4 Clues Your Desire for Someone Really Is from God and NOT from Yourself

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  • How will you know if your desire for someone is from God or from yourself? Here are 4 clues that often occur when God has given you a desire for someone.
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  • @dvash6231
    @dvash6231 2 месяца назад +410

    1. If your desire for this person is aligned with Biblical principles and commands, that is a strong sign God is giving you this desire.
    2. If God is opening the door for you to actually fulfill this desire you have for this person, that is a good sign it's from God.
    3. If your desire for this person is rooted in love and not selfishness, this is a good sign God has given you this desire.
    4. If you desire this person because you know this relationship would help and not hurt your walk with God, that is a good sign God has given you this desire.

    • @DrekalScar
      @DrekalScar 16 дней назад

      Thank you very much!!

  • @ISing4Jesus6353
    @ISing4Jesus6353 2 месяца назад +243

    This makes total sense. It makes me think of when David wanted to build God a house but God said no. It was definitely biblical and a Godly thing to do but it was the wrong time and David was not the one God wanted to build it. But David did the next best thing which was getting all the supplies ready. If this is not the right person or the right time we can still do the next best thing which is preparing our hearts to receive the one God really has for us.

    • @rachelsharp7495
      @rachelsharp7495 2 месяца назад +8

      Very well said. Love it.

    • @matheus6894
      @matheus6894 2 месяца назад +7

      Wow, great insight. Thanks

    • @jania35
      @jania35 2 месяца назад +6

      Love your comment ❤

    • @arkonwolves7192
      @arkonwolves7192 2 месяца назад +2

      Not to be cliche, but AMEN to that.

    • @tajaurion
      @tajaurion 2 месяца назад +1

      That’s a smart way to look at it, you are completely right❤

  • @iBearsFPS
    @iBearsFPS 2 месяца назад +78

    I believe it was God who brought her to me. After time, she didn’t have the relationship I wanted with God (yet). But not because she rejects God, but because she still has a lot to learn understand about God. And the reason we broke up now is because I believe God needs time to work on us individually. The reason I believe God sent her to me is because it was all unexpected and the way I felt with her was something so strong. She encouraged me to go to church, to pray. She enjoyed Christian music, she enjoyed going to church with me. In the end we both became selfish. And that’s why God had to come in and separate us. But it’s my Faith and signs God has sent me that keep me hopeful. Knowing that he’s in control and he will bring us back stronger and more forgiving than who we became when we ended. I took my eyes off God because of issues in the relationship. She took her eyes off the relationship and put herself first. When I prayed about it “God should I leave?” “God if she’s not the one remove her”. But God put us back and things got better, I felt God say “don’t leave”. She ended things a couple months ago for many reasons. I prayed to God everyday since. All which God will fix. I felt his presence say “Be still” and signs started coming up after. I trust God in the end. And my Faith is in him. I know God didn’t put her in my life only to remove her. I know he has plans for us. I just don’t know his plans yet. But that’s where my Faith comes in. ❤

    • @domdolla5188
      @domdolla5188 2 месяца назад +6

      Wow exact same boat its like i typed this it is hard brother i pray you to get either your desired outcome or better mines is still fresh so the heart still is heavy at times but may The Most High bless you🙏🏽

    • @iBearsFPS
      @iBearsFPS 2 месяца назад

      @@domdolla5188 May God bless you and restore the brokenness around us. I declare in Jesus name that he heals your relationship and brings about a new future for your relationship. “When the time is right I the Lord will make it happen.”

    • @filipinohealthymind8693
      @filipinohealthymind8693 Месяц назад

      My goodness bro. This is exactly my scenario right now. I really pray that it’s God will that you end up together forever. I can just relate 😢

  • @Mary-gr3mr
    @Mary-gr3mr 2 месяца назад +110

    anyone else reallyy tired? prayed all the prayers. been patient. doing your job. being nice to others...
    sending yall good energy, you're not alone
    Thank you for another great video Mark

    • @LCD04
      @LCD04 2 месяца назад +9

      Come to me all those who are weary and burdened and will give you rest says the LORD. When you say prayed all the prayers are you saying that there are specific verse you need to pray for certain things you want? Where in scripture is there a verse saying to use this prayer to get this outcome??

    • @Mary-gr3mr
      @Mary-gr3mr 2 месяца назад +12

      @@LCD04 in general. It's been a long process, isolated, long journey, and it's like now I've done all that I can do , and just gotta leave the rest to God.

    • @ashliel.3517
      @ashliel.3517 2 месяца назад +3

      @@Mary-gr3mras you should. Don’t do things by your strength. Give it to God. Then, when it does happen, you don’t have to question whether it’s from God or not.

    • @LCD04
      @LCD04 2 месяца назад +3

      @@Mary-gr3mr God is with you, remember what the prophet Isaiah wrote(Isaiah 40:31)
      “31 But those who wait on the Lord
      Shall renew their strength;
      They shall mount up with wings like eagles,
      They shall run and not be weary,
      They shall walk and not faint.
      God bless you sister in Christ!!

    • @AugustaWilliamsJr
      @AugustaWilliamsJr 2 месяца назад +1

      Stay busy this helps with loneliness

  • @danjsilve
    @danjsilve 2 месяца назад +21

    This is very encouraging. I am interested in a Christian lady, and her in me too. I told her that if we do get together ( the timing in not right now) that I will remain celibate till marriage, she nodded her understanding. She is very beautiful and yet I have no lustful thoughts towards her ( Job 31:1) My intention is to support her goals and love her.

  • @sandra-dx6sw
    @sandra-dx6sw 2 месяца назад +26

    Praying for my special person in the future ❤

    • @MrChachiyo
      @MrChachiyo 2 месяца назад +1

      You will find him.

    • @Mr7352
      @Mr7352 2 месяца назад +2

      Never give up. I finally met mine after many years of prayer and hope. She is Better then I hoped for. God has the best for you.

    • @craneywatch
      @craneywatch 2 месяца назад

      ​@@MrChachiyoI found her. But she was already married to you. Great!

  • @Bishop472
    @Bishop472 2 месяца назад +60

    I'm praying for a woman who serves god for ever....🙏

    • @LoiceCheptoo-th8ng
      @LoiceCheptoo-th8ng 2 месяца назад +2

      May God grant you the desires of your heart ♥

    • @ShirleyNunthoolall
      @ShirleyNunthoolall 2 месяца назад +2

      Hi how are you

    • @robbyefulghum2038
      @robbyefulghum2038 2 месяца назад +3

      She's coming...she maybe closer than you think...let God lead and don't get infront of God...🙏🏽

    • @judyharps9862
      @judyharps9862 2 месяца назад +3

      I'm looking for the same someone who wants God first and his partner

    • @rachelbuthelezi9787
      @rachelbuthelezi9787 2 месяца назад +1

      I am also praying a man who fears God and afyer his heart.

  • @cytinachavis9157
    @cytinachavis9157 2 месяца назад +48

    Thank you for obeying the Lord and making these videos. They truly bless my life.

  • @maronfasil4523
    @maronfasil4523 2 месяца назад +26

    I needed this!!! I’ve been staying away from this kind of content lately out of fear that watching too much would cause more idolatry within me. But man….the points here….are SO helpful. My desire right now doesn’t meet ANY of those checks at all, even though the person I want is a strong believer. Now I just need help accepting and knowing how to move forward with a No from the Lord 😭😭

    • @jeriahbrumfield3135
      @jeriahbrumfield3135 2 месяца назад +3

      I love this comment so much. It’s the most honest one I've seen. And you’ll definitely be aware when the time comes that it’s from the Lord. 🤍

    • @maronfasil4523
      @maronfasil4523 2 месяца назад +1

      Lol you know?! I just need to confess it so it can come up and out of me. Amen!! You’re so right. You will know when it’s right

    • @beatracyboateng
      @beatracyboateng 2 месяца назад

      Same here😂

  • @johnbugnoii
    @johnbugnoii 2 месяца назад +19

    Great advice, seeking relationships that honor God and further His Kingdom. “Whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God.” 1 Corinthians 10:31 God bless us all!!

  • @karinafoster6974
    @karinafoster6974 2 месяца назад +5

    I couldn't sleep so I come on RUclips and see this video. This answers what I have been thinking about. In about 7 hours, I am going to meet a man at church. We have talked some on messenger.
    This video gives me hope, that James is interested in me. That he was sent to me from God.

  • @nickspur0798
    @nickspur0798 2 месяца назад +24

    What timing! Thank you Lord and thank you Mark for making these videos the past few years. They’ve really helped!🙏🏼

  • @Growninfaith
    @Growninfaith 2 месяца назад +5

    "Why you want something is just as important as what you want." We all struggle with this in different situations. From my current situation I found out that through this test & trail, God was making sure my why is in place b4 He allows me to meet and know the one He has for me. I know He knows all and I trust HIM fully with all of my heart, mind, body, & soul, even through the pain, b/c HIS burden is light and HIS yoke is easy. Thank you Jesus & thank you brother in Christ Mark!!

  • @FLP90
    @FLP90 2 месяца назад +177

    I had a guy who I’ve been friends with for 4 years. Just the last few months out of nowhere I developed strong romantic feelings for him. I expressed my feelings for him and he did not reciprocate… I believe my desires are from God, he is just very scared of marriage so I pray God takes that fear away!

    • @hannahhenderson271
      @hannahhenderson271 2 месяца назад +8

      Something very similar happened to me!

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 2 месяца назад +54

      4 years you've known him. He doesn't want marriage? Sorry. Sounds like a no.

    • @FLP90
      @FLP90 2 месяца назад

      @@danilaroche1156 He does want marriage. He’s letting his fear get the best of him. I also put marriage aside for several years out of fear, especially because of the marital issues and divorces going on around me. But now I’ve changed my mind and desire it.

    • @NickRHT
      @NickRHT 2 месяца назад

      You sound like a phsycho who cant take no for an answer not a knock on you just the way you explained it, btw if it was from god he will also reciprocate buuut maybe it may take time for him who knows

    • @jessiceeoriginal
      @jessiceeoriginal 2 месяца назад +33

      @FLP90 I've known a guy for over twice that many years. I've always been interested but he never was. I am open to whomever God matches me with. This guy has shown interest in me over the past few months but he too is scared. I've learned that us females need to give our hearts over to God and to completely trust in Him. I started a prayer journal just for this issue and been praying to God and seeking Him. Pray for a deeper friendship with this person and ask God for guidance. I've also am understanding that fasting is something that is a tool to be used to seek a deeper relationship with God. Just treat your friend as nothing more than a friend. And I am assuming you are both Christians. Respect him as a Brother-In-Christ. Obey God's voice and wait for His instructions. Blessings to you both.

  • @markh4926
    @markh4926 2 месяца назад +6

    There may be another reason for your desired for a person. Some of us were asked to pray for this woman undergoing critical surgery. After success and knowing the woman I asked if I should stop praying, the answer was to continue. There is very little chance of romance but this is the thing I am praying for her..." save others, snatching them out of the fire; and show mercy to others with fear, hating even the clothing having been stained by the flesh." Jude
    One of those creeps has crept in and although married he has seduced her. This may be the reason God wants for you to continue praying. Something to think about.

  • @Shey025
    @Shey025 2 месяца назад +1

    Just wanted to say thank you. I've been watching you content for about a month now, and God clearly sent your videos to me. They speak directly to my heart. Thank you Mark, you're really preaching to my soul in every video.

  • @e.h.5201
    @e.h.5201 2 месяца назад +19

    My friend went to church for years looked for a Christian spouse, nothing happened my friend went on a dating site, went on a date with a non believer, months later that non believer became a Christian and they got married

    • @Aevans786
      @Aevans786 2 месяца назад

      God's merciful. This is a bad idea! Your friend neglected the counsel of the word. But for the grace they'd have shipwrecked faith.

    • @craneywatch
      @craneywatch 2 месяца назад

      ​@@Aevans786Don't judge them please. They found alternative way to find each other. And that is totally alright.

    • @Aevans786
      @Aevans786 2 месяца назад

      @craneywatch no such thing as an alternative way in Christianity. If something is specific in the word of God,it means what it says. I'm flabbergasted at the number of people who think God's word is up to interpretation.

    • @craneywatch
      @craneywatch 2 месяца назад

      ​@@Aevans786But that what every church where I went does - interpretate God's words.

    • @jayayyyyy
      @jayayyyyy Месяц назад

      Who says this wasn't God's plan? He leads people in the best way sometimes.

  • @AnnTutorials-ot4ef
    @AnnTutorials-ot4ef 2 месяца назад +7

    Thank you for this❤️ im still observing him and guarding my heart as well

  • @shellyspear
    @shellyspear 2 месяца назад +6

    Perfect timing for this message ❤

  • @kennymccormick9594
    @kennymccormick9594 2 месяца назад +9

    Back in 2021, I was talking to this girl who’s my best friend’s neighbor. We were really hitting it off, she is amazing and it looked like I was about to have my first ever relationship. However, that year I also left for the Army and didn’t tell her. I messaged her every now and then and she responded but now she hasn’t replied. I got out early (medical) and I saw she had a boyfriend but I don’t know if they’re still together. I prayed that God would please give me another chance to be with her. I try to forget about her and move on but I don’t know why I can’t. Lord please her my prayer and please give me one more chance.

    • @StrongerOne77
      @StrongerOne77 21 день назад +1

      She may just be in a relationship. You’ll hear from her if or when she’s free.

  • @lebomakatikela7841
    @lebomakatikela7841 2 месяца назад +15

    Was just asking myself tis question today 😅

  • @LoiceCheptoo-th8ng
    @LoiceCheptoo-th8ng 2 месяца назад +4

    I am trusting God for his perfect will, my prayer 🙏 is to connect with my saulmate, my best friend,and God loving man.

  • @cqrrot410
    @cqrrot410 2 месяца назад +1

    I was on holiday and i met this guy who I was instantly attracted to and for some reason, I just started believing more and was praying a lot after I encountered him and he himself was a Christian too. So meeting them really strengthened my trust in God and ever since that day it has been growing stronger and stronger, although I don’t have any contact with that guy and I really miss him.

  • @Threndr19
    @Threndr19 4 дня назад

    I have a desire for a equally yoked guy and i believe that's from God .But above all , Its bringing me more closer to Lord relying on him and waiting patiently than forcing to open closed doors.If its from God and for glory of God, then surrendering everything to Him & praying him to guard our heart will be of great blessings❤!

  • @NicholasRoselli-e8m
    @NicholasRoselli-e8m 2 месяца назад +5

    Glory to God. Thank u Mark for this video

  • @Mr7352
    @Mr7352 2 месяца назад +1

    Thanks Mark..this video did help me to see more clearly the relationship I'm in is most likely my spouse I've been praying for years. God is good. 5:09

  • @LionBearer
    @LionBearer 2 месяца назад +2

    BEAUTIFUL video !! ❤
    ALL Followers of Messiah, PLEASE seek THE MOST HIGH GOD for ALL things !
    Desire ONLY what HE wants wants for YOU ! HE Knows ALL things. Just pray for confirmation and acceptance of HIS will. Ask that confirmation be given as the evil one does disguise himself as an angel of light. Be Blessed in Messiah's Holy Name ❤

  • @MrChachiyo
    @MrChachiyo 2 месяца назад

    The person on my mind brought me closer to God after a fallout. I'm letting God lead us together if it's meant to be.

  • @amyj.4992
    @amyj.4992 2 месяца назад +1

    Confirmation, 😁💓 that God sent me news of my husband 💞🗾🙏🏾🙏🏾💓 I love when God flexes

  • @akindefisayo3267
    @akindefisayo3267 2 месяца назад

    Really hoping and praying for a beautiful lady who serves God faithfully and who would obey the word of before anyone including me! Thats how we both make it to heaven

  • @khensk
    @khensk 2 месяца назад +7

    Needed this, thank you

  • @gracemaryvarghese6619
    @gracemaryvarghese6619 2 месяца назад

    I believe that this is an important message that believers ought to hear. Thank you brother for putting up this vid

  • @vanessaazzopardi9334
    @vanessaazzopardi9334 2 месяца назад +6

    Thank you so much ❤❤❤ May God bless you 🙏🙏🙏

  • @angelavila8289
    @angelavila8289 2 месяца назад

    WOWWW. This is actually a good video, i need this information bcz this young women and i went to dallas Conference Retreat on june, and we talked and developed a friend relationship, but as we soon began to talked, people hit on us that we like each other. The true is i have feelings for this young woman, but i don't know if she doesn't, but im not giving up, and i trust the Lord's time but im also scared to lose her bcz, once we talked our conversation began to dry out and its not the same. I just want her to see that i care for her and that one day she can see that.

  • @Ihavetwobigcats
    @Ihavetwobigcats 2 месяца назад +1

    Hello Mark, I'm not sure if these were signs from God but it was so surreal. I prayed some days ago to ask whether I should move on in the morning, however, I saw his name on the TV and in a Christian book 😳... I think God is asking me not to move on and wait to see what happens later on.

  • @cristinamadrigal4458
    @cristinamadrigal4458 2 месяца назад +1

    There was this guy at my place of work who I thought was godsend because I had been praying for a husband. My job description was different from his and was hard to see him sometimes. But there were moments when I used to get like a butterfly feeling in my stomach, kind of like an urgency kind of feeling. I do housekeeping in a hotel so I would always hurry to finish a room to go to the next and that was when I got that feeling. And like a clock I would see him. Sometimes in the same elevator or in the hallway. After a few exchanged words, we would go out separate ways and the feeling was completely gone. It always happened in the spawn of 2 years since I met him but didn’t connect what was happening until almost the end. Every time I had that same feeling I knew it was because I was going to see him. But now he’s gone to work somewhere else and I didn’t know after a couple of weeks. But now I know he wasn’t the one God had for me. It was very sad to come to the truth but I trust God’s timing.

  • @PropheticSoakingwithSarahJER
    @PropheticSoakingwithSarahJER 2 месяца назад +1

    I see lots of worldly advice here. Always seek God. It might just be a matter of God‘s timing. God often reveals the partner to the female First. Not least because the female is a risk of massive consequences if she ends up with the wrong person. It’s God’s way of keeping us on the shelf until the time is right.

  • @dingding2487
    @dingding2487 2 месяца назад +3

    God bless u brother Mark! Thanks for the video.

  • @johnnaprimm9231
    @johnnaprimm9231 2 месяца назад +4

    There is a young man I have been friends with since third grade, and in the past few years his actions toward me have started to seem a little more than friendly, but he has never expressed how he feels. I know he is a Christian, so I should step back and let him lead, but I do not want to lose him.

    • @DouglasABailey
      @DouglasABailey 2 месяца назад +2

      There are some ways you can encourage him to pursue you. Mark has videos on it.

    • @elaaronvlogs4957
      @elaaronvlogs4957 2 месяца назад +3

      Do as God leads, just like Eve was brought to Adam, and he accepted her, just like Rebecca was brought to Isaac, and he accepted her, without even knowing him, she went. Go up to him, if it's from Our Father, he will accept you automatically, if not, he is not the one, cause you have accepted him, right? In the ways of the world, the man chooses the female, but as believers, the woman chooses her man. That's how you know it's from Our Father.

    • @YAHWEH-YESHUA-MINISTRIES
      @YAHWEH-YESHUA-MINISTRIES 2 месяца назад +2

      ​@elaaronvlogs4957 that's not always the case

    • @elaaronvlogs4957
      @elaaronvlogs4957 2 месяца назад +1

      @@YAHWEH-YESHUA-MINISTRIES for the most part, sorry, but yes it is, Our Father's Word does not say different

    • @YAHWEH-YESHUA-MINISTRIES
      @YAHWEH-YESHUA-MINISTRIES 2 месяца назад

      @elaaronvlogs4957 unlike most cases where thr father's found there sons wives or the men choose there own wives

  • @kmydesire12
    @kmydesire12 2 месяца назад +3

    The doors are not fully open but I feel God is leading him to fully surrender to the Lord
    He’s lukewarm aka back slid. I’m guarding my heart as the Bible states.
    I won’t be lead by my understanding
    I know if he says no it’s no. But so far some of what you said applies

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  2 месяца назад +7

      Amen, don't want to gaslight yourself. If he's not walking with the Lord, he's not the right guy for you :)

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 2 месяца назад

      I waited YEARS for my ex. Don't do it unless your 15 years old and your not. My ex never got right with Christ and he wanted sex. Period.

  • @DeborahMills-cz3kb
    @DeborahMills-cz3kb Месяц назад +1

    Lord pls help me, i don't want to mess up again, i try do things Your way but get it wrong. Please over rule. Close wrong doors open right ones, give me peace, direct my paths. You know me, let Your will be done in Jesus name amen

  • @Jylng
    @Jylng 2 месяца назад

    4/4 Thank you Jesus! ❤️ I trust in Your timing for my fiancee and I and our restoration and reconciliation In Jesus name AMEN!

  • @80sbabyruth
    @80sbabyruth 2 месяца назад +4

    Thank you Lord!❤❤❤❤

  • @mimap275
    @mimap275 2 месяца назад

    Thank u Lord for my godly spouse, amen

  • @CatholicMuslim-dz5rj
    @CatholicMuslim-dz5rj Месяц назад

    Great helpful video thank you

  • @File001
    @File001 2 месяца назад +45

    Even with all those clues, and you feel like this is from God, it must be reciprocated from the other person for that relationship and eventual marriage to be truly of God. If God is "telling you" this is the person you should marry/be married to, and you're the only one who "gets this message" and the other side doesn't feel the same way, then reexamine what God is "telling you". Be careful, brothers and sisters, with interpreting God's will through signs and things He allows to happen, and reading too much into them (going beyond God's revealed will in Scripture), as if you can know perfectly the reason behind them - as in, "God brought him/her into my life, and these things happen, and these coincidence, so He must want us to get married". You can't do this, and you will make a mistake, possibly sin, and can end up getting heart broken... Trust me, I know...

    • @christopherbic7688
      @christopherbic7688 2 месяца назад +3

      Well said.
      I have learned, and am learning, to give all, 100%, to relationships. That is the 'cost' of love.
      It is not reciprocated. So I ask "why would God give me all of these things if she is not the one?".
      It could be immaturity on her part, or mine, or both. It could be 'us' and not GOD.
      Technically, a relationship is a comparison or contrast between two or more things.
      A ball in my hand is a relationship. I can give everything to the ball while it sits there, and receive no reciprocation.
      I believe that true love is giving with no expectation of any return. Freely given. Freely received.
      I am not changing or reniggimg my efforts.
      I simply set the ball down and go play horseshoes.
      Thank you for your words.
      God bless.

    • @FLP90
      @FLP90 2 месяца назад +8

      I’ve heard enough love stories to know that reciprocation in romantic feelings don’t always come at the exact same time. Don’t give up on someone because they don’t immediately like you that way. Continue to pray for this person, put yourself in their proximity and view, and wait.

    • @File001
      @File001 2 месяца назад +5

      @@FLP90 Absolutely. My point would be that if it doesn't come in some rasonable time , then it won't come at all, and the best thing then is to move on.

    • @andreamegec9836
      @andreamegec9836 2 месяца назад +2

      What to do when person doesnt reciprocate love over ten years except first beginning of relationship. And then crumbs . And one is newborn christian other isnt and doesnt want to obey Lord. What to do? Also person have bad thinking about comitment marriage doesnt understand value of wovs in biblical way. Is this like God saying no

    • @penelope8076
      @penelope8076 2 месяца назад +2

      If a man and a women are married, then it is God’s will for them to be married (divorce only permitted in very specific situations. eg adultery. (read the Bible for this)). I think the original commenter is saying if you are not married and the person you are interested in is not showing any interest back, that maybe it’s not God’s will for that marriage so to be careful in forcing your own opinions and saying that your own opinion is definitely what God told you.

  • @matty8272
    @matty8272 Месяц назад

    After growing up in the church for 25 years its safe to say god never gave me a desire. He diid instill a great distrust of basically everything. I guess that helps.

  • @melissaann1986
    @melissaann1986 2 месяца назад

    Definitely needed this! Thank you!

  • @nnnnnnnnnataliem
    @nnnnnnnnnataliem 2 месяца назад

    These videos are always timely blessings! 🙏😊

  • @moniquefrazier5195
    @moniquefrazier5195 2 месяца назад

    I absolutely needed to hear this!!!! Thank you!

  • @ednamariacroxton8859
    @ednamariacroxton8859 2 месяца назад +2

    I think is relative. I know 2 cases that the persons were not christians. You would think they shouldn't be around them. The first case he talked to her about Christ and she wasn't convinced at the beginning but eventually she came to Christ and accepted Him and this couple has at list 20 years together married. The second case the person wasn't Christian but was invited to the church, in this second case eventually he came to Christ and the couple got married as well. Not saying people should go and pursue relationships with unbelievers but this not means necessarily that these signs are exactly from God and that will happen to everyone. If you have feelings for someone just pray about it. God is faithful and He will give you an answer and direction, but I don't think just follow specific signs. Not necessarily will be just like that. Just my opinion.

  • @jewishbride5010
    @jewishbride5010 Месяц назад

    Praise God for helping me to not want anything that does not profit! I therefore bind myself and my god-ordained spouse to not desire anyone else to marry than one's god-ordained spouse while binding one to desire marriage only with one's god-ordained spouse, binding to hell every unequal yoke and common share with anyone desiring to marry me while not being my god-ordained spouse, in accordance with this word and philippians 2:13, 1 corinthians 6:12, hebrews 13:4, acts 16:7-8, james 4:3, john 15:13, 2 timothy 2:22, 2 corinthians 6:14-18 in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah, glory to God ❤!

  • @robbyefulghum2038
    @robbyefulghum2038 2 месяца назад

    This was great...and right on point...💯

  • @craneywatch
    @craneywatch 2 месяца назад

    Man, I have to tell you that you look handsome, healthy, strong and financially successful. I bet many women would not mind the man like you.

  • @lalrinengichhangte8222
    @lalrinengichhangte8222 2 месяца назад

    I met my ex-boyfriend in the year 2006 at College. He wins my heart after 4 yrs and we were in a relationship for 2 yrs. But we broke up because of alcohol. Still,he used to call me up not quite often but very consistent till today. He wasn't in a serious relationship anymore after we broke up,but instead he is in a deep relationship with alcohol till today.He isn't a very holy person/church guy which is also a red flag for me. Lately, I've been praying to God with only one subject for 30 days and I kept it going with another 30days and new subject. My heart has been shut down for him for the past 10yrs but recently it slowly opens up again. He has been taking about marriage all the time even though we are not officially in a relationship yet. And I am still very confused if it's God's answer to my prayers or Setan's trick or just my own desire.

    • @trudyanngordon7986
      @trudyanngordon7986 2 месяца назад +1

      I hope and pray that you'll get clarity on the matter

  • @mariannanicole6205
    @mariannanicole6205 2 месяца назад

    Please pray God will lead, guide and direct me to the special man that I should mary, I have been single for many years.

  • @makaelaramzanali8261
    @makaelaramzanali8261 2 месяца назад +4

    Thanks!

  • @keysjackson
    @keysjackson 2 месяца назад

    All four!!! Praise God ❤

  • @Eloweh
    @Eloweh 2 месяца назад +1

    What I know for a fact is that way too many of these relationship videos are popping up. It’s getting annoying.
    I’m a godly man and I walk with the Lord, maybe one day some others will follow him with me. But at this point if I see an attractive woman I’m going to ask for her number. My only rules to dating are boundaries and being Christian. Everyone struggles with things so if they struggle with something, whatever, so do I.
    These videos are getting tiring because they’re all made to source in views. Maybe some were made to actually help, but at this point the only one who knows God’s voice is the one who listens to it. Don’t tell me or anyone what it will sound like because it sounds different to everyone in the context of him speaking.
    TL;DR If you walk with Christ you will know his voice. Too many videos like this, we only need so many.

  • @tammywilliams3869
    @tammywilliams3869 Месяц назад

    Amen 🙏 God bless!

  • @irism.miller1436
    @irism.miller1436 2 месяца назад

    I needed this thank you

  • @stefangebhard7074
    @stefangebhard7074 2 месяца назад

    Huge thumbs up, indeed! 👍

  • @Danny-sj7il
    @Danny-sj7il Месяц назад

    I'm so tired, I've had feelings for a Godly woman. Even though she does not have them for me. For a couple years now, even though I ask God what it means I have not yet gotten an answer. We do not cross lines, and have a good friendship. It seems like we've only gotten closer. I have been patient, and I told God I have given this to Him and that's it's in His hands. I'm tired

    • @ninamuthoni9651
      @ninamuthoni9651 29 дней назад +1

      1. Being tired means you are being impatient. You need to fully trust in God Proverbs 3:5
      He has your best interest at heart Jeremiah 27:11
      2. "A Godly woman" who has no feelings for you? Be careful not to force issues.
      Also Be the kind of person the person you are looking for is looking for.
      PS: His grace is sufficient for us. Remain steadfast. Don't throw in the towel; don't compromise. 💛

  • @Jazzrocks-b4t
    @Jazzrocks-b4t 2 месяца назад

    1 sign that beats all 4,
    Im already happily married to Christ its all I ever needed
    The restbis just stinky grass

  • @grannydeg9728
    @grannydeg9728 2 месяца назад

    This sounds just like what I’m currently going through

  • @Bangastarch
    @Bangastarch 2 месяца назад

    May the good lord .. replenish you ..

  • @womanclothedwithsun
    @womanclothedwithsun 2 месяца назад

    You can desire only someone whom you have already seen.

  • @CrownedJulz
    @CrownedJulz 2 месяца назад

    Great way to break it down

  • @333rd_JokersCard
    @333rd_JokersCard 2 месяца назад

    So my friend who is a Christian, who recently started dating a married man, also a Christian from my church, who both affirm that they know this relationship and intense feelings are of Gods will, who also then had this confirmed by a 3rd party pastor who attends our church…might not be of Gods will? (That was sarcasm, of course I know that this relationship is not of Gods will.)
    I also have feelings for this said female friend, and I am going the way of John 15:13 and stepping out of the church for a season to ideally lose my feelings for her, as a sacrifice of my home and family for this girl. I may not be dying for her, but it is still a huge sacrifice for me. I will be touring several other churches in the greater area around me and hoping to gain more community and connection with other bodies of believers in this time.
    Thoughts? Prayers? Feel free to chime in!

  • @Harrietsimplerecipes
    @Harrietsimplerecipes 2 месяца назад

    Number 4 should have been number first above the whole rest. Jesus protect & bless you all in Jesus name I pray ask trust and believe amen.

  • @GregoryD-if5xg
    @GregoryD-if5xg 2 месяца назад +2

    had strong feeling for someone new. all the sign pointed to interested and it bein a god thing , then suddenly last night after literally almost gettinv together she disapears from the convo i call bavk and she says she has a boyfriend and is going there rn. i am pretty upset. please pray for me i didnt want to wakeup today. and tbh thinking of checking out

    • @mailekaaihue4267
      @mailekaaihue4267 2 месяца назад +2

      Praying for you bro just trust God don't let this take you down

  • @makaelaramzanali8261
    @makaelaramzanali8261 2 месяца назад +4

    Yay new video!! 🙌🏼

  • @rosierb852
    @rosierb852 2 месяца назад

    Hi Mark, please I need advice.
    Ok, so here’s my situation, I came out of a pruning season where I was talking long distance online with a guy, then he disappeared, then I cut out a few other people in my life.
    But, a over a month ago or so, this guy at my job, came into the area where I was working, and I noticed him and felt drawn to him and I asked him stuff about him and he’s a kind of shy. I wasn’t at first, but then once I came out my pruning season, I started seeing this guy in a different light. I even moved to a department of the lab that’s right next to his. I mean we can see each other from a distance but close as well. He always greets me, he’s nervous, and is shy to make eye contact. And I light up when he greets me and blush. He looks nothing how God showed me in my dreams my spouse would look like. But he’s attractive. Then this week, every time I saw him, but chest felt like it was on fire spreading thought my my body that made me feel kind of weakened, never felt that before.
    The other day I saw him, we ended up bumping into each other in the break room he asked me about myself and I am now shy and blushing so much, as much as him. Then after this I went back to my work and I was smiling and felt peace and joy, I asked God for more confirmation and for my next break I went back into the break room and he was there again! And we made eye contact he was eating and made a huge gulp, got nervous. I grab my things and went outside for my lunch as I usually do. I wanted to say something but I was too nervous.
    I wasn’t nervous at first when I first saw him as I was drawn to him and he told me he saw me around. But now I’m trying to stop these feelings because they are really powerful. I asked God to help me stop these feelings. I only had this put in my spirit, this what you wanted and prayed for.
    I was about to leave the country but God guided me to changing my flight dates twice. I haven’t felt this way before about anyone. And I have had a few relationships. I can’t stop thinking about him even when I try to. I prayed to God last night to give me a sign and I dreamt about him. This morning I still am thinking of him. I don’t know he’s very shy and nervous only with me but he wanted to know more about me and o got nervous and shy. I get really lightweight feelings, and like my body is floating as if something is guiding me. I kept fight one my feelings now they’re worse and I really feel like he’s the one.

  • @Abaqdeawssssssss
    @Abaqdeawssssssss 2 месяца назад +1

    I ran because,at first I thought we were aspiring to the same things, but I discovered that we were not fighting for the same thing.so I

  • @christinas3161
    @christinas3161 2 месяца назад

    Brother kindly pray for my daughter iam looking for a God fearing person is the re any God fearing person in this world what is god's will please help me

  • @christinemerritt974
    @christinemerritt974 2 месяца назад

    I knew it😂❤!

  • @tinag8774
    @tinag8774 2 месяца назад +2

    Thank you for this message
    Amen 🙏🙌🙏

  • @smokingcrab2290
    @smokingcrab2290 2 месяца назад +1

    I'm so sick of all of this overthinking everything and constantly having to edit your thoughts and desires through a God lense. Next video will be "how to know if your desire to be good is from God or from yourself"
    If you and the other person are Christian, believe the same things, love the same things, and care for each other in the ways you love, then it's from God. All good things are from God.

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 13 дней назад

      I don't want to overthink but we are in very evil times. Satan is unleashing unprecedented warfare.

  • @joyjoytotheworld2427
    @joyjoytotheworld2427 2 месяца назад

    Thank you

  • @stargazingcatgirl3233
    @stargazingcatgirl3233 2 месяца назад +1

    I have a very serious question, and it may sound strange. Suppose there is someone you love more than you ever loved anyone, and you know in your heart that God made you for him, but God didn't make him. Why would God custom make my heart just for him, but he is someone I can never meet, much less be with? I don't understand! If God loves me and wants me to be happy, then why did he make me for a man that he didn't even create?

    • @DouglasABailey
      @DouglasABailey 2 месяца назад +1

      I find your question interesting but a little unclear... You said there is 'someone you love' and 'he doesn't exist'.
      Does that mean you don't have a specific person in mind?
      Also, unless you have met all men, how do you know he doesn't exist?

    • @lacy9984
      @lacy9984 2 месяца назад +2

      We can be deceived by our hearts. I've been crazy about a man I feel was my soul mate. I was stuck on this man for years. I did this. Pray and ask God to take your feelings away that are not from him. And to but His desires in your heart. Be patient, stay prayerful, also take this love you have towards this man and love your self and those around you. God created man then woman and has a man out here who will make you a wife and give you the love you deserve. God promise to give our hearts desires when we focus on him. ❤️🙏

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 2 месяца назад +1

      God will ALLOW this to grow you. To draw you closer. He will allow it but most likely he's not the one. I know it hurts. Let it go.

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 2 месяца назад +2

      ​Yes, the heart is deceitful. Pray to hear His voice.

  • @shalom.harlow_
    @shalom.harlow_ 2 месяца назад +3

    Amen 🙏❤️

  • @karenac670
    @karenac670 2 месяца назад

    I had a desire for 2 Christian men.. even tho I’m in a committed relationship

  • @hitoritsukumi8175
    @hitoritsukumi8175 2 месяца назад

    Amen ❤️ ❤️ Hallelujah ❤️ ❤️

  • @StMichael-s1j
    @StMichael-s1j 2 месяца назад +1

    Amen hallelujah 🇮🇳

  • @tracyoguntokun4284
    @tracyoguntokun4284 2 месяца назад +4

    Amen 🙏✝️🙏♥️😇🕊️

  • @susanbrooks3337
    @susanbrooks3337 2 месяца назад

    P .S. Dont expect Gods Blessings when you are having sexual sin. IT DOESN'T WORK THAT WAY.
    Spiritual is physical. For every sexual sin you commit.you have soul ties with that person in rhe spiritul realm.
    That is why you cant forget them.
    Or desire to return to a destructive relationship

  • @jeremycarpenter5550
    @jeremycarpenter5550 2 месяца назад

    I am praying for a proverbs 31 woman .

    • @LORDGODsPROPHET
      @LORDGODsPROPHET 2 месяца назад

      Proverbs 31 was written about a woman already married for 20 or 30 or 40 years. She has adult kids and grandkids and multiple maids. This is not a young child bride.

  • @cherubin7th
    @cherubin7th 2 месяца назад +2

    No the only desire from God is the desire to become celibate and follow Jesus.

  • @manofmayhem1488
    @manofmayhem1488 2 месяца назад

    And if they chose to cheat on you and do whorse acts a steal from you?

  • @TheFreeman1843
    @TheFreeman1843 2 месяца назад

    Why am I questioning God's plans?

  • @TerrellSwepson-l8d
    @TerrellSwepson-l8d 28 дней назад

    Rebeca Estates

  • @prscfilms8124
    @prscfilms8124 2 месяца назад

    Aiden markram and his wife in the thumbnail

  • @JoyleiaJo
    @JoyleiaJo 2 месяца назад

    3:52 #friendship

  • @gillianwilliam5688
    @gillianwilliam5688 2 месяца назад

    I'm looking for serious relationship.

  • @PaulKendrick-y5d
    @PaulKendrick-y5d Месяц назад

    Turner Union

  • @NathanaelJosiah
    @NathanaelJosiah 2 месяца назад

    No.3

  • @eruiz1180
    @eruiz1180 2 месяца назад

    She is divorced, her ex cheated and was an unbeliever. I guess the desire is not from God?

  • @goosehammy4837
    @goosehammy4837 2 месяца назад +1

    i benefited, Thanks.

  • @JoyleiaJo
    @JoyleiaJo 2 месяца назад

    3:31

  • @BurgerBoyda3rd
    @BurgerBoyda3rd 2 месяца назад +1

    Mark. Im giving up