I am 28 years old. I lost my virginity at 19 as soon as I joined university. Went ahead to engage in promiscuity and drug abuse until last year(27). The sexual encounters were never fulfilling but made me feel normal, experience an illusion of closeness(somehow they left me more empty) and feel visible if I felt that I was pleasing to someone. Somewhere along the way, I dropped out of school. I am now 8 and 1/2 months clean from both the drugs and promiscuity. Been through so much healing these past few years, which started while I was still living my old life. I grew up in a strict family... and lonely after losing my mum at 10. I was so lost and wanted to belong so badly. It might not make sense to everyone, but now that I am older and wiser,.. I realize that I never knew myself or what I wanted, let alone the seriousness of the life I chose to engage in. If I could go back I would do everything differently. But I also realize that life is for making mistakes and growing wiser. I forgive myself and feel Graceful(my name is actually Grace and I hated it for so long,.. it's different now, I couldn't have any other name if I was to choose). I feel that I finally got to the end of the tunnel. There is light in my life now, and I am able to love and care for myself better. P. s, I am going back to school this September. If you arrived here,.. I hope in the smallest way I inspired you💝✨
God gives a second chance…He asks us to Come and reason with God….and oh hey some are actually experiencing their millionth Second chance❤Just keep focusing on His love and He’ll be with you throughout ❤Be blessed😇
It's really encouraging to hear such wisdom. I'm a 29 year old guy. Christian and a virgin... It's really not an easy journey, but it's definitely worth it.
@@KingGagashe6255 yes Sir. I made a vow to myself when I was 16 that the first lady will sleep with is the one I'll marry. So until I'm married, I ain't doing nothing.
I was 19 when I gave my life to Christ and decided to keep my virginity for my husband,getting married in November @30 still honouring Christ. Can't wait to enjoy myself in matrimony🎉
It's easy to stay away from sex when you have never had sex. It's more difficult when you get exposed. I married a virgin at 31. I have a great marriage, my husband does not have any competition. It's really beautiful
Ohh yess, you can be a Virgin and yet not pure in the eyes of the Lord, we have to abstain and be pure as well, stay away from sin from through the mind and seeing stuff that we not supposed to see
Intercourse between spouses is ordained by the Lord, and it one of his favours to humankind not only for enjoyment but also for procreation of offsprings that will be the coolest of your eyes. I do not think there is anything pure and spiritual about abstaining from it unless you are unmarried. In my religion(Islam), marriage is compulsory for men and women and should not be delayed. We are not created to abstain from sexual intercourse, it not our nature. We have urges and desires to be loved and to be romanticized. I would rather promote immediate marriage rather than abstinence .
I'm 34 and still a virgin, its easy once you make the decision but the people around you make it seem like you are not normal for keeping yourself pure.
I used to hide it to people that I'm a virgin because according to them it's like you are out of fashion/ uyasala but I'm glad that there are still people who are keeping themselves pure 💯. I'm a Christian and 23 proudly virgin.
I am so glad I came across this video. My boyfriend broke up with me yesterday because he said he couldn't wait anymore. I almost gave up my decision to remain a virgin until marriage just because I loved him, but watching this today gave me the encouragement to continue my decision. I'm 27 and I must say this has not been easy but I'm praying for grace to continue.
Am 27yrs and still a virgin. Still counting. 🙏🙏🙏. The Only thing am battling with is porn and lustful taught, but I believe God will see me through this struggle. Have been praying about it, and God is gradually pushing me away from this lustful act. The Bible says that the enemy came to kill, to steal and to destroy. I was is in the dark thinking that watching porn isn't a sin, but the act of doing it is a sin. I was so blind, but God opened my eyes to see the light. And am still moving on walking in this Journey of purity. till the day he gives me my ordained spouse. Amen. 🙏
There is nothing sweet than hearing this. Dear keep it up. We are excited about u. May God help u. May God strengthen u. May God cover u. May God give u long life.
I admire your honesty. God is faithful, keep pressing into his word and prayer. He is more than abe to help you overcome. And sometimes it's in leaps and bounds and most times is slow but keep going.
@@malakafamily8686 How do u fast? How do u pray? Numerous people do these two and fail for they do them incorrectly. As long as one doesn't know God. They will do these and procure no superb outcomes. The key is to read the Bible a lot. Know and comprehend God first and then one can fast. When is certain about the God is praying to? Comprehending first before anything.
@@manaledimojalefa1868 Literally. We are sometimes so stubborn, wanting things our way,we refuse to listen and stay within the perimeters then cry and ask God why did a certain situation happen.
I'm a 31 year old male, trying to be Celibate to be pure in body, spirit mind and soul. The "End Goal" segment literally hit home for me. I pray God's grace abounds in my life in all facets. ❤
It's definitely not easy, but it's worth it. It's 5 minutes of physical pleasure, that takes us away from God spiritually, which is not worthwhile looking at the "End goal".
I am grateful for this even if I don't get married, it's still okay because, I have to honor God with my body marriage or not, this decision is not a temporary decision but a lifetime decision. May the Grace of God be with all of us
I was 12 when I decided to wait for marriage but I broke that vow at 19. I felt guilty for a very long time but because I serve a God that restores🙌🙌 What GRACE is this
That’s amazing. ❤️. What would you say was the stepping stones to making you lose your virginity? Because I’m trying to become more aware about such matters as I grow.
It starts with little things such as kissing, thinking you will never allow things to go that far, the next thing you are removing clothes and fondling with each others bodies before you know it you are deep within. So I suggest we shy away from the things we think are insignificant like kissing because we may think we are strong enough to resist temptation but that's when we allow the enemy to take over.
She gave the secret - dying to self. Dying to self is the first step to growth and fully aligning one’s life with the will that God has set out for each individuals. Rori shared a lot of good facts about being a born again child of God.
I'm a 22 year old man and I'm a virgin, I'll be honest, keeping my virginity has been hard, but I see the benefits, everything I touch works out for me, I just got a great job whilst most of my peers are unemployed, my business is doing well because I have tried my level best to walk in the light of God, never smoked, never went clubbing. My only problem is guys how many girls are virgins out there, it feels heartbreaking when I'd date a girl for a month then she expects sex. Guys where and how do I spot a virgin Christian girl in South Africa
Glad to see your blessings from God. I understand the frustration and I've wondered if there's still men believing in sex during marriage. I'm 28 y/o but I'd say trust in Him for the person He has for you. He has someone like-minded for you.
@@ScissorN that's your life, I didn't say my virginity, I said following the lord's rules. I'm sorry for what happened to you, but asfani... God didn't forsake you sisi, I don't know your situation but I believe God always has the answers.
Saw a comment on TikTok that said something like... She does not treat being a virgin as an idol... Her main focus is her relationship with God... I love that. All the best to everyone in this journey
Ive always felt insecure and like an outcast as a 22 year old virgin. My end goal is not getting married my end goal is to be with my father in heaven and to rest at his feet forever. Thank you Jesus for getting me this far because now i understand that holiness is more than my virginity. Let your will prevail over my will oh God.
I'm a 32 year old virgin and I have to say, this video has really inspired me a lot. Rorisang is a true vessel of Christ. I was touched when she said a believer's virginity is the least of what being a Christian is all about. An intimacy with God is what really matters. That opened my spirit because it's indeed true. I'm proud that there are lots of young people who are still holding it down like myself.
I tend to differ. If its the least thing then why is it such a big deal and one of the most difficult sins people struggle with. The fact that virginity is biblical but society has made promiscuity a norm shows how much of a great deal it is. Virginity is one of the biggest aspects of being a born again Christian and if it didn't matter then why can't we just behave like the world. It does matter and the fact that it's hard to keep proves it. Its up to you as an individual to choose which path you want to take in life, the wide gate or the narrow gate and the Bible clearly says that the narrow gate is harder but its way leads to life. If it was easy it wouldn't even be a topic for discussion. Just because you pray and fast does not mean you will not be tempted, it's those who overcome that receive the crown of life so NO i don't tick virginity is a LEAST of what being christian is all about. Intimacy with God does stop temptation, what sets you apart is your ability to use the word of God in those tempting seasons or moments. The best sailors are seen when the waters are raging/the strongest storms make the best sailors
Its been 8 years i am celibate. Its a great thing and covenant i Have entered into with the Lord. BUT...at times is not easy😭. I pray for my life partner who is equally yoked in Jesus name❤
I turned 30 in March and I’m still a proud virgin. Luke 1:37 it’s only because I am carried by the grace of Jesus Christ and I know with all of my heart that the wait will be worth it. I believe God and trust in His promises so much. I also love that our Father in heaven is a forgiving God and gives us ample opportunities to change and to become more like our Saviour Jesus Christ. Trust in Him. I promise he can make you whole❤
@@splendidwittyman2611 dude she is a women. you are a man. her value is in her purity, yours is in work. get a lamborgini then talk about being a virgin
@@caesar3909 This is a misconception. Africans were one of the first to adopt Christianity especially in Ethiopia less than 100 years after the death of Christ. The Arab Muslims were the first to enslave Africans and push their faith on Africans. I pray that both you the other people commenting will come to the truth about Jesus. It is a beautiful relationship to have.
@@crumbsnyums No ma'am there is no misconception on my end. 2 things can be true at the same time. I know that one of the oldest bibles in the world is in Ethiopia & is written in Aramaic. What is also true is that the Ethiopians are the only Africans that were not colonized. There is no white Jesus in their version of Christianity, all of the characters are black. If you walk into a South African or Nigerian church & tell them "Jesus is black" they will laugh in your face. Jesus is white because Europeans conquered & enslaved us & forced their image on us as God. Outside of Ethiopia, there is no church or any post colonial religious system that deifies the image & likeness of black people. We also need to remember that prior to colonization, Africa did not have a single cross continental culture. We even come from different genetic clusters being Khoi/ San, Bantu, Kushites & Nubians. We were never 1 people. What one of the many ethnic groups in Ethiopia did, was inconsequential to rest of Africa, so much so that even within Ethiopia itself, not all of the ethnic groups/tribes adopted Christianity. Hence they have a long history of war between themselves that persists to this very day. If the colonizers were Japanese, you & your family & everyone else from your church would not be Christian's, ma'am. Instead you would all be firm believers of Shinto & Buddhism. If they were Arabs, you would be singing the praises of Allah. Why?, if you conquer people & want to sedate their psyche &crush their will to fight back so they never want revenge, you need to first kill the grown men & beat the b!tch out of the women & make them raise their children to worship your image & likeness as their new God. You tell them to love that new image of God but most important to fear it. Once that is accomplished you can rule them for centuries or perhaps even for millennia because that race you have conquered (black people) subconsciously sees your race (white people) as the personification of perfection & an overwhelming force they could never hope to match or defeat. All they can do is submit to it. ...That is the situation of black people as we speak. We don't want regain power here on Earth because we look forward to dying & being welcomed into the kingdom of heaven where we will rejoice & sing the praises of our favorite celestial & all powerful white man, Jesus & his dad. Or even better, its fine for us to suffer & have no power on Earth because one of these days the celestial white man is going crack open the sky, there will be trumpets & music as he comes to save us... I hate to break it to you ma'am, but It's all a scam. A scam to keep black people in a state of perpetual inertia & subordination.
Wish you all the best. Try to stay away from entertainment in general especially movies or series or songs that promote sexual behavior because one exposure at a time eventually you fall into the trap within 5 years if you are constantly exposed to sex in all these you it becomes so hard to not engage in sex...so hope you focus on God only and build that relationship while you still young ❤
33 year old virgin here, and I got goosebumps from her speaking, so much wisdom! Does she have youtube- this is the type of content Ive been looking for!!
I am 25 years now and I must say God rebuked me so much about sexual immorality, it got to the point where I heard him clearly and loud that week and I had to make a decision to rectify my ways. I made the decision that week to honor God and surrender ME to Him fully. And I don't regret the decision I taking the decision nd Now finding out that I have been called for ministry pushes me even more and I trust God in the journey.
I love how much you mentioned that virginity doesn't equal purity. I keep trying to tell people that. I have people who keep talking about, " Oh you're so perfect!" nah ah! Asikho perfect sisi, asi purity, God is working on us! We have a long way to go. God's working on us cause virginity is just one part of it.
Also, just cause you waited, doesn't mean you deserve a great marriage and a great s*x life. God doesn't owe you anything! He is Sovereign and He instructed, your job is to simply OBEY! No questions, no compromise, no expected benefits from it, Just seek and love God and respond to His love by honouring God and being answerable to Him!
@@nanampunganyi4058 I love the part where she also said that waiting does not guarantee you marriage or a partner. Its in Gods books. Most of the people are actually waiting for the wrong reasons and reasons of serving thyself and Gods will
So true! I think many people and the churches are so fixated on sex, rather service - serving the Lord (seeking His kingdom and His righteousness) and trusting Him about every aspect of your life. Now that's a tough one. But God sent us the Holy Spirit, who is our Helper, to do all that God requires from us.
@@HisPrincess_ you're so right! I have to say, it's a hard pill but man is it true! God doesn't owe us anything! Rorisang was right when she said we do all this for ourselves. It's just for us. Our WHY has to matter more than our what!
@@kodwat2134 Sex has become all we think about, preach about and like you said, we are fixated on it! Haibo! Can we do something better with this Christian walk of ours? We've got to! There's got to be more to it!
This virginity world is so so worth it. Not only are you so pure in the Spirit but also so so clean from deadly soul ties that can damage your whole life purpose. You go girl!
Same here I am a young woman ... virgin and waiting till marriage ..I made that decision ever since I was 14 years ....and there is nothing wrong with having a religious excuse for being a virgin
I love the fact that she talks about Virginity and purity not being about getting married, not making marriage the end goal. her goals are clear and it is all about God
I'm 40 years old I've been celebate for almost 3 years and it's not hard for at all so far. I am focusing on healing because I've experienced hurt and pain in relationships.
I’m a 19 year old and still a virgin ..it is really hard to live as a virgin nowadays because people take it for granted but I’m grateful for it and I’ll forever live according to god’s will and wait for marriage
I always wanted to know how should I explain to people that I’m Celibate. You beautiful ladies just gave me the courage and confidence to reply nor even not to explain to anyone of my choice. Yes I have a child because of wrong decisions that I made in my past but THIS TIME I’m doing the right thing for ME and with GOD. Thank you Ladies❤
I am a lady turning 32 this year and i feel so proud and inspired all over again ♥ ♥..It's also comforting to know I'm not crazy for not having sex and not making marriage the main goal.
I made the decision to “wait” when I was 11/12 years old. Just turned 29 and I’m still going strong. It’s certainly not an easy journey but focusing on God has made this journey one of the best. God has been so good!
The Lord is so incredibly faithful. I am 33 and still waiting and I have started to struggle with the choice.... Anxious that I will end up alone, worried that I won't have children.... Contemplating if it's still something I want to be obedient in. Finding this post and these comments have encouraged me so so so much. Thank you thank you thank you
Loved this conversation! We often speak about virginity and celibacy solely for the purpose of awaiting marriage but for the Christian it is so much more than that.
Rorisang embodies what I want my daughter to understand. She knows herself, she understands the mountains in her path, and she has accepted that those are hers to climb. And climb she does, with grace. She owns her journey fully. The highs and the lows. And she speaks about, and for herself. It is such a refreshing voice. She has a wonderful personality too: fun, funny, sincere. I pray that when she does find someone, he will have the capacity to understand all of this, and bring with him a world of adventure. If she doesn't, I am not worried. You shine so bright on your own. The world is a beautiful place with you in it.
Yes ! She mentioned that she was raised and taught to be in purity by her mom and a lot of young girls didn’t have that and still dont have such essential teachings but we can rectify that and ask God to purify and restore us 🤍
Im 29 years and still a virgin, dont drink or smoke! It's so humbling to hear such words of wisdom from a fellow other whose even a celebrity! It's amazing what God can do! Not to be easily influenced in such a world!?! Can only br God❤ Absolutely beautiful. 💯
I'm 35, was called into Celibacy at the age of 33, it hasn't been easy. Thank you for this conversation. @Rorisang you're such a blessing to this generation❤
The calling of celibacy isnt easy cause you get judged by everyone around you. I was called into it at age 25 and i’m 29 now. It doesnt erase temptation nor does make dating any easier but it truly is rewarding ☺ God is doing a great work in you Katlego!
End goal... Marriage is not the wedding day. It is work,hard and God needs to be the centre. Sex is not the glue , God is. Those who can wait and grow their intimacy with God please do it is a needed tool to stand. Married for 12 years come 19/12/2024. #obedience Saved but obedience is the key to access❤
Young ladies and any other ladies … I just turned 40, I’m here too! Keep going, and when the time isright, He will make things even more beautiful. If you’re doing it for God, or even you, may it never be in vain. Bless you 💫
I love the fact that Rori is not only stuck on just being a virgin, its the purity within that matters most 👏 We have a lot of 'virgins' who pride themselves on keeping their legs closed but are very rude, very spiteful, very unforgiving to name a few. I am celibate, but its the inner work that matters most. Allowing the Word of God to work you from inside out. The end goal really is to hear "Well done, thou good and faithful servant" 🙏 Interesting topic indeed.
I'm 29 and I also started my journey in Celibacy and semen retention and I'm keeping it that way until marriage. It's encouraging to see the sister who's interested in pleasing God instead of the flesh.
i have no idea why i am just discovering this channel right now, but i thank God it happened this morning. As a teenager in university and being the youngest student in my entire programme, its quite difficult to being a christian and a virgin. clips like this are really encouraging , and on behalf of the all the veiwers thank you so so much
God called me to celibacy and I won’t lie it’s the best thing to have ever happened to me. I feel cleansed and clear minded. You’re right when you say it’s a calling theres a sense of humbleness grace and atonement from what I subjected myself to.
Wonderful , at 30 I have abstained from my mother's womb, I no longer call it abstinence but a way of living. All I'm concerned about today is doing the will of my Father!🙌
I failed to stay pure, basically because I did not have a valid personal and spiritual reason to really and I think maybe that comes from the fact that I was not raised in a wholesome Christian rooted family so the teachings, or warnings lol about purity were more fear driven and being moered wasn't a far fetched thing in my home. BUT, this kind of conversation and teaching right here... I would love to share more of these with my daughter to assist her in making the best decisions for her life spiritually and sexually. Veeeery inspiring and just beautiful to witness🥲🙏💖✨💐 Big ups to the level of understanding in your faith and discipline to get here Ma'am you deserve all the Grace and blessings of the Kingdom of God🙏
Wow...I like the subject. I also stayed a virgin until marriage. I got married at 27 years...Been in this marriage for 22 years. What I took through the journey was to love myself and value myself and appreciate what God has created me to be...
As a married women this conversation for me was about purity in other areas of my life, about obeying God holistically... Thank you Rori for being God's vessel in these last days. My life will never be the same... Such a beautiful reminder of how Great God is and how he intends for us to live pure and blameless lives... He carries us with so much Grace and we always have to be honest and obedient... Thank you Mpoomy.
Team Purity all the way, am 29 and still pursuing it, and I am so glad God ensured I got the purity talk before I even became a teenager. Is it now easy? No but it's worth it
Wow, it's so encouraging to listen to a young lady who takes the word of God so seriously, especially in this world that is so advocating for a careless lifestyle. May the Lord grant you strength to keep His will and be an example to other young girls who think it's hard to keep yourself pure and holy in this year and age 🙏
i was 17 and i told my boyfriend that i want to wait for marriage but he insisted. I felt so dirty and guilty and i didn’t know how to talk to God , till today i’m taking it day by day but what he did was beyond me and i don’t feel like i’m worth marriage anymore . it makes me feel guilty because i could’ve been a virgin but i am not anymore. please pray for me ❤️
Hey Mbali, ask God to forgive you and He will. Someone once said God is more anxious to forgive our sins than a woman is to carry her baby out of a burning building. You feeling guilty is a conviction for a wrong doing and you not believing God will forgive. God loves you Mbali.
Once forgiven, the Bible says God forgets. Don't let the devil deceive you through condemnation. Ask for God's forgiveness and forgive yourself. Love you💕
The Father has forgiven you! I know that for a fact. Please, forgive yourself, look at yourself in the mirror every morning, smile and pray over your spirit.
I'm turning 29 this year and I'm still a virgin never even kissed a guy ,oh well everytime when I say that people get furious and say I'm lying I don't know why......anyway thanks for the lovely show definitely subscribing ❤️😘
awesome job fam, they are jealous of you, but will not admit it. Think about it, they know you have something special that you can offer a man that they cannot, and deep down inside, they know a lot of guys want to marry a virgin. Remember, they know you are their competition to get a man
Beautiful and powerful conversation, very relevant, "we have made Christianity so cute, we have made it as if it doesn't come at a cost, it comes at a cost, you don't go where others go, you don't think how others think, you don't portray yourself how others portray themselves " I am blessed, you should marry though, you really deserve it :)
One of the things I love about this is how Rorisang highlights “salvation” as the end goal. If anything, when God helped me redefine what being a virgin was, it helped me shift my focus from “future” intimacy to working out my salvation each day. My virginity stopped being a constant thought, rather, how I can go on pleasing God in how I live my life. That has been so fulfilling. I even have the kind of peace that, even if I never get married, I will be content in my pursuit of Him. Rorisang, you are such an incredible voice in this generation. I pray that God continues to sustain you ausi 🙏🏾
I love this. I am a 21 year old female, currently figuring out life and growing with God and being a virgin is one commandment l hold dear to my heart. Growing up in a society where sex is glorified and being raised by a single mom l can say that waiting is worth it. Nothing hurts than having a child out of wedlock and having to endure the hardships that come with it is more painful than waiting. You are waiting knowing that at the end God is working with you and through you. I get teased and laughed a lot but damn l am free, l expose myself to shows that talk about earthly things and l love that through that l see God's concept and deeper meaning to the commandment❤
This is such a beautiful conversation and glad to hear her speak so freely about this topic. There is always some sort of stigma attached to it as we get older. I'm 29 turning 30yrs old in September and still a virgin. I get encouraged by such stories. ladies and gentlemen it can be done, may God continue to help us.
God bless you Rori really inspired. I'm 38 no kids being celibate for 13yrs now will get Married one day by God's grace .Let's keep on flying the Jesus flag high
Once I realised that serving the Lord is about dying to self, it changed everything. It's all about about the Lord, about serving Him. And that's not easy in a world where you are bombarded with messages about following your heart, and doing what makes you happy. I chose celibacy 5 years ago and to serve the Lord, not easy but God is faithful. He deserves our lives, our trust because He does so much for us every day. But most importantly, He is a sovereign God! ❤️
I have a friend who's a virgin, who dated a virgin. They avoided sex until marriage, both are in their mid 20s. They say your first is always the best, and it's true. That's why saving ourselves for marriage can be helpful, because we won't compare our wife/husband to our previous exes, meaning we will always be fully satisfied. Wish I kept my virginity too instead of rushing
This is encouraging ! The wait is worth it ! When you're busy with the right thing, doing the right things and pleasing God, there won't be time to do the wrong things. Obeying God is for our own good.
I am a divorcee but also forsook my principles and faith by engaging in sex post my divorce. I kept on thinking that I could find joy outside of God's commandments, but soon realised that I was sabotaging myself. I made a turn around later this year and surrendered my heart to Christ. The journey of celibacy is one that only the Holy Spirit will help me with. Thank you for this podcast. Rori; Morena ahohlonolofatshe ngwaneso.❤❤❤❤❤❤
This was amazing. I love Rori acknowledging that virginity is a calling and worship in itself, however it is not the complete work. The things that matter most are those of the Spirit and soul. It is allowing the Holy Spirit and love to change and mold you. Being a virgin is beautiful, but it doesn't automatically make you a good Christian. This is not to undermine virginity; it in itself is mighty and a difficult journey. It's just that we should be more aware of and place more value on the work God does within us.
I am 27, and I have been celibate ever since I was 21, 6 years into this through the Holy Spirit😅 and I must say it has been good. Im marrying a virgin next month. God honours our decisions to be with Him forever. But be a virgin with your soul separated for God's use only and God will purify you everyday to live righteously. START BEING CELIBATE WITH YOUR SOUL THEN THE REST WILL COME NATURALLY.😊
I absolutely thank God for this video Rorisang you are a true woman of God, I am 30 I have a beautiful baby boy not married,got born again in 2018 when my son was born. God took me out of a messy relationship and he gave me another chance to build and regain myself I am now in a happy place I have a great relationship with God and haven't had any sexual encounters since 2019 till today
This is encouraging. The wait is worth it, not only for religious reasons but for personal wellbeing, protecting myself from unnecessary heartbreaks and being used.
I am really inspired, I am a 22 years virgin, turning 23 this month I pray for more grace 🙌🙌🕯️ definitely marriage isn't my end goal but being with my father 🙌🙌.
I went to the same high school with Rorisang. Shes a beautiful soul and the Virginity silver ring happened during a Monday assembly in the school hall... we had guests who taught us about purity and we were given the free will to take a pledge and get this virginity ring... I'm at ore that she actually kept the faith. Kept the obedience, the strong will, &the self love... BIG UP!!!!!! SHINE ON baby girl.
😭😭😭I thank God for this. Perfect timing. Rorisang just spoke to me. I can't thank Mpumi enough for this platform. I'm glad I made a choice. Seeing people who are in the same journey as me encourages me
I love the mindset, conversations and patterns of thinking on this channel Rori is a thought leader....personally love her way of thinking and representation of God.
I am a man way older than you who has dismally failed in that stage of my life.... I wish had such wisdom. And I wish this wisdom over my children and the life of young people right now.
Aus' Rorisang, I beg you mam. You had no business fetching us like that 🥲😭 May the good Lord bless your soul and thank you for this wonderful and powerful message.🌻🌻
The bible says "do not be weary to do good " and that obedience is better than sacrifice, we are very much gtreatful for such pure convos in this generation🙌 indeed mkhulu ongakithi.
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I will be 26 soon and still a virgin. It's been so hard but my purpose is bigger
So please tell me for u to be able to keep ur virginity for this long do u date or stay single 😢🎉❤
I am 28 years old.
I lost my virginity at 19 as soon as I joined university. Went ahead to engage in promiscuity and drug abuse until last year(27). The sexual encounters were never fulfilling but made me feel normal, experience an illusion of closeness(somehow they left me more empty) and feel visible if I felt that I was pleasing to someone. Somewhere along the way, I dropped out of school.
I am now 8 and 1/2 months clean from both the drugs and promiscuity. Been through so much healing these past few years, which started while I was still living my old life.
I grew up in a strict family... and lonely after losing my mum at 10. I was so lost and wanted to belong so badly. It might not make sense to everyone, but now that I am older and wiser,.. I realize that I never knew myself or what I wanted, let alone the seriousness of the life I chose to engage in. If I could go back I would do everything differently. But I also realize that life is for making mistakes and growing wiser. I forgive myself and feel Graceful(my name is actually Grace and I hated it for so long,.. it's different now, I couldn't have any other name if I was to choose).
I feel that I finally got to the end of the tunnel. There is light in my life now, and I am able to love and care for myself better.
P. s, I am going back to school this September.
If you arrived here,.. I hope in the smallest way I inspired you💝✨
I'm inspired... My story is the samz as yours.. ❤️❤️
Bravo keep going
@@annwanjiru4713 Shiru, my fellow Kenyan,... thankyou.
Wow🙌
God gives a second chance…He asks us to Come and reason with God….and oh hey some are actually experiencing their millionth Second chance❤Just keep focusing on His love and He’ll be with you throughout ❤Be blessed😇
It's really encouraging to hear such wisdom. I'm a 29 year old guy. Christian and a virgin... It's really not an easy journey, but it's definitely worth it.
Me too! 😃 I am 29 year old lady Christian and a virgin
Awu zange zange zange?? Yerr ndoda
@@ZakhonaKhumalo 😭at 27 I just keep praying for the Holy Spirit to lead me.
Me too, I am 29 year old lady and I am still a virgin. It's only Grace❤
@@KingGagashe6255 yes Sir. I made a vow to myself when I was 16 that the first lady will sleep with is the one I'll marry. So until I'm married, I ain't doing nothing.
I was 19 when I gave my life to Christ and decided to keep my virginity for my husband,getting married in November @30 still honouring Christ.
Can't wait to enjoy myself in matrimony🎉
Congratulations ❤
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God bless you
You will definitely
God bless you🎉
When she says sex is the least of her worries, i relate so much. There's a lot of work that needs to be done.
yhoo girl a lot dying to self is a lot yhoo and holy spirit speaking
But u no longer a virgin😅
It's easy to stay away from sex when you have never had sex. It's more difficult when you get exposed. I married a virgin at 31. I have a great marriage, my husband does not have any competition. It's really beautiful
Ohh yess, you can be a Virgin and yet not pure in the eyes of the Lord, we have to abstain and be pure as well, stay away from sin from through the mind and seeing stuff that we not supposed to see
Intercourse between spouses is ordained by the Lord, and it one of his favours to humankind not only for enjoyment but also for procreation of offsprings that will be the coolest of your eyes. I do not think there is anything pure and spiritual about abstaining from it unless you are unmarried. In my religion(Islam), marriage is compulsory for men and women and should not be delayed. We are not created to abstain from sexual intercourse, it not our nature. We have urges and desires to be loved and to be romanticized. I would rather promote immediate marriage rather than abstinence .
I'm 34 and still a virgin, its easy once you make the decision but the people around you make it seem like you are not normal for keeping yourself pure.
Exactly ❤ well done on sticking to your values under so much pressure 👏🏾
I used to hide it to people that I'm a virgin because according to them it's like you are out of fashion/ uyasala but I'm glad that there are still people who are keeping themselves pure 💯. I'm a Christian and 23 proudly virgin.
@@asisiphonongqotho8701 way to go my lady!🙌🏾 💯💃🏽
I wish I would be in your Place it’s a great decision
True 💯❤
I am so glad I came across this video. My boyfriend broke up with me yesterday because he said he couldn't wait anymore. I almost gave up my decision to remain a virgin until marriage just because I loved him, but watching this today gave me the encouragement to continue my decision. I'm 27 and I must say this has not been easy but I'm praying for grace to continue.
God bless you, please keep holding on.
God has the best for you
truly its not something easy
Keep that attitude. My humble request halt tempting yourself by dating.
God speaks by dreams and visions. He will guide u who to marry by these two.
Don't give up, it will be worth it 🤗
why are you not married yet?
Still a virgin at 28yrs and getting married next month June 25💃🏾
Ahh congratulations marn, this is so beautiful to see
Congratulations ❤
🎉🎉🎉❤
Awww. Congratulations
❤
Virgins sign here🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉am 25 and proud
By the grace of God 🙌🥳🥳
Amen🎉🎉🎉🎉
Turning 26 next month and I’m proud to be a virgin
I'm 25 and here but it's hard I'm losing myself now
27
Am 27yrs and still a virgin. Still counting. 🙏🙏🙏. The Only thing am battling with is porn and lustful taught, but I believe God will see me through this struggle. Have been praying about it, and God is gradually pushing me away from this lustful act. The Bible says that the enemy came to kill, to steal and to destroy. I was is in the dark thinking that watching porn isn't a sin, but the act of doing it is a sin. I was so blind, but God opened my eyes to see the light. And am still moving on walking in this Journey of purity. till the day he gives me my ordained spouse. Amen. 🙏
There is nothing sweet than hearing this. Dear keep it up. We are excited about u.
May God help u.
May God strengthen u.
May God cover u.
May God give u long life.
@@howtoobeygod4384 Amen and thanks very much. 🙏🙏 I really appreciate. ❤️❤️
I admire your honesty. God is faithful, keep pressing into his word and prayer. He is more than abe to help you overcome. And sometimes it's in leaps and bounds and most times is slow but keep going.
@Kisu Glory Mathew 17:21
Fasting and Prayer are the best in terms of fighting off the 42 demons. Love and Light Queen Kisu
@@malakafamily8686
How do u fast?
How do u pray?
Numerous people do these two and fail for they do them incorrectly. As long as one doesn't know God. They will do these and procure no superb outcomes.
The key is to read the Bible a lot. Know and comprehend God first and then one can fast. When is certain about the God is praying to? Comprehending first before anything.
Honestly there is a lot of work in christianity and some of us take it lightly..
Facts
True.
And taking it lightly has cost us a lot. God knew what he was doing when he created sex for marriage. Christianity comes at a cost.
@@manaledimojalefa1868 Literally. We are sometimes so stubborn, wanting things our way,we refuse to listen and stay within the perimeters then cry and ask God why did a certain situation happen.
May God help us not to move with the times but to be obedient to his Word 🙏🏽
I am 43 year old man and still virgin,I will wait until God comes back
Wow, you are blessed
Glory to God, well done sir 👏
Ayyy man , go get you some🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Please marry😂
Sex was created by God
I'm a 31 year old male, trying to be Celibate to be pure in body, spirit mind and soul. The "End Goal" segment literally hit home for me. I pray God's grace abounds in my life in all facets. ❤
It's not easy but it's worth it... Bless you.
Its not easy. But my salvation is more important than 5 minutes pleasure .
It's definitely not easy, but it's worth it. It's 5 minutes of physical pleasure, that takes us away from God spiritually, which is not worthwhile looking at the "End goal".
Obedience is for me we are the ones that who benefits from being obedient oh thank you so much Rorisang ❤❤❤
Well done my brother it's not easy but you can do it 🙌
"Even if I don't get married ..." this struck a chord in my heart. I'm happy to see that Christ still has remnants.
I am grateful for this even if I don't get married, it's still okay because, I have to honor God with my body marriage or not, this decision is not a temporary decision but a lifetime decision. May the Grace of God be with all of us
Rorisang is a voice for our generation....I get so amazed each time she speaks,maan the wisdom of God is just overflowing in her
I was 12 when I decided to wait for marriage but I broke that vow at 19. I felt guilty for a very long time but because I serve a God that restores🙌🙌 What GRACE is this
That’s amazing. ❤️. What would you say was the stepping stones to making you lose your virginity? Because I’m trying to become more aware about such matters as I grow.
It starts with little things such as kissing, thinking you will never allow things to go that far, the next thing you are removing clothes and fondling with each others bodies before you know it you are deep within. So I suggest we shy away from the things we think are insignificant like kissing because we may think we are strong enough to resist temptation but that's when we allow the enemy to take over.
Same here,
Ai kahle🤣🤣🤣which God has restored a used hymen?? Ba jele, you can only fool the naive men. Admit, you failed closing your legs
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She gave the secret - dying to self.
Dying to self is the first step to growth and fully aligning one’s life with the will that God has set out for each individuals.
Rori shared a lot of good facts about being a born again child of God.
❤❤❤
In a world where sexual immorality is a norm..I Love how this encourages people to uphold their beliefs and not succumb to peer pressure
This is good 🙏
I'm a 22 year old man and I'm a virgin, I'll be honest, keeping my virginity has been hard, but I see the benefits, everything I touch works out for me, I just got a great job whilst most of my peers are unemployed, my business is doing well because I have tried my level best to walk in the light of God, never smoked, never went clubbing. My only problem is guys how many girls are virgins out there, it feels heartbreaking when I'd date a girl for a month then she expects sex. Guys where and how do I spot a virgin Christian girl in South Africa
Glad to see your blessings from God. I understand the frustration and I've wondered if there's still men believing in sex during marriage. I'm 28 y/o but I'd say trust in Him for the person He has for you. He has someone like-minded for you.
don't worry my friend keep on praying God will present you the person you will get married to
Wait on the Lord 🎉 I’m 24 and a virgin too. Worth the wait for sure!
Love you Rori💥. May the good Lord continue to open your heart to be filled with more and more of Him🙌
@@ScissorN that's your life, I didn't say my virginity, I said following the lord's rules. I'm sorry for what happened to you, but asfani... God didn't forsake you sisi, I don't know your situation but I believe God always has the answers.
Rorisang is a gift to this generation!‼️
Saw a comment on TikTok that said something like... She does not treat being a virgin as an idol... Her main focus is her relationship with God... I love that. All the best to everyone in this journey
Ive always felt insecure and like an outcast as a 22 year old virgin. My end goal is not getting married my end goal is to be with my father in heaven and to rest at his feet forever. Thank you Jesus for getting me this far because now i understand that holiness is more than my virginity. Let your will prevail over my will oh God.
Very much encouraging and inspiring, we need more of such conversations. I honor you sisi🌺
Me and youuu I've found my sis 🥹🥹🥹🫶
Thisss!! ❤🔥
I'm a 32 year old virgin and I have to say, this video has really inspired me a lot. Rorisang is a true vessel of Christ. I was touched when she said a believer's virginity is the least of what being a Christian is all about. An intimacy with God is what really matters. That opened my spirit because it's indeed true. I'm proud that there are lots of young people who are still holding it down like myself.
you not married. you fertility rate is down by 50. get married wena
I'm also 32 and still a virgin wow 🙌🏼🙏🏼
I tend to differ. If its the least thing then why is it such a big deal and one of the most difficult sins people struggle with. The fact that virginity is biblical but society has made promiscuity a norm shows how much of a great deal it is. Virginity is one of the biggest aspects of being a born again Christian and if it didn't matter then why can't we just behave like the world. It does matter and the fact that it's hard to keep proves it. Its up to you as an individual to choose which path you want to take in life, the wide gate or the narrow gate and the Bible clearly says that the narrow gate is harder but its way leads to life. If it was easy it wouldn't even be a topic for discussion. Just because you pray and fast does not mean you will not be tempted, it's those who overcome that receive the crown of life so NO i don't tick virginity is a LEAST of what being christian is all about. Intimacy with God does stop temptation, what sets you apart is your ability to use the word of God in those tempting seasons or moments. The best sailors are seen when the waters are raging/the strongest storms make the best sailors
Its been 8 years i am celibate. Its a great thing and covenant i Have entered into with the Lord. BUT...at times is not easy😭. I pray for my life partner who is equally yoked in Jesus name❤
I turned 30 in March and I’m still a proud virgin. Luke 1:37 it’s only because I am carried by the grace of Jesus Christ and I know with all of my heart that the wait will be worth it. I believe God and trust in His promises so much.
I also love that our Father in heaven is a forgiving God and gives us ample opportunities to change and to become more like our Saviour Jesus Christ. Trust in Him. I promise he can make you whole❤
Same here. Its walk of grace...
@@splendidwittyman2611 dude she is a women. you are a man. her value is in her purity, yours is in work. get a lamborgini then talk about being a virgin
Happy birthday ❤🥳
I'm 23 still a virgin😊Coming across this vid just encouraged me to remain strong and pure🥰
same situation ..difficult but worth it
I'm not a Christian but I looooove Rorisang bcz she stands firm in all her decisions ❤️
If I may... Why are you not a Christian? Hope my question is not offensive.
@@AusMannuel she's not ignorant
@@AusMannuel She has enough self respect & as an African women to not worship the image & likeness of the colonizer as our God.
@@caesar3909 This is a misconception. Africans were one of the first to adopt Christianity especially in Ethiopia less than 100 years after the death of Christ. The Arab Muslims were the first to enslave Africans and push their faith on Africans. I pray that both you the other people commenting will come to the truth about Jesus. It is a beautiful relationship to have.
@@crumbsnyums No ma'am there is no misconception on my end. 2 things can be true at the same time. I know that one of the oldest bibles in the world is in Ethiopia & is written in Aramaic. What is also true is that the Ethiopians are the only Africans that were not colonized. There is no white Jesus in their version of Christianity, all of the characters are black. If you walk into a South African or Nigerian church & tell them "Jesus is black" they will laugh in your face. Jesus is white because Europeans conquered & enslaved us & forced their image on us as God. Outside of Ethiopia, there is no church or any post colonial religious system that deifies the image & likeness of black people. We also need to remember that prior to colonization, Africa did not have a single cross continental culture. We even come from different genetic clusters being Khoi/ San, Bantu, Kushites & Nubians. We were never 1 people. What one of the many ethnic groups in Ethiopia did, was inconsequential to rest of Africa, so much so that even within Ethiopia itself, not all of the ethnic groups/tribes adopted Christianity. Hence they have a long history of war between themselves that persists to this very day. If the colonizers were Japanese, you & your family & everyone else from your church would not be Christian's, ma'am. Instead you would all be firm believers of Shinto & Buddhism. If they were Arabs, you would be singing the praises of Allah. Why?, if you conquer people & want to sedate their psyche &crush their will to fight back so they never want revenge, you need to first kill the grown men & beat the b!tch out of the women & make them raise their children to worship your image & likeness as their new God. You tell them to love that new image of God but most important to fear it. Once that is accomplished you can rule them for centuries or perhaps even for millennia because that race you have conquered (black people) subconsciously sees your race (white people) as the personification of perfection & an overwhelming force they could never hope to match or defeat. All they can do is submit to it. ...That is the situation of black people as we speak. We don't want regain power here on Earth because we look forward to dying & being welcomed into the kingdom of heaven where we will rejoice & sing the praises of our favorite celestial & all powerful white man, Jesus & his dad. Or even better, its fine for us to suffer & have no power on Earth because one of these days the celestial white man is going crack open the sky, there will be trumpets & music as he comes to save us... I hate to break it to you ma'am, but It's all a scam. A scam to keep black people in a state of perpetual inertia & subordination.
Wow i'm 18 still a virgin and i want to grow up and be like this woman. She is so wise and filled with the holy spirit
Goodluck ☺️
Wish you all the best. Try to stay away from entertainment in general especially movies or series or songs that promote sexual behavior because one exposure at a time eventually you fall into the trap within 5 years if you are constantly exposed to sex in all these you it becomes so hard to not engage in sex...so hope you focus on God only and build that relationship while you still young ❤
@@malehlwa1583I'm also taking notes, I'm 22 and this is the best video I've watched on RUclips all week. I love her wisdom❤
33 year old virgin here, and I got goosebumps from her speaking, so much wisdom! Does she have youtube- this is the type of content Ive been looking for!!
I am 25 years now and I must say God rebuked me so much about sexual immorality, it got to the point where I heard him clearly and loud that week and I had to make a decision to rectify my ways. I made the decision that week to honor God and surrender ME to Him fully. And I don't regret the decision I taking the decision nd Now finding out that I have been called for ministry pushes me even more and I trust God in the journey.
I love how much you mentioned that virginity doesn't equal purity. I keep trying to tell people that. I have people who keep talking about, " Oh you're so perfect!" nah ah! Asikho perfect sisi, asi purity, God is working on us! We have a long way to go. God's working on us cause virginity is just one part of it.
Also, just cause you waited, doesn't mean you deserve a great marriage and a great s*x life. God doesn't owe you anything! He is Sovereign and He instructed, your job is to simply OBEY! No questions, no compromise, no expected benefits from it, Just seek and love God and respond to His love by honouring God and being answerable to Him!
@@nanampunganyi4058 I love the part where she also said that waiting does not guarantee you marriage or a partner. Its in Gods books. Most of the people are actually waiting for the wrong reasons and reasons of serving thyself and Gods will
So true! I think many people and the churches are so fixated on sex, rather service - serving the Lord (seeking His kingdom and His righteousness) and trusting Him about every aspect of your life. Now that's a tough one. But God sent us the Holy Spirit, who is our Helper, to do all that God requires from us.
@@HisPrincess_ you're so right! I have to say, it's a hard pill but man is it true! God doesn't owe us anything! Rorisang was right when she said we do all this for ourselves. It's just for us. Our WHY has to matter more than our what!
@@kodwat2134 Sex has become all we think about, preach about and like you said, we are fixated on it! Haibo! Can we do something better with this Christian walk of ours? We've got to! There's got to be more to it!
This virginity world is so so worth it. Not only are you so pure in the Spirit but also so so clean from deadly soul ties that can damage your whole life purpose.
You go girl!
Struu sGod
Say that again
Same here I am a young woman ... virgin and waiting till marriage ..I made that decision ever since I was 14 years ....and there is nothing wrong with having a religious excuse for being a virgin
14 is very dangerous I tell you, I was 14 too
And you start dating 🥴😅🤦🏻♀️🥺, and none of your relationships last
I love the fact that she talks about Virginity and purity not being about getting married, not making marriage the end goal. her goals are clear and it is all about God
13:28 “Ga ke shorteee… lala”
“We have made Christianity so cute” -- as though there are no sacrifices.
Beautiful and inspiring conversation
I'ma 19 a Christian and a virgin
Too I just thank her for sharing this wonderful wisdom that many out other should hear
I'm 40 years old I've been celebate for almost 3 years and it's not hard for at all so far. I am focusing on healing because I've experienced hurt and pain in relationships.
I’m a 19 year old and still a virgin ..it is really hard to live as a virgin nowadays because people take it for granted but I’m grateful for it and I’ll forever live according to god’s will and wait for marriage
I feel you😢
I'm 19 years old too and still a virgin
28 years old and still a virgin, trusting God and waiting patiently 🇿🇲🙏🔥♥️
Continue sis, got married when i was 28 and you know what, me and my husband were virgins.
@@phumze6940 beautiful testimony. I'm inspired
29 and still a Virgin
#🇿🇲
I always wanted to know how should I explain to people that I’m Celibate. You beautiful ladies just gave me the courage and confidence to reply nor even not to explain to anyone of my choice. Yes I have a child because of wrong decisions that I made in my past but THIS TIME I’m doing the right thing for ME and with GOD. Thank you Ladies❤
I am a lady turning 32 this year and i feel so proud and inspired all over again ♥ ♥..It's also comforting to know I'm not crazy for not having sex and not making marriage the main goal.
awesome job, keep it up
I'm a 32 year old virgin. I really don't feel like I am missing out on something. I'm content.
Am 21 and I just lost a boyfriend because I choose to keep my vaginity till mrg, thank you this has really strengthened me🙏🙏
I am 23 , I regret losing mine. I wish I had stood my ground like you ...... people come and go.
May the viewers increase in the name of Lord Christ Jesus
I'm 35 and I'm still a virgin. God has kept me till this far. It's so encouraging to hear this
Hie based in Eastlondon SouthAfrica and you
Virgin here I am 20 I got saved at a young age and I’m going to wait until the Lord sends me my husband! ❤
Excellent..So worth it.
I made the decision to “wait” when I was 11/12 years old. Just turned 29 and I’m still going strong. It’s certainly not an easy journey but focusing on God has made this journey one of the best. God has been so good!
God I know I made so much mistakes in my life but never too late to make a change different choices ,❤2024
The Lord is so incredibly faithful. I am 33 and still waiting and I have started to struggle with the choice.... Anxious that I will end up alone, worried that I won't have children.... Contemplating if it's still something I want to be obedient in. Finding this post and these comments have encouraged me so so so much. Thank you thank you thank you
Keep going baby, and don't forget to ask God,he is faithful
Please be encouraged, I am 34 and still waiting by God's grace.
🎉 thanks for encouraging
The anxiety part
Worse case scenario, you give up, you end up having a child with a dead beat of a man😪
Loved this conversation! We often speak about virginity and celibacy solely for the purpose of awaiting marriage but for the Christian it is so much more than that.
Rorisang embodies what I want my daughter to understand. She knows herself, she understands the mountains in her path, and she has accepted that those are hers to climb. And climb she does, with grace. She owns her journey fully. The highs and the lows. And she speaks about, and for herself. It is such a refreshing voice. She has a wonderful personality too: fun, funny, sincere. I pray that when she does find someone, he will have the capacity to understand all of this, and bring with him a world of adventure. If she doesn't, I am not worried. You shine so bright on your own. The world is a beautiful place with you in it.
Amen! I don't know- but I believe it might be a Nigerian broda😂😂😂😂
Beautiful and well said ❤!
This is such a beautiful compliment, she's truly amazing
Best comment ❤
Her mom led from the front. Her mom actually raised her, influenced her. I think we take that influence for granted
Wow!!! Rorisang bathong 😭❤ So much wisdom wrapped up in one human. Young girls let us listen and take notes, we can learn a lot from this our sister😍
Yes ! She mentioned that she was raised and taught to be in purity by her mom and a lot of young girls didn’t have that and still dont have such essential teachings but we can rectify that and ask God to purify and restore us 🤍
Im 29 years and still a virgin, dont drink or smoke! It's so humbling to hear such words of wisdom from a fellow other whose even a celebrity! It's amazing what God can do! Not to be easily influenced in such a world!?! Can only br God❤ Absolutely beautiful. 💯
Will now be following your channel too.
I'm 35, was called into Celibacy at the age of 33, it hasn't been easy. Thank you for this conversation. @Rorisang you're such a blessing to this generation❤
mmmmmh do, you I'll do me
don't judge what others do...be you without bad mouthing others kids!!
@@mrmbatha6766 where did she judge or badmouth anyone? What are you talking about?
The calling of celibacy isnt easy cause you get judged by everyone around you. I was called into it at age 25 and i’m 29 now. It doesnt erase temptation nor does make dating any easier but it truly is rewarding ☺ God is doing a great work in you Katlego!
I can relate 😊
Hie
End goal...
Marriage is not the wedding day.
It is work,hard and God needs to be the centre. Sex is not the glue , God is.
Those who can wait and grow their intimacy with God please do it is a needed tool to stand.
Married for 12 years come 19/12/2024.
#obedience
Saved but obedience is the key to access❤
Young ladies and any other ladies … I just turned 40, I’m here too! Keep going, and when the time isright, He will make things even more beautiful. If you’re doing it for God, or even you, may it never be in vain. Bless you 💫
I love the fact that Rori is not only stuck on just being a virgin, its the purity within that matters most 👏
We have a lot of 'virgins' who pride themselves on keeping their legs closed but are very rude, very spiteful, very unforgiving to name a few.
I am celibate, but its the inner work that matters most. Allowing the Word of God to work you from inside out. The end goal really is to hear "Well done, thou good and faithful servant" 🙏
Interesting topic indeed.
As a 24 year old virgin ...its very encouraging to hear such words even though the journey is difficult its do'able
I'm 29 and I also started my journey in Celibacy and semen retention and I'm keeping it that way until marriage. It's encouraging to see the sister who's interested in pleasing God instead of the flesh.
And I thought I was alone. May we produce God's promises over our lives.
@@jane_kungu indeed sister.
Explain seven retention😅 is it literally retaining your semen or what?
@@masegomatlhaba3534 it's not ejaculating whether through masturbation oral sex etc
i have no idea why i am just discovering this channel right now, but i thank God it happened this morning. As a teenager in university and being the youngest student in my entire programme, its quite difficult to being a christian and a virgin. clips like this are really encouraging , and on behalf of the all the veiwers thank you so so much
Even if I don't get married He will fill my life up for me. ... Praise Jesus for it
thisssss right here🤲🤲🤲🤲
I'm 18 years and am still keeping my self , am keeping myself for marriage .It's not easy but am respecting God and my ancestors.
God called me to celibacy and I won’t lie it’s the best thing to have ever happened to me. I feel cleansed and clear minded. You’re right when you say it’s a calling theres a sense of humbleness grace and atonement from what I subjected myself to.
Wonderful , at 30 I have abstained from my mother's womb, I no longer call it abstinence but a way of living. All I'm concerned about today is doing the will of my Father!🙌
Thanks for the encouragement... I'm clocking 27 next month... God is our strength
I failed to stay pure, basically because I did not have a valid personal and spiritual reason to really and I think maybe that comes from the fact that I was not raised in a wholesome Christian rooted family so the teachings, or warnings lol about purity were more fear driven and being moered wasn't a far fetched thing in my home. BUT, this kind of conversation and teaching right here... I would love to share more of these with my daughter to assist her in making the best decisions for her life spiritually and sexually. Veeeery inspiring and just beautiful to witness🥲🙏💖✨💐 Big ups to the level of understanding in your faith and discipline to get here Ma'am you deserve all the Grace and blessings of the Kingdom of God🙏
I’m astonished at the level of Spiritual growth Rorisang has..wow! Glory be to God, May He continue to bless her
Wow...I like the subject. I also stayed a virgin until marriage. I got married at 27 years...Been in this marriage for 22 years. What I took through the journey was to love myself and value myself and appreciate what God has created me to be...
As a married women this conversation for me was about purity in other areas of my life, about obeying God holistically... Thank you Rori for being God's vessel in these last days. My life will never be the same... Such a beautiful reminder of how Great God is and how he intends for us to live pure and blameless lives... He carries us with so much Grace and we always have to be honest and obedient... Thank you Mpoomy.
Team Purity all the way, am 29 and still pursuing it, and I am so glad God ensured I got the purity talk before I even became a teenager. Is it now easy? No but it's worth it
Wow, it's so encouraging to listen to a young lady who takes the word of God so seriously, especially in this world that is so advocating for a careless lifestyle. May the Lord grant you strength to keep His will and be an example to other young girls who think it's hard to keep yourself pure and holy in this year and age 🙏
i was 17 and i told my boyfriend that i want to wait for marriage but he insisted. I felt so dirty and guilty and i didn’t know how to talk to God , till today i’m taking it day by day but what he did was beyond me and i don’t feel like i’m worth marriage anymore . it makes me feel guilty because i could’ve been a virgin but i am not anymore. please pray for me ❤️
Come on Mbali don't beat yourself up. Be pure starting from today. It's never too late
Hey Mbali, ask God to forgive you and He will. Someone once said God is more anxious to forgive our sins than a woman is to carry her baby out of a burning building. You feeling guilty is a conviction for a wrong doing and you not believing God will forgive. God loves you Mbali.
Once forgiven, the Bible says God forgets. Don't let the devil deceive you through condemnation. Ask for God's forgiveness and forgive yourself. Love you💕
The Father has forgiven you! I know that for a fact. Please, forgive yourself, look at yourself in the mirror every morning, smile and pray over your spirit.
I'm turning 29 this year and I'm still a virgin never even kissed a guy ,oh well everytime when I say that people get furious and say I'm lying I don't know why......anyway thanks for the lovely show definitely subscribing ❤️😘
awesome job fam, they are jealous of you, but will not admit it. Think about it, they know you have something special that you can offer a man that they cannot, and deep down inside, they know a lot of guys want to marry a virgin. Remember, they know you are their competition to get a man
This should reach every youth that wants to keep his/her virginity till marriage,it is so encouraging at this time and age.
Beautiful and powerful conversation, very relevant, "we have made Christianity so cute, we have made it as if it doesn't come at a cost, it comes at a cost, you don't go where others go, you don't think how others think, you don't portray yourself how others portray themselves " I am blessed, you should marry though, you really deserve it :)
Kindly add subtitles when you’re not speaking in English. You have a vast audience outside SA.
Great podcast regardless.
What a beautiful story, I also pray that you get a husband who is a virgin. You have been keeping yourself so pure, you deserve such people
One of the things I love about this is how Rorisang highlights “salvation” as the end goal. If anything, when God helped me redefine what being a virgin was, it helped me shift my focus from “future” intimacy to working out my salvation each day. My virginity stopped being a constant thought, rather, how I can go on pleasing God in how I live my life. That has been so fulfilling.
I even have the kind of peace that, even if I never get married, I will be content in my pursuit of Him. Rorisang, you are such an incredible voice in this generation. I pray that God continues to sustain you ausi 🙏🏾
I think the greatest thing for her was the support she had from her family, they guided her through life as a growing Christian❤️🙏🏾
I love this. I am a 21 year old female, currently figuring out life and growing with God and being a virgin is one commandment l hold dear to my heart. Growing up in a society where sex is glorified and being raised by a single mom l can say that waiting is worth it. Nothing hurts than having a child out of wedlock and having to endure the hardships that come with it is more painful than waiting. You are waiting knowing that at the end God is working with you and through you. I get teased and laughed a lot but damn l am free, l expose myself to shows that talk about earthly things and l love that through that l see God's concept and deeper meaning to the commandment❤
This is such a beautiful conversation and glad to hear her speak so freely about this topic. There is always some sort of stigma attached to it as we get older. I'm 29 turning 30yrs old in September and still a virgin. I get encouraged by such stories. ladies and gentlemen it can be done, may God continue to help us.
God bless you Rori really inspired. I'm 38 no kids being celibate for 13yrs now will get Married one day by God's grace .Let's keep on flying the Jesus flag high
Amennn , so shall it be for you !
Once I realised that serving the Lord is about dying to self, it changed everything. It's all about about the Lord, about serving Him. And that's not easy in a world where you are bombarded with messages about following your heart, and doing what makes you happy. I chose celibacy 5 years ago and to serve the Lord, not easy but God is faithful. He deserves our lives, our trust because He does so much for us every day. But most importantly, He is a sovereign God! ❤️
Chose celibacy at 17
I have a friend who's a virgin, who dated a virgin. They avoided sex until marriage, both are in their mid 20s. They say your first is always the best, and it's true. That's why saving ourselves for marriage can be helpful, because we won't compare our wife/husband to our previous exes, meaning we will always be fully satisfied. Wish I kept my virginity too instead of rushing
I'm waiting for marriage and not solely because of my spiritual beliefs... I'm just so grateful for such content 🥺😍
This is encouraging !
The wait is worth it !
When you're busy with the right thing, doing the right things and pleasing God, there won't be time to do the wrong things.
Obeying God is for our own good.
Finally a podcast about living a life of purity, boldly standing on the truth
I am a divorcee but also forsook my principles and faith by engaging in sex post my divorce. I kept on thinking that I could find joy outside of God's commandments, but soon realised that I was sabotaging myself. I made a turn around later this year and surrendered my heart to Christ. The journey of celibacy is one that only the Holy Spirit will help me with. Thank you for this podcast. Rori; Morena ahohlonolofatshe ngwaneso.❤❤❤❤❤❤
This was amazing. I love Rori acknowledging that virginity is a calling and worship in itself, however it is not the complete work. The things that matter most are those of the Spirit and soul. It is allowing the Holy Spirit and love to change and mold you. Being a virgin is beautiful, but it doesn't automatically make you a good Christian. This is not to undermine virginity; it in itself is mighty and a difficult journey. It's just that we should be more aware of and place more value on the work God does within us.
I am 27, and I have been celibate ever since I was 21, 6 years into this through the Holy Spirit😅 and I must say it has been good. Im marrying a virgin next month. God honours our decisions to be with Him forever. But be a virgin with your soul separated for God's use only and God will purify you everyday to live righteously. START BEING CELIBATE WITH YOUR SOUL THEN THE REST WILL COME NATURALLY.😊
How can you be celibate with your soul?
Happy for you for being for 6 years🙌🏽.
I receive that grace 🤲🏾
@@soniamwanakasale3580 thank you
I absolutely thank God for this video Rorisang you are a true woman of God, I am 30 I have a beautiful baby boy not married,got born again in 2018 when my son was born. God took me out of a messy relationship and he gave me another chance to build and regain myself I am now in a happy place I have a great relationship with God and haven't had any sexual encounters since 2019 till today
This is encouraging. The wait is worth it, not only for religious reasons but for personal wellbeing, protecting myself from unnecessary heartbreaks and being used.
True
Come on now🤌❤️🙌
Not compromising on the Word of God🙌 May God continue to help us and sustain us in obedience to Him🙇🏻♀️🙏
Yes and Amen 🙏🏽
I am really inspired, I am a 22 years virgin, turning 23 this month I pray for more grace 🙌🙌🕯️ definitely marriage isn't my end goal but being with my father 🙌🙌.
I went to the same high school with Rorisang. Shes a beautiful soul and the Virginity silver ring happened during a Monday assembly in the school hall... we had guests who taught us about purity and we were given the free will to take a pledge and get this virginity ring... I'm at ore that she actually kept the faith. Kept the obedience, the strong will, &the self love... BIG UP!!!!!! SHINE ON baby girl.
Am loving this woman and her vibes keeping your self still marriage is the best no matter the societal pressure
😭😭😭I thank God for this. Perfect timing. Rorisang just spoke to me. I can't thank Mpumi enough for this platform. I'm glad I made a choice. Seeing people who are in the same journey as me encourages me
I love the mindset, conversations and patterns of thinking on this channel
Rori is a thought leader....personally love her way of thinking and representation of God.
I am a man way older than you who has dismally failed in that stage of my life.... I wish had such wisdom. And I wish this wisdom over my children and the life of young people right now.
Aus' Rorisang, I beg you mam. You had no business fetching us like that 🥲😭 May the good Lord bless your soul and thank you for this wonderful and powerful message.🌻🌻
🤣🤣 yeah right 😭
The bible says "do not be weary to do good " and that obedience is better than sacrifice, we are very much gtreatful for such pure convos in this generation🙌 indeed mkhulu ongakithi.
Mpoomy, I think I speak for all the Nigerians when I say we need subtitles!!! Excellent work and thank you so much for this. I love you and Rori