for everyone and men never thank me only women and kids...men here are horrible in NYC. Something ain't right about them.
Not victim blaming but also don't antagonize someone with a weapon as well. The victim was telling that guy "let me see you stab me"
nope , now a days , an Ak-47 shoot-out , is the Norm,
I'm a start doing that
I can't front I've done exactly what you've described . Only when sneaking into the transit station doors though.
The thing that confuses me is that a polite person who holds the door open can also be a psychopath
Easy. Cos some people are not genuine with their "politeness". They actually do polite things expecting something in return. A real polite person just is. He doesn't care what other people do around him or how they react towards him, he is polite anyway.
Yes.. If somone doesn't say "thank you" you don't resort to trying to beat it out of them..?
The one who held the door was killed
☺️ some of the world's most evil psychopaths & sociopaths were described by family & Friends as " the nicest person you could meet" ...
They’re everywhere and they look like normal people but they’re not, they’re democrats.
How come the reporter said she couldn't provide a physical description of the suspect when they are both shown in the video? I'm no homicide detective, but just tell us which one died - I'd think it would be the other one!
Im guessing is cause he’s not white
@Joe H: Ok, so it's not just me! I thought that would be one of the first comments, but nope. The video is pretty clear. It is only a matter of time before someone identifies him.
Because she repeats the same thing everyday.
one in the white shirt
White shirt
When I open a door for someone, it's nice to hear a thank-you. If I don't get that acknowledgement, sometimes I say, "You're welcome" anyway.
You just described National Emotive Therapy. Thank you would be nice but if you don't get it do you - lose money? Stop breathing? Have no place to stay? Once you answer No to all these things the result is oh well I don't need the thanks like I originally thought.
@@drtroyturner7464 Learn how to read and comprehend!
I do the same. Not worth fighting over it tho. That was a little over the top.
The victim looked like he was looking for a fight and got the worst end of it.
When you realize you have a psychopath in front of you.
He did and lost his life in the process smh
I m confused, the victim is the guy in white shirt and he was not the aggressor.
That's what can happen when you try to beat somone into saying " thank you" and prevent them from escaping your assault, and when they pull knife you taunt them and say stab me if you Can? who is the psychopath 🤪
@@mariamaba9220 He was 100% the aggressor go watch the video, guy who got stabbed keep taking swings at the other guy when he was trying to leave, when guy got on his bike to ride away the "victim" attacked him, and he got stabbed twice during his attack on the guy who was trying to leave.
According to the witness, the victim dragged the suspect in and out of the store and would not let the suspect leave. This sounds like 100% self defense.
Yeah bringing a knife 🔪 to a fist fight. Such cowardice is praised nowadays smmfh
@@bronxboroughpresident3608
30 years ago two bullies attacked me in a parking lot. The one that went to the hospital was automatically called the victim. The term victim then and in this case means the one that lose the fight.
@@chaplainsoffice6907 TRUE TRUE TRUE
The victim is the guy who defended himself.
The thug who assaulted him is dead.
Works for me!
Yes it is 100%.
I was having a conversation yesterday with a client about people not holding doors open for others and people not saying thank you for things. I said it bothers me but it doesn’t stop me from doing it. I can’t imagine getting into a fight that leads to death over something so minor. You can’t go back and rewrite this.
Thank you!!! Finally someone that gets it!!! He caused this himself!! Was it REALLY necessary to open your his mouth!! 🙄🤡 And look where it got him, the morgue!
@@AnastasiaBeaverhousn I still feel sorry for the victim but I agree that it really isn’t worth getting into an argument over someone not saying ‘thank you’. Some people don’t have any manners and you just have to shake your head sometimes and keep moving
Yes, he was a victim of his own actions.. if he was such a nice courteous guy then why Physically attact the guy for not saying thank you.. Just leave it.. Then when the guy pulled the knife he taunted him Saying stab Me If you can! then falls into store screaming He stabbed me ,, He stabbed me 🙄
You ppl have major issues if you’re gonna side with a murderer over something petty as this smh
Why does it bother you?
'No good deed goes unpunished.' Truer than it ever was.
You been watching the gentlemen 😂😂😂
Amen!!!!
He didn't get stabbed for opening the door for someone. He got stabbed for physically attacking a stranger for not saying "thank you". How do people not understand that from this story? The "victim" is the aggressor.
More like, Fuck around and find out
*Mental Health Is Important*
*SMH*
Unfortunately mental health in America is a thing of the past.
It's not always mental health...some people have SOCIALIZATION skills, as well as lack impulse control. Anger management is also a factor. The environment, say, an abusive, dysfunctional household, imprisonment, physical abuse, etc. also shapes one's behavior. EVERYONE can't just be crazy; way too many. It's just not that common.
Only if individuals have brains...to begin with
Exactly🎯💯
Racial separation is more important.
To be very honest, the guy in the white shirt (the one killed who held the door open) was a complete aggressor and provoked the stabber multiple times and caused the whole physical fight between them. He picked the wrong one to physically attack that day and lost his life because of it.
I was thinking the same thing. Victim was escalating while suspect was trying to just take off at that point. RIP to him but he def also brought it on himself.
He had good intentions at first, but it was poorly executed. He let his ego get the best of him and somehow picked the right wrong guy.
Shortly, mess around and find out
@@Mssister00 The world has that sweetie, it’s not America exclusive. But believe what you’d like. Evil exists where it can.
That's the wrong attitude, and honestly critical thinking is more of a hindrance in today's age than anything. If you are in a life or death situation, just call the police and kindly ask the aggressor to hold off until the proper authorities arrive.
There is no reason for any man to carrying a knife. Cowards defend themselves with knives. Plus what is it to simply say "I'm sorry Thank you." What a way to lose a life and to ruin a life. 25 to life for murder over a thank you.
Man died for expecting gratitude. Give it out don't expect it in return. Rest in peace
no man died for NOT giving thanks/ not vice versa
@@lissiflores2262 I think you got it wrong
@@lissiflores2262 The employee is the thug looking creep with the stupid looking armbands is the one who wanted the thank you and got up in the customer's face....Looks like a clear case of self defense.
@@lissiflores2262 listen to the story again and pay attention next time
@@kemolowlow - The guy with white rags wrapped around his arms challenged the guy with a knife. Said I'll kill you without a knife. Oh well he lost. One less psycho in NY.
Be nice to people without expectations. This was so avoidable. Self-defense!!!
Avoidable you mean.
Avoidable
Your comment was avoidable.
NYC doesn't have self defence laws like other parts of the country. THe guy who did the s@bbing WILL BE CHARGED as soon as they find him.
Definitely self defense. Dude who got stabbed started the arguement, started getting physical, wouldn’t let him leave, he got what was coming to him.
My neighbor and his wife threatened me. I stopped talking to them for over a year. They now hold open the door every time they see me. I force myself to say thank you each time. I’m not victim blaming but ppl are so unstable since the panini. I think it’s best not to add fuel to the fire. RIP to this man.
Since the toasted sandwich?
@Gratitude Griot? Force? Well maybe they feel bad they threaten you. You know remorseful?
Paninis definitely are different now
What?
Yeah, I'm never eating another panini .
If you expect something in return for doing something for another...then you are doing it for the wrong reason
Absolutely...
Pretty much sums it up.
Yap. The "i do it yet nobody appreciate me" is a line I tell people to stop using. If ypu decide to help do it and keep it moving.
I heard this from a wise man, You bless others and look to God for a reward. Most of the time you are repaying all of the blessing the lord has already gave you.
“Tic for Tac” as my Dad says at times
The guy who got stabbed looks and seems like the instigator in this situation.
I held the door open for a guy once and he said to me "F you I can do it myself"
I never expect a thank you when I do something for someone. You will be horribly let down if you have expectations for people.
You never get dissapointments when u have no expectations. True that
Well said…..Old saying, If you expect, expect to be disappointed…..
@@bertdom5707 I do expect a thank you if I do something kind for someone and when I don’t get a thank you I won’t do it again.
You can get fairly disappointed in expectations of your own behavior.
Then, why even do it? Where are you a sheep
Sounds like he provoked his own death 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ we gotta control our temper!!!!
EXACTLY
True. If no one appreciates what sometimes we do for others, we must not expect a thank you.
@@carloswater7 and dont keep giving to people thats going to continue to hurt u
Yet people making him the victim
@@msunje9862 Like who?
Won't say thank you but will shank you...
Bars....
😂😂
No good deed goes unpunished.
@Wockhardt_Warlock
well in the meantime,,,,, NO GOOD DEED GOES UNPUNISHED.
@Wockhardt_Warlockno u don't understand. The dude in the white held the door, dude in black didn't say thank u. Dude in white starts the argument and got killed. So yea no Good Deed Goes Unpunished.
What was the good deed 2 seconds of door holding or screaming in the man’s face as he tried to walk away? Maybe it was a hate crime yeah let’s go with that and even more let’s pretend we can’t see fear on the face of one and anger on the other. I didn’t ask you to hold my door nor do I need you too. I got beat into being polite as a kid tho so I don’t give a duck what someone does I thank them out of fear of my mothers backhand
We living in a nasty world rude people out there it's sad
Something has to give in this 2020's decade, cause this is the worst one yet.
So true. Very uncultured individuals living in our society lacking basic socialization skills and respect. 😞 Sad that this tragedy occurred; RIP to the deceased.
Absolutely just yesterday I waited 20 minutes to cross a tiny street there was traffic up ahead and a red light but they would not move their cars a few inches to just let me pass...it's just Me first society. Such pigs...20 minutes to cross the street 😖
Did eyewitness news just make you realize that?
Ppl don’t owe you nothing out here. Get over yourself
I'm usually too busy to even WAIT for a thank u. I only hold door open as a courtesy and I always say thank u when they hold it for me bc its how we should treat ppl regardless. What a stupid thing to die over.
It does feel disrespectful when you hold the door for someone and they walk through without acknowledging you. But it’s not worth getting into a fight over
Yeah it's kind of awkward. I usually don't care if they say thank you or not
You can't always expect everyone to be kind even if you do a good deed for them that's just the way it is, this was so senseless.
Exactly!
It ain't a good deed if you want a reward
It's just better not to expect a thank you for doing a good deed. Rude, unhappy people are not going to make or break me!
Just watched the video and they did not even identify which was the one who got stabbed, I'm assuming its the guy without the backpack but what do I know. Then she reports they still don't have a physical description. Say what! There is a clear video. Reporting these days never likes to actually report the needed info. Someone was killed we have video but we don't need to report who's who....
I think the one in the white shirt died
They said the messenger had a knife on his bike the dude with the backpack I'd assume was the messenger
Exactly. Terrible reporting. She was stumbling through that whole story. Like she don't know what the fucc goin on.
This news story reporting was really confusing. I like to think I'm pretty smart but I didn't understand it!
You can see the knife in the right hand of the guy in the backpack
Putting your hands on anyone for any reason may result in your demise. Best to stay in your own lane until you really have to defend yourself or someone else from evil.
Exactly. That was uncalled for. He didn't owe him anything for opening that door. He should have kept it moving and went on about his day. Instead, he wanted to teach him a "lesson", but the joke was on him.
in 1985 when i was 21 I bumped into a young black guy in the mall..i am white by the way, just part of the story....neither of us wanted to move out of the way and we collided shoulder to shoulder somewhat....he looked in his late teens, but was way smaller then me....i went into a store and about 5 minutes later i was met by the kid i bumped into and an older black male who was about 40....the older male said to me "You bumped into my friend and I want you to say your sorry to him"....I got a bad feeling about this and said I was sorry....the older male said "Thank God"....and they left me....looking back years later I do believe that could have been my death day by either a gun or knife....at the end of the day it is not worth marking your territory so to speak against someone who you will never see again...
@@daisymae3883looks like he didn't open the door out of kindness, but to purposely start a fight. Why was he wearing slash protectors on his arms?
When I’m in NY, I don’t speak, give no eye contact and keep moving. The wolves are out 🙏
Facts
You better, see the twinkle in killers eyes and knife in his hand, must be alert, look at ppl face don’t be scared , if I don’t do that I’m easy target
You just described they type that wolves hunt, the unaware. Always look at potential problems. That how you avoid getting robbed or pushed in the train tracks.
Don't forget the ravens
That's nice in theory... but then some bum goes "DONT IGNORE ME" and there's a problem anyway. Stay armed, stay vigilant.
I swear these headlines keep getting funnier and funnier. Sad situation but still wtf lmao
I'm upset that she's reporting a story that she doesn't have pertinent details about. This is poor. She couldn't tell us the gentlemen's name, or point out who was who in the video.
Journalism died years ago.
They don't have the information yet.
Exactly.
She’s just reporting what was handed to her.
If these reporters had good inside NYPD sources which today they don't - but they did "back in the day" - they would have the details they need. I'm betting few reporters have good relations with NYPD beyond the public information office, due to the adversarial way the media has been acting in recent years.
You just never know what a man has in his mind...ppl have suppressed rage ...be kind to ppl and if they reciprocate cool if not keep being kind...dont disappoint yourself from a stranger...its not personal. A sad situation. 🙏🏽
keep it str8 movin
Also saying thank you for someone opening a door is kinda dumb it's just a nicety not many people actually need you to open the door for them it's just nice to see people being nice to one another...then he starts a fight over it.
especially men. they are unskilled with their emotions.
@@grawakendream8980 this is a fact...most men dont have experience in emotional intelligence 💯💯
@@red_words i see no lies told here 💯
Fighting over something so dumb and stupid
He obviously wanted to find a reason to hurt the guy...
Black culture at its finest.
I guess democrats will have one less vote this year... no wait, I forgot everyone votes democrat after death.
Another case of someone getting killed over "disrespect".
I hold the door open for people all the time out of respect and being raised the right way. Thank you is not needed for me. GOD always blessed me daily.💯👍🙏🏾🙏🏾
People are crazy! Even if you stay to yourself the violence has a way of finding you.
Well Said
He started the fight so 🤡🙄
The problem is the victim didn’t stay to himself. He was the aggressor.
I always hold doors and say, “thank you,” and “you’re welcome.” Also, it sounds like self defense according to the witness.
this is how you become a doormat
@@chuckiegravesfield3170 This doesn't even make any sense lol
The killer left the store to get his knife from his scooter and returned to the store to stab the guy who demanded the "Thank You!"
Killer could've gone elsewhere to let the situation cool down, but decided it was his imperative to stab the aggressive guy who demanded the "Thank You!"
@@oahuhawaii2141if I’m reading the situation right the guy in blue has a knife and tried to use it in their scuffle. Guy in white just came back to fight him after almost getting stabbed. It really turned into revenge after inflated egos.
@TWCIntellistar No, it doesn’t.
A gentleman never asks for thanks. He simply does his duty, no matter what.
Imagine being such an insecure, pathetic person to want to fight someone over not saying thank you. Some people have overly fragile egos.
Bigger lesson to be learned dummy
@@zenithofcourse5369 Are you defending that fragile ego person who fought someone over not saying thank you?
@@hogant.551 More ASSumptions…you really are a dummy.
Two people on video fighting. One is dead. And, the news cannot describe the one that is wanted? (PS...it's the one not dead). How lame is reporting in our country that I have to go to Sky News for real journalism.
And then she started stumbling over her words like she went off script. She was all over the place...smh
I mean it annoys me too sometimes when people don’t say thank you after I hold the door for them, but I’m not going to bring it up. It’s not required for you to hold it for anyone anyways. They can simply get their own door of course. Sadly you can’t trust anybody these days in terms of their character. Makes you wonder what could’ve been had the victim not brought it up. May he RIP. Condolences to his friends and family. Too many sick people out there.
no one owes you anything for things they didnt ask you to do. you offer and I ignored you and went about my business then whats the issue... not because you give, you should be praised for giving. open the door , hold the door open, and move the heck on... its that simple
If it annoys. You stop doing it you're not required to hold a door for anyone. Dooofus
I hold doors open “for MY convenience,” and not because I want to or even expect anyone else to speak “meaningless words,” which are empty platitudes.
@@bjvu9460 with the situation that happen, who knows what it may have led to next. For instants, " why you close the door in my face" and so on
@@bjvu9460 well that the problem, the guy felt slighted when the homeless guy asked for a thank you, instead of moving on getting his smokes and leaving, he went out and got a knife to stab the homeless guy. He can't control his emotions or feelings so no he's going to prison.
Man I’ve held the door sometimes & people don’t say thank you. It bothers me but I make no big deal about it and just go on with my day. I will continue to hold the door for people if the situation presents itself. Doesn’t ruin my day honestly life is too short for this nonsense.
Don't hold the door open for someone if that's how you think. If you expect something for doing something like this you ain't had the right intentions in it to begin with.
“YO YOU NOT GON SAY THANK YOU”
Nah im good
👊🏾💢
Lmaoooo "nahhhhhh I'm good" lololol
You diss a specking me. You finta gets deez hands fo dissing ons me likes dat. 🤣😭 Our race is finished.
The stabbing victim apparently had serious mental issues, so this was more than just about someone not saying thank you. Some people will try to force themselves on you by opening doors or other gestures and they are aggressive if they don't get the response they want. This sounds like a tragic case of self defense if I understood the fuzzy commentary correctly.
Manners cost nothing!
They may both have mental health issues. They knew each other from a shelter nearby. It appears the suspect left the shop, went out to his bike, got his knife and went back in and stabbed the victim. That’s pre-meditation, not self defense.
@@padgecrack4018 Not a reason to argue about it, numb nuts.
FYI, the killer left the store to fetch a knife from his scooter and returned to stab the guy who demanded a "Thank You!"
Killer could've gone elsewhere to let the situation cool down; instead, he decided it was his imperative to stab the aggressive guy who demanded the "Thank You!"
I used to be very offended and upset whenever I would open or hold a door open and the person didn't thank me. I've learned that I do the things that I do because it's who I am and I would want the same treatment. I've also recognized, that everyone's different and there are more than one person that you don't get that thank you..you don't however allow it to influence how you feel and respond. The suspect, I felt for him, but at the same time the fact that he put that much energy and power into two mere words is an indication that he has serious anger issues.
I have never once commented to someone that did not say thank you when I held the door. Its sad 😔 that he lost his life over this.
But it seems that that the victim just wouldn’t let it go
yeah its pretty petty, are you holding the door cause you want to be nice or cause you want to hear a thank you?
You a survivor keep up the good work
It's like folks carnt find enough things to fight over. What a Total waste. Just because of a door. This is getting crazier and crazier.😳
It's rude but certainly not something to kill someone over. Not something to even hit someone over either. You just ignore it and move on because there's always going to be bitter people in this world.
Their is a guy walks his pitbull outside and inside, in around our building with no leash. A full grown pitbull mind you. The pitbull almost always runs up to you. So far seemingly playful but jumps up and puts his paws on you to pat it. My thing is I don't always feel like being bothered or jumped on by the dog. So the other day I ask the guy hey can you get your dog. He muttered something smart as if I should just let his dog jump on me. I reply you need to have that dog on a leash. He says he doesn't put him on one although he had a leash in his hand maybe just for decoration or if the police happens by.. My first thought was stand there and to argue with the guy. But I kept walking. Moral to story. People are selfish idiots . But if you get into it with every idiot your bound to have a situation that could escalate to something more unnecessary and serious. And he is definitely not worth it
I feel for you. People should have leashes on their dogs when they're out in public. I don't care how "friendly" your dog is. There's always a first time for things to go left.
Don't hold the door for someone if you do so to get a thank you. Do so because you are a polite and considerate person. I never needed a thank you.
The victim was homeless. Everyone in the comments keeps talking about the guy as though he were a regular citizen with a normal level of thick social skin -- He wasn't.
"Thank you" Saying those 2 words would have saved a life.
Too many fragile men out there. Not everyone is going to be polite or thank you for your help. Now you killed someone because you wanted a reward. 🤦♂️
Actually you're wrong. The guy that wanted a thank you was killed by the thug that didn't say thank you.
And you need to thank Roy for correcting you
Re-watch the video coz you got it all wrong. As per Ray's comment here.
Who expects a thank you in NYC anyway.
He got killed because he wanted a reward. You are right not everyone is going to thank you, so don't hold the door if you are expecting one. Do it because you are a good person. Also if you don't get a thank you, don't beech and confront the person. Just go about your way.
I remember decades ago I lived with a family overseas for 6 months. They were so very nice to me and I would thank them each time they did something for my comfort (e.g. bring tea, water, food, blanket, etc.) After awhile they revealed to me that they thought it was too formal and just totally unnecessary. It was hard for me to change because saying “thank you” had been ingrained in me since childhood. Now, as I interact with people around the city, I always keep in mind there might be cultural differences.
Chinese or what country?
@@Nandinandito It was a North African Arabic speaking country.
Yeah. Alot of people don't know how to receive kindness as they've never experienced it which is sad tbh. They take it as someone wanting something from them or being in genuine... or like you say too formal or unnecessary. I think it's very necessary
@@sakkysha5496 oh interesting! Thanks!
It's still best to err on the side of safety and keep saying "Thank you" to all who do you a courtesy.
That door will slam in your face if you think I'm going to hold it open for you in NYC.
Just a question...why wouldn't you open the Door for me though I live in NY...what is it about the people that I need to kno about 🤨😳
@@prophecygloryentertainment5805 Just how you worded the question " open the door for me " sounds entitled and someone that won't say thank you.
Exactly 😂
@@prophecygloryentertainment5805 open your own door munchy
Most people will hold the door for you and i will do the same, except for those times when my mind is miles away, and then I will apologize to the person
but remember black lives matter
The news reporters are horrible, zero mention that the killer tried to leave on his bike but the man who held the door wouldn't let him go and actually pushed the bike down on the floor. This was a self defense case 100% and the killer shouldn't have any charges
Right. I'm not sure why half the comments are confused about who the k i l l e r is and why was it done
this is why you never trust the mainstream media. always manipulative and full of 💩
Eyewitness news and Janice Yu don't care. It's just business for them
She said it ,she said the victim was peventing the other guy from taking his bike
There’s no self defense law in New York
I actually can't believe what this world has come too. People getting ticked off over the most trivial things...
Maybe he should of quit opening doors for people if it was affecting him so much.
Gosh, I was married to her for 20 years. I never knew what would trigger her. It's called Borderline Personality Disorder. You just never know when you will tangle with a nut case.
A homeless person was outside a grocery store begging for money saying she was hungry, I told her to go to the deli and get what she wants, I paid for it, she said thank you. I wasn’t looking for a thank you, I did it because a fellow human being was hungry. God bless her🙏
Great story. But for future reference, that emoticon that everyone thinks are praying hands is really a high five. I know, I know, I thought the same thing.
There's still hope for HUMANITY, Amen !!! 👑💞👑🥰
I'm thirsty 😩
Can we go buy a 6 pack
We can share
@@masterjedi6424 Well, it definitely depends on what is culturally agree upon. To most it’s being thankful or blessed. I mean this isn’t an eggplant 🍆 is it? This is high-five 🙌🏾 Sorry
@@jasonluis8895 Clearly that two hand emoji is raising the roof.
And the small talk people call me an asshole. Go where you're going and I'll go where i'm going, no conversation is needed.
I hold the door for people all the time and I never expect a thank you. Sometimes we just have to humble ourselves. Not everyone on this planet is sane or even logical. People kill for little to no reason. Not worth your life. Not in this day an age in New York. It is best to avoid almost all types of confrontation. This is what happens when 2 bad energies collide
I can't stand bitter angry people
Then stay away from brown people. They're always on the news for these sorts of things.
I cant stand weak ppl
You sound bitter dude, can you stand yourself?
its best not to mess with them or you might end up stabbed ...Z
SAY IT FOR THE PPL IN THE BACK
If you can’t do it from the heart, don’t do it…from lending money to holding doors to doing favors. It is absolutely rude for people not to show manners, please and thank you but when it’s from the heart, you get all the gratification you need.
Killing someone doesn't seem very polite either.
This is really Pathetic...No one deserves to die over something so petty however, I do notice people these days find it so difficult to utter...A thank you, I'm sorry (not Victim blaming) These are words of gesture that go a long way...
The victim was the aggressor watch the video again
He opened door while pulling smaller victim if he didn't stab that guy.. it was just a matter of time before he slammed into the glass.
No one deserves to die for assaulting physically someone who didn’t say thank you? How about no one deserves to get beaten up for being impolite or having a bad day.
wow what's up with New York people I wanted to visit and live there but if it's like this I'm good
Imagine losing your life over a "thank you". I always hold the door, and if they don't thank me, I just say, "No problem" and continue with my day
I don't even say anything or expect a thank you when i just hold door open for ppl.. I really don't mind if I don't get a thank you but there's lots ppl out there who want a thank you or they'll call you rude or talk behind your back .. it's just holding a door open for a sec for god's sake
Still petty. Why open your mouth at all? You're subconsciously provoking an argument because you're sensitive af.
Yea this world now a days ain't Kansas anymore. Ppl trip over dumb things, I just keep my mouth shut I'm in and out and I worry about me and my family. We all live in a cruel world reminds me of Sin City or Gotham. Smh
@@markcormier5750 Facts, brother. No reason to start something with an absolute stranger.
@@markcormier5750 It ain't the world bro, it's just us.
Young people are not entitled to anything. Age doesn't give anyone that right. Alot of people work hard to get where they are. Younger generation should be respectful. It is how you are raised.
Moral of the story “don’t be a bodega door man”
They hired kidnapper as sales associate, his resume tells he force people to buy all the products or else
Moral of the story, just say thank you
moral of the story, stay out of NY
That's just crazy 🙄
Fighting someone for a "Thank you".
If they don't say thank you, just Keep it moving. I hold doors for a lot of ppl... and not everyone saying thank you.
(Some do; but not all)
It doesn't take anything from me;
If they don't say it.... Nor does it make me a better person; if they do say it.
I was just raised to behave that way, Bcuz it's the right thing to do 🤷🏽
A lot of times they are holding the doors hoping for some change and when they don't get any they get angry, it is like a guy cursing out a woman who won't give him her number.
One thing I have learnt in New York never hold a door for anyone,they either cuss you or tell they can hold it themselves. The most I'll mannerd people is the people living in New York,just mind your own business and go your way ,ilitrate they are ,most of them any way .
That's not entirely true. I live in NYC and have held doors plenty of times for people and people have held doors for me. I have never had anyone curse me out or tell me they can hold it themselves, but a few times I've had people not say "thank you"
This is so true so they were not raised right
They will get mad even at that!
Don't get me wrong it would piss me off too if I did something nice for somebody but geez it ain't worth it
Looks like the bald dude felt disrespected for not getting a thank you for holding the door. Long haired guy with the jacket and book bag got the knife and killed the bald guy ?
A stabbing over not saying thank you??? I blame Trump and Karens and KKK and Proud Boys and White Supremacists and Kyle Rittenhouse and racist police. They always killing black people.
Yes..its sad cause that dude was was looking for no trouble but he's going to prison. That's not self defense
He stabbed the guy, if he died that was unintentional. The guy kept dragging the other one that had the knife what did he think was gonna happen
@@Avenue72nd it should be
You smart
Sounds like self defense. Victim was wrong from the gitgo demanding a thank you. After asking for one and not getting one move on. I've held the door open for many people and sometimes never received a thank you. I paid it no attention I express my thoughts mentally not verbally or physically. Then you practically kidnapped the guy by grabbing him and preventing him from leaving. SELF DEFENSE!!
It is a good argument for self defense. The victim would not allow the other to get on his bike and leave. He would not let him go until the stab
What is the world coming to??? This is literally senseless killing…wow… Over a thank you… it’s really a scary world that we live in now…😖
another AMERICANS saying world LOL
Diversity + Proximity = Conflict
This is nothing new people like you need to stop thinking this world is a fairy tale
Senseless killings:
Too much Mayo @ Subway
People are unstable and unhinged. Probably meds that pushes them over the edge and their own bad judgements.
i worked in nyc for 15 years, if you expect politeness in public youre setting yourself up for daily frustration.
When they don’t say thank you just say you’re welcome works like a charm, as for the guy on the white he seemed like the overly aggressive type and thought he could bully the guy in the black who was probably trying to get away smh never underestimate the next man and how far he’s willing to take it…as for the suspect he’s gonna learn manners the hard way now where he’s headed
You're mostly correct, but he's not necessarily headed Upstate.
I don't think a NYC jury would find him guilty.
He did look like he instigated more
If they're rude ASL then that's a red flag💯🤷🏾♀️
That’s terrible! People are nasty these days, worse than ever. Do not hold anyone to a higher expectation so u won’t be disappointed. Their evil these days and won’t ever think twice to murder u. My condolences to the family of the guy who was killed..
So true indeed
are you blind or what ? the guy who died attacked the other guy
It does grind my gears when you open the door for someone and they can't even give you a simple nod or "thank you." I usually just say to them sarcastically, "you're welcome" and keep it moving....
haha I do the exact same thing!!
I'm going to start doing that
@@martinjugolin2087 thats a well common thing. but could easily lead to a sitch just like this
one day someone will turn around and answer your sarcastic az you're welcome right back if you expecting a thank you just don't do it.
I do the same, then they look at you like you're from another planet
Lesson: Always say 'Thank You' when someone holds the door for you.
This is nyc. Nobody knows what simple manners are. I've never walked into a store here anywhere and been greeted in any way shape or form.
I understand it can be aggravating to hold doors open for people with no consideration or even people who have a sense of entitlement or even bias.. so they feel they’re too proud to show grace. But ultimately the act of opening the door for someone else is a true reflection of YOUR character.. and for that?.. you don’t need recognition. The scales will always balance simply for you being a good person.
It's not to be considerate. It's to ask for change after people leave the store. Pretty common.
Honestly, so many people get mad when you hold it for them.
I think the bedt middleground is to use the door, and to give it a little nudge to swing it as wide as possible as you move in to the store.
Saying thank you goes a long way.
Man if I killed every person who didn't say thank you!!!??? Actually, I hold the door open because it was how I was raised. I will say that in my case, the women who say nothing far outweigh men.
being decent an upstanding is a thing that didn't exist in this evilous period
He ended up dying he was better off not saying anything
Shut up
Asking for or expecting thanks can go, as well. Ego often leads to violence.
So the guy who got stabbed was too prideful to thank the person who opened the door for him? what a hill to die on
These smoke shops that they have on every corner now, is filled with negative energy. I just found out that the neighborhood store that I usually buy little nik naks from is selling weed now. I'm not going back there. These shops are just as dangerous if not more dangerous than buying weed from the block boys.
FACTS , and the NYPD is playing security Guard for all of them where I’m at there’s like three on each block for about 4 miles straight
No it males.....
Most of the issues happening now late night are at smoke shops in all kinds of neighborhoods.
Buying weed from the block boys is not dangerous lol
These smoke shops are a disaster
Big time. Been saying that for a while too.
A guy held the door open for me once while I was talking on the phone and I didn’t say thank you (this was the one time I didn’t say thank you, I swear). He got super mad and I was honestly afraid for my life.
You should have stopped the convo and said thank you. That's the worse when someone just stays on the phone. I would have stopped the convo and said thank you. If the person didn't say thank you to me I wouldn't even mention it and definitely no stabbing.
Because of women like you, I no longer hold the door for women under 50. Not because I’m looking for a thank you, but because you can never look up from your phones long enough to acknowledge your surroundings, thanks to the entitlement you believe you deserve.
If you do a Good deed expecting something in return then it's no longer a Good deed
I Use to get Upset and Aggravated at things like People Walking on the Left side, and People Not Saying Thank You, But then I Realized that Many Come from Countries and Cultures that are Raised Differently. So I tend to be More Tolerant now. However, All this Riding Scooters Freely on the Sidewalks,... Zero Tolerance.😡
It's very sad that we have to be more tolerant of other poor manners and strange customs here in America, but that's the way it is here now Unfortunately.
I found out late in my life that there's people who don't know thank you and please. Etc It doesn't mean they bad people, it just means that they don't know better.
The moral of the story here is to do good and forget it but if you do bad remember it.
Peace ya'll !
A good point. These days, many people are not raised to say please or thank you. The words are foreign to them.
"It doesn' t mean they bad people" This got me laughing.
I struggle with Please. :l
"Thank you" and "Sorry" all day, though!
Don’t expect a thank you! in NY cause many have no manners
His entire self worth was wrapped in that thank you.
Now he's dead worth
So we're all wanting to act like kids now huh..