Why HSPs & Empaths CAN'T GIVE UP Even If We DON'T FIT IN

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  • Опубликовано: 17 дек 2024

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  • @gracenosbod8964
    @gracenosbod8964 29 дней назад +13

    After yet another night with little sleep, I was journaling early this morn and writing the same question over and over..."What's the use?" So to watch your vid after starting to succumb to suffocating despair was a breath of fresh air...thank you, Annie! It does seem I'm caught in the vacillating cycle of Warrior vs. Victim. I started back with a therapist two months ago realizing I was again in the midst of Autistic Burnout...an exhaustion often too deep for words. For me, your vid gave me permission to feel however I need to feel and to trust there's something much larger happening in the world that I feel but cannot explain. Stories are everything to me and you've given me a story that validates me. Again, thank you.

    • @captaincatseye9517
      @captaincatseye9517 28 дней назад +4

      Empaths are more aware and in tune than a lot of people are. Analysis of the current situation can be devastating and overwhelming. Empaths are at the forefront of societal evolution for the good. Witnessing bad behavior is very disturbing. In my opinion, the best we can do, make sure our own little worlds are as good as they can be and into spread that as far as we can. Just a little random acts of kindness can go along way.

    • @Lerockramblerbirder
      @Lerockramblerbirder 28 дней назад +3

      Very well said!

    • @sonjadekock8331
      @sonjadekock8331 18 дней назад +3

      Totally agree

    • @anniepaquette
      @anniepaquette  14 дней назад +3

      Grace, I'm so glad you're here, truly. From what you shared, I see you. Permission, yes, yes, yes, for all of us to feel and be who we are. "Too deep for words", I can relate so completely. And there IS something larger happening even if we can't put our finger on it -and we're part of it, all that we feel is part of it. I really hope you joint the HSP summit. It's for US. It's about all of this. When we share our stories, we do give and find validation, that's exactly why I wrote my book - not because I wanted my stories to known, but because I wanted to give others permission to and validation for having their own. The summit is free, replays will be free if you register. www.theHSPsummit.com 💗💗💗

    • @anniepaquette
      @anniepaquette  14 дней назад +2

      @@captaincatseye9517 Yes. The more we know and embrace who we are, the more of that we can do. 💗

  • @denisel780
    @denisel780 25 дней назад +7

    Too pure, clashing with the superficial....YES!!! Feel this a lot. Thank you for putting words to these feelings.

    • @anniepaquette
      @anniepaquette  22 дня назад +3

      Hi Denise! I feel so self-conscious mentioning the "too pure" because I guess it can offend others and wound pretentious. But I'm glad I shared and that you feel that too. 🌺🫶🌺

  • @terryb3651
    @terryb3651 24 дня назад +4

    We are light warriors. This is the end of an Era. We're going into the Aquarian Age. So there's chaos and breakdown of the old. I've been feeling like I don't belong where I am. People are so small. Can't even say hello or smile. I just remembered Tapping. If u haven't tried it u should. Sounds nuts, but works. For pain or mood. I am at some kind of crossroads and I'm old. The best is yet to come. Let's smile. Dance. Sing. Rise. Love to all. We got this.

    • @anniepaquette
      @anniepaquette  22 дня назад +2

      Hi Terry. I use Tapping a lot. I also the best is yet to come and agree: let's smile, dance, sing and rise. 🌺🫶🌺

  • @sonofthor3759
    @sonofthor3759 Месяц назад +13

    🧡💜🧡💜🧡💜🧡
    WE ARE AWAKENING
    💜🧡💜🧡💜🧡💜

    • @anniepaquette
      @anniepaquette  22 дня назад +2

      Yes we are. People are resonating with your comment 💗🙏💗🌺💗🙏💗🌺💗🙏💗🌺

  • @metapamster
    @metapamster 26 дней назад +4

    I'm so grateful I found this video. I thought it was just me. I get so frustrated with mankind as I feel we should be evolving quicker, and not making the same mistakes over and over. I get impatient with the superficiality, and especially frustrated when people lie, as it is so obvious and they don't even realize it is so obvious to many of us. Thank you.

    • @anniepaquette
      @anniepaquette  22 дня назад +2

      Hi! I'm so glad you're here and thanks for sharing. The more of us say this is the truth of how we feel, the more people will know it's okay to do so and that they are not alone. I appreciate you. 🌺🫶🌺

  • @verlyn2000
    @verlyn2000 Месяц назад +17

    This resonate with me 100%. I was just feeling so alone with my busy mind, but listening to you is a reminder that I am not alone.
    That you for the work that you do.

    • @anniepaquette
      @anniepaquette  22 дня назад +1

      I see by the likes on your comment that others agree. We are SO not alone, we just need to come out of the shadows and talk. I'm glad you're here.
      I mentioned in last Sunday’s video that I'm co-hosting a free, live, 5-day online HSP Summit in December? Hope to see you there! www.thehspsummit.com

  • @joydelphi
    @joydelphi 24 дня назад +5

    YES ! Everything you shared here resonates deeply with me Annie - thank you
    I have been through long periods of depression & isolation throughout my life when I have wanted to give up and during those times I didn't seek out therapy but I have just connected with a wonderful woman who is a clinical hypnotherapist and I really feel that the therapy she offers is helping me to resolve issues that I have carried for so much of my life that came from trauma experienced by being a highly sensitive child. The therapy is helping my mind let go of fear, worry, stress, overthinking etc and tap into and become more of my authentic self and be brave enough to open my heart and shine my light in a challenging and overwhelming world. Therapy and other tools such as journaling, inner enquiry, self observation, quiet time in nature, and conscious breath are helping me know myself better and return to gratitude for the beauty and the grace and the love that exists and become more resilient, finding strength in my sensitivity. Your sharings have helped me realise that I am an HSP and be more accepting of myself.

    • @anniepaquette
      @anniepaquette  22 дня назад +2

      Hi Joy! 🌺🫶🌺 Yes to all that you shared🙏 The accepting of who we are and how Life created us is SO important. it may sound contradictory and certainly goes against what we've been told all our lives, but our sensitivity IS a strength. We have to unlearn what we've absorbed and learn to lean into it. Glad you're here. 💗

  • @JosepineB
    @JosepineB 29 дней назад +12

    I found myself nodding throughout your whole talk! The problem with therapists I know is that most of them need more help than I do!
    In some way your videos feel like therapy. Thank you for that!🙏☺️

    • @websurfer5772
      @websurfer5772 29 дней назад +3

      I heard a therapist admit that therapists don't work on themselves even though the ones in insurance plans are supposed to. That explains a lot. My T kept telling me I was triggering her. 🤔

    • @anniepaquette
      @anniepaquette  22 дня назад +3

      That's sad but kind of funny!

    • @anniepaquette
      @anniepaquette  22 дня назад +3

      You're super welcome Josepine! I love seeing your comments. 🌺🫶🌺
      I mentioned in last Sunday’s video that I'm co-hosting a free, live, 5-day online HSP Summit in December? Hope to see you there! We're going to have amazing HSP conversations - the best therapy! Make sure to register here: www.thehspsummit.com

  • @briechilli4496
    @briechilli4496 29 дней назад +11

    I have isolated but it gets extremely lonely too, we need connection but I dont feel it so easy to obtain.

  • @nicoleiodice5358
    @nicoleiodice5358 Месяц назад +14

    Such an interesting perspective Annie, I really resonate with what you’re saying, thanks🙏

    • @anniepaquette
      @anniepaquette  22 дня назад +1

      Hi Nicole! Thanks so much for that. It's really nice to know my thoughts resonate and bring comfort to others. I see people are liking your comment, so let's all resonate and make a beautiful harmony!

  • @briechilli4496
    @briechilli4496 29 дней назад +9

    I love you Annie ❤

    • @anniepaquette
      @anniepaquette  22 дня назад +2

      Awwwh, thanks Brie! You know I love you too. I mentioned in last Sunday’s video that I'm co-hosting a free, live, 5-day online HSP Summit in December? Hope to see you there! We're going to have amazing HSP conversations. Make sure to register here: www.thehspsummit.com

  • @MikefromCanada5426
    @MikefromCanada5426 29 дней назад +6

    I can certainly relate to the warrior / victim status part of our being.
    Standing up for our authentic selves regardless of outside pressures is the laudible goal, and there are many times that this does happen.
    Conversely, I find that it's also too easy to let the victim part get inside by the very nature of our, (and my), empathetic, and sensitive nature.
    For sure, doing the work to gain a greater understanding of who we are makes the road ahead more easy to navigate.
    You're right in never giving up and to keep moving forward.
    Thanks, Annie, for this very informative video.
    All the best.

    • @anniepaquette
      @anniepaquette  18 дней назад +1

      Thanks Mike. That warrior/victim idea continues to simmer in my mind. I like it. Will you join the summit?

    • @MikefromCanada5426
      @MikefromCanada5426 18 дней назад

      ​@@anniepaquette Most definitely. I just registered and am looking forward to it.
      Thanks!

  • @Seeking_Myself
    @Seeking_Myself 23 дня назад +3

    Hi Annie. I found you via Jen Gold's channel. Thank you

    • @anniepaquette
      @anniepaquette  22 дня назад +1

      Hi! Glad you're here. I really like Jen, I imagine we'll be connecting soon. FYI, I have a Free HSP online Summit coming up in Dec. I'm collaborating with another HSP speaker. Check it out: TheHSPSummit.com 🌺🫶🌺

  • @anndavidson287
    @anndavidson287 29 дней назад +5

    Thanks again Annie! 4 am and I am seeing your video. Iam once again getting short term therapy but I tell counselor what I need to work on. In six months or so if all goes well i will be getting shunt surgery for Hydrocephalus. Scary for me any surgery. You went through it. I need to work on trusting in healing and recovery not my family script of catastrophizing sp.? and seeing through dark lenses all the time. I am lucky to finally have this chance with these specialists in NPH. I have been on a roller-coaster in hospitals with everybody telling me something different.for last 5 years. I need to work on staying calm and grounded and trusting all involved in surgery..plus myself and god and the universe and let go of my need for total control over everything. Doing meditation and naming feelings and trying not to get stuck in negative ones too long. We are the warriors of a new consciousness and can feel like victims at times. Thanks again Annie for all your inspirational videos. ❤❤😊😊 your friend from Ontario Canada 🍁. Be well.

    • @websurfer5772
      @websurfer5772 29 дней назад +1

      It's 4:15 am for me right now. lol
      I hope you find good healing soon. 🙏

    • @anndavidson287
      @anndavidson287 29 дней назад +2

      websurfer
      Thanks for well wishes and healing. Wake up early too.!!

    • @anniepaquette
      @anniepaquette  7 дней назад +1

      Oh, trust is a tricky one, but we must trust Life is unfolding as it is meant to.

  • @liliana6149
    @liliana6149 29 дней назад +7

    Gosh I can relate

    • @anniepaquette
      @anniepaquette  9 дней назад +1

      Hi Liliana! We can't give up and we must come together. So many of us relate to this. 💗🤗💗 Have you seen some of my recent videos where I mention that I'm co-hosting a free summit next week? If you haven't heard, take a look here www.theHSPsummit.com. I would love to see you there.

  • @debra7241
    @debra7241 29 дней назад +5

    Well said!💫🌺

  • @mirsadhasanagic8349
    @mirsadhasanagic8349 28 дней назад +3

    You have just described what I have felt since 2020 and the Covid bollocks. So grateful to hear your words and stumble upon your channel ❤🇦🇺

    • @anniepaquette
      @anniepaquette  18 дней назад +1

      So glad you're here. We need each other. 🫶 If you want more HSP love and belonging, don't miss the free summit coming up. Did you see the videos where I mention it? If not: www.thehspsummit.com

  • @rubyhaver7071
    @rubyhaver7071 27 дней назад +3

    THANK YOU❣️😇✌️✨ I needed to hear that 😢😊

    • @anniepaquette
      @anniepaquette  18 дней назад +1

      Hi Ruby! Nice to have you here 💗🤗💗 Did you watch the videos where I mention my upcoming free online summit? If not, take a look here to register www.thehspsummit.com There will be a lot of HSP love flowing🫶

  • @crystaldance5731
    @crystaldance5731 29 дней назад +3

    Counselling is good thankyou Annie ❤️👍🏻😊

  • @websurfer5772
    @websurfer5772 29 дней назад +8

    People in society being fine with the wars we "fight" freak me out. That means every single person I've ever known in my real life freaks me out. That's all. And I don't dare voice my opinion about what others are doing in our name because I am shut down so quickly. I just have to figure out how to still survive here in this 'living hell?' surrounded by monsters and not-sees.
    Annie, your description of kindergarten playtime is fascinating to me. I think that comes down to personality. It really is interesting.
    I appreciate you pointing out the paradoxicality of us feeling like both warriors and victims. You are really onto something there.
    That bush behind you sounds like an accompanying musical instrument when the wind blows through it as you're speaking to us. 🌬🪴
    I also love that you're pointing out that we could be the bridge because Saturn is a bridge in astrology to the outer planets that are more mature, and they represent much more complex themes compared to the inner personal planets. I'm very Saturnian, it turns out. And then the wounded healer centaur asteroid Chiron is also very Saturnian and considered to be a bridge to the outer planets as well and he's only 2 degrees away from my Sun in Pisces.
    All that to say, I'm definitely one of the people you are addressing on this channel.
    Your words are like a balm to my frazzled mind. Thank you. 🏵

    • @Lerockramblerbirder
      @Lerockramblerbirder 27 дней назад +2

      @@websurfer5772 And Saturn is very beautiful, astronomers say it pulled on Jupiter in the early Solar system and kept it from moving further towards the sun 🌞

    • @websurfer5772
      @websurfer5772 27 дней назад +1

      @@Lerockramblerbirder That's interesting. I've never heard that. Thanks for telling me. 🪐

    • @anniepaquette
      @anniepaquette  22 дня назад +2

      Interestingly, just the other day, I heard a therapist describing exactly that behavior in neurodivergent people - I was amazed to hear it's actually a "thing."
      Right, the warrior AND victim? When I put that idea together in my head it resonated as such truth, this dichotomy, tug-of-war...
      Thanks for all your input, I really appreciate it. 🌺🫶🌺

  • @econtrolable
    @econtrolable Месяц назад +18

    It is nice to know that other people feel similar in respect to empaths and such. You lost me at the God part. I am not feeling that connection. I think you will help people with your message. My messages seem to fall mostly on deaf ears. I have never had someone I could talk to about these types of things. Most people seem to be scared because it requires looking in the mirror. Please continue your good work.

    • @Littlefalcon
      @Littlefalcon 28 дней назад +1

      If you have never been on tiktok...a huge spiritual hub

    • @captaincatseye9517
      @captaincatseye9517 28 дней назад +2

      Ya, the “God” part threw me too. The source, your core, anything else would work better there, generally speaking.

    • @anniepaquette
      @anniepaquette  22 дня назад +2

      Thanks so much. I think I fumbled a little on my God message 🤷‍♀️ It made sense in my head, then got lost in translation 😉 The more people appreciate, share, and contribute, the more I'm encouraged to continue. Have you heard I'm co-hosting a free, live, 5-day online HSP Summit in December? Hope to see you there! www.thehspsummit.com

    • @anniepaquette
      @anniepaquette  22 дня назад +2

      I use Source, core, Life, Universe, God quite interchangeably, sometimes it's better expressed than others. 💗 🤷‍♀️

    • @captaincatseye9517
      @captaincatseye9517 22 дня назад

      @@anniepaquette My apologies. Are usually translate that word automatically and skip over, no problem. Get some extra sensitive these days. 🙂‍↕️

  • @magic-view7209
    @magic-view7209 27 дней назад +2

    Very interesting. Thank you. Blessings from Germany.

    • @anniepaquette
      @anniepaquette  18 дней назад +1

      Thanks magic! Nice to connect with someone at another point on the planet. Will you join the free summit? If the timing isn't right for you, the replays will be available for free for 24 hours. All you have to do is register here www.thehspsummit.com 🌺💗 🌺

  • @Lerockramblerbirder
    @Lerockramblerbirder 29 дней назад +3

    Bushwhacking builds character they say,haha,I know as I have done so much of it in the mountains,now when I do it I hug the trees!Literally I do this.

    • @anniepaquette
      @anniepaquette  29 дней назад +1

      I hug trees too ✨🥰✨

    • @Lerockramblerbirder
      @Lerockramblerbirder 28 дней назад +1

      Trees are living beauty, our crazy hubris is preventing and obscuring joy big time!!A loss of consciousness due to lack of connection to our roots with nature from 4.2 billion years ago to now, walking and chirping in the woods at birds will bring you closer to them, also one red squirrel jumps up on me and has as little lunch from my hand while the bird's I have known now for six years feed out of the other,walk in nature is empaths strong point,we would thrive so much in indigenous societies where they would draw you out to be put under the tutelage of a master shaman,this driven monetized (ITS HORRIFIC ACTUALLY) does not accept the HSP too well !

    • @anniepaquette
      @anniepaquette  28 дней назад +2

      @@Lerockramblerbirder Exactly! In other times and cultures, we were (and will be) valued for our perceptivity and vision, this society is losing out and it makes us feel so...unvalued. Painful.
      LOVE your nature experience! Mine bring me so much joy - a joy so powerful it is hard to contain. It feels divine in nature.

  • @kimsherlock8969
    @kimsherlock8969 27 дней назад +3

    Everyone's seeking emotional support in therapy because they dont get it from others .
    People are consumed in their own needs without time to listen.
    No one wants to know , Its considered 🤔 dumping on others with a selfish downer.😊
    Compassion, left the room a long time ago when indifference moved in .

    • @anniepaquette
      @anniepaquette  9 дней назад +1

      Hi Kim. I agree that we need to be there for each other so much more. I feel the isolation a lot in my own life. Which is why I'm opening up on this channel so that more of us know we're not alone and start creating a community where we can connect. 💗🤗💗
      Have you seen some of my recent videos where I mention that I'm co-hosting a free summit next week? If you haven't heard, take a look here www.theHSPsummit.com. I would love to see you there. together, we can do so much more.

  • @katesmith5475
    @katesmith5475 26 дней назад +1

    I'm always asking myself " who am I" why am I here? What's my purpose? I am asking God to show me the way. Life is scary, we never know what's around the next corner.

    • @anniepaquette
      @anniepaquette  8 дней назад +1

      Hi Kate! I get it! HSPs are deep thinkers, which brings us to ponder and question a lot, and often leads to a spiritual path too. 🌟 Have you seen some of my most recent videos where i mention that I'm co-hosting a free summit next week? If you haven't heard, take a look here www.theHSPsummit.com. I would love to see you there. I really believe we need to come together.

  • @RenaudDupuis
    @RenaudDupuis 28 дней назад +1

    Life acquires meaning when you face the differences between your desires and reality.

    • @anniepaquette
      @anniepaquette  7 дней назад +2

      And desires are the calls of our souls drawing us forth.

    • @RenaudDupuis
      @RenaudDupuis 7 дней назад

      @@anniepaquette Yes. That's beautiful and true. It is the essence of who I am. Reality, however, forces us all to turn on our A Game or sink when reality knocks at the door with the loss of a job, illness, a divorce .. human stuff. You know? Hey Salut!

  • @catherinekittykat
    @catherinekittykat 29 дней назад +7

    💞💕💞💕👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

    • @anniepaquette
      @anniepaquette  22 дня назад +2

      Hi Catherine! I mentioned in last Sunday’s video that I'm co-hosting a free, live, 5-day online HSP Summit in December? Hope to see you there! Make sure to register here: www.thehspsummit.com

    • @catherinekittykat
      @catherinekittykat 20 дней назад

      @anniepaquette Thank you! I'm so behind and depressed and I'm grateful to see your notification and I will sign up on the link thank you so much 💓😻🌺💕

  • @greglavine4035
    @greglavine4035 29 дней назад +5

    I must be on the other side I do not suffer being me... anymore.... in fact a pillar I am,I don't change for any reason because I simply cannot be any thing else... embrace it, it is good.before you take the therapy matrix take the 16 personally test...learn your operating system its imperitive and it is must do work...(The reason for our quandary is )people wear masks in life,they have a public persona and a personal one like the wizard of Oz behind the curtain they guard...the dissonance of this dual existence of every other human and living on a teeter toter with change is enough to set people on the shrinks couch...(I been there many many times,and no it didn't do much).....and not to mention we are much more sensitive.BUT............. we are not dualistic we live in authenticity...it is a pillar not a problem...follow your own path with a vengeance...yes a empath yes we can walk the straight and narrow,pain maybe the rocket fuel to the end line...come on I waiting

    • @Lerockramblerbirder
      @Lerockramblerbirder 28 дней назад +2

      Yes,well said!And we are a mandatory bunch to keep society from utter collapse!

    • @anniepaquette
      @anniepaquette  7 дней назад +1

      💗🤗💗 haven't gotten around to therapy yet...just too darn busy! and yes, we are pillars, much, much needed pillars. Are you coming to the online summit next week?

    • @anniepaquette
      @anniepaquette  7 дней назад +1

      We certainly are needed. Desperately. The world needs authenticity to be woven back into its fabric.

  • @weblightstudio8215
    @weblightstudio8215 26 дней назад +1

    I think you generalize too much. My family had elements who were hidden spiritual practitioners since the days tribes were just known as "The people"
    Otherwise you are correct however...or so I believe

    • @anniepaquette
      @anniepaquette  22 дня назад +1

      I totally generalize🤷‍♀️ I try to be careful but to craft a message for the many, it kind of goes that way... or so I believe 😉

    • @weblightstudio8215
      @weblightstudio8215 22 дня назад

      @@anniepaquette Fair enuff