You are so wise to take of yourself postpartum. I have intentionally put priority in resting this time as well. This is my 11th pregnancy in 10 years with 6 children earth side. It is so important to give your body the rest it needs. In fact it is biblical. Traditionally moms were made to rest by the women around her. We don't hesitate to call mean roosters around here. New follower.
Yes yes yes!!! And not only for a woman’s health but that bonding time with new baby is unlike anything else. These precious weeks go by so fast, I enjoy being “forced” to rest and savor these moments with baby 🥰
Absolutely no disrespect intended, just serious curiosity...how does a woman's body get the rest and recoup time that it really needs if there's 11 pregnancies in 10 years. I've always thought it needed more time between pregnancies just to "reset and recharge", either emotionally or physically. I guess it just sounds dangerous to me, for mama and baby. I had a miscarriage at 6 months and, emotionally, it took me a couple of years to get up the courage to try again. Same, after my daughter was born. "11 in 10" simply boggles my mind! 🤯
@@pamsam8933 I appreciate your genuine question without rudeness❤ I can only speak from MY experience with lots of pregnancies in a short time period. Though I absolutely agree that it is taxing on the body, there is also something somewhat healing about being able to conceive again after a loss. I usually needed a month or two to get to the point where I wanted to try again. Because all my miscarriages were in the first trimester it didn’t seem too taxing on my body. I also knew I needed to take care of myself and so that was a priority. Also, MAYBE it was/is a lot for our bodies. It can be difficult to say until it’s too late and we find ourselves struggling. I personally found my body held up perfectly fine until I cared for foster children with mental health issues. THAT’S when I could tell my wellbeing took a downwards spiral. The stress was a LOT.
Oh girl, I had to comment again! My 1st baby cried at night uncontrollably & I broke down. I told my husband that I fed, changed and burped but didn't know what else to do! (I was young). My husband got up and walked a lot with her. That was just her personality. She could never lay back in anyone's arms, and she always needed the person to move, not stay sitting! I was so thankful that Daddy got up & walked her because I was at my wits end crying. It's kinda a newborn thing too, where their days & nights are messed up & their little systems need to find their comfort❤️
Yes yes yes!!! And hormones are going wild so we are already in a weird head space 😆 Thank God for helpful husbands. I don’t know what I would do without him to take over when I can’t do anymore ❤️
Thanks for sharing this! I'm sorry that people are so rude to you in the comments. I'm due in one month and look forward to those precious moments in the beginning to recover and snuggle. I have heard a few people talking about dairy and gas so I am thankful to have that information ahead of time. Will be somewhat difficult as i love dairy, way too much!
Thanks 🥰 I definitely don’t mind differing opinions and suggestions but some people are very harsh. I’m goin to get used to hitting those “delete”, “hide comment”, and “block buttons” 😉 I’m a pretty open book and can make myself very vulnerable so it’s hard to hear people’s judgement comments. I’m SO excited for you!!! I’m nap trapped right now and perfectly content getting all these snuggles 😁 I’ve had varying degrees of sensitivity from each baby. Some can handle small amounts of dairy, some it’s onions and broccoli etc. this time around I’m trying to cut out ALL of it since I can’t seem to figure out what’s causing his distress. I’m wondering if it’s coffee 😭 I’ve been drinking it with coconut milk but he’s still gassy. Also, more things that do help, though not 100%, is infant probiotics, homeopathic colic tabs from Hilands, and me taking digestive enzymes. Blessings to you and your baby ❤️❤️
Why are so many being rude and shaming another woman for self care? She has a right to take care of herself as she and her advisor ( dr, midwife etc) has advised her to do. I am a firmer believer in you do you and be kind if someone does it differently. Just because she brings ys along her journey doesn't mean she's asking if she's doing it right? Maybe she is trying to raise awareness that there is more than one way to do things. Remember kindness is free try to share some please! God bless!
Thanks for this ❤ I planned long and hard to give myself a wonderful post partum recovery. Why can’t I enjoy a staycation with my newborn? 😊 Obviously this is a huge trigger for people.
I find it so sad that women are so cruel to other women. Even if you don’t agree with them we should still respect their choices and be respectful of one another - women get a hard enough time as it is! Congratulations on your gorgeous new baby x
I'm a mom of six...3 adopted, 3 birth. My youngest is 18, so its been a bit since Ive had a newborn. But, I so enjoyed your video. It has taken me back through some of the best memories/experiences of my life. There's just nothing like a newborn!
Such Preciousness!! Thank you for sharing! I, just 5 months ago, was given the Blessing of my 5th generation baby boy! My dearest husband didn't get to see little Adrian before he went on to Heaven , so I have tried to enjoy this one extra thankfully! I love your family and your channel, so very much, coming from a large family myself...86 years ago. God is so Good!!!
You really do forget those newborn days. I wonder if it’s us being so sleep deprived or ? I’m not even sure - but it always feels like a blur. Sorry I commented a few times in 1 week lol/ I rewatch your videos all the time , thank you for sharing with us!! ❤❤❤ sending more love
So happy you have had such a great recovery after your precious son's birth he is adorable, you have a beautiful family. You work so very hard with so many responsibilities, just started watching your videos when you were going through your last 2 weeks of pregnancy, will so enjoy watching your life as Mom,Farmer, of cows,pigs,chickens your vegetables you grow & can your just an amazing woman & Mom. God Bless ❤
I am a new subscriber and love watching your videos. I just picked up at the birth of your new baby. I have a 2 year old and am due with our second in June. We have a large property with chickens and a Great Pyrenees and I hope to have more animals and children in the future, God willing. I really respect your ideas and the way that you structure your videos/home. I have already learned an incredible amount from you in only 3 videos and know that I will continue to. Watching videos like these in my toddlers naps are my relaxation time! Thank you for putting yourself out there. I am sorry you’ve had some maybe not so nice comments on this video- that’s why I am commenting to give you some love. You handled responding to them so well! I pray you have the best postpartum experience and thank you for being you!
Awww, thank you so much ❤️ Oh my goodness we love our Great Pyrenees. He’s a little bit of a dope at times 🤣🤣 Thanks, yeah people can be so mean. I don’t get it. I don’t mind people’s different opinions, just no need to be so hateful. Sheesh 🤦🏽♀️ I appreciate your kindness. It really is so nice to hear positive feedback ❤️❤️
I think you are a wonderful sensible lady. Iam enjoying our first grandchild. She brings joy everyday Enjoy your new born. Greetings and blessings from Ireland
The sheep story, yikes! It made me laugh at the horror of it. Thank you for sharing your postpartum journey and beautiful baby. I gave birth to 14 babies, 9 boys and 5 girls. I found the best way is to listen to your body. Don’t force too much activity or needless laying around rest. Just listen to how you feel. This time is so precious and I’m so happy for you and yours. ❤
WOW thankyou.. ive said this line for years ... 😊 children should not be raising children as you said... helping is normal and good for children to learn.. but they are not the parent and shouldn't have that responsibility.. 😊 congratulations on the bith of Theodore
My great great grandmother was attacked by a rooster in her 50’s and nearly bled to death. My grandmother told me it affected her for the rest of her life. Knowing this I find every rooster gets only 1 chance! And you are right he will be delicious.
I never comment on videos, but I cannot resist. I have just found your channel and I am hooked. To watch your life is like watching my life played out. We are a family of 9. We had 4 biological children and we have adopted 3 children during our foster care journey of 7 years. We homeschool our children. We live on a small homestead and we are enjoying our quiet life that Jesus has blessed us with. I just wanted to tell you, you now have another sister in Christ that is praying for you and walking with you on this path of life.
Hi! So glad you are healing and doing well overall. This series of videos would be really helpful and encouraging to any young mother wanting to have a natural birth. I will share these when I meet someone who might benefit. 😊 The planning and care you have taken for weeks to prepare for delivery and postpartum is beyond anything I have ever read or seen anyone do. Even though I am not a mother, I learned a few things about caring for one’s health. Great job! Although I am glad to se your channel growing, it does seem to attract more criticism. You are more than capable to handle it. I continue to pray for you and your family. Little Theodore James is so precious, either with a tummy ache or not. 😉 You are doing great!!! 🙏❤🌷🌻🎊🎉🌸
Thank you SO much for these kind and encouraging words. It definitely hurts to have people react so harshly to very intimate moments in my life but I do realize this comes with it. I’m just not going to be so hesitant to remove nasty comments 😉 I created a “homebirth” playlist and I’m going to continue to add any videos I do pertaining to the prep, birth, and postpartum. Hopefully that will encourage others ❤️
I used to get attacked by our rooster as a child. They killed it as he got me down in a rose bush. I at almost 70 have 25 chickens 3 roosters, if one comes after me, he is chicken and dumplings! I am so glad your little boy didn't get hurt. Glad your feeling better, your precious children are such a blessing! You have taught them well.
I loved the video! I also love the drawstring gowns for baby. I used those 45 years ago! You are wise to take time to heal. My 1st baby nursing washing bleeding & scabs, but I was determined to not feed formula. I'm not against formula, it was just my decision at the time. Take care!❤️
Aren’t they the best outfits for newborns? Easy access for all those diaper changes 🤣 It so sad how our society doesn’t treat the post partum period with very much value anymore. I’m right there with you on the formula. I know in some situations it might be necessary, I just know that for me breastfeeding is my first choice 😁
Hahahahaha!!! He thought it was a chicken!! Hahahahaaa! Thank goodness you didn’t try chopping its head off! 😂🤣 And when you said you were going to slit the throat of that rooster, I must admit I grimaced. I could never do that. But I definitely don’t fault you for it. You raising your own meat is waaaaaaay better than me going to the grocery store buying my meat. It’s better for you and the animals. We just live such different lives! I am a 46 yo childless woman, and an atheist, living in a small city in Sweden and I love watching people living such different lives. And you seem to be such a wonderful and strong woman ❤️. When you flipped that sheep a few videos ago, I was definitely impressed 👏👏👏😁 And sweet baby Theodore is so darn cute! Believe it or not, I love children, I just never wanted to have my own. Can’t explain why. I’m very motherly and very caring, but I’ve been happy with just being the babysitter 🥰. The only thing that actually makes me sad about it is that my dad and my mom won’t experience that. See you in the next one! Good night! 🥰😍♥️
LOL it was crazy! 🤣 Yeah, I definitely don’t like doing it. To be honest, I could NEVER be a butcher. I absolutely hate taking life 😢 Aw that’s so sweet that even though you don’t have children you still enjoy them. ❤️ Thank you so much 🥰 It is so neat seeing other’s different lifestyles. ❤
Funny story. While 8 months pregnant with my fourth child, I DID chase pigs that got loose. My kids didn’t lock the gate properly. 😠. A memory I will never forget. 😂 🐖 True story.
Thx for sharing this. I will be following behind you with my first home birth (baby number 5 1 in heaven) nearing the end of Feb possibly beginning of March. I turned 40 in November. I am finally feeling excited. It’s been a tough road. I struggled with low iron and I am still working on it so it’s been my most difficult pregnancy. I have been forced to take it easy and rest while I recover my iron stores through supplementation. I miscarried in April and conceived again a month later with this baby (6 months now) so I think that coupled with a pregnancy in 2022, continuous nursing, and cycles wiped my iron out. I am just so thankful to make it this far even with the difficulty. I have to say I am so ready for baby to come so hopefully I can feel like my energetic self again. I am also so ready to start nursing, baby wearing, and contact napping again with a little baby. We have a two year old that will be 3 by the time baby comes. She still comfort nurses from time to time and we just got her to sleep in her big girl bed for the first time last night. Big girl bed is a Queen mattress next to our king that she shares with her older sister but it was amazing and sad. Amazing having room and not feeling hot sad not having that sweet body nuzzled against me or my husband. Another transition making way for baby. Anyways, thx for sharing again. Look forward to the next one. May Jesus continue to bless and guide you and your household abundantly. 🤍 🕊️ 🌈
Oh my goodness I love love love all this ❤️❤️ as you know, being pregnant and nursing babies, AND caring for littles, is SO strenuous on our bodies. I’m glad to hear you are taking care of yourself as best you can. I always struggles with iron as well. Congratulations on your soon to be baby ❤️❤️
I'm a new subscriber, I've enjoyed your videos! Congratulations on your precious baby boy. I'm a Nurse Midwife, a nurse for 35+ yrs and a Midwife for 19 yrs. I so enjoy hearing others birth stories.
My newborn is 5 weeks and the breastfeeding pain is finally starting to go away. I always have to remember to get through the first month whether is purely breastfeeding or pumping the pain is there!
Thanks for sharing❤ You’d think one would remember these little details, but for the life of me I can’t remember how long this will last 😂 Theodore is 4 weeks today and already I am feeling better than last week so I am hopeful I’m right behind you. 🤞
my daughter suffered terribly from trapped wind i cried till my doctor showed me the bike movement,lift his knees/hip to his chest a few times,then gently move each leg as if he is riding a bike, i was amazed at how instant she farted lol, became a ritual after every meal lol hope this may help you xx
🤣 my husband did that the other night and Theo TORE IT UP! 🤣🤣🤣 poor thing, no wonder he was in pain. I drastically changed my diet this week to help the poor little guy.
Also important because your muscles are still more loose from the prolactin that happens to enable your pelvic bones to shift during birth. You can injure your lower back and pelvic floor muscles if you are too active
Yes this!!! It’s sad how clueless people are about this. I’m actually shocked how much hate I’m receiving from people over me resting so much. These last few weeks have not only been exactly what my body needs to recover, BUT exactly what a baby and momma need for bonding.
@@GridIronHillFarm even mom's who aren't blessed with a lot of support need to know the importance of letting friends know that they could use a hand. If a friend comes to bring a gift ask if they would mind running a load of laundry etc. Most are willing to help
Well that's great but you have had that biggest rest I've ever heard of and I only have 3 children. So good on you I was up the day or next, don't know if it's a good idea to just stay in bed maybe that caused it to get harder to get up and going...❤
Aww tk u fr responding dats so nice no wonder why you are soo blessed.i alway gt happy wen I c ur videos pop up.speedy recovery sending love from Trinidad ❤
Thank you so much for sharing your concern ❤️ I was definitely very cautious on how to cover it. I have the glass lamp protector on still and I’ve been monitoring if there is any heat.
It’s scary bc you don’t expect to be on alert around chickens. Next thing you know you get hit hard from behind…Those things aren’t messing around 🤣 Good eats though 😁
Lol doesn’t everyone?? 😉 Well, when trying to get some video footage of what newborn life looks like one does need to have the camera close by to record some of the highlights.
Just trying to take care of my healing body post partum. Childbirth is very strenuous on the body and we should take the recovery period slow so we don’t have complications down the road.
Many cultures (the wise ones) understand the benefit of strict bedrest after childbirth in order to give the mother a chance to fully heal. Traditional Chinese culture has a very descriptive diet for her to follow, to ensure that she is getting all of the necessary nutrients for healing.
Yes! It’s amazing how many people in our culture don’t recognize that. We just aren’t taught it. I’m so blessed to have a very wise and seasoned midwife who takes it very seriously.
@@GridIronHillFarm How many cases of "post-partum depression" and other "diseases" the mainstream deathcare...er, I mean healthcare system causes by not educating women (and men) about this basic fact. Thankfully people are leaving the mainstream system in droves and finding the Truth on their own. So glad you had your beautiful boy AT HOME without drugs, without unnecessary procedures, without poison injections, without harsh fluorescent lights and people in masks. Way to go, mama! Your family is BLESSED!
See? I heard you tell one of your children to “ leave it alone”, referring to the eagle in the tree. Was he being aggressive to the bird because of the rooster incident and how you handled it? Think about it
No, I was talking to all the kids who wanted to get closer to the eagle. There was absolutely no aggression shown in any way. My children learn and understand respect for animals very early on.
This momma bear has absolutely no tolerance for animals that hurt children. I also refuse to see animals go to waste when they could feed my family. If that concept upsets you then my channel is most definitely not for you. See ya ✌🏼
If you know that your babies don't do dairy,why would you eat so much also knowing whatever you eat your baby eats due to breastfeeding as you've said your 40 yrs and 7 children in,you did it to yourself and 6 hrs crying and comparing that to post partom depressing is discusting
True, my dietary choices absolutely were my doing. However, from my experience with the last 2 babies, I was able to take digestive enzymes and it broke down the lactose to where only certain things bothered the babies. Not every baby has reacted the same so I was testing to see how this babe reacted. And, there was a whole lot more going on that I chose not to share that caused me to breakdown. Post partum depression shows itself in many many ways. I certainly hope you are kinder and more compassionate to others.
@jennifer35678 thank you for being so kind. It definitely makes sense why people hesitate to share their lives with others on RUclips knowing that they will be picked apart. I just remember Mark 7:1&2 and know that I certainly don’t want to judge other’s lives when I know I truly don’t see the whole picture. AND it’s not my place to judge 🤷🏻♀️ I only can pray people are gracious in their judgements towards me and my family as well. I just keep you, and others who have shown me kindness, in mind when I create videos… at least SOME people enjoy them and can see my heart in this 😊
@@GridIronHillFarm Yes, you are right. We have to remember that God loves everyone because He gave His Son for all of us. We are all works in progress. I pray this person knows the Lord or comes to know Him. I do appreciate your videos. I don’t follow many channels, and you are one of my favorites. 🙏❤🌻 God is with you! 😁
What!!! I was Christmas shopping with my four children and a newborn the day after giving birth! Why are people built like this! You had a baby! Not surgery! Woman up!!!
Hey, you do you all the way. I personally don’t want to risk diastiasis recti or a weak pelvic floor. I can happily sneeze and jump on the trampoline without peeing my pants thank you. I’d like to keep it that way 😆
I was up and about after my 5th and it made me really ill. I didn't look after myself and had long term health problems because of it. I will be resting next time. Good for you for resting and looking after yourself.
@@BellyBurly87the knowledge behind the importance of a SOLID post partum healing period is so lacking. It’s sad! My midwife looked me square in the eyes and said firmly “two weeks! Don’t go near your stairs for two weeks!” 😂 Sometimes I need a firm order to obey 🤣 I’m blessed I have a very supportive husband and children who were willing to pull my weight while I was recovering.
This is kinda rude. To each his own. If you felt the need or pressure to run errands the next day, good for you. I think the rest of us prefer our bed. Nothing wrong w that. No judgement either way.
Woman up? Please don’t shame other mums for what they do! I had 4 c-sections and was asleep for 3 of them. Traumatic and painful but people still suggest I am a lesser mum for it. Healthy baby healthy mum is always the ultimate outcome! I wish I had taken it a lot easier after my birth and if my girls ever have babies I will be supporting them to rest all the way ❤
That’s ok. We are not a vegetarian family and we raise our animals to feed us. Plus, a rooster that goes after children is a no go for me. We have plenty of nice roosters that will always have a home with us. ❤️
It takes six weeks not 6 days, for a body to heal after giving birth. Take care of your body and in the long run. You will have a better life. Words, from a Mother, Baby nurse of 31 years♥️🧓😘
Amen!!! The ignorance surrounding this topic is astounding. Not only the fact that our bodies NEED this time to recover, but these moments with our newborn babies are fleeting. I’ll eagerly stay in my room snuggled with my baby as long as I can. I’ll never get these moments back. ❤❤
So wise of you to say you don’t abuse them helping their younger siblings because at the end of the day, they are all children.
You are so wise to take of yourself postpartum. I have intentionally put priority in resting this time as well. This is my 11th pregnancy in 10 years with 6 children earth side. It is so important to give your body the rest it needs. In fact it is biblical. Traditionally moms were made to rest by the women around her. We don't hesitate to call mean roosters around here. New follower.
Yes yes yes!!! And not only for a woman’s health but that bonding time with new baby is unlike anything else. These precious weeks go by so fast, I enjoy being “forced” to rest and savor these moments with baby 🥰
Absolutely no disrespect intended, just serious curiosity...how does a woman's body get the rest and recoup time that it really needs if there's 11 pregnancies in 10 years. I've always thought it needed more time between pregnancies just to "reset and recharge", either emotionally or physically. I guess it just sounds dangerous to me, for mama and baby. I had a miscarriage at 6 months and, emotionally, it took me a couple of years to get up the courage to try again. Same, after my daughter was born. "11 in 10" simply boggles my mind! 🤯
@@pamsam8933 I appreciate your genuine question without rudeness❤ I can only speak from MY experience with lots of pregnancies in a short time period. Though I absolutely agree that it is taxing on the body, there is also something somewhat healing about being able to conceive again after a loss. I usually needed a month or two to get to the point where I wanted to try again. Because all my miscarriages were in the first trimester it didn’t seem too taxing on my body. I also knew I needed to take care of myself and so that was a priority. Also, MAYBE it was/is a lot for our bodies. It can be difficult to say until it’s too late and we find ourselves struggling. I personally found my body held up perfectly fine until I cared for foster children with mental health issues. THAT’S when I could tell my wellbeing took a downwards spiral. The stress was a LOT.
Good for you and Theodore ❤️ for taking mama time !
The family survived and family really does want to help.
Thank you ❤️ My family was such amazing help. I couldn’t have done it without them 🥰
Oh girl, I had to comment again! My 1st baby cried at night uncontrollably & I broke down. I told my husband that I fed, changed and burped but didn't know what else to do! (I was young). My husband got up and walked a lot with her. That was just her personality. She could never lay back in anyone's arms, and she always needed the person to move, not stay sitting! I was so thankful that Daddy got up & walked her because I was at my wits end crying. It's kinda a newborn thing too, where their days & nights are messed up & their little systems need to find their comfort❤️
Yes yes yes!!! And hormones are going wild so we are already in a weird head space 😆
Thank God for helpful husbands. I don’t know what I would do without him to take over when I can’t do anymore ❤️
My first born was like that too. So hard!
Thanks for sharing this! I'm sorry that people are so rude to you in the comments. I'm due in one month and look forward to those precious moments in the beginning to recover and snuggle. I have heard a few people talking about dairy and gas so I am thankful to have that information ahead of time. Will be somewhat difficult as i love dairy, way too much!
Thanks 🥰 I definitely don’t mind differing opinions and suggestions but some people are very harsh. I’m goin to get used to hitting those “delete”, “hide comment”, and “block buttons” 😉 I’m a pretty open book and can make myself very vulnerable so it’s hard to hear people’s judgement comments.
I’m SO excited for you!!! I’m nap trapped right now and perfectly content getting all these snuggles 😁
I’ve had varying degrees of sensitivity from each baby. Some can handle small amounts of dairy, some it’s onions and broccoli etc. this time around I’m trying to cut out ALL of it since I can’t seem to figure out what’s causing his distress. I’m wondering if it’s coffee 😭 I’ve been drinking it with coconut milk but he’s still gassy.
Also, more things that do help, though not 100%, is infant probiotics, homeopathic colic tabs from Hilands, and me taking digestive enzymes. Blessings to you and your baby ❤️❤️
I love how y have trust the kids with the baby and let them spend alone time with him, it's beautiful!! Sweet family
Oh my goodness they are SUCH great big siblings ❤️They love taking care of and holding Theodore so much I sometimes have to beg for him back 🤣🤣
@@GridIronHillFarm you deserve the break! Take advantage!!
I am 75 so its been a while but I was so proud of you. Mother hood your the best.
Awwww, thank you 🥰
Why are so many being rude and shaming another woman for self care? She has a right to take care of herself as she and her advisor ( dr, midwife etc) has advised her to do. I am a firmer believer in you do you and be kind if someone does it differently. Just because she brings ys along her journey doesn't mean she's asking if she's doing it right? Maybe she is trying to raise awareness that there is more than one way to do things. Remember kindness is free try to share some please! God bless!
Thanks for this ❤ I planned long and hard to give myself a wonderful post partum recovery. Why can’t I enjoy a staycation with my newborn? 😊
Obviously this is a huge trigger for people.
I find it so sad that women are so cruel to other women. Even if you don’t agree with them we should still respect their choices and be respectful of one another - women get a hard enough time as it is! Congratulations on your gorgeous new baby x
Amen! ❤️ Thank you
I'm a mom of six...3 adopted, 3 birth. My youngest is 18, so its been a bit since Ive had a newborn. But, I so enjoyed your video. It has taken me back through some of the best memories/experiences of my life. There's just nothing like a newborn!
Awww!
It makes me so sad to think these days won’t last forever, no matter how hard we try.
Your babe is so precious and adorable! I adore baby noises ❤
Baby noises are so beautiful. I wish we could bottle all those newborn sounds and smells up 🥰
Your voice is just the calmest! I love to rewatch your videos as I do small house chores while at the end of my pregnancy ❤❤
Aw I’m so glad it’s calming. I always feel like I speak so forcefully 🤣🤣
Such Preciousness!! Thank you for sharing! I, just 5 months ago, was given the Blessing of my 5th generation baby boy! My dearest husband didn't get to see little Adrian before he went on to Heaven , so I have tried to enjoy this one extra thankfully! I love your family and your channel, so very much, coming from a large family myself...86 years ago. God is so Good!!!
Oh what a sweet sweet blessing you have in baby Adrian ❤️❤️❤️
Large families are so wonderful. So much love and life and LOTS of beautiful noises!
You really do forget those newborn days. I wonder if it’s us being so sleep deprived or ? I’m not even sure - but it always feels like a blur. Sorry I commented a few times in 1 week lol/ I rewatch your videos all the time , thank you for sharing with us!! ❤❤❤ sending more love
Oh my goodness it’s so true!! I take lots of pictures and videos so I can look back and remember these days 😭
So happy you have had such a great recovery after your precious son's birth he is adorable, you have a beautiful family. You work so very hard with so many responsibilities, just started watching your videos when you were going through your last 2 weeks of pregnancy, will so enjoy watching your life as Mom,Farmer, of cows,pigs,chickens your vegetables you grow & can your just an amazing woman & Mom. God Bless ❤
It’s been such a blessing to have this time with him. Thank you so much ❤️
I am a new subscriber and love watching your videos. I just picked up at the birth of your new baby. I have a 2 year old and am due with our second in June. We have a large property with chickens and a Great Pyrenees and I hope to have more animals and children in the future, God willing. I really respect your ideas and the way that you structure your videos/home. I have already learned an incredible amount from you in only 3 videos and know that I will continue to. Watching videos like these in my toddlers naps are my relaxation time! Thank you for putting yourself out there. I am sorry you’ve had some maybe not so nice comments on this video- that’s why I am commenting to give you some love. You handled responding to them so well! I pray you have the best postpartum experience and thank you for being you!
Awww, thank you so much ❤️
Oh my goodness we love our Great Pyrenees. He’s a little bit of a dope at times 🤣🤣
Thanks, yeah people can be so mean. I don’t get it. I don’t mind people’s different opinions, just no need to be so hateful. Sheesh 🤦🏽♀️
I appreciate your kindness. It really is so nice to hear positive feedback ❤️❤️
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I think you are a wonderful sensible lady. Iam enjoying our first grandchild. She brings joy everyday Enjoy your new born. Greetings and blessings from Ireland
Aw thank you 🥰
Oh my goodness, congratulations!! I hear grand babies are even more wonderful.
The sheep story, yikes! It made me laugh at the horror of it.
Thank you for sharing your postpartum journey and beautiful baby.
I gave birth to 14 babies, 9 boys and 5 girls. I found the best way is to listen to your body. Don’t force too much activity or needless laying around rest. Just listen to how you feel. This time is so precious and I’m so happy for you and yours. ❤
Oh that’s so true ❤️ Thank you
Aww, sweet baby….glad everything is good… loved that sheep story!! Crazy!!😂❤
🤣 I know it’s super sad and gross but still very funny if you think about it.
We’ve been having a WONDERFUL recovery and babymoon 🥰🥰🥰
WOW thankyou.. ive said this line for years ... 😊 children should not be raising children as you said... helping is normal and good for children to learn.. but they are not the parent and shouldn't have that responsibility.. 😊 congratulations on the bith of Theodore
Yes! And a HUGE help they are 🥰🥰
Congratulations on baby, love your videos
Thank you so much 🥰🥰
He’s such a cutie pie 🥰 take care of yourself too , they are sweet little girls helping you out 😊
Thank you 🥰 oh my goodness my girls have been SUCH blessings to me.
Thank you 🥰 oh my goodness my girls have been SUCH blessings to me.
My great great grandmother was attacked by a rooster in her 50’s and nearly bled to death. My grandmother told me it affected her for the rest of her life. Knowing this I find every rooster gets only 1 chance! And you are right he will be delicious.
Good gracious 😱 That’s terrifying!
Amen to that!! I don’t mess around with animals that attack people.
I never comment on videos, but I cannot resist.
I have just found your channel and I am hooked. To watch your life is like watching my life played out. We are a family of 9. We had 4 biological children and we have adopted 3 children during our foster care journey of 7 years. We homeschool our children. We live on a small homestead and we are enjoying our quiet life that Jesus has blessed us with.
I just wanted to tell you, you now have another sister in Christ that is praying for you and walking with you on this path of life.
Oh my goodness thank you for sharing that with me 🥰🥰 We have SO much in common! I LOVE it!!
Thank you! I really truly appreciate that❤️
I'm a mother of 9, and I commend your effort. God bless you and your family 😊
Thank you ❤️❤️
Your awesome !Just know we need more strong women like you in this world God bless yaw Love from Sarasota Florida
Thank you so much 🥰
Awesome 😊 your family is gorgeous ❤ your doing great momma
Thank you so very much 🥰❤️
Hi! So glad you are healing and doing well overall. This series of videos would be really helpful and encouraging to any young mother wanting to have a natural birth. I will share these when I meet someone who might benefit. 😊 The planning and care you have taken for weeks to prepare for delivery and postpartum is beyond anything I have ever read or seen anyone do. Even though I am not a mother, I learned a few things about caring for one’s health. Great job!
Although I am glad to se your channel growing, it does seem to attract more criticism. You are more than capable to handle it. I continue to pray for you and your family. Little Theodore James is so precious, either with a tummy ache or not. 😉 You are doing great!!! 🙏❤🌷🌻🎊🎉🌸
Thank you SO much for these kind and encouraging words. It definitely hurts to have people react so harshly to very intimate moments in my life but I do realize this comes with it. I’m just not going to be so hesitant to remove nasty comments 😉
I created a “homebirth” playlist and I’m going to continue to add any videos I do pertaining to the prep, birth, and postpartum. Hopefully that will encourage others ❤️
I used to get attacked by our rooster as a child. They killed it as he got me down in a rose bush.
I at almost 70 have 25 chickens 3 roosters, if one comes after me, he is chicken and dumplings! I am so glad your little boy didn't get hurt.
Glad your feeling better, your precious children are such a blessing! You have taught them well.
It can definitely be traumatizing as a child. Heck, after that rooster got me and tore my leg up even I was traumatized 🥴
Thank you so much ❤️❤️
I loved the video! I also love the drawstring gowns for baby. I used those 45 years ago! You are wise to take time to heal. My 1st baby nursing washing bleeding & scabs, but I was determined to not feed formula. I'm not against formula, it was just my decision at the time. Take care!❤️
Aren’t they the best outfits for newborns? Easy access for all those diaper changes 🤣
It so sad how our society doesn’t treat the post partum period with very much value anymore. I’m right there with you on the formula. I know in some situations it might be necessary, I just know that for me breastfeeding is my first choice 😁
Your children must keep you young!
You guys are awesome and beautiful god bless you all ❤
Thank you so much ❤️
Hahahahaha!!! He thought it was a chicken!! Hahahahaaa! Thank goodness you didn’t try chopping its head off! 😂🤣
And when you said you were going to slit the throat of that rooster, I must admit I grimaced. I could never do that. But I definitely don’t fault you for it. You raising your own meat is waaaaaaay better than me going to the grocery store buying my meat. It’s better for you and the animals.
We just live such different lives! I am a 46 yo childless woman, and an atheist, living in a small city in Sweden and I love watching people living such different lives. And you seem to be such a wonderful and strong woman ❤️. When you flipped that sheep a few videos ago, I was definitely impressed 👏👏👏😁
And sweet baby Theodore is so darn cute! Believe it or not, I love children, I just never wanted to have my own. Can’t explain why. I’m very motherly and very caring, but I’ve been happy with just being the babysitter 🥰. The only thing that actually makes me sad about it is that my dad and my mom won’t experience that.
See you in the next one! Good night! 🥰😍♥️
LOL it was crazy! 🤣
Yeah, I definitely don’t like doing it. To be honest, I could NEVER be a butcher. I absolutely hate taking life 😢
Aw that’s so sweet that even though you don’t have children you still enjoy them. ❤️
Thank you so much 🥰
It is so neat seeing other’s different lifestyles. ❤
I just gave birth on Oct 27th, to my 7th a boy also named Theodore! Love it.
No way!!! 😍 Oh my GOSH that is just too fun!! ❤️
Having chickens that is part of it. I don't blame you for culling the rooster.
Yeah, when he goes after kids it’s a no go for me. We have plenty of very nice roosters that will always have a home with us.
Funny story. While 8 months pregnant with my fourth child, I DID chase pigs that got loose. My kids didn’t lock the gate properly. 😠. A memory I will never forget. 😂 🐖 True story.
🤣🤣 That’s great!
Thx for sharing this. I will be following behind you with my first home birth (baby number 5 1 in heaven) nearing the end of Feb possibly beginning of March. I turned 40 in November. I am finally feeling excited. It’s been a tough road. I struggled with low iron and I am still working on it so it’s been my most difficult pregnancy. I have been forced to take it easy and rest while I recover my iron stores through supplementation. I miscarried in April and conceived again a month later with this baby (6 months now) so I think that coupled with a pregnancy in 2022, continuous nursing, and cycles wiped my iron out. I am just so thankful to make it this far even with the difficulty. I have to say I am so ready for baby to come so hopefully I can feel like my energetic self again. I am also so ready to start nursing, baby wearing, and contact napping again with a little baby. We have a two year old that will be 3 by the time baby comes. She still comfort nurses from time to time and we just got her to sleep in her big girl bed for the first time last night. Big girl bed is a Queen mattress next to our king that she shares with her older sister but it was amazing and sad. Amazing having room and not feeling hot sad not having that sweet body nuzzled against me or my husband. Another transition making way for baby. Anyways, thx for sharing again. Look forward to the next one. May Jesus continue to bless and guide you and your household abundantly. 🤍 🕊️ 🌈
Oh my goodness I love love love all this ❤️❤️ as you know, being pregnant and nursing babies, AND caring for littles, is SO strenuous on our bodies. I’m glad to hear you are taking care of yourself as best you can. I always struggles with iron as well.
Congratulations on your soon to be baby ❤️❤️
I'm a new subscriber, I've enjoyed your videos! Congratulations on your precious baby boy.
I'm a Nurse Midwife, a nurse for 35+ yrs and a Midwife for 19 yrs. I so enjoy hearing others birth stories.
Awwww!! I’m so glad 🥰 Well welcome!!
Oh you probably have one of the most fun jobs. I can only imagine seeing births happen regularly ❤️❤️
Hang in there, babies are so wonderful and so hard.
Thanks ❤️ They are definitely worth it 🥰
My newborn is 5 weeks and the breastfeeding pain is finally starting to go away. I always have to remember to get through the first month whether is purely breastfeeding or pumping the pain is there!
Thanks for sharing❤ You’d think one would remember these little details, but for the life of me I can’t remember how long this will last 😂 Theodore is 4 weeks today and already I am feeling better than last week so I am hopeful I’m right behind you. 🤞
my daughter suffered terribly from trapped wind i cried till my doctor showed me the bike movement,lift his knees/hip to his chest a few times,then gently move each leg as if he is riding a bike, i was amazed at how instant she farted lol, became a ritual after every meal lol hope this may help you xx
🤣 my husband did that the other night and Theo TORE IT UP! 🤣🤣🤣 poor thing, no wonder he was in pain. I drastically changed my diet this week to help the poor little guy.
Also important because your muscles are still more loose from the prolactin that happens to enable your pelvic bones to shift during birth. You can injure your lower back and pelvic floor muscles if you are too active
Yes this!!! It’s sad how clueless people are about this. I’m actually shocked how much hate I’m receiving from people over me resting so much. These last few weeks have not only been exactly what my body needs to recover, BUT exactly what a baby and momma need for bonding.
@@GridIronHillFarm even mom's who aren't blessed with a lot of support need to know the importance of letting friends know that they could use a hand. If a friend comes to bring a gift ask if they would mind running a load of laundry etc. Most are willing to help
Well that's great but you have had that biggest rest I've ever heard of and I only have 3 children. So good on you I was up the day or next, don't know if it's a good idea to just stay in bed maybe that caused it to get harder to get up and going...❤
I planned long and hard for this post partum staycation and followed my very seasoned midwife’s directions 😊
you might want to research what japan does for their moms after birthing. It’s like a 5 Star hotel care but in the hospital for days!
Such a beautiful baby boy, your not scared about kissing him?
Thank you 🥰
I stay away from his mouth but everything else is fine.
Hi I really love an enjoy ur channel .Just asking how many biological kids do u hav
I have 6 biological and 1 adopted. We also fostered 12 children over the course of 11 years so it’s been lots of kids coming through these doors 🥰🥰
Aww tk u fr responding dats so nice no wonder why you are soo blessed.i alway gt happy wen I c ur videos pop up.speedy recovery sending love from Trinidad ❤
Thank you ❤️❤️
You’re raising a beautiful family and farm! Love your spirit 🙏
The material over the lamp looks very dangerous. 🔥
Thank you so much for sharing your concern ❤️
I was definitely very cautious on how to cover it. I have the glass lamp protector on still and I’ve been monitoring if there is any heat.
@GridIronHillFarm just want you to be safe.
When is your birthday? I’m the 19th
The 15th!! Happy Birthday!! 😁😁😁
@ I knew it! Happy birthday 🎂 to you Scorpio ♏️ sis. And I’m from Maryland as well
Where is twin??
Which one? I’ve got a couple kids that are my twins 😆
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That’s what we did, we had an aggressive rooster that turned on me when I was taking care of my chickens. We ate him as well.
It’s scary bc you don’t expect to be on alert around chickens. Next thing you know you get hit hard from behind…Those things aren’t messing around 🤣
Good eats though 😁
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You keep a camera rolling by your bedside just in case your daughters show up with something for you to eat?
Lol doesn’t everyone?? 😉
Well, when trying to get some video footage of what newborn life looks like one does need to have the camera close by to record some of the highlights.
geez, crazy comment
Why are you bedridden? Medical reasons?
Just trying to take care of my healing body post partum. Childbirth is very strenuous on the body and we should take the recovery period slow so we don’t have complications down the road.
Many cultures (the wise ones) understand the benefit of strict bedrest after childbirth in order to give the mother a chance to fully heal. Traditional Chinese culture has a very descriptive diet for her to follow, to ensure that she is getting all of the necessary nutrients for healing.
Yes! It’s amazing how many people in our culture don’t recognize that. We just aren’t taught it. I’m so blessed to have a very wise and seasoned midwife who takes it very seriously.
@@GridIronHillFarm How many cases of "post-partum depression" and other "diseases" the mainstream deathcare...er, I mean healthcare system causes by not educating women (and men) about this basic fact. Thankfully people are leaving the mainstream system in droves and finding the Truth on their own. So glad you had your beautiful boy AT HOME without drugs, without unnecessary procedures, without poison injections, without harsh fluorescent lights and people in masks. Way to go, mama! Your family is BLESSED!
@@TheSwissChaletoh my goodness you are SO SO right!!!!
Some babies need a soother
He won’t take one. I’ve tried multiple times and it makes him frustrated
Years ago women stayed I bed 6weeks.now they want you up and about.
And that’s exactly what we still need. It’s sad to see the expectations of post partum women not supporting their healing and health
See? I heard you tell one of your children to “ leave it alone”, referring to the eagle in the tree. Was he being aggressive to the bird because of the rooster incident and how you handled it? Think about it
No, I was talking to all the kids who wanted to get closer to the eagle. There was absolutely no aggression shown in any way. My children learn and understand respect for animals very early on.
Why do people comment such stupid ass things?? Donnaherron3643 get a life
I was going to subscribe and continue watching your video before you said that about the rooster and taking a knife to his throat 😂 bye 👋
This momma bear has absolutely no tolerance for animals that hurt children. I also refuse to see animals go to waste when they could feed my family. If that concept upsets you then my channel is most definitely not for you. See ya ✌🏼
🙄😂. Seriously?
I kept waiting for you to hug your son after the rooster incident but you didn’t. It just felt strange to me.
I don’t ever deny my kids hugs.
Juno2013 go hug your own kids instead of worrying bout others kids
You are extremely luck to be able to be in bed for so long,there are alot of women who are not so lucky and have to go back to work or just do life
I certainly am very blessed. It’s a shame women can’t take care of themselves better.
If you know that your babies don't do dairy,why would you eat so much also knowing whatever you eat your baby eats due to breastfeeding as you've said your 40 yrs and 7 children in,you did it to yourself and 6 hrs crying and comparing that to post partom depressing is discusting
True, my dietary choices absolutely were my doing. However, from my experience with the last 2 babies, I was able to take digestive enzymes and it broke down the lactose to where only certain things bothered the babies. Not every baby has reacted the same so I was testing to see how this babe reacted.
And, there was a whole lot more going on that I chose not to share that caused me to breakdown. Post partum depression shows itself in many many ways.
I certainly hope you are kinder and more compassionate to others.
It's quite patronising really
I hope you have a better day today and can find joy from things other than bringing others down.
@@GridIronHillFarm Great response! Please let me apologize on this woman’s behalf. 🙏🙏🙏
@jennifer35678 thank you for being so kind. It definitely makes sense why people hesitate to share their lives with others on RUclips knowing that they will be picked apart. I just remember Mark 7:1&2 and know that I certainly don’t want to judge other’s lives when I know I truly don’t see the whole picture. AND it’s not my place to judge 🤷🏻♀️ I only can pray people are gracious in their judgements towards me and my family as well.
I just keep you, and others who have shown me kindness, in mind when I create videos… at least SOME people enjoy them and can see my heart in this 😊
@@GridIronHillFarm Yes, you are right. We have to remember that God loves everyone because He gave His Son for all of us. We are all works in progress. I pray this person knows the Lord or comes to know Him. I do appreciate your videos. I don’t follow many channels, and you are one of my favorites. 🙏❤🌻 God is with you! 😁
What!!! I was Christmas shopping with my four children and a newborn the day after giving birth! Why are people built like this! You had a baby! Not surgery! Woman up!!!
Hey, you do you all the way. I personally don’t want to risk diastiasis recti or a weak pelvic floor. I can happily sneeze and jump on the trampoline without peeing my pants thank you. I’d like to keep it that way 😆
I was up and about after my 5th and it made me really ill. I didn't look after myself and had long term health problems because of it. I will be resting next time. Good for you for resting and looking after yourself.
@@BellyBurly87the knowledge behind the importance of a SOLID post partum healing period is so lacking. It’s sad! My midwife looked me square in the eyes and said firmly “two weeks! Don’t go near your stairs for two weeks!” 😂 Sometimes I need a firm order to obey 🤣 I’m blessed I have a very supportive husband and children who were willing to pull my weight while I was recovering.
This is kinda rude. To each his own. If you felt the need or pressure to run errands the next day, good for you. I think the rest of us prefer our bed. Nothing wrong w that. No judgement either way.
Woman up? Please don’t shame other mums for what they do! I had 4 c-sections and was asleep for 3 of them. Traumatic and painful but people still suggest I am a lesser mum for it. Healthy baby healthy mum is always the ultimate outcome! I wish I had taken it a lot easier after my birth and if my girls ever have babies I will be supporting them to rest all the way ❤
Sorry have to unsubscribe the killing of animals 😢 can't i just recently joined and enjoyed listening to you but sorry not for me
That’s ok. We are not a vegetarian family and we raise our animals to feed us. Plus, a rooster that goes after children is a no go for me. We have plenty of nice roosters that will always have a home with us. ❤️
She's a farmer. Harvesting animals is part of the process.
Thank you, it’s true, and our animals have wonderful lives here while they are with us.
I think it is good that this subscriber was honest 😊
@@renata-s5byes, and wasn’t mean about it. I’m glad when people can kindly and respectfully disagree 😊
It takes six weeks not 6 days, for a body to heal after giving birth. Take care of your body and in the long run. You will have a better life. Words, from a Mother, Baby nurse of 31 years♥️🧓😘
Amen!!! The ignorance surrounding this topic is astounding. Not only the fact that our bodies NEED this time to recover, but these moments with our newborn babies are fleeting. I’ll eagerly stay in my room snuggled with my baby as long as I can. I’ll never get these moments back. ❤❤