I understand you completely. I'll wager that, like myself, if you have to interact with 4 or more people at once, say as at a relative's birthday party for even just a couple of hours, that you feel exhausted, literally physically exhausted maybe even mentally drained. Not that we despise these people it's just the experience of dealing with multiple people/personalities who usually have no desire to listen but, only to tell you what they're doing and especially what YOU SHOULD BE DOING. I apologize for being so long-winded.
My friend there are very few people in this world worth sharing time with unless your intention is to help them. The people of this era really needs help.
I am 53. I have been alone for a long time. Every single word that was said is True. No Drama. Peace of Mind has No price tag. I have God and He is really all that I need and want.
I am 55 and have no family,friends are gone,moved away ,after my divorce I have been alone for 18 years now.im OK.i enjoy the things I do for entertainment and my avacat gives me love.better alone for the right reasons ,than with someone for the wrong.
Self validation also boils down to numbers. It's still a human validation. Validation by the Creator is something which changes the equation. But for that one needs to know Who is the Creator and how He Validates.
There’s even people that are married and they feel more alone then people who are single. Just cause someone’s in a relationship doesn’t mean they connect and it’s fulfilling. It could most likely be dragging them down making life worse. It’s not always better to be in relationships. I think one or two solid relationships tops is all a human needs. Everyone else is just npcs lol or better word would be irrelevant .
@@RobertOtoole-jo5bg Not having any kid of social media is normal. We survived for thousands of years without it. And no, i dont mean RUclips, the majority of RUclips users use it as a TV, the rest use RUclips as a job. I mean FB, Insta, Tiktok etc. If you are like me and have none of that, you become grounded in actual reality. If you have it, the delete it, of course you have no obligation to do that, but you will see what i mean in a years time, hell even after a month. And you will see how braindead people are every single place you go to. Want your hair cut? take a look around you, people glued to their phones. Go the beach? look over that way, see how people are taking selfies just to upload for attention? pathetic. What do you see when you go literally anywhere? Notice during conversations how someone can come out with the most weirdest take they have heard from some random on tiktok? because they automatically believe whatever that random said? You get the idea. If you ever wander what it would be like without it all, then do it. You will never look back. But this is me assuming you use any of them. Anyway, this is my random comment for the day. Peace.
@@kkyk_21 Wife, kids, mortgage 9 to 5. Then she explained that I wasn't Peter Pan any longer! So I'm a born again bachelor, wander Asia when I get the chance and do exactly what I want, when I want. Now so many are doing the same thing,😆😅🤣 I might become NORMAL!🤮
I've been told by therapist and phsycologists while going through rehab I need to connect with people and that there's no way I'm not lonely not true just me and my cat the more people you have in your lives the more b.s. and suffering you endure
@@dorariparia9262 I didn't used to enjoy being alone as a child bur around 13 I primarily just was by myself or animals cool thing about animals they don't come around you with all there problems and try to involve you nowadays I can't stand therapists physiologist or counseling they seem to try and understand other people like it's just a biography for them to analyze
Leaned into my space and asked. I was disgusted, frankly. It has been the fight of most of my life to achieve the freedom I now enjoy, it is what I worked for, to get free of the emotionally needy vampires who can only sustain themselves by draining others. Then they presume everyone is like them and start making demands to access you so they can suck the life out of you. It's all about that access they need. They are unwholesome in the most literal sense, not whole. Something missing.
It actually feels bad because in my life case, i hope people could be little bit more like me, so u could connect to. The more people here, the more i felt lost, and when i choose to be alone, i get that feeling that people see me as weird, and for people pleaser like me, i just confuse. Still though, i choose my own company. Huhf, i hope life would be little bit easier actually.
A man who has spent time alone cannot be coerced or strongarmed by threats of abandonment or being left alone without family or friends. It ceases to hold power over them.
Being alone has not only helped me find peace but also gave me time to rekindle past hobbies and even find new ones. I've been reading more, traveling more, going on walks, learned some new culinary skills, and even indulge in some videogames that I once enjoyed as a kid. Moments like that which truly center me.
I prefer to be alone as much as possible. A few weeks ago i went camping and it was just me alone in the woods with not another person within 100km. It was bliss.
I go out for walks at night. There’s a cemetery in my route and it’s a dark, beautiful silence. Sometimes i pause at the gate and just look inside. Good afternoon to you, fellow lone wolf.
@@conjured_up_skeletons6178 walks at night are the best I'm a nite owl 🦉 .I plan on living the solitary life been in relationship for 4 years too long .imma do some bushcrafting
So much has changed since the 1930s….the concept of personal dignity seems to have been wholly abandoned….we who are alone feel a loneliness for the change that is coming….it’s already in the wind….🙏🏾
It sounds like me! Don't talk to anyone because everyone talks rubbish & don't have time for it, I prefer my own company because I don't like fake people.
Hit 200k today. I'm really grateful for all the knowledge and nuggets you had thrown my way over the last months. Started crypto trading with 14k in March 2024
Most people think, investing in crypto is all about buying coins and leaving it to rise, come on it takes much analysis to be a successful crypto trader.
I’m in that level of life already. I enjoy my own company and content with myself. I’m open to meeting other people but will not kiss anyone’s behind. If I vibe with you then I vibe but I will never force friendships with anyone.
Hey I'm the guy at the top and I'm here to tell you I've had that identity since about 10 I'm going to be hitting 70 so you can live with it it's great once you learn it out figure it out just be very comfortable with yourself I always
The amount of people who are worth spending time with seems to get smaller every single day.....the world is sick, i keep my distance simply to not catch what they all seem to have.
I am 57. Never had I have any true friend. I one day realised I didn't need any. Living alone with my own shadow, with my own ideal, my own goal and my own future plan is way better than incurring trouble through relatives and friends who are always needy and bothersome.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
Really Sorry to hear your problems , we all have been through a lot , i have ever been in that condition as well , it took me years as well to heal , although it is healed , there is scar as well (but this scar today does not hurt anymore) , it is just like wounds , if your wound are not healed yet & you keep on scratching it , then it won't get healed. once it is healed , no matter how you scratch it , it just don't really matters anymore. Actually all we need is just a friend to talk to everytime this feelings arise , everytime things got worse, everytime all this mess up life got into our mind . all i can suggest for you is that (because i don't know where to share my feelings by that time) you just need to move your ass , get out & talk to someone no matter who that person is , for me , i always talk to someone who looks troubled as well , whose sitting alone , whose daydreaming alone , look , we all don't know what each of us have been through , how much hurt that we endure , how much tears that we have gone through. if you have family , friends , you can just ask them or plan a daily routine things to be done . in simple , it is actually things to be done & pursued goals just to get this things out of yourmind . we try to trick our mind , like : having gym at night (where usually night time , we used to chat to that person) , going for charity job (Sunday) , you will realize how much person is suffering more than us. When you Truly Love someone , you finally get one of two results : " A Person for Life or A Lesson For Life"
Other people thrive on drama and misery…!! Many are unhappy and don’t want you to be happy…!! DONT BE MISERABLE LIKE THEM… LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF…!!! I DO…!!!
IVE BEEN INTOVERTED FOR 9 YRS... NOT BECAUSE IM DANGEROUS I JUST DISLIKE HUMAN CONTACT... UNLESS ITS WORK RELATED I HAVE NO USE OR WANT FOR HUMAN CONTACT... THATS JUST MY WAY...✌
I am constantly misunderstood because I only speak when I need to. I cherish being alone with my thoughts. If that makes me seem a bit strange that’s ok.
The last part of the video is the best, I believe it's true that if your alone a long time and very quiet that you can be dangerous. These days I believe barriers are put up socially by others so you end up alone as a result. It's good to learn how to enjoy being alone but it's also good to enjoy spending time with others. It can take a while to connect with those who are worth your time but it will happen oneday.
Well, this was posted 11 days ago but just popped up to view as recommended today. I think the damn algorithm knows me. 😎. Anyways, I live by myself in the mountains of Montana at about 6,000ft elevation. I’m in my mid 70’s, spent my youth in the Marines. Been to war several times, survived when many others beside me did not. At last count, I figure that I should have died at least 17 times. Fast horse, fast women, and fast motorcycles are what keep me active. I like being by myself. I’m never lonely. I don’t even have a TV, but I do have an extensive library full of fantastic books. I fall, buck and split 8 cords of wood for the winter. I do have electricity, and StarKink, but nothing else from the outside. When I get a hankering, I go down the mountain to a town, have a meal, pick up my mail at the PO Box, grab a few necessities like coffee, flour, fuel, sugar, brandy, beer, Monster, etc. I don’t need drama and I’m perfectly fine by myself. My kids, grandkids, and great grandkids come up to visit every once in a while which is about enough socializing for me. About 1 million population in the whole state, and less than a dozen within a 50 mile radius. There is so much beauty around me that it keeps me constantly thankful and amazed.
I hear people talking about how solitude is like a dreadful ordeal to them, and I just can't comprehend how this can be, I spend most of my time on my own, and truly I enjoy it very much, I don't mind the right company, but most people I've come across leave me loving my lonely life even more .
I am 21 years old, from childhood I am always alone and single. Most of the time I spend time alone with myself. I have the habit of talking with myself. I am addicted to so many bad habits and I have done very terrible sins from childhood. I always get negative and criminal thoughts in my mind but I always control those dangerous thoughts which I get in my mind. But I love being single and alone, I vowed to stay single and to celibate my whole life❤
This man has an IDENTITY, he knows who and what he is. He needs to validation of affirmation from anyone, he knows who he is an is very comfortable with it. This man years ago was lucky enough to have a father who taught his son who he was and what his worth is, or maybe an uncle. God is the Only other person who can enter a man’s soul to repair the wound he suffered, a renew his heart a give him an identity. To God be the glory. Amen❤️
I am in isolation for 4 years my lonely ness is not my weakness it's my strength because you must heard that " if you are alone but still remember you also do at the end alone 👑🔥🔥🔥
As an only child with no brothers and sisters growing up I learnt to enjoy my own company & be happy on my own. People still don’t understand how I can go off for weeks on a journey by myself but to me it’s easy….. Lone Wolf for a reason 👍
@mzeewakazi Why does it always have to be one extreme or the other? Just because someone prefers to be away from technology doesn't mean they have to reject it entirely and never use it. Besides, there's no law that says you have to live your life in a totally consistent way that makes sense to others. It's every man's right to be a walking contradiction.
@@bluesrocker91 I agree completely with you. Proper technical solutions can serve longer than a lifetime to make living/working better/healthier/easier but most people when they hear technology they think on modern useless crap without quality - things just for trash, dumpsites or the recycling economy but no real physical quality.
The Solitary Peaceful Ones are a silent refutation of the consensus that “society” holds to as gospel… Those who follow the Pied Piper are deathly afraid of being shown the foolishness of their ways, and so choose mercy for Barabbas
Energy is precious, and we are allotted only so much for every 24hrs. I have spent more than enough time wasting it on frivolous pursuits with trifling, some-timey people, and I’m done doing that.
The more friends you have, the more trouble you have.... That's why I prefer to lock up myself. My two cats go more out than I am.. And I prefer it so....... Yeah, I'm very happy this way.... Look I'm smiling... 😅.. ........
Right…. I speak when spoken to like I was raised to do unless I know you…. even then I do NOT go out My way to fan ya down to be in your face. I tend simply to ME because I choose to and I exhibit it by being face forward….and that shouldn’t bother anyone when they should be doing the same. Period, it’s just who I AM and I AM not for anyone to take personal either. 👑♾️👑🔐🔥🔥🔥🔥🥰🥰
Been living alone for 7 years, away from family, church, colleagues, friends except for special occassions where I realy am invited. I felt abandoned and abused before but now consider this isolation as opportunity to learn, reflect, and grow. Thanks.
This is me. Live alone. eat alone. And enjoy my time alone. I choose this life style as it fits me the best. I am old school an cannot stand the cowardice ways people have become. I don't trust many at all. I have 2 people in my life i can trust fully. But that number should be way higher. Bringing people into your life just creates problems as most will stab you in the back 1st chance they get. Strong yes very 💪 mo women needed here 😄
Being an only child and grandchild, AND having strict ass parents has brought me to a VERY Lonely place. You can basically say I was trained for it since effing birth. About to turn 50 and not a damn thing has changed. Seeing the way people act towards eachother makes me realize im one lucky bastard to be so "Alone"..
I have been in a 2yrs high conflict divorce because my ex created it, she also turned my sons (current ages: 18yrs old and 14yrs old) against me. I chose to be alone because people are problems, the abuse she put me through was rough and on Aug 16 the family law judge did nothing about it. David Giggins decide to be alone and so do I........ 🥇video!
a man who loves his alone time is a wise man.
Being alone one avoids lots of trouble and difficulties that people can bring like unwanted baggage
Yup they are trying to program you to act like a female in this todays society, like other men in my age (24) are gossiping like women lmao.
Thank you very much, I resemble that remark. 😉
Well Said!!🙏🏾
@@AnnetteCarolanFourie Well said that's so true
I love being alone,away from people who are pretentious and narcissist.
I understand you completely.
I'll wager that, like myself, if you have to interact with 4 or more people at once, say as at a relative's birthday party for even just a couple of hours, that you feel exhausted, literally physically exhausted maybe even mentally drained. Not that we despise these people it's just the experience of dealing with multiple people/personalities who usually have no desire to listen but, only to tell you what they're doing and especially what YOU SHOULD BE DOING.
I apologize for being so long-winded.
Boom I was waiting to read a comment as this 😂👍👍👍👍👍👍
Got that right mate
@@frankblacks.45 damn right 👍
Facts 💯
Sometimes I get kinda bored but when I’m with people for too long I wanna be alone for a while again
me too esp people who like to impose their way of life on me. OOh i hate it
My friend there are very few people in this world worth sharing time with unless your intention is to help them. The people of this era really needs help.
Im the same way, even family gatherings or parties i dnt like stayin too long. Some ppl jus kill your vibe
'Boredom is the adventure'
-me
that's introvert energy bar
I love being alone. If you think I'm dangerous then good. It means you will stay tf away!
Lol Tru
That’s me too 🤘🇬🇧
💯
Same
Yep
In the middle of the toxic society, being alone is the most healthy life. As long as you still have a positive goal to catch.
I am 53. I have been alone for a long time. Every single word that was said is True. No Drama. Peace of Mind has No price tag. I have God and He is really all that I need and want.
Bless Up.
@@fingthink
To be a testimonial of the Truth and spreading further the Good News 🙌💖🕊.
God fucked you out a life of joy is what he did.
Thank you .
I am 55 and have no family,friends are gone,moved away ,after my divorce I have been alone for 18 years now.im OK.i enjoy the things I do for entertainment and my avacat gives me love.better alone for the right reasons ,than with someone for the wrong.
Self validated, nobody can take that away.
Self validation also boils down to numbers. It's still a human validation. Validation by the Creator is something which changes the equation. But for that one needs to know Who is the Creator and how He Validates.
Amen
Every family has that one person who will break the family financial struggle, I hope you become the one😊
Amen🙏
Well..its true..its me
Id rather be happy and alone than be miserable and with someone.
Well Said I agree
There’s even people that are married and they feel more alone then people who are single. Just cause someone’s in a relationship doesn’t mean they connect and it’s fulfilling. It could most likely be dragging them down making life worse. It’s not always better to be in relationships. I think one or two solid relationships tops is all a human needs. Everyone else is just npcs lol or better word would be irrelevant .
@b-rare I agree with your statement well said
I'm a guy and I'm married to a bully and a narcissist I'm a wee bit disabled , and I don't know what to do,
Amen I agree as well 😎💪🔥💯
"Bad associations spoil useful habits."
- 1st Corinthians 15:33
Also,iron sharpeneth iron
I've said that for yrs....that my peace of mind means more to me than anything
Peace of mind indeed
Amen to that! ✌️ Of mind rules!
The biggest mistake I made in life was trying to be "normal". I got over that.
@@RickBlaine the question there is . What's normal ? 😉 ?
@@RobertOtoole-jo5bg Not having any kid of social media is normal. We survived for thousands of years without it. And no, i dont mean RUclips, the majority of RUclips users use it as a TV, the rest use RUclips as a job.
I mean FB, Insta, Tiktok etc. If you are like me and have none of that, you become grounded in actual reality. If you have it, the delete it, of course you have no obligation to do that, but you will see what i mean in a years time, hell even after a month. And you will see how braindead people are every single place you go to.
Want your hair cut? take a look around you, people glued to their phones.
Go the beach? look over that way, see how people are taking selfies just to upload for attention? pathetic.
What do you see when you go literally anywhere?
Notice during conversations how someone can come out with the most weirdest take they have heard from some random on tiktok? because they automatically believe whatever that random said?
You get the idea.
If you ever wander what it would be like without it all, then do it. You will never look back. But this is me assuming you use any of them.
Anyway, this is my random comment for the day. Peace.
I always wondered that as well. Most of my life people have told me to be normal but noone ever explained that that is 😅
@RickBlaine How please explain in brief
@@kkyk_21 Wife, kids, mortgage 9 to 5. Then she explained that I wasn't Peter Pan any longer! So I'm a born again bachelor, wander Asia when I get the chance and do exactly what I want, when I want. Now so many are doing the same thing,😆😅🤣 I might become NORMAL!🤮
Good people are always lonely
No, people who are good and mature always have good connections. Being alone is different from dealing things alone.
@@kiranthota5137 You don't understand the original post at all...
@@Bergmann.Alaska exactly that's what I'm trying to say, you don't know the difference between being alone and preferring to be alone.
We are not lonely, we just choose to be alone.
There's a big difference ,being alone is not being "lonely"✌️
appear weak when you are strong appear strong when you are weak
-sun tzu the art of war
Code of living life❤
Better to live alone to be left alone
Most people are a complete waste of time.
@@JackKincaid.. try again
Exactly
Yup..
Hear that!
So true on the surface. If we look deeper people we disagree with often give us a better look at what we don't want. Great examples💯
I've been told by therapist and phsycologists while going through rehab I need to connect with people and that there's no way I'm not lonely not true just me and my cat the more people you have in your lives the more b.s. and suffering you endure
Therapy creates most if not all mental problems you never knew was there. Stay away from them.
Therapist and psychologists....what would they know? They're the first ones who need therapy.
@@dorariparia9262 I didn't used to enjoy being alone as a child bur around 13 I primarily just was by myself or animals cool thing about animals they don't come around you with all there problems and try to involve you nowadays I can't stand therapists physiologist or counseling they seem to try and understand other people like it's just a biography for them to analyze
Leaned into my space and asked. I was disgusted, frankly. It has been the fight of most of my life to achieve the freedom I now enjoy, it is what I worked for, to get free of the emotionally needy vampires who can only sustain themselves by draining others. Then they presume everyone is like them and start making demands to access you so they can suck the life out of you. It's all about that access they need. They are unwholesome in the most literal sense, not whole. Something missing.
It actually feels bad because in my life case, i hope people could be little bit more like me, so u could connect to. The more people here, the more i felt lost, and when i choose to be alone, i get that feeling that people see me as weird, and for people pleaser like me, i just confuse. Still though, i choose my own company. Huhf, i hope life would be little bit easier actually.
Alone but not lonely. Because i have my best friends; my thought, my mind, and my heart, in truthfully i am.
and my dog.
@@thumper2k174 you beat me to it lol
YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
A man who has spent time alone cannot be coerced or strongarmed by threats of abandonment or being left alone without family or friends. It ceases to hold power over them.
Being alone has not only helped me find peace but also gave me time to rekindle past hobbies and even find new ones. I've been reading more, traveling more, going on walks, learned some new culinary skills, and even indulge in some videogames that I once enjoyed as a kid. Moments like that which truly center me.
I prefer to be alone as much as possible. A few weeks ago i went camping and it was just me alone in the woods with not another person within 100km. It was bliss.
I go out for walks at night. There’s a cemetery in my route and it’s a dark, beautiful silence. Sometimes i pause at the gate and just look inside. Good afternoon to you, fellow lone wolf.
It saved my life. I do it year around. Bad weather, will bring you more solitude...
I love camping by myself. Just me, my dog, and any animals that walk by.
@@conjured_up_skeletons6178 walks at night are the best I'm a nite owl 🦉 .I plan on living the solitary life been in relationship for 4 years too long .imma do some bushcrafting
Stop lying to yourselves. Being alone is a curse. 😂😂😂😂
That’s where I am now thanks to everything that’s been thrown at me , Strong ,Resilient.Powerful.
Sometimes Lonely.Aged 87
Right on John.🙏
So much has changed since the 1930s….the concept of personal dignity seems to have been wholly abandoned….we who are alone feel a loneliness for the change that is coming….it’s already in the wind….🙏🏾
@@ktharamseye2197 that's pretty heavy.👍
Sometimes solitude is the very thing a man needs in this crazy trying times, just to get away from all this bullshit.
It sounds like me! Don't talk to anyone because everyone talks rubbish & don't have time for it, I prefer my own company because I don't like fake people.
Amen brother.
I agree, people say all the nonsense that comes to their minds and I don't care.
Spending time alone allows us to build resilience and discover our true worth. It's not about being lonely, it's about being self-sufficient. 💯
Thank you for recommending Sarah Jennine Davis on one of your videos. I reached out to her and investing with her has been amazing.
@Henry-z3z How do I access her ? I really need this
Thanks for sharing!!
I must admit that after watching movies about Sarah Jennine Davis on RUclips, her transactions are very incredible. I guess I'll give her a shot.
Hit 200k today. I'm really grateful for all the knowledge and nuggets you had thrown my way over the last months. Started crypto trading with 14k in March 2024
Most people think, investing in crypto is all about buying coins and leaving it to rise, come on it takes much analysis to be a successful crypto trader.
Always prefer solitude over empty conversations
Amen ✌️
Me2
Facts
Stop lying to yourselves. Being alone is a curse. 😂😂😂😂 Lonely people die early
@@GeeGee19
You obviously didn't listen! There's a massive difference between being alone and being lonely!👌
I’m in that level of life already. I enjoy my own company and content with myself. I’m open to meeting other people but will not kiss anyone’s behind. If I vibe with you then I vibe but I will never force friendships with anyone.
My identity since age 12 years old.
Hey I'm the guy at the top and I'm here to tell you I've had that identity since about 10 I'm going to be hitting 70 so you can live with it it's great once you learn it out figure it out just be very comfortable with yourself I always
Im 60 now..alone.love it..on a farm in Africa and love my company...animals.thats enough for me..what a life.
There are zero problems or bullshit when alone.
In my case yea, by myself but not alone.
I'm never alone God is always with me
facts amen
Amen 🙏
💯
Man is the master of his own fate
Not god.
Ragnar Lothbrok
Amen
The amount of people who are worth spending time with seems to get smaller every single day.....the world is sick, i keep my distance simply to not catch what they all seem to have.
I am 57. Never had I have any true friend. I one day realised I didn't need any. Living alone with my own shadow, with my own ideal, my own goal and my own future plan is way better than incurring trouble through relatives and friends who are always needy and bothersome.
I believe you man some friends ain't good friends.
I am 52 and i been like this for a long time.
Can't imagine living any other way
Yup been this way my entire life and I'm way better for that
I couldn't said that one better myself....lone wolf....and loving it!!!
Lone wolf still searching for a she wolf.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
Really Sorry to hear your problems , we all have been through a lot , i have ever been in that condition as well , it took me years as well to heal , although it is healed , there is scar as well (but this scar today does not hurt anymore) , it is just like wounds , if your wound are not healed yet & you keep on scratching it , then it won't get healed.
once it is healed , no matter how you scratch it , it just don't really matters anymore.
Actually all we need is just a friend to talk to everytime this feelings arise , everytime things got worse, everytime all this mess up life got into our mind .
all i can suggest for you is that (because i don't know where to share my feelings by that time) you just need to move your ass , get out & talk to someone no matter who that person is , for me , i always talk to someone who looks troubled as well , whose sitting alone , whose daydreaming alone , look , we all don't know what each of us have been through , how much hurt that we endure , how much tears that we have gone through.
if you have family , friends , you can just ask them or plan a daily routine things to be done . in simple , it is actually things to be done & pursued goals just to get this things out of yourmind . we try to trick our mind , like : having gym at night (where usually night time , we used to chat to that person) , going for charity job (Sunday) , you will realize how much person is suffering more than us.
When you Truly Love someone , you finally get one of two results :
" A Person for Life or A Lesson For Life"
I spend alot of time alone. I'm comfortable in my own company. Praise GOD for peace
Other people thrive on drama and misery…!!
Many are unhappy and don’t want you to be happy…!!
DONT BE MISERABLE LIKE THEM… LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF…!!!
I DO…!!!
❤
I don't know anybody that shares the same interests and most people are shallow and selfish
IVE BEEN INTOVERTED FOR 9 YRS... NOT BECAUSE IM DANGEROUS I JUST DISLIKE HUMAN CONTACT... UNLESS ITS WORK RELATED I HAVE NO USE OR WANT FOR HUMAN CONTACT... THATS JUST MY WAY...✌
Not unreasonable.
I am constantly misunderstood because I only speak when I need to. I cherish being alone with my thoughts. If that makes me seem a bit strange that’s ok.
You have just described me.😊
Such men are rare gems
Absolutely love being alone, not lonely,
Just peacefull. No drama and I live and spend my money as I wish!! No price on that ...
A man used to being alone knows when he's being crept up on
😢so accurate
the advent of solitude confronts you with truth.😊
The last part of the video is the best, I believe it's true that if your alone a long time and very quiet that you can be dangerous. These days I believe barriers are put up socially by others so you end up alone as a result. It's good to learn how to enjoy being alone but it's also good to enjoy spending time with others. It can take a while to connect with those who are worth your time but it will happen oneday.
Well, this was posted 11 days ago but just popped up to view as recommended today. I think the damn algorithm knows me. 😎. Anyways, I live by myself in the mountains of Montana at about 6,000ft elevation. I’m in my mid 70’s, spent my youth in the Marines. Been to war several times, survived when many others beside me did not. At last count, I figure that I should have died at least 17 times. Fast horse, fast women, and fast motorcycles are what keep me active. I like being by myself. I’m never lonely. I don’t even have a TV, but I do have an extensive library full of fantastic books. I fall, buck and split 8 cords of wood for the winter. I do have electricity, and StarKink, but nothing else from the outside. When I get a hankering, I go down the mountain to a town, have a meal, pick up my mail at the PO Box, grab a few necessities like coffee, flour, fuel, sugar, brandy, beer, Monster, etc. I don’t need drama and I’m perfectly fine by myself. My kids, grandkids, and great grandkids come up to visit every once in a while which is about enough socializing for me. About 1 million population in the whole state, and less than a dozen within a 50 mile radius. There is so much beauty around me that it keeps me constantly thankful and amazed.
@@sil8446 …….yup. One way or another you’ll know my reply. 😅
It watches you through your phone and other cameras
maybe you actually have died at least 17 times and haven't fully realized or accepted your immortality
This man is talking my language finally someone who gets me thank you for this message greatly appreciated😊
Most people want something from you. Being alone is nice. You got me myself and i and no users. A couple of loyal friends is all you need.😊
Social gatherings are draining. Alone time is recharge time. The more I know about people, the more I love my dog.
I hear people talking about how solitude is like a dreadful ordeal to them, and I just can't comprehend how this can be, I spend most of my time on my own, and truly I enjoy it very much, I don't mind the right company, but most people I've come across leave me loving my lonely life even more .
This is me,i love myself and the peace i ve built......❤
I am 21 years old, from childhood I am always alone and single. Most of the time I spend time alone with myself. I have the habit of talking with myself. I am addicted to so many bad habits and I have done very terrible sins from childhood. I always get negative and criminal thoughts in my mind but I always control those dangerous thoughts which I get in my mind. But I love being single and alone, I vowed to stay single and to celibate my whole life❤
This man has an IDENTITY, he knows who and what he is. He needs to validation of affirmation from anyone, he knows who he is an is very comfortable with it. This man years ago was lucky enough to have a father who taught his son who he was and what his worth is, or maybe an uncle. God is the Only other person who can enter a man’s soul to repair the wound he suffered, a renew his heart a give him an identity. To God be the glory. Amen❤️
You have more power when you move alone. It's hard for other people to keep track of you
I am in isolation for 4 years my lonely ness is not my weakness it's my strength because you must heard that " if you are alone but still remember you also do at the end alone 👑🔥🔥🔥
I could relate to this video because I am like this ....Man who stands alone is strong
Bless Up
As an only child with no brothers and sisters growing up I learnt to enjoy my own company & be happy on my own. People still don’t understand how I can go off for weeks on a journey by myself but to me it’s easy….. Lone Wolf for a reason 👍
Alone - without technology, distraction and people.
Is definitely a lifechanging experience when someone is brave enough doing it for several years. 😉
btw, it's a contradiction in terms when you say without technology. So, how did you get here to make a comment?!? 😊
Enjoy life, be simple.
@@mzeewakazi🤣🤣🤣 you beat me to it
@mzeewakazi Why does it always have to be one extreme or the other?
Just because someone prefers to be away from technology doesn't mean they have to reject it entirely and never use it.
Besides, there's no law that says you have to live your life in a totally consistent way that makes sense to others. It's every man's right to be a walking contradiction.
@@bluesrocker91 I agree completely with you. Proper technical solutions can serve longer than a lifetime to make living/working better/healthier/easier but most people when they hear technology they think on modern useless crap without quality - things just for trash, dumpsites or the recycling economy but no real physical quality.
Wow…and here I am always thinking that I’m weird for enjoying being alone. This puts a new perspective on things😊
Every word from this video is true about me .😢
Me too
Thank You !!!! Quote, Colin Fletcher, ( The Man Who Walked Through Time and The Complete Backpacker) "I am never less alone that when I am by myself"
Someone truly understands me
the man who always is silent he’s fighting in his own cold war.❤
It's me, I am silently fighting in the war, by holding the faith over God.
Definitely, powered, mighty and self Discipline. Courageous and very Strong Minded.
I ve been alone for decades. How am I dangerous when I don't interact with society?
society is full of shit!
The Solitary Peaceful Ones are a silent refutation of the consensus that “society” holds to as gospel…
Those who follow the Pied Piper are deathly afraid of being shown the foolishness of their ways, and so choose mercy for Barabbas
It's just an impression, it's saying such a man is high value
I'm 51, and have always been a loner, I wouldn't have it, any other way, it'll sure take some unnecessary drama out your life, I LOVE IT
I’m alone right now, and it’s a great place to be.
Truth real Truth
This video just explained me to a tee., I didnt know how much i needed to hear this. Whoever put this together, I thank you.
To avoid unnecessary drama
This is me, I am alone, no connection with friend. I do thing myself. I live myself like a king. I have everything. It give me peace.
Dammmmm it's crazy I'm still going I'm still alone and it's crazy but silence use to scare me but now it's my only friend.
Beautifully said, that's me in a nutshell. The only people I truely like being around are the ones who bring me peace.
Energy is precious, and we are allotted only so much for every 24hrs. I have spent more than enough time wasting it on frivolous pursuits with trifling, some-timey people, and I’m done doing that.
Well said!
Being alone makes you happy and calm...and have space to grow...
Been on my own 20 years now and love it.
Usually every time something bad happens, another person is involved.
The more friends you have, the more trouble you have.... That's why I prefer to lock up myself. My two cats go more out than I am.. And I prefer it so.......
Yeah, I'm very happy this way.... Look I'm smiling... 😅.. ........
Hah, that's nice.
That's me out 😂😂
Right…. I speak when spoken to like I was raised to do unless I know you…. even then I do NOT go out My way to fan ya down to be in your face. I tend simply to ME because I choose to and I exhibit it by being face forward….and that shouldn’t bother anyone when they should be doing the same. Period, it’s just who I AM and I AM not for anyone to take personal either. 👑♾️👑🔐🔥🔥🔥🔥🥰🥰
Who's alone looking at this??
Been living alone for 7 years, away from family, church, colleagues, friends except for special occassions where I realy am invited. I felt abandoned and abused before but now consider this isolation as opportunity to learn, reflect, and grow. Thanks.
I’ve been there for a long time. So peaceful!
Finally someone aware of what to be afraid of. Good luck.
Never complain ... Never explain ... // My life = My rules. 🙏☯🔆♾
Love the Disraeli quote.
This is me. Live alone. eat alone. And enjoy my time alone. I choose this life style as it fits me the best. I am old school an cannot stand the cowardice ways people have become. I don't trust many at all. I have 2 people in my life i can trust fully. But that number should be way higher. Bringing people into your life just creates problems as most will stab you in the back 1st chance they get. Strong yes very 💪 mo women needed here 😄
Trust in JESUS. John 15:14-16. GOD BLESS YOU
The only hard part is when people think I’m depressed or that something must be wrong with me because I’m a loner.
this is the why i am serching for this quote,it match me alot typing this comments alone 😊😊
The lone wolf needs no pack
He hunts and lives alone
Then howls at the moon when he conquers the wild,a testament of his strength
Wolves are pack animals there's no such thing as a lone wolf they love the company of the pack
Such a blanket statement. Everyone is differently. I am alone a lot and harmless as a dove.
Some ppl take it for granted. Some take it as a gift from the universe. And some are just to damn selfish to acknowledge it
John 15:14-16. The only gifts that are given in this life are from our HEAVEN FATHER. GOD BLESS YOU
Being an only child and grandchild, AND having strict ass parents has brought me to a VERY Lonely place. You can basically say I was trained for it since effing birth. About to turn 50 and not a damn thing has changed. Seeing the way people act towards eachother makes me realize im one lucky bastard to be so "Alone"..
😮amazing content 😊
People who respect my space and stay out the way when I'm concentrating make me feel grateful.
A man loves to live alone because he has witnessed dangerous people in life.
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Isolation is selfish but being busy is not synonymous with productivity
I have been in a 2yrs high conflict divorce because my ex created it, she also turned my sons (current ages: 18yrs old and 14yrs old) against me. I chose to be alone because people are problems, the abuse she put me through was rough and on Aug 16 the family law judge did nothing about it. David Giggins decide to be alone and so do I........
🥇video!