She needs to remember that for HIM, he's on the greatest adventure of his life. He's ship disembarking for uncharted seas, and he's excited. But I totally understand how she feels. My youngest son is graduating from high school. For over 20 years, my WHOLE existence was supporting them and making sure they had a home, and had food, and had the things they needed, and had money for college, and I stopped having friends, and having a life, and stopped going out, because my whole world was THEM, and they're gone, and it's been hard. Finally started to pick myself up and get some hobbies, but it's one thing to live your life for other people, and it feels totally different just doing things because I feel like it. It's like it has no point.
I'm 19 years old currently and after reading your story, even though I can't personally relate to it since I'm not a parent yet, I can really empathise with you as I think my parents are going about the same period in their own lives where my brother and I are going to go off on our paths outside of our house where we've grown up in for 20 years. I just hope my parents and you can find something to keep yourselves motivated and happy for the years to come after your respective children start living their lives more independently than before.
When Olivia was crying because Mason want to college i was thought that It remind Toy Story 3 when Andy's mom cry because Andy was going to the college but i realize that Olivia had failed wedding went Bad making a wonderful monologue
That's the way of things since the beginning of time "Children must leave parents". If they do it, it means that you as a parent did the best you could... You prepared them for what the world is going to throw them. It is normal to feel alone, sad, crushed or fear even happiness. I mean, what parent won't feel that way? But here is the thing: When you have a kid you become a mom or a dad. But it is important not to forget how to be a man or a woman, a husband or a wife and as long as you remember it the feeling of emptiness won't cause too much pain. Of course, your child will always be an important part of your life but he or she should not be the entire center of your world or the one thing that keeps you going on. Otherwise, when the time for them to leave arrives, you may feel betrayed, alone, or that your life has ended and over the years you could grow cold, bitter or angry with everything and everyone that surrounds you.
Not really - it's a modern times thing for children to leave their parents - since hunter-gatherer times families have been relatively tight knit and integral to the survival of the human race. Humans cant feed themselves without other humans to teach them and to work with. It is no surprise western countries are falling apart.
I mean many children just return to their parents only, UFC Legend Don Frye lived with his parents and never switched hometown, Cowboy Cerrone of the UFC lives with his Grandmother, Wife and his 3 sons to this day he keeps going to his hometown Denver, Dominick Cruz of the UFC too lives with his grandmother, mother, grandfather and brother. Many UFC Stars live with their parents and all.
Why Mason doesn’t have any reaction or emotion? He becomes cold the because of the way he grew up? All those conflicts and change of environments. It’s like nothing can make him sad anymore even when his gf had left him.
He's just a kid. He is not emotionally mature enough to be the parent of his parent and that's fine, doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't experience any inner turbulence.
I'm a dad of twin boys.. ..they 16 soon. I divorced 12 years ago, been a more hands on dad the average as co parented with there mum, without hate between us. This scene is soooo relevant to so many parents, it's over way quicker than you realize it's going to be.....and you forget about the person you used to be, because that person you left way behind.....and it's a bit scary going back to find them. Beautiful film....... truly
I Made her compassion that she Made her life. So i Will cry because my family Made a mistake to watch me once upon a time when i was 14 years old to keep me away from Anakin because they tough that he was a MONSTER in clone wars and then my father too Made a mistake to watch me Shannara Chronicles and this Is us when i was 19 years because He was afraid too that Anakin might kill Ezra because He a Sith Lord and the boy a Force sensitive in rebels and my sister think that Ezra and Sabine are not fall in love but they didn't open their eyes because they didn't knowed that Ezra Is the lineage of Mace Windu that he was the master of Depa Billaba that she was Kanan's master. Now Bad Batch season two Is coming and it Will show how Anakin take care of Ezra before He meet Omega and then in Ahsoka series Will show us Ezra with Jacen, Kanan's son, Sabine Now his wife and little Ben as the Book of Boba Fett show us Ahsoka with Luke, Grogu and Din
@@dobazajr حسب هذا المفهوم ان الله خلقنا عبثا؟ هذا هراء من قبل فلاسفة العدمية ان الحياة ما بعد الموت هو الذي اعطى للعيش معنى بأنك تقوم بالاعمال التي ترضي الله فتفوز بذلك برضوان الله عليك وتدخل الجنة الابدية حيث السلام والاستقرار مع عباد الله الصالحين بعيدا عن الدنيا وشقائها
Christian Mora sometimes it is about how natural it comes and not how many faces you can display also..... are you that naive to trust the academy? lol
The boy is excited because he is going new life college new experience, but the mother is talking while inside her heart is uncomfortable because after that she will be alone lonely after her children out and she also needs to live a new life with no need take care her children anymore.she is a bit upset as her life maybe not what she expected actually I am 42 . When I was young I was happy go to school college after 40 feel like lonely. No Friend and also worry
I thought Mason's overall choice of friends was poor. Like those guys he goes "camping" with in the house (apart from Tony who seemed OK). And his stepbrother and stepsister seemed okay as well. His girlfriend Sheena was shallow and bitchy too. There are plenty of guys who don't behave like Mason's "friends", and plenty of girls who are nicer than the bratty sister Sam. Nicole at the end of the film seemed nice.
Wow, for me it was the most moving scene in Boyhood.
She needs to remember that for HIM, he's on the greatest adventure of his life. He's ship disembarking for uncharted seas, and he's excited. But I totally understand how she feels. My youngest son is graduating from high school. For over 20 years, my WHOLE existence was supporting them and making sure they had a home, and had food, and had the things they needed, and had money for college, and I stopped having friends, and having a life, and stopped going out, because my whole world was THEM, and they're gone, and it's been hard. Finally started to pick myself up and get some hobbies, but it's one thing to live your life for other people, and it feels totally different just doing things because I feel like it. It's like it has no point.
I'm 19 years old currently and after reading your story, even though I can't personally relate to it since I'm not a parent yet, I can really empathise with you as I think my parents are going about the same period in their own lives where my brother and I are going to go off on our paths outside of our house where we've grown up in for 20 years. I just hope my parents and you can find something to keep yourselves motivated and happy for the years to come after your respective children start living their lives more independently than before.
Great argument for against having kids
@@lupreztryson I agree. If a person isn't willing to commit a hundred percent, don't have kids. Adopt a dog or cat from a shelter.
When Olivia was crying because Mason want to college i was thought that It remind Toy Story 3 when Andy's mom cry because Andy was going to the college but i realize that Olivia had failed wedding went Bad making a wonderful monologue
“Just go and leave my picture…” i’m crying!
I really love this film, the way that shows a life so accurate and sometimes our life goes like a drop of water.
Don't know why but I keep coming back to see clips of this movie. Such a masterpiece. So relatable and nostalgic
Me too!! I love the movie and this scene is so powerful
"I just thought there would be more". Let that sync. It's profound.
nice eggcorn
It's Mother's Day n I'm watching this Miss u mom.
Sorry for your loss, but you can always find your mom in your heart
@@mahirrahman6841 ❤
The movie is embedded in my mind forever. Arquette was fantastic here.. absolutely deserves the Oscar
This scene is heartbreaking
His father was right. They always want more. Lmao.
That's the way of things since the beginning of time "Children must leave parents". If they do it, it means that you as a parent did the best you could... You prepared them for what the world is going to throw them. It is normal to feel alone, sad, crushed or fear even happiness. I mean, what parent won't feel that way? But here is the thing: When you have a kid you become a mom or a dad. But it is important not to forget how to be a man or a woman, a husband or a wife and as long as you remember it the feeling of emptiness won't cause too much pain. Of course, your child will always be an important part of your life but he or she should not be the entire center of your world or the one thing that keeps you going on. Otherwise, when the time for them to leave arrives, you may feel betrayed, alone, or that your life has ended and over the years you could grow cold, bitter or angry with everything and everyone that surrounds you.
this is so beautifully written
Not really - it's a modern times thing for children to leave their parents - since hunter-gatherer times families have been relatively tight knit and integral to the survival of the human race. Humans cant feed themselves without other humans to teach them and to work with. It is no surprise western countries are falling apart.
I mean many children just return to their parents only, UFC Legend Don Frye lived with his parents and never switched hometown, Cowboy Cerrone of the UFC lives with his Grandmother, Wife and his 3 sons to this day he keeps going to his hometown Denver, Dominick Cruz of the UFC too lives with his grandmother, mother, grandfather and brother.
Many UFC Stars live with their parents and all.
@@leedanica7355don't make someone your world
Why Mason doesn’t have any reaction or emotion? He becomes cold the because of the way he grew up? All those conflicts and change of environments. It’s like nothing can make him sad anymore even when his gf had left him.
Most american children leaving their parents are cold. They only think of themselves.
He's just a kid. He is not emotionally mature enough to be the parent of his parent and that's fine, doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't experience any inner turbulence.
As a daughter I would only feel guilty if I saw that my happiness made my parents sad. Is it a good thing?
His emotional detachment is the most realistic thing in the movie.
my favourite movie i've seen. 2 hrs and 46mins of seeing this actor growing up from '02 to '13. I'll never 4get this movie.
This movie was amazing
Mom, I love you
I'm a dad of twin boys..
..they 16 soon.
I divorced 12 years ago, been a more hands on dad the average as co parented with there mum, without hate between us.
This scene is soooo relevant to so many parents, it's over way quicker than you realize it's going to be.....and you forget about the person you used to be, because that person you left way behind.....and it's a bit scary going back to find them.
Beautiful film....... truly
movie captures life amazingly.
Life can be ordinary. But we can make them extraordinary. ❤️
Life is short.
This is how I feel graduating college in 2020
OMG EXACTLY
The first time I saw this version of Mason, I was like, "tf is bo Burnham doing here?"
Watching this before leaving for college to study law!!!
I Made her compassion that she Made her life. So i Will cry because my family Made a mistake to watch me once upon a time when i was 14 years old to keep me away from Anakin because they tough that he was a MONSTER in clone wars and then my father too Made a mistake to watch me Shannara Chronicles and this Is us when i was 19 years because He was afraid too that Anakin might kill Ezra because He a Sith Lord and the boy a Force sensitive in rebels and my sister think that Ezra and Sabine are not fall in love but they didn't open their eyes because they didn't knowed that Ezra Is the lineage of Mace Windu that he was the master of Depa Billaba that she was Kanan's master. Now Bad Batch season two Is coming and it Will show how Anakin take care of Ezra before He meet Omega and then in Ahsoka series Will show us Ezra with Jacen, Kanan's son, Sabine Now his wife and little Ben as the Book of Boba Fett show us Ahsoka with Luke, Grogu and Din
That's why I don't want to marry, have kids and stuff like that. I don't care about living a miserable and lonely life, since it's my own life.
I kind of agree. We're going to die anyway so why bother to invest in other kind of life when as the years go by it'll be wasted.
Bruh. And die alone?
@@bruhffffgggg We born alone, and we die alone. Have kids won't change that.
@@dobazajr حسب هذا المفهوم ان الله خلقنا عبثا؟
هذا هراء من قبل فلاسفة العدمية
ان الحياة ما بعد الموت هو الذي اعطى للعيش معنى بأنك تقوم بالاعمال التي ترضي الله فتفوز بذلك برضوان الله عليك وتدخل الجنة الابدية حيث السلام والاستقرار مع عباد الله الصالحين بعيدا عن الدنيا وشقائها
When of the greta scenes ever . How strong the dialogue
But she did not do it so well
Genius.
I had to study this for film
Yeah.... Like if this acting is actually better than Emma Stone's in Birdman!
Christian Mora sometimes it is about how natural it comes and not how many faces you can display
also..... are you that naive to trust the academy? lol
Emma Stone was robbed of an oscar for birdman
@@clocko2700 the academy is good and nominated the right films so I trust them
yeah from her total screen time she should be nominated for best actress not supporting
@@schnittstelle8492 emma stone was robbed
The Best Keep Going
The boy is excited because he is going new life college new experience, but the mother is talking while inside her heart is uncomfortable because after that she will be alone lonely after her children out and she also needs to live a new life with no need take care her children anymore.she is a bit upset as her life maybe not what she expected actually I am 42 . When I was young I was happy go to school college after 40 feel like lonely. No Friend and also worry
Finished the movie. I thought there would be more.
motherhood should be the title of the movie, that guy is a jerk
yeah he's an idiot
Why is he a jerk?
Javier Eduardo Juárez u clearly haven't watched the movie
I thought Mason's overall choice of friends was poor. Like those guys he goes "camping" with in the house (apart from Tony who seemed OK). And his stepbrother and stepsister seemed okay as well. His girlfriend Sheena was shallow and bitchy too.
There are plenty of guys who don't behave like Mason's "friends", and plenty of girls who are nicer than the bratty sister Sam.
Nicole at the end of the film seemed nice.
The movie is an ode to motherhood.
Imagine viola davis doing this secene
I imagine it, and I think that due to her impetus the scene would be overacted, I can't imagine it any other way.
@@criscergacar520 yikes take
1:11 이 장면이 계속 기억이 난다
화면 중앙이 아닌 바깥에 있는 어머니가 너무 쓸쓸해보여
Minä itse.
Build
Emma Stone was robbed of an oscar for Birdman
Patricia Arquette deserved her Oscar.
@@giovannyespinoza6013 no
@@purvashdangi1502 Patricia Arqutte deserved it without a doubt
This Is The Most Boring Movie I Ever Watched
Why Have You Capitalised Every Word In The Sentence?
You seem boring
If you found this boring, go to the Michael Bay section next time.
I finished it right now. This movie was disturbing for me.
Well it's realistic movie, lot of people can relate to this movie. and one day you'll know how it's feel..