My brother recently left his wife of 8 years for very similar reasons. Some women happen to be takers - lazy, helpless, shiftless, depressed and depressing. Many men are the same way, but they rarely end up married.
@genuine troll for starters idk if you’re trolling so take this with a grain of salt. But, although I agree that the brother may have had issues to allow that to happen, I think the issues are less “why am i attracted to horrible women” and more “what genjutsu did this woman use to make me not see her for her true self from the start”. It happens to the best of us, and it’s probably because she was able to bait him with what he craved most at first (sex, warmth, a safe space, etc.), blinding him from all the negative that came with it. Women are master manipulators, and if you’re not hip to their game it can happen in an instant. So this isn’t to say that there aren’t decent women around, it’s just that that’s probably what he thought he found in her, and didn’t realize otherwise until much later.
@@JDub420247 unfortunately, I've had a family friend in a similar situation, and the dad is stuck paying child support, the mortgage for the house he doesn't own anymore, and no custody
Do not stay in a marriage for the sake of the kids. They will be better off with two separate parents. A bad marriage damages and hurts kids too not just the spouses. Get out asap!
People don't realize how many guys are in situations like this... I was 1 myself... she ended up leaving & I ended up with custody of my son.. I fell so blessed
My coworkers ex wife bought a car in his name and took out 75,000 in loans and credit card debt in his name when they got divorced. Guy had to sell everything he had and lived in his pickup for 6 months before he got his shit straightened out enough to get an apartment. Courts didn’t do anything for him except cost him more money
Bill Burr has taught me so much, only being 19 and have gone thru the literal worse relationships behind the scenes. Walking in on girlfriends cheating and such... The amount of advice he gives, just makes me stronger. Thanks bill.
@@huntergerelds332 I've watched all of them😂. Bill Burr and Joe Rogan are like the only ones putting out new content with their podcast. I think I've watched almost all of patrice, might be a few more clips I've missed.
"Bildo! it's probably not the first time you've been called that" "No, It is not" "But since you like being called offensive names" "I do" "I'll start there" "Well, thank you"
@@metalhammerm6903 she used his SSN to take out loans against his will. You definitely have a case. Case would have been even stronger if the guy had two brain cells to rub together and had already started divorce proceedings.
its probably not as bad as he's saying. I always take these emails with a pinch of salt. No one is going to write in and talk about their short comings and what they might have done wrong. Two sides to every story
I have a close friend who had a wife that tried to pull this same trick with him. It almost ended in his suicide :(. Luckily, he was able to talk to a lawyer and get a good grip on himself and pull through, hopefully things will turnaround. Thanks for sharing this, both men and women are guilty of doing insane shit in relationships.
"Wrapped around her finger" This happens a lot and it's not talked about. btw: he really should go about quietly getting a paternity test just in case because it might bring some clarity to the situation.
@@egorapter Better to raise somebody else's child yourself than pay child support for the same child to a scheming selfish advantageous witch who is just going to make the child miserable or worse.
And sadly that's going to put him in a terrible spot and the spot of the child who's grown to love and respect this guy. Him being sensitive is likely going to realize that.. her being a parasite will eventually either realize it or her parasitic nature will just reinforce having this man take care of her offspring. This happens in every town in every town in the world
Sometimes you have to take your losses and just leave. He sounds like a good guy who is being trampled on by this bull. Have a plan and roll out my man.
She registered an Online Business unda her husbands name by usung his social security numba, then she applies for business credit cards for this online business which are vetted by doing credit checks on husband or cosigned Credit cards-Husband’s credit is 5 stars, these business credit-cards have very high limits she racks up a $100k in food and online shopping and supplies for her business ? What happened to the online business? Where’s the inventory? He’s too late. He shoulda been eyeballin those business cards- Online Banking. I don’t know how many she ended up gettin witout him knowin maybe 1-2 more, meaning she forged his signatures to get em since hes a cosigner to the cards or the online business is under his name. He shoulda been proactively checking wit her on her online business progress. He mustve gotten one of the credit card bills noticing it was ridiculous amount.. How did she pay her first couple months? This is fraud. He needs to get her on audio Saying she racked up charges she had applied for credit cards on the business basically he needs to be wired for sound at all times from here on out: One for when he talks casually about the bills gettin her tk admit on tape she charged those cards and had other cards as well that he may or maybnot known of. 2 be wired when he tells her hes leaving her sick of her shit and telks her she shoukd pay for the entire bills on that online business and let her, in heated argument rub it in his face Like ‘Im not paying for any of it how does that feel theyre under your name too bad sucka you eat that shit sandwitch” Basically show this alk to the judge let them put the pieces together, It’s not over till its over. Wiretaps. Walk away and leave DiMezza...Where’s your honour and pride,
Re: some women who keep talking about fantasizing about celebrities - its not that they will meet their famous celebrity is the issue. Its that they are openly saying that they would jump ship at a moments notice as soon as someone better comes along is the issue. Believe them when they tell you this. Bit of fun is one thing but respect is a two way street. No respect = no future.
this chick is a sociopath and this guy cant let her go, i have honestly been there and it is really tough to let go sometimes. but when u do its a great relief. found an amzing woman after healing from this kind of situation and its def worth it to leave and hold the pain for awhile
Speak to the lawyer about the fact that she used your SS # to start a business and accumulated a ton of debt without your knowledge.. A person's SS# is not one of the things that become "shared" cause of a marriage and it IS fraud. *This is a fact, not my opinion.
Makes me feel real good about myself and I’m not even his wife yet. I’ve cooked, and cleaned up after him, and given countless massages and backrubs, and put out every time he wants anything, and feel guilty as hell whenever he spends much money on me. When we get married I’m gonna do all that times ten and love every second of it. I love doing those things for him and taking care of him genuinely makes ME happy too. I can’t wait to have this man’s babies 😫
You and your man seem to be very lucky to have each other. Some like this poor sap writing Bill is trapped. Even if he gets out of it his lazy good for nothing ex wife will probably cut him in half and more to take care of their child. And of course she's gonna get custody.
He’s never gonna marry you. Do you not notice the theme on all of these videos? Men don’t like good women. They say they do, but they’re involved with the bad ones. That’s why Bill has so much material. Men want a challenge. You’re not being one. Better back off on the wifey sh!t while you still can.
Exactly. If your husband brings in the money and you stay home you have to give 100 % at home. If you both work you go fifty fifty cleaning and keeping up the home. Divorce her dude. Get proof of her behavior. Record her. Hire a private detective. Get friends of hers and her family to be honest and make statements of the truth. You will get custody. At least in my state.
As I listened to Bill tell this story, I felt like I was listening to a story on how my life used to be. Other than the business debts, it's almost identical. I got out of it and my life has completely changed for the better. I came out of the divorce not owing her a dime (fortunately, my kids were all adults, so I didn't have to worry about them). I've been divorced for 4 1/2 years, have not had any desire to date, and have no plans to ever get married again. There is a downside to my decision, but the benefits outweigh that.
But William, one can be the best at being the worst. Thanks for the laughs - genuinely helps me get through work especially while I'm just getting back in the rhythm of things post holidays.
This dude needs to get divorced. She is abusive. Start documenting daily life that shows that you are the primary caregiver. Talk to a divorce attorney. They can help you plan an exit. This advice is for everyone.
This was genuinely scary to listen to. I got a bad feeling when her dad came in to meet him to tell him to work things out. YOU KNOW his daughter to get pregnant to lock him down before that they met. It's so premeditated
135 to 200 + is huge! I went from 145 to 205 when I tore my right knee up at the same time covid came around I am desperately trying to lose it the gut I have now is still shocking to look at in the mirror. 100% my fault for having it awful diet. McDonald's didn't make me fat society didn't make me fat I made me fat. And now I'm going to make me skinny again. I hate being 200 plus pounds it's tearing up my knees to be carrying around so much extra weight it amazes me how society refuses to take accountability for anything.
@@fahimhuq2768 sperm is the ball, birth control is the goalie, egg is the goal. She willingly took away the defense from getting pregnant aka “pulled the goalie”
It is a good point about not politicizing housework. I was in relationship with a woman who, while never stated explicitly, seemed to buy into this idea of it being demeaning to contribute to housework. It was unhealthy and she failed to see the hypocrisy in effectively forcing me to do all the cleaning.
Get out, my friend. Run like hell. I waited 15 years too long and two kids later I HAD to leave anyway. Cost me an arm and a leg but it was worth every penny... the kids did fine because I was there for them
So I was with a horrible person for about 10 years also. She had a daughter when we met, dad wasn't around, so her daughter became my daughter. Sooooo many red flags but I stayed for the little girl. Eventually me and the mom got married because she was pregnant. I tried to do the right thing. She didn't cook much. Didn't take care of the baby, didn't take other daughter to school. I worked 3 jobs. Found out she was committing welfare fraud. I turned her in (I didn't want to get in trouble for what she was doing.) She also had anger issues and would try to take it out on the oldest daughter. Another reason why I stayed....to protect the oldest daughter. One day she put bruises on her when I wad at work and sent her to school. Long story short, she went to jail, I got full custody of both girls. Still have full custody to this day.
I relate alot with this first dude. We set down calmly and decided to get divorced. It was calm and pretty mature thanks to prenup. Then went back few weeks later and got full custody. Lol. We def weren't getting along well then. Took awhile but worked out for me. Had to get that calm divorce outta the way first. Simple truth bomb DON'T get married.
Dont get married to someone unless youve spent the time and years with them to make you feel safe to. Did you marry within 1 year? Might be why :(. If not, Im sorry it worked that way :(
@@Ghost1170 no we was together for years prob 6 or 7 before we got married. DONT get married there's literally no conversation to be had about it. Lol. 👊🏻
I know 80 percent of the time a pregnancy is never expected but happens, and that there's a bit of a chance that she may not have gone out of her way to baby-trap the guy she was neglecting and who was having problems with her in the relationship. But it's a little too obvious for anyone to deny it. Especially since they rarely have intercourse anyway.
Wow 😂! I shouldn't laugh but I can see why my immigrant family is always saying it's better for my brothers to go back home and find a wife there and bring her back, obviously the story here isn't the norm but very common in the west, I am a mother of 5, I cook, clean and do the laundry, I pick up our kids to and from school and I hit the gym 5 times a week and my weight is on the lower end for women my age(34), husband works and does help with the kids and errands but I do most of the housework because I am a stay at home mom and love looking after our home, as I write this I am folding laundry and cleaned the whole house 😂, these things make me happy, I don't do it for my husband but for our whole family. This man needs to run away and find himself another person. Western men, go overseas and find yourselves a traditional wives cuz they are very rare to find in the west 🤣.
I mean, your feelings are always valid because they're real and you feel them. It's how you handle those feelings and act accordingly. Being valid doesn't mean being right
You got played, she trapped you with the kid, I cant fathom a more sinister monster then that. She was willing to have a child just so you'd keep giving her money.
As much as I feel bad for the husband, the letter made it seem like he was generally a very submissive person in the relationship. Like Bill said, the guy needs to establish his own ultimatums, otherwise he is just inviting women like her to trample all over him.
Was a FedEx guy for 11 years. Pretty much came in contact with 160 or so customers a day..mostly women. The pattern I noticed as soon as they would get married like clockwork they would stop wearing makeup and putting on 40lbs. It's like setting the hook on the most beautiful fish. Once you get the fish to the boat a giant fat bottom feeding carp grabs ahold of your catch swallowing it and now you have a fish that only worthy of throwing back in the lake. How about that for a run-on sentence😁
My brother recently left his wife of 8 years for very similar reasons. Some women happen to be takers - lazy, helpless, shiftless, depressed and depressing. Many men are the same way, but they rarely end up married.
That’s actually insightful
One of the smartest things I have ever heard
@genuine troll for starters idk if you’re trolling so take this with a grain of salt. But, although I agree that the brother may have had issues to allow that to happen, I think the issues are less “why am i attracted to horrible women” and more “what genjutsu did this woman use to make me not see her for her true self from the start”. It happens to the best of us, and it’s probably because she was able to bait him with what he craved most at first (sex, warmth, a safe space, etc.), blinding him from all the negative that came with it. Women are master manipulators, and if you’re not hip to their game it can happen in an instant. So this isn’t to say that there aren’t decent women around, it’s just that that’s probably what he thought he found in her, and didn’t realize otherwise until much later.
Run these are the kind of women that breed more of the same
@@thegodemperorofmankind7yea704 HOLY THRONE, IT'S THE EMPEROR!
As Patrice O'neal once said "If she left tomorrow, what would you miss about her?" 🤣 That's rough.
He'd miss his child.
Half of your property she would take with
@@dougtond1380 definitely, but by the sounds of it, he would get custody anyways.
@@JDub420247 which part sounded like that?
@@JDub420247 unfortunately, I've had a family friend in a similar situation, and the dad is stuck paying child support, the mortgage for the house he doesn't own anymore, and no custody
This letter makes me feel like wife of the Century. I love to cook, clean & take care of his needs. Going on 22 years now. Go me 🙌😂
You go girl, "OW"
Aw someone pat this girl on the back...
I'm sure his wife would claim the same. I'll believe it when I see it
Do not stay in a marriage for the sake of the kids. They will be better off with two separate parents. A bad marriage damages and hurts kids too not just the spouses. Get out asap!
@@SlowJuro LOL
People don't realize how many guys are in situations like this... I was 1 myself... she ended up leaving & I ended up with custody of my son.. I fell so blessed
You are. Love the kid. Forget the woman.
Nice one man. Good to know you got custody. My good friend is going through a similar situation with a girl who once described him as her "trophy"
lucky you getting custody
@@anubisgod23 believe me ,I know
Are you one of those people who thinks an ellipses and comma are interchangeable?
"Your feelings are always valid!"
who killed Bill and replaced him with a therapist?
His baby lol
@@RememberPOGS visualize a baby jumping at Bill Burr wrapping its tiny hands around his Adam's apple and screaming "become a better person!"
He's always been that guy.
Bill always been understanding he's just a dicc lol
Twas me
My coworkers ex wife bought a car in his name and took out 75,000 in loans and credit card debt in his name when they got divorced. Guy had to sell everything he had and lived in his pickup for 6 months before he got his shit straightened out enough to get an apartment. Courts didn’t do anything for him except cost him more money
What a disaster jeez
sounds about right
Bill Burr has taught me so much, only being 19 and have gone thru the literal worse relationships behind the scenes. Walking in on girlfriends cheating and such... The amount of advice he gives, just makes me stronger. Thanks bill.
What Bill has not taught you which is very important NEVER EVVVVVER GET MARRIED. Period. End. NO further debate
@@brandonjpj1 YESSSSIRRRRR!!! I refuse to get married, I will have a partner... Never sign ANY LEGAL papers.
Listen to Patrice also brother
@@brandonjpj1 I agree 100% I am divorce and I'm now with a new girlfriend for over 5 years and she agrees with your sentiment exactly
@@huntergerelds332 I've watched all of them😂. Bill Burr and Joe Rogan are like the only ones putting out new content with their podcast. I think I've watched almost all of patrice, might be a few more clips I've missed.
She took his SSN to open account. Isn't that identity theft?
It sure is
That's one window
Absolutely and I believe if he wanted to report it it would would be grounds for an arrest and a large fine
hope this poor guy sees this
@@mr.tryhardguitarguy2842 A large fine that he would have to pay lol.
"Bildo! it's probably not the first time you've been called that"
"No, It is not"
"But since you like being called offensive names"
"I do"
"I'll start there"
"Well, thank you"
What an awesome way to start things off 😂
Gotta long when someone understand and accepts what you want from them
Pulled the goalie is the best joke I’ve heard in weeks.
using his SSN is identity theft. Get a lawyer, press charges and divorce her
Not if they’re married
@@metalhammerm6903 really?
@@metalhammerm6903 she used his SSN to take out loans against his will. You definitely have a case. Case would have been even stronger if the guy had two brain cells to rub together and had already started divorce proceedings.
It's not easy. She will say "I asked him and he gave it to me".
Don’t understand how people put up with this...10years?!
For the kids.
yeaaa its crazy, once the ring gets put on all the sudden its coasting time apparently
its probably not as bad as he's saying. I always take these emails with a pinch of salt. No one is going to write in and talk about their short comings and what they might have done wrong. Two sides to every story
I have a close friend who had a wife that tried to pull this same trick with him. It almost ended in his suicide :(. Luckily, he was able to talk to a lawyer and get a good grip on himself and pull through, hopefully things will turnaround. Thanks for sharing this, both men and women are guilty of doing insane shit in relationships.
"Wrapped around her finger"
This happens a lot and it's not talked about.
btw: he really should go about quietly getting a paternity test just in case because it might bring some clarity to the situation.
This kinda guy sounds like he's gonna be ready to raise that child regardless.
@@egorapter Better to raise somebody else's child yourself than pay child support for the same child to a scheming selfish advantageous witch who is just going to make the child miserable or worse.
@@skysolitude Might help with the divorce/alimony/payments though...
And sadly that's going to put him in a terrible spot and the spot of the child who's grown to love and respect this guy. Him being sensitive is likely going to realize that.. her being a parasite will eventually either realize it or her parasitic nature will just reinforce having this man take care of her offspring. This happens in every town in every town in the world
@@egorapter yup. Sad stuff..
Bro, 5'2" 200 lbs is insaaane
Dude this woman is taking this guy for the biggest ride of his life
i like your profile pic
Sometimes you have to take your losses and just leave. He sounds like a good guy who is being trampled on by this bull. Have a plan and roll out my man.
She registered an Online Business unda her husbands name by usung his social security numba, then she applies for business credit cards for this online business which are vetted by doing credit checks on husband or cosigned Credit cards-Husband’s credit is 5 stars, these business credit-cards have very high limits she racks up a $100k in food and online shopping and supplies for her business ? What happened to the online business? Where’s the inventory?
He’s too late. He shoulda been eyeballin those business cards- Online Banking.
I don’t know how many she ended up gettin witout him knowin maybe 1-2 more, meaning she forged his signatures to get em since hes a cosigner to the cards or the online business is under his name. He shoulda been proactively checking wit her on her online business progress. He mustve gotten one of the credit card bills noticing it was ridiculous amount.. How did she pay her first couple months? This is fraud. He needs to get her on audio Saying she racked up charges she had applied for credit cards on the business basically he needs to be wired for sound at all times from here on out: One for when he talks casually about the bills gettin her tk admit on tape she charged those cards and had other cards as well that he may or maybnot known of. 2 be wired when he tells her hes leaving her sick of her shit and telks her she shoukd pay for the entire bills on that online business and let her, in heated argument rub it in his face Like ‘Im not paying for any of it how does that feel theyre under your name too bad sucka you eat that shit sandwitch” Basically show this alk to the judge let them put the pieces together,
It’s not over till its over. Wiretaps.
Walk away and leave DiMezza...Where’s your honour and pride,
Yup, been there myself.
Love Bills little 'advice' jingle. Lol!
Nearly doubling your weight might not be a ton to some? That's a insane weight gain!
Ikr
@RoCos 135 to 200 is 65 lbs (doesn’t defeat your point) lol
@@austindavid1862 he said over 200
Re: some women who keep talking about fantasizing about celebrities - its not that they will meet their famous celebrity is the issue. Its that they are openly saying that they would jump ship at a moments notice as soon as someone better comes along is the issue. Believe them when they tell you this. Bit of fun is one thing but respect is a two way street. No respect = no future.
“Pulled the goalie” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
this chick is a sociopath and this guy cant let her go, i have honestly been there and it is really tough to let go sometimes. but when u do its a great relief. found an amzing woman after healing from this kind of situation and its def worth it to leave and hold the pain for awhile
Man... I thought that I had it bad... this guy makes me feel lucky about my soon-to-be-ex-parasite...
Have you divorced her yet
@@bernardosoares1394 Not yet- just waiting on the paperwork to clear.
@@BENYJOSE1 Good luck.
'Probbly pulled the goalie on ya there...' I laughed so loud that everyone in the gym was staring at me.
Lowkey this is one of the few times that I’ve seen bill get dead serious
Gotta love the “Billy Burr’s Advice” theme song. A musical and lyrical masterpiece.
Speak to the lawyer about the fact that she used your SS # to start a business and accumulated a ton of debt without your knowledge.. A person's SS# is not one of the things that become "shared" cause of a marriage and it IS fraud.
*This is a fact, not my opinion.
Makes me feel real good about myself and I’m not even his wife yet. I’ve cooked, and cleaned up after him, and given countless massages and backrubs, and put out every time he wants anything, and feel guilty as hell whenever he spends much money on me. When we get married I’m gonna do all that times ten and love every second of it. I love doing those things for him and taking care of him genuinely makes ME happy too. I can’t wait to have this man’s babies 😫
You and your man seem to be very lucky to have each other. Some like this poor sap writing Bill is trapped. Even if he gets out of it his lazy good for nothing ex wife will probably cut him in half and more to take care of their child. And of course she's gonna get custody.
Let me know if he actually marries you. You’re already giving wife benefits to a guy who did not put a ring on it yet LOL.
He’s never gonna marry you. Do you not notice the theme on all of these videos? Men don’t like good women. They say they do, but they’re involved with the bad ones. That’s why Bill has so much material. Men want a challenge. You’re not being one. Better back off on the wifey sh!t while you still can.
lucky man
Actions speak louder than words
Codependent found his narcissist, perfect love story
Hahahhahahahahhaa
"Your feelings are always valid" love ya bill
Never heard bill so down and I feel the same way. “Wow” is right. Just so sad for that kid.
Exactly. If your husband brings in the money and you stay home you have to give 100 % at home. If you both work you go fifty fifty cleaning and keeping up the home.
Divorce her dude. Get proof of her behavior. Record her. Hire a private detective. Get friends of hers and her family to be honest and make statements of the truth. You will get custody. At least in my state.
wow go bill "your feelings is always valid see where they are coming from" good one
Sounds like my marriage, I was left with all the debt but thankfully I also got custody of my kids
The fact the thumbnail for this video is from “Gone Girl” is such an unbelievable dig. Hats off to your bald head
Bruh this is some random dude who makes these clips… how do you not know this?
As I listened to Bill tell this story, I felt like I was listening to a story on how my life used to be. Other than the business debts, it's almost identical. I got out of it and my life has completely changed for the better. I came out of the divorce not owing her a dime (fortunately, my kids were all adults, so I didn't have to worry about them). I've been divorced for 4 1/2 years, have not had any desire to date, and have no plans to ever get married again. There is a downside to my decision, but the benefits outweigh that.
But William, one can be the best at being the worst. Thanks for the laughs - genuinely helps me get through work especially while I'm just getting back in the rhythm of things post holidays.
This dude needs to get divorced. She is abusive. Start documenting daily life that shows that you are the primary caregiver. Talk to a divorce attorney. They can help you plan an exit. This advice is for everyone.
Showing you are primary care giver may backfire as she can stay home without any real change of routine
“There are always three sides to a story. Yours, mine, and the truth”
This was genuinely scary to listen to. I got a bad feeling when her dad came in to meet him to tell him to work things out. YOU KNOW his daughter to get pregnant to lock him down before that they met. It's so premeditated
I bet the dad just didn't want to have to take her back in
yup!
@@yellowdays07 Exactly, the dad knew she was a lazy bish.
135 to 200 + is huge! I went from 145 to 205 when I tore my right knee up at the same time covid came around I am desperately trying to lose it the gut I have now is still shocking to look at in the mirror. 100% my fault for having it awful diet. McDonald's didn't make me fat society didn't make me fat I made me fat. And now I'm going to make me skinny again. I hate being 200 plus pounds it's tearing up my knees to be carrying around so much extra weight it amazes me how society refuses to take accountability for anything.
“Pulled the goalie” 😂
Really makes you appreciate what you have
"Pulled the goalie" absolutely hilarious.
Please aware me - what does that mean?
@@fahimhuq2768 stopped taking birth control
@@anthonylinscheid9884 thanks I get that - buut what does that have to do with a goalie though?
@@fahimhuq2768 sperm is the ball, birth control is the goalie, egg is the goal. She willingly took away the defense from getting pregnant aka “pulled the goalie”
@@anthonylinscheid9884 thanks friend and may legs spread for you like you spread the knowledge
Can I just point out how hilarious this channel's thumbnails are?
‘She probably pulled the goalie on you’ lmaoooo
“There’s a lot of options here.... none are friendly.”
It is a good point about not politicizing housework. I was in relationship with a woman who, while never stated explicitly, seemed to buy into this idea of it being demeaning to contribute to housework. It was unhealthy and she failed to see the hypocrisy in effectively forcing me to do all the cleaning.
I hate to say it but i can relate to this letter.
a ton of guys can
She probably pulled the goalie on ya there. Damn that killlllllled me
This is fucking heartbreaking
Take her camping and turn it into a missing 411 story
Lol oh shit
This comment aged well lmao....
Then this could be a Billy Pinksack and a MrBallen vid.
Record all your conversations!
Get out, my friend. Run like hell. I waited 15 years too long and two kids later I HAD to leave anyway. Cost me an arm and a leg but it was worth every penny... the kids did fine because I was there for them
Man i always hear these stories but then i wanna hear the end result of the situation after bill gives his point of view.
After listening to this, goddam my life is perfect .. sorry dude .
She pulled the goalie on you....haha...I had never heard that one before
LOL his pitch that he just overfeed her and try to take her out haha that is diabolical as fuck
This sounds like my life minus the marriage,
So I was with a horrible person for about 10 years also. She had a daughter when we met, dad wasn't around, so her daughter became my daughter. Sooooo many red flags but I stayed for the little girl. Eventually me and the mom got married because she was pregnant. I tried to do the right thing. She didn't cook much. Didn't take care of the baby, didn't take other daughter to school. I worked 3 jobs. Found out she was committing welfare fraud. I turned her in (I didn't want to get in trouble for what she was doing.) She also had anger issues and would try to take it out on the oldest daughter. Another reason why I stayed....to protect the oldest daughter. One day she put bruises on her when I wad at work and sent her to school. Long story short, she went to jail, I got full custody of both girls. Still have full custody to this day.
This is grim.
If you it makes you feel any better, custody is possible if you can prove that she's neglectful and irresponsible.
I love how bills like "ok feed her to death allerate that shit"
OK (shuffling papers) moving on didn't just give my best slick advice ever ok now.
Despite that horrific jingle, his advice content is amazing
I hope that guy makes his play as soon as possible so he can set up the best defense possible
IT JUS GOT WORSE N WORSE N WORSE THE MORE HE READ 😭😭😭😂😂😂
I relate alot with this first dude. We set down calmly and decided to get divorced. It was calm and pretty mature thanks to prenup. Then went back few weeks later and got full custody. Lol. We def weren't getting along well then. Took awhile but worked out for me. Had to get that calm divorce outta the way first. Simple truth bomb DON'T get married.
Dont get married to someone unless youve spent the time and years with them to make you feel safe to.
Did you marry within 1 year? Might be why :(. If not, Im sorry it worked that way :(
@@Ghost1170 no we was together for years prob 6 or 7 before we got married. DONT get married there's literally no conversation to be had about it. Lol. 👊🏻
So sorry for your experience with your marriage. Their are good people out there.
Ouch 200 that is huge. Pulled the goalie lol.
PULLED THE GOALIE
Here we go! Here we go!
I know 80 percent of the time a pregnancy is never expected but happens, and that there's a bit of a chance that she may not have gone out of her way to baby-trap the guy she was neglecting and who was having problems with her in the relationship.
But it's a little too obvious for anyone to deny it. Especially since they rarely have intercourse anyway.
80% of pregnancies are unexpected? I really hope not. Where did that come from?
Wow 😂! I shouldn't laugh but I can see why my immigrant family is always saying it's better for my brothers to go back home and find a wife there and bring her back, obviously the story here isn't the norm but very common in the west, I am a mother of 5, I cook, clean and do the laundry, I pick up our kids to and from school and I hit the gym 5 times a week and my weight is on the lower end for women my age(34), husband works and does help with the kids and errands but I do most of the housework because I am a stay at home mom and love looking after our home, as I write this I am folding laundry and cleaned the whole house 😂, these things make me happy, I don't do it for my husband but for our whole family. This man needs to run away and find himself another person. Western men, go overseas and find yourselves a traditional wives cuz they are very rare to find in the west 🤣.
"Your feelings are always valid" Idk about that one Bill
Let the man hedge his bets once in a while jeez
I mean, your feelings are always valid because they're real and you feel them. It's how you handle those feelings and act accordingly. Being valid doesn't mean being right
This sounds like my ex and I listened to 6 seconds so far lol
Has the Bill Burr podcast been used as evidence in divorce court yet? Or a murder trial?
Is it weird that I saw Gone Girl just today.. and Bill posts this
5’2” 200. That’s a tank
"Why risk marriage?" That's what I always think when the topic comes up
He needs to lock his ssn/credit.
Guys have to not be intimidated by the court systems and roll the dice to get custody.
man i been watching/listening to bill's advice clips all day and it makes me want to never get married lmfao
I love the picture. It makes me laugh every time
3 min in, and i am thinking run away duuuuuude
These thumbnails are everything
You got played, she trapped you with the kid, I cant fathom a more sinister monster then that. She was willing to have a child just so you'd keep giving her money.
Holy crap a New Hampshire story 603 baby
💥👈😙👉💥
This dude just described my wife to a "T".
You want my advice, you call Lou DiMaggio.
Those dogs can still hunt. Just don't mention 'drugs'.
Pulled the goalie on you..funny
That dude's story hurts my soul. The kid and everything. Just painful...ugh.
As much as I feel bad for the husband, the letter made it seem like he was generally a very submissive person in the relationship. Like Bill said, the guy needs to establish his own ultimatums, otherwise he is just inviting women like her to trample all over him.
Bill the man of knowledge
Pulled the Goley hahahahah
Hitmen cost a lot less than those credit card bills
Yeah and prison sucks a lot more than freedom
@@cameronfielder4955 It sounds like my man is already in prison.
She’ll never find anyone else.
Well ya know.. if you wanna understand your wife? ALL YA GOTTA DO, is watch bad moms 2.
If you wanna understand your wife? ALL YA GOTTA DO , is watch scarface and it all makes sense 🤣
If you wanna understand your wife, ALL YA GOTTA DO, is watch The Shining.
hundred thousand in charges….”was found floating in the river. Luckily she was newly insured”
It's HIS Fault ! He missed a bunch of signs Before they got married. Choose wisely Gentleman because you only get one shot to get it right.
Damn, he got the anchor baby.
Was a FedEx guy for 11 years. Pretty much came in contact with 160 or so customers a day..mostly women.
The pattern I noticed as soon as they would get married like clockwork they would stop wearing makeup and putting on 40lbs.
It's like setting the hook on the most beautiful fish. Once you get the fish to the boat a giant fat bottom feeding carp grabs ahold of your catch swallowing it and now you have a fish that only worthy of throwing back in the lake.
How about that for a run-on sentence😁