Living with Shaken Baby Syndrome

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  • Опубликовано: 28 янв 2025

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  • @WestinNReptar
    @WestinNReptar 12 дней назад +1393

    This woman is the personification of strength

    • @MaryHartmanMaryHartman
      @MaryHartmanMaryHartman 12 дней назад +27

      And an Angel. 😇

    • @asfdasdful
      @asfdasdful 12 дней назад +12

      @@MaryHartmanMaryHartman for real

    • @pennyp7382
      @pennyp7382 12 дней назад +6

      @WestinNReptar I agree. I work with young men and women like him. I'm asking in a gentle way if they have considered eye gaze for speaking.

    • @rhondaphillips1479
      @rhondaphillips1479 12 дней назад +2

      ❤❤ You can see the love he has,......

    • @jezstyles2233
      @jezstyles2233 11 дней назад +3

      She is all the reasons why grandmas are the best! ❤

  • @midwest_mood
    @midwest_mood 12 дней назад +2112

    Its not just the home, and assistance- He's got a clean cut and an even goatee, his grandmother takes great care of him 🙏

    • @SpecialBooksbySpecialKids
      @SpecialBooksbySpecialKids  12 дней назад +575

      She said she takes him to the barber every week :).

    • @JoyAngels
      @JoyAngels 12 дней назад +149

      And it's even more awesome because she's not even his biological grandma WOW what a great woman.!

    • @franklyn919
      @franklyn919 12 дней назад +50

      he looks great and he looks loved

    • @wqiojekpldlknbwjklopiwojaslKZ
      @wqiojekpldlknbwjklopiwojaslKZ 12 дней назад

      goatsee?

    • @Love-vc8bk
      @Love-vc8bk 12 дней назад +48

      And he has beautiful teeth and gums. She really does take great care of him.

  • @Theathelavalily
    @Theathelavalily 12 дней назад +2328

    "The guy who shook him got a 20 year plea deal in prison, but he gave Jacah a life sentence in this body."
    I don't think I've ever heard words more heartbreaking. Praying for Jacah and his grandmother💔

    • @jamesdunn8893
      @jamesdunn8893 12 дней назад +22

      This brakes my heart 😢

    • @julievanderleest
      @julievanderleest 12 дней назад +29

      Yeah that broke my heart too. Very unfair and just wrong.

    • @Jeanette-f8q
      @Jeanette-f8q 12 дней назад +18

      Jacah has a beautiful smile, is obviously very happy and is wonderfully looked after.
      God bless him and his awesome Grandmother ❤️

    • @Truth17John17
      @Truth17John17 12 дней назад +7

      @@diatomdiatom No, it doesn't. It takes two parents to do the right thing......

    • @truehappiness4U
      @truehappiness4U 12 дней назад +18

      @@Truth17John17as a woman or man, you should be really careful when choosing the mother or father for your child. Children can’t choose their parents. Remember that. Just don’t date for lust or because you’re desperate, date and marry for true love and your child will enjoy the fruits of your healthy relationship

  • @LePetitChatNoir79
    @LePetitChatNoir79 12 дней назад +1230

    My stupid dad did this to me but my sister grabbed me from him before any damage was done. She’s my hero.💖

    • @Meah-t7q
      @Meah-t7q 12 дней назад +35

      Good for you ❤❤

    • @margaretmunce1501
      @margaretmunce1501 12 дней назад +80

      I am so glad your sister was there for you, and you’ve gotten to live your life as she always should have, with no shaken baby syndrome.
      ❤❤

    • @numetaltradgirl
      @numetaltradgirl 12 дней назад +64

      A sperm donor is not the same as a dad…I hope you have an actual standup man in your life 🙏🏻

    • @catlove111
      @catlove111 11 дней назад +6

      Do you still talk to your dad

    • @tammiel3812
      @tammiel3812 11 дней назад +9

      I’m so sorry that you endured abuse. There is never a reason why any life should be abused! Your sister at least knew to act right away! Praise Our Lord❤️‍🩹!

  • @hannahmargaret_
    @hannahmargaret_ 12 дней назад +1048

    Chris is really good at having conversations with people who can't speak. It's awesome.

    • @aknaj89
      @aknaj89 12 дней назад +61

      Hi! I work as a PSW in Canada and it is crazy how people can communicate with each other. I have many residents who are not using “traditional” language, but once you spend more time with them, some kind of energy is being created and it feels like you can kind a read their eyes and face expressions. I tell everyone to go and volunteer at nursing or long term home… it is such a rewarding experience 😊

    • @jeremiahallyn4603
      @jeremiahallyn4603 11 дней назад +30

      And the way Jacah smiled so big and was so happy while Chris spoke to him. It was so awesome to see 😀🙌

    • @nerysghemor5781
      @nerysghemor5781 11 дней назад +12

      Yeah. I don't even know what to do with kids in general, so it really impresses me!

    • @margaretfk
      @margaretfk 11 дней назад +10

      He’s so incredible at what he does and it’s really helped me learn how best to interact with people of different ability levels. I also think Chris has equally beautiful soul and face and that makes him very easy to get along with!!

    • @Joker6.0
      @Joker6.0 10 дней назад +6

      Honestly, it's inspiring.

  • @cruelladevil1001
    @cruelladevil1001 12 дней назад +1219

    I could never understand how someone can hurt a child.

    • @thanatosgarvey3701
      @thanatosgarvey3701 12 дней назад +21

      I don't think most even want to. They're just selfish and dumb, which causes accidents.

    • @1LovedbyHim
      @1LovedbyHim 12 дней назад +8

      EVER!!

    • @CBaller2020
      @CBaller2020 12 дней назад +18

      As a Mom to 2 boys, one of whom is autistic and developmentally delayed, I'll never understand it either.

    • @KyleEvra-15
      @KyleEvra-15 12 дней назад +5

      Breeders be like:

    • @jasminecat
      @jasminecat 12 дней назад +32

      @@KyleEvra-15 what an odd thing to say out loud

  • @anabella4166
    @anabella4166 12 дней назад +779

    AWWW THE HUGE SMILE HE GOT WHEN CHRIS WAS COMPLIMENTING HIM!!!🥹🥹😍

    • @Metalbabilicious
      @Metalbabilicious 12 дней назад +22

      I shed tears lol.❤

    • @illrokursoxoffx10
      @illrokursoxoffx10 12 дней назад +30

      Seriously!! If everyone could have even half of the kindness Chris shows to his guests the world would be a beautiful place.

    • @J_Elizabeth2
      @J_Elizabeth2 12 дней назад +17

      I’m convinced Chris is an angel or at least the most angelic human on this earth 🙏 🙌

    • @AngieDigitalHustle
      @AngieDigitalHustle 12 дней назад +12

      yeah! you can definitely tell that he's very aware of everything happening around him :-) he has a great smile and dimples

    • @elenitasan8594
      @elenitasan8594 11 дней назад +5

      Dios los bendiga y fortalezca a esta preciosa abuela!💖

  • @siamesevrsbalinese4103
    @siamesevrsbalinese4103 12 дней назад +452

    What an angel this woman is. She took a very sick baby so scared and unhappy to a smiling happy man.

    • @nylometer73
      @nylometer73 12 дней назад +21

      So true. It must have been so hard to see such a little baby in so much pain. She’s very strong to be here and to be smiling hand in hand with Jacah

    • @KatieBarnes-nz2hz
      @KatieBarnes-nz2hz 10 дней назад +9

      She is a angel ❤️

  • @anonemail8371
    @anonemail8371 12 дней назад +125

    Put the baby in the crib. Put her in the crib, shut the door, and walk away. Doesn’t matter if there’s no one else to watch her. My mama saved my life by locking me in my room and taking a twenty-minute walk outside. I had colic and neither of us had slept for days. She was this close to shaking me. Instead she put me somewhere safe, in my crib in a childproofed room. Didn’t ever shake me. Don’t let anyone call you a bad parent for putting your child in a safe place and walking away.

    • @AmyLeeAngelLove
      @AmyLeeAngelLove 12 дней назад +18

      Both my children had severe colic. It was a nightmare. Days without sleep and my heart was starting to weaken from it. It lasted for 3 years straight, but the crying spells continued on and off. They both ended up with non-verbal Autism. The vacuum had to be turned on all hours of the night to keep them calm. Then we switched to white noise (rain and thunder sounds). I think it may be genetic because their father was the same way. A colicky baby can stop your heart lol.

    • @thrithgolden2748
      @thrithgolden2748 4 дня назад +9

      I was a very young, dumb mother, but my mother gave me that advice too, it probably saved my life, and my baby daughters life

  • @TierneyWashington1983
    @TierneyWashington1983 12 дней назад +455

    Jacah was communicating with his eyes and his smiles 😢

    • @BuggyPop47
      @BuggyPop47 12 дней назад +17

      Yes I love the way he communicates

  • @lyndagayemiller
    @lyndagayemiller 12 дней назад +659

    He is so handsome! He absolutely understands what’s being said to him

    • @SaraYasmeen25
      @SaraYasmeen25 12 дней назад +35

      Facts sis he is very handsome. God bless him

    • @lovingmayberry307
      @lovingmayberry307 12 дней назад +23

      Yes! And those dimples!!! ❤

    • @samanthafairweather9186
      @samanthafairweather9186 12 дней назад +31

      Yeah, he knows EXACTLY what's going on! That big smile says it all. What a lovely young man, and an amazing grandma! 💖

    • @KaitlinBynum
      @KaitlinBynum 12 дней назад +11

      He really is, I was thinking the same thing. His dimples and smile are amazing.

    • @blazingstar9638
      @blazingstar9638 11 дней назад +1

      Agree. Handsome!!

  • @yviesunshine8176
    @yviesunshine8176 12 дней назад +388

    You can tell Jacah is meticulously taken care of and loved dearly ❤

    • @NatalieJohnson-fq4jr
      @NatalieJohnson-fq4jr 12 дней назад +24

      seriously!!! I was looking at his teeth. I zoomed in because I had a child who suffered an anoxic brain injury. It's one of those things about caretakers I notice. Look how clean and well taken care of his teeth are. Skin so nicely moisturized, hair trimmed. He looks so well cared for and loved. Praises go to his mom for all the care and attention. She is doing one amazing job.

    • @dasiajb
      @dasiajb 9 дней назад +3

      Yes and those dimplesss!!💞🥺

  • @o0hotoko0o
    @o0hotoko0o 12 дней назад +415

    Hearing her description of what he looked like in the hospital made my heart drop into my stomach. Shame on CPS for letting it get that far. Deep open sores wasn't enough to sway them?
    It boils my blood because CPS failed my Mom and younger siblings too. My 3 siblings were taken from their Dad and his abusive wife. Instead of giving them to my Mom who's SAFE and who FOUGHT to have custody, they put all 3 of them in the system. One of them wound up SAed by their foster, one was driven to hurt themselves and had to be flown to a mental health facility, and the other one is now so angry and violent but he won't talk about what happened. Wheres the criminal charges for THOSE people? Where's the JUSTICE?

    • @franny5295
      @franny5295 12 дней назад +14

      I'm so sorry...

    • @thepoweroftheoilofjoy
      @thepoweroftheoilofjoy 12 дней назад

      so sorry. Cps is garbage and useless

    • @priyokabi
      @priyokabi 12 дней назад +5

      💔

    • @ian-online
      @ian-online 11 дней назад +3

      I hear you.

    • @MrsTessWren
      @MrsTessWren 10 дней назад +13

      I’ve never seen CPS/DCS be helpful EVER. It’s a money mill of the worst kind😢

  • @SamTheHam2015
    @SamTheHam2015 12 дней назад +853

    I just wanted to say before I watch that my mom is dealing with a severe brain injury right now, and watching your videos has given me so much hope and made me feel humanized when everything is so lonely and scary right now. Thank you. Genuinely.

    • @SpecialBooksbySpecialKids
      @SpecialBooksbySpecialKids  12 дней назад +277

      I wish all the best for you and your mom. I hope these videos help you see that although it can feel isolating, there are many people out there who are dealing with something similar.

    • @SamTheHam2015
      @SamTheHam2015 12 дней назад +36

      @@SpecialBooksbySpecialKids❤️❤️❤️

    • @Bjix
      @Bjix 12 дней назад +35

      Stay strong, my friend. We've all got your back 💙

    • @collettesmyth
      @collettesmyth 12 дней назад +8

      @@SpecialBooksbySpecialKidshello my dad has had two strokes and I am still a bit upset about it do you have some advice to make me fell better?

    • @Libresoy9
      @Libresoy9 12 дней назад +1

      🙏🙏🙏🙏​@@SpecialBooksbySpecialKids

  • @shannanigansisme
    @shannanigansisme 12 дней назад +512

    I was unable to have children and that still hurts. What I mean is that I couldn't have a baby and there are people in this world who literally throw them away. It hurts my heart so much. His Grandmother is his angel. What a blessing they both are!

    • @TheaM.-gr4bo
      @TheaM.-gr4bo 12 дней назад +34

      You're right! Children are so precious but there are some evil people who don't hesitate to hurt them. If you are willing to and able to, you can adopt. There are so many children who would be grateful to have loving parents. If you can't, just spread love and care for everyone including children you meet in different circumstances. Unfortunately life doesn't always give us what we want or deserve but we can still make something out of the small things we have!!

    • @shannanigansisme
      @shannanigansisme 12 дней назад +18

      @TheaM.-gr4bo Well said! I'm unable to have kids due to an illness. I was a teacher and loved working with kids.

    • @jeremiahallyn4603
      @jeremiahallyn4603 12 дней назад +17

      I agree! I'd give anything to have a kid, or kids, and so many people out there do horrible things to them, like this poor guy had happen to him 😢

    • @TheaM.-gr4bo
      @TheaM.-gr4bo 12 дней назад +9

      @@shannanigansisme Sorry for your illness! It's great that you have been a teacher. Many people never forget their teachers. They usually impact considerably the lives of their students. Your contribution is without a doubt something you have to be proud of!!

    • @rumham7466
      @rumham7466 12 дней назад +6

      Same 🫂

  • @wingsofhope2
    @wingsofhope2 12 дней назад +77

    The fact that Elmo's voice scares him is heartbreaking. Its nice to see that he's thriving and happy now. His mother is his greatest advocate.

  • @jennifercash6250
    @jennifercash6250 12 дней назад +382

    Every single person who will ever be near an infant needs to watch this video. It's heartbreaking, but Jacah and Stacy are amazing people.

    • @SidiaLei
      @SidiaLei 12 дней назад +8

      I couldn’t agree with you more.

    • @4rsalways
      @4rsalways 12 дней назад

      If you need to watch this video, you shouldn't have children.

  • @ageordieboy
    @ageordieboy 12 дней назад +288

    You can see he is so switched on.
    He seems to understand and comprehend everything around him.
    He just can’t verbalise.
    It’s just so bloody awful someone did this to him.
    The only solace is that he seems content. And loved.

    • @aleksjenner677
      @aleksjenner677 12 дней назад +12

      Doesn't at all seem that he understands and comprehends everything, did you not notice when Stacy said he was diagnosed with developmental delays?
      Doesn't at all seem helpful to deny the reality of his situation...

    • @ageordieboy
      @ageordieboy 12 дней назад +34

      @ I of course can’t be certain. I don’t know his exact diagnostics. And I’ve not engaged with him.
      But I’m a nurse and I work with people with neurological disorders.
      I can just see there is a real cognition there. He has neuropathic pathways. He’s present.
      He has definite cognitive markers there.
      He’s aware. He is albeit subtly engaged.
      I’d bet my life he is way more than he’s given credit for.

    • @FlopSter-i1o
      @FlopSter-i1o 12 дней назад +7

      Right! I can't understand why someone diagnosed him "brain dead!"

    • @FlopSter-i1o
      @FlopSter-i1o 12 дней назад +2

      @@aleksjenner677 I guess you get out of this whatever you want to see.

    • @KyleEvra-15
      @KyleEvra-15 12 дней назад +2

      Not really there.

  • @sonicdeathgvrl
    @sonicdeathgvrl 12 дней назад +115

    Jacah was truly meant for his mama. The fact they thought she was CPS and kept calling her, him being in foster homes, not being biologically related, yet they ended up together. Theyre so lucky to have each other!! What a wonderful young man and mama ❤️

    • @sylview3808
      @sylview3808 12 дней назад +3

      That was pure Providence. ☺️

    • @taylor3950
      @taylor3950 11 дней назад +7

      She was also so kind in the way she spoke of Jacah’s aunt. I’m glad that his aunt recognized that she couldn’t take on the responsibility and that he ultimately made it to his home

  • @pickledbread2036
    @pickledbread2036 12 дней назад +134

    He pays attention to what's going on, you can tell by his facial features and how he acts in response to the negative stories. He knows more of what's going on than we might realize. His grandmother is a saint, an angel from God. He's right where he needs to be.

  • @MegaBrownie19
    @MegaBrownie19 12 дней назад +81

    Surving horrible abuse multiple times and then the hospital/ EMT failing him is just infuriating! I will say this, his momma is amazing. She is a blessing.

  • @kaixo382
    @kaixo382 12 дней назад +315

    Stacy has a special place in heaven reserved

    • @oohmygolly
      @oohmygolly 12 дней назад +13

      amen!!

    • @Mia-es1rp
      @Mia-es1rp 12 дней назад +10

      She is a special woman .

    • @pauladunn8329
      @pauladunn8329 12 дней назад +3

      I came here to say the same💗 What a blessing!

    • @mrjohnson20123
      @mrjohnson20123 12 дней назад +3

      Amen 🙏🏽

    • @paige-95
      @paige-95 12 дней назад +4

      As long as she believes and trusts in Jesus Christ ❤

  • @SidiaLei
    @SidiaLei 12 дней назад +146

    When Grandma said she got the call to go to the Hospital I remember that day so well. It was a Friday March 2, 2007 I was giving birth to my first born boy. While that was one of the best days of my life, another baby boy was fighting for his. 😢 I will forever keep them in my prayers. Jacah is just as handsome as he wants to be with those dimples and beautiful teeth. 🤗 ❤

    • @callmehno_one
      @callmehno_one 11 дней назад +4

      I am glad that he has somebody to care for him and give him lots of love btw at that time i would just have turned 4 or 5 on march 1st time flies by wow and so close

  • @jocelynscott504
    @jocelynscott504 12 дней назад +97

    When she talked about him hearing Elmo makes him cry just broke my heart 💔😭😭

  • @nightslayer6951
    @nightslayer6951 12 дней назад +156

    Poor Jacah he didn't deserve any abuse, no child does. Thank God he has people like his grandmother to love and care for him🙏♥️❤

  • @ThePianistPlayer
    @ThePianistPlayer 12 дней назад +150

    Grandmama, I'm not a believer in God, but you are an angel sent from heaven. Thank you for what you do for Jacah. Jacah, you're an amazing spirit. Keep smiling. ❤️

    • @CBaller2020
      @CBaller2020 12 дней назад +5

      That was a beautiful comment. ❤

    • @ThePianistPlayer
      @ThePianistPlayer 12 дней назад +3

      @CBaller2020 comes from the heart. ❤️

    • @Tysandifer
      @Tysandifer 12 дней назад +10

      Things like this prove there's more to life then alot of us believe

    • @sandycz8127
      @sandycz8127 10 дней назад +5

      If it were not for Love, absolutely nothing would function. If it were not for God, love would not exist. We are able to love because He loved us first. Your comment alone has its base in love and my comment to you does also. God is pure love.

  • @budmome6503
    @budmome6503 12 дней назад +117

    i love that you can slightly see him kinda nod when chris is talking about all the good things jacah has around him, its truly so sweet and heartwarming knowing he knows these things and that hes fully safe and taken care of now :)

  • @oceanchicns
    @oceanchicns 12 дней назад +75

    Wow Chris, you have a gift. Jacah was totally vibing with you. So special.

  • @lisabraga
    @lisabraga 12 дней назад +119

    His grandmother is so incredibly knowledgeable and dedicated. She is so inspiring! I work with medically fragile children and adults. They are my best friends. He is so lucky to have such a loving family and such a handsome guy! Jacah is clearly very well taken care of and such a light in this world!

  • @kathya8760
    @kathya8760 12 дней назад +35

    That smile, those dimples what a handsome man! The moments of silence when you were talking Chris were so powerful. Jacah understands and is desperate to communicate with you. Grandma is a role model for all grandmas and parents. She’s one in a million. Love her!!!

  • @Ariel-ck9he
    @Ariel-ck9he 12 дней назад +42

    His mom is absolutely right. He totally understands.

  • @montanawhite5699
    @montanawhite5699 12 дней назад +37

    What a loving mama. And she ain’t even his mom. Every kid deserves a mama like this.

  • @GlitterSkies
    @GlitterSkies 12 дней назад +88

    People underestimate how developed a 5 month old is. They understand vibes, when someone is being nice or mean, etc. they have likes and dislikes. So Jacah absolutely understands people around him! And the good vibes in that room

  • @TheVP_DGW1
    @TheVP_DGW1 12 дней назад +96

    His smile is so beautiful. What a blessing to have such a wonderful woman there for him.

  • @Mary-po4ti
    @Mary-po4ti 12 дней назад +27

    She is the most
    BEAUTIFUL wonderful
    Priceless grandmother,
    Ever.
    To take care of BEAUTIFUL
    Jacah.......❤❤❤❤❤

  • @szeszi21
    @szeszi21 12 дней назад +119

    When I see something like this I have to confess myself that I don't understand life at all. In this world we are living in and see what we see every day, a step grandma tells this story with an absolutely humble way as if she did an average thing and lived an average life. The only thing I don't question is that people are at different level. I just don't know why.

    • @thepoweroftheoilofjoy
      @thepoweroftheoilofjoy 12 дней назад +6

      It is amazing. She is a hero

    • @BuggyPop47
      @BuggyPop47 12 дней назад +3

      Only God knows! I am so grateful❤

    • @CBaller2020
      @CBaller2020 12 дней назад +13

      I wouldn't even consider her his step-Grandma. I'd consider her his Mommy.

  • @anti_honey
    @anti_honey 12 дней назад +59

    This is hard to watch as a new mother. I just can't imagine how someone could hurt such a defenseless and innocent child.

  • @Truth17John17
    @Truth17John17 12 дней назад +40

    I cried and cried watching this. I hope the man that did this to Jacah sees this video because that man deserves a life sentence, not a 20-year plea deal. Jacah is beautiful.

  • @SherryBaby2003
    @SherryBaby2003 12 дней назад +72

    Precious to see how he reacts to you 🤍

    • @MelissaJensen-td3nc
      @MelissaJensen-td3nc 12 дней назад

      My son has autism and he hates the sesame street puppets especially when they sing

  • @Ninja-ty4lw
    @Ninja-ty4lw 12 дней назад +55

    Poor Jacah went through a lot. I am impressed by how strong he and his mama are.

    • @wmalden
      @wmalden 12 дней назад +1

      Grandmother.

    • @l34h6
      @l34h6 10 дней назад +2

      Might as well be his mother at this point. his “real” one doesn’t deserve the title

  • @matty4317
    @matty4317 12 дней назад +23

    I was grinning ear to ear as you said “smiles are contagious” and it’s so true 🙏 seeing him smile while you talk to him is the sweetest thing

  • @christycookey6500
    @christycookey6500 12 дней назад +92

    What a blessing Jachah is! The innocence in his eyes is precious. Everything about him says “love”. His mom is such a wonderful woman. His smile is worth more than gold! What a light he has in that smile.
    God bless his momma.
    I’ve never understood why people hurt babies, it doesn’t make sense to me, if a baby is crying, hurting him more isn’t going to make him stop crying.

    • @wmalden
      @wmalden 12 дней назад +1

      Grandmother.

    • @allaboutstace77
      @allaboutstace77 12 дней назад +3

      @@wmaldenright, but she’s also calling him his son

  • @angelcake6869
    @angelcake6869 12 дней назад +70

    the abuse of any child is unfathomable, let alone a beautiful infant like Jacah was at the time of his assault :( 💔 thank you, Cris, for continuing to spread awareness.

  • @jennieantonsson6229
    @jennieantonsson6229 12 дней назад +58

    Love his smile and it’s obvious that Jacah understands when you’re talking to him, he’s facial expression and body movements are clear signals.

  • @martinemikita9281
    @martinemikita9281 12 дней назад +21

    Grandma is GORGEOUS!!!! She is such an amazing woman!!❤

  • @susanyates8038
    @susanyates8038 12 дней назад +45

    What a valuable public service message! Just walk away. Take a break. But NEVER shake a baby. Much love to Jacah and Grandma💙

    • @amysmiles9751
      @amysmiles9751 12 дней назад +3

      I always tell new moms, it's okay to take a break. Don't feel gulity, we can't do it all.

  • @tassianatome6964
    @tassianatome6964 12 дней назад +34

    Jacah definitely understends, his facial expressions communicate really well. So handsome. Lots of to you and your amazing mom.

  • @julietteaps
    @julietteaps 12 дней назад +42

    she is an incredible human being, her perseverance for Jacah is amazing

  • @bigpoppa172
    @bigpoppa172 12 дней назад +64

    Poor Jacah, he didn’t deserve this 😔

  • @NellaBby98
    @NellaBby98 11 дней назад +7

    She remembers every date, this is what a momma does love through everything, passion in everything, and advocacy through it all. It's all done out of love, just because she loves him. The hospital calling her every time when he was admitted, they were meant to be together.

  • @TheSapphireSprit
    @TheSapphireSprit 12 дней назад +14

    The joy on his face when the song played!

  • @foxjacket
    @foxjacket 10 дней назад +6

    His mom is amazing. Such a huge advocate, telling the medical staff to do their jobs, asking questions, etc. Love Jacah's smile. What a great guy.

  • @celinapalfrey6001
    @celinapalfrey6001 12 дней назад +15

    That’s a mama that loves her baby , no matter what

  • @Sirchingsince
    @Sirchingsince 12 дней назад +15

    I think Jacah's love languages are physical touch and words of affirmation. Those combined make him beam with joy.

  • @jenxstv1067
    @jenxstv1067 9 дней назад +8

    Anyone that ever gets angry at a baby and thinks shaking the infant is the answer should watch this. God bless this woman for being this kid's care taker she truly is an amazing human being ❤

  • @FlopSter-i1o
    @FlopSter-i1o 12 дней назад +10

    Wow! He smiles and nods when you talk to him! He definitely understands!

  • @jofrazier-hansen4097
    @jofrazier-hansen4097 12 дней назад +28

    His Mom is right he's in there and he understands at a certain level. He's just locked in. Love her strength.

  • @lindamarie6574
    @lindamarie6574 12 дней назад +51

    God bless Jacah and his wonderful “Grandmother”!

  • @kamilee4123
    @kamilee4123 12 дней назад +44

    I’ve cared for 2 different children in a respite/volunteer capacity (under 2 years) in foster care who have Shaken Baby Syndrome. One I met only once, and the other I have had the wonderful opportunity to be with once a month these past 3 months. It’s very upsetting to see what happened to those two little boys, but they’re both incredibly lovely, and seeing Jacah as an adult living a good life and knowing love gives me hope for those two children. Thank you.

    • @tandiparent1906
      @tandiparent1906 12 дней назад +4

      ❤Although I've done foster care a couple of times, I feel like anyone who is able to do respite or hospite or volunteering, especially with children are angels on earth...thank you❤

  • @Jen-zv7ri
    @Jen-zv7ri 12 дней назад +11

    It was great to see Jacah enjoying the music with Chris. He was very animated. Really nice interactions between Chris and Jacah. I am so sorry Stacy and Jacah have had to endure such traumatic medical experiences with the paramedics and hospitals.

  • @msa1518
    @msa1518 10 дней назад +10

    She’s been his guardian angel and medical advocate since day one, there is a special mansion in Heaven for the two of them ❤️

  • @jsavannah123
    @jsavannah123 12 дней назад +28

    This mother is an angel

    • @wmalden
      @wmalden 12 дней назад +1

      Grandmother.

    • @ookipuki
      @ookipuki 8 дней назад +1

      ​@@wmaldenparent. ❤ shes his real mother.

  • @briannamorales6722
    @briannamorales6722 12 дней назад +26

    It is sad what happened to him but I'm just overjoyed how loving grandma is to him. What a blessing. And a handsome young man he is😊❤❤❤ I have cerebral palsy myself. And God bless the both of them 🙏🏾

  • @ir4700
    @ir4700 12 дней назад +46

    I'm blown away at how incredible Jacah's mother is - she is absolutely incredible and an force to be reckoned with. It's very clear that Jacah knows what is going on.

  • @zenaalbalupus983
    @zenaalbalupus983 12 дней назад +27

    I cannot comprehend how any other human could inflict such trauma and pain upon another human never mind a defenceless little baby! I am so sorry this happened but so blessed he has the support and love he’s always deserved! ❤️

  • @Puppet_Doctor
    @Puppet_Doctor 12 дней назад +27

    The Grandma is amazing and such a strong lady. I love your hair Grandma!
    Jacha, you are an amazing young man. Never lose that beautiful smile!

  • @kentrig5171
    @kentrig5171 12 дней назад +13

    He was eating up every compliment that Chris gave 😭🥹 his smile is contagious. His grandmother is truly an angel 🙏 Chris thank you for everything you do and giving rhese wonderful people a platform to sgare their story!

  • @evafaust6099
    @evafaust6099 12 дней назад +40

    This is so heartbreaking to see.. I wish all parents or caregivers would reach out for help to avoid this. I'm glad that he has a caregiver who genuinely wants the best for him and removed him from an abusive situation.

  • @JF-ym8gm
    @JF-ym8gm 12 дней назад +29

    This is a wonderful woman. God bless them both.

  • @grimbb9358
    @grimbb9358 12 дней назад +238

    Why, why, why would they not give this grandmother custody immediately after the aunt couldn't care for him

    • @krissydantennimon8750
      @krissydantennimon8750 12 дней назад +19

      Because at the time they probably felt foster care parents with "training" would do better... And it also varies from state to state. They have now expanded to include non blood relations and even close friends of the family before going to foster care. I think it s important to remember CPS is only humans and they have a lot of laws and procedures... And they DID place him with her...

    • @nobodyreally8441
      @nobodyreally8441 12 дней назад

      Because CPS is a very broken corrupt system.

    • @seamarie3111
      @seamarie3111 12 дней назад +12

      I don't know about Texas, but my state the grandparents have no rights. My parents got extremely lucky to get my niece at fourteen months old. We can never get back that first birthday spent in foster care, that first Christmas spent with her mother's relatives... but she's twelve now, and thriving, and been with my parents 11 years. I'm just so glad she's not had to endure such abuse. I'm so glad Jacah has such a fierce, protective advocate of a mama looking out and taking care of him. It's also even more beautiful that she considered him her grandson from day one despite acknowledging here that he was technically her ex-husband's daughter's baby.
      My dad, too, isn't my niece's grandpa by blood, but nobody better tell him that, or especially her -- he's the man she's called "Dad" since she could talk, and he wears that title as proudly as he did when I was a kid. My brother, her blood dad was, and always will be, daddy to her, and he respected and accepted that she could call my dad (his stepdad) "Dad" and him "Daddy" at the same time.
      Anyway, it's beautiful when family is just love, simple as that, and that's clearly the case here.

    • @krissydantennimon8750
      @krissydantennimon8750 12 дней назад +5

      @@seamarie3111 wow! Amazing 😍 . In Oregon grandparents have rights...but I know it s different state to state. So happy for your family

    • @nobodyreally8441
      @nobodyreally8441 11 дней назад

      @@grimbb9358 CPS is broken and corrupt

  • @LicoriceDragon
    @LicoriceDragon 12 дней назад +16

    There was a moment Jacah was looking into Chris' eyes while Chris was telling him how attentive he is, and they both looked into each other's eyes and you can tell so obviously that he's trying his best to communicate his thoughts, and that he's trapped in the body his abusers left him with. His Mama is the most courageous and empathetic soul for the pure love and fight in her heart that has singlehandedly brought them through so much of their journey together. She and Jacah make this planet an infinitely better place to live, and so does Chris. There is hope for humanity.

  • @sarahcalliguri8459
    @sarahcalliguri8459 12 дней назад +7

    I remember watching these when I was in middle school and being so inspired by your videos, and a few weeks ago I graduated from college with my degree in special education and now am working as a teacher with children with severe disabilities ❤

  • @cindys.9688
    @cindys.9688 12 дней назад +18

    I love Jacah's smile as he responds back. So cool to see!
    His Mama has incredible wisdom. Thank you for introducing us to these two sweet people!💜💙

    • @wmalden
      @wmalden 12 дней назад +1

      Grandmother.

  • @Ariel-ck9he
    @Ariel-ck9he 12 дней назад +9

    His mother is a literal angel on earth. They have the sweetest relationship. What an honor to meet these two.

  • @unpopularopinions9076
    @unpopularopinions9076 12 дней назад +21

    Jacah you are a treasure!! And your Mama is an angel for protecting and loving you so fiercely. Bless you, sweet woman, and the life you have given this precious child of God.

    • @wmalden
      @wmalden 12 дней назад

      Grandmother.

  • @daynasafranek7807
    @daynasafranek7807 11 дней назад +4

    Hearing how tiny he was and what he went through, just made my heart ache. I’m so glad that he has his incredible grandmother. ❤

  • @LucindaRachelMoore
    @LucindaRachelMoore 11 дней назад +6

    From the first time I heard of shaken baby syndrome, I have wondered what the outcome of sbs for the surviving infant is. This was a much needed interview, Chris. Thank you for this interview.

  • @JaimeeMullen
    @JaimeeMullen 11 дней назад +7

    God cover this mother with Grace and give her strength when she is tired. Our hearts are so full of love for him

  • @JoyArt33
    @JoyArt33 12 дней назад +8

    What an incredible pair…. This is what unconditional love truly is.

  • @sophieistheking
    @sophieistheking 12 дней назад +7

    This mom is such a champion for her son! It’s inspiring. Navigating the healthcare system as a foster and adoptive parent is such a headache plus just the CPS family court process. I can’t imagine trying to do all that while parenting an infant with high needs as a single mom. Inspiring family!

  • @girlguide444
    @girlguide444 12 дней назад +23

    Oh Jacah!!! Thanks to you , on this freesing cold, snowy day in Toronto Canada, I am smiling the biggest smile ever. Smiling so big, my cheeks hurt! You and your beautiful Mama are so special ❤️❤️❤️ thank you for sharing your story.

    • @wmalden
      @wmalden 12 дней назад

      Grandmother.

  • @Kileyydoesstuff
    @Kileyydoesstuff 9 дней назад +5

    This made me cry I’m so happy he’s safe with his grandmother, some stories have good endings😢💗

  • @BaadleaBeedleBop
    @BaadleaBeedleBop 12 дней назад +8

    Mama, you are pure love walking around in a body. I can see your baby understands everything being said, and he knows he is precious and loved. Well done, dear lady.

  • @jamiealexander7625
    @jamiealexander7625 12 дней назад +20

    Awe what a nice gentleman! Good job grandma/mom raising him! I want to be friends with him too! Thanks Chris for letting me meet Jacah!

  • @mandyb2245
    @mandyb2245 12 дней назад +6

    This young man has such a strong will to live, I'm so impressed that he's beaten so many odds.
    I hope he lives a long happy life. And I love his dimples! :D

  • @dkitty143
    @dkitty143 12 дней назад +55

    I pray for GOOD things for Jacah and Stacy! He surely loves his Momma and boy oh boy did he have love for you Chris!! His smile was SO big when you were talking to him!!! I'm so glad she reached out to you. Everyone should see this story. Every single person!!

    • @wmalden
      @wmalden 12 дней назад

      Grandmother.

    • @dkitty143
      @dkitty143 12 дней назад +4

      @@wmalden Yes I know that however she was referred as his Momma many times and for all intents and purposes she IS his Momma. She is his everything!

  • @Jenna-Roo
    @Jenna-Roo 12 дней назад +11

    His smile lit up when you spoke to him! You have such a gift and thank you for understanding all these kiddos and adults when it comes to their disabilities. You are a true gift! ❤😊✌🏻🙏🏼

  • @abbie2151
    @abbie2151 12 дней назад +12

    He is really well taken care of. Sending all our love!

  • @jeannetterw
    @jeannetterw 10 дней назад +6

    Those dimples! That smile is amazing.😊

  • @margsww9148
    @margsww9148 12 дней назад +13

    Jacah 💯 understands what's being said and going on around him ! What a loving grandmother ! 💗

  • @Loveorganizing
    @Loveorganizing 9 дней назад +4

    This woman embodies true and genuine love. I have no words. ❤

  • @rosieposie3690
    @rosieposie3690 12 дней назад +7

    Bless his mother for stepping up and being an amazing parent. I can't believe that anyone would hurt him! She understands him so well ❤ God bless you, Jacob and your family!

  • @pennyp7382
    @pennyp7382 12 дней назад +19

    Put the baby in the crib and go outside. I had a colicky baby and it was so difficult. I had to. I would never hurt him. That's why I had to walk away. It's not a bad thing. ❤ Take a break. Jacah is so happy with Mama.

  • @hannahmargaret_
    @hannahmargaret_ 12 дней назад +13

    Jacah's smile IS contagious! 😁😁

  • @madisons2111
    @madisons2111 12 дней назад +8

    Omg, I know he's in there just from his smile. His smile is so contagious. I hate that his chances to experience life the way most people can have been taken away from him. I hate that he was surrounded by evil people. I'm grateful that he is being taken care of now by an amazing woman.

  • @Mchannelw
    @Mchannelw 12 дней назад +28

    As a mom, this is so hard to hear. Had to pause video at 3:12 because hearing how injured the poor baby was was making me feel so bad. I am so sad for this family. How can someone hurt a baby. They are so beautiful and innocent. 20 years in jail sentence is too short for the abuser.

    • @Kibaheart
      @Kibaheart 12 дней назад +1

      i did too, it made me so angry I actually cried. The man that did that to him deserves life in prison

  • @HeyMrs.Jenkins
    @HeyMrs.Jenkins 12 дней назад +22

    You know how to connect. My Nano has a form of leukodystraphy but he’s living his greatest life ! I fought for my baby and he’s amazing ! God is doing amazing things in the world

  • @Littlekitten_
    @Littlekitten_ 12 дней назад +32

    Jacah I’m so sorry us humans failed you , by Gods glory you finally have a beutiful mother ❤
    In heaven there will be no pain , no sadness , you will be able to run and talk with Father God .
    Thank you for sharing this powerful story ❤ Gob bless everyone.

  • @kaylapugh9622
    @kaylapugh9622 12 дней назад +8

    I love watching sbsk I have autism and IDD and take care of my mom with stage 4 brain cancer would love to be. Interviewed by u Chris and share my story And it’s My Dream to meet the true love family and thank them for making a impact on my life

  • @whitneyp9790
    @whitneyp9790 12 дней назад +4

    That was the most precious thing to see Jayca's reaction to the music... How sweet and blessed for this young man to be loved and cared for by a sweet lady.