I’ve been called an a-hole, arrogant, rude, ugly, the whole 9…and it be so funny how fast women trying seduce to after you stand on business. The thing is Im a nice guy. I’m just blunt about things and I don’t waste time.
fr . because you are showing that balance and need they need. i am a "kind" guy i hate that word nice guy. but when i say NO or respond to a test with a playful "arrogant" attitude and some teasing they love it. also speakin my mind on things bluntly as u said
Some nice guys may not even see THEMSELVES as sexual beings. And yeah, they’re afraid of negative reactions to them being truthful and honest about how they REALLY see the girl
Most of these nice guys who's scolding men for having a sexual side, always taking the women's side, are often the ones wasting money on Only fans. It's all a facade.
Stop wasting time on time wasters this is a physical and emotional thing and if she’s not reciprocating. Stop hanging around somebody who don’t want you you could be outside talking to 10 other women life is short to be put in the toolbox .
There's a chick that hates me after 5 years because I cut her off as I realized that when she friendzoned me not only was she shaming me for getting attention from other women once I got to college but she was not a benefit at all to my growth
Get someone that adores you. You don’t have to worry about being too nice or mean. The women I’ve messed with didn’t care about none of that. They just wanted me to
Guys listen to this man. I’ve done the whole nice guy shit, dates and I’ve never gotten what I wanted. I’m naturally kind of a dick but a gentlemen and I’ve found when I’m acting in my natural state: I get more. Some can handle it, most can’t. The ones who can’t immediately disqualify themselves and go on about their lives. You should want that. Weeds out the time wasters. And furthermore unless you view her as a future wife of sorts, why are you wasting time courting? Modern women especially younger than 30 will view you as a bitch even if you’re being a gent. Trust me I know
Had a baddie talking ish about my company at my job. Promptly told her she was talking nonsense, kick rocks, and go to another location. She walked out, came back 5 minutes later, gave me her #, and after a week, I got the draws! This Works !!
Rom is right. Most men have been conditioned to do everything they can to stay in a woman’s good graces. I’m glad he brought up the woman will call you names. We often mistake this disapproval or that we’ve done something wrong. It could be quite the opposite.
It took me a long time to cultivate independence from most women's opinions (not perfect, still make mistakes) to now say how I feel and not be ashamed of it. As I look back, I see how being the nice guy was tremendously dishonest and manipulative. So, relatively easy to put the act down once I saw the situation for what it was.
I know a guy who ended up marrying a woman who is leading him, so much so he literally ghosted all his male and female friends and even family members, only hanging out with with his new wife's friends only. 🤷🏾♂️
Thanks Malume ("Uncle" in my native language Zulu) for this video. I would have made a grave mistake had I not listened to this, your counsel is truly valuable.
At 4:22 Yeah..excellent point. I still need to remember this occasionally. I do notice that when you respectfully disagree with a woman and stand your ground they respect you more.
I’m a kind person who has gone through a lot and people always say I have a serious face but I’m working on being more approachable lol I’m a mystery I’ve been told by men and women until they truly get to know me
Reserved it’s a time to be social an a time to shut up be you brother . I grew up introverted I got a lot of girls by being around the wrong crowd . I never cared about game I just say shit when I see it .
Women TAKE NOTE OF MEN WHO SPEAK FIRMLY ON WHAT NEEDS TO BE SPOKEN ON... "RESPECT" - IS THE WAY YOU DEMAND A WOMAN "LOVE" YOU...But, she'll never know WHAT TO RESPECT IN YOU -- if you're TOO AFRAID TO MAKE IT KNOWN...
Funny at 38 I'm still learning , I genuinely like looking out for ppl. It's kinda working against my nature. So I just choose to ignore and be distant. Instead of being an a** I just don't give attention
Every man should watch this video…….everything you said is 100% true. Everytime i went off on a chick she’s been running like a waterfall. Even a good amount are into the whole ddlg thing. They’ll purposely act up or do something to piss you off just to be punished by you. I’ve seen it first hand multiple occasions smh
you have to be your OWN MAN even with the woman you are with. work on those women pleasing tendencies. ironically enough when you stick with your own opinions , thoughts feelings on things even if she dont' agree you actually build better relationships. boundaries are established. human relationships are allowed to be a bit messy /rocky at times. it' a a fantasy to try to make sure everyone around you (women mostly) always feel "ok" around you. oh she can't get mad or disagree i can't say what i really feel. it's key to being a "nice" guy to still be your own man.
Waaaaay too many broken people out there to be rolling out niceties to just anyone. You'll get trampled all over.. If they're chasing Tyrone/Chad/Pookie all day long, it's their language they identify with. 🤷🏽♂️ Don't listen to a word they say, look at their histories and watch what they react to. #savage
I like a leader and has his own mind. But u can't be saying no just to act macho... Please use your mind first. Don't be emotionally controlled. But if a man has a thought process, principals and is consistent in the way he moves and I say something that is crazy and I get wisely corrected and affirms his care for me still wellllllll it's over! I want this so bad. I don't want to argue cuz I would see he used his mind and would force me to consider he might be right or there are different things I didn't consider. And plus he doesn't disrespect me as well. He needs self respect first. ❤
For some reason after hearing this it reminds me of someone comparing p diddys apology video and the game is game guy apology video p diddy was most likely faking it to get attention and sympathy whilst the game is game guy admitted and said he will do it again and I respected the game is game guy more
Im just nice by nature ,even if they overstep their boundaries with me i leave it in gods hands and reap the benefits of it im still gonna be nice whether they like it or not,,, its their demon ,their problem, not me ,im fine kindness could get you far in life ,little do they know ,its such a frivolous thing to worry about .
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Easy, have some grit and a backbone! Its not bad to be a good person but just don't let people walk over you!
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Being a “nice guy” & a good person isn’t the same
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@@brianmorris2533 true i say kind is different than nice. some "nice guys" are using a game tactic. some are kind but need to develop that backbone.
I’ve been called an a-hole, arrogant, rude, ugly, the whole 9…and it be so funny how fast women trying seduce to after you stand on business. The thing is Im a nice guy. I’m just blunt about things and I don’t waste time.
fr . because you are showing that balance and need they need. i am a "kind" guy i hate that word nice guy. but when i say NO or respond to a test with a playful "arrogant" attitude and some teasing they love it. also speakin my mind on things bluntly as u said
Never forgo authenticity. Even if you gotta stand on a island by yourself, don't fold. 🦍"F*ck the world if they can't adjust"
Deep Brother 💪🏾
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Amen
Some nice guys may not even see THEMSELVES as sexual beings. And yeah, they’re afraid of negative reactions to them being truthful and honest about how they REALLY see the girl
Most of these nice guys who's scolding men for having a sexual side, always taking the women's side, are often the ones wasting money on Only fans. It's all a facade.
It disturbs me how many men pay for only fans undercover. These really are the same people who portray themselves as the complete opposite.
You either die a hero, or live long enough to see yourself become the villain
Villainy is inevitable.
The absence of “nice women” should show you the loop hole of nice guy syndrome
You have to be able to walk away
Stop wasting time on time wasters this is a physical and emotional thing and if she’s not reciprocating. Stop hanging around somebody who don’t want you you could be outside talking to 10 other women life is short to be put in the toolbox .
There's a chick that hates me after 5 years because I cut her off as I realized that when she friendzoned me not only was she shaming me for getting attention from other women once I got to college but she was not a benefit at all to my growth
Get someone that adores you. You don’t have to worry about being too nice or mean. The women I’ve messed with didn’t care about none of that. They just wanted me to
Facts. But the hard part is finding that somebody that will absolutely adore you.
@@grownupcaillou2685Yes that’s the hard part 😂
Guys listen to this man. I’ve done the whole nice guy shit, dates and I’ve never gotten what I wanted. I’m naturally kind of a dick but a gentlemen and I’ve found when I’m acting in my natural state: I get more. Some can handle it, most can’t. The ones who can’t immediately disqualify themselves and go on about their lives. You should want that. Weeds out the time wasters. And furthermore unless you view her as a future wife of sorts, why are you wasting time courting? Modern women especially younger than 30 will view you as a bitch even if you’re being a gent. Trust me I know
Women didn’t like I challenge them or had a mind of my own. I could tell they respected I have a back bone
There's no power in being a nice guy and being a nice guy leads to destruction.
LMAOO I got called ass hole an arrogant and lost women before oh well . 😂
We aren't supposed to agree with everybody on everything anyway. How are you two different people, and you do that (agree with everything)?
Wow, needed this advice!
Had a baddie talking ish about my company at my job. Promptly told her she was talking nonsense, kick rocks, and go to another location. She walked out, came back 5 minutes later, gave me her #, and after a week, I got the draws! This Works !!
😂😂 ayo
I don’t believe this at all
@@jgadonisspeaks I stayed with that broad for 2 years, she had a Phatty!
@jgadonisspeaks why lol
Rom is right. Most men have been conditioned to do everything they can to stay in a woman’s good graces. I’m glad he brought up the woman will call you names. We often mistake this disapproval or that we’ve done something wrong. It could be quite the opposite.
I found that having principles and sticking to them helped me avoid the friend zone/nice guy category. Good stuff, Uncle Rom! Peace and blessings!
Folks, this is the game, right there!
It took me a long time to cultivate independence from most women's opinions (not perfect, still make mistakes) to now say how I feel and not be ashamed of it. As I look back, I see how being the nice guy was tremendously dishonest and manipulative. So, relatively easy to put the act down once I saw the situation for what it was.
I know a guy who ended up marrying a woman who is leading him, so much so he literally ghosted all his male and female friends and even family members, only hanging out with with his new wife's friends only. 🤷🏾♂️
Sincere friendships. Forget the fake.
You can avoid the nice-guy perception by being a little cocky in a playful way. Nice men don’t challenge women and dislike disagreeing.
Keep telling the Truth Rom. The young guys really need to hear your voice crying out in the wilderness.
You have to stand on your square 10 toes down
great segment, the fastest way to turn a woman off is to be that guy she can cry on his shoulder.
Thanks Malume ("Uncle" in my native language Zulu) for this video. I would have made a grave mistake had I not listened to this, your counsel is truly valuable.
At 4:22 Yeah..excellent point. I still need to remember this occasionally. I do notice that when you respectfully disagree with a woman and stand your ground they respect you more.
Standing on business
Blessings OG, you’re a true asset to the young ones out here
Yes sir. On point again fam. There are only two categories. friend zone or the end zone.
I hate when a dude starts talking with a woman, about another man! So corny
I’m a kind person who has gone through a lot and people always say I have a serious face but I’m working on being more approachable lol I’m a mystery I’ve been told by men and women until they truly get to know me
Reserved it’s a time to be social an a time to shut up be you brother . I grew up introverted I got a lot of girls by being around the wrong crowd . I never cared about game I just say shit when I see it .
Thanks ROM 👍
I was 16 when I 1st said no to a woman. It got easier from there
I've been watching your videos for a couple years now but this one really changed me
Great advice!! You can be good and also tough no one likes a lay down.
I Been Watching you about a year.You drop Gems.LOVE YOUR CONTENT.KEEP PUSHING O.G..
Women TAKE NOTE OF MEN WHO SPEAK FIRMLY ON WHAT NEEDS TO BE SPOKEN ON... "RESPECT" - IS THE WAY YOU DEMAND A WOMAN "LOVE" YOU...But, she'll never know WHAT TO RESPECT IN YOU -- if you're TOO AFRAID TO MAKE IT KNOWN...
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Funny at 38 I'm still learning , I genuinely like looking out for ppl. It's kinda working against my nature. So I just choose to ignore and be distant. Instead of being an a** I just don't give attention
Right on time uncle Rom, be blessed 🔥
Peace and blessings to you brother rom enjoy your day ✌🏾🙏🏾
Being too nice kills the vibes honestly.
First comment!
Looking great, Uncle
The timing of this video could not have come at a better time for me. Thank you so much for the insight and content.
Thanks for everything you do man
Every man should watch this video…….everything you said is 100% true. Everytime i went off on a chick she’s been running like a waterfall. Even a good amount are into the whole ddlg thing. They’ll purposely act up or do something to piss you off just to be punished by you. I’ve seen it first hand multiple occasions smh
The term is used both positively and negatively. Find the middle ground😂 and don't be afraid to make adjustments where necessary.
Simple yet great advice 🤙🏾
you have to be your OWN MAN even with the woman you are with. work on those women pleasing tendencies. ironically enough when you stick with your own opinions , thoughts feelings on things even if she dont' agree you actually build better relationships. boundaries are established. human relationships are allowed to be a bit messy /rocky at times. it' a a fantasy to try to make sure everyone around you (women mostly) always feel "ok" around you. oh she can't get mad or disagree i can't say what i really feel. it's key to being a "nice" guy to still be your own man.
Great advise Rom 👏🏿 👏🏿👏🏿
The last dude you should be is the shoulder to cry on
Needed this for work, thank you!
Another Uncle Rom Classic! Fire game as usual 🔥🔥🔥
No lies detected!😉👊🏾👍🏾
Yup at 4:53. Facts.
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Waaaaay too many broken people out there to be rolling out niceties to just anyone. You'll get trampled all over..
If they're chasing Tyrone/Chad/Pookie all day long, it's their language they identify with.
🤷🏽♂️
Don't listen to a word they say, look at their histories and watch what they react to.
#savage
I like a leader and has his own mind. But u can't be saying no just to act macho... Please use your mind first. Don't be emotionally controlled. But if a man has a thought process, principals and is consistent in the way he moves and I say something that is crazy and I get wisely corrected and affirms his care for me still wellllllll it's over! I want this so bad. I don't want to argue cuz I would see he used his mind and would force me to consider he might be right or there are different things I didn't consider. And plus he doesn't disrespect me as well. He needs self respect first. ❤
Dude, I hope you’re feeling better.
Great video rom appreciate your value
No lies detected Unc!!
For a woman a nice guy is a tool to get some errands done.
For some reason after hearing this it reminds me of someone comparing p diddys apology video and the game is game guy apology video p diddy was most likely faking it to get attention and sympathy whilst the game is game guy admitted and said he will do it again and I respected the game is game guy more
Im just nice by nature ,even if they overstep their boundaries with me i leave it in gods hands and reap the benefits of it im still gonna be nice whether they like it or not,,, its their demon ,their problem, not me ,im fine kindness could get you far in life ,little do they know ,its such a frivolous thing to worry about .
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Be a "Good Man", not a "Nice Guy." And realize that most nice guys have been programmed by their mothers.
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see i didn’t think about that, such a perfect example !
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