LERATO MAKHETHA ON: Overcoming Drugs | Finding Identity | Receiving Grace & Acceptance

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  • Опубликовано: 13 окт 2024

Комментарии • 136

  • @Noza896
    @Noza896 24 минуты назад +7

    Man I wish I could sit and speak to my Husband like this for hours…without it turning into an argument…😢

  • @LindiNakedi
    @LindiNakedi 9 часов назад +25

    Thanks

  • @letshegomancoe4481
    @letshegomancoe4481 Час назад +3

    The part where Pheto just says "I love you" 😢 agh that was so gentle and beautiful. I replayed it so many times.

  • @asiphediza5145
    @asiphediza5145 12 часов назад +24

    All I’m saying is I have a new found respect for Mr Makhs, this was probably a very hard conversation to have but it proves how important it is to always recognise that you are destined for goodness and you are capable to be the best version of your self through God even in the midst of your actions deviate from that greatness ❤

  • @LebohangandKoketsoNaledi
    @LebohangandKoketsoNaledi 14 часов назад +30

    Such Vulnerability? Yoh, I am greatly inspired. By sharing you have motivated my husband and I to have these conversations on our channel. Truely grateful. May God bless and keep you faves 🤍✨🤍

  • @lebogangboitshepolenkopane1477
    @lebogangboitshepolenkopane1477 13 часов назад +21

    Been watching since the 7th minute and had no intention to comment but as a regular here since 2022,i am happy you are back mom and dad.Today's episode helped me to pause and reflect as Mr Makhs talked about his childhood. As a last born of 2 kids,i suffer from performance anxiety. Its like when my father died,all attention went to my brother who was 7 (and i was 2) because he understood death more. My young widowed mother would spend the rest of my life focusing on my brother along with relatives while i had to perform for teachers,neighbours and church to be recognised. I thank God this year i was intentional about finding my identity and it shocked me just how much i have been bending backwards for others so i can fit in. Knowing now that God is my father,Not one with a monster voice seeking to punish me but a loving,gracious,merciful Father helped me assert myself and after an ex told me am unlovable,now i know that Christ is enough for me.much love from 🇧🇼
    Looking forward to the next instal

  • @NeneShabangu
    @NeneShabangu 12 часов назад +13

    As small RUclipsrs, hubby and I are inspired by the Makhs. Love them to bits ❤

  • @LebsNdebele
    @LebsNdebele 10 часов назад +8

    I am 41 years old and I still battle with condemnation. I’m breaking down as I watch this because I have never felt like I was good enough. I have 2 girls and I feel like I have nothing to offer them.but this conversation is so helpful to know that I’m not alone.

  • @EvidenceofChange7
    @EvidenceofChange7 14 часов назад +16

    You’re one couple that inspires me and I’m not married yet but wow guys 😭❤️love the vulnerability. beautiful as always❤😢

  • @dineomoaisi6724
    @dineomoaisi6724 11 часов назад +7

    Now that’s a man with a pastoral heart 👌🏿 the call is clear, good sir! May the Lord bless you

  • @bridgetsebolai6207
    @bridgetsebolai6207 12 часов назад +5

    “ The future is God the future is heavenly” I got goosebumps 😢😢😢

  • @lindelwamiya2732
    @lindelwamiya2732 6 часов назад +5

    You guys had me crying my eyes out. Thank you for being vulnerable and telling your story ❤🥺🥺

  • @Miss_C-e5w
    @Miss_C-e5w 5 часов назад +8

    Everytime I come here, I know I will leave with something.❤

    • @HisPrincess_
      @HisPrincess_ 13 минут назад

      LITERALLY ALL THE TIME !!!!

  • @moremiracle4279
    @moremiracle4279 13 часов назад +6

    We really value his mind!! He’s truly very wise, you’re blessed to have such leadership Phetola.

  • @fundiswanala7946
    @fundiswanala7946 13 часов назад +7

    Such wisdom!🙌🏼🙌🏼 I need a book from The Makhs!

  • @dineomasetla3443
    @dineomasetla3443 8 часов назад +4

    Sundays are becoming better and better now🎉❤❤
    Rea leboga hle

  • @xsikwana
    @xsikwana 14 часов назад +10

    That's the thing about a godly marriage...if God is in, was in it from the start..you can withstand the storms together... Your marriage should be about purpose...it's not all what society says it's about ...this right is here is y'all's purpose...❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Sebongile_Baloyi
    @Sebongile_Baloyi 13 часов назад +10

    The quality of the content 🤌🏽🤌🏽🤌🏽

  • @davidzohove2407
    @davidzohove2407 11 часов назад +5

    I have no words for this installment. 🙌🏾
    Thank you so much for sharing your vulnerabilities, couldn’t have been easy. Sis Phetola you carried this interview very well, with the utmost empathy.❤
    Thank God for God! For His perfect love, that we don’t have to perform for Him.

  • @LucyBalimba
    @LucyBalimba 10 часов назад +4

    Where can I like this again?
    Thank you Lerato and Phetola for being so generous with sharing God.
    This made me cry but most importantly, pointed me to the love of God!

  • @PaulaModiba
    @PaulaModiba 7 часов назад +3

    You guys are amazing. Thank you so much for ministering to us, gape this is a ministry ❤ I'm learning so much from you guys every time I'm watching your channel even the funky ones😊, don't take them for granted. You guys are changing people's lives for the better, I'm saying this cause you're changing mine. Love you guys and may God continue to protect you, elevate you, bless you abundantly ❤

  • @yoursTruly20711
    @yoursTruly20711 13 часов назад +8

    Haven't watched the episode yet. I'm just here to appreciate you guys for coming back, i feel so content that i get to learn, understand and continue to grow on this platform.
    I am one of those people who values mr Marks mind, both of you actually. I love how you two are free to share your thoughts with no judgement, but growth.
    Thank you so much guys ❤🙏 May God continue to bless you in all aspects of life. 🙏

  • @elizankankha84
    @elizankankha84 12 часов назад +3

    The vulnerability and the honesty yooooo......this was deep

  • @yandie_z
    @yandie_z 10 часов назад +3

    We are SO blessed and grateful to have you guys, this channel and all of your platforms. Such authenticity and vulnerability is rare.
    It is both encouraging and inspiring to see how God’s hand of mercy worked in Lerato’s life. It gives us hope for own journeys with Christ.
    ♥️

  • @MatshidisoMohale
    @MatshidisoMohale 12 часов назад +3

    I am so emotional, the vulnerability in this episode 🥺🥺🥺, no words can be enough to articulate my love for you and how you allow yourselves to be used by God in here!!! Mr Makhs, thank you so much Sir!!

  • @bridgetsebolai6207
    @bridgetsebolai6207 14 часов назад +7

    Wow liking before watching first. My excitement right now, thanks for this nice treat beautiful people ❤️

  • @Mercy-vq4ow
    @Mercy-vq4ow 12 часов назад +4

    Ausi Phetho l want you to know that you are an amazing woman and an incredible wife ,if you knew better, you would have done better in terms of how you relate with Mr Mahks at the early years of your life together, it's not your fault that you are worthy of such an incredible spouse with all your imperfections ❤️
    May God truly bless your marriage ❤
    To be honest Mr Mahks' life makes one confront their brokeness 🥲

  • @LethoHali
    @LethoHali Час назад

    As a middle child, I got so much of what was said! I am so similar to Lerato in the way I used to think of…. I think essentially LOVE!

  • @mfundohg958
    @mfundohg958 8 часов назад +2

    This episode opened my mind and heart in many ways. The part about loving people. I have homework... what a powerful testimony ya Lerato. Siyabonga, you guys are amazing❣

  • @NeneShabangu
    @NeneShabangu 13 часов назад +5

    💃💃💃 the way I look forward to The Makhs content ❤😊

  • @litebohoadonis4364
    @litebohoadonis4364 Минуту назад

    I never ever comment :) Been married for 17 years, this made me introspect heavily, glad I listened to this, very much appreciated

  • @pumlakoltana936
    @pumlakoltana936 10 часов назад +1

    Lerato u are an amazing man, u really a man of God. I never knew there is a young man who thinks like u.

  • @joyshokes6182
    @joyshokes6182 11 часов назад +5

    Makes me think of the verse that says, I would rather boast about my weaknesses. IICorinthians 12:9

  • @boipelomodimola994
    @boipelomodimola994 11 часов назад +2

    I love how knowing Christ comes with deliverance from identity crisis because all things were created by Him and for His pleasure all things are. Mr and Mrs Makhs,your vulnerability on this channel has been such an effective ministry to us.🙏So grateful for you guys

  • @lesedimofokeng_
    @lesedimofokeng_ 6 часов назад +1

    This conversation is healing a lot of us.Thank you Mr and Mrs Makhs.❤

  • @tintswalomabasa565
    @tintswalomabasa565 14 часов назад +3

    Hey family 👋👋, nice to see the Makhs once again.

  • @mosimamaheya235
    @mosimamaheya235 12 часов назад +2

    The vulnerability here Mr Makhs, today....oh my goodness, I'm so emotional. The honesty... we love you guys. ❤❤❤

  • @Mercy-vq4ow
    @Mercy-vq4ow 11 часов назад +2

    Mr Mahks story gives me hope that although we are currently struggling with our identity in God, we can get to the other side where we fully accept our God-given identity

  • @MyLittleSteps_
    @MyLittleSteps_ 10 часов назад +2

    This was so wholesome and relatable...I love it here....so so so much💚💚💚🌹🌹🌹

  • @prettymngomamngoma6461
    @prettymngomamngoma6461 9 часов назад +1

    U healing souls here🎉🎉🎉

  • @letshegomancoe4481
    @letshegomancoe4481 Час назад

    The setting is so beautiful, guys. The colours come together so beautifully. That room is gorgeous.

  • @nelisiwenene2428
    @nelisiwenene2428 10 часов назад +1

    What a deep conversation im in awe....Thank you for being so vulnerable

  • @sebenelemazibuko4602
    @sebenelemazibuko4602 21 минуту назад

    Mr Makhs spoke to my soul,uncovered some things I never knew, and understood about myself...aaah man,I love u guys...thank you❤

  • @candyKane117i
    @candyKane117i 38 минут назад

    So many gems in this. This is what a healed man looks like 🙌🏾

  • @LindiNakedi
    @LindiNakedi 9 часов назад +3

    Keya lerata ❤️

  • @nwabisasophazi
    @nwabisasophazi 5 часов назад +1

    Thank you family, this was the most relatable and real conversation, thank you for your vulnerability and for modelling young love for us❤ we love you, we are inspired and edified because of your contribution. This was worth every second of my time. God bless you.

  • @pumlakoltana936
    @pumlakoltana936 3 часа назад

    I am listening to this again for the second time, am paying attention to Lerato's body language and his facial expression , u could see his heart from his face, being bare, real authentic and speaking from heart wow, am now thinking of the womb that carried him , no wonder u were a middle child it was Gods'plan ,it was his Devine appointment of creating a man who will spread his word through what u doing, your life that u share with the world, your mouth that u open with such wisdom. Yhoo your wife is blessed , actually she was made or designed for u .I can write a book Lerato if wasn't scared .

  • @PayrollPhiko
    @PayrollPhiko 11 часов назад +4

    Very weird that this conversation pushed me to ask my self some of these questions...All I can say it, I'm triggered and very much challenged to sit down with my self and have some conversation....Thank you family and welcome ❤

  • @simphiwemathobela8968
    @simphiwemathobela8968 27 минут назад

    OMG such vulnerability, you guys are so blessed. We need God in this life.

  • @Astridah_M
    @Astridah_M 17 минут назад

    Thank you family for sharing the vulnerable side and liberating manyb❤

  • @motlatsikgosieng1704
    @motlatsikgosieng1704 Час назад

    😢😢very relatable to so many of us,thank you Lerato and Phetola.

  • @candyKane117i
    @candyKane117i 49 минут назад

    37:05 thank you for being honest and vulnerable about this 🙏🏾 sooo many men struggle with this but will never admit it as openly as you just did here

  • @kananelomohlalisi4049
    @kananelomohlalisi4049 12 часов назад +2

    This conversation is so therapeutic, thank you so much for your authenticity guys. You are so blessed to have each other, I pray that God will strengthen you to continue to create a healed generation. This is really an eye-opener on how to approach humanity❤

  • @busisiwekhumalo7571
    @busisiwekhumalo7571 Час назад

    Look at what God can do, you guys are a living testimony and God put you both together because he knew hey

  • @jemimahmukombo6638
    @jemimahmukombo6638 Час назад

    I have watch this 3 times Thank you from this zambian girl ❤

  • @PalesaV
    @PalesaV 2 часа назад

    Thank you for your vulnerability ❤️❤️

  • @nadia_manjate
    @nadia_manjate 2 часа назад

    I’m blessed by the vulnerability from you both. God continue to bless you both!

  • @potsompandawana3986
    @potsompandawana3986 4 минуты назад

    Beautiful episode! So open and vulnerable!
    Amazing testimony!!! A reminder not to judge but to love others and see the best in them

  • @gontseraphunga5745
    @gontseraphunga5745 Час назад

    A conversation I didn’t know that I needed to hear . 😢 Thank you ❤

  • @sips_mkutukana
    @sips_mkutukana 2 часа назад

    Almost halfway in. This episode is soooo necessary 😭😭🔥🔥🔥. Thank you so much for the vulnerability Mr Makhs. ❤❤❤

  • @phelokazimbazo9078
    @phelokazimbazo9078 Час назад

    I love this couple so much,we are learning iyoh

  • @poppymlotshwa9032
    @poppymlotshwa9032 38 минут назад

    Shooo this was a hard episode so listen. So many lessons to learn and pearls of wisdom. God bless you fam ❤️❤️❤️

  • @koketsom3840
    @koketsom3840 12 часов назад +1

    Such relatable content in Mr Makhs story! It mirrors the journey of many men, and many Christians

  • @TshidiMolefe-c6q
    @TshidiMolefe-c6q 13 часов назад +1

    Thank you so much for being so raw and honest and vulnerable. Sometimes I watch you guys and think you must have done everything perfectly right all your lives and then met each other and got married.

  • @Ms._seraphic
    @Ms._seraphic 11 часов назад

    "You're gonna work to earn acceptance "😢that hit hard Mr Makhs❤

  • @GloriaNozuko-fx2xe
    @GloriaNozuko-fx2xe 8 часов назад +2

    My God!!!

  • @saneliswamagagula9781
    @saneliswamagagula9781 14 часов назад +1

    We definitely value your mind Mr Makhs❤️ 3 minutes in. A little late but within!

  • @KatlegoPooe
    @KatlegoPooe 11 часов назад

    Thank you for sharing your story with us. Your guys’ marriage is truly a blessing from God. May God continue to bless you and keep you. I couldn’t stop crying.❤😢😭❤️ beautiful black love❤

  • @boikobomoumakoe1547
    @boikobomoumakoe1547 3 часа назад +2

    "The gag is it is too heavy to carry" something I've just recently come to terms with

  • @sbongilemakubela4351
    @sbongilemakubela4351 12 часов назад

    Wow ,God chooses his kids and when we sometimes get so wrapped up in our struggles,we tend to neglect him and his word.
    But listening to you Mr Makh still going back to church and serve regardless of your inner battles,that Is a revelation of God chosen child😊😊
    May you continue being honest with yourself ,as you are helping men out there that struggles with self reflection,and dealing with the faced truth.
    God bless you abundantly

  • @maliileramashamole2004
    @maliileramashamole2004 11 часов назад

    Didn’t expect this depth but I love it. Freeing. God bless you 🙏🏾

  • @asiphediza5145
    @asiphediza5145 12 часов назад

    It’s amazing how you did always reminded yourself of your essence even in your lowest moments, what a beautiful instalment. One for the books definitely

  • @rollykgware
    @rollykgware 11 часов назад

    3:13 but I feel so excited, I feel like I’m going to enjoy this so much. Big up guys as I continue ❤

  • @royalqueen8679
    @royalqueen8679 12 часов назад

    Love the Makhs,and ur elder brother no name mentioning,used to be my friend .admire your Dad n mum so much,love ur Sis as well,ur brother granted us access to host parties at the Bishop's home🎉🎉🎉🎉ooh man those were sweet childhood days.we thank God for those experiences they shaped us.

  • @tsebedaphney2678
    @tsebedaphney2678 11 часов назад

    Ooh my God 😭 this was beautiful to watch🙏 we got to cry and laugh all at the same time.

  • @nazo6667
    @nazo6667 11 часов назад

    Oh man guys thank you so much for this video. Thank you Lerato for your vulnerability. Your wisdom now makes so much sense uba isuka phi. . Thank you Phetola for facilitating this conversation so well ❤️. .

  • @NdahambelelaHaifene
    @NdahambelelaHaifene 14 часов назад +2

    Yay 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾 We are here ❤❤❤

  • @annieluhanga1229
    @annieluhanga1229 2 часа назад

    This is amazing ❤

  • @faithlebone3675
    @faithlebone3675 13 часов назад +1

    Yoh this episode ❤❤❤ thank you guys for the vulnerability. I love seeing God’a deliverance and restoration in people’s lives

  • @busisiwemolefe1367
    @busisiwemolefe1367 12 часов назад

    Thank you for sharing, the part about having tonperform really hit home. Glad i tuned in today.

  • @likhayadiko6045
    @likhayadiko6045 14 часов назад +1

    Here ❤. Oh this is so powerful

  • @candyKane117i
    @candyKane117i 42 минуты назад

    39:33 this is such a brilliant follow-up question 🙏🏾🔥

    • @candyKane117i
      @candyKane117i 40 минут назад

      And the answer, wow! This is what a healed man looks like 🙌🏾

  • @othusitsepereko592
    @othusitsepereko592 12 часов назад

    This content is so good Mr Makhs
    Some people are certainly going to be helped by this. Your honesty was a marvel to watch and listen to

  • @happym3585
    @happym3585 11 часов назад

    Thank you for this wonderful episode Team 🙏🏻💙

  • @ordinarykindoflove5052
    @ordinarykindoflove5052 12 часов назад

    Happy to have my favs back ❤

  • @Lebomannathoko
    @Lebomannathoko 16 минут назад

    Love you guys ❤

  • @ModernMom102
    @ModernMom102 11 часов назад

    God has always loved and protected you brother❤

  • @ziziphomagula8183
    @ziziphomagula8183 12 часов назад

    Thank you so much fam for sharing! ❤

  • @palesaseate6859
    @palesaseate6859 13 часов назад +1

    Your guys are doing the most with your channel🔥🔥🔥👌👌👌shoutout mahn🙌

  • @Ester-m8o5b
    @Ester-m8o5b 14 часов назад

    I know this season's gonna be exciting 🎉 love this

  • @thandimaropola8397
    @thandimaropola8397 13 часов назад +1

    Shoo very informative and honest

  • @kuhlemndabe
    @kuhlemndabe 14 часов назад +1

    here just in time!❤

  • @asamkeletyala8721
    @asamkeletyala8721 12 часов назад

    What an amazing installment ❤

  • @lesegokgatitswe8136
    @lesegokgatitswe8136 13 часов назад

    I love you guys so much.
    Looking forward to this ✨

  • @ntombizodwadhlamini7098
    @ntombizodwadhlamini7098 14 часов назад +1

    Present! I have been waiting 🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @Rose_Karey
    @Rose_Karey 13 часов назад

    Oh how I love this couple and family ❤❤❤

  • @Temwachii
    @Temwachii 3 часа назад

    I love you guys ❤

  • @leratomakola1951
    @leratomakola1951 12 часов назад

    Love you guys so much ❤❤❤

  • @oleratorefilwemotshebe2874
    @oleratorefilwemotshebe2874 14 часов назад +1

    We are here Dream Team🥳❤️

  • @itumelenggwebu3367
    @itumelenggwebu3367 11 часов назад +1

    The future is God!!!