@@LeHarmacist now i think i have this problem and i don't even look for this, every guy I feel for str8 guys especially attractive ones bisexual problems, i get michi so much deadpan bisexual with unrequited love issues😭😭
I thought at first that Michi is bisexual but it seems like she's oppositesexual. (as in she attracted to the people that are the opposite sexuality to her)
And this is why a lot of bisexual people are basically bisexual-sexual. Because they tend to experience straight attraction in a very gay way and/or gay attraction in a straight way, maybe in addition to the other ways, and the people who tend to reciprocate that mostly also fall under the multi umbrella.
I get the distinct impression that a lot of this is less Michi's fault and more the fact that it's illegal in her country. I'm a completely straight dude but I can imagine coming out would be hard enough for a lot of people even in a country where it's legal, much less one where it isn't, and it's a lot easier to downplay some flirting later than an actual BF/GF.
It's not illegal in her country, there's no law for that. It's the society and it depends on your social surroundings. If you in more liberal circles and community or surrounded by more open minded people then they don't make a big deal out of it.
"Last month, two Indonesian soldiers were given a seven-month jail term for having gay sex, which the military deems "inappropriate behaviour". At least 15 members of the police and military have been fired in recent years for having gay sex, according to Amnesty International in 2020. Last year in Aceh province, two men were sentenced to nearly 80 lashings each for having sex." -france24, 2022 The Indonesian Survey Circle (LSI) found in its most recent poll conducted in 2012 that 80.6 percent of its sample population objected to having gays or lesbians as neighbors. The figure has jumped significantly from 64.7 percent in 2005.[5] In recent years, LGBT people in Indonesia are facing growing hostility and intolerance. In early 2016, LGBT people and activists in Indonesia faced fierce opposition and attacks of homophobia and hate speech, even launched by Indonesian authorities.[6]
@@Redmanticore sure classic westerner always use Aceh as excuse, the only conservative province that have their own conservative law, and official personel like military and police as the examples of their own oppressive rules. Yeah sure sure. Y'all westerner always cherry picking to play "the good one" just to make yourself feel better than others. While western countries also still got many case oppressing lgbtq in certain fields or society, and bunch of homophobic politician/leaders and random comment on the internet, but y'all be like oh shoot that's just a bad day darling.
As someone who tends to catch feelings much faster than the general population, it's painful. I'm actually at a point in my life where I shut everything down. If someone is even remotely interested in me, I shut it down immediately because I've been jerked around and rejected far too much that now it's just not worth it in the end. I'm happy doing my own thing.
Eh. You get desensitized to it after you get rejected a couple times. I remember I used to be such a hopeless romantic when I was younger. Now I'm mostly numb to it all now. Romance, rejection, it just doesn't hit like it used to. On the bright side, it doesn't hurt as much either so there's that.
@@ResidentWeevil2077same. Though a part of me thinks what we're doing isn't really healthy. Its a defense mechanism sure, but it also ensures than we'll never let anyone get close to us. On the off chance that one of us ends up finding someone that genuinely likes us we'd just end up shutting that down before anything has the chance to blossom. That would be a damn shame. Deep down I do still want it. Im sure you're the same way. Otherwise we wouldn't bother developing such a stone cold exterior. Its because we wanted love in the past and that's why rejection hurts so much. Its personal. Idk. Its a conundrum. Good luck to you tho. I hope you do end up finding someone and hopefully you're not too far gone bt then. Hopefully you'll be strong enough to take that risk one more time and give that person a chance.
Tbh Im kinda in that situation rn where Love really hurts, but I know that it's my fault why Im hurting because I don't really shoot my feelings right away and take a risk, that's why I always draw the short end of the stick and just let my feelings drift away.
@@MutatedAmerican No no hints are not obvious at all as even women fail to understand them. You are fine people just need to be direct with what they want and come to terms with reality is not a fairy tail
Tbf, most people have lived here with that as a fact for so long that it's not a tragedy so much anymore. I heard most people who aren't straight just go abroad to fulfill that
@@justacatwithasadface2692 it's still horrifying no matter how many workarounds there are or how lax the enforcement might be, it means people grow up with that cultural stigma attached to how they feel
@Ytfku That's not the equivalent comparison. Gacha pity equivalency in relationships means you exhausted all the options you had in your area, occasionally attempting the same person multiple times, only for the best match to show up once you're old and tired. But as for the comparison you made, 🫂
I'm glad to know that I'm not the only hopeless romantic cosmic plaything when it comes to incompatible sexualities. Me having a crush on someone has become, in my friend group, a _reliable predictor_ of whether they're either gay or, much less often, going to transition within the next few years. This has been a decade-long trend.
Wow. I had this problem in high school. I think I had three crushes in my friend group (people in my league, anime nerds and the like) and they were all gay. MAN, I thought i was the only one. Then I had three failed dates in college and that killed my confidence. I am now 37 and have been forever single, never been in a relationship. 😔
Had the same situation with after my first relationship ended man. Every woman I found I was attracted to thereafter and got on well with was either gay or bi and already dating a woman. Ironically, I think that made for much better friendships in the long run since there was no sexual tension and also no mind games either, so we were honest and chill with eachnother. I mean, its frustrating as far as trying to get into a relationship goes, but I dunno, I'll never regret making more friends and I've enjoyed my time hanging out with those women a lot more than time spent on dates or on dating apps the last couple of years, a majority of which were basically like be slowly drowned in debt and boredom.
Personally speaking I tried avoiding dating between middle and high school because I kept overhearing gossip about who’s dating who, girls flirting with each other in a very close/personal manner, and I kept seeing so many pregnant teens that I just said “No, too much to take in at once”. I did try to ask someone out once and I was rejected before I could even ask them out, then by college everything just got hectic to the point where I wanted to prioritize on my studies.
I have been the "Discovery Channel" for a number of women too, I feel your pain 😢 End of the day though, they're still my friends, so there's a reason I treasure them, so really, more power to them for figuring it out sooner rather than later! I'm lucky enough to know from the get go that I'm straight, but others really REALLY got to struggle with the uncertainty of their orientation and how it would affect their relationships. At this point, I'm in no rush and it's gonna happen when it happens.
It’s a lot easier to confess to crushes when doing so doesn’t put you at extreme risk of being defenestrated from the top floor of a high-rise. Just saying.
😢 I'm a straight woman but omg I feel so sad by some of these situations Michi talked about here. Specially about the girl she liked who told her "oh I have a boyfriend now" after a long while of flirting.. I experienced that but with a dude I liked!! Even if it was unintentional it can suuuuck. If she's still open to it, I hope she meets someone who'll make her happy and treat her right.
God, I love Michi’s personality so much (Calm down, I really do mean it platonically. She’s just genuinely such an openly precious person. And, that’s hard for anyone to be nowadays. So, I simply appreciate her for being true to herself in such an open, honest, and vulnerable way.)
Y’all are really going to leave these replies as if I hadn’t said what I said at the end there, people wouldn’t have left all kinds of condescending comments trying to make themselves feel morally, ethically, and intellectually superior? Which is exactly what YOU ALL are doing in the first place with your replies. Even though I went out of my way to try and prevent it by being transparent and honest… Y’all serious right now?! Y’all are lucky censorship exists, because y’all can’t even be told or see what people really think about how clueless you are. It happens all the time you dunces. Also, “get ratioed”
Michi I feel your pain. In highschool my gaydar was uncanny (broken that is). I crushed and asked out several girls in Junior high and every single one of them were lesbian.....one of which was in relationship with a bi girl that I also had a crush on and knew as a friend. I knew the bi girl was in a relationship with a girl but didn't add things together with that one. This has remained a joke I use often, that I had a streak of crushing on gay girls XD
Well the reason bi curious people exist is because sometimes you are not attracted to the same gender sexually, but ARE attracted to them romantically or personality wise. So it makes sense that they'd want to experiment to discover if they're bisexual or not instead of looking a noody pics or vids.
Personally, I have never flirted, ever... and I am so dense that even if anyone tried to flirt with me, I wouldn't get the hint or I would say to myself "is this normal? okay..." instead. I can't handle compliments either, because if I don't believe what they say about me I feel like they are making fun of me. Especially if it's out of nowhere. I blame my traumatic childhood. I was bullied A LOT because I was fat. So I gave up on love in any kind of form even before I knew what a relationship was. Also, all the woman that have liked me have been nutjobs one way or another...and one was a very confused lesbian (still now sure how to feel about that one). I merely accepted their feelings in hopes to feel anything back for them in due time, but to no avail. Nowadays, I enjoy my bachelorhood without regrets, but it's kinda sad to know that my genes end with me. Lil' bro is worse at socializing than me, so I don't have many hopes that he will fare better than me, I at least have a few exes to my name, but he is 10 years younger, it has time to mature... I hope.
It's really hard to ba a hopeless romantic. When you thought that it is finally time to get a relationship, then you would get disappointed because it's not meant to be. I thought that i would finally have a first girlfriend at 27 but i discovered that she's on a different religion which is Islam and in the philippines we re everyone's a conservative, i just take the L and just cutoff any contacts with her to prevent myself from feeling down then as 3 months passed she got married to another guy by her family and what really made me cry was when her friend messaged me that she died of cancer 😢 and that really broke me.
I love how over the last seven years of my schooling life I've gone over the people in my year level and said 'I'd like to go out with them', then in the every time within the next seven literal days, they ALL always come out as gay... while the pool of people is relatively small, once most people were open about their preferences it turned out I'd liked the few and only lesbian relationships. *Inserts joker meme about society*
4:24 that happened to me too. i was chatting up this girl i cought feelings for at university and we'd walk, chat, and sometimes eat dinner after our evening class. It was winter too so it's frickn cold out and we STILL found the time to talk to each other! then after spring break on the first day of spring quarter we have lunch and at the end of it she says "oh, by the way, i got a boyfriend over break." "oh cool. congrats, man!" gosh dangit XD
Oof, well I guess thats another thing I relate with Michi on, all the unrequited love of the past. At this point I've given up. I'm the last one of my friends from high school that isn't married, and I haven't had a girlfriend since high school, who dumped me on my birthday for one of those friends.
As far as I know, it's entirely to do with who leads and guides the intimacy. There's some kind of leader-participant role thing going on, and it doesn't even have to stay consistent within the intimacy.
I know where you're coming from and here's my answer/s: To the question itself as presented, no. Its neither reliable as a waypoint/judge or indicative to their label. To your question, this is one of the instances where the flags/indicators generally used to navigate the social layers are the issue and the simple, blunt literal answer is right. Missing the forest for the tree as they say. All "top, bottom, switch, etc" signify is which position(generally) and role(give or receive) someone fills in regards to sex and yes, literally. Which, being totally honest, if you're hetero this has very little to no value to you since the roles at their core are immutable. Also, Swagmaster has the right general idea using leader-participant role though that is a bit too specific imo. Dance partners(equals but one leads and one follows) is what my gut says more accurately portrays the dynamic in a broad generalization. Dominant and Submissive are widely and incorrectly(understandably though) used synonymously with top and bottom since the typical ideas they convey are of a similar nature but they aren't applicable in lieu as they are denote specific variations, not basic starting points However, would be an ass if I didn't point out and make the distinction that, it is possible, to use the initiation of intimacy to accurately infer someone's preferential role provided the requisite information(the context of the how, when, where have more significant signs/patterns/reasoning) is available. Though by that point far more is being spent than gained.
The more I learn about her romantic preferences/interests the more I think we'd be a good match, except... I'm on the other side of the world /and/ part of a faceless horde. Is this early stage parasocialism, or do I have to be more delusional for that?
She should just stop 😂 When you stop thinking about this stuff, you'll feel way lighter and way better *_Is not about giving up, is about knowing when to stop_*
Ya, trying to figure out if another girl is flirting with me is a nightmare sometimes. I'm alrdy bad at picking up on subtext, but like just this past weekend i was at my cousin's block party n a cute girl came over to ask us for a cigarette n she starts complimenting my hair n my outfit n im getting vibes but im unsure, n also not used to flirting in front of the my family but especially since technically these r my mom's cousins so they r older n look at me like im some sweet innocent thing (in spite of me being dressed like a hooker 😹) so i just kinda was a deer in the headlights while i tried to figure out if this girl was flirting with me. Then she makes it super obvious as she is saying goodbye. I had introduced myself n shook her hand but she didnt let go n did that where her thumb was caressing my hand, n she kissed me on the cheek n whispered I Love You... 🫠 my brain fucking melted n i had no response. I went to go grab another beer to gain some liquid courage n when I came outside she was gone. Im a huge flirt online but outside of clubs n bars im so not used to being hit on IRL anymore n it is usually creepy dudes when it happens so when a cute girl hits on me i have no idea wut to do. Sapphic romances r fucking difficult sometimes. :P
*Michi's sexuality is Bi, Bi-herself eternally*
Most bisexuals and i hate it
*oof*
Badum-tss
I can honestly believe that, never seen her before but I just see 60-80% of VTubers as either lesbians or bi unless corrected.
@@jaidora bruh
Michi has a type. The type that isn't in to her.
Her type is unrequited love🗿
@@LeHarmacist now i think i have this problem and i don't even look for this, every guy I feel for str8 guys especially attractive ones bisexual problems, i get michi so much deadpan bisexual with unrequited love issues😭😭
To quote the "spicy" fox, "Why does every man I like like Diiiiick!!"
"Anyone that would be into me would have very bad taste, and I wouldn't want to be with someone with bad taste."
It's better than her other type: her cousin
I thought at first that Michi is bisexual but it seems like she's oppositesexual.
(as in she attracted to the people that are the opposite sexuality to her)
hahaha, bruh....
OK you get my updoot. Fuggin hilarious.
And this is why a lot of bisexual people are basically bisexual-sexual. Because they tend to experience straight attraction in a very gay way and/or gay attraction in a straight way, maybe in addition to the other ways, and the people who tend to reciprocate that mostly also fall under the multi umbrella.
Peak brainrot ngl
Its sad isnt it? why did I laugh so loud?
Chat: Flirting, friends with no benefits.
I get the distinct impression that a lot of this is less Michi's fault and more the fact that it's illegal in her country. I'm a completely straight dude but I can imagine coming out would be hard enough for a lot of people even in a country where it's legal, much less one where it isn't, and it's a lot easier to downplay some flirting later than an actual BF/GF.
Probably part of it but I’ve lived my entire life in America and I can relate 😅
it’s not impossible though. i know a few gay couples here. you just have to be very good at keeping the secret
It's not illegal in her country, there's no law for that. It's the society and it depends on your social surroundings. If you in more liberal circles and community or surrounded by more open minded people then they don't make a big deal out of it.
"Last month, two Indonesian soldiers were given a seven-month jail term for having gay sex, which the military deems "inappropriate behaviour".
At least 15 members of the police and military have been fired in recent years for having gay sex, according to Amnesty International in 2020.
Last year in Aceh province, two men were sentenced to nearly 80 lashings each for having sex."
-france24, 2022
The Indonesian Survey Circle (LSI) found in its most recent poll conducted in 2012 that 80.6 percent of its sample population objected to having gays or lesbians as neighbors. The figure has jumped significantly from 64.7 percent in 2005.[5]
In recent years, LGBT people in Indonesia are facing growing hostility and intolerance. In early 2016, LGBT people and activists in Indonesia faced fierce opposition and attacks of homophobia and hate speech, even launched by Indonesian authorities.[6]
@@Redmanticore sure classic westerner always use Aceh as excuse, the only conservative province that have their own conservative law, and official personel like military and police as the examples of their own oppressive rules. Yeah sure sure. Y'all westerner always cherry picking to play "the good one" just to make yourself feel better than others. While western countries also still got many case oppressing lgbtq in certain fields or society, and bunch of homophobic politician/leaders and random comment on the internet, but y'all be like oh shoot that's just a bad day darling.
Damn people who get crushes easily be having it rough. Sounds frustrating
As someone who tends to catch feelings much faster than the general population, it's painful. I'm actually at a point in my life where I shut everything down. If someone is even remotely interested in me, I shut it down immediately because I've been jerked around and rejected far too much that now it's just not worth it in the end. I'm happy doing my own thing.
Eh. You get desensitized to it after you get rejected a couple times. I remember I used to be such a hopeless romantic when I was younger. Now I'm mostly numb to it all now. Romance, rejection, it just doesn't hit like it used to. On the bright side, it doesn't hurt as much either so there's that.
@@ResidentWeevil2077same. Though a part of me thinks what we're doing isn't really healthy. Its a defense mechanism sure, but it also ensures than we'll never let anyone get close to us. On the off chance that one of us ends up finding someone that genuinely likes us we'd just end up shutting that down before anything has the chance to blossom. That would be a damn shame. Deep down I do still want it. Im sure you're the same way. Otherwise we wouldn't bother developing such a stone cold exterior. Its because we wanted love in the past and that's why rejection hurts so much. Its personal.
Idk. Its a conundrum. Good luck to you tho. I hope you do end up finding someone and hopefully you're not too far gone bt then. Hopefully you'll be strong enough to take that risk one more time and give that person a chance.
Damn good luck to both of yall
Tbh Im kinda in that situation rn where Love really hurts, but I know that it's my fault why Im hurting because I don't really shoot my feelings right away and take a risk, that's why I always draw the short end of the stick and just let my feelings drift away.
"I'm In This Photo and I Don't Like It"
As a fellow hopeless romantic, I feel that for her
Not to mention that Ive also been someone who never knew someone liked me until years later a few times. I just be missing any signs apparently
@@MutatedAmerican No no hints are not obvious at all as even women fail to understand them. You are fine people just need to be direct with what they want and come to terms with reality is not a fairy tail
As a fellow hopeless romantic, same
You are not alone
Mood
Brushing past the tragedy of it being illegal in Indo 😢
Muslim dominated country. My advice to her would be to get out to the west somewhere on a visa for being under threat of oppression for her sexuality
Tbf, most people have lived here with that as a fact for so long that it's not a tragedy so much anymore. I heard most people who aren't straight just go abroad to fulfill that
@@justacatwithasadface2692 it's still horrifying no matter how many workarounds there are or how lax the enforcement might be, it means people grow up with that cultural stigma attached to how they feel
That's F'd up@@justacatwithasadface2692
Blame islam
20% success rate for all of us. Better rates than most gacha pulls.
Somehow that 0.5% had been yielding better results, though 😅
@@braveagentgthat’s also cos we try that 70 times more
If you're comparing dating to gatcha pulling you're so cooked bro 💀
@Ytfku That's not the equivalent comparison. Gacha pity equivalency in relationships means you exhausted all the options you had in your area, occasionally attempting the same person multiple times, only for the best match to show up once you're old and tired.
But as for the comparison you made, 🫂
20% ??? That's great. Mine's more like the percentage for low or dealcoholized beer.
I'm glad to know that I'm not the only hopeless romantic cosmic plaything when it comes to incompatible sexualities. Me having a crush on someone has become, in my friend group, a _reliable predictor_ of whether they're either gay or, much less often, going to transition within the next few years.
This has been a decade-long trend.
Heart out to michi.
She knows what it's like to hang with girls that want ego boosts and attention
im hopeless minus the p
Me too brother
Damn 😂
Me irl
Wow. I had this problem in high school. I think I had three crushes in my friend group (people in my league, anime nerds and the like) and they were all gay. MAN, I thought i was the only one. Then I had three failed dates in college and that killed my confidence. I am now 37 and have been forever single, never been in a relationship. 😔
o7
Did you at least become a wizard? Also 3 more years and grand sorcerer.
@@StormCrusher94 No magic yet. 😅😌
Had the same situation with after my first relationship ended man. Every woman I found I was attracted to thereafter and got on well with was either gay or bi and already dating a woman.
Ironically, I think that made for much better friendships in the long run since there was no sexual tension and also no mind games either, so we were honest and chill with eachnother.
I mean, its frustrating as far as trying to get into a relationship goes, but I dunno, I'll never regret making more friends and I've enjoyed my time hanging out with those women a lot more than time spent on dates or on dating apps the last couple of years, a majority of which were basically like be slowly drowned in debt and boredom.
@@bigbangtheory0000Sounds like copium
Michi is such a flag that she developed the power to turn people into homosexuals, that's amazing
Personally speaking I tried avoiding dating between middle and high school because I kept overhearing gossip about who’s dating who, girls flirting with each other in a very close/personal manner, and I kept seeing so many pregnant teens that I just said “No, too much to take in at once”. I did try to ask someone out once and I was rejected before I could even ask them out, then by college everything just got hectic to the point where I wanted to prioritize on my studies.
This is probably the most sincere and honest display of one’s preferences I have ever seen.
A fellow soul, catching crushes and pining for them from afar, until it is too late😢😢
I like that most clips for other vtubers are like 30 seconds to 2 minutes long, but Michi has 15-45 minute clips lol.
Every time and i love that for her
She do be yapping a lot we love that.
Its always interesting too like a whole scene rather than a clip😭
I just realised.
Michi's forehead is MAAAAAAASSIVE
I have been the "Discovery Channel" for a number of women too, I feel your pain 😢
End of the day though, they're still my friends, so there's a reason I treasure them, so really, more power to them for figuring it out sooner rather than later! I'm lucky enough to know from the get go that I'm straight, but others really REALLY got to struggle with the uncertainty of their orientation and how it would affect their relationships. At this point, I'm in no rush and it's gonna happen when it happens.
Only Vtuber I would actually date was MM. She seemed very sweet and caring
Maid Mint? 😛
It’s a lot easier to confess to crushes when doing so doesn’t put you at extreme risk of being defenestrated from the top floor of a high-rise. Just saying.
Oh my god, this entire video is a MASSIVE MOOD. lmao.
The reminds me of that meme where they go
"Damn bro no one wants you 😂"
😢 I'm a straight woman but omg I feel so sad by some of these situations Michi talked about here. Specially about the girl she liked who told her "oh I have a boyfriend now" after a long while of flirting.. I experienced that but with a dude I liked!! Even if it was unintentional it can suuuuck.
If she's still open to it, I hope she meets someone who'll make her happy and treat her right.
it's funny to see people talk about stuff like that. Like I experienced 0 of that type of experience like that it's so odd to think about.
"I think I've had a lot of crushes on a lot of people" ... Yes, we know, don't need a lie detector to know it... again (?) xD
God, I love Michi’s personality so much
(Calm down, I really do mean it platonically. She’s just genuinely such an openly precious person. And, that’s hard for anyone to be nowadays. So, I simply appreciate her for being true to herself in such an open, honest, and vulnerable way.)
Nobody was questioning you on what you meant...
@@Swagmaster65i guess people like to make it weird sometimes? Dont know tho
💯
Y’all are really going to leave these replies as if I hadn’t said what I said at the end there, people wouldn’t have left all kinds of condescending comments trying to make themselves feel morally, ethically, and intellectually superior? Which is exactly what YOU ALL are doing in the first place with your replies. Even though I went out of my way to try and prevent it by being transparent and honest… Y’all serious right now?! Y’all are lucky censorship exists, because y’all can’t even be told or see what people really think about how clueless you are. It happens all the time you dunces.
Also, “get ratioed”
Michi Mochievee, Patron Saint of Tragic Bisexuals.
She's our leader😭😭😭
Michi I feel your pain. In highschool my gaydar was uncanny (broken that is). I crushed and asked out several girls in Junior high and every single one of them were lesbian.....one of which was in relationship with a bi girl that I also had a crush on and knew as a friend. I knew the bi girl was in a relationship with a girl but didn't add things together with that one. This has remained a joke I use often, that I had a streak of crushing on gay girls XD
Brother I know exactly your struggle. Every Damn Time.
I feel the pain. I tend to like girls who like girls and guys who like girls
I related so much to this this gotta be the longest 14 minutes of Vtuber clip I ever felt
As a bi gal I can relate lol
1:04 Michi was in her Simp arc. We can all relate…
Michi, hope you find your special someone one day. As a fellow hopeless romantic, you have my sympathies.
12:40 BASED!!!!! ME TOOOO
A hopeless romantic all my life. Surrounded by couples all the time. I guess I should take it as a sign
She's just like me...
SHE'S JUST LIKE ME FR!!!!
Michi and me are similar we like people who are attracted to their own gender as she had crushes on gay guys and i had crushes on lesbian girls 😂😂😂
oof.
As a pansexual who has never managed a relationship I feel of Michi so much
*STARES INTO SUN AND LIGHT TO ACTUALLY NEED GLASSES*
At this point I don't think there is a topic that Michi will not hide about.
And we like pampering Michi... :)
Well the reason bi curious people exist is because sometimes you are not attracted to the same gender sexually, but ARE attracted to them romantically or personality wise. So it makes sense that they'd want to experiment to discover if they're bisexual or not instead of looking a noody pics or vids.
12:00 healthiest lesbian relationship be like
An absolute king once said, women want what they can't have.
The whole video I felt like I was hearing myself lmao, the normal bi girly expirience 😭
I don't know what love feels like tbh
Personally, I have never flirted, ever... and I am so dense that even if anyone tried to flirt with me, I wouldn't get the hint or I would say to myself "is this normal? okay..." instead.
I can't handle compliments either, because if I don't believe what they say about me I feel like they are making fun of me. Especially if it's out of nowhere.
I blame my traumatic childhood. I was bullied A LOT because I was fat. So I gave up on love in any kind of form even before I knew what a relationship was.
Also, all the woman that have liked me have been nutjobs one way or another...and one was a very confused lesbian (still now sure how to feel about that one). I merely accepted their feelings in hopes to feel anything back for them in due time, but to no avail.
Nowadays, I enjoy my bachelorhood without regrets, but it's kinda sad to know that my genes end with me.
Lil' bro is worse at socializing than me, so I don't have many hopes that he will fare better than me, I at least have a few exes to my name, but he is 10 years younger, it has time to mature... I hope.
I know I’m not supposed to but can anyone point to the cut video she could probably be in?
It's really hard to ba a hopeless romantic. When you thought that it is finally time to get a relationship, then you would get disappointed because it's not meant to be. I thought that i would finally have a first girlfriend at 27 but i discovered that she's on a different religion which is Islam and in the philippines we re everyone's a conservative, i just take the L and just cutoff any contacts with her to prevent myself from feeling down then as 3 months passed she got married to another guy by her family and what really made me cry was when her friend messaged me that she died of cancer 😢 and that really broke me.
Having a crush sucks most of the time.
I don't even know my chances, but I'd like Michi ❤
Really good that they made things clear but poor Michi lol
in terms of relationship luck, she is my spirit animal
And they call it bad romance
Damn. Playing both sides of the fence, and still can't get any...
I love how over the last seven years of my schooling life I've gone over the people in my year level and said 'I'd like to go out with them', then in the every time within the next seven literal days, they ALL always come out as gay... while the pool of people is relatively small, once most people were open about their preferences it turned out I'd liked the few and only lesbian relationships.
*Inserts joker meme about society*
Michi is a needy top, got it
4:24 that happened to me too. i was chatting up this girl i cought feelings for at university and we'd walk, chat, and sometimes eat dinner after our evening class. It was winter too so it's frickn cold out and we STILL found the time to talk to each other! then after spring break on the first day of spring quarter we have lunch and at the end of it she says "oh, by the way, i got a boyfriend over break." "oh cool. congrats, man!" gosh dangit XD
Oof, well I guess thats another thing I relate with Michi on, all the unrequited love of the past. At this point I've given up. I'm the last one of my friends from high school that isn't married, and I haven't had a girlfriend since high school, who dumped me on my birthday for one of those friends.
taking in the fumes of the venom, thanks! at least I dont have to drink it
Poor Michi she's cursed to feel attracted to people who aren't attracted to her. Chat,it's over for us
She has double the options but still pulls nothing 😭🙏
Oh this is pain.
This is the funniest shit Ive seen all day cos holy fuck thats some hilarious levels of girlfailure. The neurodivergency is on full display lol
Question from the ASD corner of the room, does initiating intimate contact or initiating physical affection make you a top
As far as I know, it's entirely to do with who leads and guides the intimacy. There's some kind of leader-participant role thing going on, and it doesn't even have to stay consistent within the intimacy.
I know where you're coming from and here's my answer/s:
To the question itself as presented, no. Its neither reliable as a waypoint/judge or indicative to their label.
To your question, this is one of the instances where the flags/indicators generally used to navigate the social layers are the issue and the simple, blunt literal answer is right. Missing the forest for the tree as they say. All "top, bottom, switch, etc" signify is which position(generally) and role(give or receive) someone fills in regards to sex and yes, literally. Which, being totally honest, if you're hetero this has very little to no value to you since the roles at their core are immutable.
Also, Swagmaster has the right general idea using leader-participant role though that is a bit too specific imo. Dance partners(equals but one leads and one follows) is what my gut says more accurately portrays the dynamic in a broad generalization. Dominant and Submissive are widely and incorrectly(understandably though) used synonymously with top and bottom since the typical ideas they convey are of a similar nature but they aren't applicable in lieu as they are denote specific variations, not basic starting points
However, would be an ass if I didn't point out and make the distinction that, it is possible, to use the initiation of intimacy to accurately infer someone's preferential role provided the requisite information(the context of the how, when, where have more significant signs/patterns/reasoning) is available. Though by that point far more is being spent than gained.
Michi the lonely driver
Love is a gacha rollercoaster.
Dude I felt this so hard, falling for a straight girl is heartbreaking. Never doing that again 😂😂😂😂
Kinda messed up how lesbian relationships are prohibited in Indonesia if you ask me.
damn old people in government
It's just their own rules anyways
@@nobody4179 "Just their own rules" is really a shitty justification.
@@Squeaky_Ben just saying what i want to say
The more I learn about her romantic preferences/interests the more I think we'd be a good match, except... I'm on the other side of the world /and/ part of a faceless horde.
Is this early stage parasocialism, or do I have to be more delusional for that?
My god,she is so real for falling for gay men and straight women😭😭
bro, she's just like me fr fr
A lot of one-sided romantic relationships.
El hopaness romtic
Maindenless michi , sadge.
Bro, these clips making me straight parasocial for her 😂
Omg i had this exactly experience
El Hopaness Romtic
I hate that I see a lot of myself in this video lmao
Being Michi-zoned must be harsh.
found her friend on the cut -- I believe -- wasn't even to hard
what's the title?
Which the cut?
Poor michi I would date her
She should just stop 😂
When you stop thinking about this stuff, you'll feel way lighter and way better
*_Is not about giving up, is about knowing when to stop_*
Honestly, the idea of "you took too long" is hella scary
Ya, trying to figure out if another girl is flirting with me is a nightmare sometimes. I'm alrdy bad at picking up on subtext, but like just this past weekend i was at my cousin's block party n a cute girl came over to ask us for a cigarette n she starts complimenting my hair n my outfit n im getting vibes but im unsure, n also not used to flirting in front of the my family but especially since technically these r my mom's cousins so they r older n look at me like im some sweet innocent thing (in spite of me being dressed like a hooker 😹) so i just kinda was a deer in the headlights while i tried to figure out if this girl was flirting with me. Then she makes it super obvious as she is saying goodbye. I had introduced myself n shook her hand but she didnt let go n did that where her thumb was caressing my hand, n she kissed me on the cheek n whispered I Love You... 🫠 my brain fucking melted n i had no response. I went to go grab another beer to gain some liquid courage n when I came outside she was gone. Im a huge flirt online but outside of clubs n bars im so not used to being hit on IRL anymore n it is usually creepy dudes when it happens so when a cute girl hits on me i have no idea wut to do. Sapphic romances r fucking difficult sometimes. :P
I appreciate these highlights and clips. her vods are too goddamn long lmao
The reason it's you is because they think you're hot
Happy pride month Michi! I’m sure you’ll find love some day ❤
I'd give Michi a chance and date her.
bro are we the same person?!
Imagine ghosting one of the most powerful vtubers
The internalized homophobia strikes in mysterious ways xD
It's the same for me with women but they turn out to be gay (I'm a guy)
6:27 so how do you spell that word I'd like to look it up.
Puttning the L in LGBT amirite lmao XD
Michi was set up for failure lol
I just realized, her forehead is huge