Tumi Morake and Mpho Osei-Tutu Define LOVE |

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  • Опубликовано: 8 янв 2025

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  • @DEFINING
    @DEFINING  5 лет назад +98

    Wasssuppp DEFINING FAM🍾! I hope you enjoy this VERY special episode with the Awesome Tutus🔥! They really shared some gems throughout the video, Let us know what you learned from their love below😁😁 #RoadTo50K

    • @KIMTEVIN
      @KIMTEVIN 5 лет назад +3

      DEFINING officially obsessed with them

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 лет назад +1

      @@KIMTEVIN 🙌🏿🙌🏿😁

    • @khunindlovu3310
      @khunindlovu3310 5 лет назад +3

      Love is liberating is what I learnt

    • @abigailmmapaseka9976
      @abigailmmapaseka9976 5 лет назад +2

      😍😍😍😢😢😢😢 I'm a fan of defining ... and I love like love love defining love content
      Remember the first time I stumbled upon defining ...i watched the Defining love ... from 00h00 to 03h00 .. over school Wi-Fi 🤗😅 the couples ..... thato and mo ... sushi and wasabi... L &T... the koenas...regodise.... mpoomy ledwaba... this list goes on and on

    • @phathutshedzomatumba3648
      @phathutshedzomatumba3648 5 лет назад

      @@DEFINING I love love love you guys 💜💜💜

  • @mochaleaves
    @mochaleaves 5 лет назад +272

    "When you speak gently to me my body hears and my spirit listens" suka mabhozeni

    • @Lanterns09
      @Lanterns09 5 лет назад +3

      Suka emabhozeni!!!!🙆🏽‍♂️😣😭😭❤

    • @Sumeya.
      @Sumeya. 5 лет назад +5

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Suka emabhozeni nooooo 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @sthembelevezi7661
      @sthembelevezi7661 5 лет назад +2

      Suka emabhozeni😭😭😍❤️

    • @mochaleaves
      @mochaleaves 5 лет назад +5

      Zulu is not my mother tongue you understood what I meant

    • @thobekaskosana7295
      @thobekaskosana7295 4 года назад +2

      Ayi suka emabhozeni

  • @zinangoni297
    @zinangoni297 5 лет назад +232

    There's just something so calm and so matured about them, overall.
    The checking in, constant assurance that you are needed, the loving enough to know you don't own. It a lot😭❤️

    • @KIMTEVIN
      @KIMTEVIN 5 лет назад +4

      Zina Ngoni they make you believe that despite everything that could be happening, love always wins

    • @ntombizulu6413
      @ntombizulu6413 5 лет назад

      That a wow love to the a some Tutus love is good when it is true.

  • @ongezwamomoza1827
    @ongezwamomoza1827 5 лет назад +75

    My ultimate favourite episode of DEFINING
    when Tumi said: "never have I ever looked forward to seeing someone in my life, the way I look forward to seeing you. The way you drink me with your eyes quenches my thirst for love."
    Gosh, I felt that!

  • @ronnielmulaudzi
    @ronnielmulaudzi 5 лет назад +69

    I love the part where she says, you have to learn to love someone enough to know you dont own them. 🙌🏾💯

  • @khunindlovu3310
    @khunindlovu3310 5 лет назад +79

    What I love about this one episode is they r the longest standing couple we have had and we get to see that intentional consistent love through the years...a whole 17years of choosing someone yeah❤Thank you Defining

  • @shiluva_ml3235
    @shiluva_ml3235 5 лет назад +135

    No guys lets take this moment and appreciate the intro 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍 #Defining

    • @Ntlentle_
      @Ntlentle_ 5 лет назад

      Lulu Ratson so beautiful 😭🥰

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 лет назад +1

      Gang Gang!

    • @elizabethletsoso2558
      @elizabethletsoso2558 5 лет назад +1

      Lulu I give a shout-out to the intro lol 😂😂😂😂👌👌👌

  • @mmaleakom4123
    @mmaleakom4123 5 лет назад +40

    Tumi is throwing some gems of wisdom, or is it pearls? 🔥🔥 I love them

  • @DK1original
    @DK1original 5 лет назад +37

    Yoh Tumis letter !!
    “You drink me with your eyes “ tjeerr
    I love love !!

  • @nobuhlemasombuka3167
    @nobuhlemasombuka3167 5 лет назад +49

    I believe in love again 🙋😭💜. I'll come back to this video over and over again. To recharge that belief

  • @tafaramemorymarange3528
    @tafaramemorymarange3528 3 года назад +11

    I'm late but I was wowed when Tumi said" My husband reminds me of what seperates us from animals". That was so soulful, I felt that.

  • @szn2727
    @szn2727 5 лет назад +39

    Mpho is literally one of the best actors !! Eseng mo South Africa, emhlabeni yonke !

    • @elizabethletsoso2558
      @elizabethletsoso2558 5 лет назад +2

      Actually both of them watseba mara I love them soo much

    • @Thulaganyo-M
      @Thulaganyo-M 5 лет назад +1

      😂 why are you fighting us with that ‘eseng mo south Africa’

    • @virginiamadisha1331
      @virginiamadisha1331 4 года назад

      @@Thulaganyo-M 😂😂❤️

  • @odwaposwayo9327
    @odwaposwayo9327 4 года назад +11

    This has to be my favourite episode. Love is beautiful and what's more beautiful is the number of years they've been together

  • @MananaMoeng27
    @MananaMoeng27 5 лет назад +72

    The way my heart twerks when defining posts twice in one week,this is the content I signed up for.
    The subs are happy 😃

  • @Ippyleng
    @Ippyleng 4 года назад +6

    The realness between these two amazing people....We love them

  • @ChristianZiya
    @ChristianZiya 4 года назад +4

    Who liked the video before even watching because they love Tumi somuch 😍😘🇿🇦🇺🇸 . Definitely inspired by both of you guys ♥️
    “If you love someone love them enough to let the go and flourish” powerful statement

  • @lululekalakala6512
    @lululekalakala6512 5 лет назад +41

    This couple is so well spoken and so matured. #Defining makes genuine love look desirable and sooooooooo worth it. Enjoyed this thru and thru. Thank you team💜

  • @sinesiphogxekwa5084
    @sinesiphogxekwa5084 5 лет назад +16

    Haibo who is chopping onions ? Beeeeeeen smiling throughout this episode of defining love and worst post I'm in the library infront of the masses nogal . Love this couple , loved loved loved this episode of defining . May their union continue to grow and may their careers continue to blossom . Thank you defining team , nizi plugs shame😭😭❤❤

  • @LuluOkuhleK
    @LuluOkuhleK 5 лет назад +21

    "The way you drink me with your eyes, quenches my thirst for love"😢😢😢their love is so beautiful ❤

  • @wespeakthetruthhere7413
    @wespeakthetruthhere7413 5 лет назад +82

    All that’s missing now is mine and Dennis’ episode of defining.

  • @nozatrust1566
    @nozatrust1566 3 года назад +4

    This was by far on of the best episodes I’ve ever had the pleasure of watching. It felt so authentic…but I guess that comes with 17 years of commitment.
    Love it ❤️

  • @Lanterns09
    @Lanterns09 5 лет назад +100

    I hope Defining is still around when I get together with my crush 🙆🏽‍♂️😢❤... thanks for the upload team, this is my favourite segment on the channel❤

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 лет назад +3

      Noted ;)

    • @Richrato
      @Richrato 2 года назад +1

      How is it going with your crush?

  • @olwethuyekela4748
    @olwethuyekela4748 4 года назад +6

    What a beautiful couple. There's no mistaking that they're besties. Her laugh is so infectious, I loved this episode.

  • @makhananisithole7934
    @makhananisithole7934 5 лет назад +10

    Tumi & Mpho were chopping onions throughout!! 😭😭😭😍😍😍

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 лет назад

      I hope you enjoyed it :D

  • @KIMTEVIN
    @KIMTEVIN 5 лет назад +53

    Love someone enough to know that you don’t own them🙌🏾.
    Truth. We do not posses people, we only get to experience them.
    This relationship looks like so much fun 🤣🤣

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 лет назад +2

      It's such good insight, but how do you actually reach that point🥴🥴

    • @KIMTEVIN
      @KIMTEVIN 5 лет назад +5

      Yoh 😭. Maybe it comes with maturity and some crazy level of understanding.
      It’s a hard pill to swallow

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 лет назад +2

      @@KIMTEVIN especially before you get married. It probably frees them from each other and allow them to actually experience the love they have together

    • @KIMTEVIN
      @KIMTEVIN 5 лет назад

      Love that because it’s so true. And what’s better than being in a relationship that frees you

  • @mzazazimasa
    @mzazazimasa 5 лет назад +28

    Mpho's eyes are so unreal or is it me? Loved the wisdom here😍

    • @Tubi_P
      @Tubi_P 4 года назад +1

      It's not just you🤩

  • @Ash-ee4zv
    @Ash-ee4zv 4 года назад +8

    that clip at the beginning made my heart sooo warm bethuna 😭🥺♥️

  • @keitumetse1148
    @keitumetse1148 4 года назад +4

    😭😭😭 This is too sweet. I want this kind of love. I just love how she looks at her husband. Okare they just met and keep on falling inlove every second.

  • @gopolangkeletsomathebula
    @gopolangkeletsomathebula 3 года назад +2

    "The way you drink me with your eyes quenches my thirst to your love " 😩🔥🔥

  • @nhlandijack
    @nhlandijack 3 года назад +1

    Tumi’s Letter is every thing,From beginning till the end.🥺🥺❤️

  • @sandrasutton8382
    @sandrasutton8382 5 лет назад +2

    Wow! Just wow! If only we could all be close to this... There would be less divorces, less single parents and happy children! God guide you through your marriage and protect you from all evil!

  • @LethoHali
    @LethoHali 4 года назад +4

    7:34 only grasping this concept. Moved me to tears. Been meaning to watch this since it got uploaded but I’ve watched them so much I didn’t think there’d be anything new. Boy was I wrong! How refreshing! Absolutely beautiful!

  • @PalesaS17
    @PalesaS17 5 лет назад +9

    This is soo beautiful ❤️❤️❤️❤️I love them, I love how real Tumi and Mpho are

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 лет назад +1

      Same, they were just so open and real!

  • @samoomoloi1334
    @samoomoloi1334 5 лет назад +14

    "The way you drink me with your eyes quenches my thirst for love"🙉😍😭🔥🔥

  • @thusix1316
    @thusix1316 4 года назад +13

    Am I the only one watching this for the 10th time?.😭😭😭😭😭❤😍😍

  • @ThandazaMK
    @ThandazaMK 5 лет назад +6

    Tumi's smile is so beautiful.

  • @ntsakomahlawule4513
    @ntsakomahlawule4513 5 лет назад +54

    Love is just so beautiful when it is with the right person.
    Tumi and Mpho are so funny, but the love between them is so AMAZING!!! This is what love looks like when you marry your best friend.

  • @ntsandvoginindza448
    @ntsandvoginindza448 2 года назад +1

    Its the way he looks at her for me. You can tell hes madly in love with her 😍😍

  • @kim121ful
    @kim121ful 5 лет назад +5

    'thank you for gifting yourself triple times' 😍
    I love that they took their time, and kept checking that they both were growing as people and in love. It's amazing ✨

  • @stardustmammie
    @stardustmammie 5 лет назад +21

    Tumi's smile when Mpho was reading the letter 😀😍

  • @bongzaaya3720
    @bongzaaya3720 5 лет назад +1

    Love is so rare to find. I hope to one day find love that's as genuine and unconditional as this one.

  • @luluthomehlomakulu3181
    @luluthomehlomakulu3181 5 лет назад +5

    This absolutely brightened my day,,, what is a world without love really

  • @edwinm.motsumi7931
    @edwinm.motsumi7931 4 года назад +2

    I just found myself smiling the whole time absent minded 😂.. couple goals.. Look at how much they're having fun, it's true in life you should marry your best friend

  • @edumaba
    @edumaba 5 лет назад +18

    Her laughter makes me laugh my laughter that my friends find weird 😂😂😂

  • @nonhlanhlatlhogi5204
    @nonhlanhlatlhogi5204 5 лет назад +8

    Helloooooo♥️♥️♥️♥️The faves are here... ... guys wake up it's all here now🌸♥️♥️

  • @preciousramose3332
    @preciousramose3332 2 года назад +1

    One day when I get married to this one of mine, I must definitely come here to share our story.... This guy has always been my guy mane... 😍😍😍

  • @mphojeanettemabusane8780
    @mphojeanettemabusane8780 5 лет назад +32

    Waiting on the Fegursons😍😍😍😍
    I loved watching Tumi and Mpho💖

  • @mihlamathibe3928
    @mihlamathibe3928 5 лет назад +27

    Ncooooh man DEFINING is giving me serious The Skin Deep (The AND) series vibes. Thank you so much its nice to see black love.

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 лет назад

      Thank you Mihla! We love being able to celebrate Black Love #DEFININGLOVE

  • @babalwaphillips4959
    @babalwaphillips4959 5 лет назад +3

    Tumi and Mpho, they make the best couple, their story is a true reflection of true love...Poetry meaning of Love.

  • @sethumbangeni
    @sethumbangeni 5 лет назад +10

    Tumi is such a fave 😂❤️

  • @HelangMedia
    @HelangMedia 5 лет назад +37

    The accents when they were reading the questions 😂😂😂😂. I’m dead.

  • @mokgatsanekgatsi5053
    @mokgatsanekgatsi5053 5 лет назад +99

    If possible can we get Nandi and Zakes Bantwini

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 лет назад +8

      They aren't keen atm :(

    • @Mihle-ix8hg
      @Mihle-ix8hg 5 лет назад +22

      @@DEFINING Can we please get Ntokozo and Nqubeko Mbatha. Please🤗

    • @SennaMedarda
      @SennaMedarda 4 года назад

      Yeah no that ended😐😅

    • @lesegomadiba1097
      @lesegomadiba1097 4 года назад +4

      Bontle modiselle an Priddy ugly please

  • @nthabisengtabane1933
    @nthabisengtabane1933 5 лет назад +8

    I learnt a lot. This is for the archive

  • @Khanyisile_f
    @Khanyisile_f 5 лет назад +36

    Beeeeeen waiting for this😭😭😭🥺😍♥️

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 лет назад +2

      It's HERE :D

    • @Khanyisile_f
      @Khanyisile_f 5 лет назад

      @@DEFINING thank you so much y'all!!! It was worth the wait!! Sweet and short!

  • @siphokazik5312
    @siphokazik5312 5 лет назад +83

    Just asked my roommate if she knew these two were married and she did.
    Why am I the only one who didn't know this? I'm so mad at myself 😭

  • @kalepemaimane1209
    @kalepemaimane1209 3 года назад +1

    Loved your video Tumi and Mpho ❤️❤️❤️

  • @elledumble
    @elledumble 4 года назад +1

    They are both so charming but she is mesmerizing! The way she describes him was so cute and hilarious 😂😂😂

  • @MasiMakapela
    @MasiMakapela 5 лет назад +2

    I love those two.❤Denise please define your love..❤

  • @cindyrubushe9081
    @cindyrubushe9081 5 лет назад +12

    The rock-paper-scissors part urg so cute 😁😍

  • @Official.andyk23
    @Official.andyk23 4 года назад +6

    I'm so inspired by these defining love videos and hopefully I'll feature in the channel one day🙌❤

  • @missvee6850
    @missvee6850 2 года назад

    They have always my favorite couple in the showbiz ❤️❤️ this is beautiful.

  • @THEKOENAS
    @THEKOENAS 5 лет назад +15

    Such a refreshing episode. Gotta love that long time love that keeps renewing itself!
    Good work, team🙏🏽💕

  • @thatgirlvee2
    @thatgirlvee2 3 года назад +2

    Tumi is so funny 😂😂😂... This is beautiful ❤️❤️

  • @leratomorwe2467
    @leratomorwe2467 5 лет назад +5

    Totally enjoyed this couple and their love was so tangible. The wisdom, fun and honesty arghh 😍

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 лет назад

      It was a really good balance and fun and informative!

  • @Khanyisile_f
    @Khanyisile_f 5 лет назад +34

    Tumi's letter omggggg😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😍🥺♥️ I'm crying😭😭😭😭 actually both letters😩😩😩😩

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 лет назад +2

      😭😭😭🔥🔥🔥

  • @lesedimonkwe7291
    @lesedimonkwe7291 4 года назад +2

    " The way you drink me with your eyes quenches my thirst for love 😍"
    Ay suka madoda! 🔥
    15:47

  • @kekeletsomotsoeneng8653
    @kekeletsomotsoeneng8653 5 лет назад +25

    "You have to love someone enough to let them die"
    😭❤👌

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 лет назад +2

      It's so smart right :")

  • @dimangwenya854
    @dimangwenya854 5 лет назад +5

    This is pure love... God blessed them🥰🙏❤🙏

  • @ziningindlovu520
    @ziningindlovu520 5 лет назад +35

    What makes marriage boring is when couples become serious, I love how chilled they are.❤❤❤❤❤

  • @hhhvhbuhhghvy6265
    @hhhvhbuhhghvy6265 5 лет назад +10

    They so mature. I love it😍🤭

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 лет назад +2

      And you can tell that they are in it for the long run!

  • @noziphokhwela25
    @noziphokhwela25 5 лет назад +1

    Cannot wait to do one of these with Denis- hahahahaha. This is
    SA's best RUclips channel. Watching this video has definitely gave me an urge to work on my own purpose and vision. Seeing my people doing phenomenal work and working on their purpose is really encouraging.

  • @siyasangadyalo-paliso3218
    @siyasangadyalo-paliso3218 5 лет назад +12

    Ooooh Guys 🥰🥰🥰🥰 such love ❤❤❤❤. Their letters had me crying 🤩🤩🤩 I LOVE LOVE 🥰🥰

  • @Atli.Moshoeshoe
    @Atli.Moshoeshoe 5 лет назад +7

    So excited to watch😍

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 лет назад

      Hope you enjoy it :D

  • @matshidisomoses3320
    @matshidisomoses3320 5 лет назад +9

    Absolutely beautiful ❤️ this channel reminds us that love really does exist 😍 thank you defining 😘

  • @_tshego_m
    @_tshego_m 5 лет назад +3

    Omg 😭😭😭 love is such a beautiful thing ❤️❤️

  • @abongilesingama3816
    @abongilesingama3816 4 года назад +1

    yhooo. love is real. Love exists

  • @nosiphokubheka5665
    @nosiphokubheka5665 5 лет назад +12

    Some people can write yho😂 do these words come vitamin Love of?
    Listen to your angels gents 😅
    Love Tumi and Mpho 😍

  • @missy97
    @missy97 5 лет назад +1

    Oh LOVE!😭🔥..way my Friday 13th is ending with LOVE ❤thank you @Defining👏👏 all th way from Namibia

  • @jmladygodsgrace2788
    @jmladygodsgrace2788 4 года назад

    Such a wonderful Love & Life story! Thank you for sharing. I am truly inspired.

  • @mezameza7178
    @mezameza7178 5 лет назад +6

    😂😂😂😂😂Okay am I the only one who got cracked when Mpho said "Thank you Dennis"

  • @bulelwalugongolo3178
    @bulelwalugongolo3178 5 лет назад +51

    Dennis Mara wena you are boyfriend material 😍😍😍😙

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 лет назад +10

      These are facts😅😂

    • @mezameza7178
      @mezameza7178 5 лет назад +3

      @@DEFINING my kinda boyfriend ❤️💕😍

    • @musakhumalo5424
      @musakhumalo5424 5 лет назад +1

      I am blessed ain't I! ♥

  • @lindosasmr
    @lindosasmr 5 лет назад +5

    I haven’t even started watching but I’m already loving it 🥰😂😆

  • @gwibajojozi3804
    @gwibajojozi3804 5 лет назад +4

    Dennis 🤗
    Dennis 🤗
    Dennnnnnnnnnis 🤗
    To you and the team,thank you for all that you guys do for us. Yhuuuu ha ana man. Intle nantsi into .🤗🤗

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 лет назад

      Thank you Fam, I appreciate it more than you know

  • @palesankondlo1395
    @palesankondlo1395 5 лет назад

    Ncaaaaw yall are so cute hleng, Mpho is indeed a thinker

  • @lesedikonyana2309
    @lesedikonyana2309 5 лет назад +2

    Wow....I don’t understand the benefit of the doubt thing but I am learning. Beautiful episode. I love Tumi❤️

  • @sthembelevezi7661
    @sthembelevezi7661 5 лет назад +10

    Yohhh haaayini😍😍😍😍
    "The petrol to my engine"😭
    This is the content I signed up for❤️Defining is amazing.

  • @nandi66
    @nandi66 5 лет назад +1

    Absolutely love your channel.
    This is my first Defining Love video and my heart is happy. Thank you so much sharing these beautiful stories of love.
    Much love from Mozambique 🇲🇿 ❤️

  • @zanelekekana2126
    @zanelekekana2126 5 лет назад +1

    Yoh! Y’all don’t know how long I have been waiting to watch this video🙌. Thank you for inviting them 🙌. Awesome

  • @pinkythebunny1790
    @pinkythebunny1790 4 года назад +1

    They've been together, longer than ive been alive 🙌🏽

  • @Rilay790
    @Rilay790 5 лет назад +7

    real love is so beautiful ❤❤

  • @sinqobilemakhathini
    @sinqobilemakhathini 5 лет назад +3

    Tumi is one of my fan comedians ❤❤ i love her

  • @Ngasii
    @Ngasii 5 лет назад +3

    An instant favourite❤❤ they are such favs of mine both as indiciduals and as a couple

  • @mohalecandy5878
    @mohalecandy5878 3 года назад

    Tumi’s words to her husband guys nxwaaa they are so real though love the honesty even the husband so real with the words to her ooooooo guys I believe I lv with all the 3breakups

  • @tshifhiwarasiluma4194
    @tshifhiwarasiluma4194 2 года назад

    God bless this awesome couple ❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @samilakuvare678
    @samilakuvare678 5 лет назад +15

    ❤Loved it❤
    Can't wait for the day Dennis and I will film our defining moment, once we get pass the "dreadlocks" preference😂🙄

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 лет назад +3

      Hahaha, I see what you did there

  • @noziphosibiya6558
    @noziphosibiya6558 5 лет назад +3

    My favorite couple I know they their story but it fun and amazing to listen them again

  • @lelom7144
    @lelom7144 5 лет назад +3

    This was beautiful to watch...😍💞 thank you Defining team👏

  • @nthabie_m661
    @nthabie_m661 5 лет назад +3

    You guys staaaaap 😢😢, love lives apha marn ❤❤
    Thank you defining media for always delivering🙌💛

  • @LoveandLessons_Cambles
    @LoveandLessons_Cambles 5 лет назад +4

    🤧🤧😭😭😭🥰🥰 yoh I love them so much!!!!! Even hearing that they dated 7 years is quite real especially for someone in a 4 year relationship and feeling like we’re supposed to be married. Thank you Defining Team

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 лет назад +1

      It's our pleasure! I'm sure you could relate to their honesty

    • @LoveandLessons_Cambles
      @LoveandLessons_Cambles 5 лет назад

      DEFINING most definitely 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾♥️♥️♥️

  • @Riah_M
    @Riah_M 5 лет назад +9

    Sikhona.. si la 👏👏👏👏👏😄