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Mellulah Yoga & Healing
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Light Healing, Yoga retreats, classes, courses and holistic therapy in Dorset Uk and abroad
INTRO: Healing from the trauma of gaslighting meditation
This is the introduction only to this online healing meditation that I shared live on zoom in October 2024. To watch the full healing, buy and download from my website here for £5.99
www.thelightspadorset.com/store/p/healing-from-the-trauma-of-gaslighting
Have you suffered abusive or toxic relationships in your life?
Did you grow up in a toxic or dysfunctional family dynamic?
Have you been left scarred, confused and full of shame and self-blame because you were made to feel crazy and that it was all your fault?
Gaslighting is a common form of abuse used by toxic people to cause you to question your own perception of reality. It can make you believe you are mad, jealous, unstable, volatile, to...
www.thelightspadorset.com/store/p/healing-from-the-trauma-of-gaslighting
Have you suffered abusive or toxic relationships in your life?
Did you grow up in a toxic or dysfunctional family dynamic?
Have you been left scarred, confused and full of shame and self-blame because you were made to feel crazy and that it was all your fault?
Gaslighting is a common form of abuse used by toxic people to cause you to question your own perception of reality. It can make you believe you are mad, jealous, unstable, volatile, to...
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Positive thinking or delusion?
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There comes a time, if you’re in a toxic or narcissistic relationship, when we need to let go of positive thinking, holding faith and having hope that things will improve for us and let go and leave As a yoga teacher and on my retreats, I’m always encouraging my clients and students to stay positive, to hold faith and to be strong in their resolve and hope that life will improve for us all indi...
45 Minute Intermediate Vinyasa Yoga Flow
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A great Vinyasa flow yoga class that I recorded live for you all in April 2024 from my home. Start with breathwork, into I hope you enjoy this and the meditation at the end. Join my classes regularly by visiting my website here mellulah.co.uk ❤️
The narcissists smear campaign, what do you do?!
Просмотров 8765 месяцев назад
The smear campaign is a classic form of abuse used by many narcissists, it can be brutal, cruel and leave you feeling deeply wounded. It can also be the catalyst that leads you to fully recognising just the kind of person you have been dealing with, so it can be a huge part of your healing in recovering as its hard to deny or excuse an abuser when they go to your friends, family or colleagues a...
The breaking point in narcissistic relationships
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We all have a breaking point, in a narcissistic or abusive relationship of any kind, there is only so much you can take. here I share my breaking point with you. The day, I just could not take any more, the day, the decision to end my toxic marriage and tel him to leave was easy, and I reached my point of no return ❤️ You will get there too Xx be free Xx #narcissist #abuse #abusesurvivor #traum...
Activate Your Awakening Workshop Online 9th Dec 2023
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Activate Your Awakening Workshop Online 9th Dec 2023
Clearing Narcissistic Abuse From Your Akashic Records - An Intro
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Clearing Narcissistic Abuse From Your Akashic Records - An Intro
Gratitude Flow on a Beautiful Sunny Day
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Gratitude Flow on a Beautiful Sunny Day
An Introduction to the Clearing Narcissistic Abuse from your Karmic Energy Field Meditation
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An Introduction to the Clearing Narcissistic Abuse from your Karmic Energy Field Meditation
Clearing Narcissistic Abuse From Your Energy Field
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Clearing Narcissistic Abuse From Your Energy Field
Let is all go flow for surrender and release
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Let is all go flow for surrender and release
Spiritual wisdom-weaving through the gaps
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Spiritual wisdom-weaving through the gaps
Distant Energy Healing for you with love xxx
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Distant Energy Healing for you with love xxx
Full Moon Healing for your Earth Chakra
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Full Moon Healing for your Earth Chakra
Creating Protective Boundaries Angelic Meditation
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Creating Protective Boundaries Angelic Meditation
Sending light healing back to your past self x
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Sending light healing back to your past self x
Solar Eclipse New Moon - Anchoring in Love through Acts of Kindness!
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Solar Eclipse New Moon - Anchoring in Love through Acts of Kindness!
Yoga Nidra - Connecting to Mother Earth
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Yoga Nidra - Connecting to Mother Earth
Sacred Angelic Light Bath #2 - Platonic Solid Distant Healing
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Sacred Angelic Light Bath #2 - Platonic Solid Distant Healing
Sacred Angelic Light Bath #1 - Liquid Healing Light
Просмотров 602 года назад
Sacred Angelic Light Bath #1 - Liquid Healing Light
Sacred Angelic Light Bath Distant Healing #8 - Finding Bliss
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Sacred Angelic Light Bath Distant Healing #8 - Finding Bliss
What is the point of holding the nose? When you lock the chin, no air comes out the nose is it about the touching of the nose?
Holding the nose is another pranayama technique we use a lot in yoga breath work, so bringing 3 ways to use breath work to calm the nervous system, altogether in one. Holding the nose increases the 'lock' of the breath retention so adds to the technique
Its help for gastroparesis
@@StarVideoJunction it will definitely help see my channel for a full vagus nerve reset video
Feeling dizziness is it ok
Do you suffer with low blood sugar or low blood pressure? You don't really want to feel dizzy but it can happen, particularly if there is a real inbalance in the nervous system or one of the above conditions. Try doing less to start, just do 2-3 rounds, pause and then try more. If you feel dizzy, stop, breathe deeply and try again. Make sure you have eaten and have had plenty of water before doing it again too, hope this helps, Saira
Enjoyable 👍
It really is! 😊
Exhale through mouth or nose?
Exhale through the nose hope you enjoy
This is amazing thank you♥️♥️♥️ been searching for part two but can't find it.
Thank you so much, if i do this everyday can it regulate and reset my nervous system
@@TheStarseedHealingEra Yes definitely but there are others parts to this that can really help too, go to this video for the full vagus reset and do this full one 2-3 times a week and this breath work everyday ruclips.net/video/C5Y3P9aG8O8/видео.htmlsi=eqlTCxrAEt3C09FF
Wow this really works
I know it’s helped me so much glad you’re feeling it too 😊
I married a narcissist. God Saved me from him when our youngest child graduated from HS. I was Free! I was very blind. I only see it now..20 years later. 😊❤
its wonderful you got away and can see it all clearly now x
@@MellulahYoga Actually..I am having to deal with him again as our son built a house for us and a daughter and grandson. I am needed now to show the others how a narcissist operates. I was blind in my marriage but now I see.
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Yes breaking point...9000 miles apart during COVID ( She Was in VN ) I was at home in USA... a Promised Phone call ( 8/28/22 ) no answer...many calls no answer... all night nothing...the next day...oh I fell asleep... No you were at HOTEL with a convenient supply... I wasn't born yesterday... Only bogus excuses...This was the final straw... I could no longer pretend she actually loved or could actually love... Of course a Covert Narcissist is not capable of LOVE... To me or any of her other Sex mates...🤔🥶
sorry you had to go through that horrible experience
Thanks Saira. I will definitely keep going. I did feel a bit light headed at times, so didn’t push myself too hard. I am sure it is just a question of relaxing into it ❤
Yes keep doing it, I recommend 2-3 times a week until it starts to become a habit let me know how you get on ❤
Ignore the narcissist trying to provoke. They desperately want a reaction so don’t give them it! Ignore, ignore, ignore and eventually you will reach the point of total indifference. At that point they have absolutely no power over you 🙂👍
Lovely Lady, I can relate and sympathise with your experiences. I reached breaking point when my ex covert narcissist partner of 7 years took 4 days to reply a text. Prior to that she ghosted me each week for 7 months and I had no car. Anyway, I loved my ex so deeply and so sincerely she owned me, but I didn't understand what she was. Only after I left her did I discover what a covert narcissist was. And she is a spectacular one!. To share, despite Mt absolutely broken heart I went no contact and I am NEVER going back. The relationship will never be any good as she will never change, and I just couldn't do it anymore. I can honestly say I thought I would die from my broken heart, but, 18 months on and I am loving my life and rediscovering who I am and all the things I lost in my 7 years with her. I will always love her but that is the illusion or the act she role plays, that is NOT who she is. So I've let go and going back to my spiritual path which I let go for her as she hated it. So I am sorry for your situation and only you can know from within what you want to do. I hope you can find someone who truly appreciates you and has a true heart. Best wishes to you.
Best wishes for your healing
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I had the same breaking point. I did it to save my kids
Glad you got away
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My ex narcissist point was when I asked her for change and respect in the relationship. She doubled down on the anger, the yelling, the disrespect, and the victimhood. And she wonders why I didn't trust her even when i forced myself to text her. She couldn't even treat me with decency. Broken people...
Im sorry, i dont agree! I think its very important to speak about it, speak the truth! Dont enable anyone to smear you and ruin your life without accountability!🌟🌺❤️
Good luck with that. All you will do is fuel their fire. Wiser to totally ignore, no matter how unfair that seems.
Narcissists need ‘supply’ they create cruel dramas to feed it, if we pull away and don’t interact we are then not feeding their drama, it’s a delicate balance and anyone navigating narcissistic abuse needs proper helps from a therapist who understands what is happening, but the last thing you want to do is fight back, do that quietly with your close friends and family but walk away from anyone caught up in their attack on you, you’ll get nowhere ❤
Not all people are stupid! Almost the majority can see through a narcissist. The enablers are either NPD themselves, or carrying narcissistic traits or co-dependent or they just don’t care. I have been victim of smearing campaigns and noticed how some people believed the NPD, some watched out and took distance. With years I found out that smearing campaigns define who they are (smearers), not what you are. Smearing campaigns are welcome 🤗 because they are a powerful mean to make a natural selection between mentally healthy and smart, empathic people and flying monkeys. 🙈 Learn how to take life more lightly. As long as we don’t get terminal diseases, life is worth to be lived in peace and delight. They say you are a thief? Be it. A prostitute? Be it. An alien? Be it. Who cares?
@@MellulahYoga plus the side benefit of ignoring them is narcissists absolutely hate to be ignored - it drives them nuts 😁 but ultimately it’s not about getting back at them - it’s about eradicating them from your life and focussing on YOU. By ignoring them you take away any power they had over you. I know it’s not so easy to completely remove them in some circumstances like parenting together but if you don’t have that responsibility then GET THEM OUT OF YOUR LIFE COMPLETELY before they destroy your mental, emotional and physical health ✋ ⛔️ Claim your life back! 🕊
@@MellulahYoga well, in no way i am suggesting that you should confront the abuser, thus creating more drama, absolutely not! I was talking about accountability for, the many Times, Criminal behavior, of the abuser, and we can not have a culture of silence for narcissistic abuse and another for a different kind of Criminal behavior! It actually is very important for the victims of abuse to speak out, Holding the abuser to accountability ,its obvious that those Who do actually heal faster when they DARE to stand up for themselfs, when being smeared by this kind of horrible criminal behavior. , AND it is also important to remember that smear campaignes are actually against the law (in my country as well as in yours, i believe )! We Must get away from the mindset that there is nothing we can do because it only serves the narcissistic abuser!This is not about revenge, it is about reclaiming your truth, your voice and your life! ❤️🌺🌟
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That's the story of my life until I reached a breaking point .I can relate
Its a common story sadly
He won’t stop trying to get back with you just for sport. It’s part of the cycle “the Hoover”. You are supply to him. Don’t feed him anymore. Use your inner strength, he don’t know how strong you are. You didn’t cause any of it but don’t be tricked into any ill will or responses. That’s how they win. God made me aware after 40 years with my wife. His word fills a void & gives strength. ❤take care & stay in truth.
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Best wishes for your healing
Thank you very much. The more I stay in The Word, the better I feel. Stay strong & I hope you come to a place of peace also.🕊️ Surviving Narcissism with Dr. Les Carter has been very supportive.
But does he try to contact you again or is he really gone forever? Because as far as I know they never quit
he did try yes, played the victim etc and when it didn't work a smear campaign in my local area and then completely disappeared, left us in debt and refused to communicate that, etc...its almost a formula that goes on repeat in these kinds of relationships and their endings
@@MellulahYogahave to be done with them once they show abuse.
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Glad it resonates for you too 🙏🏻
I turned it around on mine who would leave the house after an argument which left me in an axious trauma response. It was a great way for me to become aware of my abandonment issue and that that would trigger me so it was something i could heal and then take my power back. I had been house sitting for a lady who was having back surgery. He came home and we went for dinner and he was looking the waitress up and down which bothered me. I adressed the issue of disrespect and a fight ensued on the way home in the car. He got out and walked up to the door and i got into the driver seat and drove off to the house i was house sitting at. I treated him exactly in the way he would treat me. It was the beginning of the end really. I waited a few hours and didnt answer or return his calls or texts. I fed my friends cats and enjoyed a movie on her couch. When i finally decided to go home he had left and basically driven from Texas to Mississippi to a friend's house. Thanksfully we didnt have any children yet. I left and he stalled the divorce for 2 years while entertaining a relationship with a pregnant stripper. Turns out he had actually molested his friends 7 year old daughter in the time that he had spent over at that house and had a warrant for his arrest. I only found out about it all when i got a call that he had passed from a heart attack to where i had contacted his friend who had cussed me out prior when inhad warned him about having my husband around his young girls. I think he was a pedo and i was just the cover up marriage and when i started to wake up and see the red flags and he couldnt control me anymore thats when the abuse and smear campagne started. Im very greatful for that experience because it catapulted me into educating myself about what had really actually happened and I can identify all the manipulation tactics etc and its really raised my own self awareness. That was 7 years ago. These types are very sly and cunning but once you understand the tactics and the projections and you choose to observe rather than absorb you can take up the fight and turn the tables back on them.
Thank you for this amazing afternoon of bliss and love. Much needed xx
so lovely to see you as always! Come back soon! xx
Thank you! I love how inclusive you made this by acknowledging that not everyone can sit cross legged and not everyone can breathe well through their nose.
Thank you so much I'm glad you enjoyed this and hope you can come back to it and work with this again xx
Feeling really lovely and relaxed after doing this, thank you 🙏🙏🙏
Amazing to hear!! Thank you 😊
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Love to you Janet xx
Thank you, beautiful meditation x
So glad you enjoyed it thanks love ❤️
After having had the full moon shining through my window several nights, this felt just right, so grounding, thank you!🙏 Do you know what kind of tree it is? 🌳
Beautiful! I don't know what the tree it, its very close to my home, we all love it and how amazing it is, completely hollow but still standing and growing strong, I will to find out xx
I have actually ordered some family members and close friends to leave my home for being abusive or respectless, which was hard enough. It was harder that I was criticized for enforcing boundaries so I sent those who did not understand my need for protection away as well. After all those years, I finally know deep inside it was the right thing to do. And having the right to have a sanctuary will hopefully make it easier for me now to open up again, one step at a time, to those who deserve to be trusted.
Its vital we hold our boundaries for self love and self care xxx
So profound and gentle! Bless you for channelling this 🙏I felt called to do this meditation because the 11th of January is the birthday of my youngest daughter and actually there was a lot of interference around her birth so I was taken straight into everything out of alignment with the help of the Lemurians. Now I surrender and let's see how my life is going to rearrange.
Beautiful how wonderful, sending much love xxx
Positively grounding, just what I needed, thank you!
This beautiful energy goes right into the heart and flows wherever else it is needed. Thank you so much!❤
Thank you 🙏🏻
Uplifting! This took me straight into the choices I had to make before this incarnation, very illuminating.
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So looking forward to this this Saturday xxx ❤
me too exciting times xxx
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I wondered the same thing the program disappeared
This is just the introduction, to watch the full clearing video, you need to send me payment and your email address. Here are the details below. This is all in the description of the video. If you read through it explains everything. I hope this helps you. X This full meditation is available via a private RUclips link for £5 You can get a copy by sending me a DM, saira@mellulah.co.uk I'll then send you a link to view and keep forever. See my website for more detail here mellulah.co.uk/zoom-clearing-narcissistic-abuse-from-your-karmic-energy-field-with-saira-9-11-23 Payment please to - Paypal.me/sairafrancis or transfer to The Light Spa - 82789614 - 51-81-01
When do you share this healing meditation?
This is just the introduction, to watch the full clearing video, you need to send me payment and your email address. Here are the details below. This is all in the description of the video. If you read through it explains everything. I hope this helps you. X This full meditation is available via a private RUclips link for £5 You can get a copy by sending me a DM, saira@mellulah.co.uk I'll then send you a link to view and keep forever. See my website for more detail here mellulah.co.uk/zoom-clearing-narcissistic-abuse-from-your-karmic-energy-field-with-saira-9-11-23 Payment please to - Paypal.me/sairafrancis or transfer to The Light Spa - 82789614 - 51-81-01
This is just the introduction, to watch the full clearing video, you need to send me payment and your email address. Here are the details below. This is all in the description of the video. If you read through it explains everything. I hope this helps you. X This full meditation is available via a private RUclips link for £5 You can get a copy by sending me a DM, saira@mellulah.co.uk I'll then send you a link to view and keep forever. See my website for more detail here mellulah.co.uk/zoom-clearing-narcissistic-abuse-from-your-karmic-energy-field-with-saira-9-11-23 Payment please to - Paypal.me/sairafrancis or transfer to The Light Spa - 82789614 - 51-81-01
Loved this Saira thank you 🙏
so glad you are enjoying this! xxx