I can walk away from someone today without a word. I don't have to explain and justify my decision to disrespectful people. I don't need closure with their kind.
@@TheDoodok...It's a Narc. Narcissists are the most vile and repulsive beings on this planet. I was unawares of their satanic character until I researched narcissism in depth. Don't allow their outward appearance or false charm fool you. They're non-human!
These words resonate with me because two years ago, I visited an art museum in Massachusetts. And I tried to be friendly to one of the people who worked there by giving them a friendly greeting and asking how they were. Only my question was met with a rude and impolite response from him; "That's none of your business." But rather than curse him out or engage in an argument with him over how disrespectful he was, I chose to remain silent. Because it just wasn't worth it. People like him are not worth a response.
People like them are hurting bad. If he or she felt good, they would be eager to share! I'm learning don't let those people drag me down too been there done that😊
@@samothom7333 Still, the man was rude and disrespectful. And, there's a proper way to respond to people's questions. You can say "I'm sorry, I'd rather not say." Or "Sorry, but that's private." I'm a person who's hurting deep down inside. But I always try to be polite unless someone really pushes my buttons.
Maybe he had really bad day nd he wasn't in right state of mind at tht point of time. So he was in frustration. Nd he also needed peace of mind. Sometimes we don't know what other people r going through. So just don't take it personally
@@l-earnfactology1449 Still, one has the choice to be polite or impolite regardless of their circumstances. You always have a choice. But people do what they want to do. So I'm not going to argue with that. Besides, I'm pretty much over it by now. And by not reacting harshly to his poor behavior, shows my maturity and resilience.
That’s ego and insecurity at work imo, if you’re fully comfortable with yourself people can’t drag you down, although there can be exceptions, we aren’t all the same after all.
I've chosen peace of mind..to get away from the continued drama, lies, deceit and cheating. She still trys to text daily. I've been ignoring for a week now
Hey man, if you catch yourself wondering how it would feel to be with her again only for some action and no emotions involved, as a dare to yourself to get 'closure' that way and 'detach' yourself by doing the fwb thing, even if it's just once, don't play into that. That's her territory, that's what she's good at, you'd just give her a win. Your power is in your self-respect and your self-respect lies with your choice of staying away. Doesn't matter if you're good at it and you'd pull it off and change the dynamic and she's now your side chick, because you'd feel weak for giving in anyways. Plenty of girls out there. If she pulled games on you and cheated, you'll just get more of that, even as a fwb she'd find ways, trust that. It never works.
I've already done this and it's the best way to end things with Toxic Negative people. Accept that there is nothing be gained from re-engaging with people like this as they live in this black hole of toxic and negative energy that is all consuming and the only thing you do to save yourself is to Just Quietly Walk Away, Ghost them and recreate yourself Become the person that subconciously you've always felt you were meant be.
Keep in mind it won't be easy as you will most likely have to walk away from other people that have a lesser connection to the person or persons that you are walking away from as they will contact those people at some point to find out what you are up to. So in order to start a new you will have walk away from any and all people that have a connection to the life you are leaving behind. "So Many People From Your Past Know A Version Of You That Doesn't Exist Anymore"
"My world is unaffected" that line have helped me rise above many people in my path .. As a young individuel I was often taunted by my teachers "you are antisocial" "you have no friends" "why are you this way?" .. I knew I just did not wanted to be bothered ... I like my own company and choose this over most people, this do not make me antisocial, it make me value my time and worth.. to go through life depending on others are sure way to på frail.. the one who says the fewest words often have to most to say.
It only works if they actually have morals and feelings. If they are a narcissist and you won't even notice your silence because they're only focused on themselves and you you only exist to them to provide fuel. You mean as much to them as the chair sitting in the room
I disagree.. I just got out of a very long-term relationship with a covert narcissist… the worst type.. I completely went silent no contact with all the derogatory comments, insults.. that put her even more in a narcissistic rage.. then it turned into 700+ text messages. Wishing me dead… the more I remain silent the more she just cracked away in little pieces. It was brilliant.! Never waste your time and energy below your station in life.. make them feel insignificant like they never mattered.. that’s what silence does.. it hits back with bone crushing intensity.
Okay. I've seen people leave comments on videos before saying something to the effect of "I needed to hear this tonight" or "You just saved me by saying what I was feeling" or "I was on the verge, but you pulled me back". And I've always just shaken my head at them and almost looked down at them for it (perhaps arrogantly, but I think more out of ignorance than anything). And now I'm one of those. I don't believe in anything supernatural, but the timing of finding this video completely randomly couldn't have been more fortuitous. Thank you for sharing it. Definitely hit home for me this evening.
Silence is there for you, not them. They're probably relieved they don't have to deal with you anymore and likely don't give you a second thought. They might remember you at a moment when your presence could've been beneficial, but that is fleeting. Silence is there only to help you move on, nothing else.
I believe you are right..but if you silence and you stay is much worse. Presence is Power. The presence in silence is even worse! They will search to find out if you forget.... show them that you forget. With laughter... then strike them silently....
@@user-zn9jz3zg3f Perhaps, but my personal view is that silence is simply an unavoidable consequence when there's nothing left to say. I do have a huge problem with it... Silence means that misunderstandings will take hold, perhaps talking things out is the correct solution and will lead to better conclusions... Obviously, a moment comes, when you feel like you've said everything you have to say, and silence is the only option left. When that moment comes, silence signifies an ending, for both sides.
Space is silent. And cold. That is why it is a genuine source of terror for a lot of people. When someone wanting attention instigates or shouts only to realize that they shouted into a cold abyss, it unnerves them.
Join the club👍this Is the route I took it was hard at times cos I though maybe I look to soft but it was best for my own peace and not let it affect my life.
I swear that is so true, when my lady starts disrespecting me I don't react to it at all she does that to get under my skin so I just stay silent and look at her and smile, she hates that.
OHHHHHH, this is SPOT on. I tend to go on and on and on and blah blah.... forcing my intent. This is the FIRST time in 65 years, I kept 100% quiet... And I will continue. And.. I will NOT go back!
This is exactly the conversation I had with a client of mine last week. They were dealing with someone who constantly disrespected them, and the need to react felt overwhelming. When they finally chose silence, they saw the power in walking away without engaging. Your explanation of silence as strength is spot on, and the emotional growth that comes from not needing to prove oneself to others is life-changing. Truly, you captured the essence of self-respect and peace in such a profound way. This is a must-watch for anyone struggling with toxic people.
I listened to this twice, the problem with having a heart is it forces you sometimes to react to things that you shouldn’t. We are all guilty of this. Then when it’s said & done you kick yourself in private thinking “why did I react” because once you’ve processed the events that took place, clarity becomes present. No matter how strong or “alpha” you are… we are all guilty of our minds playing tricks on us. Knowing WHEN to speak or react is the skill that needs to be rendered. It takes practise & time, so be patient but be conscious. Focus on the cause, not the effect. Lastly: you can’t correct an idiot, so don’t try. Bread up & head up kings. 💯
I'm new to this channel, boy oh boy, can I ever relate. I've ridden myself of any toxciticy 16 years ago, I'm truly the free one. Thank you for your videos.
Silence isn’t golden, it’s far more precious than that. It’s beyond the material. It’s the ultimate response to irrelevance. It’s a choice. It leaves other wondering. Questioning. It blocks the distractions of their words and actions. It avoidant and stoic. Silence isn’t golden. Silence is power, self-control. Take control with the power of your silence.
This video beautifully captures the power of silence. It’s amazing how choosing peace and self-respect can be so impactful. Thanks for this powerful reminder!
I remember one evening my parents went out to a hotel/restaurant with several of their friends. I wasn’t there but I did witness the fallout. One of their friends acted so obnoxious and like he was the big man. So loud, pretentious and shouting at everyone telling them what they could and couldn’t eat or drink. He then started picking on my mother and belittled her a lot. My mother stayed calm but wasn’t appreciative obviously of the insults. He was so bad that night that even people on the neighbouring table felt uncomfortable and later told my parents that they didn’t like the way he was speaking to them. Finally he went too far with the insults and when my parents finished up for the night, my mother told my Dad that she wasn’t going to talk to him again. Whenever he called after that, my mother just gave the phone to my father and she never called him. One day a couple of weeks later, my father and him met and he asked my father why my mother wasn’t talking to him. My father was like “Well…why do you think?” The silence from my mother’s side must have been devastating to him. He then called my mother and apologised sincerely to her stating that he went too far and that he never wanted to mistreat her. A year later he died. He did the right thing in the end.
This advice works best on older people that are tired of fighting back. Constant confrontation wears you down it gets old and tiresome after years of it.
The universe will keep giving you the same tests until you pass. I have used a lot of silence lately. I choose to believe there is a reward for not taking the bait. When you realize that the power someone had over you was just fear based thinking. Your imagination and your ego can work to torment you, coming up with all sorts of reasons why you should react. If you don't add fuel to the fire it goes out. Silence is game changer.
This actually happened between me and my ex. He'd dig and poke at me trying to bait me into an argument...he did this many times and id fight back. One day I just kept my mouth shut and wouldn't even look at him. This made him angrier...so eventually I started leaving the house. Id go for walks or over to a friend's. This happened several times until we ended in a very very f'd up way.
Nope they'll just see you as weak and timid. Respond but respond firmly and quietly. You want to be able to exhibit self-control but call them out for their misdeed.
IDK man, it's probably far more unsettling for them to have someone outright ignore them, treat them as unimportant and then focus on your own growth as though they were just a mere distraction.
I'm doing this even more, I usually was answer the phone & text back, since I was a teen being genuinely caring about what they'll have to talk bou, but when it comes to me trying to get some understanding mfs act oblivious, ✌🏾 🙏🏾😌
This is a life changing video for me... For I, used to always get triggered at the slighest disrespect... And today I actually used Silence and the confusion on that person's face was clearly visible...😇
I can walk away from someone today without a word. I don't have to explain and justify my decision to disrespectful people. I don't need closure with their kind.
Learning the same thing an u said it jus right.
Thank you.
#theirkind
Exactly! Their disrespect was the closure anyway 🤷🏻♂️
Closure is a fallacy. When you leave them in silence they have have their own words to eat them. They become fallow ground that can grow nothing.
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@@OLDSCHOOLPETE112 so, you say it was happy. Curious way to look at it.
Silence is best when you are being constantly disrespected by people.
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Silence is karma.
Jee
Something I've learned in life is karma is REAL.
@@CitiesOfAshNo doubt. 😎✌🏻
@CitiesOfAsh Oh its very deadly Real alright.
Silence is Golden. Silence is Power. It speaks for itself while preserving one’s dignity.
As long as you're not bitter or resentful. Get rid of the people and emotional baggage.
Some people think they've "won" when you walk away ... They don't get it...
Yes, When you close that door they soon realize its closed for good ! Hold your heads up people it's rough out there.
They will,
When the glow is gone.
That's right, that's their mindset. Then they will escalate cause they know you won't say nothing in your defence.
Blocking/walking away from negative people is something I started doing recently. It works well, and it's stupid simple.
Silence is your best revenge and God will do the work for you.
Revenge and God do not belong in the same sentence.
@@kayenne221Justice does
Thessalonians 5:15
Make sure that nobody pays back wrong for wrong, but always strive to do what is good for each other and for everyone else
@@kayenne221"Vengeance is mine says the Lord. If anyone can punish someone properly it's God
God never did one thing for me.
I've always lived my life like this. It makes them frustrated and angry. I usually laugh and walk away. Their words do not bother me. I know who I am.
Silence amplifies all the words they were ignoring.
"Vengeance is Mine; I will repay, sayeth the Lord."
Amen! Leave it to God and stay true to yourself and the lord❤
Amen❤
Amen!
@Populous1why you feel the need to pick on people?Are you ok?
@@TheDoodok...It's a Narc.
Narcissists are the most vile and repulsive beings on this planet. I was unawares of their satanic character until I researched narcissism in depth. Don't allow their outward appearance or false charm fool you.
They're non-human!
Silence is about being at peace, with ones' self. It's not a weapon, not martyrdom, not winning, nor losing. Peace.
Silence isn't empty it had a lot to to say
No contact and silence is power
Fr tho
Some people don't know what they have until it is gone.
Not every barking dog deserves a response
😂😂
Gonna use this in conversation.. thanks
Ain't heard that since the 80's.
You should not throw a rock at every barking dog!
These words resonate with me because two years ago, I visited an art museum in Massachusetts. And I tried to be friendly to one of the people who worked there by giving them a friendly greeting and asking how they were. Only my question was met with a rude and impolite response from him; "That's none of your business." But rather than curse him out or engage in an argument with him over how disrespectful he was, I chose to remain silent. Because it just wasn't worth it. People like him are not worth a response.
People like them are hurting bad. If he or she felt good, they would be eager to share! I'm learning don't let those people drag me down too been there done that😊
@@samothom7333 Still, the man was rude and disrespectful. And, there's a proper way to respond to people's questions. You can say "I'm sorry, I'd rather not say." Or "Sorry, but that's private." I'm a person who's hurting deep down inside. But I always try to be polite unless someone really pushes my buttons.
Silence …
Maybe he had really bad day nd he wasn't in right state of mind at tht point of time. So he was in frustration. Nd he also needed peace of mind. Sometimes we don't know what other people r going through. So just don't take it personally
@@l-earnfactology1449 Still, one has the choice to be polite or impolite regardless of their circumstances. You always have a choice. But people do what they want to do. So I'm not going to argue with that. Besides, I'm pretty much over it by now. And by not reacting harshly to his poor behavior, shows my maturity and resilience.
Toxic people and haters don't deserve MY good energy and MY golden words so I don't care about them. Silence is more powerful than scream. 😎☝🏼
I have made silence my most powerful weapon to move on.
Silence holds so much power, Let them wonder about you...
Silence is the hardest blow. Because there is nothing you can do. Thats the best part.
Channel that energy that would've been wasted on a pointless argument into your goals and your dreams
No, I experience the opposite. Staying still in the face of disrespect causes you to experience more disrespect.
Preach. 🙌 If it bothers me more to hold it in, then i let it out before slamming the door.
That’s ego and insecurity at work imo, if you’re fully comfortable with yourself people can’t drag you down, although there can be exceptions, we aren’t all the same after all.
*SOMETIMES YOU NEED TO FIGHT BACK.*
I've chosen peace of mind..to get away from the continued drama, lies, deceit and cheating. She still trys to text daily. I've been ignoring for a week now
Don't answer the call bro....
Hey man, if you catch yourself wondering how it would feel to be with her again only for some action and no emotions involved, as a dare to yourself to get 'closure' that way and 'detach' yourself by doing the fwb thing, even if it's just once, don't play into that. That's her territory, that's what she's good at, you'd just give her a win. Your power is in your self-respect and your self-respect lies with your choice of staying away. Doesn't matter if you're good at it and you'd pull it off and change the dynamic and she's now your side chick, because you'd feel weak for giving in anyways. Plenty of girls out there. If she pulled games on you and cheated, you'll just get more of that, even as a fwb she'd find ways, trust that. It never works.
Same here…!
Only a wk? (you got a long way to go my brothuh)
@@excelsiorcroissantgreat advice.
I've already done this and it's the best way to end things with Toxic Negative people. Accept that there is nothing be gained from re-engaging with people like this as they live in this black hole of toxic and negative energy that is all consuming and the only thing you do to save yourself is to Just Quietly Walk Away, Ghost them and recreate yourself Become the person that subconciously you've always felt you were meant be.
Keep in mind it won't be easy as you will most likely have to walk away from other people that have a lesser connection to the person or persons that you are walking away from as they will contact those people at some point to find out what you are up to. So in order to start a new you will have walk away from any and all people that have a connection to the life you are leaving behind. "So Many People From Your Past Know A Version Of You That Doesn't Exist Anymore"
Silence is so beautiful
"My world is unaffected" that line have helped me rise above many people in my path ..
As a young individuel I was often taunted by my teachers "you are antisocial" "you have no friends" "why are you this way?" .. I knew I just did not wanted to be bothered ... I like my own company and choose this over most people, this do not make me antisocial, it make me value my time and worth.. to go through life depending on others are sure way to på frail.. the one who says the fewest words often have to most to say.
They all asked this morning...Hey whats wrong? People are worried... Its working Great Joker!! I thank you 👍
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Silence literally speaks louder than words, it resonates with lessons and the harsh truths simultaneously 😤
The power of positive thinking far outweigh all others.
I choose peace over chaos. I choose smooth over static. And love over hate. ❤
God Forgive and Bless Everyone❤.
Thanks in Advance❤.
I will NEVER be silent when people disrespect me! I despise people who give me this advice!
So tell them what you think of them and then head out into the abyss of silence, ultimately leaving them behind.
It only works if they actually have morals and feelings. If they are a narcissist and you won't even notice your silence because they're only focused on themselves and you you only exist to them to provide fuel. You mean as much to them as the chair sitting in the room
I disagree.. I just got out of a very long-term relationship with a covert narcissist… the worst type.. I completely went silent no contact with all the derogatory comments, insults.. that put her even more in a narcissistic rage.. then it turned into 700+ text messages. Wishing me dead… the more I remain silent the more she just cracked away in little pieces. It was brilliant.! Never waste your time and energy below your station in life.. make them feel insignificant like they never mattered.. that’s what silence does.. it hits back with bone crushing intensity.
I don't think they will ever worry about me ever again if they decided to treat me that way.. they knew what they were doing..
This!! 💯
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@@Falco361 I'm talking about those who mistreated me.. just sharing my experience.. are you ok??
Right on!!!! Nothing trumps the Joker's silence and I am the Joker to the person that tried to wrong me...🎉
Amen 🙏
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Yes I choose silence over argument and distance over disrespect and I am feeling the peace and respect that I deserve ❤❤❤. Thank you for this message
Okay. I've seen people leave comments on videos before saying something to the effect of "I needed to hear this tonight" or "You just saved me by saying what I was feeling" or "I was on the verge, but you pulled me back". And I've always just shaken my head at them and almost looked down at them for it (perhaps arrogantly, but I think more out of ignorance than anything). And now I'm one of those. I don't believe in anything supernatural, but the timing of finding this video completely randomly couldn't have been more fortuitous. Thank you for sharing it. Definitely hit home for me this evening.
Pleasure
Silence is there for you, not them. They're probably relieved they don't have to deal with you anymore and likely don't give you a second thought. They might remember you at a moment when your presence could've been beneficial, but that is fleeting. Silence is there only to help you move on, nothing else.
I believe you are right..but if you silence and you stay is much worse. Presence is Power. The presence in silence is even worse!
They will search to find out if you forget.... show them that you forget. With laughter... then strike them silently....
@@user-zn9jz3zg3f Perhaps, but my personal view is that silence is simply an unavoidable consequence when there's nothing left to say. I do have a huge problem with it... Silence means that misunderstandings will take hold, perhaps talking things out is the correct solution and will lead to better conclusions... Obviously, a moment comes, when you feel like you've said everything you have to say, and silence is the only option left. When that moment comes, silence signifies an ending, for both sides.
They say timing is everything. Evidently i need to hear this today . Nailed it
Space is silent. And cold. That is why it is a genuine source of terror for a lot of people. When someone wanting attention instigates or shouts only to realize that they shouted into a cold abyss, it unnerves them.
Your words are so empowering…thankyou. Needed to hear this 🙏🏻
Join the club👍this Is the route I took it was hard at times cos I though maybe I look to soft but it was best for my own peace and not let it affect my life.
@@MultiMarty25 it’s the only way. It’s hard isn’t it ? Love yourself first and life gets better & better x
I cannot emphasize enough how much this is so prevalent in my life right now.
Truth be said... "Silence is Powerful"!!! The Choice to Let Go...
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Yeah, this is a good one. Take this one in. silence over anger totally disarms.
“It’s not that I’ve changed a lot, a lot has changed me”.
I swear that is so true, when my lady starts disrespecting me I don't react to it at all she does that to get under my skin so I just stay silent and look at her and smile, she hates that.
You got a toxic lady too huh? They are childish. They are losers to the core and miserable inside so they look to annoy us to fill the void
Tell me about it, I rather stay silent when she does that than to respond to everything she says disrespectful.
I can relate to this on many levels in past relationships. Only recently have I come to know it as a power.
From my own experience in school back in the day from bullies, I can tell you that silence/ignoring does NOT work.
Some people don't care your silence means nothing to them.
True. But let it mean something to you. Don't receive their direspet.
That's the beauty of it though, if you know your worth, you don't need their validation whether they miss you or not.
@@clintonalver2715 yes
"Self respect over validation." Better gospel than any Bible
OHHHHHH, this is SPOT on. I tend to go on and on and on and blah blah.... forcing my intent. This is the FIRST time in 65 years, I kept 100% quiet... And I will continue.
And.. I will NOT go back!
The biggest realization / understanding is to say NO.
This is exactly the conversation I had with a client of mine last week. They were dealing with someone who constantly disrespected them, and the need to react felt overwhelming. When they finally chose silence, they saw the power in walking away without engaging. Your explanation of silence as strength is spot on, and the emotional growth that comes from not needing to prove oneself to others is life-changing. Truly, you captured the essence of self-respect and peace in such a profound way. This is a must-watch for anyone struggling with toxic people.
😭😭😭😭😭 i did this only... he said i earn more then your whole family. 😢 i left him in silence with dignity 😔💔
This channel has helped me a lot, it come at the right time
I listened to this twice, the problem with having a heart is it forces you sometimes to react to things that you shouldn’t. We are all guilty of this. Then when it’s said & done you kick yourself in private thinking “why did I react” because once you’ve processed the events that took place, clarity becomes present. No matter how strong or “alpha” you are… we are all guilty of our minds playing tricks on us. Knowing WHEN to speak or react is the skill that needs to be rendered. It takes practise & time, so be patient but be conscious. Focus on the cause, not the effect.
Lastly: you can’t correct an idiot, so don’t try.
Bread up & head up kings. 💯
@1:30 - 2:07 straight fire!🔥 He laid that out COLD
Absolutely 💯
I'm new to this channel, boy oh boy, can I ever relate. I've ridden myself of any toxciticy 16 years ago, I'm truly the free one. Thank you for your videos.
Welcome aboard!
Ty
Silence is powerful !!!
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Dont let yoursekf get atached to anything you cant leave in 30 seconds if you feel the heat coming around the corner
If your motivation is to hurt people then you're either dumb, or evil.
Silence isn’t golden, it’s far more precious than that. It’s beyond the material. It’s the ultimate response to irrelevance. It’s a choice. It leaves other wondering. Questioning. It blocks the distractions of their words and actions. It avoidant and stoic. Silence isn’t golden. Silence is power, self-control. Take control with the power of your silence.
Your words are spiritual law. Very intelligent ❤❤❤❤😊
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Never tolerate energy vampires.
Karma ..is served cold .
Karma is a dish best served cold. Unfortunately we don't control Karma, wait for it's coming for them.
YES I WALK AWAY DON'T NEED YOU.
When silence is used when you were the one disrespected and had a right to express how you felt is when its wrong though.
Thank you Joker❤
Solence the loudest responce
when dealing with foolish people
Yes it absolutely is...they will keep contacting u, just keep ignoring. I forgave u but u don't get to ever speak to me again.
Dude's right
This video beautifully captures the power of silence. It’s amazing how choosing peace and self-respect can be so impactful. Thanks for this powerful reminder!
I remember one evening my parents went out to a hotel/restaurant with several of their friends. I wasn’t there but I did witness the fallout.
One of their friends acted so obnoxious and like he was the big man. So loud, pretentious and shouting at everyone telling them what they could and couldn’t eat or drink.
He then started picking on my mother and belittled her a lot. My mother stayed calm but wasn’t appreciative obviously of the insults. He was so bad that night that even people on the neighbouring table felt uncomfortable and later told my parents that they didn’t like the way he was speaking to them.
Finally he went too far with the insults and when my parents finished up for the night, my mother told my Dad that she wasn’t going to talk to him again.
Whenever he called after that, my mother just gave the phone to my father and she never called him. One day a couple of weeks later, my father and him met and he asked my father why my mother wasn’t talking to him. My father was like “Well…why do you think?”
The silence from my mother’s side must have been devastating to him. He then called my mother and apologised sincerely to her stating that he went too far and that he never wanted to mistreat her.
A year later he died.
He did the right thing in the end.
You are incredibly talented man I love you so deeply thank you
Silence is golden
Revenge is temporary. I can think bigger than that.
So when someone is disrespectful you just let it slide…
This advice works best on older people that are tired of fighting back. Constant confrontation wears you down it gets old and tiresome after years of it.
The universe will keep giving you the same tests until you pass. I have used a lot of silence lately. I choose to believe there is a reward for not taking the bait. When you realize that the power someone had over you was just fear based thinking. Your imagination and your ego can work to torment you, coming up with all sorts of reasons why you should react. If you don't add fuel to the fire it goes out. Silence is game changer.
1 year not speaking to my mother, and about to get a restraining order. Hope this is the right thing to do.
Silence is golden, duct tape is silver
I've ghosted a few that I once called, friend.
I'm relieved hearing this. Thanks!!!
This actually happened between me and my ex. He'd dig and poke at me trying to bait me into an argument...he did this many times and id fight back. One day I just kept my mouth shut and wouldn't even look at him. This made him angrier...so eventually I started leaving the house. Id go for walks or over to a friend's. This happened several times until we ended in a very very f'd up way.
Silence😌
Is Golden😎
The true power of walking by, moving slowly and staying silent in front of a fake smile. The confused look on her face...priceless!
This is awesome explanation. This is ultimate.
This is “World class” knowledge and information!! 🎉
Pleasure
My soul is dying, and theres nothing i can do about it.
Yes, there is! You can make the change for the better 😊
Power in separation 💙
Amen. Thank you joker 👍
Knowledge of self is the ultimate cure ..
Absolutely right
They have zero shame in what they did.
If She doesnt appreciate my presence she will damm sure appreciate my absence
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@user-lh9eg1mk9n I will pray for you 🙏
@user-lh9eg1mk9n I will pray for you brother 🙏
Nope they'll just see you as weak and timid. Respond but respond firmly and quietly. You want to be able to exhibit self-control but call them out for their misdeed.
IDK man, it's probably far more unsettling for them to have someone outright ignore them, treat them as unimportant and then focus on your own growth as though they were just a mere distraction.
I'm doing this even more, I usually was answer the phone & text back, since I was a teen being genuinely caring about what they'll have to talk bou, but when it comes to me trying to get some understanding mfs act oblivious, ✌🏾 🙏🏾😌
Amazing wise words.
Silence and a cold stare.🤨😳🤯👍💯
It can break you AND make you stronger, I believe.
This is a life changing video for me... For I, used to always get triggered at the slighest disrespect... And today I actually used Silence and the confusion on that person's face was clearly visible...😇