Are you in Solitude or Hiding? | Spiritual Journey
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- Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
- Heyy you all, this is a vent about prioritizing yourself above building community and the thin line between isolation and solitude. This keeps coming up for me and I felt inspired to share. Can you relate? You can add to the conversation in the comments section. I hope you are all well, truly :)
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my goodness the healing in isolation because you don’t feel others will understand.
And this is where tribe comes into play
Your skin is literally glowing, your happiness is shining from the inside out!!!
Thank you!! I’m feeling so much more rooted in my purpose, just had my 29th earthstrong ✨
I get that about needing solitude and going too far and then needing to repair bounds or giving them space to be there for me when I need it. I don't trust them to pour into me as I pour into me because I put up walls to protect myself when those parts that I hold sacred have been triggered or hurt during vulnerable times. Its hard to have community when you are the only one who thinks or lives like you in your community. I yearn for a community of like minded people but at this time my immediate community it not. Solitude and self preservation seems like neglect for people who set societal standards on you. I need to try to communicate better when I need a moment to those who don't understand any of my journey and just continue walking towards my spiritual community.
I get this. I’ve been doing this work for awhile now and all of these things can exist. It’s about finding balance for me. I hope you can when it’s safe to do so.
I appreciate the honesty. Sometimes self preservation and self isolation is hiding from hiding from others. I've noticed this in myself as of late...The fear of putting myself out there, fear of rejection, fear of finding new friendships and doing the work to repair old connections.
SN: got my sea moss. Can't wait to start using, but I gotta get a better blender😝
Yes exactly! That’s what I noticed within myself. When I think about my energy and how valuable it is, I can get overprotective and deny everything access lol instead of praying affirming and creating the connections I don’t need to hide from. Because don’t get me wrong! There ARE energies I want nothing to do with ok.
Ooooh I can’t wait to hear how the moss works for you 💛 let me know if you have any questions
Wow. 7:20... that quote really hit. I do this so often. I don't share how down, low or unhappy I am because I worry about stinking up the vibes... that my problems aren't really that bad, etc etc... but I"m happy, low mood, low energy. It's sad.
“It’s not my job to determine if what I’m going through is too much for someone to hear” this! I had to learn this lesson this year as I’ve been dealing with my Crohn’s disease. I isolated myself because I felt like a bother to my family and friends, even considering unaliving myself but I got the rude awakening that they’re still supporting me because they want to, no matter how difficult things have been. Even though I’m still trying to heal and navigate life with all this pain, I’m much more open now to sharing with the people that care about me and it really helps.
I’m happy you’re finding connection again 💛
And you have a community here, you are not alone in this life
@@TkeyahB thank you so much ❤️
@@tiachante every time
I'm new to your channel I just left my 9-5 in New York and sold my house and pack 3 suitcases and move to ghana I'm enjoying ur video
This resonates, started awakening due to illness realizing that part of the reason I got sick was because of suppressing my feelings. I had two surgeries in one year from never being sick or seriously ill. I startec with Abraham hicks, honestly it did help but it kept evolving, I went from her, to Rev Ike, to the bible. I think when you ask your higher self, guardian angels and so on for help I found that I am led to the next stage, I have always had connection to my intuition. Now, I am here to your channel and I am realizing its because I am opening myself up for my soul tribe. I also came to a realization that I was doing a disservice to myself by not telling my family the things I have been true just like you thst isolation is not good, we were not created to be alone in this world and letting others in could mean their healing as well. I also realized that I needed that isolation period to listen to my inner voice, not what anyone else think I should be doing. I am still learning and growing but I definitely feel like you're part of my soul tribe. Fellow cancer sun that is interested in helping to heal others, while I am healing and uncovering higher consciousness. Journaling helps alot, that is my friend. I am also going through the book the Artist Way to help revive my creativity. After my surguries you just helped me to remember I went through the grasping for air at night I use to get anxious with going to sleep.
As I’m packing up to head home from much needed get away, at 3am, I said “Oh, let me take a listen to T’keyah’s video”
This was in alignment with what I’ve been going through for years now. I’m grateful to the relationships and bonds that were so forgiving of my absence, but I’ve learned that my communication is poor. I don’t communicate out of fear of rejection. I don’t communicate because I was taught to internalize all my pain + emotions so I don’t disturb the lives of others.
When you said, “you were robbing your loved ones of the chance to love you authentically”. I may have not said that correctly, but it made me tear up! I’ve been doing just that! I push people away before I even allow them a chance to show me they love my soul, even through adversity.
Whew, this was a word! Thank you for sharing, keep sharing 🌹
I don’t communicate because I was taught to internalize all my pain and emotions so I don’t disturb the lives of others!! Beautifully said. Thank you for sharing.
It’s really a journey of self acceptance/ forgiveness and I believe that translates in our relationships. Grateful for you
I like this, it reminds me of the Movie "Into the wild". It resonate so much with me. Solitude can be necessary and feel so refreshing in a noisy world. But as you said, it's a really slippery slop... Health is unevitably built in community. Love, communication and understanding 💫
Yes! Thank you for being here
@@TkeyahB Thank you for the inspiration 🌟
Girll!! I lost track of your channel for a while but here you ARE!!
You’re still going and you’re glowing!! I LOVE TO SEE IT❤️
Look at you!! I loved your energy back then and I love it more now. Keep going you’re doing amazing 🙏🏼♥️♥️
Hey mama!! I hope you are well, it’s so beautiful hearing from you. So much love 💛
I love what you're saying my sister. For me, I've had to employ divine wisdom. There are segments of time when I've needed to take space, do inner work and refine my self nourishing skills. And at other times, I am free to receive from other sweet souls who are uniquely gifted to give me upliftment 🙏. And that too is very joyful and elevating. I love the magic of co-creation in all of the ways it can be experienced. And I am truly a lover of people.
I love this. Those trees in the back are so calming…it feels like they’re communicating with you
✨This was a BEYOND EXCELLENT VIDEO✨💎✨
The words we were given do us no justice, we are SOOOO MUCH MORE, that words cannot even describe.
Thank you for being transparent. My mother also passed in 2012 and it was the most painful experience. As I was 13 and dealing with school, my changing body, family drama, I wasn’t wholly aware of how to heal. It’s been a long slow journey and I’m still integrating at 24. Thank you so much for sharing yourself. I get caught in those loopholes of thinking I’m not ‘healed enough’ to share my insights.
And thank you for being here and adding energy to this community
I resonate so much with this especially since I’ve come to realize that I was isolating myself because I thought that I was attracting toxicity and needed to fight my « demons » in order to attract the people I wanted to be surrounded with. Now, however, I’m at a place where I’m just moving forward to live as the person I’ve visioned myself to be regardless of my inner trouble (which I’ll continue to work on) I refuse to use it as an excuse to hide myself from this world, as I believe my journey will lead me on the path to my “higher self” & on my way come across my kins. Thank you so much for this reminder 🙏🏾
Yes!! I've done the bulk of my healing in relationship with others because that's where my triggers get exposed and then I can address and heal them in solitude
I’m happy that someone was with you when your mother died, My mother died In August last year, I pretty much went through it in isolation ❤
I'm str8 up hiding and running away all this whilst crying 😩 I'm working on it though. Big up always 💛
And you got this 💛
I feel this as a 25 year old. I feel this as a woman. I feel this for my friends who I have started having conversations with about growing up. I feel this as a small business owner. Thank you 😊
Mhmm! 💛
I'm not into the new age and law of attraction. But I'm on a healing journey through applying Biblical teachings and psychology, which has be helping me tremendously. I've been watching you since you've been doing the skin care and haircare videos.
I appreciate your openness and sharing your results with us on your life journey. I've enjoyed your videos on womb health nutrition because I'm trying to eat better because of being diagnosed with uterine fibroids.
The night my mom died, I also experienced abruptly waking up gasping for air but it was later diagnosed as mild sleep apnea. My nurse practitioner said those episodes were just panic attacks. I have no idea what it really was but I believe it was a symptom of trauma of some kind.
I'm happy to see you thriving, healthy and doing well. I wish you continued health, wellness and joy ❤️ 😊
Bless you! I’m glad to be on this journey and growing with so many of you. It’s quite an experience isn’t it. 💛 all I can say is keep going
“What is it that I need to know to get to the next level of who I already am?” LOVE IT 🔥
Never felt called to comment on a video like everrr. But this resonated with me so much. I appreciate this 😭❤
I resonate with your words so deeply. I too am on a very similar journey but your words just brought much more clarity and compassion. Thank you for sharing through vulnerability and being in alignment with your purpose.
And thank you for your words and energy
I always feel like I need to show up perfect and not burden anyone with my toxic/unhealed traits either. I have been self isolating (hiding) for a few years now because of that
I’ve been MIA [mostly] for the e last 3 years. Separated from my family that kept overstepping my boundaries and I didn’t know how to make a return because they made it awkward and uncomfortable. Not to mention there was trauma and it seems there was no accountability… then the step dad and mom divorced and I still am bitter that they didn’t divorce 20 years ago…before they took the family down a path that hurt 😞… I’m barely feeling normal ish now. Had to snap back since my grandmother passed last year as well. Took a toll… but 2023 here goes ❤😅
Haven’t even listen yet and the title is already screaming THIS IS YOU!!!
hahaa
Your wisdom at your age is really enlightening. I'm an older adult and find this rings true for me now. Thank you for sharing this vulnerable and healing message.
Thank you as well
I resonated with literally. every. word. Thank you💛. Thank you for sharing and being honest about your experience. Thank you for sharing your thoughts/habits, your reasoning, and both the honest pros and cons of those. And thank you for being a mirror for me so that I (and so many others) can continue to grow.
Just a little wild how SPOT ON everything was. And I mean everything! 😂
I love you and I appreciate you. So glad I found your channel!😊🌱
Yesss it’s beautiful my experience can resonate with you. Thank you for watching ✨
i’m always appreciative of the reminder that we don’t have to have it all together to be deserving.
this year, i’ve been working to find my community, my tribe, but it’s scary! i’m in hiding now as i’ve put myself out there, i’ve been vulnerable, and it… hasn’t been working out. at least not in the way i want it to. but i guess that’s the way it’s supposed to be? 😮💨 i know i have work to do that only i can do, but i’m hopeful i’ll find spaces that support me in doing that work.
thank you for sharing ✨
I absolutely get this. Have you heard of Maryam Hasnaa’s new earth mystery school?
@@TkeyahB i had not, but after perusing the website i am intrigued! have you taken any of the classes?
@@shadellll I’ve followed her teachings for a couple of years, but will be enrolling in the NEMS this month
@@TkeyahB would love to hear what you take from the experience!
I woke up around the same time. The journey is long but refining!
Thank you T’keyah for your videos, especially this one. I’m currently hiding/healing. The world has been feeling incredibly hurtful towards me in words, actions, images, energy, etc. I don’t want to leave my house often but I have no choice at times. I started a 365 day RUclips yoga challenge to hopefully help me heal from many elements in my life that cause me pain. I’m incredibly proud of my heritage, history, Africanisms, etc but when I step into the world with this pride I don’t feel received well. I’m hoping to get certified in yoga and meditation and help others as well eventually. Thank you for creating a lovely virtual community I can belong to! ❤
Yess you are welcome here and appreciated 💛 I truly relate to your current experiences and yoga is still a tool I rely on and encourage people who align to also practice
@@TkeyahB Thank you! ✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨💜
This message was SO deep. Eye can watch it over and over because Eye, too, go off the deep end when it comes to Isolation. Also discovered Abraham Hicks in 2019, went to a seminar of hers on a cruise in March 2020 and really haven't been listening that much ever since. This video resonates with me so deeply Thank You for your Transparency, your vulnerability and willingness to reveal your deepest truths is Truly HONORABLE. Ase Empress. So Much Love from My Heart Chakra to Yours
SO glad I stumbled across your videos through nutrition research! This was like listening to my own words. I feel spiritually bitch slapped but in the best and necessary ways
Yaaaassssssssss, ditto 🙏💞
I’m so grateful to find your channel on my journey. Spiritual ascension is such a tumultuous and isolating journey. I definitely resonate with the feeling of not being able to breathe…waking up almost every day feeling as though the air has been sucked out of your body. I could feel my aunt’s spirit around me whenever I feel the exact same way you describe. It’s beautiful because it is us feeling their presence but feeling the air leave our body is us feeling them leave. They lay over us when we sleep and leave when we awaken and we feel that pull off of our bodies, feeling like we can’t breathe. That constant cycle of grief can drive you insane.
I have experienced gasping for air! It’s why I started practicing yoga. I considered it a panic attack but maybe it was a sort of awakening.
There’s so many things I agree with in this video. Some of them (showing up for others with consistency) is one I’m working on rn. It’s harddddd. & a lot of times I don’t want to do it 🤷🏾♀️
Wow, I definitely thought it was just me. I laugh about it now because I picture my soul being in a coma and then having to wake up in this dense ass reality 10 years ago, confused and unamused. But I agree with you, it hasn’t been the easiest
Seriously, you are the best.. my soul aligns with yours.
I'm a single mama to a 15 month old precious boy.. I'm a white woman, but my son is 1/4 Caribbean! I reeeeaaally need to keep building my foundation... get out of isolation....eat well...keep HEALING!! My son deserves the BEST me, and so do I! Thank you sweet angel, so much love!! Would love to get over there one day, maybe meet you as well!
When I get work again, hopefully soon, I will definitely get your sea moss!!
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Love from Canada 🇨🇦 ❤️ 🤱🥰
You got this! Consistency and discipline will bring you so far but pauses are essential in the journey 💛💚🖤
Your vibrationsResonated on so many levels 🌺 your transparency is therapeutic 🌹 a beautiful reflection of Love 💃🏾💃🏾
I love that I'm seeing this now because I am in the midst of isolating myself but also, I dont have many connections to keep up with. On the latter, the connections that I do have we have a mutual understanding of 'life gets in the way/life is happening' and that rings very true because of the challenging year that myself and my peer connections have had in 2022 ... you made me realise the limitations of what my fear of vulnerability is creating among my relationships or potentially will create if i dont rectify that and correct that ... weirdly enough my answer to healing that is to isolate and work through it on my own which isnt ideal.
I LOVE THIS. I accept this into my life and actually needed to hear this, thank you.
Yes thank you too!
Thank you for this, really spoke to my whole situation 🤍
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I appreciate this video!! 🤎 Everything you said resonated and also stirred up some emotions within that I’m going to unpack tonight. This was powerful and the timing of me watching this couldn’t have been better. I’ve been receiving opportunities to heal in communities too right now and this is inspiring me to not run from that. Thank you 🤎
Blessings love
The healing isolation is definitely real. I feel others won’t understand and it’s very hard in a relationship
My loveeeee I felt thisssss so muchhhhhhhh🫶🏼🫶🏼
This video is so relatable. I need to watch this again lol
I feel you and thank you for this video. I needed this to refocus. Because I’ve been in a similar space for a while.
Happy to resonate 💛
Love your skin flawless
Thank you :) sun and sea moss/ aloe vera
Beautiful, sincere, and refreshing; thank you for sharing your journey
Love 🌸
I just found you today and it really is right on time and aligned with my healing journey ✨️
I am working on my Isolation because im sick off judge me on my spiritual journey on what fit me is no one else business but my own
Hi Young Sister!! I enjoyed your video! However, just remember we are spiritual beings living in a natural world! Our Creator desires a spiritual relationship with each of us; not nature because it withers away. Love your sister in C! hrist
You are light!!
And its fun to grow with others
Empress I needed this!!!!! The message came in at the right time!!!!! Give thanks 😊
I think both maybe necessary depending upon where you are in your journey. Initially you may need walls while exploring what boundaries are, how to adhere by them. We have to show up for self first before we can show up for others. I think it’s ok✨
Yes, and i definitely needed them but it's a thin line which I reach sometimes
Girl, the clouds can dip all it wants. You're beautiful in any light. Can I be where you are right now?!😁
Hahaa come on over! Thank you so much for watching
November 8, 2022 I had a miscarriage. It was my third pregnancy and I was 22 years old. I turned 23 on December 21st. The day my son died it was an rebirth for me. I was born and grew up into a family of perfectionists and pressured me. My whole 22 years was fated of a life I didn’t live for me. When I my son’s borrowed energy returned back to mother Gaia, I took my first breathe again. My 23rd birthday was me becoming a newborn baby again. No one knows the love I have in my heart. I was 4 months when I miscarried. No one could see my vision and dream I had for me and my children. The worldview objective their opinionated and reality. “My new reality is “witchcraft, healing, therapeutic, and boundaries.” I’ve been living in limbo going deep inside the underworld. It hurt me the most I couldn’t pay for my own son funeral and had to cremate him at the hospital. Until my son’s death I was awakened to what Covid did to our black community. I still rise being high while feeling low. No mother should ever have to burry their seed before them. I don’t who support me. Whenever I get outside I allow my inner beauty to talk. The only person I look up to is me and I do this for my children. You really don’t know sh*t about sh*t. I pray everyday. Home is with me wherever I may go without it being a physical place. No more to alienation. I still love my people even when they pressure me about thriving in it. There’s no pressure show off
Community and collectivity is so important for connecting to our true selves. Have you heard of Sahaja Yoga? I believe it would really resonate with you. It is about balancing ourselves while also being part of the whole.
I have, but haven’t journeyed into it. I’ll dive in now because everything is about maintaining balance! Thank you
So happy for u sis❤
I can relate. The Bible healed me, when my mother passed away this year. I’ve been vegetarian now vegan 5 plus years. So, I had to start teaching everything I learned from the Bible. I started my channel for Vegan 🌱 Biblegirls.
i love your videos and ur such a big infulence to me ur video help me alot
I like this advice and your reasoning and so relaxing and happiness your personality is so warm I wish you all the best I am a Jamaican but living in the United States
love!
i resonate with this 100% - it's liike I'm supposed to have come across you at this time
I’m happy you’re here
right on timeeee! 🧡🧡🧡
Lovee 💛
Lovee 💛
this resonated so much!!! thank you for sharing 💛💛💛
You’re so welcome
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I appreciate this video I'm experiencing this right now.. thanks
♥️ thank you🙏🏽
thank you for being here 💛
Good reminder
needed this. thank you so much. 💚
Hi, I'd like to know what have you done to minimize the size of pores? I have in the cheeks etc. What treatments you got and what do you recommend? 😢 I discovered one of your videos (and I left there a comment). Thank you❤
I love your aura, I had a question where is the notebook you showed in this video from?
Omggg yes a wonderful woman named destiny created it along with an affirmation deck called golden mantras here’s her link instagram.com/themamagreen?igshid=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==
Oh girl, I felt this one. How do these realisations impact your ideas about romances? What happened with the man you said you were with back when you had the realisation?
I’m glad you can relate. That is actually the one area of my life where Ive felt free enough to connect deeply. A lot of my shadow and unhealed programs have surfaced in romantic relationships because they mirror me in a way that I can trust. And he and I are friends to this day, the experiences we shared have expanded both of our lives and provided the groundwork for deeper healing in our new relationships 💛
I totally relate! Here I am!
Feeling you sister!
How do you know when you have connect with your tribe? Self - isolation has been a tough habit to break from childhood, sometimes I feel that my energy just wards people off, and I have trouble connecting even thought thats all that I desire.
Once I connected with myself everything aligned for me. It’s an ongoing process of self love
Where ya been sis, I been subscribed I’m glad I came across this video
Mi deya!! Right here 💛
how’s everything going?,Like! splendid done~dear! :)
Newbie here. you really getting finer with age. perfect testimonial for natural living.
Welcome to the family 🌱
I came here looking for your store link for some sea moss...and got sooo much more. T'nkU!!!
You’re so welcome. The link is under most recent videos
@@TkeyahB yaaasss!!! And thanks for the Abraham Hicks mention. I'm running errands and listening to the teachings
Hi again T'keyah B.. can U - please share W/ me, what are the herbal blend mix did U - used while doing your "yoni steam " & - where did U - get these herbs??
New subscriber
Hey you left Seattle, good for you
Hey! Yes I did, a long time ago 🤙🏾 thanks so much
You are so beautiful 😍
Blessings ✨
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Eye Am Tribe Empress! Let's link up! You still in JA???!! How are you???? 🙂
Can you recommend books from Abraham ❤
I haven’t read any, the videos I needed found me but here’s an am playlist I made that May active something within you 💛 ruclips.net/p/PLO9Y3UPy_CZxi6LvkQvX45sOMIAkyuNaa
I need to meet you.
U live here in jamaica now
Yess
People are looking for a modern & accessible take on spirituality? Mmm.. interesting
Have you seen the demand for a connection with (for example) African spirituality without initiation, depth or lived experience? Just a surface level understanding. That’s just one example. It’s ALL around us
RUclips is therapy?
I love this This such a necessary video. I’m glad you made it.
What is it that I need to know to get to the next level of who I already am 🤞🏽🫶🏽
This resonated HEAVILY. There is quite a bit to unpack here lol. Thank you. Truly. You are a shining blessing and I am grateful.🤎
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