Hey Steve: She’s Not Posting Me On Social Media || STEVE HARVEY
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- He’s been with his girlfriend for over a year, but she hasn’t posted anything about him on social media. How can he feel like she values him?
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I believe the healthiest relationships are the ones that aren’t on social media.
Facts
Not necessary but it helps
Thank you much
👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿yes!
💯👍🏻
I got married and had a child and haven't shared it on social media 🤷🏾♂️ social media is not that deep people
Agreed
not everyone is you or is like you. you cant tell someone else it's not that deep because you don't know what they've been through or what their thought process is like.
Trevzqy it really isn’t that deep though. People shouldn’t be that dependent on validation. However, I understand people have different experiences they need to work through.
I know right. I never posted a pic of me and a boy on social media n I'm almost 28. N I don't post anything on social media that much. I only like have 18 friends (I had more but I deleted mad ppl b.c I got stalked). I didn't even post my new job that I start next week Monday. I only use social media (fb) for news, writing experiences and inspiration or looking for inspirations, funny memes n talking to ppl who r long distance from me. (Ex: my sister's fiance). I just recently bought my first car. I didn't even post that. Like call me not text me or see me in person to know how I'm doing. Social media should only be acceptable if you long distance. Other than that it's not that deep.
Saaaame!! First of all I don’t even care for the people on their (nosey classmates and family members)
A relationship doesn’t have to be validated by putting it on social media. That is YOUR private life.
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Agreed, unfortunately, some people would disagree. Some people feel like posting your relationship online for people to see means that your serious or know what you want.
This true
Thank you! I don’t know what all these other folks are talking about. Others opinions shouldn’t build the foundation of your relationship.
Wow, one person gets it. The world we live in, in 2019 really believes if you don't post your bf on social media, you dont feel serious. Wow.
She doesn’t want the whole world in her business, yet because of this show, their relationship got exposed to the whole world 😂
her man did, she didn't!
@@sarahosee4576 true but I guess she didn’t have to come
the irony
All a part of his plan. Lol
@@kiky4881 Definitely!! 😂
It's great to be private in your relationship I don't think everything should be on social media it has a place
SAY THAT!!!!!
I understand that too! I'm so over seeing people get together, then separate, then with someone else . . .
Not everything is for social media
Amen👍
True but in that same vain don't act like you're single on social media either by entertaining a bunch of people as well.
He’s more interested in her than she is in him.. it’s so obvious
Yes.. so obvious! Idk if it’s a bad thing , it could always change
As it should be😋
Heart Break Hotel Inc absolutely not
how it should be.. ijs 🙃🤷🏽♀️
How should it be that way? Just curious as to why it should be. No hate here. Just a question
I only clicked cause they are such a beautiful looking couple!!!!wow
The guy is good looking, the girl is average.
Me too! A very beautiful couple!
same
@@pablonoriega632 you just mad shes prettier than you lol
Lavenue Cc pretty sure Pablo is a male's name
She’s a keeper for sure. The girl has beauty, class and brains and she’s secure enough with herself that she doesn’t need to fish for validation on social media.
Defo my thoughts too it's so refreshing to see that at these times it's admirable actually she will be fine either way this girl I know she will.xxxx
Well if she that private why does she have social media? Seems very suspicious to me, hiding that she is in a relationship. Obvious reasons would be that she doesn’t wanna put other guys off. The guy is acting very needy. He defo into her more than she is into him.
Agree smart woman with class 👏🏽
@@blackmagik6466 She came on a tv show announcing she was serious with this guy, I doubt she’s trying to fish other men. Btw many have FB accounts just to stay connected with friends and family. Doesn’t make her attention seeking.
If she posts on social media consistently but doesnt post her partner then shes looking for validation, just not the kind that comes from being in a relationship.
"But" . Learned something today.
Me too.
Me too!!! Don’t post him until I get a ring!!! 😝😝😝😝😝😝😝
You learnt that Steve likes to interrupt people? ;)
She was relaxed and willing to disclose her point of view.
Steve should have let her finish her thoughts... _but_ he just had to interrupt her.
Now, no one knows why, and Steve is all smiley/sneaky -- switching topic from _them_ to _himself_ (his social-media.)
Same here
Alex Klatt I caught that before Steve said it. She’s not sure period.
He's insecure cause he never posted his ex probably for the same reason his current gf won't post him 🤣
Bingo
Fffffffacts
Louder
Exactly....plus his new girl just blabbing out. She's seeking attention from another and posting their pictures together will kill her self esteem/ego. All these girls on social media are asking for validation and insecure as well. She's keeping her eyes open for a Alpha male, this guy is straight show us how he really a Beta male. Weak
He did used to post pics of him and his ex on social media just not alot
“Im not hiding you from the world, Im hiding the world from you” 😂
😂😂😂-Drake
Alexandra Dumay 😭😭😭😭😭😭
lmao
hahahaha
Sounds like she's protecting her relationship. Smart girl.
Exactly ! That’s what I do ! I don’t even like to talk about my relationship anymore
I understand completely it's been 8 years with my man I don't post a thing!
@@cookie-sn5ex u smart too
But, she phrased it extremely wrong. They were just not on the same page about being private, if she told her territorial boyfriend there is no resson to show off, the problem would be solved by being honest, in private one on one
Exactly
She's keeping her options open. Lol. 😂😂😂
I bust that kitty open she still low key freaking other guys
Life With Laughter Hellyeah she is 😂 y’all dumb if you can’t see it
tell it
Haha when ur insecure t doent mattet how handsome and successful ur a young beautiful girl will start play with her options u need to go hard or else u screwed
Not necessarily true. There are some people I loved in my life but I would never post it on social media.
That's no one's business and if that is what you need to validate your relationship, you need to grow up because you're too young to be in one.
She wants to be sure about him. One year is not that long. The way I see it, when he makes her his wife, they will have plenty of pictures to post on social media!
Exactly! Well said. Put a ring on it if you want bragging rights.
Yaaassss!
kriss mg are you a female? The way you explain him just wifing her up so easily seems so. I’m not too sure but, in this day and age marriage with a female is scary. It’s so one sided and biased, that I’m sure dudes out there will never commit to marriage. That’s how yo ass becomes broke, kicked out the house, paying child support when it’s not your child. All that.
People would swear he hiding something if he ddnt wanna post her on social media though. Smh hypocrisy
People can get married in 6 months bud...but true
I went to high school with him! He’s a nice guy and a great pianist. Everyone called him John Legend... Hey David 👋🏾
@Rian. Is Dave is from Ohio
For all the people who say that not posting about your relationship is better, or that your private life is better kept private. Hate to break it to you, but social media is usually used to share pictures with friends and family and often about the basic emotions of our lives. If you post about your family and friends and even aquaintences, or coworks, yet leave your other half out, that's just weird. Unless you don't use social media at all, or you never share pictures of yourself, or friends, then fine.
I digress. Social media isn’t where my family & friends are. They know where to find me for updates, by picking their phone and calling just like I call them. I have never posted my personal life on SM and my life is richer for it. Most people live fake lives on social media and others get depressed watching that fake life or trying to keep up with that fake life.
Thank you somebody said it
@@Probity100excuse
@@Probity100 call you? Are you still in the 2000's? Nobody calls anyone right now unless it's from marketing companies and spam. The only time a friend calls me is something urgent. We send what'sapp, texts, pics, and voice msgs. It's extra funny that you say you don't use social media and that it's mostly for people to fake a better life, and here you are, in some form of social platform advertising that "your life is richer" because of you have a certain belief.
@@DonLee1980 you’d be amazed that some
young people still have social skills and can have conversations that don’t involve endless texting. Yes, I have friends and family who call, we love talking to each other, unlike most humans these days who cannot hold conversations & lack social skills. We also send voice messages and texts.
That’s why he loves her. Because she seems independent and follows the beat of her own drum. If she was clingy etc he wouldn’t be so into her. She’s a high value woman
Amen and Amen!!
Too valuable for him.
That ain't it chief... he's with her cuz shes hot... shes not posting him so if they split she can jump on the next mans D without being "questioned" about her last relationship being serious.. it's simple really...
Never take advice about men from a woman
Thank you
I love how y'all let social media define your relationship. This generation... 🙄
It's so stupid ... smh
I don't get it
Facts it’s crazy lol
I totally agree everything don't need to be broadcasted on social media . Everything is not everybody's business I don't blame her at all for not posting her relatuonship..
They’re so cute together. Very lovely.
I say she's waiting for the ring to make it official, good for her
M D I don’t blame her for wanting the bling 💍
Exactly 💯
Lmfao yea ok more like she don’t want her other options to know 😂
@@Yo-broski you are my kind of crazy, I needed that laugh this morning🤣😂
@@Yo-broski Yep. My thoughts exactly! Anytime my exes didn't post me on social media, it turns out they were cheating. Idk what anyone says, it's a tad suspicious when someone doesn't wanna make you be known. Maybe not in every single instance, but definitely most!
He's def more into her than she is in him.
"Its goin good for you?"
"Its goin pretty good"
"Hows it goin for you?"
"I love her" Lol!
He such a beta
Damn this is so sad. He seems like a good man but she not feeling him like that. Karma a bit** 😂
Joseph Mauricio Flores AMS ❗️❗️👀
Nora Peace orrrr thats just your personality
Issa Secret secret what??? 😂🤣
He wants to mark his territory 😂 she is gorgeous. She is just cautious and she better be coz we never know.
If he was a player he wouldn't want to post her pictures on social media.
@@dbigtime10bt players.flex some dont but some does
Soulja boy voice gorgeous 😭😂😂She deffly ain’t no FUXKKIN GORGEOUS 👹👹😭😭😂 u start frontin off the rip, she ok not NO Fuxkin Gorgeous
Djenabou Diallo she’s cute I don’t know about gorgeous
Tina umm, how does he sound like a player Tina?
She doesn't want egg on her face if it doesn't work out.
I agree
KevAda 1 exactly
Yup that too!
in every life a little rain will fall. no matter how many umbrellas you have a little rain will get to you. might as well use the rain to wash the egg off.
KevAda 1 egg on her face? What does that mean?
Social media is the reason why broken homes are created. And hearts are broken
Am I the only one that realized he didn’t solve their problem 🤣
I noticed that too.
Nope, I said to myself "1.7M people missed that he didnt solve the problem? Oh, wow!" 🤣😂😁
Salt of the Earth right 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lol he gave the girl an example of what he does when he receives comments/ questions he doesn’t like since that was her concern.
A A I mean I guess we’ll accept that lol
She is very beautiful.
Your relationship should be private not secret
olivia rivera hello!
PapaGeorg10 men say the same thing & love the attention of women. Its a human thing....
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AMENNNNNNNN
I don’t think they heard you loud enough!!! Here’s a mic 🎤 🔊
“Once you say BUT, you just erased everything you said prior to that” - Harvey’s dad 💯💯
This is NOT true!! Some people just don’t dig social media, like me!! Most people who post on social media be the most miserable in real life!!
Bella London Love so true!
Well said Bella......only very shallow peeps post everything on sm....
@@shopsfave2173 And when they don't get enough attention out of it, they make dramas to everyone to know how insecure they are !
A good sign would be to find out if that girl ever posted boyfriend's or romantic interests on her social media. If she hasn't then she's just a private person. If Not, then sorry homeboy she's just Not sure like Steve said.
Dibab You’re sick
I wouldn’t post any man but my future husband. Boyfriends don’t get posted. PERIOD! We all know those people who post every significant other they have and it’s just a repeated cycle.... also a little embarrassing. So I agree to keep your relationship private until proven worthy of posting 💍
Boom!! That's right!
Good point! People do post a lot of superficial relationships just for likes and comments... When you got sumn real... You wanna keep it to ur self #facts
Obviously , he feels the relationship is solid enough to post their partnership.
Wiseone95 Wiseone95 I respect your opinion.
Marriage won't stop preying women to comment on him.
She's a keeper. Just a damn shame that a person opting for their right of privacy is now seen as something strange. Crazy.
I agree. I don't like social media. I feel sometimes like an outsider just for that. Even businesses say "follow is in social media" augh.. I don't like it. Lol
@@bluewhale2600 me and my now husband have never posted each other on social media. Now that we’re planning our wedding, is it wrong to tell guest not to post us on their socials? 😭 I’m torn.
@@bharris4517 on this one is a tough one because these are your wishes. I could totally understand when you tell people"no kids" in your wedding (because the $$ obviously is more per plate even though they r kids) but you are talking about pictures in social media. I would say let them just because they are also sharing your happiness with you and they are celebrating and feel proud to share your beautiful event with their friends and family (with the word) let that beautiful day be beautiful in whatever it may be. What is more important is for you to enjoy and not stress about stuff you can't control. Just enjoy the process. Probably people will (highly think so) that they will take pictures and post.. why not give in and get a photo booth where they can take silly and cute pictures of them! Or have disposable cameras in every table so guests can take pictures of you guys and them and after give them to you so you can have memories from different angles in your wedding day! Just some ideas,"If you can't beat them, join them!" 🤷🏽♀️ After that... No more social media lol 👍☺️😋
@@bharris4517 I agree, do not share my pics on any media.
The issue is if she's posting herself but not her man
Girl, if we're not engaged to be married or married I ain't posting no man! I understand what she's saying. If the relationship ends up going left then ppl gonna be all up in your business and you don't want to seem like a fool. I agree.
I support her and her choices. A good relationship should have nothing to do with Social Media. I'm only going to post when I'm engaged and married. I don't need drama. Only my close friends will know who I'm dating. And yes, I'll be upfront about it.
RoyalMasterpiece same and I’ll make sure to tell my future husband too
You can post your friends an co workers but not the man your sharing yourself with 🤔🤣 people r delusional when it comes to relationships smh 🤦🏿♂️
Nathanael Brown other peoples opinions won’t affect a friendship but it can affect a relationship so if you want to post ur bf/gf go ahead but know that the moment you do you give people the right to talk about your relationship and I’ve seen were it deteriorates the relationship
If i have a man i dont want to post us until i knoe wrre sercure its embarassing to post a man abd next thibg we break up
RoyalMasterpiece that’s the problem with young people. They need too much external validation. I can understand he might find it odd that she won’t post him; but to be bothered by it is nothing but ego and insecurity.
Perhaps, she just doesn’t want the whole world in her business.
tgh0486 Hamilton she got it now
I'm the same way
Lol for sure.
That's what she said..
@NRGRealting she's not on FB for her Relationship Status perhaps??
I’m a female and I understand how he feels. I addressed it with my partner. He constantly kept telling me there’s nothing wrong with it. So I left it as that. 2 years down the line I only come to find that part of the reason of him not sharing pictures of us online was because he liked to show other women he was available and single. He loved the attention of other women messaging and commenting on his photos. It really just opened a door to temptation and eventually something so simple led him to cheating. So in my case it was a red flag 🚩🚩🚩 Anyone out there in this situation go with your instincts and gut feeling.
littlemouse u wasnt the one for him.
Exactly. It depends on the person and how they use social media. It is absolutely a red flag online flirting etc. Could only imagine what the messages look like
littlemouse that’s just stupid anybody can cheat without social media.
d817 I’m sure but in this day and age that’s the most common way and I’m finding that out with a lot of girls and guys in the dating world now
I had this same experience too but we just have to know it’s ok if you’re not the one for a person because now he’s posting his new gf which is ok learn to move on when they show you that you’re not for them
Most women don’t believe in posting boyfriends, and thats perfectly healthy. Not posting doesn’t mean it’s a secret. It just means it isn’t your business. Plain and simple.
I never post any boyfriends. And the ones who posted me where acting up anyway lol
Nah, it means they keeping they options open.😂😂😂
Na.It means she probably loves all the attention she gets from all the guys who think she single that validate her.If she had him on her profile she would sti ll get attention but not as much.
Thats a lie
Exactly 💯
When he asked why doesnt my gf want to post me on social media he should have asked himself why didnt i post my ex? Then he would find the answer.
Now Steve should've asked him that.
Yeah. So obvious
He knows the answer that's why he's afraid. 😅😅😅😅
Facts
He probably has the answer but he couldn't get her to confess it like the ex couldn't do that
Because so many break up stories begin with...It all started one day on Facebook
Truth
🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿
🤣🤣🤣yelp!
True
Thank You !!! I hate Facebook for that now. There ‘s no privacy !
He's one of those people who needs to feel validated by social media and she's not.
never a good mix.
Hmmm...
She's drop dead GORGEOUS!
Her hair
Her face
Her smile
Her skin
Her dressing
😍
I agree
True. Beautiful and classy
she's strong 6. The fact that she keeping the relationship a secret pulls her down to about a 3 though. Dude should think about finding another female.
@@BRlGADE_KINGPIN
Incel
Damn she is gorgeous
She aight, the dude is better looking tho.
She really is pretty
@@gamalsankara1388 They're both fine, just leave it alone, it's not all about looks.
@@gamalsankara1388 ✅✅ she aight...
She's 🤮
She don’t want to post him and then get that “woman to woman” DM 😩😂
Raven Anderson I’m hollering 😂
😂😂😂
Lol
Sis 😂😭🤦🏽♀️hollinnnnnnn
Raven Anderson periodt!
I'm with her. I think it's better to keep it private because sometimes posting your relationship in social media will ruin it. People, sometimes, are too curious and would have a lot of questions.
a year? people are engaged by 4 - 5 months. but she aint even post him yet? Nah she cheating
hello how are you dear i am in somalia i so love you help me
i am waiting you
The way she tells this is mine ohh gosh i want someone to tell me like this.
@@BRlGADE_KINGPIN insecure!
Mark your territory by “ Putting a RING on it Sir”. The Best relationships are the ones that are kept Private/Sacred. Don’t give no one a chance to do/say nothing about your gift(she’s the gift). You always wanna protect you/her by not allowing no one to have an opinion about yall. When you post about yall, your opening a door to all kinds of attacks.
Somethings are NOT for Social Media.
Thats how you loose half your net worth
@@shahannwalker2388 Relax man. Half your net worth isn't nearly as strong a cushion in life as the institution of marriage. Our ancestors knew exactly what they were doing.
@@shahannwalker2388 facts
Beta
This 👏
Steve you were right. She just said she didn't want to post just in case something happens to their relationship. (She is not sure!) Nailed it again Steve! 😅
she is unsure about him
Stefanie Rene you can so TELL. Something is definitely off on her hand she seems very apprehensive.
That doesn’t necessarily mean being « unsure about him »most people wanna be a cautious about social media , i don’t even post my own photos
I agree...she didn't seem confident about her love for him.
Completely agree.
Agreed the relationship is "pretty good." I would bet that her heart is damaged from the last clown she dated. Now she's very apprehensive.
That's called Karma 😂😂😂
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽taste of his own medicine.
Daanmmm
Bow Rio
Are you serious?
People just like to say karma
@Bow Rio changing your actions doesn't stop current karma it stops future karma. He still has to reap what he has already sown.
I was this guy. I used to post my ex, she hid me on social media for a year. She used social media way more than me. She didn’t wanna loss all of her side options by posting me. That relationship taught me a lot
Thank you
Word
Being private is the way to be but seriously, there’s no harm in posting your mate every now and then...especially if your partner is bothered by you NEVER posting them. There’s a huge difference between keeping your relationship private and keeping your partner a secret.
100% agree! If you love him and it is bothering him, one picture ain't gonna kill no one. Besides, why you got so many people who might have something negative to say - maybe you need to check your tribe and stop blaming social media. Just saying
Hamen. That's da kinda comment i agree with
K W exactly
Absolutely, however the issue is when the relationship doesn't work out. It's a little embarrassing to post each boyfriend that you are dating... I say wait for the engagement!
Shayla Ahava I understand completely what you’re saying but at the same time, a lot of marriages don’t work out. So that’ll be even more embarrassing if you post your fiancé/spouse and things don’t work out. And if you find yourself having boyfriend after boyfriend or girlfriend after girlfriend, then you have bigger issues within yourself than you think... Not you in particular, just generally speaking lol
She is clearly unsure if it will last. Her statement about 'you post someone and then something happens and you have to deal with questions' are case and point. Steve didnt want to further embarrass anyone on camera but that 'pretty good' vs 'great' and that involuntary 'I love him but'.... Yoooo. Maybe he's just not used to her kind of stance.... Her 'a year and some change'...? 'Some change'?! I think she is pulling a him and he is bemused lol. Its also plausible that should she match his enthusiasm he would become a detached as she presently is.
I like this, spot on !
Bingo!
Chen Wills : It’s also possible that she really is just keeping her options open.
He’s whipped, and he’s caught up in her looks. He sees the attention she gets from all types of men AND women when they are in public.
Right now, her SMV is higher than his, because hers crosses all boundaries. There’s not a guy on the planet who wouldn’t date her. She looks like a model. She knows this.
His problem is that his thinking is clouded. You would be shocked at how many guys can’t think straight when their women are beautiful.
He’s a good-looking guy, too, but he just doesn’t pull them like she does. And she’s keeping her options open.
Plus, maybe the sex is more mind-blowing for him than it is for her. Or maybe she wants a man with more money and higher status.
All I know is that in 10 years the tables will turn. She won’t be her young, perky self anymore, and he will be able to pull any woman of any age.
His SMV will be higher than hers. Let’s see what she does THEN?
@@DeCurtaRican the problem is that he'll most likely married by that time.
Shes looking for another man is what shes alluding to.
I feel her. I dont post anything with me and my friend. Because I want that part of our relationship private. It's not for everyone.
Agreed, people nowadays feel like you have to post on social media. Or if you don't, you are hiding something.
Women post what they’re proud of❗️Don’t let them lie to you fellas💯Social media ain’t everything but in today’s society it plays a big role
they are a beautiful couple. i respect a blk man who can express his feelings and profess his affection.
@@flacohernandez4380 😂😂😂 I apologize for laughing because it aint funny but the truth behind the statement made me laugh.
Race*
I really appreciate this comment cause they really in this comment section ripping this black brother apart for expressing his feelings
Posting your relationship on social media is dangerous and the questions are really annoying.
Right
How’s it dangerous?
She say their relationship is "good"...he said it's "going gr8" (dats already a difference right there). Then she goes on to say "whut do u want me to say i love him yes i love him" (sounds like an unsure statement of loving him or not). #JusAnObservation
N. Pippen Thank You for stating this observation that she might not like him like he likes her...I thought I was the only one.
@@CherryDropOfLove yea i jus thought it wuz pretty obvious. I don't see how he doesnt know.
@Zedic Black it is sumthin wrong wit it...both should be saying "gr8" or "good" not 1 saying "good" & tha otha saying "gr8". Means they both dont feel tha same bout each otha. Gotta be on tha same level.
@Zedic Black i really dont care how they will be or not i jus know they not in sync wit each otha.👋🏽👋🏽🛑🛑💯
Completely agree with you. The relationship is definitely lopsided when it comes to affection; it seems like he is way more into her.
She’s unsure of him as her partner and would like to keep her options open. He’s too clingy and honestly somehow I don’t quite blame her for being hesitant.
This is why I delete my social media. She wants me to show her off when I don’t care about others. My love for my woman should be determined about how much I love her. Many post stories about their girl and still cheat on them
Girl plus kids and still cheat
she's right tho..
Exactly!
He doesn't need to mark his territory, if she can respect him and herself. He shouldn't be worried about being posted on her page.
My wife and I aren't on social media, we just look at RUclips for videos and news. Facebook is to negative and competitive, "F" it. Valentine's Day will be my 14 year proposal date to her.
Yes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! God Bless your marriage!!!!!!
Great...wishing lots more
I’m not on Facebook either. Congrats on your marriage
I'm Inspired go ahead and tell the truth. Truth is neither one of y’all are happy share the other off to public lmao. Trust me when you got a bad one you catch you be ready to show it. It’s like fishing when you catch a big ass bass. If your not a fisherman you won’t understand but surely there has to be some happy thing in your life you’ve obtained and sharing it w/ other is nothing wrong w/ that. You just ain’t proud enough of your catch.
See that’s different- if you’re not on social media it doesn’t make sense to post them. You can’t 😂🤷🏽♀️ but if you have social media its a little different
The best sign of a healthy relationship is not having any sign of it on social media (especially the negative ones) .... You don't need to tell people what you're doing with your relationships....
Such a double standard. If he didn't post her. People would be saying "oh he's cheating" "he's hiding something "
Major facts. I have only posted my GF in my insta and snap stories because it’s while we’re doing things but I don’t have her on my Instagram wall and people assume I’m hiding something like no other. It’s so annoying.
That's what im going through right now. Shes trying to give me an ultimatum because of it.
I don’t post anything cause I do not have a social media except for RUclips.
Facts
Amen
Ohhhh damn she already thinking of the aftermath.. meaning she’s already ready for the worst case scenario. A break up.
Julio Fuentes well it be like that when u already went through bs it’s like insurance gotta protect ya self from looking crazy
It isn’t that she’s ready for a break up. But until you have a ring on your finger and ordained by God- anything can happen. Until it’s a legitimate marriage in my opinion there is no point of posting your relationships online.
Sana S. even when you got a ring, they don’t stay!
Hannah Sophie Rees a ring and ordained by God is key
Sana S. Agree
The only man I have ever posted on social media is my husband, I NEVER posted boyfriends. I say DO NOT post him until he puts a ring 💍 on it. 😜
Abigail Mwau . Retweet .
Sis i am with you I always tell this my friends 😎👍🏼
That’s smart. I was in a relationship where neither me or my boyfriend was that active on social media so we didn’t post each other and sometimes it would make me feel insecure like why don’t we do that like other couples, but now I’m glad that we didn’t because people break up all the time. Now i’d rather wait until a man becomes my husband to share him publicly to the world Ike that.
You got some serious issues
Yes never
She’s unsure of the future of the relationship and clearly stated her fears “If it doesn’t work out, I don’t want to deal with the repercussions”. She’s anticipating and is prepared for this not to work out and don’t announce him on her social media page. That’s the truth.
And I believe that as well!!
I've been in a relationship for 5 years and i haven't once posted my significant other on social media. All of the important people in my life know I'm in a relationship and that's all that I really care about. Posting your relationship now opens it up for outside opinions. People don't want to see others happy so they will do things purposely to try and break yall up .
I'm a few years late in seeing this video. Are you still dating the individual from your post 5 years ago? If so, happy for you and both of your futures.
@@lulualleyne5022 yes we are still together and thank you !
Great couple...good looking too. He needs to be patient and not be too demanding with her. Give sufficient time for relationship to deepen. In fact, he should get off all social media and keep it real. Best of luck to them.
She is smart, she knows a real relationship is more than just saying i love you .
You're the only person on here giving real advice.
Best advice ever
A woman will gladly post a man oh her social media if she sees him as high value.
@@dtosmanm4743 thank you for saying this. Someone speaking facts.
This generation is so weird “if you don’t post me on social media you don’t really love me” wth kinda logic meanwhile a person can post a million picture of or with a bf/gf but still be cheating ... come on now and he’s just insecure cause he didn’t post his ex cause he was probably keeping his options open cause he wasn’t sure that’s what he gets KARMA
So true karma
"He so arrogant, he walk out there like he's somebody." I gotta message for the person who said that to Steve. Steve Harvey *IS* "somebody! A kid with a stutter who manages to build a successful TV career for himself absolutely IS "somebody".
The guy probably didn't see this
@@BrainRotGPT LOL love the name Hugh
She’s beautiful!! This is how you stay classy ladies! Stop over posting and uploading every photo of the relationship. It takes all the allure away and people end up giving you evil eyes and hateful energy anyways because they hate that you in a relationship but they not. 💯💯💯
God bless you much with is sensitive word,it's very nice and clear 🤞👌
So true!
I think Steve is right. When he said "she aint sure." I was like "whuut a bs!" I have been with my bf almost 3,5 years and I haven't posted him on fb, because I'm not about social media. But then a second later I was like, but why exactly didn't I post anything. We have plenty pictures. Then I knew. I am not sure about him and I have been not sure for the longest time.
Someone out here said the girl is waiting to become his wife. I think I'm waiting on that part too. Other than that. Our business is our business.
For him to even come on national television and talk about this is not good because he’s feels insecure and something in his gut is telling him something else
Me and my girl had been in relationship for 4 year now. We don't post ourselves for social media. We are happy!
Why does everyone need some type of validation from a bunch of ppl they don’t know on social media?
Or people they'll never meet in their lifetime. Plus they can let people know they're taken without social media.
Marcus Melton Exactly
It was a time when Social Media didn’t exist. Y’all forgetting people made it through their relationships just fine that way, probably even easier without that element. He’s just scared that the reason she isn’t posting him is the same reason why he didn’t post his ex.
During that time people got dressed, drove to the mall/portrait studio etc and paid money to take pictures with their significant other or family. Then shared pictures face to face or via mail. Social media just digitized and connected things people already were doing while making it much easier.
AcerbicOrder yea but you didn’t show ever stranger the person your dating 24/7
Whenever people “go steady “ they go public. People who keep it quiet do so for a reason.
@@LawAbidingCitizenHelloOfficer It wasn't possible back then. People didn't carry around big cameras and even larger video cameras to not show anyone. Especially those goofy matching outfit couple photos. America's funniest home videos were the first personal viral type videos. It's like saying people weren't on the phone a lot back then...some people would talk for hours and hours tied to a wall. Same being online even with very slow internet people were sitting in front of desktop PCs. From TV, Computer to Smartphone at every stage there was always narrative of "too much".
AcerbicOrder so for the guys who kept a picture of their wife in their wallet it wasn’t possible ?
She aint thinkin’ about that boy 😂 And he too in love and clueless to see it. You’re not the one kiddo.
L V but she’s on national tv with him. Perhaps she is having other “conversations” and don’t wanna get busted on social media. Idk
Patrick Hatcherson Your scenario works too. Which also means she’s still shopping out there. But honestly I can tell by her energy with him thats she’s not that into him. Unfortunately, I can tell he is very smitten with her.
This is it.
@@oc4515 what if she just guarding her heart , she seems intelligent & confident,I think shes knows about these games man play , from a womens prespective she I think she cares alot that smile is genuine.
@JJ Kingman Nah, she's just a private person. Stop projecting your issues. Many people under the comments are married and have never posted their husbands or wives, their significant others don't need validation from the whole world. Social media doesn't mean anything.
No nails, no outrageous makeup, natural hair, doesn’t care about social media into her relationship…etc. Well brother, I’d better not post her cause she is everything a man is looking for man. Protect her at all costs 💆🏽♂️
Her not posting him means nothing!! She doesnt have to put pics of him on social media.
Exactly..he should respect that...
It does mean something....she's protecting her privacy and her feelings from so called fake friends
I agree. You dont need to have the whole world in your business and in your "house."
@@DuttyGyal718 are you Jamaican?
@@marvelousmarvelous2529 Nope. Raised around them though. Just an Old Moniker I use when I used to Mashup the Dancehalls over here.
He didn't post his ex cos he didn't love her that much. Now she doesn't post him cos she doesn't also love him that much also. Moral of the story is that he is gonna be her ex someday 😁
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Lol and the cycle continues.
Remember she said she doesn't want to deal with the aftermath if something happens. Therefore, something COULD happen. He's sure she IS it- that's why he wants to post. She thinks he MIGHT BE it.
@@vroxxzz I think its more of a sitting by the fire waiting for fireworks situation she's got going on,the dude is sure up for a ride,too bad they had to be each others post breakup person I think this could have been a really good relationship if they met after all the hustle
Facts
I’m all for privacy .. But Damn sis , at least make a boomerang of both y’all plates when you out to eat 😂
Lol this 😂😂😂
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I'm done 😂
Yea fam she can at least post the holding hands 😭😭😭😭
Steve Harvey’s walk on stage is the funniest thing going to see a man that loves himself and the confidence in him love the guy
Yessss girl don't post him till u are ready!! Men do not decide our lives! Let him go crazy for u
I might need security damn lol
Okay now go find all these girls on social media thats complaining about their man not posting them, tell them that they do not control men.
👌🏼right that’s the way I do it and that drives them crazy!
You’re probably the same woman who’d go raging if your man didn’t post on social media about you. This is why your comment shouldn’t be taken seriously
And visa versa men should not be posted girlfriends unless she the wife and woman don’t decide our lives either
I use to be on social media and my fiancé was not. I just deleted all my social media’s all together. Best decision ever. Anyway. Beautiful couple!!
Your still using social media... RUclips. 👆
Marcus Melton I have reddit as well. But these aren’t Facebook, Snapchat, Instagram, Twitter. He can deal with this.
Marcus Melton I don’t really define youtube as social media. My opinion
Sis leaving her options open and I dont blame her!
If ur fella let options open u gonna say same thing? U no blame him?
“He walks out there like he’s somebody!” Hell yea...He’s STEVE HARVEY! He made it and deserves to walk out like that! Steve’s been hustling and busted his ass for years. He’s a proper and great role model and very hard working and intelligent businessman. He better walkout like way he does. He earned it.
I agree with her. I don't post pics of my current boyfriend. We've been together for 4 yrs. I'll post my future engagement ring and our future wedding day pic when the time comes.
misunderstoodkj 4 years? Lmao. It ain’t happening. Good you keeping your options open tho.
It's a balance you don't have to post all day every day or every week but every once in a while is fine.
Just asking, "Does being on social media define a good relationship?"
I'm like her, I'm not on FB, Instagram, I use to be, not interested. I prefer privacy, the ppl that matters to me will know him. If I'm married then I may consider occasionally. I don't think she should be forced to do so #ijs
Steve is a great speaker
Over a year and no posts with him? That’s a serious red flag… I get not posting every week, but not one in a year of being exclusive??? Yikes.
Yes, it is great to keep things private!!! The world doesn't have to know everything. They are a beautiful couple and that is a blessing!!! God Bless the both of you!!! 🙏🙏🙏😇😇😇😇💟💟💟💟💓💓💓
He said "im confident about her i wanna show her off to the world"
She isn't trying to show him off, she must not be that confident in the relationship especially when she said "if something happens"
yana212 yet he hasn't proposed. He's not that confident.
If he don't get his money right
@@M0chaJ0J0 you don't gotta propose dope head
ImaNamekianBoi Idk what dope head is but if a man is confident in a woman... why not propose. That's why she's not showing him off. She needs to see how serious he is.
@@M0chaJ0J0 you don't gotta know,
Don't let your love that you have for each other be measured by social media. If you want the 🌎 to know then put a ring on her finger. Keep social media out of your life. Go live happier ever after.
The problem I have with this is that everyone is caught up in the all or nothing approach.
You don’t have to post/share everything, but nothing at all is suspect. There is a big difference between privacy and secrecy. If you can’t show your partner off to your friends, he/she can’t appear or be heard in any voice/video you share with friends, and you avoid posting anything about/with them but you share most other stuff on social media, you are being disrespectful to your partner. If you allow them to invest their time/energy in your happiness, but you can’t share a small slice of pride with your friends about that person, you’re not treating him/her with the respect they deserve.
Exactly.
Correct.
Sounds like she’s trying to keep her options available.
Hmmm....
She's grown!!! I don't post!! People didn't know we were getting married until we got married!!! I'm private!
syflorence same her too sis!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Beautiful
I agree with her in the sense, you post a pic then everyone is in your business. Then if it goes south, people still in your business. Honestly I never plan to post a pic of a woman until I know shes the one and we're heading towards marriage. Like we're engaged and the wedding is soon.
What if people meddle in your business then once you post about your status?
@What Not To Do At a Stoplight People won't magically forget when you delete the pictures tho.
He’s more into her then she is into him. It’s that simple 😂. It has nothing to do with social media. Her responses told you everything. Steve Harvey tried to help her out but her first response is her true response.
When I met my wife we dated for a year and we both had FB and I never posted anything about her on my page, but she did on her and I wasn't happy about it. On our one year anniversary of dating I engage her and close down my social media and the following year we got married and I open it up and started posting left and right and showing off my beautiful wife to the world. My friends were shock after I went MIA for a year and I came back as a happily married man and still enjoying my wife. Maybe she waiting for the right timing or wants to be the wifey first.ijs
@Tom Sawyer. Are you serious lol
What happened to someone's private life actually being private anymore?
Ikr!! A rule in my life!!Things to do with dating, engagement, wedding, my marriage and pregnancy for me have always been off social media. That's my private life. I am glad I even left FB,Twitter and IG. I am only on RUclips and Pinterest.
We are on the same page. Lol. I'm on YT and Pinterest as well. I never had FB, IG, TikTok ,or SC. I jst can't and wnt do it. At 1 point, in college, jst to get it out of my system, I had a Myspace. That didnt last long, and I shut it dwn. As ive grown, I dnt feel the need to put my life on display 4 others. For what? Lol.My family beg me to get on FB, and all the others. They say it's to stay connected w fam n friends. I'm like they have my ph# lol. I'm jst old-school lol 😆 I dnt like people in MY mix and I have nothing to hide. People need to normal respecting peoples boundaries and stance. Everything ain't for Everybody, and that's ok. It's people. who like to air there dirty laundry on Social media, that's not cute!
I use to be on social media and I gladly remove myself from them, reason been too many people was all up in your business. If we wanted to be a celebrity we would have gone to Hollywood, Bollywood and Nollywood. So I agree with her 💯. Peace out🤘✌️👍
Suzzette Lettman I know what Bollywood is but nollywood?
Suzzette Lettman
Lol YASSS and you forgot about Dollywood in Pigeon Forge Tennessee.
Also Kollywood!
@@tamesechristian6020, Nollywood refers to Nigeria. ✌🏾
People are all up in your business if you put your business out there. Social media doesn’t have to be that serious. Its what you make it.
I agree with you it’s more healthy relationships with out being on social media because people talk to much sometimes