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  • Опубликовано: 11 июл 2024
  • Salamina & Tshepo 'Howza' Mosese define intimacy in a marriage and unpack the different things that affect how they experience it! They also talk about their latest film, "Homewrecker", directed by Stephina Zwane with Enhle Mbali Mlotshwa & Letoya Makhene Pulumo leading the cast.
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  • @DEFINING
    @DEFINING  Год назад +260

    We're so happy that Salamina & Howza finally visited the channel 🥳! Give this video a thumbs up if you enjoyed it and let us know what was your takeaway from this episode 😌#DEFININGIntimacy #RoadTo250K

    • @wewemhlaba7593
      @wewemhlaba7593 Год назад +2

      This episode was a reminder that it's not always rosey in marriages boundaries are still a thing even when married.Honesty is key express how you feel respectfully but most importantly healthy relationships exist and LOVE conquers all❤❤❤❤❤

    • @zama1629
      @zama1629 Год назад

      ❤❤

    • @vusikhawula5686
      @vusikhawula5686 8 месяцев назад

      How can I be part of your podcast.. I got really good content

    • @lungiletshabalala3255
      @lungiletshabalala3255 20 дней назад

      You are amazing. May God continue to bless you, Mosese's

  • @liso_lethu
    @liso_lethu Год назад +272

    Salamina is amazing at articulating herself and her emotions. She's a very intelligent woman ❤ this was beautiful to watch

  • @_molebogeng6281
    @_molebogeng6281 Год назад +201

    Aowa they should be back to Define Love on a 2 hour segment. 15 years is a long time . May God continue to bless their union ❤❤🎉

  • @michellemoreana1938
    @michellemoreana1938 Год назад +340

    Howza listens to her and does not interupt one bit and receive what she is saying I love that

    • @andilengubane5178
      @andilengubane5178 Год назад +3

      Yes

    • @QhubekaniSibanda-ic4sc
      @QhubekaniSibanda-ic4sc Год назад +10

      i love this couple .May god blsess them in this journey of their marriage

    • @zwakelemathebula5525
      @zwakelemathebula5525 Год назад +5

      That’s what I picked up as well

    • @MsMousy82
      @MsMousy82 Год назад +1

      I just wanted to comment on your reference to interruption, my partner listens but INTERUPTION, no he is up there have to remind him to wait for me to finish!

    • @rorisangtsoeu253
      @rorisangtsoeu253 Год назад +4

      Howza is like Mature Mature....like he leads her Roll and just listens

  • @wewemhlaba7593
    @wewemhlaba7593 Год назад +266

    Can we all agree that Defining is the best channel ever?Like the snippets of the movie in between the chats?World Class🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

    • @sethembilegwamanda4819
      @sethembilegwamanda4819 Год назад +2

      💯❤️❤️

    • @nthabisengmakola28
      @nthabisengmakola28 Год назад +4

      Now I can't wait to watch Homewrecker. It's giving Obsessed 🤌🏽

    • @user-mp7ly7zr5q
      @user-mp7ly7zr5q Год назад +2

      Yuuuupppp
      Really really loved that
      They picked fire scenes too❤

    • @mpedi_mo
      @mpedi_mo 11 месяцев назад +2

      I'm definitely subscribing after this..I loved it as soon as I started watching

  • @MsMousy82
    @MsMousy82 Год назад +178

    This couple is legit GOALS! You can tell that their "communication intelligence" is up there.

  • @thobilembuli8571
    @thobilembuli8571 Год назад +29

    These 2.
    PLUS
    Gail and Kabelo Mabalane?
    Top tier!

  • @Tam974eva
    @Tam974eva Год назад +198

    It is so nice to see a couple that includes spiritual intimacy in their love. "Spiritual intimacy can build emotional intimacy" is a beautiful concept.

  • @nthabisengmakola28
    @nthabisengmakola28 Год назад +72

    It's him sipping his water when his wife advised him to 😂❤
    Their love is so pure. They inspire me and I hope to be in a union as loving and connected as this one

    • @jobesithole5590
      @jobesithole5590 Год назад +2

      It's actually possible Nthabiseng as Howza and Salamisa has shown us. All it takes is for both parties to put in the work. I find that women these days aren't willing to play their role. It's all about " Indoda must ". What about you as a woman ?

  • @leanolaone6431
    @leanolaone6431 Год назад +76

    They are so unproblematic, all about their family & business. Wish them nothing but the best of what life has to offer❤❤

  • @highandmightyqueen79
    @highandmightyqueen79 Год назад +63

    Salamina is a lucky women, what a sensible man 👌

    • @bonniemanana8858
      @bonniemanana8858 Год назад

      Too much! I think it's my first time seeing them together and wow I love his mind.

    • @glorious9446
      @glorious9446 Год назад

      Well said 🙏🙏

  • @keepitfrankwithfentse
    @keepitfrankwithfentse Год назад +203

    These two are OUR A-Listers....been following their love story since the beginning!!! Love to see them together

    • @Roses_777
      @Roses_777 Год назад +7

      I love how low key they are. Even forgot about them. I love how SOLID they are💖💖💖

    • @nthabisengmakola28
      @nthabisengmakola28 Год назад +2

      ​@@Roses_777They are SOLID indeed!

    • @noziphokhumalo2963
      @noziphokhumalo2963 Год назад +1

      Bona! The MVPs 🙌🙌🙌

  • @bloomingthoughts_
    @bloomingthoughts_ Год назад +129

    It’s always great to hear from people in mature and long-term relationships. Great couple, you can see the friendship in their relationship 👌🏾❤

  • @Silly_tilly809
    @Silly_tilly809 Год назад +18

    The way Hozwa looks at Salamina when she is answering questions. That is love right there.

  • @boitumelodibetso8719
    @boitumelodibetso8719 Год назад +59

    When they say marriage is work this is what they mean. You work through difficult conversations and life moments together. They are giving we go to couples therapy. What a healthy relationship ❤❤❤

  • @luphelele
    @luphelele 6 месяцев назад +3

    Very mature love. So respectful, so honest, so realistic and relatable.

  • @Khululiwe2602
    @Khululiwe2602 Год назад +11

    A man who listens Lord. Sip your water and does just that. No questions asked but just trusts that she has his best intentions. It's always the little things for me.

  • @ntombi-yensimbinarrates7297
    @ntombi-yensimbinarrates7297 Год назад +65

    What a beautiful conversation from a beautiful couple. Yes, we don't pomp; we smash wena Howza🤣!!! I agree with Salamina that it is a mistake to compare and compete with men on the issue of casual sex. Access to your space and your body shouldn't be for everyone. Sometimes being old-fashioned about this is the best move for your soul. Thank you for this episode, Defining. More please!!!!

    • @nthabisengmakola28
      @nthabisengmakola28 Год назад +5

      It was good to hear that, that it's okay in this modern woman day to want to have sex with a person I connect with only and not casually

  • @bule_mzazi2003
    @bule_mzazi2003 11 месяцев назад +5

    they're so well-spoken🥺

  • @thabithabang7239
    @thabithabang7239 Год назад +19

    I'm definitely watching this with my wife the day after we get married❤

  • @lesh1986
    @lesh1986 Год назад +19

    I still cant get over Howza with pink t-shirt with that body on scandal years back❤ black love,i can see so much respect between them.

  • @paballomotloung6710
    @paballomotloung6710 Год назад +69

    I love the honesty behind Howza being overwhelmed when they had their child. Some couples don't recover from that. You can tell from the experiences you have had how much you both respect one another, it's inspiring i must say.

    • @nthabisengmakola28
      @nthabisengmakola28 Год назад +6

      That part neh! It's not just women who get affected by motherhood, in turn fatherhood and in all parenting affects a relationship.
      They worked through it beautifully 💛

    • @paballomotloung6710
      @paballomotloung6710 Год назад +2

      @@nthabisengmakola28 that’s true. You’re right, We tend to neglect men’s feelings in the process. So that perspective helps a lot.

    • @baatsebamashego334
      @baatsebamashego334 Год назад +1

      So true

  • @Roses_777
    @Roses_777 Год назад +19

    I love how low key they've always been. THEY ARE SOLID!

  • @believebecomedc3825
    @believebecomedc3825 10 месяцев назад +7

    The most drama free, simple and calm couple. My role models in love.

  • @lihlelamradebe9998
    @lihlelamradebe9998 Год назад +53

    Please do Phumeza and Shota next please 🥺🥺🥺

  • @Ripanzell
    @Ripanzell Год назад +8

    "Valuing you is also respecting your boundaries"

  • @philanonkelela9630
    @philanonkelela9630 Год назад +43

    Salamina ; Howza is a goated pair in South Africa. No couple comes close to them. It's been an interesting session I wish it was longer, I took lessons and I admired their frank stance. Salamina is a powerhouse abhuti Tshepo is from the rarest forms of creations. They are so humble, as someone who has noone to look up to I honestly look up to them. I envy those around them.

    • @nthabisengmakola28
      @nthabisengmakola28 Год назад +1

      They are a couple to definitely look up to ❤
      He is rare indeed
      How they acknowledge that they're both empaths... agh

    • @elizabethletsoso2558
      @elizabethletsoso2558 11 месяцев назад

      Absolutely right babe

  • @rubyadams1338
    @rubyadams1338 11 месяцев назад +3

    Such people should offer counsel, she is not trying to make us believe that he loves her. He does such a good job at that himself. Howza is needed ko men's conference

  • @asiphemjungula7109
    @asiphemjungula7109 Год назад +30

    Love their matured love ☺️☺️☺️

  • @NyeziNkanyi
    @NyeziNkanyi Год назад +32

    Such a gracious couple. I love them ❤❤

  • @user-kg4qt8xv6h
    @user-kg4qt8xv6h Год назад +8

    It's educational I'm actually learning, I'm currently in a beautiful relationship with my charismatic Mwezi Goniwe and I pray that even us too we make it to 9-15 years together.he is loving, supportive and spoiling.i on the other side give him all that I am , cherishing every single moment he's with me 😊🤭

  • @nqobilezondi4314
    @nqobilezondi4314 Год назад +20

    Omg i smiled 21mins and 21 secs 🙂☺😍 i love them so much

  • @user-qt7pe9re3o
    @user-qt7pe9re3o Год назад +14

    Putting it out there that I hope for such a beautiful, truthful, raw, honest love like Howza and Salamina ❤ Love love this for them.

  • @kabelothapedi9841
    @kabelothapedi9841 Год назад +21

    This was more educational than ya'll think, thank you for this interview, I wish them more love, light and success in their marriage ❤

  • @lesediseemela9856
    @lesediseemela9856 Год назад +14

    The level of respect between these two is admirable. So polite and you can see the connection between the two. I've learned a lot from the way they answered the questions. So articulate. 👌🏾🔝

  • @noxolomlotshwa7026
    @noxolomlotshwa7026 8 месяцев назад +3

    "Complacency is an enemy"👌🏾👌🏾

  • @vuyopangeni3969
    @vuyopangeni3969 Год назад +14

    Beautiful couple, so mature respectful towards each other and they are spiritually connected. Love Howza adores his wife u can just see it, appreciates her and respects her. Love Salamina so sensual, present, real, gives her husband room to be a man in her life, she makes him her King. So beautiful guys ❤

  • @wewemhlaba7593
    @wewemhlaba7593 Год назад +27

    My favourite couple ever😍❤😊Can't wait for this.

  • @nosihlematyeni7650
    @nosihlematyeni7650 Год назад +82

    "You have to know all your emotions to know who you truly are" -Howza, emphasis on emotional awareness.
    Again, one of the most beautiful episodes I have watched of Defining, thanks guys ❤

  • @thandekadikane6188
    @thandekadikane6188 Год назад +22

    I appreciate how honest and genuine you both were especially when answering questions about your relationship. My husband and I have been married for almost 5 years now and I genuinely saw us in some of the answers you two gave. That helped me and inspired me as well. Thank you so much for this video❤.

  • @nomfundoqwabe6080
    @nomfundoqwabe6080 Год назад +18

    I love this couple, they are very humble.And honestly I've learnt a lot from this episode.

  • @awelanisadiki7168
    @awelanisadiki7168 Год назад +5

    When a relationship put God as a foundation...it goes a long way, we just have to agree. I loved the way Hawza answers the intimacy part, spiritual...alighining with God teaches us to tap on the rest of intimacy....woooow

  • @tebellomokone2508
    @tebellomokone2508 Год назад +32

    I like how self aware they are of themselves and how aware they are of each other.

  • @botlhalemotlhala5633
    @botlhalemotlhala5633 Год назад +9

    Loving how they are speaking their truth, no sugar coating😻 just telling it like it is. And the fact that they share a similar definition of intimacy which is mostly emotional and spiritual. You can clearly see that they really put in the work for this marriage❤.

  • @XoliTheCreative
    @XoliTheCreative Год назад +38

    Oh man! What a beautiful couple! I can imagine how loving & warm their home is 🥹❤️

  • @ntokozotshabala8124
    @ntokozotshabala8124 Год назад +24

    The love, respect you guys have for each other😍😍😍Moreover the realness and honesty you have guys is what I think keeps you stronger and going further with this relationship. I so love you guys♥♥♥ you're a true reflection of how true love is without having to convince others that you love each other. Many more years to you guys - God bless your family😘

  • @PhilisiweBZwane
    @PhilisiweBZwane Год назад +6

    "Valuing you, is respecting your boundaries"

  • @LoveInMarriage
    @LoveInMarriage Год назад +12

    Love these two. So happy they lasted so long. To many more years of LOVE IN MARRIAGE.

  • @siphosethu222
    @siphosethu222 Год назад +6

    I remember the Lerumo character n thinking this is too much intimacy… anyways this video gave me hope , I was super depressed lying in bed all the time stopped doing my fav activities but after watching I even pick up the book I was reading n read a chapter .. this episode really worked for my soul, wonderful people . I’ve always loved the Mosese’s..❤

  • @nobuhlemasombuka3167
    @nobuhlemasombuka3167 Год назад +11

    This video has given me a lot of insight, my appreciation for the artistry of acting has really grown. Great video 💐💐💐💐

  • @ntombifuthigloriamajola9985
    @ntombifuthigloriamajola9985 Год назад +7

    ngaze nga-smiler

  • @neothelejane7450
    @neothelejane7450 Год назад +5

    Spiritual alignment teaches you how to tap into emotions 🔥🔥🔥🙌👑

  • @elsamarlyse8054
    @elsamarlyse8054 Год назад +4

    Howza gave great examples... and loooooved that he took his time answering. Beautiful guys❤

  • @bhekimabaso1077
    @bhekimabaso1077 Год назад +8

    What an enlightening conversation between these two lovebirds 😊

  • @hellothaphaswana7391
    @hellothaphaswana7391 11 месяцев назад +2

    Wow wow what a beautiful couple perfect match. I love them so much i wish my daughter can be in such relationship her mani really adore them❤❤🔥💥🔥💥🔥💋💋

  • @DEFINING
    @DEFINING  Год назад +19

    Have you watched Homewrecker? 👀👀

  • @Lawrencelebuso
    @Lawrencelebuso Год назад +2

    They remind me of Connie n Shona (may his soul rest in peace). The love n respect they show is second to nun. Overall great lessons to be learnt. They have grown as individuals and as partners❤

  • @tumelomothoa2860
    @tumelomothoa2860 Год назад +14

    Love their authenticity ❤

  • @katlegomhlauli8423
    @katlegomhlauli8423 Год назад +4

    Thank you Howza for reminding us that you can sing sing… took me back to that piano scene on Backstage when he sang John Legend’s Ordinary People I will never forget that 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 also beautiful love journey

  • @Nthabee00
    @Nthabee00 Год назад +9

    Ugh man, i love these 2 so much 😍😍😍😍😍

  • @Lerato_Moeketsi.
    @Lerato_Moeketsi. Год назад +7

    So amazing to witness these two amazing individuals give us insight about what intimacy in marriage is and how it has been for them, big ups to them as well as to Defining.❤

  • @accoucher0
    @accoucher0 Год назад +11

    They’re so good❤️😊by far I feel defined “intimacy” so well❤️❤️

  • @iam_mmathoka
    @iam_mmathoka Год назад +2

    Everytime i see Salamina Mosese I can't unhear her Intro on Abomzala " ke nna Ela wa ga Kekana ,ke thabela go le tseba " 😹😹 im happy Her and Howza finally made it to the channel, they are so beautiful ❤️❤️

  • @thatomalebo5338
    @thatomalebo5338 Год назад +4

    Love the song he wrote for her. Didn't know he could sing so well. 🌻

  • @zukiswamashicila
    @zukiswamashicila Год назад +4

    You guys are great together.❤...i love you both and your love,may God continue to bless your union and its amazing how you have grown ,I used to watch Salamina as a child ,heyi kudala sabakho emhlabeni weNkosi...

  • @MsNamzieMol
    @MsNamzieMol Год назад +12

    I really enjoyed this episode… what a beautiful couple ❤️

  • @onkgopotseseleka8352
    @onkgopotseseleka8352 2 месяца назад +1

    These two people are my favourite hands down… they are so real.

  • @sylvialesaoana4644
    @sylvialesaoana4644 Год назад

    I just got to love this couple even more. The level of respect and how she helps him say 'something' easy when he striggles to find a proper word. The level of honesty and support for me is a deal. God bless your family. You are definitely an inspitation.
    Tshepo loves his wife so much. Beautiful guys. Keep it up.
    I didnt think about homewrecker but because these 2, im definitely going to support them and watch. From a busy schedule, you are my break - go to couple movies.

  • @imlapams
    @imlapams Год назад +8

    Such a beautiful couple, their love is a masterpiece that unfolds with every passing day. May their journey be filled with endless love, cherished memories, and a bond that only grows stronger with time.😍

  • @tshephomnguni-gw1jh
    @tshephomnguni-gw1jh Год назад +2

    One of my favorite celebrity couples...love how they model themselves...

  • @trudytriad4574
    @trudytriad4574 Год назад +3

    Howza has such a powerful singing voice

  • @khutjodiphofe2245
    @khutjodiphofe2245 Год назад +4

    I find the soul-tie thing interesting because Christians often say it although it has no scriptural basis. It seems to have been adopted from New Age beliefs.

  • @oyamamdleleni
    @oyamamdleleni Год назад +3

    What a beautiful couple, one of those few you find in the entertainment space. I pray covering over them as individuals and as a couple. Salamina is a strong God fearing women, I love the matured level of intimacy they are at. Wish them all the best❤

  • @appolenatashia9558
    @appolenatashia9558 Год назад +3

    Thank you Defining. Thank you Mr and Mrs Mosese. What an honour to be invited in your personal space. I enjoyed Home wrecker.

  • @sindimbiba4865
    @sindimbiba4865 Год назад +2

    Oh woow how crazy is that i'm watching this video same day i watched "home wrecker"??...brilliant producer Salamina is.😍😍😍

  • @DEFINING
    @DEFINING  Год назад +20

    Do you believe in soul ties? 🤔

  • @tandiswamgudlwa779
    @tandiswamgudlwa779 Год назад +1

    I thoroughly enjoyed the conversations. Love the couple even more. Thank you for coming and sharing abit of your life’s. I’m just inspired how you guys are besties, ntwanas … just loving the friendship and support ❤

  • @sibothezulu
    @sibothezulu Год назад +12

    Love them ❤❤
    Please also invite Tony and Sthandiwe Kgoroge 🥹🥹🥹🥹

  • @khanyisilemkhize6355
    @khanyisilemkhize6355 Год назад +3

    Ohhh yessss I love them, can't wait watch I know it's good

  • @athimapapu4367
    @athimapapu4367 Год назад +1

    We waited for this in anticipation. Love these two!

  • @pinkymvuyana314
    @pinkymvuyana314 Год назад

    There is so much more to the *on-screen love interest topic* which was not mentioned. I appreciate what you share. So genuine and honest. Love you both: God bless you

  • @zandibuckland1652
    @zandibuckland1652 Год назад +7

    They are still together 🫶🏽. God is good I’ve loved them from the moment I found out they were together ❤

  • @mazazahngcamu4369
    @mazazahngcamu4369 Год назад +2

    Aggg man I love this two ❤❤ I was smiling watching this. Their love story warms my heart. May the good Lord keep them 🙏🏾

  • @tshidig
    @tshidig Год назад

    Loved watching beautiful friends share their love story this way. You guys are the real deal and your journey is so genuine. Glad Defining got to share it with the world🙌🏾❤️

  • @kgomotsomabe
    @kgomotsomabe Год назад +3

    Genuine couple, I love them so much and I pray God continues to bless them immensely ♥️.

  • @patiswavabaza2787
    @patiswavabaza2787 Год назад +3

    Quite a refreshing and insightful episode by young couple. A couple who is very articulate authentic, in voicing their thoughts and feelings. May you continue to grow in your marriage, love and relationship.❤

  • @lynnmbambisa6973
    @lynnmbambisa6973 10 месяцев назад +1

    Watching this alone but tonight will watch again with my husband, love you Mr and Mrs M❤❤❤❤❤

  • @nomawethumweli8837
    @nomawethumweli8837 Год назад

    Wow thanks for this episode....you shared some light. Love u guys ❤❤❤

  • @Winterflowers1
    @Winterflowers1 Год назад +5

    They're such couple goals, love them😍😍

  • @hlengiwehlatshwayo8667
    @hlengiwehlatshwayo8667 Год назад +3

    For my future relationship to be like this in the future 🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️

  • @tselit7491
    @tselit7491 Год назад +1

    BIG LOVE. Thank you, family!

  • @siphonkala3833
    @siphonkala3833 Год назад +1

    So glad l came across ❤❤ Loved you guys from way back. You are just one in a million keep going ..

  • @Sive_Nyanda
    @Sive_Nyanda 5 месяцев назад

    This type of love 😍🥹👏🏾 mature, filled with respect and humility, love it!

  • @ubhutiontsundu6329
    @ubhutiontsundu6329 Год назад +1

    That Xbox moment just was a cherry on top for me on showing how much their communication is literally on drugs🥺🥺♥️♥️

  • @makonyanap9391
    @makonyanap9391 Год назад +3

    Beautiful & Wholesome Defining of Intimacy Episode.🥰🙌🏾❤️❤️ Loved it. Well done Defining Team and the gracious couple 👏🏿

  • @ayandamokwana
    @ayandamokwana Год назад +3

    What a lovely combination. I wish them great success in their marriage and their careers!🎉

  • @kamohelokay2828
    @kamohelokay2828 Год назад

    I've got alot to say in words... But the most profund, meaning and inspiring word id say is that you guys as a couple realy realy and honestly knows how to make this thing called relationship look waaay to easy.... Ive loved you guys from the days when Howza was Adam and Salamina fron Craze.... Words can nkt describe how much i admire you ❤️❤️❤️keep it up... We are looking up to you

  • @phizzy123
    @phizzy123 8 дней назад

    Here after watching this amazing couple host The Ultimatum South Africa, had no idea I had seen Howza in the Homewrecker on Netflix already 😅 loved watching these two even as hosts!

  • @nyasha2432
    @nyasha2432 Год назад +10

    "Blusha Ntate"😭😂🥹

  • @sandra_aquia2413
    @sandra_aquia2413 Год назад +2

    Me running to Netflix to support you guys 😅