The idea that people could use a statement or a post you posted ten years ago and have people believe that it’s a full representation of who you are today that you can’t be afforded change not only by yourself but the public because of that post! I am pushing back against the idea that people cannot cautiously change. It's absurd! YOU as you are reading this you are not the same person you were five years ago in fact you don’t even agree with the things you said two weeks ago! Why can you not afford Chris the same grace? I am so glad that people are pushing back against the toxic cancel culture. Thank you for this video!
What's worse they fail to cancel our own celebrities but here they are wanting to cancel chris for something he did as a young man,Rihanna forgave him a long time ago, they must boycott him if they want, but they should also have respect for those who choose to support him and forgave him for his past deeds.
Change is not afforded you, change is a deliberate decision and a process that takes time, work and effort to achieve. And it is your responsibility to convince those around you of the change that you have made, otherwise we are all judged by our past behavior whether 10 years ago or two months ago. It is nonsensical to expect people judge you differently without any evidence to suggest that you are different person or whatever lessons that you have learned from your past experience. We are all judged, yes judged, by our past and present actions and behaviors. So, it is important that we are very mindful of how we present ourselves and the energy that we are putting out there because society does not owe anybody understanding.
So profound! Truly God has blessed us by giving us you, You don't take sides like some do. Instead, you fight for what is right unwavering, for that you have my deepest respect!
I’ve seen so many of your videos before this on X and Facebook, but this video finally got me to subscribe to your challenge. Let common sense prevail in our people! Edit: I am also going to the Chris Brown concert.
Cancel can be very dangerous and it has alot of double standards because if people love you (you can never do any wrong) and if they dislike you for whatever reason things can be really bad for you. I feel it's also very bias and has to do with alot of misguided emotions.
I think it depends. If someone has made amends for their actions, has taken accountability and tried to right their wrongs, then cancelling them would be giving them a punishment that is not proportional to their crime. However if this person has not taken accountability and refuses to acknowledge their actions, then people are warranted to not support them. I also don't like cancel culture but I also wont be defending people who are yet to make amends. That's my 2 cents.
What if the person is being repeatedly called out for their behavior and does not change. Talent is cool and all but we want this person to grow and learn and grow from what they did. What happens if they continue harming, it's not just the Rihanna thing.
and people act like it was chris brown only who was the abusive one rihanna also hit and abused chris brown it was a two sided thing thats why she ended up forgiving him in the end and it was flippen 15 years ago
So people are canceling Chris Brown for😮 yet their cannot cancel themselves and their bad behaviour or tolerating bad behaviour from their circle😂... Must be nice living in glass houses 😊
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Let us be realistic we cannot sack Chris Brown from coming to South Africa at this point we doing to much yha weve won the world cup but where not the it of the world let us humble ourselves hayi marn masingaphambani if you dont want to watch or listen to Chis Brown than dont that is your choice dont make it ours tyini masiyokonwaba singabanye!
So basically you refrained from having an opinion on a celebrity/influencer who has displayed a pattern of bad behaviour because you are scared that other ppl will call you out on the internet for your own behaviour ? really friend... cancel culture is about keeping these celebrities/influencers accountable ..the fact that their talent persists despite their behaviour is the problem! ppl will ignore their bad behaviour because they like the song/content they produce...so cancelling and telling others to boycott their content keeps them accountable for their actions. it hits them in their wallet where they feel it the most. Cancelling ppl isn't 100% effective but it a step in the right direction towards not tolerating bad behaviour just because someone is rich,famous and talented. In Chris Browns case he has displayed a PATTERN of bad behaviour towards women...he apologized for rihanna but moving forward in his life has the displayed behaviour that shows he wants to be a better person and change his ways? if yes then fine the cancelling is unfair but if not..which is what ppl are seeing.. then he deserves the cancellation. At this point just say youre a fan
Trust me ..keeping quiet on your position on a celebrity/influencers questionable behaviour will not save you from being called out and cancelled on the internet if you do some questionable things yourself. Chirs may be a dad and friend and a brother etc but if the claims are true then he's also an abuser and a misogynist and that behaviour no matter the good he's done can not be tolerated
Well so many people are waking and have stopped adhering to this cancel culture nonsense. One of the most disgusting things that’s very prevalent with people like you is that you take away accountability from women and act like they can do no wrong. This is also why cancel culture targets mainly certain races and a specific gender (which is men). When it comes to Chris brown, he has a history fighting and beating up men but no one calls for his cancellation when he does that. But apparently he should be cancelled for beating up Rihanna who initiated their altercation and got what she deserved. You even dare to say cancellation is the step towards the right direction as if your judgement and calls for destroying people’s lives has been 100% accurate. So many people have had their lives ruined on false allegations and the refusal to address this by feminists and their like is why we are done with this pathetic movement. If you want to cancel and boycott anyone do it at your own peril, just don’t try to recruit us in your rubbish.
@@arnoldm1361 Well so many people are waking and have stopped adhering to this cancel culture nonsense. One of the most disgusting things that’s very prevalent with people like you is that you take away accountability from women and act like they can do no wrong. This is also why cancel culture targets mainly certain races and a specific gender (which is men). When it comes to Chris brown, he has a history fighting and beating up men but no one calls for his cancellation when he does that. But apparently he should be cancelled for beating up Rihanna who initiated their altercation and got what she deserved. You even dare to say cancellation is the step towards the right direction as if your judgement and calls for destroying people’s lives has been 100% accurate. So many people have had their lives ruined on false allegations and the refusal to address this by feminists and their like is why we are done with this pathetic movement. If you want to cancel and boycott anyone do it at your own peril, just don’t try to recruit us in your rubbish.
This girl obviously believes accountability is solely foe women, not men, cos ive Never heard her extend this much grace to instagram baddies & they harm no one!
@@LocalEdits_v8j Well so many people are waking and have stopped adhering to this cancel culture nonsense. One of the most disgusting things that’s very prevalent with people like you is that you take away accountability from women and act like they can do no wrong. This is also why cancel culture targets mainly certain races and a specific gender (which is men). When it comes to Chris brown, he has a history fighting and beating up men but no one calls for his cancellation when he does that. But apparently he should be cancelled for beating up Rihanna who initiated their altercation and got what she deserved. You even dare to say cancellation is the step towards the right direction as if your judgement and calls for destroying people’s lives has been 100% accurate. So many people have had their lives ruined on false allegations and the refusal to address this by feminists and their like is why we are done with this pathetic movement. If you want to cancel and boycott anyone do it at your own peril, just don’t try to recruit us in your rubbish.
Repentance is not saying “sorry God” and moving on with your life . It’s a change of heart which leads to a change of behaviour. It’s easy to see if someone has truly repented and most importantly God knows when people have done it sincerely. I never worry about inflicting punishment on people that do wrong because I know that every act will have consequences Whether we can see it or not. A lot of celebrities like Chris have not repented and they will answer for that
@@Sihleeey Thank you for your answer. Lets take this account to demonstrate repentance based on you answer. Luke 18:9-14 kjv, a publican was justified rather than a Pharisee. The follow up comes in to say, what made this man (publican) change his behaviour whilst a doctor of the law failed to be an example to him? If you can, please explain with scriptures. Thank you once again.
He doesn’t have to be called or be a Christian for his life to still go on even after he does wrong things. And it does not mean that he doesn’t have and opportunity to repent like Christians do
@@Sihleeey I am not Christian so I was confused because you made it sound like he is called by God.I mean concerning the whole thing about not giving him a chance, I think that is unfair.
@@tumweonlycommentary2797 From my minimal knowledge, I thought people that are called by God actually spread God's word, they become the light of the World but Chris Brown is definitely of the world according to Christian standards. So I just feel like she just speaking and mixing up things just to defend Chris Brown, I think she could have defended him without mixing it with Christianity. Chris Brown is not using his gifts for the glory of God. That is what I mean.
The idea that people could use a statement or a post you posted ten years ago and have people believe that it’s a full representation of who you are today that you can’t be afforded change not only by yourself but the public because of that post! I am pushing back against the idea that people cannot cautiously change. It's absurd! YOU as you are reading this you are not the same person you were five years ago in fact you don’t even agree with the things you said two weeks ago! Why can you not afford Chris the same grace? I am so glad that people are pushing back against the toxic cancel culture. Thank you for this video!
What's worse they fail to cancel our own celebrities but here they are wanting to cancel chris for something he did as a young man,Rihanna forgave him a long time ago, they must boycott him if they want, but they should also have respect for those who choose to support him and forgave him for his past deeds.
Thank you
Change is not afforded you, change is a deliberate decision and a process that takes time, work and effort to achieve. And it is your responsibility to convince those around you of the change that you have made, otherwise we are all judged by our past behavior whether 10 years ago or two months ago. It is nonsensical to expect people judge you differently without any evidence to suggest that you are different person or whatever lessons that you have learned from your past experience.
We are all judged, yes judged, by our past and present actions and behaviors. So, it is important that we are very mindful of how we present ourselves and the energy that we are putting out there because society does not owe anybody understanding.
@@itanisewadawada5331 Just like he doesn’t owe you any proof that he’s “changed”
So profound! Truly God has blessed us by giving us you, You don't take sides like some do. Instead, you fight for what is right unwavering, for that you have my deepest respect!
Thank you! I appreciate it🥰
I wish a lot more people, a lot more women, thought like you. Thinking. Critical thinking. Very rare in this day & age.
Thank you so much🥰
It’s not rare there are women like Sihle however they are not on social media creating content 😔
I’ve seen so many of your videos before this on X and Facebook, but this video finally got me to subscribe to your challenge. Let common sense prevail in our people!
Edit:
I am also going to the Chris Brown concert.
Thank you so much! I’m not going but I hope you will enjoy💃🏽
Cancel can be very dangerous and it has alot of double standards because if people love you (you can never do any wrong) and if they dislike you for whatever reason things can be really bad for you. I feel it's also very bias and has to do with alot of misguided emotions.
Exactly!👏🏽
I think it depends. If someone has made amends for their actions, has taken accountability and tried to right their wrongs, then cancelling them would be giving them a punishment that is not proportional to their crime. However if this person has not taken accountability and refuses to acknowledge their actions, then people are warranted to not support them.
I also don't like cancel culture but I also wont be defending people who are yet to make amends. That's my 2 cents.
😊 it's about time. My favorite women in SA rn...🎉🎉🎉🎉 mad love for u siz❤
Very insightful video, I would really like to hear your views about P Diddy.
I’ll consider 🙏🏾
😂😂😂😂
What if the person is being repeatedly called out for their behavior and does not change. Talent is cool and all but we want this person to grow and learn and grow from what they did. What happens if they continue harming, it's not just the Rihanna thing.
and people act like it was chris brown only who was the abusive one rihanna also hit and abused chris brown it was a two sided thing thats why she ended up forgiving him in the end and it was flippen 15 years ago
@@buhlebenkosixozwaall I need from cancel culture is consistency, if Rihanna is not cancelled then Chris Brown should not be cancelled
Speak for those who can't speak for themselves 🇿🇦🙏😊
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Nice video
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So people are canceling Chris Brown for😮 yet their cannot cancel themselves and their bad behaviour or tolerating bad behaviour from their circle😂...
Must be nice living in glass houses 😊
Chris is an amazing performer . Id go to his concert too.
I saw your Tik Tok stories about this 😂😂😂😂
Aaaish 5:27 woman of God, continue feeding us life and leading us to the light. God is with you
Amen ☺️
A perfect example of God's grace right there John 8
Did you give that grace to Chidimma
She didn’t need grace she needed to know we don’t feel represented by her. Thank you
@@Sihleeeywhat a great clap back my sister ❤
Well said🔥🔥
😊😊😊😊I just noticed your channel, been waiting for this 🔥🔥🔥
Women like gbv people. So im not surprised
like your content new to your channel glad to be here
Thanks for coming🥰
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Let us be realistic we cannot sack Chris Brown from coming to South Africa at this point we doing to much yha weve won the world cup but where not the it of the world let us humble ourselves hayi marn masingaphambani if you dont want to watch or listen to Chis Brown than dont that is your choice dont make it ours tyini masiyokonwaba singabanye!
The gifts of God are without repentance
Exactly!
chat to them sis🔥🔥👌👌
Wisdom
So basically you refrained from having an opinion on a celebrity/influencer who has displayed a pattern of bad behaviour because you are scared that other ppl will call you out on the internet for your own behaviour ?
really friend... cancel culture is about keeping these celebrities/influencers accountable ..the fact that their talent persists despite their behaviour is the problem! ppl will ignore their bad behaviour because they like the song/content they produce...so cancelling and telling others to boycott their content keeps them accountable for their actions. it hits them in their wallet where they feel it the most.
Cancelling ppl isn't 100% effective but it a step in the right direction towards not tolerating bad behaviour just because someone is rich,famous and talented. In Chris Browns case he has displayed a PATTERN of bad behaviour towards women...he apologized for rihanna but moving forward in his life has the displayed behaviour that shows he wants to be a better person and change his ways? if yes then fine the cancelling is unfair but if not..which is what ppl are seeing.. then he deserves the cancellation.
At this point just say youre a fan
Trust me ..keeping quiet on your position on a celebrity/influencers questionable behaviour will not save you from being called out and cancelled on the internet if you do some questionable things yourself. Chirs may be a dad and friend and a brother etc but if the claims are true then he's also an abuser and a misogynist and that behaviour no matter the good he's done can not be tolerated
Well so many people are waking and have stopped adhering to this cancel culture nonsense. One of the most disgusting things that’s very prevalent with people like you is that you take away accountability from women and act like they can do no wrong. This is also why cancel culture targets mainly certain races and a specific gender (which is men).
When it comes to Chris brown, he has a history fighting and beating up men but no one calls for his cancellation when he does that. But apparently he should be cancelled for beating up Rihanna who initiated their altercation and got what she deserved.
You even dare to say cancellation is the step towards the right direction as if your judgement and calls for destroying people’s lives has been 100% accurate. So many people have had their lives ruined on false allegations and the refusal to address this by feminists and their like is why we are done with this pathetic movement.
If you want to cancel and boycott anyone do it at your own peril, just don’t try to recruit us in your rubbish.
@@arnoldm1361 Well so many people are waking and have stopped adhering to this cancel culture nonsense. One of the most disgusting things that’s very prevalent with people like you is that you take away accountability from women and act like they can do no wrong. This is also why cancel culture targets mainly certain races and a specific gender (which is men).
When it comes to Chris brown, he has a history fighting and beating up men but no one calls for his cancellation when he does that. But apparently he should be cancelled for beating up Rihanna who initiated their altercation and got what she deserved.
You even dare to say cancellation is the step towards the right direction as if your judgement and calls for destroying people’s lives has been 100% accurate. So many people have had their lives ruined on false allegations and the refusal to address this by feminists and their like is why we are done with this pathetic movement.
If you want to cancel and boycott anyone do it at your own peril, just don’t try to recruit us in your rubbish.
This girl obviously believes accountability is solely foe women, not men, cos ive Never heard her extend this much grace to instagram baddies & they harm no one!
@@LocalEdits_v8j Well so many people are waking and have stopped adhering to this cancel culture nonsense. One of the most disgusting things that’s very prevalent with people like you is that you take away accountability from women and act like they can do no wrong. This is also why cancel culture targets mainly certain races and a specific gender (which is men).
When it comes to Chris brown, he has a history fighting and beating up men but no one calls for his cancellation when he does that. But apparently he should be cancelled for beating up Rihanna who initiated their altercation and got what she deserved.
You even dare to say cancellation is the step towards the right direction as if your judgement and calls for destroying people’s lives has been 100% accurate. So many people have had their lives ruined on false allegations and the refusal to address this by feminists and their like is why we are done with this pathetic movement.
If you want to cancel and boycott anyone do it at your own peril, just don’t try to recruit us in your rubbish.
Hi Sihle, hope you are well. What is your stance on repentance?
Repentance is not saying “sorry God” and moving on with your life . It’s a change of heart which leads to a change of behaviour. It’s easy to see if someone has truly repented and most importantly God knows when people have done it sincerely. I never worry about inflicting punishment on people that do wrong because I know that every act will have consequences Whether we can see it or not. A lot of celebrities like Chris have not repented and they will answer for that
@@Sihleeey Thank you for your answer. Lets take this account to demonstrate repentance based on you answer. Luke 18:9-14 kjv, a publican was justified rather than a Pharisee. The follow up comes in to say, what made this man (publican) change his behaviour whilst a doctor of the law failed to be an example to him? If you can, please explain with scriptures. Thank you once again.
Speak on it!!!!!
❤❤❤❤❤❤
But Chris brown is not used by God or called by God 🤔
He doesn’t have to be called or be a Christian for his life to still go on even after he does wrong things. And it does not mean that he doesn’t have and opportunity to repent like Christians do
You know this how??Did God tell you😮
@@Sihleeey I am not Christian so I was confused because you made it sound like he is called by God.I mean concerning the whole thing about not giving him a chance, I think that is unfair.
@@tumweonlycommentary2797 From my minimal knowledge, I thought people that are called by God actually spread God's word, they become the light of the World but Chris Brown is definitely of the world according to Christian standards. So I just feel like she just speaking and mixing up things just to defend Chris Brown, I think she could have defended him without mixing it with Christianity. Chris Brown is not using his gifts for the glory of God. That is what I mean.
THEN WHY IS HE HELPING US HEAL WITH HIS MUSIC STOP CAPPIN