Meeting The One Will Be DIFFERENT Because God Will . . .

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  • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
    @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  4 года назад +50

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      @metaphorincarnate 4 года назад +4

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    • @Rosalina_Wolf
      @Rosalina_Wolf 4 года назад +2

      I would take the courses, but I'm still too young

    • @metaphorincarnate
      @metaphorincarnate 4 года назад

      @@Rosalina_Wolf I think anyone can do a heart check. That's the first one. It's practical for making sure you don't have any idols.

    • @tiffanyd.8660
      @tiffanyd.8660 4 года назад +1

      When will this be offered again in 2021?

    • @nononsensetaken
      @nononsensetaken 4 года назад

      Amen Amen🙏

  • @GloryEzeude
    @GloryEzeude 4 года назад +1130

    My biggest fear is getting into the wrong relationship so I pray that God truly revels the one to me and that it truly is different!

    • @jayjay-nm7dv
      @jayjay-nm7dv 4 года назад +81

      ABBA did not give us a spirit of FEAR, but of POWER, LOVE & A SOUND MIND!

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  4 года назад +112

      Yes, it takes time and wisdom to go through the right seasons with one to properly assess it all :)

    • @tristancatholic
      @tristancatholic 4 года назад +73

      Don't worry if you keep praying, and are able to discern God's voice you won't get in the wrong relationship. God will not let you if you lean on him.

    • @blessedaslexx6049
      @blessedaslexx6049 4 года назад +51

      Our Father who art in heaven hallowed be thy name we pray for no counterfeits and all be removed in Jesus name lead and reveal the one to us in Jesus name and us to them amen we pray and agree today and we just stand in faith in Jesus name and wait and watch you work and do it amen

    • @leubanks3921
      @leubanks3921 4 года назад +34

      Me too. I pray to be able to see and know what’s Gods will and not mine.

  • @MsValeryJane
    @MsValeryJane 4 года назад +622

    1. When you meet the One, it will be different, because it will be both biblical and emotional.
    The 2nd Biblical Requirement for Marriage is a personal desire
    2. When you meet the One, it will be different, because you will be attracted to their Spirituality, Personality and Physical Appearance.
    3. When you meet the One, it will be desirable and achievable.
    4. When you meet the One, it will be mutual and long lasting.

    • @tilly012011
      @tilly012011 4 года назад +9

      Amen.

    • @trudy_triad
      @trudy_triad 4 года назад +34

      So important that it's mutual. ❤

    • @Emilsy777
      @Emilsy777 4 года назад +3

      🤔

    • @jennaharmonn
      @jennaharmonn 3 года назад +14

      The guy I was seeing was a coward and ghosted me, I can't wait for the real deal.

    • @MathMadeSimple777
      @MathMadeSimple777 3 года назад +12

      The relationship will be hard and easy in healthy ways

  • @emilywalton4105
    @emilywalton4105 4 года назад +668

    ❤️April 7th, 2021 I get to marry the man of my prayers. It will be our 10 month anniversary. Praying for your future husband does work. I use to watch these videos all the time. ❤️

    • @nathanheath3756
      @nathanheath3756 4 года назад +57

      I can relate! You are so correct! I prayed for my future wife and God brought her to me and all the checks from this video checked off. Praise God ! We plan on getting married next year also. Congratulations on your future marriage !

    • @fatiie
      @fatiie 4 года назад +15

      Congratulations to the both of you 💟❣

    • @nathanheath3756
      @nathanheath3756 4 года назад +6

      @@fatiie thank you very much :)

    • @jamielyn9923
      @jamielyn9923 4 года назад +11

      Wow! Congratulations! Such a blessing! So you were together a total of 10 months in April?! That’s exciting

    • @aprilgracecinco2859
      @aprilgracecinco2859 4 года назад +6

      Congratulations and best wishes😊❤️

  • @dirtcop11
    @dirtcop11 4 года назад +397

    I have seen something and even fallen victim to this myself, it is running ahead of God in a relationship. If you run ahead, even with someone who might be "the one" you can ruin the relationship. You may need to learn something before it can bear fruit. Like growing something in a garden, the seed needs to be planted, the plant needs to be nurtured, and the fruit needs to ripen. The harvest only happens when the fruit is ready to be harvested. Don't be impatient, if it is the one, it will happen. God is to be trusted at all levels in the relationship.

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  4 года назад +20

      God bless Jesse

    • @ninalovesyoupodcast9883
      @ninalovesyoupodcast9883 4 года назад +12

      This is so true. I've truly gotten saved this year in April. I left the one that was for me back in 2016. For a fleshly desire. I was decieved by satan. God reveleved to me recently who is the man he has made for me. This is a true statement you wrote because I went threw it. God bless you all

    • @jessicaaye3738
      @jessicaaye3738 4 года назад

      Amen

    • @sweetnessmtui7052
      @sweetnessmtui7052 3 года назад +2

      Well said jesse🙏stay blessed

    • @ninalovesyoupodcast9883
      @ninalovesyoupodcast9883 3 года назад +3

      @@girlsattitudequotes1228 the holy spirit will let you know. Matthew 6:33 💙

  • @adventuresofxyz22
    @adventuresofxyz22 4 года назад +172

    Wait on HIS perfect timing, I love that. Sometimes we think we know our timing.

    • @marcelwilliams1736
      @marcelwilliams1736 3 года назад +1

      Proverbs 16:9
      God please provide her with your direction and protection

    • @multicreativeartist6579
      @multicreativeartist6579 3 года назад +1

      But how do we know it's God's timing? Like how do we know if we should talk to the person?

    • @altheaturner9805
      @altheaturner9805 3 года назад +1

      Many congratulations on your marriage and finding the one that is God’s will for your life! I pray that God will bless you both in your future endeavors and may your marriage give glory to HIM …. BLESSINGS my sister I am so happy for you!❤️😊🙏

  • @Life_with_Ginni
    @Life_with_Ginni 3 года назад +113

    I started to follow jesus in 2020 august and my family is follow hinduism .But I have this hope that I ll find' the One"one day
    -Through Christ
    -For Christ
    -With christ
    Pray right now when you are reading this for I pray the same for you

    • @mysterymachine94
      @mysterymachine94 3 года назад +6

      Dear heavenly father, hallowed be thy name, we come to you and thank you for this new sister in Christ. We pray that you send her a God fearing man that will love her unconditionally, just like you do. In Jesus' sweet name, Amen 🙏🏼 ❤🥰

    • @Bd-mp8mt
      @Bd-mp8mt 2 года назад +2

      Amen🙏❤️❤️

    • @joellec.1861
      @joellec.1861 2 года назад +2

      Hope you are doing well. Praying for your protection and that your family will also turn to Christ ❤️

    • @kshamaaghamkar2096
      @kshamaaghamkar2096 Год назад +1

      Amen 🙏 Sister.

  • @SleepyFox4000
    @SleepyFox4000 5 месяцев назад +7

    Wow I hadn't thought about it that way, but I once dated a guy who it was clear to me had a different calling from God. We both wanted a family, but he wanted that life while traveling and I wanted to remain near my home town and settle down. I didn't want to string him along, so I broke up with him. It was the hardest breakup I had ever done because so many boxes were checked and it felt like if I only put more work into it, I could have made it work.
    A little after that, as a clear answer to prayers, I met my now fiance. I am grateful for the short relationship I had with that ex because it led me so much closer to God. The things it changed in me were things my fiance remarked were qualities that drew him to me. Looking back I was glad God gave me the strength to walk away so that He could bless me with something even better.

  • @bensherwin2140
    @bensherwin2140 3 года назад +82

    I think one main thing is being missed here: these points do require work. You don’t just find ‘the one’ and instantly connect in these ways. For example, it takes humility to grow in understanding one another’s differences Spiritually, emotionally and so on. You can’t make a judgement of someone at face value and based on your own understanding. Rather you should allow God to reveal aspects about this person.

  • @sweetnessmtui7052
    @sweetnessmtui7052 3 года назад +64

    Dear lord
    Please send me a man that you created for me,and when he comes please show me the sign that he is the one for me so that I will not chase him away
    You will be done,in Jesus name🙏🙏

  • @bryanmarshallzion
    @bryanmarshallzion 4 года назад +94

    Yes God is showing me my Rebekah.. After years of waiting....

  • @stephaniealcala4230
    @stephaniealcala4230 4 года назад +77

    Dear father lord I pray one day you send me a man of GOD ❤️

    • @blackpillfitness9136
      @blackpillfitness9136 2 года назад +2

      God, help this girl find the one who is right for her. Amen.

  • @txwarriorbride5112
    @txwarriorbride5112 4 года назад +87

    The number one for me is spiritual attraction. Hasn't always been, but have learned from past mistakes. 😂 The fact that he is the only physically attractive man in the world to me now came because of what he is spiritually first. Looks can change in an instant, but a heart that loves the LORD and cares for others is something that has real value to me. 😍

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  4 года назад +3

      God bless!

    • @alisoncanty5660
      @alisoncanty5660 4 года назад +2

      That is so true.

    • @EverydayNaga
      @EverydayNaga 2 года назад

      She's going to have that on me 🤣

    • @ModernTraveler
      @ModernTraveler 6 месяцев назад +1

      This is what I’m dealing with right now. I’m spiritually attracted to a woman who is easily the most beautiful woman on the face of the earth (to me). And she’s smart and humble. And easily the sweetest person I’ve ever met. 😊

  • @ashleynicole2963
    @ashleynicole2963 4 года назад +157

    First! Not that it's relevant lol! But just reading the word a lot and started my new job that I'm in love with. God is good and I can't wait to see what's in store for 2021! Lately, things have been coming together!

    • @marryjane1684
      @marryjane1684 4 года назад +6

      WHOOT WHOOT 🥳 LOL

    • @ashleynicole2963
      @ashleynicole2963 4 года назад +2

      @@marryjane1684 hahaha yes🥳🥳

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  4 года назад +4

      Nice!!

    • @12Messenger
      @12Messenger 4 года назад +1

      Yes Ashley

    • @ashleynicole2963
      @ashleynicole2963 4 года назад +2

      @@12Messenger Yee!!!! I guess I'm still wondering if he rejected me because he was going to be gone from the military for a couple months a year ago. But now he's back and he shows the same signs

  • @hunterhutson1560
    @hunterhutson1560 4 года назад +211

    Man I’m excited to see what God has been leading me to, I’ve had such a roller coaster of emotions lately and it is all seeming to come together and leading me to the one so I am excited

  • @stefaniadiamond
    @stefaniadiamond 11 месяцев назад +5

    Im not Christian & dont know how these videos kepg getting referred to me but they're really good...I like all the Bible referrences as examples

    • @FernGray
      @FernGray 2 месяца назад

      Maybe for a divine reason...i pray that God continues to draw you closer to him through these videos and the scriptures that Mark highlights..

  • @jamesj2022
    @jamesj2022 4 года назад +25

    2 Corinthians 3:17
    “Now the Lord is that Spirit: and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is liberty.”

  • @2008LadyLaura
    @2008LadyLaura 3 года назад +49

    When you meet the one...there will be no confusion, doubt. There will be mutual respect and honor. No red flags is the one in addition to the same interests and values.

    • @hannahlanterman6625
      @hannahlanterman6625 2 года назад +6

      every person has flaws so there likely will be things you dont like and struggles you have to go through so idk about that there will most likely be red flags

    • @Ms6footer
      @Ms6footer 2 года назад +2

      @@hannahlanterman6625 yes we all have flaws but the flaws will be ones that no matter what we can still be with that person and work on those things. So its not a red flag.

    • @liome8747
      @liome8747 5 месяцев назад

      Flows are part of life, it means nothing when you are together with right person😊

  • @youfoundme4939
    @youfoundme4939 3 года назад +13

    I pray that I will meet the one soon. Someone who I can pray with. connect with. An both be attractive to one another.

  • @Kelly_Silverman
    @Kelly_Silverman 4 года назад +86

    Thank you for mentioning the physical attraction part. Believe it or not, I've had a Pastor tell me that it didn't matter if I attracted to the man or not; as long as he would be a leader and take care of me 🙄🙄

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  4 года назад +80

      yeah, I doubt he lived by that standard when he got married, lol :)

    • @janderson947
      @janderson947 4 года назад +24

      Anyone can be a leader that doesn't mean hes the one God chose for you just pray for discernment and focus on your purpose Adam had a job before eve came into the picture...

    • @Kelly_Silverman
      @Kelly_Silverman 4 года назад +7

      @@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger Exactly!! 😂😂

    • @rtendotapiwa306
      @rtendotapiwa306 4 года назад +7

      You were very right to roll your eyes. There are so many leaders who aren't GODly but are doing the will of GOD. Cyrus immediately comes to mind. Darius, Pharaoh, Herod...I could carry on. Dare I add Judas to that list? 😂 ai, this pastor

    • @Kelly_Silverman
      @Kelly_Silverman 4 года назад +2

      @@1911DP Agreed!

  • @andrew11bravo11
    @andrew11bravo11 3 года назад +14

    i'm praying for a God fearing wife too

  • @chrisvanhorn6095
    @chrisvanhorn6095 3 года назад +24

    I believe god has been disciplining me to bless me so I can find the one I'm meant to marry. I've watched just about every video you've made and it has proven true or useful to me at different periods of time. God has worked through you to help heal and teach me more than I thought possible. Thank you and God bless you and everyone's lives you touch.

  • @ChristopherDolby
    @ChristopherDolby 4 года назад +50

    🌟 This message is so GOOD!! Since coming to faith, I have known just an incredible Joy and Peace that surpasses all understanding... God is awesome, amen?! 👊😇🌟

  • @tiffanyd.8660
    @tiffanyd.8660 4 года назад +14

    I had a friend I really cared for deeply, who cared for me too, and I told him that God spoke to me about he and I being together. I think he got scared and believed I was one of those girls who think that God said to me that he going to be my husband. He stopped speaking to me and said he felt pressured. I was heartbroken. I believe God is telling me to wait and be patient, but it's been awhile now. Please pray that if this truly is from God, that God will touch upon his heart and reveal this to him. I'm running out of patience and tired of being alone. 😞🙏🏽

    • @albertbailey5574
      @albertbailey5574 4 года назад +4

      Love is patient and kind...I’m going through the exact same thing and God had showed me two dreams so it’s been confirmed for me but if you know for sure God has showed you don’t give up...his timing is perfect and it will happen when you truly focus on his purpose for you and just let him handle all things

    • @constancebennett9786
      @constancebennett9786 3 года назад +2

      Surrender and let go of the fear of loss. The opposite of fear is faith!🙏

  • @iwl-5ccdc337
    @iwl-5ccdc337 11 месяцев назад +1

    I have been blessed with recently meeting a woman who meets all of these requirements. Thank you Jesus for answering both of our prayers.

  • @Theanointed37
    @Theanointed37 4 года назад +21

    Amen brother, whoever is reading this may God bless you with the desires of your heart in the name of JESUS Amen 🙌🙌🙌🙏☝️😊

  • @vexzel5773
    @vexzel5773 4 года назад +26

    My Father my Father, holy is your name
    Praise and worship to your Glory
    In the name of my king of kings
    The Messiah, Jesus The Christ
    I pray
    My Father, I thank you
    I love you
    Thank you for all that you do and all that you don't do
    I'm at peace and happy when I pray in spirit with my best friend and brother Jesus
    Father, my Father
    May your will be done
    Knowing you know all my alpha and omega
    I pray just as I talk to and walk with my God
    I ask trusting I will receive
    Father I pray for the holy spirit
    And I thank you for my daily bread
    I ask you forgive me of my sins just as I forgive others
    Help me to love just as Jesus loved me
    My Father, I love you
    You above all because you're a awesome dad. You raised me and are always there even when I rebel.
    My father, you take owner ship of my heart, love, soul, body, spirit, and mind
    Nothing will ever replace you
    My Father I pray
    I ask for a wife
    I still haven't completed the bible
    But I hope with a wife who has a love for the Father
    And a spirit of Christ
    Together we can glorify your holiness
    I want a wife, kids, and to adopt many children and people into a ministry dedicated to providing a home, education, food, and hobbies for people
    For the sick, old, lost, forgotten, depressed, suicidal, angry, hurt, abused, abandoned, empty, impulsive, lacking attention, traumatized, addicted, poor, homeless, lazy, troubled, attacked (persecuted), tired, hungry, hopeless, different, I'll accept anyone with open arms into the family because we're all your children.
    A place to grow and love as we humans are supposed to. Building leaders for your kingdom with memories born from your love.
    I ask for a partner on this journey in life
    One that wants to be my wife
    And mother of my children
    I hope in time we can change the hearts of many and show them that God is real
    His love is pure
    And it's really as only as hard as we want it to be
    But it is right
    And while this satanic world drifts down a fallen timeline
    I hope to trust in my lord
    And build a safe heaven where the truth is taught, seen and heard
    A place where your love gives life and hope
    Where the holy spirit guides
    Angels sing as they protect
    We grow food in your loving blessings
    Where we're strong in faith no matter his many times we fall or Satan sends a storm to destroy everything
    Our soul belongs to you and that is what matters
    I pray father
    I surrender everything to you
    I trust in your will
    I thank you
    Bless you father
    May you bless Israel and may you bless all souls
    Everyday thank you father in heaven
    In Jesus Christ name
    I thank you for always being there for me
    I'm grateful for our relationship
    That you see and know who I am
    You're there for me even when I doubt
    It may feel like 100% that you're not there, but you're 100000% the only thing that is real
    You're holy and perfect my father
    I thank you for playing with me
    I love to sing for you
    I love you
    In the name of the messiah I pray
    I thank you my Father, Jesus, and holy spirit
    May you bless me with the holy spirit
    And may your will be done
    Amen
    Thank you

    • @susanneedham2836
      @susanneedham2836 3 года назад

      Beautiful 😍

    • @sandrastephenson9467
      @sandrastephenson9467 2 месяца назад +1

      I pray to Father God in the name of Jesus and through his Holy Spirit, that he hears your hearts cry. That he blesses you in a mighty way. That he raises you up and you find the helpmate that he has ordained for you. As you are brought forth into the great commission, that he protects you and gives you wisdom. In Jesus Holy name let it be so for the glory of God. Amen

  • @tyshtysh9337
    @tyshtysh9337 4 года назад +14

    May God bring me the one man for me

  • @Ooweeeooo
    @Ooweeeooo 4 дня назад

    This video was very thought-provoking and clarifying for me. I moved a few states because I thought I had met the one and wanted to live closer to him. But soon after I moved, we started feeling less connected. Looking back, I realize that I was lacking spiritual attraction to him, and also our lives did not line up very well in terms of timing. We also struggled a lot with sexual thoughts in that relationship, and now I can see that we weren’t good for each other. But I believe God allowed us to go through that to learn. I feel like I learned a lot about what’s important in a godly relationship and what I need in a husband.
    I have recently gotten close with a friend at church who is also in choir with me. We have naturally connected and have the same values spiritually. We are closer in age and life stage. It doesn’t feel forced at all. I don’t know where it will go, but we will see what God’s plan is.
    Glory to God!

  • @darianbroomfield8361
    @darianbroomfield8361 4 года назад +61

    I haven’t found love yet I’ve been single for 6 years but I’ve been focusing heavily on myself I know god has somebody for me even though I have autism it is very possible for me to find love I am a handsome hardworking man and I know god has the right woman for me I won’t give up hope 🙏🏾

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  4 года назад +3

      God bless!

    • @ashleynicole2963
      @ashleynicole2963 4 года назад +2

      I hope I find someone too. But just keep praying 🙏

    • @darianbroomfield8361
      @darianbroomfield8361 4 года назад

      @@ashleynicole2963 thank you I will find somebody but right now I’m focusing on myself trying to pursue my career and you will find somebody soon enough I know you will 🙏🏾

    • @ashleynicole2963
      @ashleynicole2963 4 года назад

      @@darianbroomfield8361 same. I've been focusing on my life and my relationship with God

    • @darianbroomfield8361
      @darianbroomfield8361 4 года назад

      @@ashleynicole2963 right me to as well

  • @CourtneyA.
    @CourtneyA. 4 года назад +68

    I recently stopped talking to a guy I met on a Christian dating site because our interests and goals were totally different, even though biblically we were on the same page. I wanted to get married and start and family in the near future and he seemed reluctant to the idea of marriage until he met certain financial goals and he didn't want to have children at all because he thought it was pointless being that we're in the Last Days. Prior to finding this out, I felt the Holy Spirit telling me it wouldn't work out because our friendship was never progressing even after over three months and I wasn't attracted to him physically whatsoever. Plus he never tried to set up a date or meet up. So it wasn't difficult for me to let go for that exact reason. Still optimistic to find the right one. 🙏🏾

    • @itumelengmokwena2670
      @itumelengmokwena2670 4 года назад +2

      Had the exact same type of situation😑😔 took me soo long to let go

    • @gemma9507
      @gemma9507 3 года назад +7

      don't do dating apps just meet godly men at your local church

    • @LufunoNtshavheni-pj9gv
      @LufunoNtshavheni-pj9gv Год назад

      If a guy really wants to be with you you'll know. He'll make it plain obvious. Wait on God for that godly guy.

    • @SleepyFox4000
      @SleepyFox4000 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@LufunoNtshavheni-pj9gvas a woman, I agree with this. I thought my now fiance lived nearby because he would always show up every time I invited him to church or a church-related event with me. When we started dating, I found out he lived AN HOUR away. He had been driving 2 hours just to get a few hours with me at church.
      Ladies, when a man really wants to be with you, he will find a way.

  • @fawnNheadlights
    @fawnNheadlights 2 года назад +4

    Just got out of a long toxic relationship where God was literally every day trying to drive it home to me to leave...I'm not ready for a relationship yet, but it's great to be prepared well in advance!

    • @franceshaggitt3104
      @franceshaggitt3104 Год назад

      Are you ok...does it get easier. I was with someone for two years. Took him back twice and he even got baptised. God lead me to read the words wicked web cobweb when I asked of who this was.......
      Before this was with ex abuser husband.

  • @salar5074
    @salar5074 4 года назад +73

    The idea of being in a relationship scares me because I’ve never been in one before, but I really want a godly marriage one day! I’m afraid of messing up. How do I overcome this?
    Also, amazing video as always. God bless!

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  4 года назад +5

      This may help: ruclips.net/video/pCOgTtvsv7M/видео.html

    • @salar5074
      @salar5074 4 года назад

      @@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger Thank you!

    • @lilyperez3983
      @lilyperez3983 4 года назад +6

      I think I you just let yourself be there isn't much wrong you can do. If it doesn't work out you learn from it and move on. Of course we have to make sure that person is equally yolked as God asks.

    • @salar5074
      @salar5074 4 года назад

      @@lilyperez3983 That’s very true!

    • @vibes8924
      @vibes8924 3 года назад +1

      Therapy.

  • @erickdiaz6152
    @erickdiaz6152 4 года назад +56

    I'm not sure if I really believe in "The One", as I believe more-so that God will guide you and bless you in your choice. However, I was really blessed by the points you made here.
    Currently in a healthy Godly relationship right now. I especially agree in the last couple points. I have noticed a desire well up in me to keep persevering after conflict. And it usually ends up creating a stronger bond
    Also, I would add - dating long enough to become acquainted with each other's character weaknesses and growth areas - and still wanting to choose them. That's when reality sets in and exposes if you truly are loving them, or just a fixed-up version of them. I'm sure marriage exposes more. But having that experience in the dating season I have felt has been invaluable.

    • @GraceFaithGFDance
      @GraceFaithGFDance 4 года назад +3

      I believe the one is the one you end up with by choice not that there's only one choice for each person.

    • @GraceFaithGFDance
      @GraceFaithGFDance 4 года назад +1

      Also agree with everything you said

    • @katjean7270
      @katjean7270 3 года назад +2

      You hit the nail on the head with this comment. 1000%. I have noticed that with every conflict that I have with my boyfriend, I love him even more and feel myself want to make it work even more. As well, what u mentioned with the characters flaws.. exactly.. we need to get to know people for a few years before we accept their character flaws and really love them. I don't know how people go about dating these days and give up so quick within the year. It really takes longer than a year to really know someone.

    • @LizaLavolta
      @LizaLavolta 3 года назад +1

      Agreed. The Bible says nothing about 'the one' - that is a new age belief. I believe God has anointed predetermined marriages but we have free will. And if you cancel a blessing, but repent/grow God will connect you and listen to your pleas.

  • @weekendnomad5038
    @weekendnomad5038 4 года назад +6

    God sent me this gift but lordddd help me to stop being crazy before I lose him

  • @trishiscute
    @trishiscute 4 года назад +24

    God Bless you Mark and all of your content! 😊

  • @AlFath-q7m
    @AlFath-q7m Год назад +1

    Praise the LORD GOD 🙏 Blessed be the Lord 🙏💟

  • @jchock7503
    @jchock7503 2 года назад +3

    This is one of the your best videos which highlights the mutual attraction that happens and is an important ingredient in every successful relationship. When only one party is attracted to the other, it is called unrequited love which is never a part of a successful relationship. That you were able to quote the book of Songs of Solomon is the biblical basis of this requirement.

  • @sharonmitchell4186
    @sharonmitchell4186 4 года назад +6

    My biggest fear getting in the wrong relationship again.. I've been praying for the right person.. and I he don't ask for money like the rest of them did. But I believe that God got something for me better.. Mark I love your videos it helps me do the Bible more.. thank you Mark.. you had been a big help..

  • @kingdomoflightministries5702
    @kingdomoflightministries5702 4 года назад +10

    Lord Jesus I Just Ask That You Continue To Guide And Lead The Way I'm Following You Daddy 🙏 🙌 ❤

  • @JTlifecoaching
    @JTlifecoaching 4 года назад +14

    Your videos are amazing! I’ve being watching almost all of them! I hope my Rebecca is watching too!!!!

  • @imeldasifisohonde5864
    @imeldasifisohonde5864 5 месяцев назад +1

    Am in a kingdom relationship❤ totally different from my past relationships

  • @santinapierre7873
    @santinapierre7873 3 года назад +4

    I met my husband which I didn't expect it for example just enjoying my vacation then I met my husband we are both Christian's are similar so different that I didn't expect to meet so intelligent we still together what odds were against us

  • @shederaharris3060
    @shederaharris3060 2 года назад +1

    Wait on the lord his time is always better I received this in the mighty name of jesus amen

  • @yulisamendozaurena2706
    @yulisamendozaurena2706 4 года назад +12

    Wise advice! Always accurate! God bless you and your family Mark. Greetings from Dominican Republic :)

  • @94.7am
    @94.7am 3 года назад +5

    Thank you for this video! I once failed to look at the "circumstances",little did I know that God was just protecting me.
    #3: Desirable & achievable"
    God bless you all.

  • @madladiesscientists6894
    @madladiesscientists6894 3 года назад +2

    God first, may God always be first. 🙏🙏🙏 Amen 💙💙💙💙💙

  • @majkapanonska5493
    @majkapanonska5493 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for enlightening me that God would never want me to marry someone I don't want too. I'm still afraid that might happen because I'm currently in a relationship that i'm not sure God wants.

  • @vanessap7209
    @vanessap7209 4 года назад +10

    😯🙏🏿😭
    Great content as always Mark. Spot on again for me!!! W O W!!!!!
    Blessings to you, your family and ministry🙏🏿

  • @mikyl-fo8rh
    @mikyl-fo8rh 4 месяца назад

    Well done good and faithful servant of our most High God!

  • @yasminedrexler8951
    @yasminedrexler8951 3 года назад +3

    Gee you're good Mark!! This is definitely your gift. You are so good at explaining things clearly. Excellent.

  • @lilyperez3983
    @lilyperez3983 4 года назад +39

    Where are all the Christian single men? Not in my hometown

  • @gon3g1rl
    @gon3g1rl 3 года назад +6

    I felt like my partner was "the one" in this entire relationship, even through our struggles. I'm not new to thinking someone night be the one, but this time I felt God working in our relationship. The problem is we weren't always kind to each other, and have been lustful towards others. Its been hard, but in the back of my mind I felt like this wasn't something that I should let go of. All the while I've always been open with my faith and tried to bring him to God. Now, we are newly broken up but for the time being we are on good terms and I see his relationship with God beginning. I pray that breaking up doesn't mean that he wasn't the one, but that we need this season to grow deeper into God, resist sexual immorality, and learn how to appreciate each other. This relationship has felt so different. I hope I'm not just attached and deluded.

  • @chanelle.n
    @chanelle.n 2 года назад +2

    Thank you Jesus. Our God is so good. ❤️ Jeremiah 29:11 - God has good plans 🙌🏽

  • @jaydajune
    @jaydajune 4 года назад +45

    I love what you said Mark, but I feel like there should be more emphasis on a persons character rather than their personality. A persons personality will and can evolve over time based on where they are in their lives. But a persons character is not only foundational but it’s a better reflection of themselves which therefore brings about certain behaviors in the person such as kindness, patience, encouraging, positive, etc. While personality is something to pay attention to and take into consideration, character is something that should not be neglected when it comes to being in relationship with someone. Just my opinion.

    • @constancebennett9786
      @constancebennett9786 3 года назад

      Character falls under the umbrella of personality?🤔💭

    • @jaydajune
      @jaydajune 3 года назад +1

      @@constancebennett9786 I believe personality and character are two separate things! So now character does not fall under the umbrella of personality.

    • @constancebennett9786
      @constancebennett9786 3 года назад +1

      @@jaydajune well, I say this because when someone has a personality disorder, their character (behavior)is almost always the issue that is at odds with society and acceptable character (like the movie Joker). Atleast from what I’ve learned and treat daily 🤔💭.

    • @jaydajune
      @jaydajune 3 года назад +1

      @@constancebennett9786 I agree!! Character does affect personality! If one adopts a Godly character the way they behave and their personality is affected. But I don’t don’t believe personality precedes character.

    • @constancebennett9786
      @constancebennett9786 3 года назад +2

      @@jaydajune unfortunately... it actually does. Personality is who you are... character is the behavior that stems from the personality. So he’s actually saying it correctly. However, we can agree to disagree.

  • @roumyanapetrova5687
    @roumyanapetrova5687 3 года назад +2

    How very true! Thank you.

  • @0animalproductworld558
    @0animalproductworld558 4 года назад +6

    You’re a blessing! :)

  • @trishapasustento6792
    @trishapasustento6792 2 месяца назад

    I'll wait, LORD🙏❤️

  • @TRIPLEMLUXE
    @TRIPLEMLUXE 3 года назад +3

    I think I met mines in high school but I let him go , we were so young & figuring it out, I regret letting him go, I know in my heart we are meant to be. However I believe God will bring us back together sooner than later

  • @user-nj5cl6xs4n
    @user-nj5cl6xs4n 4 года назад +26

    At this point any relationship would be different for me. Ive never been in one. I just dont seem able to get past square one with anybody.

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  4 года назад +7

      Keep submitting to the Lord no matter what, he has a plan :)

    • @madladiesscientists6894
      @madladiesscientists6894 3 года назад +2

      God is probably protecting you is what I think. :)

    • @user-nj5cl6xs4n
      @user-nj5cl6xs4n 3 года назад +2

      @@madladiesscientists6894 I sincerely hope so. The longing for someone is a pain I wish for no one.

    • @vibes8924
      @vibes8924 3 года назад

      Maybe reflect on what you did wrong. If you really want a relationship.

  • @alexislaine9210
    @alexislaine9210 4 года назад +5

    Thank you! Always on time.

  • @wendygoddard6610
    @wendygoddard6610 4 года назад +5

    This was very educational for me to hear and now I can be better equipped for my next relationship

  • @delna144
    @delna144 2 года назад +1

    Thank you so much God bless you!!! Stay blessed!!! 😌

  • @JoyleiaJo
    @JoyleiaJo 9 месяцев назад

    This is the BEST AGW video I've seen yet!!!

  • @repentandbesaved150
    @repentandbesaved150 4 года назад +4

    Wow! You just confirmed stuff for me. I appreciate

  • @juancarrasco104
    @juancarrasco104 Год назад +1

    Thank you so much for this important information in this reading 📚

  • @joshuagoshton2513
    @joshuagoshton2513 4 года назад +5

    Good word pastor so goooood I’m asking god for my wife as well thanks for the god given knowledge that you speak with daily you are very encouraging to us all we luv u

  • @jesusontherise
    @jesusontherise 4 года назад +5

    I’m so thankful for your videos mark !

  • @victoriaisreal6075
    @victoriaisreal6075 5 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much Sir
    I really find this video helpful.

  • @eabbcc4107
    @eabbcc4107 4 года назад +6

    🕊️🌿God is love

  • @debonaesimpson3742
    @debonaesimpson3742 4 года назад +3

    Thank you soooooo much.

  • @yinkyaw5545
    @yinkyaw5545 4 года назад +1

    Thank you Mark

  • @janetlee191
    @janetlee191 Год назад

    I believe that two people can be friends and only one knows they will be together while the other takes time to get on board.

  • @aurmaniwashington4261
    @aurmaniwashington4261 4 года назад +8

    I can’t wait ❤️

  • @mailenereyes8488
    @mailenereyes8488 4 года назад +3

    Hello pastor Mark, Yes I beleive it and I claimed it in Jesus name, thank you and God bles u abundantly,

  • @jeh-ruhd4466
    @jeh-ruhd4466 3 года назад +1

    Your ministry is awesome, I praise God for people like you and what He has done in You. God's glory is His, always, however you are also awesome because He loves you and has given you such a beautiful ministry

  • @Nirvanaty4J
    @Nirvanaty4J 4 года назад +17

    "The rarest thing to occur is when two Christian singles have mutual interest and the desire to be together lasts" Lol WHAT ARE THE ODDS OH GOD!!! (This one's giving me a good chuckle XD)

  • @marlenepagulayan6187
    @marlenepagulayan6187 3 года назад +1

    Amen🙏🙌☝️thank u🤗

  • @MJorgy5
    @MJorgy5 3 года назад +1

    This is very uplifting and informative at the same time.

  • @angelicsparkles
    @angelicsparkles 4 года назад +7

    Please pray for me Mark and fellow subscribers because I had an experience, but things are unfolding... I will watch video it's on the commercial

  • @marryjane1684
    @marryjane1684 4 года назад +34

    I'm so scared to ask God if "He's the one" I feel like God wants me to be single for forever & I DONT LIKE IT !! 😑😩😖🥺

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  4 года назад +39

      God made marriage so he does not get upset if people want to be married. He just wants us to use it for his glory :)

    • @sweetzaqui
      @sweetzaqui 4 года назад +8

      I felt sad when I read 1Cor7 that being single is better but I told God I dont want to be alone forever😞, I need someone with me

    • @tristancatholic
      @tristancatholic 4 года назад +15

      @@sweetzaqui If God put the desire in your heart to be with someone is because he wants to fulfill it.

    • @debonaesimpson3742
      @debonaesimpson3742 4 года назад +4

      @@sweetzaqui It depends on the person because in the Bible it also says it's better to be married. So it depends on the person and God's will for you. Just trust Him. Everything will fall into place.

    • @gabyrobichaud285
      @gabyrobichaud285 4 года назад +3

      I understand you but in your singleness be strong and get closer to God it is also a blessing to be single it’s hard but worth it

  • @desireejohnson-flemister9947
    @desireejohnson-flemister9947 2 года назад +4

    My biggest fear is marriage … I love my partner and this relationship is definitely different … and it’s my first serious relationship. I’m just scared of marrying to divorce because we are always these days bombarded with news of people divorcing . Something I don’t want . But . To never try is to fail. But I pray God makes this clear as time goes on It’s not time to. I have the desire to marry, I have always had the desire to marry him, but Gods timing .

    • @blackpillfitness9136
      @blackpillfitness9136 2 года назад +4

      True that divorce is rampant these days. What they don’t tell you is that the strongest predictor of a lasting marriage is abstinence before sex. A marriage based on love and commitment, and being true to God, is what makes a marriage last. Sex before marriage is like biting into a cake before it has finished baking. It’s gonna fall apart. And it won’t taste good. God bless ya.

  • @jackyloudoble808
    @jackyloudoble808 4 года назад +4

    Thankyou Lord💕

  • @mariagrady8425
    @mariagrady8425 4 года назад +7

    That was full filling an a add on to having a good second marriage.

  • @aliyahking1429
    @aliyahking1429 2 года назад

    THANK YOU!

  • @dr.robynn
    @dr.robynn 4 года назад +1

    This has enlightened me SO much and has provided so many answers.

  • @nachelinraquelvaleracuevas3954
    @nachelinraquelvaleracuevas3954 4 года назад +2

    I am waiting in God

  • @stanleyscriven5353
    @stanleyscriven5353 4 года назад +7

    Mark in this season 2020 I have definitely gotten closer to god and it is thanks to your help I learned so much about myself and the people who are around me as well as the environment I'm in.

  • @raviadagatla7103
    @raviadagatla7103 4 года назад +1

    Amazing.....Praise God..... Hallelujah.... Really Helpful.....Glory to God....Hallelujah 🙌 🙌

  • @samanthaware5163
    @samanthaware5163 4 года назад +3

    Amen!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 Great points!!!

  • @patrickbilon2999
    @patrickbilon2999 4 года назад +5

    I love watching your videos, they’re really insightful. I do have a problem I’m facing that I haven’t found a video for. How do we deal with and get over jealousy? My specific situation is that I really feel like I’m in love with my best friend, I’ve had these feelings for over a year and I’ve had a crush on her for longer. She and I get along really well but I’ve never told her my true feelings, just that I care about her and our friendship feels like a great blessing. Recently after she divorced she established a “no dating” boundary, and we even agreed that we can’t fall in love with each other despite already having those feelings. I agreed because I’d rather keep her friendship rather than confess and it be too much for her. Now she’s talking with a guy and I feel so jealous because I truly feel like she and I would have a great relationship. I hate feeling this way because I really do wish for her to be happy.

  • @Romans219
    @Romans219 2 года назад

    God bless you Mark! I'm flying solo to my grave following the Holy Spirit in the loving name of Jesus Christ. Romans 12

  • @Zay-cd2zv
    @Zay-cd2zv 4 года назад +19

    What's really strange about this is I just had to let go of someone who I thought may have been the one biblically 😣

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  4 года назад +5

      God bless as you keep following the Lord

    • @janderson947
      @janderson947 4 года назад +7

      Honestly me too I just prayed for God to let me let him go because the foundation was toxic...

    • @musicislife7464
      @musicislife7464 3 года назад

      How do you let go?:/

    • @KerryAnnDaley
      @KerryAnnDaley 3 года назад +1

      @@musicislife7464 pray and trust. It’s the formula and foundation to our relationship with God.
      It will keep the faith alive!

  • @marshacreary2442
    @marshacreary2442 4 года назад +2

    Thank you so much for posting this

  • @latter-daysaintbatman2679
    @latter-daysaintbatman2679 2 года назад +2

    I knew it. God wouldn't force me to marry a girl I do not desire. He knows what type of girl I desire: a gorgeous blonde from America who's a Latter-day Saint like me. He knows I have been wishing this for a long time. God has already granted me this and hath commanded me to be more proactive. I always knew that personality, physical appearance and spiritual faith all applies in the right person. Whether it's the right woman for a man or the right man for a woman.

  • @jesuspena4999
    @jesuspena4999 2 года назад

    Thank God for your obedience

  • @Rosalina_Wolf
    @Rosalina_Wolf 4 года назад +5

    My bf and I haven't seen each other since Covid struck in the US. I know that he's not a Christian, but I can't help but feel like we're meant to be. Every "love quiz" I've took points to him being my soulmate, even these videos do. I pray 🙏 every night for him to come home to me. Please Lord, please let me see my cupcake again (I like to call my bf cupcake bc he's sweet like one). In Jesus name amen 🙏.

    • @CircleWedge
      @CircleWedge 4 года назад +9

      Other videos mention that Christians and non-Christians shouldn't date. Look through more and older videos. I think "love quizzes" are like horoscopes and are bad for that reason (occult or witchcraft or idolatry, I'm not sure which category it falls under) but also bad in the sense you don't trust your Lord and Creator, Jesus the Christ, over some fallible human who made an online quiz. Given what you've said so far and assuming he doesn't become a Christian, I think you shouldn't pursue him. To use a blatantly obvious example: homosexuals think they are meant to be attracted to the same sex, but we know that is not how humans are designed to be.

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  4 года назад +8

      If you are a Christian God is not leading you to marry a non Christian. this may help: ruclips.net/video/jmfH5StJa9Y/видео.html

    • @Rosalina_Wolf
      @Rosalina_Wolf 4 года назад +2

      Thank you three, I know I should be with a Christian, but I feel as if I cannot forget him or move on. I'm still in this relationship since I can't reach him to break up with him. I'm just stuck, and I dont think I'll be able to move on until I can break it off with him.
      Edit: I have prayed that he may reach the lord, but I haven't been able to tell him about God, not yet at least.

    • @CircleWedge
      @CircleWedge 4 года назад +1

      @@Rosalina_Wolf Get deliverance. You have a soul tie with him. Sever the soul tie. I'll edit this later if I can find the RUclips video I thought of that mentioned your symptoms. Edit: I was thinking of Tony Gaskins, but after watching a bit of his video(s) again, I don't think it applies to you (I am assuming you haven't had sex before marriage). His videos talk about sexually-made soul ties and what they mean.

    • @Rosalina_Wolf
      @Rosalina_Wolf 4 года назад +1

      @@CircleWedge thank you, but I dont know how I can sever my relationship with him, which is basically non existent since we can't call, text, or contact in any way.
      Edit: I can't help but feel connected to him in some way, shape, or form.

  • @lhynneilmhaeluna2055
    @lhynneilmhaeluna2055 3 года назад +1

    9:18 Earlier I was actually asking for a sign, any sign at any time for Him to show to me and the first one mentioned is exactly what happened to us. Although we weren't dating, he was the only one different from every guy I've liked (He did show some interest in me but had to stop because he was leaving). He inspires me to become a better version of myself without even doing anything and he's the only one I didn't obsess over. But it could have worked but the timing was all wrong because it was at that year he was leaving so everything had to stop but in two years, I thought of visiting him and there were also some signs that show me I should actually go for it (Although he's not the only reason I'm going there)

  • @nelodypond9282
    @nelodypond9282 4 года назад +2

    AMEN AMEN AMEN!!! 💕

  • @jessyjonas4988
    @jessyjonas4988 4 года назад +8

    Physical attraction is important
    beauty in the eyes of the beholder
    Think shallow Hal (2001)
    The Lord will cause us to see clearly
    the inner beauty
    Regardless of what is on the outside
    You will love from the inside out
    The same for the Christian life
    We live from the inside out
    Our affections set on things above
    Not on things of the world
    Great content as ever
    Thank you