How to Talk to Women and Make Them Want You

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  • Опубликовано: 23 ноя 2024

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  • @oskar9496
    @oskar9496 4 года назад +107

    Wish I knew this when I was 15. I’m 23 now and have always been the nice guy. Basically CONFIDENCE, HUMOUR and staying RELAXED is everyting

  • @giasav8196
    @giasav8196 6 лет назад +500

    I am a woman watching this and he nails it.....

  • @claudealpha2090
    @claudealpha2090 3 года назад +142

    Not having an older brother or a father figure most of my life means that I wasn't taught how to do this at any point. Thank you for doing this, Dan.

  • @darkstar3656
    @darkstar3656 6 лет назад +399

    The problem is I can't think clearly when I talk with the Girl that I like ( I don't have problem when talk with other girl)

  • @nobu8953
    @nobu8953 5 лет назад +72

    I can't believe how effective these tips are. I literally spoke with this coworker I like, we conversed about her test in college. which she passed, and I made a joke about it and said, " I'm surprised, because you dont look that intelligent..." At first she froze up, not expecting my response, but I maintained a cool and calm demeanor with a smirk because I couldn't contain myself. I immediately felt her attention drawn to me as she burst out laughing. We talked throughout our entire work hours; playfully picking on each other, letting our hair down, and simply enjoying enjoying each other's company. At the end, when we clocked out, she took my phone and put her number down and told me to hit her up if ever I'm bored. I told her, "What makes you think I'd call someone as boring as you to kill the boredom." Looool Bro you're the man!!!!

  • @gabrield3166
    @gabrield3166 6 лет назад +1048

    I’m realizing now that nearly 80% of what we’ve been taught at school was useless bullshit. Good job, Dan! Your videos are very informative!

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  6 лет назад +45

      Thanks Gadji! More videos on the way...

  • @StillnessofMind
    @StillnessofMind 6 лет назад +375

    Very well put Galactic Woman. Dan's advice should be taught to all teenage boys in school and not the advice I got as a teenager .. treat her like a princess, be a caring, sensitive nice guy and women will always be attracted to you. I believed this utter B.S. in my teens and 20s. It is toxic, b.s. advice. Thank god you are here to tell the truth Dan. Applause .. applause

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  6 лет назад +21

      Thanks Enchanting Knowledge! Much appreciated! BTW: Just released a new video that you might like: ruclips.net/video/do3n3lPX76w/видео.html

  • @SebastianSastre
    @SebastianSastre 6 лет назад +897

    This is it guys. It just works.

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  6 лет назад +86

      Thanks Sebastian! More videos on the way...

  • @jbart4183
    @jbart4183 3 года назад +10

    Number 2 tip is spot on.
    Most women(especially the good looking once) are accustomed to being "treated nicely" by all these simps, especially when they talk to her, you do this mistake and you'd be no different than these simps. So soldiers, tease that woman that you like, make fun of her(respectfully of course, don't be rude in any way). Believe me, it works 99% at a time.

  • @cerebralmindgame9818
    @cerebralmindgame9818 6 лет назад +323

    Most of us guys are stuck in our heads, coming from a male logical point of view when interacting with females. We fail to realize that women don't interpret our logic in a sexual manner. Getting women to feel attracted to us is based off of stimulating her range of emotions... not logic. Logic comes into play when it's time to express leadership towards her. Learn how to skillfully strum her emotions like a guitar and your good to go.

  • @emircampara4585
    @emircampara4585 6 лет назад +107

    I've learnt alot about girls through internet and lets call it "game" I'm in relationship now, but always doing homework and wanting to learn more. This man knows what is he talking about unlike other guys I've seen...It's all about improving and getting better. Remember, it's all in your head, it's how you talk, act and respond to girls!

  • @ispywithmyeye6978
    @ispywithmyeye6978 6 лет назад +255

    so many times i tried the nice guy approach,, it is BS , thanks for the advice,, wish I had know 30 years ago

  • @zhiyarali557
    @zhiyarali557 6 лет назад +97

    just lost my dating girl because I was toooo nice and accepted everything she said. now she doesn't even reply me cuz I was not man enough. I regret it, this video helped the shit out of me. great advice, thanks! will update this comment for future interactions!

  • @bretc.j.3898
    @bretc.j.3898 5 лет назад +68

    Thank you Dan. I'm an attractive guy who does well for himself. It used to be easy for me to get women because I used to drink quite a bit and let's say I was slightly cocky. I quit the drinking and found it very hard to land a woman of my uasually standard. I now realize that when I quit drinking I let the fun, confident side of me go by the wayside. And this somehow happened without my knowing, I found myself nervous around attractive women instead of loose and playful. I really enjoy your videos and will try to regain my confidence in a sober world. Thanks again sir! Will be putting these tips to the test this weekend

  • @markirek8956
    @markirek8956 5 лет назад +32

    This guy is on point, remember make her feel like she needs to impress you!, BE A CHALLENGE!

  • @cedricmichaud552
    @cedricmichaud552 5 лет назад +50

    Working as a cashier is really helping me improving my flirting skills because I can try things that I learn from here on hot women that comes to pay. Plus I don't have much time to make it work and make them laugh and make them feel attracted, so it helps me in trying to create sparks from tiny details and not any previous conversation

  • @masonicmoth
    @masonicmoth 2 года назад +7

    I'm 36 years old and perpetually single, never really quite sure of why... After watching this I realize that, with women I'm trying to meet, I've always been logical, nice, even sometimes funny; but extremely rarely am I teasing ... my humor is mostly reserved until I know someone and am comfortable with them. This must be why everyone who knows me tells me "you're great, idk why you can't find someone." ....I think I've gotta try to treat women that I like as though I am not afraid to lose them, cause really I don't have them in the first place.

  • @joshliu2410
    @joshliu2410 7 месяцев назад +2

    Best Men Coach Ever! This is a prove that pure quality is underestimated, I say this because I bet I'm not the only one who know that this channel worth millions subscribers and every video millions of views. For those loyal subscribers and viewers, we're all very very lucky for being here getting this knowledge that is pure gold. Dan "The Man"

  • @GalacticWoman
    @GalacticWoman 6 лет назад +1287

    You videos should be made part of a school curriculums for all teenage boys :)

    • @gas4money_46
      @gas4money_46 6 лет назад +159

      GalacticWoman no then there would be more competition of guys knowing what to do

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  6 лет назад +57

      Thanks GalacticWoman! Much appreciated. New video just released: ruclips.net/video/do3n3lPX76w/видео.html

    • @shonkysidewayssam6134
      @shonkysidewayssam6134 6 лет назад +192

      This type of material is what guys don’t want other guys to know. Lol

  • @armannixkhan
    @armannixkhan 6 лет назад +1272

    *women are smart, nice but they are not better than man*
    EPIC

  • @davida.taylor8444
    @davida.taylor8444 3 года назад +6

    The most difficult, but I think rewarding, part is being confident and "having a strong sense in your identity as a man," (@13:00 minute mark). This is definitely where I struggle the most as I tend to see the myriad of ways I fall short instead of actually being confident in who I presently am knowing that I am growing too. Good words!

  • @paarthkanwar9447
    @paarthkanwar9447 4 года назад +11

    Nobody is better than this guy

  • @sportsman192
    @sportsman192 3 года назад +8

    The ways I see myself displaying qualities that incite attraction are through my positive energy, wittiness, listening skills, and decisiveness. I make really good eye contact, never getting distracted by my phone, and having a soft and interested look. I ask open ended questions to get them talking and I always use short (witty if I can) meaningful responses to also show I'm listening and interested(not yeah, ok, cool, uhuh, really, oh). I end up getting them to do 90% of the talking and then only choosing to talk when I find a true connectable topic that highlights my attractive character qualities. I always make decisions to show I am a man who knows what he wants.

  • @justinrvarga7236
    @justinrvarga7236 6 лет назад +93

    Your material and techniques are priceless. You make us guys aware on a subconscious level to use all these elements. Your stuff works it’s as simple as that. Although I’m still dating and have no trouble meeting new ladies I’m starting to attract and connect with the ones I really want.
    I hope you get 1 million subscribers Dan because your channel is one of the very few that actually makes sense and works.

  • @Dakkanunu
    @Dakkanunu 6 лет назад +118

    Dan. When we try to impress a girl in confident,funny ,charismatic and challenging manner why the girl show some interest in the beginning and go cold after some days

  • @jeremyreed3604
    @jeremyreed3604 4 года назад +41

    this is what we need to learn in school rather than geometry

  • @rishiraj1616
    @rishiraj1616 4 года назад +41

    I realize I have been neutral around all the girls I ever liked. No wonder I failed!

  • @疾風危険な
    @疾風危険な 6 лет назад +72

    as a man i must admit that you are funny, and your jokes made me a smile

  • @keanfo
    @keanfo 6 лет назад +392

    This guy is the man!

  • @Llight-qg9tc
    @Llight-qg9tc 5 лет назад +112

    *yes don't be afraid to be a man* 😆😉 you can be gentle, but be a MAN. Gentleman 😄😎😉

  • @ayyub9855
    @ayyub9855 5 лет назад +206

    any guy named bacon is a guy i wanna be friends with

  • @gregmichael1236
    @gregmichael1236 2 года назад +1

    Facts Dan . Hit when you said identity or sucking up to a woman . They are the best & I don’t do manly things . You put reality into play & I like . I need a strong sense of me . Identity & core being of who I am . Not dabbling . STRONG CORE

  • @nmccracksublime
    @nmccracksublime 6 лет назад +14

    Wow. All the pieces that never made since to me suddenly match up and snap together after watching two of your videos. It feels like the last steps of the most rewarding part of doing any big puzzle. I can not express enough gratitude to do justice. Thank you so much.

  • @dansmusic5749
    @dansmusic5749 5 лет назад +17

    You know, you gotta love Dan. This guys advice is solid. His presentations are crystal clear and he is easy to listen to. He recognizes masculinity as the key and seems genuine, straightforward and compassionate.
    Along with all the great info, I think what I need is encouragement. I am going forward, in depth, with what he is trying to teach. I got "The Flow" on audio and I am studying it. What I am learning, so far, is to make all these tips my own by being "myself", staying natural and genuine. Women (like most people), can smell bullshit.
    To top it all off, he has the right name. lol

  • @Viralityoflife
    @Viralityoflife 5 лет назад +8

    Didn’t think I’d like your channel, but you’re so easily understood and so well spoken and you have balls, I like that. Got a new sub 👍🏻

  • @mirosgerg
    @mirosgerg 6 лет назад +179

    Great, great... when I talk to girls...
    ...
    This is what I skip and that's why I get rejected...
    No More Mr. Nice Guy

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  6 лет назад +11

      Glad you enjoyed the video. This new video includes more examples of what to say to avoid being a Mr. Nice Guy who gets rejected: ruclips.net/video/do3n3lPX76w/видео.html

  • @adambloomer4758
    @adambloomer4758 5 лет назад +9

    Some really great advice. Not too aggressive or 'alpha male' like some other tips other people give but still challenging her and being a bit cheeky about it. Will definitely follow some of Dan's tips.

  • @mickeyroyal
    @mickeyroyal 5 лет назад +12

    My man, great video! Excellent advice! I’ve personally experiences where I was afraid to be a Man and stand up for what I like and don’t like. I changed it up so that she would like me and was later rejected. Of course then I was left angry and scratching my head because I “Did everything right”. What this tells me is that no matter what they say, Women have a deeper love for Men/Masculinity than I did. I’ve never gone back since and found that it was true that women are more turned on by a man who will stand up for himself. I like to watch WWII and Nature documentaries and I don’t care for Tyler Perry flicks and that’s that. Lol

  • @thebubulibo2269
    @thebubulibo2269 4 года назад +2

    I dont really know why im watching this video, i have a girl and when I'm single my dating life is good, but i really like this video, straight forward no crap abd actually helpful.

  • @debrajmajumder4178
    @debrajmajumder4178 5 лет назад +18

    Nothing like a Dan Bacon video to make a man feel powerful on the inside.
    Thanks Dan!

  • @joshliu2410
    @joshliu2410 Год назад

    You really are a Dating Expert! You explain clearly and with no run around, very clear, understandable and straight to the point, just great Dan! Thank you

  • @maxhd2139
    @maxhd2139 5 лет назад +11

    Damn youre literally a livesaver ive been watching youre videos for half a year now and ive noticed a huge improvent.

  • @michaelschaefer9266
    @michaelschaefer9266 5 лет назад +7

    Dan, you said we can feel free to ask you to make a video on any other related topics. So, I think that it can be really useful and helpful if you make a video only of sample lines, of examples. Something like "20 lines of making fun with a girl talking about jobs". Because your examples are precious for me. They are the moments when I get to the bottom of your ideas.

  • @ozzybrooks5316
    @ozzybrooks5316 6 лет назад +42

    When trying to re-attract and get out of the friend zone should you compliment her? And should you friendzone her so she has to chase You?

  • @thewatcher8368
    @thewatcher8368 6 лет назад +82

    Thanks for the massive dose of reality that I needed the most from the toxic alternative reality that I'm in now .... Great content ....

  • @FidelTshivhasa
    @FidelTshivhasa 6 лет назад +8

    You're an interesting person. I'm the type of guy who has everything going for him except everything you've mentioned in 2 of your videos. I see most of these things and I thought its a natural thing for some guys and girls like those type of guys and not me. It always frustrated and depressed me. Now I know why!

  • @learningftw8173
    @learningftw8173 4 года назад +2

    I was into rsd and other relationship related channels but this guy is pretty good, straight forward and accurate, nice job

  • @DonRamiro1
    @DonRamiro1 3 года назад +3

    Bacon, every video you make just absolutely sizzles! GREAT VIDEO, mi jefe!

  • @keelanleavy311
    @keelanleavy311 3 года назад +6

    It took me nearly 7 years to master this

  • @maaifoediedelarey4335
    @maaifoediedelarey4335 5 лет назад +5

    I'm GenX, 'over the hill' hah, but still amazed to listen to you, man ! You're echoing basically all the mistakes I made when I was younger, just articulating it perfectly so I can pass better advice to my bother's GenZ sons. Young guys - it doesn't matter which Generation you're in, even if you're Gen Z, you may think that everything has changed, but I can assure you : Nothing has changed. Do yourself a favour : Listen to the man - it's the real thing. Skip the PUA & ninja tricks b.s. Success with women starts from within (do work out, do dress right - but ignore the rest of the material b.s.), just focus on believing in yourself, material possessions means absolutely nothing - if any girl snubs you for that, or any other reason, she's not worth your time.

  • @VesZettCsiGaA
    @VesZettCsiGaA 4 года назад +11

    Damn, I feel like I should've watched this before the NYE party. Ruined my chances with a girl I met there. At first I was laid back, funny, and confident, but as soon as she started showing interest I got reaally needy so I messed things up. Oh well, plenty of fish in the see I guess.

  • @chrisfollmer6315
    @chrisfollmer6315 6 лет назад +21

    Always make sure to ask to see her paintings 😊

  • @stefanross8129
    @stefanross8129 2 года назад +1

    ..... On a weekly basis, reviewing the fundamentals. Thank you Dan.

  • @aintnunbutapenut
    @aintnunbutapenut 6 лет назад +104

    “Have a bit of a squeeze” hahahaha how about that gluteus maximus ?

  • @lablel
    @lablel 4 года назад +3

    Broooo that’s exactly what I needed to hear. That’s genius.

  • @TreGC69
    @TreGC69 4 года назад +11

    Ive watched plenty red pilled videos/channels and I seem to come back to Dan whenever I want the bacon.

  • @Bigvergbigverg23
    @Bigvergbigverg23 4 года назад +5

    Thank god I found him at 18 years old n after my break up for being to nice 🙂

  • @MrQuan2u
    @MrQuan2u 5 лет назад +8

    your advice on women are very profound.

  • @Mehdinachky
    @Mehdinachky 6 лет назад +10

    These pictures in your videos are cool. Makes the content so easy to watch and follow. Also i loveee MMA, the only thing that makes society go in the wrong direction is feminism and weak guys nowdays. Cheers

  • @ghuldorgrey
    @ghuldorgrey 6 лет назад +16

    really appreciate your videos dan. Thanks and keep being awesome

  • @PP-ns8zj
    @PP-ns8zj 6 лет назад +22

    your new video series are more informative ..
    thanks for your sharing your work , research, and experience .

  • @martycech5844
    @martycech5844 2 месяца назад

    Tip #2 is Gold

  • @WeLiveWeDie
    @WeLiveWeDie 5 лет назад +5

    Trust me this works.

  • @stefanross8129
    @stefanross8129 6 лет назад +18

    ...... A truly BADAZZ And fantastic video Dan. You've done a great job of breaking down the process of attraction by creating a spark and giving good examples. And I find many of your examples, your playfully sarcastic and snarky remarks to be HILARIOUS. I suppose the key to being utterly confident is by entertaining yourself first! ...... I say things to people, especially hot girls, that I think are stating what's painfully obvious in a sarcastic/flirtatious way. Thanks for the video!

  • @Seventh721
    @Seventh721 3 года назад +1

    Well, what I"ve found that works for me, is that when you want to go up to a woman and talk to her, without knowing anything about her, or it being the first time you've seen her, is go into the conversation cocky and with the idea of I don't care if she rejects me, who really gives a fuck? if you go into your approach like that, you will get her attention EVERY single time. I have been doing that for almost 2 years and I have yet to fail once. I'm not a great looking guy either, which shows that you don't have to be a good looking guy, although that helps, but ultimately you just have to know how to talk to a woman. But it works every time for me.

  • @stefanross8129
    @stefanross8129 Год назад +1

    .... Always reviewing the fundamentals!

  • @fireplayer476
    @fireplayer476 5 лет назад +4

    I like this advice a lot.
    If they play a game you play the game.
    You my friend deserve much more subs.

  • @thescientists5249
    @thescientists5249 6 лет назад +31

    You sure got a powerful subscriber

  • @BrankoP85
    @BrankoP85 5 лет назад +6

    This one co-worker of mine is a very attractive woman, and as of lately, she has started to "check me out" by looking my way, talking about personal stuff randomly that i never ask about, for instance, she recently told me that she is soon going to move to her own place, or that she "needs to find a man" while looking away while telling me that...
    So, what should i make out of her behaviour??...Is that a sign that she is interested in me?? Should i make a move on her and HOW in that case? Or is that just all friendly talk and me imagining stuff??

  • @yirehmiyahmagsayo361
    @yirehmiyahmagsayo361 4 года назад +1

    sir love your videos it save a lot of guys from difficult in women

  • @nicholaskong1673
    @nicholaskong1673 2 года назад

    It's nice to know that sparks can be created.

  • @Papijuan97
    @Papijuan97 6 лет назад +8

    I’ve watched several videos on this, by far this is the greatest video I’ve seen!

  • @jeffreyolivito8810
    @jeffreyolivito8810 5 лет назад +8

    I’m impressed / My game definitely needed fine tuning 👍

  • @johnsammers
    @johnsammers 2 месяца назад

    Dan, I live in a small village with not an attractive woman for miles....but, I now see where I've been going wrong. I'm older and single again now but know what I will do if I ever get another chance....

  • @berrislaing5113
    @berrislaing5113 6 лет назад +11

    This amazes me knowing that I have all these traits naturally and now listening to this guy making me even more sharper n aware. Very cool video. #alpha male it is to be frank 😉

  • @OfficialYOUNGgODREX
    @OfficialYOUNGgODREX 6 лет назад +38

    Good shit!!

  • @EstablishedHeritage
    @EstablishedHeritage 5 лет назад +2

    One of the best videos I've ever seen on this subject. 💯

  • @dinocrisisdinosaurenterpri656
    @dinocrisisdinosaurenterpri656 5 лет назад +5

    Thanks. I needed that. Great video

  • @dhawals502
    @dhawals502 5 лет назад

    Dan ... I had this puzzle since years on how guys manage attracting a girl ... Many times I found incompatible guys attracting very hot girls and I found it insane. The puzzle is now solved after many years from 06:00. Gratitude Dan!🙏 Thanks so much ... PL read this comment.

  • @emanueleabrami8355
    @emanueleabrami8355 3 года назад

    You are one of the best. Inspiring. Helpful. You helped my once, here I am to learn more 3 years later.

  • @renatoparedes7
    @renatoparedes7 3 года назад

    Great 👍 video. It's clear that a guy has to be cool and the agressor at the same time.

  • @robertskok5682
    @robertskok5682 4 года назад +1

    Why do women ghost men when 2 days before she tells you she likes you a lot and wants to take things slow? Once I catch feelings for someone and don’t come in to strong I get ghosted or friend zoned immediately

  • @williamwallace1441
    @williamwallace1441 5 лет назад

    This guy is good. I have learned all of this years ago when i was 21, 22 years old and its was not easy to find girls who dont sleep because they virgin but it doesnt mean i didnt date them. Also in europe but after marriage and divorce i am forgotten some of my natural behavior when it comes to find New girl i like. Its good to hear and remember old style of carismatic guy things.

  • @surfhikelove5945
    @surfhikelove5945 3 года назад

    Works when you're married too!

  • @abhishekanxnd
    @abhishekanxnd 3 года назад +1

    This one's great!!! Props to you, Dan!

  • @petemc5070
    @petemc5070 4 года назад +4

    First time I've ever hit the subscribe button on youtube.

  • @leone41ll
    @leone41ll 6 лет назад +22

    Hey dan, you've changed my life, been able to attract older women i like. Been wanting to make time to hook up with one of them, but she's a mother of two, making time in the evenings is hard. Any alternatives to this? Thanks.

    • @fregonzetta
      @fregonzetta 6 лет назад +38

      just stay away from single mothers lol but whatever is your life

    • @Dexyu
      @Dexyu 6 лет назад +55

      Kenny Leone Single moms is the same as loading somone elses saved game.

  • @arfankhan549
    @arfankhan549 6 лет назад +63

    Very nice ,you have chahged my life

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  6 лет назад +3

      I'm glad to be able to help! Just a released a new video that you might like: ruclips.net/video/do3n3lPX76w/видео.html

  • @AnonyMous-gs2gw
    @AnonyMous-gs2gw 5 лет назад

    In my head I was thinking showing that one of her stories is boring wouldn't work, then I remembered a time when I was talking to a girl I met on tinder and she was telling a story and I started snoring and acted like I was asleep. She laughed about it and she got "in the mood"

  • @srhira1344
    @srhira1344 6 лет назад +4

    Just two words for you . Thank You.

  • @toyotaavelon4165
    @toyotaavelon4165 5 лет назад +3

    You are the man, since I flow your Technics, I get closer and closer to my lovely lady!

  • @jeppestrand279
    @jeppestrand279 3 года назад

    This is so true .. works very good every time..

  • @StealthDeception
    @StealthDeception 6 лет назад +38

    Could you make a video on how to react if a girl says that she has a boyfriend? I'm not sure if it's because she wants to test my confidence or to spare feelings.

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  6 лет назад +11

      Okay, will do. I've added it to my list of videos to make. In the meantime, this should help you with the topic of testing: ruclips.net/video/FhH0ZfcibGQ/видео.html

  • @chiragesrani
    @chiragesrani 4 года назад

    I want more videos like this because I have no topic to talk

  • @jamalrogers7003
    @jamalrogers7003 5 лет назад +4

    Thanks Dan, I really appreciate it and is helpful

  • @greenmatrixorb5262
    @greenmatrixorb5262 4 года назад +2

    Love this... Straight to the point!

  • @faliciah3363
    @faliciah3363 5 лет назад +9

    Any other girls here✋🏽✋🏽

  • @Stampida1
    @Stampida1 6 лет назад +18

    Hi Dan, I’ve been trying to date this girl I really like for about four months now but she keeps telling me that she doesn’t feel that way about me and only wants friendship. She is Hungarian.

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  6 лет назад +2

      This is why: www.themodernman.com/blog/she-likes-me-but-doesnt-want-a-relationship.html

  • @thabanemhlongo8888
    @thabanemhlongo8888 5 лет назад +4

    i love this man

  • @okwui04
    @okwui04 6 лет назад +10

    Dan, can you talk about how to activity display those personality traits that naturally attract women through text?

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  6 лет назад +8

      Okay, I'll add that to my list of vids to make. Cheers, Dan