Jesse Suntele & Thuthu Maqhosha Define Love | DEFINING LOVE S3:E4
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- Опубликовано: 29 дек 2021
- Sometimes you go looking for one thing and find something 10 times better! In this episode of #DEFININGLOVE, Jesse Suntele & Thuthu Maqhosha share their love with us and tell us how it bloomed unexpected 💕 #RoadTo150K
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@Jesse_Suntele_
@Thuthu_Buttons
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As I take notes... ✍🏽
So in 2022, i'm going to the gym and sending out "👀" in the dms... got it😭❤️
Same sis😂😭
😂
😂😂😂Yoh ayy you finished me 🤣😭
Sakuthandi 😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣once
dont lie, ur also here from Lasizwe`s awkward date 🤣🤣 I see u
😂
Wow😂😂
1000%! So confused!!😮
😂
😂😂😂😂
Came back today after they got married over the weekend❤❤
What Jesse said about breaking someone's trust and accepting the responsibility to forever try to make the person you've wronged to trust back, is so profound and I wish people understood that.
Right ❤️❤️❤️
He was really on the money there and we're so glad he was transparent enough to share that truth
You and me both. 🤞🏽
So trueeeee!!
To me the purest remorse is when you take full responsibility, commit to making amends and expect no forgiveness. They may or may not forgive you, they don't owe it to you.
Their relationship is so amazing and honestly shout out to cute guys who can still genuinely love like this.
It's rare but i believe it still exists ausi Lesego.
❤️❤️❤️
He's is cute
Not me smiling like an idiot 2 minutes into the episode 🔥❤😍😭.
That was me🤣
Me too! 😊
Me too 😍😍😍
Me too❤
Me too😁😁
When you feel like giving up on love remember this channel 🥺
🥺❤❤
Appreciate this channel honestly.. It gives me hope
I've already given up unfortunately 😔😔
@Lesego mathoka 😂😂😂😭Let's go today
Honestly 😭
These two are just so genuine 🥺. Shout out to Jesse & Thuthu for featuring on the channel💕! Let's get this video to 15K likes🔥
🙄 I don't.
I love seeing black women in healthy relationships 😭❤
❤🥺🥺🥺
We would love to see Sipho and Black Wendy
That's another love story I would love to hear ❤️
You see the vision 😭😭
Me me me
Shuuuu YES!!
Would love that please!
Guys😭 I love love. I don't get over hearing different stories of how people met and fell in love. I see and hear so much of God in these little stories that change people's lives. Everytime I watch, I become more patient and willing to wait of God because this kind of love is worth all the waiting in the world. This was beautiful
Well said ♥️
Preach
Amen
Beautiful comment Neli❤
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You can tell they don't only love eachother but they genuinely like eachother. You can see the friendship within this beautiful relationship 🙏🏾🥺
🕯️God, when😞🥺🙏🏾🕯️
You're so right Nolwazi! Their friendship shines through 🥺❤️
Black women deserve love that is kind and generous and genuine and I'm here for all of that!
Facts!!!
The message we need to put across is, we all, equally, deserve that kind of love.
@@xbusika Respectfully, I said what I said.
@@Between2_worlds good for you?!
Why am i crying ?! A love that has prayer in it is always so beautiful !!
I don't think its tears, its them onions and they got into my eyes too.
Amen 🥺❤️
Nahhh because 😭
They're so picture perfect
I'm jealous!
I claim this energy and their chemistry 🔥 AMEN!
Their chemistry is incredible 🥺🤌
Jesse's insight on insecurity and how one should approach the situation when you've been in the wrong is absolutely incredible! Thank you for setting the standard for black men in SA! ♥👏
Insecurities are such a burden for the next person though. And an emotional drain for both.
Totally loved that as well
We're so grateful that he was so vulnerable with our viewers 🥺❤️
This was a beautiful lesson.
I agree with him that's why I won't stick around any relationship that makes me feel insecure. The whole thing of assuring and reassuring is too much work for me...
"..when I feel like I'm loosing myself, I come back and I tell you. Because I don't wanna loose you too.." 😢 ..Yoh this was worth my wait. Good Lord 😍😍🤗😍😍. I love love batung.
🥺🥺🥺🥺😍
This was the one yhoo
@@ceciliamorare8832 absolutely 😍.
Glad it was worth the wait Stembile 🥺❤️
Yoh! That got me too...🥺♥️♥️😭😭🙌🏾🥰🥰🥰
This couple oozes soft and gentle love🥺♥️ it's pure and effortless
They've got THAT thing 🥺❤️
Defining is safe space for couples, its so therapeutic. Couples get to be confronted with certain topics they hardly talk about.
We are so grateful that the couples trust us when we're shooting together 🥺❤️
I'd listen to Thuthu speak the whole day. Her voice is soothing 😫
I loved the part Jesse said 'while some people are waking up thinking about what to make for breakfast, I'll be thinking about how to make her happy' 😊♥️♥️ i felt that
I love the background music that plays all the time when couples read out letters to each other.
Same 🥺❤️
I once bumped into these two at a Roccomamas. Super down to earth people these two.
They really are 🥺❤️
I love this channel because it contradicts all I ever hear about South African men. So refreshing to watch these couples 💝
Thank you Fatu 🥺
"He's taught me love is kind." 🥺😭Fall in love with a kind man and all the other good qualities will follow. This was beautiful and they're a beautiful reminder that love is beautiful 👏🏽😊
Ahhh, nothing like a dreamy episode of Defining Love to revive my 'SBWL irelationship' energy everytime it dies down.
Lol
🤣🤣
😂🤣 we got you Mandlakazi ❤️
😂😂😂😂
Notification Gang🥳! Where you at??
🥳🥳🥳🥳 We are definitely here.
@@lindiwemtshali1643 🥳🥳🥳
Back here, because wow man🥺🥺😭
I’ve never seen two people gel together so effortlessly 😭 This has got to be my favorite episode
Thank you for coming back 🥺❤️❤️❤️
Me too😍
This is so cute… I remember seeing them (the couple) at a McDonalds in Northriding. I can’t explain it, they were so smitten with each other, holding hands etc to the point where l couldn’t even ask for a picture so l just watched them 😄. I love love … I knew nothing about their relationship but just watching them together made me happy. I was smiling all the way to the car.
Thuthu is sooo cute 🥰 and she doesn't have any makeup on guyzzz
She really is beautiful 🥺❤️
12:03-13:08 I love that. I hate being rushed to heal. The person has to focus on what they’re fixing and not how quick I’m healing.
Exactly Kamo 🥺❤️
That part about insecurities is the most authentic I've seen on this channel.
It was very genuine 🥺❤️
I've been ignoring this series because I was tired of crying but I'm back again, enjoying it so much, smiling and crying again. Love is beautiful
I was in taxi home when i was watching this episode unfortunately got into an accident and my phone crashed, now that I've recovered i decided to come and finish the episode because i love watching the two of you.. ❤❤❤❤
I'm sorry hey!
Sorry thato
Oh...sorry
Beautiful couple ❤❤❤❤
Jesse give me hope that a guy can be handsome and smart and emotionally intelligent and gentle and kind and loving.❤
They both are genuinely wonderful
Thuthu is soo cute😍
She really is 🥺❤️
What every girl dreams of , I'm so happy such love exists. This is the cutest
Thank you Kelly 🥺❤️
Seeing young people genuinely in love give 🥺
🥺❤️
Her aura is amazing
Through and through! She's such a vibe 🥺❤️
She's chilled❤
This is so beautiful. Especially the part when Jesse was talking about rebuilding trust. He broke her trust and he’s doing everything to rebuild it and over time she’s become secure and I love that
It was so well said! Thanks for watching Bongiwe 🥺❤️
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Years later their have their handsome baby boy🥺❤
And now married🥹❤
And I still watch this episode. ❤❤
I love love.
I love seeing people happy.
I love how Defining stays changing the narrative with such real and beautiful content. Thank you guys.
Jesse and Thuthu are the cutest 😍.
Thank you Kuda 🥺❤️! We appreciate you too 🥺
They look like siblings. Love is a beautiful thing 😭❤
Their love feels so genuine. They seem like they really appreciate and love each other. It's beautiful to see.
Thuthu is sooo funny.😂🔥❤
Damn... Their chemistry.😭
Yoh... Hai guys. Never settle until you find your person.💯😫
Amen! And be open to whoever that person may be 🥺❤️
Dear Defining,
I just want to let you know that I am a Ugandan out here who has returned for the 10th time to rewatch all these episodes all over again like a child’s favorite show!
Dear Defining,😂
I would like you to know that I begun to believe that sweet love exists because of these episodes.
And now it’s been years since you released any,
If you had stopped,please dont 😭
You start looking for other couples now,I can even help you find them😂😂so bad I’m not in South Africa, but imwe….
Even the breakup episodes,I CRRRRIIIEEEDDDD!! Till this day I cry when I watch them 😂
But thank you for sharing the honesty in love in every aspect.the good,the bad,the ugly ,the joy and the pain.
Please please give us more episodes 😢
It was lovely to watch a couple so honest about their love journey. This made it so much more relatable.
Agreed!
This is so sweet and so genuinely authentic❤🌻🤌I love the timing and space they give and share with one another🥺🥺this is mad cute🤞🔥
It really is a beautiful episode 🥺❤️. Thank you for watching Phomello 🥳🥳
I’m screaming!!!🥺 Thank you Defining. I literally stalk them on IG
🤗🤗🤗🤗me and you both hunn
You're welcome 🥺❤️
Their @?
Omg same❤️🤭
Ladies we need to go to the gym.🙆🏾♀️ this was so sweet. Wish them love and light beyond this.😍❤
😩😩 seriously
😂😂😂
😂😂
True😂😂
Kannete guys
It's literally impossible to watch these two without those uncontrolled smiles 😌
I don't know why I'm crying but I am okay?!! 😭😭😭 Hayibo this is so beautiful, I just can't😭😍
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One thing I’ve learnt here is that love does exist. We may just be unlucky at that certain moment in life otherwise it’s there.
So true!
Lumka I hope I get lucky this year!!
@@wshelby83 🥺❤️
This made me cry. Thought I had this with my husband but ke. Love is beautiful. Your love is beautiful. May you two both see the value in each other and never ever do anything to compromise it. May this laughter remain between you guys forever 🥰
There really is no timeline for someone to trust you again.❤ What a good point Jesse raised about trust.
I cannot get over this channel,giving many hope that there is truly love out there. And that when two people make a conscious decision to work and be together it can truly work out.
Thank you C 🥺❤️
She has such an infectious laugh and a wonderful personality. He is so chilled and affectionate. They are made for each other. I have been smiling for the entire episode.
🥺💕
I love how Jesse is connected emotionally in the Union🙏🏾
Definitely 🥺❤️
They look like the male and female version of each other. Like they are a pair that had to come together... To find a partner (love and life partner) is really a blessing.
Yoh, a reminder of what love feels like, the security, the friendship and laughter 😍😍😍
It really is a beautiful episode 🥺❤️
I pray my son becomes like this to some lucky lady and he gets to have someone who loves him wholeheartedly as she does...
Thank you for reminding us that true love exists
We hope so too 🥺! Thank you for tuning in ❤️
I have always wanted to know more about their love storyyy !!!! Defining let’s go
Thank you for tuning in Tebello 🥺❤️
I'm crying at the "he taught me that love can be kind. Love IS kind". My ex was so mean to me. Dang! That man hurt me. I'm waiting in the Lord for some kind man.
Sorry to hear about your Ex 🥺❤️
Not Me Realizing How Single I Am & At The Same Time I'm Gonna Wait For This Kinder Love. 💕 Not Settling For Less
Thats right 🥺❤️
"Love, never knew what I was missing but I knew once we start kissing I found love"
😩🥺😭👏🏾👏🏾
🥺❤️
Eyyyy love is beautiful bethuna...Why are we playing ourselves like this?😂we are missing out mahn
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"If something great comes along sooner than you expect it - you can change that" ❤
This is the episode we didn’t know we needed🥺 So honest and raw. Ohw but we all deserve this kind of love❤️❤️❤️
The episode you didnt see coming 😄! Thanks for watching Onezwa 🥺❤️
I came back to watch this episode again because Jesse opened up about causing someone to be insecure. I definitely wish more people were as intentional as he is about trying to fix their wrongs and the pain they have caused. Wow
Not me watching this for the 3rd time Arg 🥺
And that's how we end 2021 🥂🥂🥂🥂
Thank you Khuni! Happy New Year 🥺❤️
Their love is Sooo refreshing ❤️❤️
And gentle 🥺❤️
Why is my single ass over here at 01:04am, obviously I'm melting and crying over this beautiful love you guys share😭❤️
Gorgeous people. The chemistry! Day made. 💕💕
Thank you for watching Gugulethu 🥺❤️
1. You can tell that he genuinely loves her, and I love that for her 🥰!
2. She glows under the spotlight of that love 😊.
3. Y'all reading this had better not be filling up gym classes busy looking for love 😂😂
Lol 😂😂😂
Ma'am, I'm joining a gym tomorrow 😂
@@Khumalic problem child 🤦🏽♀️🤣
I love how you guys just laughed after he said "I said you mustn't cry" while reading his letter🥺🥺... The connection you have is spectacular, I could feel it through the screen. Love is beautiful when you find the one God made for you
Amen 💕
Call it Fate however I can relate 200%I found love can't believe that someone somewhere is going through what I am going through. GOD IS GOOD AND ITS HIS TIMING 🙌🏼🙌🏼❤❤🙏🏼🙏🏼
You’re so blessed!!
Guys I'm going to the gym this year!!! Lol this is so beautiful. I love this love, I wish you both a long life together. Thank you for sharing your love story. ❤
You and me girl,gym here I come🤣🤣🤣😍
@@preciousjali6995 let's hope we'll meet up here again with our testimonies 🤣
@@bongiwemasoka lets hope girl 💞💞❤
Thank you for watching Bongiwe🥺❤️
Oh Thuthu I love you, i love Jesse for you and I just love both of you guys
🥺❤️
I love how authentic and pure this love is...
Same 🥺❤️
We would love to see Bonko and Lesego Khoza🥺
Same 🥺❤️
Love is a beautiful thing. I love how comfortable they are with each other. SBWL..
Defining team continue finding beautiful stories that inspire many of us to believe in love. Great work.
Thank you Temoso 🥺❤️
Watching this just affirms that I’m settling and I need to stop entertaining a relationship that isn’t going anywhere bc a man who loves you will show it and you don’t have to earn it at all. And-I need to hit the gym😂 So happy for this beautiful couple! Love is luck❤
Love is indeed, luck.
Wooow🥲this is beyond beautiful!!
They r so genuine n fragile n full of love for each other🥺🥺if it doesn't come close to this then I don't want it🙏🏽
If you didn't know what unconditional love looks like then this episode has shown you.
Shout out to Jesse and Thuthu. What an epic love story.😁❤️😎
Love is what we all need.
Exactly! thank you so much for tuning 🥺❤️
Reason most relationship don't really workout is that it was built upon urges to mate than friendship. Your lover is your friend.
Friendship with each other is so important in a relationship 🥺
@mate😂😂😂😂
@@summadaze2546 lol you know exactly what that comment mean't..
Friendship is everything
@@Chisanga1991 100% it is
Omo this guy is good. Thuthu I know see what you sees in him. Very charming, articulate, smart, intelligent, handsome, sweet and always know the right words to say.
When he brought those pages we KNEW THOSE KIDS BACK AT SCHOOL: homework up to date 😂😂🔥❤️😭
😂🤣
Eish, I cried. I love this couple.
Thank you Montseng 🥺❤️
This is amazing. It makes me wanna see Khuli Chana and Lamiez on an episode of Defining Love❤
They are so beautiful. Perfect smiles 😍😍 You can see they genuinely enjoy each other. Love their love .
Same 🥺❤️
Literally liked after they laughed in unison at the beginning of the video. That’s so sweet man 🥰🥰🥰
Thank you 🥺❤️
they just make you believe in true,authentic love😍
They really do 🥺❤️
their love is so beautiful. i love love so much man and i can’t wait to experience a genuine love 🥺
We can't wait to hear your story 🥺❤️
I'm crying😭😭😭 I keep coming back to this channel because it reminds me what love is❤️😩
Thank you for coming back 🥺❤️
i absolutely enjoyed this video especially that lesson on insecurity by Jessie. you guys make love attainable and beutiful. And a huge shoutout to Defining for doing this #DEFININGLOVE series. we need more content like this in this time of high divorce rates and mjolo pandemic. i love you guys so much. we need a spin off of this series in Botswana.
Thank you so much Kiki ❤️❤️ We hope to come to Botswana soon ;)
Such beautiful people with beautiful smiles that come straight from their beautiful soul💖 this is such an amazing episode💫
Thank you Ngasii 🥺❤️
I hate this channel for making me want to love again🥺😭
This is beautiful ♥️♥️
You deserve love too Onkabetse 🥺❤️
I said you mustn't cry.
You crying.
I don't know. 😭😢🥰😍Love is beautiful tlhe
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I always smile throughout Defining Love videos 😍
Thank you for always coming back 🥺❤️