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  • Опубликовано: 4 ноя 2024

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  • @liveactionJM
    @liveactionJM Год назад +263

    crazy how everyone has that ONE girl that messes them up man😭

    • @jusbrygaming
      @jusbrygaming Год назад +26

      it's rough man

    • @milanista5303
      @milanista5303 Год назад +16

      This just happened to me. I’m devastated. Honestly don’t know how I’m going to recover

    • @CurbShady
      @CurbShady Год назад +7

      Ong bro it’s so annoying and it hurts fr

    • @CurbShady
      @CurbShady Год назад +6

      @@milanista5303u will dw it takes some time

    • @saucyyt8417
      @saucyyt8417 Год назад

      @@milanista5303me too but it’s all good we got this gang

  • @TheHBK
    @TheHBK Год назад +150

    God does work in mysterious ways.😭 I was literally just thinking bout this one chick and you dropped this. God bless Kam 🙏✝️

    • @jtames9040
      @jtames9040 Год назад +5

      We Always need to have God in our hearts, God is everything, the truth in life which is in the Orthodox christianity religion only btw. The orthodox version of Christianity is the original and true form of christianity that Jesus taught us when he came to earth, and you can feel God’s grace through the holy sacraments in this church after baptism , repentance-confession and holy communion in the orthodox christian church, something that completely changes your life and turns you into a happier person with a meaningful life and also saves you by strengthening your bond with God. I suggest you get baptised at an orthodox christian church near you, receive the holy spirit and live a spiritual life through the church’s sacraments like confession to the priest and holy communion and may God Bless you!

    • @WhaleG108
      @WhaleG108 2 месяца назад

      @@jtames9040real

  • @jo3p_
    @jo3p_ Год назад +57

    This couldn’t have come at a better time, man. Thank you.

  • @darthvader220
    @darthvader220 Год назад +28

    it’s been about 3 years started off as friends ended as strangers, now that i’m finally talking to a whole different girl again it still doesn’t feel the same as the first one, hope all of us who here can move on one day 🤞🏽

    • @dynasticruler
      @dynasticruler 5 месяцев назад

      Thank you for your words i needed this 😭

  • @angryman4305
    @angryman4305 Год назад +9

    Gym, work, eat clean + time, stay strong bro

  • @maameamoaki2279
    @maameamoaki2279 Год назад +70

    I still remember it like yesterday when I got rejected the first time...This was the only time I actually tried to confess to a girl but still got rejected. Tbh I thought my chances were high bc when I would walk past her she would smile at me or she would talk about me with her friends. Maybe it was bc I confessed to her while her friend was next to her that led to her rejecting me. But the more I think about her the more I realise that maybe I may stay single my whole life but I have slowly began to accept that instead of mourning of my L. Rn just focusing on self improving and levelling up and overall just being me🔥💪🏿

    • @exluck5478
      @exluck5478 Год назад +8

      you're doing what you have to do ! keep up bro :)

    • @maameamoaki2279
      @maameamoaki2279 Год назад

      @@exluck5478 thx fr🔥

    • @portlenhall8018
      @portlenhall8018 Год назад +3

      This was literally me last week, bruh. The exact same stuff happened to me.

    • @Protected11
      @Protected11 Год назад +5

      bro you wont stay single for life the right one for you will eventually show up. As long as you believe in your self nothing can stop you.

    • @maameamoaki2279
      @maameamoaki2279 Год назад +3

      ​@@Protected11I hope man💪🏿🙏🏾

  • @KingLatent
    @KingLatent Год назад +9

    This girl was leading me on for weeks over the summer and when we fell out i couldn't even go to school. My Anxiety and stress was through the roof and my mind is like a war torn country. So the advice i must give you and to myself is to say that there is someone out there, there is someone who still loves you. It doesn't matter how big of a deal they were, they probably don't care at all now.
    She still comes to my school and I share a class with her, so I can't really escape her. Just calm your mind before thinking about her and remember that you have unlimited potential and nobody is out of your league. There are plenty of fish in the sea mate.

  • @fraspqr
    @fraspqr Год назад +15

    That one girl will never leaves
    your mind, she will always have a place in it. That one girl that truly broke you... gave us the biggest life lesson and kick in the ass that its time to grow up. You can either become bigger and better than she could have ever imagined, or remain broken. The choice is ours. Stay strong kings

  • @cj2fye
    @cj2fye Год назад +5

    He came in da most clutch time

  • @jimmyjohns6199
    @jimmyjohns6199 Год назад +6

    Impeccable timing it’s insane

  • @portlenhall8018
    @portlenhall8018 Год назад +17

    Kam, you don’t know how much I needed this, big bro. Perfect timing!! Thank God for you.

  • @josephcoghlan7759
    @josephcoghlan7759 Месяц назад

    This is actually so real
    Appreciate you man

  • @YooMuddyItsMe
    @YooMuddyItsMe Год назад +6

    i deadass needed this i instantly felt relief listening to what bro had to say 💯

  • @mattetav1240
    @mattetav1240 Год назад +1

    i want a real man to talk to me straight up like this man. you gained a subscribe.

  • @CodenameDk
    @CodenameDk Год назад +8

    That pain is the same pain that made me not ever want to love someone again 💯

  • @Unknownn336
    @Unknownn336 Год назад +6

    You helping a lot people out with your word, a lot of men need this type of advice

  • @Dabgram34
    @Dabgram34 11 месяцев назад

    Respect G I couldn’t jump into a relationship cause I just didn’t want to do what was done to me

  • @FBNev
    @FBNev Год назад +2

    appreciate it bro. finally got over it and took this L

  • @superioralex1189
    @superioralex1189 Год назад +1

    ty for changing my mindset bc I used to have this crush that I liked it was 9 weeks ago since I texted her, but I got left on read but it's all bc thanks to you that you changed my mindset that there's more girls are out it has improved my mindset in my self-improvement journey so that I'll be a better version of my self appreciated the message and god bless you🙏✝

  • @7dayzzz
    @7dayzzz 5 месяцев назад +3

    fr man like ion even like her like that anymore but she just folds me and cant stop thinking abt her even though I don't like her.

  • @Mulatica89
    @Mulatica89 Год назад +5

    I'm a woman but this advice really helped me. I went above and beyond for him. I loved on him so much and although he said he loved me, he wouldn't let go of his other options. He always complained about how much they did him dirty, but somehow he still wanted them around... well... I'm not an option, I'm the one. So I had to let him go :(

    • @noname-ed2un
      @noname-ed2un Год назад +3

      You did the best thing. He doesn't deserve you

    • @Mulatica89
      @Mulatica89 Год назад

      @@noname-ed2un thank you 🥺💕

    • @noname-ed2un
      @noname-ed2un Год назад

      @@Mulatica89 you're welcome I pray you get someone who will love you more than you love them, and will care and provide for everything. Continue to improve and leave those who aren't ready to take you higher

  • @howie15
    @howie15 Год назад +5

    Just went on a first date and fumbled the bag, she didn't feel the vibe, "it was a shame we didn't really click," was her follow-up after saying it was nice to meet you... There was initial attraction, it was just awkward cause we just started talking on insta like 4 days ago lol. This shit happened to me yesterday, I've now forgiven myself, and have accepted it, it just sucks, I was gonna take her out to prom and everything... damn man, I've started to get back into working out and ran for like 5 miles on some David Goggin's shit the other day lol. I appreciate your videos Kam, keep up the great work, you probably won't read this...

  • @goatonhotspotwifi1034
    @goatonhotspotwifi1034 20 дней назад

    appreciate this king

  • @GoldenMushroom64
    @GoldenMushroom64 Год назад +8

    She’s gone bro
    I legit don’t want anybody else and I don’t know if I ever will but at least I know that life moves on I better move on with it

  • @JavierMartinez-xb4ki
    @JavierMartinez-xb4ki Год назад +1

    Bro drop the right video every time damn Kam 🥇

  • @lucasrodriguez7477
    @lucasrodriguez7477 Год назад +1

    Needed this vid gang couldn’t have dropped this at a better time

  • @quaaludes7898
    @quaaludes7898 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you bro, this'll get me through some shit

  • @littleserote546
    @littleserote546 7 месяцев назад +1

    Disappointed that I even ended up here🤦‍♂️

  • @edouardbaillargeon5899
    @edouardbaillargeon5899 Год назад

    YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW MUCH YOU HELP ME.. NO IDEA AT ALL!

  • @Bastardwnobounds
    @Bastardwnobounds 5 месяцев назад

    I compared my 16 yo self to myself rn (19 yo) and I can tell ive gotten wiser and i have more value as a male. And truth is, experiencing things in life is what makes us wiser, the more you grow year by year. But always remember to be humble, we’re all human, we all fall short, so we will never be better than the man next to us

  • @panther_-
    @panther_- Год назад +2

    Kam always uploads exactly what Im looking for everytime

  • @andriybilash2156
    @andriybilash2156 8 месяцев назад +1

    That's been for 13 years from 3rd grade she didn't cared about me but for some reasons i cannot forget her

  • @MnasonMarlatt
    @MnasonMarlatt Год назад

    Thank you. You have no idea what this means to me.

  • @binnie465
    @binnie465 5 месяцев назад

    Realest advise out there

  • @leontsc4352
    @leontsc4352 4 месяца назад

    Thank you for doing this video, I really needed it 💪❤

  • @MarrDarth
    @MarrDarth Год назад

    “A Gone Girl” 💯💕

  • @sphamandlanjani7175
    @sphamandlanjani7175 Год назад +1

    Thank you man. This video helped me realize what I've been doing wrong.

  • @rantaroblue8549
    @rantaroblue8549 Год назад +3

    Needed rn so luv for this💙

  • @kurrencyy
    @kurrencyy Год назад +3

    You are that brother 💪🏽💪🏽 appreciate the vids keep them coming

  • @tylerjanutolo4295
    @tylerjanutolo4295 Год назад +2

    Had my heartbroken by the love of my life 2 months ago, 2 days after the breakup she had pictures posted of her and some other guy on Facebook. I'm still trying to get over it and move on but I got all these memories of the two years that I spent with her that haunt my mind everyday.

    • @fallen6060
      @fallen6060 Год назад +1

      Thats fucked up man. Hope you feel better soon, king. Keep your head high, brother.
      Have a great day/night 👑

    • @adrianchico8886
      @adrianchico8886 9 месяцев назад

      I’m telling bro girls move on a lot quicker then guys do after a break up all you can do is move on that’s literally all you can really do you CANT make her wanna come back to YOU if she doesn’t wanna be with you anymore it’s the hard REALITY we must accept as men

  • @traphouseeliandbryce7366
    @traphouseeliandbryce7366 Год назад +4

    I love your content bro it’s helped me so much with girls and things

  • @nathancarr1735
    @nathancarr1735 Год назад +27

    Yo I just got rejected by this girl who I had a crush on for a while. Unfortunately I work with her so I can’t cut her off fully. It’s also my birthday today so yeah not a great day. Any advice from y’all?

    • @857uno
      @857uno Год назад +24

      Happy birthday bro. It happens for a reason, focus and level up 🔥

    • @ashleyyy9098
      @ashleyyy9098 Год назад

      Bomb Minneapolis

    • @Protected11
      @Protected11 Год назад +5

      Happy birthday mannn. Don't worry everything happens for a reason this chick didn't deserved you

    • @okok-qq1ed
      @okok-qq1ed Год назад +5

      She was mid anyway bro

    • @aqep
      @aqep Год назад +1

      Im in middle school.The first day i started school this girl always caught my eye alongside other females.She was so beautiful,funny,cute,perfect.I also kind of analyzed the relationships in her svhool and she'll probably be in a relationship in 2-7 months(starting school)which just makes my situation exactly worse,the other girl i also adored WAS in a relationship with my supposed "friend".

  • @JustMalik19
    @JustMalik19 Год назад +1

    PERFECT TIMING

  • @wilfredfrancisco5396
    @wilfredfrancisco5396 10 месяцев назад

    The best 13 minutes of my life tbh.

  • @random3rsifO_O
    @random3rsifO_O Год назад +2

    We are gonna be super good friends for now but I cant stop crying... No matter what I do. I keep thinking about her... Im so broken...

  • @JxcksonSZN
    @JxcksonSZN Год назад +1

    needed this

  • @Livetoeats
    @Livetoeats Год назад

    good advice but still tough

  • @BreadanLacey
    @BreadanLacey Месяц назад

    Man she didn’t do me dirty I slow danced with her and from that I can never stop thinking about her

  • @matteodavis2221
    @matteodavis2221 10 месяцев назад

    Hey my guy, this video fit my situation very well, thank you bro it was really enlightening

  • @drevil856
    @drevil856 Год назад +1

    Chin up kings every days new 💪 😤✌️

  • @leviswm
    @leviswm Год назад

    Thank you bro! That helps alot! I respect you.

  • @primeboy1256
    @primeboy1256 Год назад

    Thanks man, I needed this.

  • @pbd5626
    @pbd5626 Год назад

    Man i’ve had the same girl on my mind for the past 5 months and it’s just annoying atp. I can’t lie she was mad cool and it was my fault that it ended but i still can’t get past it. She blocked my number but watched my stories everyday and i get tight when i see that. I know it’s done and i do my thing but she still be on my mind.

  • @Trackhawks2002
    @Trackhawks2002 Год назад +2

    Amen I need to hear this

  • @vhsbaseballkings
    @vhsbaseballkings Год назад +1

    This shit here hit deep

  • @mpm7897
    @mpm7897 Год назад +2

    Needed this bro 🙏

  • @oshiosoblayze
    @oshiosoblayze 5 месяцев назад

    God has a reason for everything if someone isn’t ment for you he will continue to cause them to hurt you until you’re strong to let them go 😢

  • @carlosangelitolinao473
    @carlosangelitolinao473 8 месяцев назад

    thnks for sharing ur thoughts with me.. i cnt overcome wat a girl did to me.. she used me and cheated on me

  • @Osama4TIMES
    @Osama4TIMES Год назад

    I actually said she gone with him . I appreciate the advice

  • @PeaksTheMenace
    @PeaksTheMenace Год назад +2

    Needed this

  • @AntonioTorres-n2z
    @AntonioTorres-n2z Год назад

    Much love bro

  • @elreptiliano4851
    @elreptiliano4851 Год назад

    thank u man needed this

  • @xx_br3du_xx3
    @xx_br3du_xx3 Год назад

    Very true thanks for vid kam 😁

  • @zackattack1199
    @zackattack1199 26 дней назад

    I Ain’t going to lie I have been thinking about this girl for decades and it’s sad I’m 24 and this happened like 10 years ago and I can’t enjoy shit, i literally had to delete social media so i stop thinking about her because I can’t stop about her, and it ended so bad that she only saw me as a monster that’s all..

  • @Ben-hk4kz
    @Ben-hk4kz Год назад

    What a great video and great philosophy! Thanks very much.

  • @whoiscamoo
    @whoiscamoo Год назад +3

    yo kam can u try to help talk abt which skin care to use and like a workout routine because i just started a routine and started using CeraVe for my skin i’m not fully new to working out but i’m new to working out daily and need help with routines nd shi

  • @rodgalaurius7956
    @rodgalaurius7956 Год назад +1

    Couldn’t come at the right time

  • @HieuHoang-ss3rj
    @HieuHoang-ss3rj Год назад

    Thanks for video brother Kam, this really helps. Should be a dating coach lol!

  • @muhammadhuzaifa5156
    @muhammadhuzaifa5156 10 месяцев назад

    The advertisement really destroy this healing vibe

  • @ddotnyc8709
    @ddotnyc8709 Год назад +2

    Perfect timing I keep thinking about this girl at school but I can’t try to pull her im a junior she a freshman 🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @jesusgomez7454
    @jesusgomez7454 Год назад

    Thanks Brody

  • @buickboii
    @buickboii Год назад

    Huge help

  • @eddieambrose77
    @eddieambrose77 Год назад +1

    Had this girl who keeps messing with me
    She still does man
    I'm tryna get over it man but it's hard
    Also have a female bestfriend who just moved on like it was nothing
    Big asf holes in my chest

  • @jordanstaines3598
    @jordanstaines3598 4 месяца назад

    All you need is you game , you bothers , gaming buddy’s that will make you laugh but at the same time uplift you, go out and meet new people 💯💯 most importantly talk to god

  • @charlesspurgeon2299
    @charlesspurgeon2299 Год назад

    next level !!

  • @CBGavel
    @CBGavel Год назад

    Good advice thank you for doing this video

  • @Galactic_Edits83
    @Galactic_Edits83 Год назад

    Perfect timing!

  • @Ricothefamouskidz1998
    @Ricothefamouskidz1998 Год назад

    I ready know and I never think on no girl’s anymore they think about me now!!!!

  • @plutomrxs2x669
    @plutomrxs2x669 Год назад

    True shii my boy prs8

  • @C0wb0y234
    @C0wb0y234 Год назад +3

    Ight ill share my story.
    my girl broke up wit me in may 2022 and we started in feb 2022 for context
    I had a girl for 3 months after a really good talking period for abt 3 months, and i fr thought like, "yo this gonna last a long ass time" and she fr dropped me randomly one night without any sort of explanation. it took me till last month to finally move on, cus yk i was thinkin we on the same page, we got the same mind, we literally is perfect yk, and bru my advice is just, bro let ur emotions live. Yea its gonna suck dawg but yk what thas life yfm. after like 8 months of us not talkin we talkin again and we on good terms after apologies and whatnot, but bro if u fr cant get over her then try to approach the situation in a way that yall can talk again but dont make it seem like anyones fault, just send an apology paragraph or have yo friend do it or wtv, and if everything goes well she finna send one back and she'll want to talk to u again cus yall both matured, and btw the only way to mature is by not lookin at her socials and focusing on u, do things that make u happy dawg, go have fun, do wtv it is u tryna do but give urself time to heal while also letting ur emotions thrive yk, then maybe if u rlly want to go back and be like, "yo listen i was actin a fool back then and i just wanna say im sorry and i fr shuldve treated u better, i hope maybe we can go on and talk again cus the past is the past yfm" dawg dont hurt urself over a girl, try to either move on and do things u enjoy and/or go back and apologize, even if she dont apologize back atleast u got what u wanted to say off ur chest yfm, it mite make u feel better in the end.

  • @DTechnologyservices
    @DTechnologyservices Год назад

    Thank you❤😊

  • @FrancescoCamela
    @FrancescoCamela Год назад

    thank you

  • @Pickl_mf
    @Pickl_mf 8 месяцев назад

    We have been dating for a while now and I have talked to her for about 60 percent of my days and when she doesn't text me back within an hour I have a mental breakdown and I'm trying so hard to get her out of my head

  • @lilio1262
    @lilio1262 Год назад +1

    W video; nah fr that's what i needed to become Alpha and dettach from love

  • @Wicc_234
    @Wicc_234 Год назад

    Thank youuu

  • @Stay_Grounded
    @Stay_Grounded Год назад

    Took a flight to see her, never got to see her and she’s cutting me off…. My flight is in the 3 hrs and she still hasn’t said a word to me. Even her brother is telling me how crazy this all is

  • @metaldude1085
    @metaldude1085 Год назад +1

    This was directed at the whole comment section of this video to stop thinking of patbat

  • @apreslavague1557
    @apreslavague1557 Год назад

    "Bro" / "Bruh" counter : ERROR NUMBER TOO HIGH

  • @saiankith3430
    @saiankith3430 7 месяцев назад

    I am 19 i loved tht girl from 5 fucking years she was with me just for 8 months and justt lefttt…. How heartless is this creature… we all are here as we devoted ourselves to a GIRLLLL ARGH!

  • @tyrelldawkins6132
    @tyrelldawkins6132 10 месяцев назад +1

    What do I do if we just best friends and I keep on thinking bout her cause she so nice to me?

  • @Thatllnico
    @Thatllnico 6 месяцев назад

    I never had a girlfriend. However there always that girl that I kinda like, but I never talk to. I don't wanna think about her anymore. It feels like chains holding me back but I can't stop thinking about her. Any tips?

  • @Janek99708
    @Janek99708 Год назад

    I love you bro❤❤

  • @Alykhlyl
    @Alykhlyl 5 месяцев назад

    ‏‪7:58‬‏ here I totally agree
    But what if ...the man,the oerson, doesn't have friends
    I mean I tried hardly to make friends but they all liers and they just want ur money,ur car, and they don't really like u or see u as a brother
    This us what happened wz me I can't find real relationships wz homies so what to do?

  • @devincrumpler4287
    @devincrumpler4287 Год назад

    It’s just a crush at school 🙄

  • @intuitivelymagician2076
    @intuitivelymagician2076 Год назад

    if only i got this message 6 years ago from a certain dumb dumb.
    i improved a lot , took me years

  • @nehemiaheyns4818
    @nehemiaheyns4818 Год назад

    How to maintain or handle your rotation .

  • @tjgotbands
    @tjgotbands Год назад

    kam when you getting a fade again/facial hair cleanup?

    • @tjgotbands
      @tjgotbands Год назад

      thanks kam

    • @tjgotbands
      @tjgotbands Год назад

      plus a eyebrow cleanup would look fire

  • @hayabusaNsx
    @hayabusaNsx Год назад

    im in the spot where i want to exit the earth, i tried so hard not to last night i dont know what to do man

  • @Ricothefamouskidz1998
    @Ricothefamouskidz1998 Год назад

    I don’t go to school but I’m 24 and I’m gonna be 25 soon in August 12
    some other people I think are 18 or 19

  • @dm.25
    @dm.25 Год назад

    What if I have to study for long hours and stay home. How can I improve while I always want to revenge