My “friend” is now married to my ex and they have kids. He was kind enough to go behind my back before we were breaking up and was cheating for god knows how long. Taken a very long time to get over. This story made the hair on my neck stand up. 🤣 One thing I’ve learned is that it was a blessing to be rid of both of those vampires. ☺️
@@evanjames8817 same thing just happened to me bout a month ago, well i found out a month ago. Holdin up how’d you’d expect. How do you move past this man?
The friend has no right to tell the other friend who is allowed to date. It's just can you live with the consequences because he also has the right to be friends with whoever wants to be and if you bang his ex he don't have to be friends with you no more.
Yep he probably had like 6 podcasts he wanted to write to but he did the math and figured Bill would be the one to tell him to go ahead and do it so he could shed some responsibility
Robert Stone lmao okay buddy. Nobody here was saying that, and the dude writing in wasn’t asking if he was “allowed to date her”. He was saying if it’s a shitty thing to do to a friend and was looking for justification for what he’s about to do. No shit he’s “allowed to date whoever he wants”, but that doesn’t mean he isn’t a piece of shit for doing it. Date whoever you want, it’s your life, but don’t start crying when you lose your friends over being a vulture for your friends’ ex’s. And yeah, the friend does have a right to hate this dude if he goes through with it, cause the friend clearly still has feelings for her and they dated within the past year. Go ahead and hookup with her, but he has no right to whine or complain when he starts losing his friends over it.
I don't think it's wrong to date someone's ex after a while. However, him flirting with her while they were still together and than trying to snakily justify it makes me sick.
@@MRJTD99 If it's a serious relationship, if there were actual feelings, it's wrong. No way to know for sure if that's the case, but he's got so many justifications for his behavior it's pretty obvious he knows he's in the wrong, so I'm gonna guess it was slightly serious at least.
@@MRJTD99 if theres millions of girls in the world why don't you think it's wrong to dates a friends ex even if it's been a while ? There's other girls
This happened to me. My ex-gf (bi-polar psycho) always got into arguments with me about stupid shit (typically with her texting other guys “imy”). I ended up breaking up with her and my friend swoops in about a month later and starts dating her. I definitely saw it coming bc he’s always been a vulture. However, I was beyond happy bc he came into class everyday looking as miserable as I used to 😂. They ended up breaking up as well bc she psycho.
I dated my best friends ex after talking to him and asking if its ok with him first. He said he was cool with it and I dated her for about 3 weeks and then she broke up with me cause I made a politically incorrect joke about something. Me and my best friends are still best friends today🤣🤣🤣
In my experience, women if she is truly done with a man, wants ZERO to do with that man's life. In any capacity. No sane woman wants to get into a serious relationship with the best friend of an ex, especially a year after the break up that was toxic. So fellas, if youre in this situation, remember, this kind of thing doesn't simply happen to us and it's ever a positive outcome. She's nuts and this friend is singled out as her target because she probably knew from day one he was a simp for her. Easy target to get at against the guys best friend. Fellas, these new ladies are nuts. Just have a couple solid lady friends in the squad and enjoy the company of some strange women every now and then and remember to tell the squad you love em and check on em. Dont wait for these women to validate your worth. The squad has you on that.
Exactly - she’s playin’ you to get back at him. The situation is definitely not rooted in love nor affection - - more like jealousy and retribution. Wake up and think with your head, not with your D, bro. She’s basically tossing a grenade down the hallway in slow motion and your next move is dive out the window and roll the shoulder! Abort, sir !!!
I don't see anything wrong with them hooking up if the woman is single. I wouldn't care if my best banged my ex. I would encourage it. I think only men with insecure egos would care. If they are cheating behing your back, it's a different story.
@@Victor-it6bv While it's not betrayal it's still weird. I wouldn't bang a friend's ex nor would I want a friend to bang one of my exes. It's not becoming in a friendship.
The guy says "they were together a year or two." I would guess he knows EXACTLY how long they were together, he's been waiting in the wings the whole time! His only out is if his "best friend" left her. Then maybe it could work, but still risky.
Had this done to me years ago but they actually got together after around 3 months of us breaking up.... funny part was we were best friends since we were 7 but not anymore because even if we were still friends I'd know he's not exactly friend material.... especially since we knew each other for that long. I wasn't exactly upset when I found out but I was disappointed in him because he chose that route over a lifetime friend
guy friends are the best. sounds sad to only have 3 because you're scared they'll fuck your gf. I never understood jealousy to be honest. Why would you want to be with someone who likes somebody else more?
@@michaelsieger9133 because there's always someone else you may like more than the person your with, romantic daydreams are not reality. At some point you have to start honoring your commitments(within reason) and create stability out of your surroundings.
I've got a mate like this, it's pure narcissism. You could explain to him all day why nailing your mates ex is never ok but no matter how well you explain it to him he just doesn't understand. In his mind he just thinks "but they're not together anymore, she likes me and not him, if he was a real friend he'd let me do it instead of standing in the way'. It's quite amazing.
I don't see anything wrong with them hooking up if the woman is single. I wouldn't care if my best banged my ex. I would encourage it. I think only men with insecure egos would care. If they are cheating behing your back, it's a different story.
I was the friend that got together with a friends ex. My friend had left for a 2 year religious trip, and had stopped communicating with his girlfriend. I waited about a year and a half, but still got with her. He came home, met another girl and got married. Me and his ex girlfriend have been married 10 years and have 3 kids together, we actually hang out with my friend and his family often. Sometimes it can work 😂
Fucking a best friend's ex, who you flirted with while they were in a relationship, is a surefire way to get your ass kicked, especially if that friend is "a little nuts". You essentially become in his eyes the reason they potentially broke up in the first place, ready to swoop in like a vulture.
Bullshit. Alphas don't give a fuck about their ex. An alpha is more likely to hook their friend up with an ex. Betas cry about who their ex is fucking currently.
@@comagin2451 people who unironically use terms like Alpha and Beta amuse me. I can't help but imagine a skin tone irrevocably staines from Cheeto dust and Mountain Dew runoff
@@thumphreybrogart4108 If you care even a little bit about your friends you don't shack up with their ex girlfriends. The world has around 3 bil women in it no reason to ruin a friendship because you want to fuck a mate's ex lady. It's just plain disrespectful.
@@tomfoolery7797 I had a friend who started messing around with one of my exes. They liked each other. They were happy when they spent time together. I wasn't a selfish biitch about it.
I'm at that point in my life where "True Love" is hard enough to find -- if my best friend and my ex can make it work then best of luck to them. Except the bit where best friend was flirting with the ex when we were together. Depending on the level of flirting, that could be sabotage and if I was going to get an apology for something then that's what I would want it for. If I'm the guy who's being tempted: kinda what Bill said -- if I'm just trying to get laid, then pass, unless I don't give a crap about my "friend". If I think she could be something special, then I ask my friend for their blessing and if I don't get it then I have a decision to make between the two of them.
This is the kind of guy everyone should avoid in life. It's one thing to do something wrong. But this guy wants to do something wrong and then paint himself in a positive light.
I was kind of in this scenario years ago where my best friend started hooking up with my ex after we had been split for about a year. Before I found out, he had just sort of dropped off the face of the earth. He basically ghosted me for no apparent reason when we would hang out at least every weekend and had been for years. Had to find out through another friend that he was hooking up with my ex and wasn't speaking to me because he "didn't want to deal with me being upset". Of course I was upset. Maybe a little too upset. Maybe he had a point, but you can have a point and still be an asshole. Years later, I'm over this girl and I realize that I was more upset that he couldn't talk to me about it and completely tanked our friendship. I think (maybe) I could have gotten over him banging my ex (I guess they dated for a little bit), but now I know what kind of person he is so no great loss. Found out later, this wasn't the first or last time he swooped in on a friend's ex.
I think the problem is the other guy might think they're good friends If he goes for it he goes for it but I think at this point he doesn't actually care about his friend y'know
Ex just wants to use him to get back at her ex-bf. Guy has to make a choice. If he is done with his male friend and doesn't care to ever see him again, then go ahead and have fun. Don't worry about sugar-coating it. Be a jerk, if that is what you want. Who cares? Do what makes you happy. Just make sure you are honest with yourself.
My thoughts: If both have serious feelings for each other, you tell your friend first. However he can either accept it or stop being friends. He doesn't really have a right to be angry at you (of course not after 2 weeks). That happened to me once and I was cool with it because I was over her. Him asking me first meant the world to me though. However, this seems to be only about sex. In that case everything changes for me. You can replace any person you have sex with for someone else, not for relationships though. Also, he's clearly not over her which makes everything so much dirtier.
this sounds like my ex best friend wrote-in. this whole things a hell naw. idgaf. guys like this were doing it from jump. lol this is so stupid i’m mad all over again.
No way I would go there but for one exception. The only exception I would make is, with his permission, I can have a one time “hit it and quit it.” Then compare notes over a beer afterwards. I have had really good buddies who we share women but neither took her seriously.
I married my friends ex. They were broken up for like a year. I told him before I asked my wife out. He didn't like it tried to tell me I can't. I said he doesn't own her, I just wanted to be direct with him. He had been dating a few other girls already. He wasn't my best friend, he was honestly a bit of a shitty friend (justification I know). But I've been with her 13 years, married for 8.5.
I think there are two honourable options: 1.) Forget the whole thing. 2.) Respectfully tell your friend that you're sorry but you've been thinking of asking her out. See what he says then you can decide what you do. Maybe he says he doesn't want you to do it and you do it anyway - but at least you're not a weasel.
Forget "best friends" these two guys don't even sound like "regular friends". The term "best friend" is thrown around WAY too loosely. If the writer was this this guy's "best friend" he would understand how that might hurt him and if the other guy was his "best friend" he himself would understand it can be SUPER unfriendly to move in on a "best friend's" ex yet he himself would understand that if he was broken up with an ex for over a year and his "best friend" really like her an understanding could be reached on the matter. Frankly this "friendship" sounds more like two acquaintances...
No dude. That's not cool and you know it. Not within a year, especially if you don’t have his explicit permission to pursue her. If you're talking years down the line after everyone's wounds are healed and he is married and has a kid now or whatever and couldn't give less of a shit about one of his old ex-girlfriends, maybe. But even then, you should probably still ask him about it first. "Hey dude, what's her face has kind of been flirting with me lately, not sure how you want me to handle it." He will know where you're coming from and let you know where he is at with it. If this is actually your best friend then it is not a "ask for forgiveness instead of permission" scenario though. Bros before hoes, while cheesy sounding, is actually sage advice.
Lol, happened to me on both sides. My very close friend got with my ex (right in front of me at a house party, I literally had to walk out the door NOT to see). A few months prior, I hooked up with a guy who later became my ex’s best friend (they were already friends before but not super close). I don’t think my ex knows about that to this day. They’re still friends
It's simple. Never date your friend's ex... Your buddy is more important than that girl. There are plenty of girls out there that won't ruin your friendships...
On this matter the bro code is clear, you have to ask your bro for permission to go out with his ex and if he says no, you don’t do it, bros come first.
My ex bf cheated on me with his best friend's gf. We would go on double dates and hangout together and she was my "friend" too. This story had me hollering at my phone😂
I've done something similar. I told my boy the next day. We are still best friends to this day and this happened 12-13 years ago. I still feel horrible about it. He understood and forgave me. I told him he ever did me that way I wouldn't care. I deserve it. If youre real boys you get over shit like that. We more like brothers anyway.
Ide say it depends on how their relationship ended. If he’s caught up on her at all then no. If he doesn’t want to see her again and didn’t get like really upset and everything then I’d say go for it. Me and my friends are kinda open with that stuff so I would just ask him but I know that alot of people aren’t like that.
I don't see anything wrong with them hooking up if the woman is single. I wouldn't care if my best banged my ex. I would encourage it. I think only men with insecure egos would care. If they are cheating behing your back, it's a different story.
My “friend” is now married to my ex and they have kids. He was kind enough to go behind my back before we were breaking up and was cheating for god knows how long. Taken a very long time to get over. This story made the hair on my neck stand up. 🤣 One thing I’ve learned is that it was a blessing to be rid of both of those vampires. ☺️
Who needs enemies when you've friends like that. Jeez
@@faithplus1588 I’m mostly over it now but I won’t lie it took me years and years to get over. Couldn’t trust anyone for years.
@@evanjames8817 same thing just happened to me bout a month ago, well i found out a month ago. Holdin up how’d you’d expect. How do you move past this man?
@@heribertozalazar4362 Tbh I don’t know if I ever truly will. But my advice to you is to fill her absence in your life with someone else.
@@heribertozalazar4362 I’m sorry to hear that man. I’ll pray for you that you move on easily.
This guy is such a best friend that he can't even talk to his buddy about the situation. Because he'd rather ask for forgiveness than permission
It’s no need to ask because he already knows the answer.If she’s told him his friend still text her he knows that there’s still feelings there
The friend has no right to tell the other friend who is allowed to date. It's just can you live with the consequences because he also has the right to be friends with whoever wants to be and if you bang his ex he don't have to be friends with you no more.
Yep he probably had like 6 podcasts he wanted to write to but he did the math and figured Bill would be the one to tell him to go ahead and do it so he could shed some responsibility
@@robertstone9988 Well said.
Robert Stone lmao okay buddy. Nobody here was saying that, and the dude writing in wasn’t asking if he was “allowed to date her”. He was saying if it’s a shitty thing to do to a friend and was looking for justification for what he’s about to do. No shit he’s “allowed to date whoever he wants”, but that doesn’t mean he isn’t a piece of shit for doing it. Date whoever you want, it’s your life, but don’t start crying when you lose your friends over being a vulture for your friends’ ex’s.
And yeah, the friend does have a right to hate this dude if he goes through with it, cause the friend clearly still has feelings for her and they dated within the past year. Go ahead and hookup with her, but he has no right to whine or complain when he starts losing his friends over it.
This guy is a vulture, you know he's spent the last few years waiting to swoop.
He's a textbook "beta-orbiter".
his self justification is hilarious
He's probably a garbage man as his profession.
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"Buddy of mine is a little nuts" Can anyone define 'projecting'?
Spot on.
Not the type of person you want as a friend. There are literally millions of other girls but he’s gotta go for his supposed best friend’s ex.
his self justification is hilarious
I don't think it's wrong to date someone's ex after a while. However, him flirting with her while they were still together and than trying to snakily justify it makes me sick.
@@MRJTD99 If it's a serious relationship, if there were actual feelings, it's wrong. No way to know for sure if that's the case, but he's got so many justifications for his behavior it's pretty obvious he knows he's in the wrong, so I'm gonna guess it was slightly serious at least.
@@MRJTD99 if theres millions of girls in the world why don't you think it's wrong to dates a friends ex even if it's been a while ? There's other girls
Thier are millions of girls and there are millions of people you can be friends with.
When u have to ask cuz u know it aint right but u looking for sum1 to tell u its ok
Exactly.
On the other hand, this isn't 2005 spell out what you're saying.
@@GRANOLA77 you understand what he said though. No need to be rude were all bros here
@@TheSinatra
Yeah I'm just saying
@@GRANOLA77 wtf, sum1 txts out their
@@Lucifronz
Lol
She's using him to get back at her ex.
Also what I'm thinking.
Yep
You think?
The best friend doesn't even need to tell him, she's going to do that herself.
Nailed that out the park
Ooooooo Jesus
Hi again
@@mightyraccoon7155 yoooooooooooo
This happened to me. My ex-gf (bi-polar psycho) always got into arguments with me about stupid shit (typically with her texting other guys “imy”). I ended up breaking up with her and my friend swoops in about a month later and starts dating her. I definitely saw it coming bc he’s always been a vulture. However, I was beyond happy bc he came into class everyday looking as miserable as I used to 😂. They ended up breaking up as well bc she psycho.
i love happy endings
I dated my best friends ex after talking to him and asking if its ok with him first. He said he was cool with it and I dated her for about 3 weeks and then she broke up with me cause I made a politically incorrect joke about something. Me and my best friends are still best friends today🤣🤣🤣
I never understood how friends can do that, what a dog
In my experience, women if she is truly done with a man, wants ZERO to do with that man's life. In any capacity. No sane woman wants to get into a serious relationship with the best friend of an ex, especially a year after the break up that was toxic. So fellas, if youre in this situation, remember, this kind of thing doesn't simply happen to us and it's ever a positive outcome. She's nuts and this friend is singled out as her target because she probably knew from day one he was a simp for her. Easy target to get at against the guys best friend.
Fellas, these new ladies are nuts. Just have a couple solid lady friends in the squad and enjoy the company of some strange women every now and then and remember to tell the squad you love em and check on em. Dont wait for these women to validate your worth. The squad has you on that.
Thank you Anthony. You nailed it!
Exactly - she’s playin’ you to get back at him. The situation is definitely not rooted in love nor affection - - more like jealousy and retribution. Wake up and think with your head, not with your D, bro.
She’s basically tossing a grenade down the hallway in slow motion and your next move is dive out the window and roll the shoulder! Abort, sir !!!
I don't see anything wrong with them hooking up if the woman is single. I wouldn't care if my best banged my ex. I would encourage it. I think only men with insecure egos would care. If they are cheating behing your back, it's a different story.
@@Victor-it6bv While it's not betrayal it's still weird. I wouldn't bang a friend's ex nor would I want a friend to bang one of my exes. It's not becoming in a friendship.
Stop this gender war bullshit
Don't break the bro code
The guy says "they were together a year or two." I would guess he knows EXACTLY how long they were together, he's been waiting in the wings the whole time! His only out is if his "best friend" left her. Then maybe it could work, but still risky.
dude looses his man card
L O S E R
This exact same shit happened to me last year, and listening to this was therapeutic. Garbage friends
He was always on the sideline waiting to pounce.
LMAO.
Nothing kills me more than when Bill says Oh geezish😂😂😂
I’ve caught myself saying it (or at least trying to sound the same 🤣🤣)
Had this done to me years ago but they actually got together after around 3 months of us breaking up.... funny part was we were best friends since we were 7 but not anymore because even if we were still friends I'd know he's not exactly friend material.... especially since we knew each other for that long. I wasn't exactly upset when I found out but I was disappointed in him because he chose that route over a lifetime friend
This is why my circle of male friends is small, like 3 dudes , known each other for about 12 years( I’m 33) and all 3 of em are married .
Me and my friends are married and we cheat all the time
niels nielsen congratulations on bragging about being pieces of shit 🎉 we’re all so impressed by you we can’t even handle our excitement
@@philorgneopolotin8762 Thank you i try buddy
guy friends are the best. sounds sad to only have 3 because you're scared they'll fuck your gf. I never understood jealousy to be honest. Why would you want to be with someone who likes somebody else more?
@@michaelsieger9133 because there's always someone else you may like more than the person your with, romantic daydreams are not reality. At some point you have to start honoring your commitments(within reason) and create stability out of your surroundings.
This dude is a weasel
What high school is this?
Happens in college as well...
Happens in your 30’s and 40’s too. Trash ass people in this world, all ages.
3:41 as Bill says his voice crakes at the perfect moment 😂
I've got a mate like this, it's pure narcissism. You could explain to him all day why nailing your mates ex is never ok but no matter how well you explain it to him he just doesn't understand. In his mind he just thinks "but they're not together anymore, she likes me and not him, if he was a real friend he'd let me do it instead of standing in the way'. It's quite amazing.
I'll never understand how you can throw away so many years of friendship for 5 good minutes. Like dude there's sooo many other women
I don't see anything wrong with them hooking up if the woman is single. I wouldn't care if my best banged my ex. I would encourage it. I think only men with insecure egos would care. If they are cheating behing your back, it's a different story.
@@Victor-it6bv since it’s been a year. How many friends you have left?
@@6738-d1j None😔
@@Victor-it6bv I’M MR LONELYYY😩😭
Smh This Violates the Bro code. Everyone knows the code man don’t do it. I can’t believe this is even a question
Dude, if he is your best friend - rub one out!! 😂😂
A Friend to the end . Or just until you can be a Enemy .
Yeah hbu
I was the friend that got together with a friends ex. My friend had left for a 2 year religious trip, and had stopped communicating with his girlfriend. I waited about a year and a half, but still got with her. He came home, met another girl and got married. Me and his ex girlfriend have been married 10 years and have 3 kids together, we actually hang out with my friend and his family often. Sometimes it can work 😂
Fucking a best friend's ex, who you flirted with while they were in a relationship, is a surefire way to get your ass kicked, especially if that friend is "a little nuts". You essentially become in his eyes the reason they potentially broke up in the first place, ready to swoop in like a vulture.
This guy is just looking for someone to say "yes." He can hear one million no's, but one yes and it's a go.
Do not hook up with any friends exes period you'll be thankful after 1 year
No, what kind of friend are you?
Rule number 1, stay away from buddies women even if they’re ex’s. Beta actions
Get out of here with that nonsense, just cuz you put yourself into a nice lady at one point doesn't mean you lay claim to her for all time 😆
Bullshit. Alphas don't give a fuck about their ex. An alpha is more likely to hook their friend up with an ex.
Betas cry about who their ex is fucking currently.
@@comagin2451 people who unironically use terms like Alpha and Beta amuse me. I can't help but imagine a skin tone irrevocably staines from Cheeto dust and Mountain Dew runoff
@@thumphreybrogart4108 If you care even a little bit about your friends you don't shack up with their ex girlfriends. The world has around 3 bil women in it no reason to ruin a friendship because you want to fuck a mate's ex lady. It's just plain disrespectful.
@@tomfoolery7797 I had a friend who started messing around with one of my exes. They liked each other. They were happy when they spent time together. I wasn't a selfish biitch about it.
I'm at that point in my life where "True Love" is hard enough to find -- if my best friend and my ex can make it work then best of luck to them. Except the bit where best friend was flirting with the ex when we were together. Depending on the level of flirting, that could be sabotage and if I was going to get an apology for something then that's what I would want it for. If I'm the guy who's being tempted: kinda what Bill said -- if I'm just trying to get laid, then pass, unless I don't give a crap about my "friend". If I think she could be something special, then I ask my friend for their blessing and if I don't get it then I have a decision to make between the two of them.
Agreed. Surprised it took this long of scrolling to get this level of rationality.
This guy is just looking for permission from Bill
Where do you get these images? lol
Montaged getty images
Getty images and piss poor photoshop. The worse the photoshop the better the podcast clip
Is that you in the back?
@@zh2266 AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
The only time the answer to this question is ever yes is if you hate your bestfriends guts .
In my day the friends ex’s were off limits. Younger generations don’t follow the same rules though
He can do whatever he wants, but he can't call himself a "good friend" after this. Sure not someone I would have around me.
Clearly this guy don’t have the balls to talk to the billions of other women on the planet.
This man has such an awful lack of accountability.
He'd make a great woman!
I was this guy once. And yeah, she used me for revenge. The guilt aint worth it, guy.
i love the immaculate justifying abilities of this class of human being
so fucking funny
This is the kind of guy everyone should avoid in life. It's one thing to do something wrong. But this guy wants to do something wrong and then paint himself in a positive light.
Exactly. That’s the worst part. He can’t even take ownership of who he is.
I was kind of in this scenario years ago where my best friend started hooking up with my ex after we had been split for about a year. Before I found out, he had just sort of dropped off the face of the earth. He basically ghosted me for no apparent reason when we would hang out at least every weekend and had been for years. Had to find out through another friend that he was hooking up with my ex and wasn't speaking to me because he "didn't want to deal with me being upset". Of course I was upset. Maybe a little too upset. Maybe he had a point, but you can have a point and still be an asshole.
Years later, I'm over this girl and I realize that I was more upset that he couldn't talk to me about it and completely tanked our friendship. I think (maybe) I could have gotten over him banging my ex (I guess they dated for a little bit), but now I know what kind of person he is so no great loss. Found out later, this wasn't the first or last time he swooped in on a friend's ex.
Good thing it happened early and not later in your life, imagine bringing him around for a cookout with your wife and kids. A true snake in the grass
I don’t see why not - you clearly are not good friends!
Ikr
This is what I’m thinking. He definitely doesn’t respect him, so may as well
We all know he's gonna do it anyway.
I think the problem is the other guy might think they're good friends
If he goes for it he goes for it but I think at this point he doesn't actually care about his friend y'know
what a snake move.
Ex just wants to use him to get back at her ex-bf. Guy has to make a choice. If he is done with his male friend and doesn't care to ever see him again, then go ahead and have fun. Don't worry about sugar-coating it. Be a jerk, if that is what you want. Who cares? Do what makes you happy. Just make sure you are honest with yourself.
My thoughts:
If both have serious feelings for each other, you tell your friend first. However he can either accept it or stop being friends. He doesn't really have a right to be angry at you (of course not after 2 weeks).
That happened to me once and I was cool with it because I was over her. Him asking me first meant the world to me though.
However, this seems to be only about sex. In that case everything changes for me. You can replace any person you have sex with for someone else, not for relationships though. Also, he's clearly not over her which makes everything so much dirtier.
Doode!!! You just save me for doing something stooopid!!!!!! Thanks
Is the pond really so small that you need to have your buddy's sloppy seconds? 😂 Vultures
When you have friends like that who needs enemies?!
this sounds like my ex best friend wrote-in. this whole things a hell naw. idgaf. guys like this were doing it from jump. lol this is so stupid i’m mad all over again.
That Mickey Mouse 🐭 “FUCK” @3:41 😂
This is def some revenge type situation
Bill’s advice 90% of the time: Rub one out 😂
God almighty this One in incredibly funny
OH JEEEEEZZZZUS!!!
Listen To This Letter Y’all’ 🤣 Unc On Point
When Ol’ Billy Freckles pulls out more than one “Ohhhh Jesus …” you know you’ve fucked up.
No way I would go there but for one exception. The only exception I would make is, with his permission, I can have a one time “hit it and quit it.” Then compare notes over a beer afterwards. I have had really good buddies who we share women but neither took her seriously.
Nothing like some post nut clarity!!! Good advice bill
I married my friends ex. They were broken up for like a year. I told him before I asked my wife out. He didn't like it tried to tell me I can't. I said he doesn't own her, I just wanted to be direct with him. He had been dating a few other girls already.
He wasn't my best friend, he was honestly a bit of a shitty friend (justification I know).
But I've been with her 13 years, married for 8.5.
This is what I consider when hearing a story like this. Happy to hear it worked out for you.
3:40 bruh lol
Oh was I flirting? Silly me! Is my face red? lol!
I think there are two honourable options: 1.) Forget the whole thing. 2.) Respectfully tell your friend that you're sorry but you've been thinking of asking her out. See what he says then you can decide what you do. Maybe he says he doesn't want you to do it and you do it anyway - but at least you're not a weasel.
There’s the bro code, but this is the man code.
That guy was plotting on his buddies gf for a long time lmao
I love how big bill's head is compared to the others in the photo
there's no need to ask
for permission to
date someone's ex
“Should I DO IT…??”
I wish therapists were like billy boy
Hilarious reactions from bill on this one
Forget "best friends" these two guys don't even sound like "regular friends". The term "best friend" is thrown around WAY too loosely. If the writer was this this guy's "best friend" he would understand how that might hurt him and if the other guy was his "best friend" he himself would understand it can be SUPER unfriendly to move in on a "best friend's" ex yet he himself would understand that if he was broken up with an ex for over a year and his "best friend" really like her an understanding could be reached on the matter. Frankly this "friendship" sounds more like two acquaintances...
No dude. That's not cool and you know it. Not within a year, especially if you don’t have his explicit permission to pursue her. If you're talking years down the line after everyone's wounds are healed and he is married and has a kid now or whatever and couldn't give less of a shit about one of his old ex-girlfriends, maybe. But even then, you should probably still ask him about it first. "Hey dude, what's her face has kind of been flirting with me lately, not sure how you want me to handle it." He will know where you're coming from and let you know where he is at with it.
If this is actually your best friend then it is not a "ask for forgiveness instead of permission" scenario though. Bros before hoes, while cheesy sounding, is actually sage advice.
Last time I was this early Bill still had hair.
No offence Bill. Love ya.
If it's been a YEAR I really don't think it's a big deal
Lol, happened to me on both sides. My very close friend got with my ex (right in front of me at a house party, I literally had to walk out the door NOT to see). A few months prior, I hooked up with a guy who later became my ex’s best friend (they were already friends before but not super close). I don’t think my ex knows about that to this day. They’re still friends
It's simple. Never date your friend's ex...
Your buddy is more important than that girl. There are plenty of girls out there that won't ruin your friendships...
Lmfaooooo bill could cut thru steel
My friend thinks this is a crazy situation. My friend is cracking up but also seriously concerned about hearing this stuff.
This guy deliberately broke them up so he could get with her. Toxic behaviour.
On this matter the bro code is clear, you have to ask your bro for permission to go out with his ex and if he says no, you don’t do it, bros come first.
If you gotta justify it that much you know it’s wrong
Beta Aaron Rodgers on the left there.
Previously unbeheld levels of copium.
I’ve done this. It was simple really. You don’t have to over complicate this.
Maybe his friend just got rlly good intuition. Whoever wrote this must not believe in Karma
There is no way this ends well.
I swear I spent the whole time here wondering if this was from a kid I’m mates with and my ex. Wouldn’t surprise me
My ex bf cheated on me with his best friend's gf. We would go on double dates and hangout together and she was my "friend" too. This story had me hollering at my phone😂
I've done something similar. I told my boy the next day. We are still best friends to this day and this happened 12-13 years ago. I still feel horrible about it. He understood and forgave me. I told him he ever did me that way I wouldn't care. I deserve it. If youre real boys you get over shit like that. We more like brothers anyway.
Ide say it depends on how their relationship ended. If he’s caught up on her at all then no. If he doesn’t want to see her again and didn’t get like really upset and everything then I’d say go for it. Me and my friends are kinda open with that stuff so I would just ask him but I know that alot of people aren’t like that.
Red flag lol. Anyone who simply ghosts someone is never worth your effort
I don't see anything wrong with them hooking up if the woman is single. I wouldn't care if my best banged my ex. I would encourage it. I think only men with insecure egos would care. If they are cheating behing your back, it's a different story.
Did this guy say the other guys was a , FRIEND??????????😂😂😂😂😂
What a dog move
Somebody's gonna hit it.
'Hang out' I think we know what that means.
Damn this guy is a pos, I hope the best friend knows about this and got rid of him.
Bill Burr giving some some beta male advice
Horrible move from a friend.
Bro you gotta put a link to the source