Fascinating video, Let's stop taking relationship and family for granted. I have battled depression since my wife left me. I have tried all I can to make her see that I love her with everything I am made of but she has insisted on leaving. This has made me so empty, and I do not know what to do. I can barely function properly at work. I am frustrated and miserable. I really miss her.
Your pain resonates with me. Letting go of someone dear to your heart is an immense challenge. I found myself in a comparable situation when my 12-year-long relationship ended, and I struggled to accept it. Despite my efforts to reconcile, I eventually turned to a spiritual counsellor for guidance, which eventually led to a reunion. I'm now filled with joy
Online, you'll find shelly renee white, revered for her expertise as a spiritual counsellor. She has the ability to reunite couples and promote holistic well-being
I'm deeply sorry to hear that you're facing such a difficult period... Depression can be an immense burden impacting every aspect of life... Taking care of yourself is crucial during such times. I've personally struggled with depression and found solace and strength through various means. Faith played a significant role in my journey, particularly in the scriptures like the book of Psalms, which provided comfort and hope during my darkest moments. While I understand that it may not magically solve the problem, I cannot overstate how much it helped me, and I sincerely recommend exploring it for yourself. And remember that reaching out for support is a courageous step towards healing. If you ever feel like talking or just need someone to listen, I'm here for you. Take care, and remember that you're not alone in this journey. Wishing you strength and peace during this challenging time, brother.
Absolutely Best Video Ever because we ALL WORRY and right now I’m Stuck and wasting time trying to figure out (@ 64 years old ) what occupation I want to dive into… I suck at learning the computer or basically anything plugged into a wall. I loved my past job of selling , updating and visiting my clients … in person… But now everything is done through the damn computer. Yes I can do zoom But it’s not as effective as in person , looking the person in their eyes and knowing if you really are understanding their needs… I have no idea what I want to do at this great stage in my life. I have my kids , I’m GoGo the grandma, I’m a positive energetic person and I’m literally stuck with what I want to Be when I Grow Up!!!!!
Mel, I can't tell you how grateful I am for your videos. They have saved me from my anxiety and negative self-talk more times than I can count. Your videos find their way to me right when I need them. Like little heartshaped rocks appearing out of nowhere, your videos are always the advice I need at the right time. Thank you for being you.
I became sick, diagnosed with POTS. I lost my job because of it. I can't stop worrying constantly.... About symptoms, about getting better, about our financial situation, about being happy, finding purpose in my life and being able to enjoy things again.... I don't know how to stop. I cry, I worry, I feel nervous and none of this is helping me but I don't know what to do or how to cope with an illness. I went from full time job, full time Mom, working out and just being a normal person to feeling bad all the time and not functioning normal in the world. Absolute worst time of my life.
I divorced my husband and married a new knight in shining armor then he died and I moved and connected with another man for 11 years now 80 and I live life day by day.Don't look back Forward.
I'm going through a separation and it feels so hard. You went through so much and you still have a positive mindset. I hope I can be like that someday.
@@elenamaldonado7304I hope you know that you can do hard things! In fact, you will come out on the other side of what you’re going through stronger & better than ever! 👀 I see you! ❤
Thanks, your words are as medicines for my soul, my worries aren't worth, anyway the majories of them aren't mine. When I was born the world already exist and when I die, it will continue. Kind greetings.
Thank you Mel! This is just what I needed to hear today. I quit my job about 6 months ago to start a career in real estate and it has been harder than I expected but instead of worrying I want to focus on what if it all works out!💪
Hey Mel I like listening to you podcasts.half the things we worry about don't happen. It's the way we have been brought up. And our environment and the media shapes our thoughts. Thanks Mel keep growing 😊
I raised my two nephews and I worked my ass off raising them, was exhausted all the time. My son was a massive support and helped in all matters, BUt he always wanted me to do more....yep .. more for them. Now this is above and beyond type of stuff, i would listen and appreciate what he was saying then I would let him know that I was doing the very best I could and had nothing more to give. I also explained that what I was giving was good enough, and the boys were fine. It was heartwarming to see my son care but I was honest and let him know there is only so much I can do and It will be enough. They are all grown up and all are doing great.
There is this song, Jessie by Joshua Kadison: Jessie paint your pictures About how it's gonna be By now I should know better Your dreams are never free But tell me all about our little trailer by the sea Oh Jessie you can always sell any dream to me Oh Jessie you can always sell any dream to me Then in one part the verse goes: Jessie how do you always seem to know just when to call... Mel - how do you always know just what i need on days magically when I need it. I had 3 interviews for the same job for the panel interviews and this made me think what if yes what if it works out what if I get my miracle. Because I need a miracle I need something to work out but I am so afraid of hoping and dreaming that I made myself exhausted with anxiety. Thank you Mel. I love you too. So though I cant make you hear me sing this song to you - as i would voice note a friend I can just sing it in my heart to you. thank you Mel for always having the right words when I need them.
Hi Mel:-) I enjoy watching your videos. I am learning a lot. And I am writing down too. I really love what you said: 1. Be kind to yourself. 2. Being productive by taking care of yourself today. And high 5 in a mirror. I absolutely love this. I really love to see and smile in the mirror❤ Please, stay healthy. Because I do believe million of people around the world are changing their lives through you and i am one of them. You are really God's given to million of people in the world❤ GOD BLESS YOU!
Hi Mel! Dale Carnegie’s book, How to Stop Worrying and Stop Living, is such a treasure. I’m sure your followers will benefit from it, like it has me 🙏🏼
Hi Mel! I love listening to you! I laugh, because I see all my scattered, over thinking nonsense! I hear you and you've already been through similar things. ❤
The deceiving part about worrying is that when something does happen worrying doesn’t make you any more prepared for what has happened. I’ve learned to trust myself enough so that when something happens I have the tools and resources I need to get past it
Wuau, this really does work. I have only listened like 7 minutes of the video today morning and today I just automatically started implementing this in situations I had need for comparing myself with others. And I did not go any further with this mental overthinking and overdramatising things that do not even exist Thanks a lot.❤
Hey Mel, this is such a brilliant video! Who are the women interviewed on the episodes featured please? I'd like to follow them on social media. Thank you so much for all the great work you and your team put out into the world.
Im moving house to a whole new area and do not know anyone I love the house and am nearer to family ...but what if I am unhappy and it turns out the worst thing I did
I have health anxiety and I keep thinking my symptoms are all these bad things and I'm going to die. Miss my grandchildren. ...I guess What if it all works out?
I am scared i am not spending the time i can with my son b/c i have recently moved to Florida when my son was in college. Now he move back home with his dad in ohio. He is 22 years old. Also he doesn't call me or text me on regular basis. 😢
Oakley, don’t feel bad, I wasn’t aloud to shave my legs until I was 12 and I’m Italian 😂 I was always so embarrassed, but I got over it… after years of therapy NO ! Just kidding 😂 It’s funny how the things that once humiliated us at one point in our lives becomes something you can laugh about later in life ❤
Mel, there was a movie star some years back that actually asked for help the day before he took his life and its been bothering me ever since I heard this. I have to wonder wth happened.
Problem with raising kids to expect people outside the home to work the same way as the family does...it's a culture shock in the process trust me don't shelter your kids
Mel, I noticed that when your son was talking, you cut him off and didn’t let him finish what he was explaining. It seems that he wanted to tell his story
Hi Mel An arrow is an incoming piercing projectile that wounds you, I justvhave something I neeed to get off my chest it has been since 2018 I actually had any kind of fun my ex takes me out to some places one Fort Brag and a friend take me with him to his family out I'm Willits and this was 2010 and I was as fit as an ox 🐂 top shape and then thing happen in the work place that shouldn't have happened I was discriminate for being trans MTF, I even had some scrutiny as well and 2018 rolls around and I'm just loosing my shit tipping over paper trash can even showing my actions do not mess with me and since the pandemic I just wanted to be around people feeling as if I could die so I do believe had made a mistake by opening up to someone i I I had no clue who she was and for a moment approximately three year since i had got back to my feet with help from friends from bein houseless with an income cause i did the work to get qulified for SSA and the moment at hand I have ans this individual has been maniping me ro spend monet to meet me and I feel as if she really want to it would have been done that first year since I had been with a roommate situation and I'm fed up with the whole thing and have been butchung i need this that and other things I am tired of the false and broken proves that it would end and just kept giving me excuse after another and it hasn't been long sense I have seen you on RUclips so I just gave it a shot and now I'm on this for the long haul I have sibling I wonder about and if you go to Aibo ranch and check ou my parent collection on autonomy with ai no bigger than a cat and my parents had been on channel 3 for the biggest collection on aibos and did I forget to say my fathe is an artist and the appel did not fall far from the tree and now I am 45 and a child hooox friens two weeks stops by out of the blue and I have my own physical routine body lifting I'm okay with a computer and phone why do I not feel lie I want to i have not seen my siblings foe long time and i have a brother who won't speak to me with my transition MTF and I realy have this dream to open a Spa for muscle therapy with a sauna and then work the knot out or vice versa
I’m living with watching daily health issues that my only children, my two girls Kiki 38 and Elin 33 are dealing with. Lyme disease and all the co-infections. The physical and mental challenges are unbearable and it NEVER ends. It’s taken their lives over going on a decade! Not a day a week a month but YEARS Mel!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!😢 There is NO cure. There is NO end in sight!!!!!!!! Worrying about your dang charger is like laughable dear Lord, forgive me for being angry 😡
Apparently sorry you missed the point of not escalating daily issues. I too, like you, could go into the YEARS of dealing DAILY from dawn to dark with losing the loved one who NO LONGER RECOGNIZES me; the pain and ANGER and having to psychological compartmentalize WHILE TAKING CARE PHYSICALLY the person who hates you; acts or and has no memory..... tell me about it!!!!! NOT weeks, but YEARS However, listening to this helps me- even when I can not find my computer charger or my car keys THIS IS STILL APPLICABLE thank you Mel for the reminders how I can let little things blow up and remember to find the happiness in it all❤
You're what you think, you better start think of you and anything in a positive way.
You manifest what you think.
Fascinating video, Let's stop taking relationship and family for granted. I have battled depression since my wife left me. I have tried all I can to make her see that I love her with everything I am made of but she has insisted on leaving. This has made me so empty, and I do not know what to do. I can barely function properly at work. I am frustrated and miserable. I really miss her.
Your pain resonates with me. Letting go of someone dear to your heart is an immense challenge. I found myself in a comparable situation when my 12-year-long relationship ended, and I struggled to accept it. Despite my efforts to reconcile, I eventually turned to a spiritual counsellor for guidance, which eventually led to a reunion. I'm now filled with joy
I'm keen on meeting the counsellor you're talking about. What steps should I take?
Online, you'll find shelly renee white, revered for her expertise as a spiritual counsellor. She has the ability to reunite couples and promote holistic well-being
Thank you for this information. I have just looked her up on Google. impressive.
I'm deeply sorry to hear that you're facing such a difficult period... Depression can be an immense burden impacting every aspect of life... Taking care of yourself is crucial during such times. I've personally struggled with depression and found solace and strength through various means.
Faith played a significant role in my journey, particularly in the scriptures like the book of Psalms, which provided comfort and hope during my darkest moments. While I understand that it may not magically solve the problem, I cannot overstate how much it helped me, and I sincerely recommend exploring it for yourself.
And remember that reaching out for support is a courageous step towards healing. If you ever feel like talking or just need someone to listen, I'm here for you. Take care, and remember that you're not alone in this journey. Wishing you strength and peace during this challenging time, brother.
Absolutely Best Video Ever because we ALL WORRY and right now I’m Stuck and wasting time trying to figure out (@ 64 years old ) what occupation I want to dive into… I suck at learning the computer or basically anything plugged into a wall. I loved my past job of selling , updating and visiting my clients … in person… But now everything is done through the damn computer. Yes I can do zoom But it’s not as effective as in person , looking the person in their eyes and knowing if you really are understanding their needs… I have no idea what I want to do at this great stage in my life. I have my kids , I’m GoGo the grandma, I’m a positive energetic person and I’m literally stuck with what I want to Be when I Grow Up!!!!!
I worry about everything!!!! It’s constant ….
Mel, I can't tell you how grateful I am for your videos. They have saved me from my anxiety and negative self-talk more times than I can count. Your videos find their way to me right when I need them. Like little heartshaped rocks appearing out of nowhere, your videos are always the advice I need at the right time. Thank you for being you.
Reminds me of: “We suffer more often in imagination than in reality “ Seneca
I became sick, diagnosed with POTS. I lost my job because of it. I can't stop worrying constantly.... About symptoms, about getting better, about our financial situation, about being happy, finding purpose in my life and being able to enjoy things again.... I don't know how to stop. I cry, I worry, I feel nervous and none of this is helping me but I don't know what to do or how to cope with an illness. I went from full time job, full time Mom, working out and just being a normal person to feeling bad all the time and not functioning normal in the world. Absolute worst time of my life.
I’m in a similar situation, it’s so hard! I started telehealth appts for therapy and Dr appts to get help- I pray we feel better soon!!
Sending love and hugs from SA to both of you❤❤ You are stronger than you think xx
My body lives in fight or flight 24/7
I divorced my husband and married a new knight in shining armor then he died and I moved and connected with another man for 11 years now 80 and I live life day by day.Don't look back Forward.
I'm going through a separation and it feels so hard. You went through so much and you still have a positive mindset. I hope I can be like that someday.
@@elenamaldonado7304I hope you know that you can do hard things! In fact, you will come out on the other side of what you’re going through stronger & better than ever! 👀 I see you! ❤
We are not our setbacks was something I needed to hear today.
Thanks, your words are as medicines for my soul, my worries aren't worth, anyway the majories of them aren't mine. When I was born the world already exist and when I die, it will continue. Kind greetings.
Thank you Mel! This is just what I needed to hear today. I quit my job about 6 months ago to start a career in real estate and it has been harder than I expected but instead of worrying I want to focus on what if it all works out!💪
I know somebody who needs to hear this one so I'm sharing this episode. I'm sharing because it's helping me, too. I need to hear it, too.
My comfort place ❤❤❤ Love your podcast Mel❤
Thank you, Mel! I needed this exactly in this moment at the deepest level imaginable.
Hey Mel I like listening to you podcasts.half the things we worry about don't happen. It's the way we have been brought up. And our environment and the media shapes our thoughts. Thanks Mel keep growing 😊
I agree. Its become a habit. Somehow I think worrying will lesson the bad news. It seems ridiculous maybe but it's true.
Mel, All I can say is Thank You. ❤❤❤❤
Came here from the Dr Chaterjee interview…this morning I did my first mirror high 5! Thank you Mel! 😊
Me too! LOL
Thank you for this!!!
I raised my two nephews and I worked my ass off raising them, was exhausted all the time. My son was a massive support and helped in all matters, BUt he always wanted me to do more....yep .. more for them. Now this is above and beyond type of stuff, i would listen and appreciate what he was saying then I would let him know that I was doing the very best I could and had nothing more to give. I also explained that what I was giving was good enough, and the boys were fine. It was heartwarming to see my son care but I was honest and let him know there is only so much I can do and It will be enough. They are all grown up and all are doing great.
There is this song, Jessie by Joshua Kadison: Jessie paint your pictures
About how it's gonna be
By now I should know better
Your dreams are never free
But tell me all about our little trailer by the sea
Oh Jessie you can always sell any dream to me
Oh Jessie you can always sell any dream to me
Then in one part the verse goes: Jessie how do you always seem to know just when to call...
Mel - how do you always know just what i need on days magically when I need it.
I had 3 interviews for the same job for the panel interviews and this made me think what if yes what if it works out what if I get my miracle. Because I need a miracle I need something to work out but I am so afraid of hoping and dreaming that I made myself exhausted with anxiety.
Thank you Mel. I love you too. So though I cant make you hear me sing this song to you - as i would voice note a friend I can just sing it in my heart to you. thank you Mel for always having the right words when I need them.
What if it all works out? Perfect!! I'm gonna use this ❤❤
Hi Mel:-) I enjoy watching your videos. I am learning a lot. And I am writing down too.
I really love what you said:
1. Be kind to yourself.
2. Being productive by taking care of yourself today.
And high 5 in a mirror. I absolutely love this. I really love to see and smile in the mirror❤
Please, stay healthy. Because I do believe million of people around the world are changing their lives through you and i am one of them. You are really God's given to million of people in the world❤ GOD BLESS YOU!
Hi Mel! Dale Carnegie’s book, How to Stop Worrying and Stop Living, is such a treasure. I’m sure your followers will benefit from it, like it has me 🙏🏼
Thank you this is perfect I was looking for you to post something today and this is exactly the message I need.
Mel you’re amazing. Thank you for doing these videos ❤
Hi Mel! I love listening to you! I laugh, because I see all my scattered, over thinking nonsense! I hear you and you've already been through similar things. ❤
SO needed to hear this. Arrows slinging like crazy
Mel
Thanks for helping us to create inspiration to build a better world 🌍 always ❤
❤I want to teach This to my granddaughter who’s only 3. She would be such a rock star ⭐️
❤❤❤ Thank you for taking the time to share this 😊
This is brilliant, thanks Mel Xx
I love you and your speeches
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Thanks so much for your love and compassion Mel!! It means more than you know❤️
The deceiving part about worrying is that when something does happen worrying doesn’t make you any more prepared for what has happened. I’ve learned to trust myself enough so that when something happens I have the tools and resources I need to get past it
Wuau, this really does work. I have only listened like 7 minutes of the video today morning and today I just automatically started implementing this in situations I had need for comparing myself with others. And I did not go any further with this mental overthinking and overdramatising things that do not even exist
Thanks a lot.❤
Thoughts shape us.
This was very helpful to me. 🎉 Thank you for this. 👍
Your amazing friend 👍
Mel, I absolutely love you!
Wow Mel, thanks for those beautiful words, just what I needed 🎉🎉🎉
Hey Mel, this is such a brilliant video! Who are the women interviewed on the episodes featured please? I'd like to follow them on social media. Thank you so much for all the great work you and your team put out into the world.
Amazing
Love you Mel 😅
Im moving house to a whole new area and do not know anyone I love the house and am nearer to family ...but what if I am unhappy and it turns out the worst thing I did
You will manage
What if it all works out?
What if it’s the best thing that ever happened to you?
I have health anxiety and I keep thinking my symptoms are all these bad things and I'm going to die. Miss my grandchildren. ...I guess
What if it all works out?
Great talk
Mel do you have a podcast that describes the 5Sec rule that I can pass on? Thanks
Hi Mel.
Could you please write recording date on the videos?
I am scared i am not spending the time i can with my son b/c i have recently moved to Florida when my son was in college. Now he move back home with his dad in ohio. He is 22 years old. Also he doesn't call me or text me on regular basis. 😢
Did you move to be nearer to him...Florida sounds beautiful though
Oakley, don’t feel bad, I wasn’t aloud to shave my legs until I was 12 and I’m Italian 😂 I was always so embarrassed, but I got over it… after years of therapy NO ! Just kidding 😂
It’s funny how the things that once humiliated us at one point in our lives becomes something you can laugh about later in life ❤
How can i find the book the person you were talking with wrote? Thank you!
i worry anout basic things i dont know what to do
💥🖤🎤💋👓.....Lem!....MEL....🏀🤚🏆🪞🤚!!!
There are so many adds that i can't listen to this anymore
Mel, there was a movie star some years back that actually asked for help the day before he took his life and its been bothering me ever since I heard this. I have to wonder wth happened.
What if you are the only one left?
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food banks and where is the job i am searching for
Mel facing a divorce right now so im going to stop worrying 😢
Problem with raising kids to expect people outside the home to work the same way as the family does...it's a culture shock in the process trust me don't shelter your kids
Mel, I noticed that when your son was talking, you cut him off and didn’t let him finish what he was explaining. It seems that he wanted to tell his story
Getting sick.
Hi Mel
An arrow is an incoming piercing projectile that wounds you, I justvhave something I neeed to get off my chest it has been since 2018 I actually had any kind of fun my ex takes me out to some places one Fort Brag and a friend take me with him to his family out I'm Willits and this was 2010 and I was as fit as an ox 🐂 top shape and then thing happen in the work place that shouldn't have happened I was discriminate for being trans MTF, I even had some scrutiny as well and 2018 rolls around and I'm just loosing my shit tipping over paper trash can even showing my actions do not mess with me and since the pandemic I just wanted to be around people feeling as if I could die so I do believe had made a mistake by opening up to someone i I I had no clue who she was and for a moment approximately three year since i had got back to my feet with help from friends from bein houseless with an income cause i did the work to get qulified for SSA and the moment at hand I have ans this individual has been maniping me ro spend monet to meet me and I feel as if she really want to it would have been done that first year since I had been with a roommate situation and I'm fed up with the whole thing and have been butchung i need this that and other things I am tired of the false and broken proves that it would end and just kept giving me excuse after another and it hasn't been long sense I have seen you on RUclips so I just gave it a shot and now I'm on this for the long haul I have sibling I wonder about and if you go to Aibo ranch and check ou my parent collection on autonomy with ai no bigger than a cat and my parents had been on channel 3 for the biggest collection on aibos and did I forget to say my fathe is an artist and the appel did not fall far from the tree and now I am 45 and a child hooox friens two weeks stops by out of the blue and I have my own physical routine body lifting I'm okay with a computer and phone why do I not feel lie I want to i have not seen my siblings foe long time and i have a brother who won't speak to me with my transition MTF and I realy have this dream to open a Spa for muscle therapy with a sauna and then work the knot out or vice versa
i need money to pay the bills i have zero
I think my head has turned into a medieval war zone!!🙄🙄
I’m living with watching daily health issues that my only children, my two girls Kiki 38 and Elin 33 are dealing with. Lyme disease and all the co-infections. The physical and mental challenges are unbearable and it NEVER ends. It’s taken their lives over going on a decade! Not a day a week a month but YEARS Mel!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!😢 There is NO cure. There is NO end in sight!!!!!!!! Worrying about your dang charger is like laughable dear Lord, forgive me for being angry 😡
Apparently sorry you missed the point of not escalating daily issues. I too, like you, could go into the YEARS of dealing DAILY from dawn to dark with losing the loved one who NO LONGER RECOGNIZES me; the pain and ANGER and having to psychological compartmentalize WHILE TAKING CARE PHYSICALLY the person who hates you; acts or and has no memory..... tell me about it!!!!! NOT weeks, but YEARS
However, listening to this helps me- even when I can not find my computer charger or my car keys THIS IS STILL APPLICABLE thank you Mel for the reminders how I can let little things blow up and remember to find the happiness in it all❤
😊
Mel you’re amazing. Thank you for doing these videos ❤