Yes the only ego you have to deal with is your own. I like socializing but I also like my alone time. Life is about finding a balance. Too much solitude is not good just like too much socializing isn't.
depends on the work though , i did hard labor with people i didn't know , after a few weeks you get to know how the other one works and you both get to a point of cohesion that just makes the work flow so much faster ... we did all our work in 6 hours back then , so we had 2 hours to spend for ourselves , Really , we used to bring a laptop to watch a movie , some drinks , something to eat , because we worked well together , that is fun to have happen to you too , it's even better then working alone we didn't Need to talk , when we worked , but we did if someone had something to say , but we mostly saved that for the pauses i'm working alone now , mostly , where i can choose my own speed , i do the work of 2+ people ... at a feaster rate then when we're actually With 2 people ... , but with some other ones , we can do more then just me alone , it depends on the work and the people surrounding me , basically
When I was a kid, I was extremely extroverted. I would go from house to house, looking for new friends to bring into the group. Today I prefer to be alone. People claim I’m introverted. I don’t think I am. I think I wandered this planet looking for signs of intelligent life, and having found very little, I returned to my spacecraft to await my next mission.
@@mrwojna I too am a space cloud reincarnated as a human being, having been observing this planet, there is so much potential in spreading its lifeness across the galaxy. Some days its a dream to be realized, other days a nightmare to avoid, but ultimately everything will eventually wake up one day.
Wow so edgy, you must have a very high IQ... Get ya head out your ass man, you're not special and there is no mission for you. You're withdrawing yourself because it makes you feel better and superior to others. You don't want there to be anyone out there for you or on 'your level' because that would mean you're not that far from average. And being average is what you are afraid of, because then you don't have a special quality that would justify the inner voice that tells you you're superior. Because you need to tell yourself you're superior because actually, deep down, subconsciously, you feel like you're not good enough and not worthy. You might think it's not true but eventually you will find out it is. I was in the same position as you. Read your comment again and try to feel how edgy and insufferable it sounds.
I love being alone, I don’t waste my energy with drama and fake people, specially those people who has fake smiles or they act that they care about you.
My parents kept telling me i will never have any friends, that i will never have noneone. Placed me through homeschooling very early. Now, i thank them. Im happy only by myself
I've given up on intimate relationships, I'm in a relationship with myself, it's the best relationship I've ever had. I learnt, being in an intimate relationship, we don't deal with our fears and insecurities, our partners do and vice versa. My relationship with myself, I get to deal with all my flaws, insecurities and all. My personal growth, flourishes in solitude.
'Be alone-that is the secret of invention: be alone, that is when ideas are born" + “The mind is sharper and keener in seclusion and uninterrupted solitude' Nikola tesla...
@@DC78539 When you make a Stand Alone Comment it's up at the TOP of All comments until it posts in the system and gets ordered. I'm 60 and know this. Just like with your Mouth for speaking, THINK before you TYPE with your Fingers. Or in other words, ENGAGE BRAIN before Shifting Mouth or Fingers into Gear. Life will go better for you.
"Someone told me the other day that he felt bad for single people because they are lonely all the time. I told him that’s not true I’m single and I don’t feel lonely. I take myself out to eat, I buy myself clothes. I have great times by myself. Once you know how to take care of yourself company becomes an option and not a necessity." - Keanu Reeves
I'm always saying " Just because I'm alone doesn't mean I'm lonely." I have chosen to be this way. There are a lot of reasons and yeah sometimes I miss being social and physical intimacy, who wouldn't? When that happens, I come out of my cave let my eyes adjust to sunlight and do something I like to do with friends, family, and the general public. I'm more relaxed in general and I don't feel like I have to things to make others happy or constantly seeking outside validation. Just because I'm quiet and trying not to be noticed, doesn't mean I'm sad. I can be social I have manners. I just choose not to engage. I am happy just observing what's going on. I just find others exhausting and I like my peace and personal space. I lived my life making others happy, now it's my turn. Admittedly it is a little selfish.
That's 💯 correct !! Quiet people, male or female, are the ones you don't mess with. I see it far too often where people pick on the ones who sit quietly, minding their own business. Mess around and get a rude awakening
I walk this World as the Lone Wolf I've always been and will be in this Life. I survive and thrive being alone away from people and society, two things I can Live without.
I am a somewhat introvert individual and i prefer to be alone. For me being alone is a kind of meditation and an opportunity to focus on my self and the tasks i need to do.
I am employed in a busy workplace, so I’m not entirely alone, and while I’m always polite with them, I wouldn’t describe any of them as my friends. They all have busy social lives in which a lot of unnecessary drama, trouble and backstabbing seems to go on. They’ve often asked me out. I politely decline. Not interested. I love my quiet time, late at night. My idea of the perfect evening is to read classic literature, watch an old film, or else listen to The Doors, while sipping a hot cup of tea and looking out at the stars. I’m sure my work colleagues would hate that type of life, but I don’t think I’d want all their shallow melodrama. To whoever might be reading, be happy in your own company and with who you are. I wish you peace ☮️ 😊
You say that your colleagues' behaviour has shallow melodrama. But do you recognise anything more threatening and serious? Do your persecutors not seek you out? What do you do to earn a living?
👍 sounds a lot like me, I have lived in a woods for three years and very peaceful and relaxing, me, my cats and I have four deer that comes up most nights and eat the bird seed. I'm alone for three years and back when I was married I felt I was alone being with her.
As a kid I was an introvert and didn't look for friends, but as I grew I started socializing and paid a very heavy price but learnt valuable life lessons. Today, I'm a strict introvert and socialize only to keep my wife happy.
Spent most of life alone. It's been a rough ride but worth every minute of it. We can see ourselves for who we truly are. We're not afraid to look in the mirror and see what's staring back. It's all about reflection. Once a person knows who they are they have a place to work from and improve. You're absolutely right.
Like many introverts I enjoy spending time alone to read, study, reflect, and sometimes write a poem or short essay. I find when I ask myself questions about why I feel a certain way, or like a certain thing or don't like a certain thing and I answer those questions in a thorough manner, I learn more about myself as well as about the things in relation to myself. It is a enriching practice that everyone would benefit from. I also think it is helpful to find people who are somewhat like-minded with whom you can discuss these matters with. Hope that makes sense. Peace.
"Though the mountains fall away and the hills be shaken, My love shall never fall away from you, nor my covenant of peace be shaken, says the LORD, who has mercy on you."
" Be still, and know I am God" : psalm 46, v10 - know this, my friends : He is our strength and guide in our silence and solitude, the one who we derive our strength from. " The silence of creation speaks louder than the tongues of men or angels" - Thomas Merton.
I have been alone for 5 years now. At first, I didn't like it and I certainly didn't appreciate it. But in the last year, I have come to love being alone. I am much more focused and productive than I ever was while I was married or with someone. That laser-like focus that I have developed has given me more confidence than I ever had before and has resulted in far more successes than ever before. Who knew? I certainly did not. I've found that "peace beyond all understanding," that I never experienced before. In retrospect, other people cluttered my life and created stressors for me as I had to weigh others' responses to me and shift my behavior accordingly. I have a newfound sense of freedom and purpose as I live a life alone!
I have massive respect for a man who can stand on his own two feet. Form his own opinions. Handle his problems. I respect more a man who can do all that AND show love and compassion to others. Because that kind of person has not chosen asceticism in order to gain the moral high ground.
It's a wonderful feeling, not being pressured into things you don't want or having people waste your time. I have autism and social situations have always been hard for me, they also drain my energy, so being alone and having Me time is a must. Some people are put off by me wanting to be alone most of the time and it even caused a nasty rumor at work once. Still, I would not trade it for all the tea in china.
Being alone is the only time I’m really at peace. Not entertaining or providing. Not being forced into conversation, not doing what I dont wanna do. Not having to act any certain way.
me either, like if someone wants to genuinely want to have a conversation with me I can join in on it, but I almost never start them. some people have no idea what that term means lmao
The correct term for people like us is asocial meaning we don't hate people but just don't seek company and prefer our own, anti social is something to be concerned about.
There should never be a stigma attached to a man who chooses to spend all their time on their own or choose not to have a relationship. They're not depressed, selfish or anti-social - they're content with their life and it should be accepted.
Yes but its not no-one cares until there alone i think i became to be alone as traditional values slowly dissaperred into existance i didnt really give myself a choice i just stopped understanding how everything in everday human life didnt make any sense anymore and for that im alone and i hate it
I go to concerts alone!! I love myself and therefore love my company!!! I think about how to become better as a human being!!! God is very important!! to me!!!! Prayer is intensified to me!!! God bless you loners out there!!
in today's world i dislike people , social media is a joke people talking to their phone for therapy wanting validation/ attention from stranger's they don't even know , that's why I stopped all social media , bunch of winer's cry for help instead accually getting help , I stay alone watching and listening to the world around me , I go to place I sit with my back to the wall and make sure I can see everything and watch my surrounding's , it's amazing how bad this world is getting if you just listen
When alone you spend more time learning. The more you learn the more clarity of thought, and the better your plans become. Once you find your purpose, you attack it and it consumes most of your time. No time for trivial pursuits or spending time with those who can't help you to achieve your goals. I love being alone. I hate being among loud insignificant people and their obnoxious behavior and diatribes.
Same here, but I'll always compete, it took me a long while to realise how competitive I am!! I thought because I wasn't into competitive/team sports that I wasn't competitive, turns I just don't like being on a team that might contribute to me loosing! 😂😂😂
A weak man with no status no influence can also say: I am alone I am lonely I will not compete I don't trust I don't need to prove myself Thinking he is strong, when he is actually invisible, dispensable, and weak in the eyes of others.
I thrive on being alone, I don't like people around me so I avoid people and spend my life constantly alone .I have experienced being alone in a crowd.
I like having time alone because it allows me to be introspective. I am much healthier and happier when I get this time. I need this time to reflect upon myself and my interactions with the world.
I'm gonna be 29 in a month and I'm an outsider. Always have been, from my family to my (former) schoolmates to work to the gym. No friends, no girlfriend. At this point, I come to the realization that I was never enough to anybody, I never fit in anywhere and people are not what I thought they'd be. Sometimes, it always feels like no one has ever been real with me. All this time I really tried to live up to the standards of people who never had any. I try to do everything to make them happy, only to see what a waste that was. Now I see why I find comfort in solitude: people are just a waste of time. Also, I'm a quiet, ambiverted guy.
I spend pretty much all of my time alone and always feel drained in social situations and I find especially these days it doesn't help me I'd rather use my time to keep working developing myself in all aspects of my life whether fitness, improving the content I create, writing stories making a webcomic my what if channel. To me doing those things and knowing I did it by myself makes me feel so proud that I'm developing myself at peace and enjoying myself every second I'm alone the only time I ever get stressed is because of someone else toxicity and problem
I love being alone. I've done many things alone as I don't like being with people who complain. However I still struggle with things to do with people.
In many ways right, I work with all women and to me it’s the same conversation day after day, no deep thought…..don’t think they understand men at all…….
Yes I do spent time alone ever since my wife passed it's a privilege thing without emotional stress some times I do miss companionship but I have to move on with my life, I'm getting use to being alone and I'm thankful for all the strength I have been given in my life
Being alone = equivalent of larger house/apartment, larger couch and all that bed space is perfect, the bathroom is always free when you need it. I eat healthier food, and no longer sit on couch watching crap on TV and eating takeaway etc with your partner. More money to spend, more time to keep myself fit and looking sharp. I've had a few recent offers from attractive ladies, but have to let them down, because I'm done wasting so much time trying to make other people happy. Being alone is too much fun to give up for me now. I have good friends I see at work, and that's a nice balance.
I’m sure you’re not dangerous, and I enjoy knowing that there are many others who have discovered the great joy in solitude. My only misgiving comes from a feeling that it is difficult to play one’s part in the world if one has no contact with other people. I have been lucky in that life steered me into teaching (against my instincts), and that turned out to be a far more fulfilling occupation than I ever dreamt it could be. Now that I’m retired, I am back to being “alone and dangerous”, and I feel that I’ve come home again...
@@wardropper Yes, I am dangerous. The cabal hates anyone who is watching them, and they try very hard to discredit people who are sounding the warning. I also worked as a Kindergarten off-sider assisting the teachers and doing gardening and maintenance. It was the best two years of my working life. Every kindy needs a man about. There are many fatherless kids who are dying a slow death because of having no dads. I had so many little friends and it was so rewarding, but doing good makes many enemies. I have had all of my kids stolen so I am at war with all of the treachery happening around me. Very, very dangerous for me, so I too have had to become dangerous for survival. Solitude has been beneficial for me in every respect.
When your alone you can be your true self without fear or judgment from anyone else. And yes you do get stronger, people often count out lone wolves, but we're alot stronger, for others are only stronger with others, but lone wolves are way stronger because we don't need others for support. For we learned to do things on our own without the need of others to tell us that we did a good job or anything. And I also remember in the Bible that God speaks to the ones that are alone, lone wolves the most, why because they possessed talents and gifts that those of the crowds do not have. So I say God Bless the Lone Wolves of the World, for our dreams, strengths, and talents will take us far beyond what others would even dare to imagine. Peace to my fellow Lone Wolf Brothers and Sisters, and God Bless You.
Get yourself first. Get what compels you, get your mission in life, get your confidence, and start getting milestones met. Become who you want to be first, and everything else will gravitate to you.
42yrs of conditioning, can't tell me anything new, but you did put it to words, THANKS MAN👍. I feel as if I need not explain myself especially to strangers.
Very very true I'm one of the Men who enjoys being alone I call this my leaning and preparing class for my life very enjoyable when alone unerlyzing life
While my children are Facebooking or posting others' thoughts, I'm studying market trends, political regulation changes, tax law changes, and how to use them to my advantage. Finding out who supplies successful companies. Keeping up with new innovations. Being alone is the gateway to self-improvement.
I love and need my time alone. My gf does not understand. She's thinks it's just me wanting to be away from her. I told her 1000 times, it's just me thinking in silence. Usually trying to figure out how to create something or solve a problem She's always talking, non stop about trivial life events. I need something deeper.
The creator is present and that is what we truly are seeking through solitude and reflecting and refining our lives so that when the veil is lifted we will be prepared and ready to accept reality as it is, notcas it is being sold to us and experienced.
I spend most of my time alone. Or, as Einstein said, "I live in that solitude which is painful in youth but delicious in the years of maturity." I recommend the book 'Solitude: A Return to the Self' by Anthony Storr.
Things like friends mean nothing the only thing you can rely on in this world is yourself only the strong survive it's true ive learned not too rely on others for your own worth and never too trust anyone not even family and always remember that betrayal never comes from your enemies only the ones closest too you never let them know your mistakes your failures your goals or anything personal l used too think that having and trusting a friend would help me not be lonely but it only made me Lonelier, weaker, and it only distracted me from really chasing my goals and dreams but every years a new year so this year ima keep my back against the wall and ima keep grinding and living life it's lonely at the top but it's better than too share it with someone that's fake
Described me to a tee. Love my time alone even though married for many years and still am. I dwell in knowing about everything and anything physical or mental. Before retiring, women at work always sought my advise on a personal matters and this made my coworker male friends rather jealous. I never took advantage of anyone. Now retired, love being home and I spend my time surfing the world for my own knowledge.
Once you realise that over 90% of people are morons and have nothing to offer but drama and BS, being alone is heaven. I was once an extrovert but as I got older I avoid human contact as much as I can. Work (Engineer of nearly 32 years) is a different story, but I work amongst some incredibly intelligent men.
I am amazed at how many people love being alone. I've been in relationships all my life and im older now and have been by myself for 2 months. Maybe I will be good with it and maybe I wont. The one person I could trust 100% passed away. I don't know if I will ever find another like her.
Walk on the beach or hike in the woods. I find the feel of the natural world around me helps me process and soothes my mind on topic i find aggravating.
Thank you, lately I encountered many videos on such topic randomly in you tube, makes me feel like universe is talking about me. I love, enjoy quiet moment,pin drop silence, it really rejuvenates me,so peaceful that I felt blissful,remain healthy body & mind, quiet time makes me highly creative, productive, mindful .In my quiet moment I hear the melodies of this universe.Its true that to know about oneself is enlightment.Only the individual can rise to the heights of consciousness, the more I belong to the group, the more I fall into darkness.
I have been alone for years , I confront others who only engage in rhetoric. I do my art . I am able to grow my interests. I also discern and edit others quickly and accurately. People ask others This question (what do you think?) when it ends in ..of me … how the hell do expect someone to know more about you than you know of your self? This is the pit of stupidity. Once you ask others to answer the questions only you can answer , the chains are placed on you by their answers. If you are not honest with self you will never discover you. No matter how you like it … you will be you doing the things you do and thinking the things you do. In the valley of the blind the one eyed man is king. Learn from your actions and reactions how and why you acted so. The truth will set you free. It not complicated!
I did feel alone on a Iron Maiden concert, so I went home after 2 songs and enjoyed my own company instead. To be social without meaning is pointless, a wast of time. What do I do when I am alone, nothing but its time well invested. To just be alone is priceless.
The more I get to know people, the more I come to the realization that being alone is not so bad after all.
Amen been like this all myself
Preferable...
Very true
too true
Yes the only ego you have to deal with is your own. I like socializing but I also like my alone time. Life is about finding a balance. Too much solitude is not good just like too much socializing isn't.
I feel alone when I’m surrounded by people and not when I am on my own.
Positive -vs- negative magnetism on a metaphysical level
Same
Wow. I must be even more dangerous.
I feel lonely in a crowd, AND by myself.
@@telefellavision in crowds can be very overwhelming or even gatherings
@@chiclids absolutely 💯
Being alone can be wonderful!! No drama, no meaningless conversations, just silence and reflection. Working alone is even better.
"AGREED"!!!!
Yup I'm actually happy and get things done when alone
Me too!!!
Ou yes
depends on the work though , i did hard labor with people i didn't know ,
after a few weeks you get to know how the other one works and you both get to a point of cohesion that just makes the work flow so much faster ...
we did all our work in 6 hours back then , so we had 2 hours to spend for ourselves , Really ,
we used to bring a laptop to watch a movie , some drinks , something to eat , because we worked well together ,
that is fun to have happen to you too , it's even better then working alone
we didn't Need to talk , when we worked , but we did if someone had something to say , but we mostly saved that for the pauses
i'm working alone now , mostly , where i can choose my own speed , i do the work of 2+ people ... at a feaster rate then when we're actually With 2 people ... ,
but with some other ones , we can do more then just me alone ,
it depends on the work and the people surrounding me , basically
I love being alone, it is the best feeling there is, i am a outsider, i am 60 now, always been like this.
Dido. I too am 60 and an outsider. I tried being part of a group of friends for a few years when I was in my 40's. Lesson learned, never again.
I always felt like I was part of someone else's group. Never liked that , went on my own and never regretted it.
So have I. ❤
@@rensjanssen3042 ♥️
I'm 61 and right there with you brother.
I was forced into solitude.. It's one of the best things that's ever happened to me
When I was a kid, I was extremely extroverted. I would go from house to house, looking for new friends to bring into the group. Today I prefer to be alone. People claim I’m introverted. I don’t think I am. I think I wandered this planet looking for signs of intelligent life, and having found very little, I returned to my spacecraft to await my next mission.
True words
😂 got a laugh outta that. No intelligent life. 😂😂
@ “very little” 😂 Not tryna diss all of humanity. Lots of good folks out here.
@@mrwojna I too am a space cloud reincarnated as a human being, having been observing this planet, there is so much potential in spreading its lifeness across the galaxy. Some days its a dream to be realized, other days a nightmare to avoid, but ultimately everything will eventually wake up one day.
Wow so edgy, you must have a very high IQ... Get ya head out your ass man, you're not special and there is no mission for you. You're withdrawing yourself because it makes you feel better and superior to others. You don't want there to be anyone out there for you or on 'your level' because that would mean you're not that far from average. And being average is what you are afraid of, because then you don't have a special quality that would justify the inner voice that tells you you're superior. Because you need to tell yourself you're superior because actually, deep down, subconsciously, you feel like you're not good enough and not worthy.
You might think it's not true but eventually you will find out it is. I was in the same position as you. Read your comment again and try to feel how edgy and insufferable it sounds.
My solitude is my power,I like that,thanks...
A woman once told me to be alone is to be the captain of your own ship. Nobody can steal your joy but yourself.
I love being alone, I don’t waste my energy with drama and fake people, specially those people who has fake smiles or they act that they care about you.
Don't get me started on them Muppets 😅
@ 🤭
What are you in high school?
I love to read... watch a movie alone... go for a hike... a bike ride.. swimming... i love my music alone...
Same
Likewise, and I don’t like telling others I did this and I did that
My parents kept telling me i will never have any friends, that i will never have noneone. Placed me through homeschooling very early. Now, i thank them. Im happy only by myself
Let's face it, people suck.
Yup!
👍 😂😂
As a graveyard shift warehouse worker at 38, I go to my car every break 😂😂
@@westernsellers9148also don’t like eating around a bunch of people either
Hell yeah 😅
Alone is my favorite time of day. But I am never lonely. I am a man on a mission, No time for distractions. Thank you for this video.
My life is this
I am a man of solitude
What are your pronouns butter cup?
and a man with strategic countless goals in life..
I've given up on intimate relationships, I'm in a relationship with myself, it's the best relationship I've ever had. I learnt, being in an intimate relationship, we don't deal with our fears and insecurities, our partners do and vice versa. My relationship with myself, I get to deal with all my flaws, insecurities and all. My personal growth, flourishes in solitude.
So much cope bro 😹
@@MrHDProdyou mad? Is your intimate relationship making you realize you get nowhere day after day?
@@MrHDProdWhat exactly is your issue?
'Be alone-that is the secret of invention: be alone, that is when ideas are born" + “The mind is sharper and keener in seclusion and uninterrupted solitude' Nikola tesla...
It's a fact that Tesla never had sex with a woman...
Always alone. No distraction, all the time for myself. Loving it and i dont want to change it.
I agree, likewise
60 years and the last 30 have been solo. . . . I'm fascinated by the comments below.
What about the comments above?
@@DC78539 When you make a Stand Alone Comment it's up at the TOP of All comments until it posts in the system and gets ordered. I'm 60 and know this. Just like with your Mouth for speaking, THINK before you TYPE with your Fingers. Or in other words, ENGAGE BRAIN before Shifting Mouth or Fingers into Gear. Life will go better for you.
The motto about being alone as a man HE WHO CONQUERS HIMSELF IS THE MIGHTIEST AND THE MOST DISCIPLINED WARRIOR.
"Someone told me the other day that he felt bad for single people because they are lonely all the time. I told him that’s not true I’m single and I don’t feel lonely. I take myself out to eat, I buy myself clothes. I have great times by myself. Once you know how to take care of yourself company becomes an option and not a necessity."
- Keanu Reeves
I'm always saying " Just because I'm alone doesn't mean I'm lonely." I have chosen to be this way. There are a lot of reasons and yeah sometimes I miss being social and physical intimacy, who wouldn't? When that happens, I come out of my cave let my eyes adjust to sunlight and do something I like to do with friends, family, and the general public. I'm more relaxed in general and I don't feel like I have to things to make others happy or constantly seeking outside validation. Just because I'm quiet and trying not to be noticed, doesn't mean I'm sad. I can be social I have manners. I just choose not to engage. I am happy just observing what's going on. I just find others exhausting and I like my peace and personal space. I lived my life making others happy, now it's my turn. Admittedly it is a little selfish.
A man who enjoys his SOLITUDE has the best attitude.
Ditto for women.
We are not dangerous, we are just not controllable.
That's 💯 correct !! Quiet people, male or female, are the ones you don't mess with. I see it far too often where people pick on the ones who sit quietly, minding their own business. Mess around and get a rude awakening
I walk this World as the Lone Wolf I've always been and will be in this Life. I survive and thrive being alone away from people and society, two things I can Live without.
best TLDR ever xD
I wonder if superficiality will ever crumble.
I feel lonely when I'm with people
That sounds really painful.
You're not with the right people
What’s a right person? All are riddled with some kind of mental disorder like narcissistic yoh know the fairly positive ones
I am a somewhat introvert individual and i prefer to be alone.
For me being alone is a kind of meditation and an opportunity to focus on my self and the tasks i need to do.
I like being alone…self reflection and aware and in the moment…no matter how small…
Blooming flowers…leaves falling…
I am employed in a busy workplace, so I’m not entirely alone, and while I’m always polite with them, I wouldn’t describe any of them as my friends. They all have busy social lives in which a lot of unnecessary drama, trouble and backstabbing seems to go on. They’ve often asked me out. I politely decline. Not interested. I love my quiet time, late at night. My idea of the perfect evening is to read classic literature, watch an old film, or else listen to The Doors, while sipping a hot cup of tea and looking out at the stars. I’m sure my work colleagues would hate that type of life, but I don’t think I’d want all their shallow melodrama. To whoever might be reading, be happy in your own company and with who you are. I wish you peace ☮️ 😊
You say that your colleagues' behaviour has shallow melodrama. But do you recognise anything more threatening and serious? Do your persecutors not seek you out? What do you do to earn a living?
👍 sounds a lot like me, I have lived in a woods for three years and very peaceful and relaxing, me, my cats and I have four deer that comes up most nights and eat the bird seed. I'm alone for three years and back when I was married I felt I was alone being
with her.
@KeithC77-zzz ♥️
Yeh I'm mainly alone. I'm a delivery driver. And fucken love it.
This is me partly.❤ ive always been a lone wolf 🐺, only have a handful of friends, the rest are acquaintances we come across in our lives.
As a kid I was an introvert and didn't look for friends, but as I grew I started socializing and paid a very heavy price but learnt valuable life lessons.
Today, I'm a strict introvert and socialize only to keep my wife happy.
hahaha. wife
Spent most of life alone. It's been a rough ride but worth every minute of it. We can see ourselves for who we truly are. We're not afraid to look in the mirror and see what's staring back. It's all about reflection. Once a person knows who they are they have a place to work from and improve. You're absolutely right.
Like many introverts I enjoy spending time alone to read, study, reflect, and sometimes write a poem or short essay. I find when I ask myself questions about why I feel a certain way, or like a certain thing or don't like a certain thing and I answer those questions in a thorough manner, I learn more about myself as well as about the things in relation to myself. It is a enriching practice that everyone would benefit from. I also think it is helpful to find people who are somewhat like-minded with whom you can discuss these matters with. Hope that makes sense. Peace.
This is me in many ways. But the difference is, I believe the creator is watching.
You and me both 👍🏿
@devinrivers5808 Amen
Amen
"Though the mountains fall away and the hills be shaken, My love shall never fall away from you, nor my covenant of peace be shaken, says the LORD, who has mercy on you."
" Be still, and know I am God" : psalm 46, v10 - know this, my friends : He is our strength and guide in our silence and solitude, the one who we derive our strength from. " The silence of creation speaks louder than the tongues of men or angels" - Thomas Merton.
My Best Alone Time:
Reading
Praying
Practicing Music
Working Out
ive been a lone for 30 years plus i love it .cant see it changing.
I have been alone for 5 years now. At first, I didn't like it and I certainly didn't appreciate it. But in the last year, I have come to love being alone. I am much more focused and productive than I ever was while I was married or with someone. That laser-like focus that I have developed has given me more confidence than I ever had before and has resulted in far more successes than ever before. Who knew? I certainly did not. I've found that "peace beyond all understanding," that I never experienced before. In retrospect, other people cluttered my life and created stressors for me as I had to weigh others' responses to me and shift my behavior accordingly. I have a newfound sense of freedom and purpose as I live a life alone!
I have massive respect for a man who can stand on his own two feet. Form his own opinions. Handle his problems. I respect more a man who can do all that AND show love and compassion to others. Because that kind of person has not chosen asceticism in order to gain the moral high ground.
It's a wonderful feeling, not being pressured into things you don't want or having people waste your time. I have autism and social situations have always been hard for me, they also drain my energy, so being alone and having Me time is a must. Some people are put off by me wanting to be alone most of the time and it even caused a nasty rumor at work once. Still, I would not trade it for all the tea in china.
Being alone is the only time I’m really at peace. Not entertaining or providing. Not being forced into conversation, not doing what I dont wanna do. Not having to act any certain way.
The quietest man in the room is the most dangerous man in the room
The quiet man with a barking dog is the most dangerous.
What about the half naked dude, covered in blood walking down the street with a bloody machete Screaming "I SHALL DELIVER THE HAMSTER MORE SOULS!!!!"?
@@hobeone1192 Naw. Completely harmless.
Don’t quiet women feature in this scenario too? It seems churlish not to ask...
@@hobeone1192 what’s even more dangerous is a fully naked dude hiding quietly under your bed.
Most of my time is spent alone, but I'm not anti social
me either, like if someone wants to genuinely want to have a conversation with me I can join in on it, but I almost never start them. some people have no idea what that term means lmao
you are not alone then
The correct term for people like us is asocial meaning we don't hate people but just don't seek company and prefer our own, anti social is something to be concerned about.
i love the idea of "people" but my experiences w/people have been so bad so many times that ive given up socializing
There should never be a stigma attached to a man who chooses to spend all their time on their own or choose not to have a relationship. They're not depressed, selfish or anti-social - they're content with their life and it should be accepted.
Yes but its not no-one cares until there alone i think i became to be alone as traditional values slowly dissaperred into existance i didnt really give myself a choice i just stopped understanding how everything in everday human life didnt make any sense anymore and for that im alone and i hate it
Alone but never lonely. It's the best to be alone, you can be yourself and do whatever you want. Lonely wolf
I go to concerts alone!! I love myself and therefore love my company!!! I think about how to become better as a human being!!! God is very important!! to me!!!! Prayer is intensified to me!!! God bless you loners out there!!
But never love yourself so much you could never think yourself wrong
I’m never alone when my doggy is with me, such a good buddy. If you are lonely get a job that surrounds you with people, my little advice.
in today's world i dislike people , social media is a joke people talking to their phone for therapy wanting validation/ attention from stranger's they don't even know , that's why I stopped all social media , bunch of winer's cry for help instead accually getting help , I stay alone watching and listening to the world around me , I go to place I sit with my back to the wall and make sure I can see everything and watch my surrounding's , it's amazing how bad this world is getting if you just listen
When alone you spend more time learning. The more you learn the more clarity of thought, and the better your plans become. Once you find your purpose, you attack it and it consumes most of your time. No time for trivial pursuits or spending time with those who can't help you to achieve your goals. I love being alone. I hate being among loud insignificant people and their obnoxious behavior and diatribes.
I am alone
I am lonely
I will not compete
I don't trust
I don't need to prove myself
Same here
Same here, but I'll always compete, it took me a long while to realise how competitive I am!! I thought because I wasn't into competitive/team sports that I wasn't competitive, turns I just don't like being on a team that might contribute to me loosing! 😂😂😂
Incel
@@VK_VDM says the incel
A weak man with no status no influence can also say:
I am alone
I am lonely
I will not compete
I don't trust
I don't need to prove myself
Thinking he is strong, when he is actually invisible, dispensable, and weak in the eyes of others.
All problems stem from man's inability to stay quiet in a room - Pascal
I enjoy spending time alone becouse is not easy to make friends
I thrive on being alone, I don't like people around me so I avoid people and spend my life constantly alone .I have experienced being alone in a crowd.
I like having time alone because it allows me to be introspective. I am much healthier and happier when I get this time. I need this time to reflect upon myself and my interactions with the world.
Well done quiet ,calculated men. Solitude is brilliant.
I like being alone… up to a point. I’ve gone weeks without leaving the house, and I’m ok with that. I have hobbies and lots of DVDs.
I'm gonna be 29 in a month and I'm an outsider. Always have been, from my family to my (former) schoolmates to work to the gym. No friends, no girlfriend. At this point, I come to the realization that I was never enough to anybody, I never fit in anywhere and people are not what I thought they'd be. Sometimes, it always feels like no one has ever been real with me. All this time I really tried to live up to the standards of people who never had any. I try to do everything to make them happy, only to see what a waste that was. Now I see why I find comfort in solitude: people are just a waste of time. Also, I'm a quiet, ambiverted guy.
I spend pretty much all of my time alone and always feel drained in social situations and I find especially these days it doesn't help me I'd rather use my time to keep working developing myself in all aspects of my life whether fitness, improving the content I create, writing stories making a webcomic my what if channel. To me doing those things and knowing I did it by myself makes me feel so proud that I'm developing myself at peace and enjoying myself every second I'm alone the only time I ever get stressed is because of someone else toxicity and problem
Here I Go Again on my own. Going down the only road I've ever known. Like a drifter I was born to walk alone. ~ Whitesnake (1987)
I love being alone. I've done many things alone as I don't like being with people who complain. However I still struggle with things to do with people.
I'm one of these men . I prefer it.
It's about trust, and most people are not trustworthy, I can feel the energy and intentions from miles away. That's why I enjoy my solitude.
In many ways right, I work with all women and to me it’s the same conversation day after day, no deep thought…..don’t think they understand men at all…….
Some thought by alienating me would break me quicker,they underestimated GREATLY
Yes I do spent time alone ever since my wife passed it's a privilege thing without emotional stress some times I do miss companionship but I have to move on with my life, I'm getting use to being alone and I'm thankful for all the strength I have been given in my life
Courages and loyal but you felt alone because no-one else could ever compare to what you lost
Being alone = equivalent of larger house/apartment, larger couch and all that bed space is perfect, the bathroom is always free when you need it. I eat healthier food, and no longer sit on couch watching crap on TV and eating takeaway etc with your partner. More money to spend, more time to keep myself fit and looking sharp. I've had a few recent offers from attractive ladies, but have to let them down, because I'm done wasting so much time trying to make other people happy. Being alone is too much fun to give up for me now. I have good friends I see at work, and that's a nice balance.
I love my own presence, and I'm not dangerous
Spending time alone allows you to figure out how to achieve a task you're having trouble with or how to accomplish something in a better or easier way
Being alone doesn't necessarily mean that one is lonely. It symbolizes strength of character discipline.
15 years on my own Work and home life on my own silent you can hear your heart
There is great joy in solitude. I have not thought of myself as dangerous, but you are right.
I’m sure you’re not dangerous, and I enjoy knowing that there are many others who have discovered the great joy in solitude. My only misgiving comes from a feeling that it is difficult to play one’s part in the world if one has no contact with other people. I have been lucky in that life steered me into teaching (against my instincts), and that turned out to be a far more fulfilling occupation than I ever dreamt it could be. Now that I’m retired, I am back to being “alone and dangerous”, and I feel that I’ve come home again...
@@wardropper Yes, I am dangerous. The cabal hates anyone who is watching them, and they try very hard to discredit people who are sounding the warning.
I also worked as a Kindergarten off-sider assisting the teachers and doing gardening and maintenance. It was the best two years of my working life. Every kindy needs a man about. There are many fatherless kids who are dying a slow death because of having no dads. I had so many little friends and it was so rewarding, but doing good makes many enemies. I have had all of my kids stolen so I am at war with all of the treachery happening around me. Very, very dangerous for me, so I too have had to become dangerous for survival. Solitude has been beneficial for me in every respect.
The loudest one in the room is usually the weakest.
"It is always the quiet, voluntarily loner everyone should be scared of for whatever reason."
When your alone you can be your true self without fear or judgment from anyone else. And yes you do get stronger, people often count out lone wolves, but we're alot stronger, for others are only stronger with others, but lone wolves are way stronger because we don't need others for support. For we learned to do things on our own without the need of others to tell us that we did a good job or anything. And I also remember in the Bible that God speaks to the ones that are alone, lone wolves the most, why because they possessed talents and gifts that those of the crowds do not have. So I say God Bless the Lone Wolves of the World, for our dreams, strengths, and talents will take us far beyond what others would even dare to imagine. Peace to my fellow Lone Wolf Brothers and Sisters, and God Bless You.
Get yourself first. Get what compels you, get your mission in life, get your confidence, and start getting milestones met. Become who you want to be first, and everything else will gravitate to you.
I do not just say this. Everything you just spoke, I do mean everything. Just spoke about me. I subbed and look forward to more.
42yrs of conditioning, can't tell me anything new, but you did put it to words, THANKS MAN👍. I feel as if I need not explain myself especially to strangers.
Very very true I'm one of the Men who enjoys being alone I call this my leaning and preparing class for my life very enjoyable when alone unerlyzing life
This is excellent motivation for anyone who is feeling down and defeated
Walk in the spirit fellas and build stuff create conquer!! Christ is king!!
Amen!
While my children are Facebooking or posting others' thoughts, I'm studying market trends, political regulation changes, tax law changes, and how to use them to my advantage. Finding out who supplies successful companies. Keeping up with new innovations. Being alone is the gateway to self-improvement.
I love and need my time alone. My gf does not understand. She's thinks it's just me wanting to be away from her. I told her 1000 times, it's just me thinking in silence. Usually trying to figure out how to create something or solve a problem She's always talking, non stop about trivial life events. I need something deeper.
The creator is present and that is what we truly are seeking through solitude and reflecting and refining our lives so that when the veil is lifted we will be prepared and ready to accept reality as it is, notcas it is being sold to us and experienced.
I spend most of my time alone. Or, as Einstein said, "I live in that solitude which is painful in youth but delicious in the years of maturity." I recommend the book 'Solitude: A Return to the Self' by Anthony Storr.
I'm one of those guys that don't mind being alone I'm at peace and I'm not a danger to anyone not even myself ❤❤❤
Things like friends mean
nothing the only thing you can rely on in this
world is yourself only the strong survive it's true
ive learned not too rely on others for your own
worth and never too trust anyone not even
family and always remember that betrayal never
comes from your enemies only the ones closest
too you never let them know your mistakes your failures your goals or anything personal l used
too think that having and trusting a friend would
help me not be lonely but it only made me
Lonelier, weaker, and it only distracted me from really chasing my goals and dreams but every years a new year so this year ima keep my back against the wall and ima keep grinding and living life it's lonely at the top but it's better than too share it with someone that's fake
I disassociate from people who are full of dramas and noises.I am happy being with my dogs and cats.
Described me to a tee. Love my time alone even though married for many years and still am. I dwell in knowing about everything and anything physical or mental. Before retiring, women at work always sought my advise on a personal matters and this made my coworker male friends rather jealous. I never took advantage of anyone. Now retired, love being home and I spend my time surfing the world for my own knowledge.
I am up at 3:00 am on the weekends and like to be alone where I think about things and what I need to do next during the course of my day
Once you realise that over 90% of people are morons and have nothing to offer but drama and BS, being alone is heaven. I was once an extrovert but as I got older I avoid human contact as much as I can. Work (Engineer of nearly 32 years) is a different story, but I work amongst some incredibly intelligent men.
"The mellow fellow has few troubles!"
I've been doing this since I was 20 years old, I'm 47 now and I still enjoy my time alone hours on end.
I am amazed at how many people love being alone. I've been in relationships all my life and im older now and have been by myself for 2 months. Maybe I will be good with it and maybe I wont. The one person I could trust 100% passed away. I don't know if I will ever find another like her.
I have spent so much time alone i can't agree with everything that was said in this video .
Walk on the beach or hike in the woods. I find the feel of the natural world around me helps me process and soothes my mind on topic i find aggravating.
I prefer solitude and silence.
Thank you, lately I encountered many videos on such topic randomly in you tube, makes me feel like universe is talking about me.
I love, enjoy quiet moment,pin drop silence, it really rejuvenates me,so peaceful that I felt blissful,remain healthy body & mind, quiet time makes me highly creative, productive, mindful .In my quiet moment I hear the melodies of this universe.Its true that to know about oneself is enlightment.Only the individual can rise to the heights of consciousness, the more I belong to the group, the more I fall into darkness.
Be who you truly are, if others can’t handle it then ask yourself if you truly need them in your life
Very true in so many ways it's better to be alone and focused & stronger & healthier that's exactly how I live I thrive better alone .
I have been alone for years , I confront others who only engage in rhetoric. I do my art . I am able to grow my interests. I also discern and edit others quickly and accurately. People ask others This question (what do you think?) when it ends in ..of me … how the hell do expect someone to know more about you than you know of your self? This is the pit of stupidity. Once you ask others to answer the questions only you can answer , the chains are placed on you by their answers. If you are not honest with self you will never discover you. No matter how you like it … you will be you doing the things you do and thinking the things you do. In the valley of the blind the one eyed man is king. Learn from your actions and reactions how and why you acted so. The truth will set you free. It not complicated!
I did feel alone on a Iron Maiden concert, so I went home after 2 songs and enjoyed my own company instead. To be social without meaning is pointless, a wast of time. What do I do when I am alone, nothing but its time well invested. To just be alone is priceless.