The breaking point in narcissistic relationships

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  • Опубликовано: 20 сен 2024
  • We all have a breaking point, in a narcissistic or abusive relationship of any kind, there is only so much you can take.
    here I share my breaking point with you. The day, I just could not take any more, the day, the decision to end my toxic marriage and tel him to leave was easy, and I reached my point of no return ❤️
    You will get there too Xx be free Xx
    #narcissist #abuse #abusesurvivor #traumarecovery #selfhelp #breakingpoint #pointofnoreturn #toxicrelationships #narcissisticabuse #freeyourself #cptsd #ptsd #healing #strong #brave #courage #youcandoittoo #love

Комментарии • 25

  • @EclipsTV
    @EclipsTV 4 месяца назад +5

    My ex narcissist point was when I asked her for change and respect in the relationship. She doubled down on the anger, the yelling, the disrespect, and the victimhood. And she wonders why I didn't trust her even when i forced myself to text her. She couldn't even treat me with decency. Broken people...

  • @Mr8t0
    @Mr8t0 4 месяца назад +5

    He won’t stop trying to get back with you just for sport. It’s part of the cycle “the Hoover”. You are supply to him. Don’t feed him anymore. Use your inner strength, he don’t know how strong you are. You didn’t cause any of it but don’t be tricked into any ill will or responses. That’s how they win. God made me aware after 40 years with my wife. His word fills a void & gives strength. ❤take care & stay in truth.

    • @irene-jo3qh
      @irene-jo3qh 4 месяца назад +1

      ❤️

    • @MellulahYoga
      @MellulahYoga  4 месяца назад +1

      Best wishes for your healing

    • @Mr8t0
      @Mr8t0 4 месяца назад +1

      Thank you very much. The more I stay in The Word, the better I feel. Stay strong & I hope you come to a place of peace also.🕊️ Surviving Narcissism with Dr. Les Carter has been very supportive.

  • @irene-jo3qh
    @irene-jo3qh 4 месяца назад +6

    That's the story of my life until I reached a breaking point .I can relate

  • @lorimiller7261
    @lorimiller7261 4 месяца назад +3

    I had the same breaking point. I did it to save my kids

  • @OlBlueshound
    @OlBlueshound 4 месяца назад +2

    Lovely Lady, I can relate and sympathise with your experiences. I reached breaking point when my ex covert narcissist partner of 7 years took 4 days to reply a text. Prior to that she ghosted me each week for 7 months and I had no car. Anyway, I loved my ex so deeply and so sincerely she owned me, but I didn't understand what she was. Only after I left her did I discover what a covert narcissist was. And she is a spectacular one!. To share, despite Mt absolutely broken heart I went no contact and I am NEVER going back. The relationship will never be any good as she will never change, and I just couldn't do it anymore. I can honestly say I thought I would die from my broken heart, but, 18 months on and I am loving my life and rediscovering who I am and all the things I lost in my 7 years with her. I will always love her but that is the illusion or the act she role plays, that is NOT who she is. So I've let go and going back to my spiritual path which I let go for her as she hated it. So I am sorry for your situation and only you can know from within what you want to do. I hope you can find someone who truly appreciates you and has a true heart. Best wishes to you.

    • @MellulahYoga
      @MellulahYoga  4 месяца назад

      Best wishes for your healing

  • @MarySambrook
    @MarySambrook 4 месяца назад +3

    Absolutely ✅🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏✅

    • @MellulahYoga
      @MellulahYoga  4 месяца назад

      Glad it resonates for you too 🙏🏻

  • @kathleenwharton2139
    @kathleenwharton2139 3 месяца назад

    I married a narcissist. God Saved me from him when our youngest child graduated from HS. I was Free! I was very blind. I only see it now..20 years later. 😊❤

    • @MellulahYoga
      @MellulahYoga  3 месяца назад

      its wonderful you got away and can see it all clearly now x

    • @kathleenwharton2139
      @kathleenwharton2139 3 месяца назад

      @@MellulahYoga
      Actually..I am having to deal with him again as our son built a house for us and a daughter and grandson. I am needed now to show the others how a narcissist operates. I was blind in my marriage but now I see.

  • @Nonfiction.Reader
    @Nonfiction.Reader 4 месяца назад +2

    👍

  • @AlanBoldt
    @AlanBoldt 4 месяца назад +1

    Yes breaking point...9000 miles apart during COVID ( She Was in VN ) I was at home in USA... a Promised Phone call ( 8/28/22 ) no answer...many calls no answer... all night nothing...the next day...oh I fell asleep... No you were at HOTEL with a convenient supply... I wasn't born yesterday... Only bogus excuses...This was the final straw... I could no longer pretend she actually loved or could actually love... Of course a Covert Narcissist is not capable of LOVE... To me or any of her other Sex mates...🤔🥶

    • @MellulahYoga
      @MellulahYoga  3 месяца назад

      sorry you had to go through that horrible experience

  • @heatherbowman9450
    @heatherbowman9450 4 месяца назад +1

    81 likes💜💙💚🖤💛

  • @AlexandreRezende
    @AlexandreRezende 4 месяца назад +1

    But does he try to contact you again or is he really gone forever? Because as far as I know they never quit

    • @MellulahYoga
      @MellulahYoga  4 месяца назад +4

      he did try yes, played the victim etc and when it didn't work a smear campaign in my local area and then completely disappeared, left us in debt and refused to communicate that, etc...its almost a formula that goes on repeat in these kinds of relationships and their endings

    • @tranquility9325
      @tranquility9325 4 месяца назад

      ​@@MellulahYogahave to be done with them once they show abuse.