Have you seen modern women? They're in their phones 24/7. Instagram, TikTok and OnlyFans broke them. Even at the clubs. They come all decked out to sit on the couch and stare at their phone.
if the democrats didn't push a culture war onto boys and girls they wouldn't have disrupted the fertility rate.... but this was their intention all along GIRLS: girl power, pink power, crack the glass ceiling, pay inequity, be a boss, lean in, get an abortion, birth control, dont cook, dont clean, be a queen, slay girlfriend, etc BOYS: toxic masculinity, manspreading, mansplaining, rainbow agenda, drag queens, homosexuals, effeminate famous males, metrosexuals, manscaping, etc the democrats have intentionally destroyed the fertility rate, because they are scared of climate change and global warming, overpopulation and overpollution
The part about dressing and grooming is 100% accurate. I’ve seen young people out in public in pajama pants and raggedy logo T shirts and it’s sad. They can’t even muster a nice trouser and crisp shirt/sportcoat. It’s sad. Clothing/grooming is a reflection of self esteem From my observation at least half of our people look like they got their clothes from the goodwill dumpster. No hot guy or gal would be interested in somebody who shows up slovenly or unkempt. It started with ‘casual Friday’ and now it’s ’homeless chic’. 😂 You deserve an Emmy for this season Bill great writing. 🎉
Men aren't dressing to attract women because they do not want to attract women. It's a simple cost-benefit analysis. The deal society is offering men right now is unacceptable, so they are checking out. Men have decided not to participate as the only form of protest they have. Bill is not helping by blaming the victim here.
Okay, this was a stretch and I admire that. He nailed it too. All those wretched buzzwords and the ludicrous style of TED talks! 😃😂😅🤣 And the writers should take a bow as well.
He didn't nail it. This was the most boomer new rules ever. Completely out of touch with modern reality. He should try his own advice at places where people don't know who he is.
I liked that he was making fun of Ted which is insufferable to me. I think his obsession with the youngest generation has lost its humor and I am nearly his age.
I get that a lot of women mock the shit out of nerdy guys, but why would any man want to date a woman who thinks that perfectly legitimate hobbies and interests are childish and stupid? That just seems like a recipe for more resentment and hatred.
Exactly. Why would you want to be with someone who clearly doesn’t even like you for who you are? Sounds like you’re setting yourself up for an abusive failure of a relationship.
@@nightmarishcompositions4536 Yeah. It seems like far better advice to look for someone who actually likes similar things, but not necessarily the exact same type. That can broaden your horizons a lot more than usual.
"Nerdy" guys? Or failure to launch guys who live in their parents' basement and play video games 24/7, often forgetting to bathe. Because there is a major difference!!
Because guys with these kinds of hobbies often suffer from obsessive &/or juvenile dispositions. If you ever look up how these man children react to writers making any changes to their particular beloved franchise or read any of their views on the opposite gender you'll clearly see why the ladies avoid these lunatics at all cost. Major media conglomerates certainly haven't helped reign in these emotionally stunted individuals by continually making properties that were originally intended for children increasingly more adult oriented in really cynical &/or creepy ways.
@@IMAT01these guys should just eat better and start exercising for a quarter of the day and join together until women are dressing up like gandalf and reciting the silmarillion in high-elvish. They had better!
As a woman and a lifelong geek, let me tell you that the "act normal" part is almost entirely wrong. You be you, enjoy your hobbies and don't try to be someone you're not. There are plenty of nerdy girls out there who enjoy a night of rolling dices, my men.
If by "many" you mean .0001 percent, sure. You're dead on. Btw, the guys who actually make you wet won't be saying things like "milady" and quoting Tolkien. Unless your super gross, then yeah, get what ya can
I'm nerdy in different ways, but was thinking the same thing. There are a lot of women who enjoy L.A.R.P. and Ren Fairs and other stuff that many would find repellant or repugnant. To each his or her own. Moreover, there are plenty of women who'll respect and indulge a man's "foibles" when they are attracted to the man (attracted for several other reasons), and they'll enjoy their free time to do their own thing while the man is enjoying his hobby. All interests need not be shared to couple successfully. I'm a mature single woman. I'm geeky as a logophile, and in a few other ways. D&D and gaming aren't my interests, and I don't see myself with a man who is a big gamer (the other kind, with headset and chair, not Maher's G.A.M.E.r) nor a man into L.A.R.P. --but someone who enjoys group face to face game nights, or a range of other things I'm not already into, would not be excluded from consideration.
Um, no. The ratio of nerdy girls to guys playing dice and card games is 100 to 1. As a woman, you probably like those odds. But for the 99 guys you aren't dating that day, they need to pretend to not be interested in that stuff. It doesn't mean you can't be interested in that stuff, but that is 3rd date conversation after you've gotten laid. The first dates are about future plans, positive things happening etc. This goes for any hobby that isn't "normal", that doesn't play into you, as a man being a good parent, provider, and companion.
When million of people are having the same problems at the same time, problems which their fathers and grandfathers didn't have, the problem is probably not those individuals' fault.
Social Media will convince you of whatever you want. If you don't like what others are saying you scroll on until someone tells you what you want to hear. People used to say I'm not a victim, I'm a survivor. Now everyone is a victim who doesn't think they're going to survive. Life is hard, especially when you're comparing yours to everyone else's. Succeeding is hard, if it was easy everyone would do it. Saying no one has it harder than you does not come from deprivation it comes from expectations. I feel sorry for the Internet generation because it makes it easier to lose hope when you're told there is none. I'm not saying it's easy for you or dismissing your concerns, they're real and justified but the misconception that other generations all owned houses and lived the high life belies the truth of slums, projects, trailer parks and apartment buildings which have always been a part of life.😮
@@brooklynebony best advice I've read in these comments so far. It's easier to blame others for your short comings that to look in the mirror at the ACTUAL reason. You.
Far as I recall, Bill does fine not stereotyping & generalizing other groups; why does he constantly do it with the younger generation? Giving him the benefit of the doubt here, I think he's actually trying to help.
The truth is that a lot of guys just aren't interested in dating anymore, especially considering all the effort, expectations, and occasionally nasty rejection they have to go through when they're expected to 'lead.' Seems it's becoming more common for men to feel totally content with their job, video games, online communities, and an occasional fap. As a person who's worked in the tech industry for 7 years, I was surprised the first time I met someone who had zero interest in dating, but over time I realized that it's becoming more common. And no, that doesn't mean that all of the men in this group are unhealthy 'neckbeards' or incels, though I know those exist as an even smaller minority. I'd imagine that a big part of the discrepency between the number of single men vs single women is that some of the guys who are really into dating have multiple girlfriends. They're more appealing, put in more effort, and hell, maybe they're the ambitious go-getters that are going to pass down their genes to future generations. Some folks just want to live and enjoy the life they prefer. Gotta admit, it really is fascinating to see this happen as technology continues to advance though. It's a two-way street, and both men and women need to put in some effort if they truly do care about eachother. If some women become tired of every guy they date turning out to be a deuche, a narcissist, or a player, maybe it's time for it to become more common for women to be the one to reach out to a guy first. Want a good guy as a boyfriend, and tired of trying to change other people in vain? Maybe you'll have to find him instead of expecting him to be searching for you. Don't give up.
Maybe it differs by city, but I very rarely see young women with significantly older men. Someone else commented on this video that the real reason for this discrepancy is that many young women think they’re in a relationship with a man, while the man is playing the field with multiple women and calling himself single.
Sadly, with the way Western women act these days, a lot of young men no longer shivagit: they’ve completely checked out or moved overseas. As an old man, I have no skin in the game, but even _I_ can see the handwriting on the wall. Why can’t Maher?
Exactly. Because he's completely out of touch on this issue. He cleans up at Hollywood parties where attractive young women come to meet rich celebrities and thinks he's got mad game.
@drsingingeagle Couldn't agree more! @Medina-bk2fo clearly doesn't understand the concept of averages / overwhelming percentages. Nothing is black-and-white, and "Not all X" is the mantra of brain-dead contrarians bending over backwards to deny that no "X is Y" statement means literally 100%. Grow up.
One thing I'd add is to date at your level. A woman who's good-looking isn't going to date a guy who doesn't take care of himself physically. A woman with a PhD doesn't want a guy who's done nothing since high school.
Not worth it when watching adult entertainment more than compensates the needless stress jestermaxxing/beta buxxing for sub 5s who view themselves as 10s.
No Bill!! Don't help all these guys get 'Game'! I don't need any more competition. I've been doing just fine with my Game because I have already followed these concepts for years. Don't need more enlightening guys out there as competition. OMG Bill..
Yes don't help these douchbags. Guys like that make it easier for me. I have button down shirts, real shoes , real slacks. I groom & keep clean. But I'm married but I still keep up to not look homeless. And women sometimes talk to me! I converse & even flirt a bit. Sometimes without even trying. I'm 67 ,look 55 maintain my health & dont act like a douchbag!
Go to the places you like. If there are women there, then you at least have one thing in common. Volunteer at places that are important to you. Try conventions. If you like anime, seek out women at an anime convention. If you are giving up things that you enjoy to find a woman, then you are already disliking her.
A lot of good points but if any stands out more than the others, I say it's "you won't be a great conversationalist right off the bat." Don't let perfect be the enemy of the good. Also, for those will only see this as exclusively Bill's thoughts...do you know that he has a multi-generational writing and producing staff, including young adults, that weigh in the content for these editorials? (rhetorical question)
i dont get why that its an issue let the lonely men be lonely , and let the guys with game impregnate a lot of women that has allways been the case, most women dont want most men i dont see the issue
I love it when traditional values Bill comes out to play. Dedicated bachelor for life, who doesn't like kids, and rightly understands there are far too many of us. Opens his presentation with fertility rate.😂 Oh yeah.. Wear a tie!
I wasn't personally offended by that remark, but I thought it sounded offensive to a huge chunk of those online who are divergent in one way or another. Really, his whole TED talk was one big "man up," which totally discounts/ignores how woman initiate 70 - 80% of all divorces, do so very often because they're bored, and then just about automatically get custody of the kids. More "manning up" is not going to change our unfair sentencing laws, unfair custody laws, and so much more.
It just reminds me that I'm happy to be married and past the dating stage. I love D&D and my wife is completely cool with it. But I did have to make a lot of effort and man up to get to that point, so there's hope at the end, fellow nerds.
What seems really weird to my is Maher's belief that he's seemingly convinced that "nerd culture" is still what it was decades ago. It's not. Like, there are certain fandoms which have tons of women involved (e.g. there are lots of women who are into anime. no need to "hide" it (which seems like a bad idea to begin with) because it's possible to embrace these hobbies together).
The flip side of all this is that women did this to the men They wanted men to be more sensitive and then realized that they can't stand it when they cry all the time About a year ago I saw a female comedian talking about toxic masculinity where she pointed out that the things that women hate about men's men is also what they love about men's men I.E. she pointed out that women want men who are strong and confident, but this also is what makes them arrogant Now men are afraid to talk to talk to women because they are afraid of being cancelled or labelled a sexual harrasser Sorry if I have offended the snow flakes out there, I group up in the 70's and am old school where men had the courage to be rejected and women didn't immediately reach for the pepper spray when a man told them that they were beautiful
I mostly agree with this… Lol it was funny for its comedic value but true for so many people I’m sure nerdy guys and girls can find each other the issue isn’t just having one action figure it’s the whole package and combination of manchild who owns action figures and still has posters on the walls like he’s 17 who looks immature and silly
“Hello.” “Why are you filming me for RUclips while saying get back creep!” It’s better to have lost your job than to never have given romance a shot. 😊❤️🩹😢
When you have two sentences that can stand on their own and are connecting it with a conjunction (for, and, nor, but, or, yet, so), you must put a comma on the word before the conjunction. Examples Correct: Robert blushed in embarrassment, but the girls giggled in laughter. Incorrect: Robert’s pants ripped, and tore straight through to his underwear. Why: You do not need a comma here because Robert’s pants are the implied subject. The second half cannot stand by itself.
“We need to first white board the issue so we can drill down on the game changing paradigm shift that really squeezes the juice out of a more goal-oriented approach that can move the needle.” Every corporate talk ever!!!
Bill's thing should have been, to be accurate & honest & including himself (since he's the expert, ..I guess), 7 words. - "You Don't Have Their, ..Or My.., Money!" - Since that's what it's really all about.
@@trydowave The whole point of this video is to actually....I know it sounds really odd and scary and profound...not use an app or your phone and talk to human beings in real life
Agree, he seems quite physically fit and actually looks like a lot of Silicon Valley tech bosses who run "campuses" instead of "offices" - perfect outfit for a TED parody And this was an actually decent TED talk
@@lolodee3528no it’s not. He has a huge head for his body. That’s actually a plus in tv and movies etc. To be a game show host it’s almost mandatory lol
@@The_R-n-I_Guy Bill's the last one to care about "respecting" women. You should see how he talks about them on his Club Random podcast. Besides, he said in his segment that douchebags are the ones who get women, and that's something he genuinely believes.
0:39 There was a WSJ article recently or some other newspaper that said that a lot of Gen Z women consider themselves to "be in a relationship" after they have gone out once with a guy. And that guy is usually going out with several different women but doesn't consider himself to be in a relationship with any of them.
it's hypergamy. bill wants everyone to think it's not happening. There isn't an expert that doesn't think it's not happening. It's happening, and it's increasing. Societal collapse may change this. I thank god im not an incel but I have been for short periods and even that is horrid
I simply don't buy the "kids today aren't interested in sex". They're just afraid. Kids are simply too online. Guys are afraid of being "toxic" and the "girl boss" archetype isn't sexy to most guys.
There are NOT nearly as many "girl bosses" as men imagine. Plenty of girl EMPLOYEES, girl ASSISTANTS...not so many girl bosses--especially women in their 20s for god's sake! Like Maher said: GROW UP (& Get Real!)
I think real people haven’t changed that much it’s just they spend too much time on social media and their phones and simply think they have changed. Or at least, think they are supposed to be things they truthfully aren’t. In a world of self-ID etc, no wonder young generations don’t know how to communicate with one another. If you don’t know who or what you are - how can you expect anyone else?
Honestly I like Bill, but, if you saw him in person you would not say that. He is old and wrinkled. You are forgetting the magic of TV. Strategic lighting and heavy makeup.
@@bobbykiriakidis9753I mean sure, the guy is old, no one is saying that 20yo girls are going to start putting Up posters of him in their bedrooms, but he looks healthy for his age, I would sign being in that shape at 68 right now
I think Bill Maher is way off on what is really going on out here in the dating scene. Plus, he's not a married man and never will be, and his generation is not up to date. It almost sounds like he's been recruited to try to make men accept the irresponsibilities of women out here today. Last week was an attack on Tate and the Manosphere. Noted Tate isn't the best role model, but he wasn't lying about how young men and women are carrying on in society today. This week is a lesson on how to date women?? What women exactly, the ones pretending to be men and 304s with astronomical body counts?? And heard what he said, "women are feminists in theory" ??? In theory????...so he admits there's a double-standard women do and men are supposed to shut up and take it?? Well, it just tells us how much out of touch that he is with this crisis.
its fuking broken....men r sick if the B S.... hey ladies...keep up with the bs ...u will get old before u know it...your youth and beauty is short lived.
if the democrats didn't push a culture war onto boys and girls they wouldn't have disrupted the fertility rate.... but this was their intention all along GIRLS: girl power, pink power, crack the glass ceiling, pay inequity, be a boss, lean in, get an abortion, birth control, dont cook, dont clean, be a queen, slay girlfriend, etc BOYS: toxic masculinity, manspreading, mansplaining, rainbow agenda, drag queens, homosexuals, effeminate famous males, metrosexuals, manscaping, etc the democrats have intentionally destroyed the fertility rate, because they are scared of climate change and global warming, overpopulation and overpollution
Love Bill, but he needs to stop being famous and successful before he opines on this subject. Women hold all the cards and they do not want over 90 percent of men. It's not 1996 anymore.
Wonder why Millenials and Gen Z are doom spending? Not getting married? Not starting families? Why is civil unrest growing while the wealth gap is larger than it ever has been in history? First-time home ownership is OVER. "Starter home" are over 400k average income is 58k. We've put in 77 bids in middle TN on first home and were outbid by cash investors EVERY TIME. Now, we're priced out due to price and mortgage rates. It's because this economy is not for us, it never has been since we've been around. It priced us out and left us behind before we got here. This doesn't end well for society at every socioeconomic level..
That's certainly part of it, but what is the response to it? I don't mean to diminish our struggles and the factors that played into it though. There have been countless moments and generations throughout history where things like "finding a partner or soulmate or lover" were extremely luxurious notions - the fact is, our society is changing and people are starting to realize the nature of marriage/courtship/relationships whatever you want to call it is changing too.
And GenX is the 1st to not have pensions plus fought 3 wars. Boomers fought in Vietnam. Their parents fought WW2 and Korea. Their grandparents fought WW1 and survived a depression. You think you have it worse than them? Hint: you don’t. Everybody had it tough somehow. Yet they still managed to find each other, get married and have kids.
Yep, I love the 30's, they are orgasm machines the do it over and over and over until thirsty and tired, yet sometimes it happens earlier. We can give them what they want and it is more about them then ourselves.
Yes and we heard; they rather be near bears than the majority of average men. Unless you are Tyrone or Chad don't bother with them beyond common curtesy. Honestly being none select is a blessing since it means more money/less stress too bad some men can't recognize the blessing in disguise.
Literally no female I know can hold a conversation with me for even an hour. They're all miserable, can't answer simple questions and just in general don't have anything going on with their lives. I'm VERY attentive and have proven on more than one occasion to know more about someone than the person in question. Trust me, the problem is NOT that women don't get attention or care.
Another important thing is to find women that actually share the same interests as you. I’ve met tons of really cool girls that love video games, fantasy books, comics, rock music, cartoons, etc. It’s really not that hard or rare lol.
Depends on your generation and location. It's pretty rare to find Gen X women into games. Especially where I live. Granted I live in a terrible place to find women, Las Vegas, people here are into lame stuff like gambling, alcohol, and pot.
if the democrats didn't push a culture war onto boys and girls they wouldn't have disrupted the fertility rate.... but this was their intention all along GIRLS: girl power, pink power, crack the glass ceiling, pay inequity, be a boss, lean in, get an abortion, birth control, dont cook, dont clean, be a queen, slay girlfriend, etc BOYS: toxic masculinity, manspreading, mansplaining, rainbow agenda, drag queens, homosexuals, effeminate famous males, metrosexuals, manscaping, etc the democrats have intentionally destroyed the fertility rate, because they are scared of climate change and global warming, overpopulation and overpollution
Plenty of women are stuck with a guy who just can't seem to keep a job (and now can't seem to get one!), so yanno what? that wallet thing is actually REALLY important. Not the only thing of course, but definitely #1 priority if you want a long term relationship.
Valid. Also the 63% single men and the 34% single women... He's an older promiscous Hollywood celebrity. He knows exactly why the younger women are not "single".
I wouldn’t go to a man who settled down with his first girlfriend for tips on getting laid, I wouldn’t go to a man who isn’t married for tips on getting a wife. Luckily for bill he isn’t giving advice on getting into a lifelong relationship genius, he said in the first 20 seconds of the fake Ted talk that it’s about getting laid. If you want advice on making a girl settle for you for life this isn’t the place for you lol
Once every few months Maher, who i mostly like and I think he have a great sense of humor, come across like a boring boomer who doesn't know what he's talking about. I know this was supposed to be a funny sketch, but it's pretty lame, lazy and not correct. Maher really thinks that men who collect action figures and don't wash too often really want a girlfriend or relationship? Who is he talking to? 7 year olds? Men have completely different problems in terms of getting a girl than his stereotipical examples. There is problem with men, but on more psychological level and also there is problem with women nowadays. Also, there are a lot of girls today that are heavily into for example anime culture etc. They don't mind a guy who is collecting action figures. They like a man with a passion, whatever this passion is. Bill is quite good when he is analyzing political and geopolitical affairs, he is good and mostly right (also being funny at the same time) about social issues and culture war, but his weak point is men-women relationships. He has lived so far away from normal life for so long that he has simply no idea what's going on in the sphere today. But I must admit that doing this like a TED Talk parody was a great idea.
Exactly. I won't say it's wrong. It's just times have changed. No longer does a woman have to settle for an ugly dude just to keep from starving to death. She can make her own money to survive and go after the good looking men. Good looking men are scoring left and right in this country. It's tough for us not blessed with good looks. I was doing fairly well, but my girl lost her drive after menopause, so I'm in a bad position right now.
To guys about paying for a date: If you have a good feeling, pay up. If you don't think you will see each other again, split. If she is on a lot of dates just for somebody to buy her dinner, split. Don't let her use you. If she talks about the patriachy and the importance of feminism, she should pay everything. Break the mold.
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"My concern would be she felt the need to talks about the patriarchy and the importance of feminism", like duh, I would feel insulted that she felt the need to say so. OK, she thinks I do not think females can be humans too??
I think this is all funny Bill, but most men under 30 are not dating, because they don't have money -- and unlike probably 30 or 40 years ago, not having money now won't get you dates. :-)
Exactly. If only I could think of an example. Say someone who has a talk show on HBO. Someone giving outdated advice while not being married or having kids...
Wow Bill is sooooo far out of touch with what modern dating actually is nowadays 😅 Honestly he's become more of an arrogant asshole than I've ever seen before, Also I'd like to mention that it's not just young men that have problems, Young women have their own issues that are just as irritating and concerning but nobody ever mentions it unfortunately 😂
The student loans got turned down then he tried to pay off my student loans and it got turned down again it’s illegal. There’s not one student loan getting paid off so stop lying.
Brilliant dating advice for the average young man struggling to settle down and start a family in an economy largely ruined by boomers... from an unmarried, childless multimillionaire in his 60s.
“If you want to bone, put down the phone” 😂😂😂💀💀
Not true at all. Bill is beyond out of touch.
Well said. He's been losing touch for roughly the last decade.
@@vincentfalcone9218Yup. He gets his women from Hollywood parties where they come to meet rich celebrities and thinks he's got mad game.
Have you seen modern women? They're in their phones 24/7. Instagram, TikTok and OnlyFans broke them. Even at the clubs. They come all decked out to sit on the couch and stare at their phone.
if the democrats didn't push a culture war onto boys and girls they wouldn't have disrupted the fertility rate.... but this was their intention all along
GIRLS: girl power, pink power, crack the glass ceiling, pay inequity, be a boss, lean in, get an abortion, birth control, dont cook, dont clean, be a queen, slay girlfriend, etc
BOYS: toxic masculinity, manspreading, mansplaining, rainbow agenda, drag queens, homosexuals, effeminate famous males, metrosexuals, manscaping, etc
the democrats have intentionally destroyed the fertility rate, because they are scared of climate change and global warming, overpopulation and overpollution
The part about dressing and grooming is 100% accurate. I’ve seen young people out in public in pajama pants and raggedy logo T shirts and it’s sad. They can’t even muster a nice trouser and crisp shirt/sportcoat. It’s sad. Clothing/grooming is a reflection of self esteem From my observation at least half of our people look like they got their clothes from the goodwill dumpster. No hot guy or gal would be interested in somebody who shows up slovenly or unkempt. It started with ‘casual Friday’ and now it’s ’homeless chic’. 😂 You deserve an Emmy for this season Bill great writing. 🎉
Men aren't dressing to attract women because they do not want to attract women. It's a simple cost-benefit analysis. The deal society is offering men right now is unacceptable, so they are checking out. Men have decided not to participate as the only form of protest they have. Bill is not helping by blaming the victim here.
@@DurkaDur-bx4ks they don’t know what they’re missing. Health and looking one’s best is a good thing. ☺️🔥🔥
@@DurkaDur-bx4ks and that's okay, but don't complain when people aren't attracted to your messy behind.
@@DurkaDur-bx4ksThen they're succeeding! 🥳
@@IntoTheMusic87 Good. That's just what "they" would want you to think/say.
Okay, this was a stretch and I admire that. He nailed it too. All those wretched buzzwords and the ludicrous style of TED talks! 😃😂😅🤣 And the writers should take a bow as well.
He didn't nail it. This was the most boomer new rules ever. Completely out of touch with modern reality. He should try his own advice at places where people don't know who he is.
@@ranndino 🙄
I liked that he was making fun of Ted which is insufferable to me. I think his obsession with the youngest generation has lost its humor and I am nearly his age.
@@barrym2112 Agreed. Generational humor is pretty flabby-minded, and I'm older than Bill.
@@ranndinoor maybe it is a sign that modern reality should actually pay attention to those who came before and learn how they managed to succeed.
One of Bill's best New Rules in a LONG time! So freaking good. 😂😂😂
I get that a lot of women mock the shit out of nerdy guys, but why would any man want to date a woman who thinks that perfectly legitimate hobbies and interests are childish and stupid? That just seems like a recipe for more resentment and hatred.
Exactly. Why would you want to be with someone who clearly doesn’t even like you for who you are? Sounds like you’re setting yourself up for an abusive failure of a relationship.
@@nightmarishcompositions4536 Yeah. It seems like far better advice to look for someone who actually likes similar things, but not necessarily the exact same type. That can broaden your horizons a lot more than usual.
"Nerdy" guys? Or failure to launch guys who live in their parents' basement and play video games 24/7, often forgetting to bathe.
Because there is a major difference!!
Because guys with these kinds of hobbies often suffer from obsessive &/or juvenile dispositions. If you ever look up how these man children react to writers making any changes to their particular beloved franchise or read any of their views on the opposite gender you'll clearly see why the ladies avoid these lunatics at all cost. Major media conglomerates certainly haven't helped reign in these emotionally stunted individuals by continually making properties that were originally intended for children increasingly more adult oriented in really cynical &/or creepy ways.
@@IMAT01these guys should just eat better and start exercising for a quarter of the day and join together until women are dressing up like gandalf and reciting the silmarillion in high-elvish. They had better!
Such practical advice…so practical, in fact, it’s almost certain to not work on any girl under 40 now.
Spot on, says this single 75 year old broad.
cheers!
As a woman and a lifelong geek, let me tell you that the "act normal" part is almost entirely wrong. You be you, enjoy your hobbies and don't try to be someone you're not. There are plenty of nerdy girls out there who enjoy a night of rolling dices, my men.
THANK YOU! Poor Bill. Paying for his "dates" makes him so sadly weird on this topic.
If by "many" you mean .0001 percent, sure. You're dead on.
Btw, the guys who actually make you wet won't be saying things like "milady" and quoting Tolkien.
Unless your super gross, then yeah, get what ya can
I'm nerdy in different ways, but was thinking the same thing. There are a lot of women who enjoy L.A.R.P. and Ren Fairs and other stuff that many would find repellant or repugnant. To each his or her own. Moreover, there are plenty of women who'll respect and indulge a man's "foibles" when they are attracted to the man (attracted for several other reasons), and they'll enjoy their free time to do their own thing while the man is enjoying his hobby. All interests need not be shared to couple successfully. I'm a mature single woman. I'm geeky as a logophile, and in a few other ways. D&D and gaming aren't my interests, and I don't see myself with a man who is a big gamer (the other kind, with headset and chair, not Maher's G.A.M.E.r) nor a man into L.A.R.P. --but someone who enjoys group face to face game nights, or a range of other things I'm not already into, would not be excluded from consideration.
Um, no. The ratio of nerdy girls to guys playing dice and card games is 100 to 1. As a woman, you probably like those odds. But for the 99 guys you aren't dating that day, they need to pretend to not be interested in that stuff. It doesn't mean you can't be interested in that stuff, but that is 3rd date conversation after you've gotten laid. The first dates are about future plans, positive things happening etc. This goes for any hobby that isn't "normal", that doesn't play into you, as a man being a good parent, provider, and companion.
@@Medina-bk2fo I would appreciate the man to pick up the check on our date.
Legitimately refreshing.
I sent this to all my boys. Amazing job. Love it.
When million of people are having the same problems at the same time, problems which their fathers and grandfathers didn't have, the problem is probably not those individuals' fault.
Social Media will convince you of whatever you want.
If you don't like what others are saying you scroll on until someone tells you what you want to hear.
People used to say I'm not a victim, I'm a survivor.
Now everyone is a victim who doesn't think they're going to survive.
Life is hard, especially when you're comparing yours to everyone else's.
Succeeding is hard, if it was easy everyone would do it.
Saying no one has it harder than you does not come from deprivation it comes from expectations.
I feel sorry for the Internet generation because it makes it easier to lose hope when you're told there is none.
I'm not saying it's easy for you or dismissing your concerns, they're real and justified but the misconception that other generations all owned houses and lived the high life belies the truth of slums, projects, trailer parks and apartment buildings which have always been a part of life.😮
Your implication is a little reductive, but I agree it should be thought about.
Agreed.
just take bill's advice and stop making excuses.
@@brooklynebony best advice I've read in these comments so far. It's easier to blame others for your short comings that to look in the mirror at the ACTUAL reason. You.
Thank you, Bill. This was incredibly educational and informative.
Far as I recall, Bill does fine not stereotyping & generalizing other groups; why does he constantly do it with the younger generation?
Giving him the benefit of the doubt here, I think he's actually trying to help.
Maintain eye contact, THE WHOLE TIME!
Wrong! Are you a sociopath? Are you in some sick staring contest. You must be unemployed, basic conversation rules are beyond you.
The truth is that a lot of guys just aren't interested in dating anymore, especially considering all the effort, expectations, and occasionally nasty rejection they have to go through when they're expected to 'lead.'
Seems it's becoming more common for men to feel totally content with their job, video games, online communities, and an occasional fap. As a person who's worked in the tech industry for 7 years, I was surprised the first time I met someone who had zero interest in dating, but over time I realized that it's becoming more common. And no, that doesn't mean that all of the men in this group are unhealthy 'neckbeards' or incels, though I know those exist as an even smaller minority.
I'd imagine that a big part of the discrepency between the number of single men vs single women is that some of the guys who are really into dating have multiple girlfriends. They're more appealing, put in more effort, and hell, maybe they're the ambitious go-getters that are going to pass down their genes to future generations. Some folks just want to live and enjoy the life they prefer.
Gotta admit, it really is fascinating to see this happen as technology continues to advance though.
It's a two-way street, and both men and women need to put in some effort if they truly do care about eachother.
If some women become tired of every guy they date turning out to be a deuche, a narcissist, or a player, maybe it's time for it to become more common for women to be the one to reach out to a guy first. Want a good guy as a boyfriend, and tired of trying to change other people in vain? Maybe you'll have to find him instead of expecting him to be searching for you. Don't give up.
That's right. They are too lazy to make the effort.
If he's still getting laid it's only because he's got money.
I'd say it's because he's funny and intelligent.
@@kathywilkowski725 all three. Without the money its dry time for Bill.
@@kathywilkowski725With his height and face funny and intelligent doesn't get you very far with modern American women. Unfortunately.
@@ranndino#NotAllWomen How many have you met? Did you take a random sample, have at least 20 subjects in your control group and 20 in your test group?
Stop hating! Bill has been a player for decades.
This was epic!
This is the video I didn't know I needed. Thank you, Bill!
64% of us also don’t care. We’ve gone our own way and are tired of being shamed on TikTok for their OF content.
A TED talk,....one week after Jiminy Glick,....??? have we run out of ideas folks??
Bill ran out of new ideas in 2009.
I was always to shy. Then a friend told me this revelation "women they like it too." They dont want to be alone either.
Bill being the voice of reason again.
It’s incredible how many guys need to hear this.
The numbers don't lie but liars use numbers 🤓 🖕
Bill, you don’t get it?
Women of the same age group are marrying older men. Smarter than you thought, right?
Maybe it differs by city, but I very rarely see young women with significantly older men. Someone else commented on this video that the real reason for this discrepancy is that many young women think they’re in a relationship with a man, while the man is playing the field with multiple women and calling himself single.
theyve always done that
You watch too much screen. IRL? Doesn't happen except with rich men.
@@davidortega3393 good point
Sadly, with the way Western women act these days, a lot of young men no longer shivagit: they’ve completely checked out or moved overseas.
As an old man, I have no skin in the game, but even _I_ can see the handwriting on the wall. Why can’t Maher?
#NotAllWomen. As an old man, you're just talking.
Exactly. Because he's completely out of touch on this issue. He cleans up at Hollywood parties where attractive young women come to meet rich celebrities and thinks he's got mad game.
@@Medina-bk2foAt least he's in touch with reality unlike Maher on this issue.
@@Medina-bk2foas an unintelligent woman, that's all you're doing as well.
@drsingingeagle Couldn't agree more! @Medina-bk2fo clearly doesn't understand the concept of averages / overwhelming percentages. Nothing is black-and-white, and "Not all X" is the mantra of brain-dead contrarians bending over backwards to deny that no "X is Y" statement means literally 100%. Grow up.
One thing I'd add is to date at your level. A woman who's good-looking isn't going to date a guy who doesn't take care of himself physically. A woman with a PhD doesn't want a guy who's done nothing since high school.
Not worth it when watching adult entertainment more than compensates the needless stress jestermaxxing/beta buxxing for sub 5s who view themselves as 10s.
Bill wearing the new balance shoes at his Ted Talk on Game is priceless.
No Bill!! Don't help all these guys get 'Game'! I don't need any more competition. I've been doing just fine with my Game because I have already followed these concepts for years. Don't need more enlightening guys out there as competition. OMG Bill..
Yes don't help these douchbags. Guys like that make it easier for me. I have button down shirts, real shoes , real slacks. I groom & keep clean. But I'm married but I still keep up to not look homeless. And women sometimes talk to me! I converse & even flirt a bit. Sometimes without even trying. I'm 67 ,look 55 maintain my health & dont act like a douchbag!
As a young woman dating couldn't agree more. 😂😂😂
Bill once again proving that he knows nothing about modern dating
I bet he has had more dates then you. Look it up.
Show guest suggestion (before the election): Mary L. Trump (author)
Now, if you're not into alcohol, name one place you can actually go to try said GAME tactics without risking a sexual harassment case.
How about a coffee shop, a museum, a street fair, a music festival, a sport event etc?
Go to the places you like. If there are women there, then you at least have one thing in common. Volunteer at places that are important to you. Try conventions. If you like anime, seek out women at an anime convention. If you are giving up things that you enjoy to find a woman, then you are already disliking her.
It's a good thing that the fertility rate is down. The U.S.A. is overpopulated in most places, and most of the world is more populated than us.
You forgot stupider.
“just think about how stupid the average person is and realize that half of them are stupider than that”
Bill for President!!❤
Not like Maher knows anything about game, he just puts it on his Mastercard.
lol
Money is one of the cornerstones of game. Nothing gets a woman wetter than a fat wallet.
A lot of good points but if any stands out more than the others, I say it's "you won't be a great conversationalist right off the bat." Don't let perfect be the enemy of the good.
Also, for those will only see this as exclusively Bill's thoughts...do you know that he has a multi-generational writing and producing staff, including young adults, that weigh in the content for these editorials? (rhetorical question)
Oh yes, let's take dating advice from the perpetually single, never dating talk show host.
Great Ted talk Bill. Hope you do one for the ladies. It takes two to tango.
Nate
no one gives a sheet
@@Matt-ur2tbstay single PLEASE
i dont get why that its an issue let the lonely men be lonely , and let the guys with game impregnate a lot of women that has allways been the case, most women dont want most men i dont see the issue
Your formula leads to society-wide unhappiness.
That has not always been the case. Children need a father, sir. Living in the same home they grow up in.
@@darthnatas953 the dna studies say otherwise
@@terri6854 why do you care? if you and women do care about men like this then you shoukd make them feel welcome.
1- Women want babies.
2- Men want women.
3- Women don’t want men.
4- Proceed to step 1.
If a young woman looks for a good man over 30, she will have no problem finding one. Thus, most women in their 20s are not single.
I love it when traditional values Bill comes out to play. Dedicated bachelor for life, who doesn't like kids, and rightly understands there are far too many of us. Opens his presentation with fertility rate.😂
Oh yeah.. Wear a tie!
Hard to act normal when you are like me and have autism.
I wasn't personally offended by that remark, but I thought it sounded offensive to a huge chunk of those online who are divergent in one way or another. Really, his whole TED talk was one big "man up," which totally discounts/ignores how woman initiate 70 - 80% of all divorces, do so very often because they're bored, and then just about automatically get custody of the kids. More "manning up" is not going to change our unfair sentencing laws, unfair custody laws, and so much more.
On god. Plus, what constitutes as “normal” is a wide spectrum.
@@isaidpianissimo2475 --- "Woman initiate 70 - 80% of all divorces."
And 90% of men, on the other hand, just go out and cheat when they get bored.
@@Dayglodaydreams to rephrase, he probably meant to just be yourself and not pretend to be a fictional character
Just channel your superpower to do what he says here. You can do it.
It just reminds me that I'm happy to be married and past the dating stage. I love D&D and my wife is completely cool with it. But I did have to make a lot of effort and man up to get to that point, so there's hope at the end, fellow nerds.
What seems really weird to my is Maher's belief that he's seemingly convinced that "nerd culture" is still what it was decades ago. It's not.
Like, there are certain fandoms which have tons of women involved (e.g. there are lots of women who are into anime. no need to "hide" it (which seems like a bad idea to begin with) because it's possible to embrace these hobbies together).
The flip side of all this is that women did this to the men
They wanted men to be more sensitive and then realized that they can't stand it when they cry all the time
About a year ago I saw a female comedian talking about toxic masculinity where she pointed out that the things that women hate about men's men is also what they love about men's men
I.E. she pointed out that women want men who are strong and confident, but this also is what makes them arrogant
Now men are afraid to talk to talk to women because they are afraid of being cancelled or labelled a sexual harrasser
Sorry if I have offended the snow flakes out there, I group up in the 70's and am old school where men had the courage to be rejected and women didn't immediately reach for the pepper spray when a man told them that they were beautiful
To hell with the "smart" phone - people don't need to be online all the time.
Bill looks great in those clothes.
Good for you Bill, one more week without quoting Yahoo Finance. Or a therapist lobby magazine.
Now do one for women, no they are not perfect
I mostly agree with this… Lol it was funny for its comedic value but true for so many people I’m sure nerdy guys and girls can find each other the issue isn’t just having one action figure it’s the whole package and combination of manchild who owns action figures and still has posters on the walls like he’s 17 who looks immature and silly
“Hello.” “Why are you filming me for RUclips while saying get back creep!” It’s better to have lost your job than to never have given romance a shot. 😊❤️🩹😢
"Your shoes shouldn't look like Bathtub Toys" Hahahaha 😂😂😂😂😂😂!!!
I'm guessing there are quite a few out there who took offense to that after looking over at their shoes.
Yet Bill wear new balance during that segment. That's get women hot. 😂
I so hate crocs!
OMG, I will never own a pair of those hideous clodhoppers. If you own crocs, you are a lost soul and you've completely given up.
@@MentalD2000 He was portraying a typical TED Talk outfit. That was the joke
I know Bill Maher, says a lot of crazy stuff but, I wasn't expecting this, what a man.👍
When you have two sentences that can stand on their own and are connecting it with a conjunction (for, and, nor, but, or, yet, so), you must put a comma on the word before the conjunction.
Examples
Correct: Robert blushed in embarrassment, but the girls giggled in laughter.
Incorrect: Robert’s pants ripped, and tore straight through to his underwear.
Why: You do not need a comma here because Robert’s pants are the implied subject. The second half cannot stand by itself.
I'm here for it. I quite enjoy his humor 😅
@@reasonably.responsibleMe too! 😊 "G.A.M.E." makes perfect sense.✌️❤️🌼
"I don't have a girlfriend, I just know a woman who would get really mad if she heard me say that." -Mitch Hedberg
My man! An escalator can never break, it can only become stairs.
I almost broke a rib laughing when Mitch said that
“We need to first white board the issue so we can drill down on the game changing paradigm shift that really squeezes the juice out of a more goal-oriented approach that can move the needle.”
Every corporate talk ever!!!
With about a half dozen double -entrendres😂
Doesn't anyone speak English anymore! Whst a word salad of bs 😂
Horrible flashbacks to my working days.
at the end of the day
avoid clichés
It’s about making more money. Bottom line issues. Corporate has a tendency to pass expenses along to the client or public.
Once you stop chasing approval. The world is yours.
Agreed 👍
Qqq+qq++!+!+qq+!!@@lightwillprevail
As a long time Bill enthusiast. This is some of his best work. Well done Bill.
On tinder, men swipe yes on 51% of women. Women swipe yes on 5% of men.
@@erwind917 compete or quit
It was BRILLIANT! Simply hilarious but truthful 😊
You are an NPC 😢sorry
@@toddfoglia1882 NPC?
“You’re NOT THEM!” 😂😂😂
which are "3 words" according to Maher and his writers ... :/
@@sejuanisupportonly7385 - A contraction is, by definition, one word.
@@sejuanisupportonly7385 Maybe I'm dumb, but I count three words. Am I missing something?
Bill's thing should have been, to be accurate & honest & including himself (since he's the expert, ..I guess), 7 words. - "You Don't Have Their, ..Or My.., Money!" - Since that's what it's really all about.
@@ezra842 "You're" is TWO words, hence the apostrophe. You are not them == You're not them. FOUR words. :)
"The greatest pickup line is still "hello"" is one of the most profound things I've ever heard
I knows a Lionel Richie song that I think you would love
Try that on a dating app and see how far u get.
@@trydowavethat’s why it’s for real life…
@@trydowave He’s not talking about apps. That’s the point..
@@trydowave The whole point of this video is to actually....I know it sounds really odd and scary and profound...not use an app or your phone and talk to human beings in real life
I know that Bill is doing a bit here with the blue jeans and the black shirt, but it’s honestly a fucking great look for him. He looks fantastic.
Agree, he seems quite physically fit and actually looks like a lot of Silicon Valley tech bosses who run "campuses" instead of "offices" - perfect outfit for a TED parody
And this was an actually decent TED talk
I know right? My thought too.
His head fits his body. His scale is fine.
@@lolodee3528no it’s not. He has a huge head for his body. That’s actually a plus in tv and movies etc. To be a game show host it’s almost mandatory lol
That’s all he wears when at home dude😎. VOTE BLUE 💙💙💙💙🙏🏽✌️🌞❤️
If you wanna be with women, it's important that you like women.
Respecting women is the first step
@@The_R-n-I_Guy Bill's the last one to care about "respecting" women. You should see how he talks about them on his Club Random podcast. Besides, he said in his segment that douchebags are the ones who get women, and that's something he genuinely believes.
bullshit
@@ダニエル-x5dyep
And to treat them as human beings, with a basic sort of respect.
cringe.
How did they not call this ‘BILL and TED’??
Touche! Though, likely,
somebody surely sprach the words whilst seated at the writers' table. Yuk, yuk.
0:39 There was a WSJ article recently or some other newspaper that said that a lot of Gen Z women consider themselves to "be in a relationship" after they have gone out once with a guy. And that guy is usually going out with several different women but doesn't consider himself to be in a relationship with any of them.
I assumed it was just that they were dating older men, but that also makes sense. I’m guessing it’s a mix of both (over 20% difference is huge!)?
That's Chad for ya
In other words, what has always been that if a woman has low self esteem she will like a man with over inflated egos.
it's hypergamy. bill wants everyone to think it's not happening. There isn't an expert that doesn't think it's not happening. It's happening, and it's increasing. Societal collapse may change this. I thank god im not an incel but I have been for short periods and even that is horrid
@@vincentfalcone9218 And Tyrone.
I simply don't buy the "kids today aren't interested in sex".
They're just afraid.
Kids are simply too online. Guys are afraid of being "toxic" and the "girl boss" archetype isn't sexy to most guys.
There are NOT nearly as many "girl bosses" as men imagine. Plenty of girl EMPLOYEES, girl ASSISTANTS...not so many girl bosses--especially women in their 20s for god's sake! Like Maher said: GROW UP (& Get Real!)
Guys are very afraid of being falsely accused of some sort of sessual harassment just for saying hello.
@isaidpianissimo2475 I saw how false allegations took down a POPULAR US SENATOR, and people wonder why we are scared of interacting with women
@@isaidpianissimo2475 If you're not really physically attractive it's VERY risky to hit on random women.
I think real people haven’t changed that much it’s just they spend too much time on social media and their phones and simply think they have changed. Or at least, think they are supposed to be things they truthfully aren’t. In a world of self-ID etc, no wonder young generations don’t know how to communicate with one another. If you don’t know who or what you are - how can you expect anyone else?
The black t-shirt and jeans look is worth revisiting.🙂 Dude does not look 68.
Ageist
Honestly I like Bill, but, if you saw him in person you would not say that. He is old and wrinkled. You are forgetting the magic of TV. Strategic lighting and heavy makeup.
Its called having an easy, privileged life... sitting around talking and smoking d0pe.
@@bobbykiriakidis9753I mean sure, the guy is old, no one is saying that 20yo girls are going to start putting Up posters of him in their bedrooms, but he looks healthy for his age, I would sign being in that shape at 68 right now
yea he looks much older
I think Bill Maher is way off on what is really going on out here in the dating scene. Plus, he's not a married man and never will be, and his generation is not up to date. It almost sounds like he's been recruited to try to make men accept the irresponsibilities of women out here today. Last week was an attack on Tate and the Manosphere. Noted Tate isn't the best role model, but he wasn't lying about how young men and women are carrying on in society today. This week is a lesson on how to date women?? What women exactly, the ones pretending to be men and 304s with astronomical body counts?? And heard what he said, "women are feminists in theory" ??? In theory????...so he admits there's a double-standard women do and men are supposed to shut up and take it?? Well, it just tells us how much out of touch that he is with this crisis.
its fuking broken....men r sick if the B S.... hey ladies...keep up with the bs ...u will get old before u know it...your youth and beauty is short lived.
hes a freaking tool
@@Matt-ur2tbso is yours. I am already afraid of you. Stay home you sound like a real creep and an unstable one.
Not going to lie. Bill is right about everything and his approach to women is extremely attractive.
Bill has never heard of MGTOW?
Bill is doing Casual Friday in real time.
He's mimicking Ted Talker's dress , son.
Nice pun 😉
if the democrats didn't push a culture war onto boys and girls they wouldn't have disrupted the fertility rate.... but this was their intention all along
GIRLS: girl power, pink power, crack the glass ceiling, pay inequity, be a boss, lean in, get an abortion, birth control, dont cook, dont clean, be a queen, slay girlfriend, etc
BOYS: toxic masculinity, manspreading, mansplaining, rainbow agenda, drag queens, homosexuals, effeminate famous males, metrosexuals, manscaping, etc
the democrats have intentionally destroyed the fertility rate, because they are scared of climate change and global warming, overpopulation and overpollution
I feel like Bill is doing mark Zuckerberg at a Facebook meeting
Love Bill, but he needs to stop being famous and successful before he opines on this subject. Women hold all the cards and they do not want over 90 percent of men. It's not 1996 anymore.
Right. His little Lee/Depp joke, "You're not them!", should have included himself & been, "You don't have our millions & millions of dollars!"
Love this talk! Thanks Bill.
Wonder why Millenials and Gen Z are doom spending? Not getting married? Not starting families? Why is civil unrest growing while the wealth gap is larger than it ever has been in history?
First-time home ownership is OVER. "Starter home" are over 400k average income is 58k.
We've put in 77 bids in middle TN on first home and were outbid by cash investors EVERY TIME. Now, we're priced out due to price and mortgage rates.
It's because this economy is not for us, it never has been since we've been around. It priced us out and left us behind before we got here. This doesn't end well for society at every socioeconomic level..
I agree.
Excuses
That's certainly part of it, but what is the response to it? I don't mean to diminish our struggles and the factors that played into it though.
There have been countless moments and generations throughout history where things like "finding a partner or soulmate or lover" were extremely luxurious notions - the fact is, our society is changing and people are starting to realize the nature of marriage/courtship/relationships whatever you want to call it is changing too.
I’m in California. It’s way worse. I make decent money too. Can’t afford shit.
And GenX is the 1st to not have pensions plus fought 3 wars. Boomers fought in Vietnam. Their parents fought WW2 and Korea. Their grandparents fought WW1 and survived a depression. You think you have it worse than them? Hint: you don’t. Everybody had it tough somehow. Yet they still managed to find each other, get married and have kids.
It’s not lesbians, Bill, it’s that age group dating older men.
High value men get harems going on dating apps.
Women date older men until they get even older.
Yep, I love the 30's, they are orgasm machines the do it over and over and over until thirsty and tired, yet sometimes it happens earlier. We can give them what they want and it is more about them then ourselves.
It’s likely both, Didn’t something like 40% of Gen Z identify as queer? Also some of that is women dating the same man.
This isn't rocket science. In recent times, women have had their pick of the litter. It's biology...
Take it from the shyest guy in the world! If you don't take the risk of rejection you'll never experience the rewards!!
So true!!!
@thatgirlkells5505 not mine 🤓🖕
Where are you supposed to meet single women in real life!?
@@MatthewTheWandererthey're never, ever single. There's always 10 guys in their phones they either talk to or hook up with.
@@modickens1272 So, what are we supposed to do, then!?
"Women are humans, and they want you to listen."
That was my TED talk, thank you.
But they keep saying stupid things.
More like, they want you to do nothing but listen, ad nauseam.
@@lockywolf__2181… probably the stupidest thing I’ve read today - well done.
Yes and we heard; they rather be near bears than the majority of average men. Unless you are Tyrone or Chad don't bother with them beyond common curtesy. Honestly being none select is a blessing since it means more money/less stress too bad some men can't recognize the blessing in disguise.
Literally no female I know can hold a conversation with me for even an hour. They're all miserable, can't answer simple questions and just in general don't have anything going on with their lives. I'm VERY attentive and have proven on more than one occasion to know more about someone than the person in question. Trust me, the problem is NOT that women don't get attention or care.
Another important thing is to find women that actually share the same interests as you. I’ve met tons of really cool girls that love video games, fantasy books, comics, rock music, cartoons, etc. It’s really not that hard or rare lol.
Yes, those are the best. I love meeting women that are also huge movie fans like me.
It's pretty telling that this WISDOM didn't even occur to Maher - great point!
My sis and I both met our spouses at sci fi conventions. We ain't the only ones by a long shot.
Good , practical advice 😉
Depends on your generation and location. It's pretty rare to find Gen X women into games. Especially where I live. Granted I live in a terrible place to find women, Las Vegas, people here are into lame stuff like gambling, alcohol, and pot.
Take a closer look at modern women as well, Bill. These aren't the same women from the 70's, 80's, and 90's.... They've changed.
Dating. Dating has changed.
(This is a Metal Gear Solid reference)
Yeah. I'm O.L.D..
if the democrats didn't push a culture war onto boys and girls they wouldn't have disrupted the fertility rate.... but this was their intention all along
GIRLS: girl power, pink power, crack the glass ceiling, pay inequity, be a boss, lean in, get an abortion, birth control, dont cook, dont clean, be a queen, slay girlfriend, etc
BOYS: toxic masculinity, manspreading, mansplaining, rainbow agenda, drag queens, homosexuals, effeminate famous males, metrosexuals, manscaping, etc
the democrats have intentionally destroyed the fertility rate, because they are scared of climate change and global warming, overpopulation and overpollution
@@robertacomstock3655 they've always been the same.. now they just have attention overload.
50 years is nothing. People are the same as they've always been.
You have to entirely change who you are and deny all your passions and hobbies just to get a girl? Ummm... no thanks.
You wanna get some? Grow your WALLET. Frankly, it's the only thing women TRULY care about
Plenty of women are stuck with a guy who just can't seem to keep a job (and now can't seem to get one!), so yanno what? that wallet thing is actually REALLY important. Not the only thing of course, but definitely #1 priority if you want a long term relationship.
Says the man who has never maintained a relationship
Why should he when he gets laid on a regular basis.
Valid. Also the 63% single men and the 34% single women... He's an older promiscous Hollywood celebrity. He knows exactly why the younger women are not "single".
I wouldn’t go to a man who settled down with his first girlfriend for tips on getting laid, I wouldn’t go to a man who isn’t married for tips on getting a wife. Luckily for bill he isn’t giving advice on getting into a lifelong relationship genius, he said in the first 20 seconds of the fake Ted talk that it’s about getting laid. If you want advice on making a girl settle for you for life this isn’t the place for you lol
Well, I can't get a girlfriend either, but I don't blame Biden; I blame my wife.
Some people miss the whole point of what he’s saying. I’m glad a man did this sketch. Just the facts
Once every few months Maher, who i mostly like and I think he have a great sense of humor, come across like a boring boomer who doesn't know what he's talking about. I know this was supposed to be a funny sketch, but it's pretty lame, lazy and not correct. Maher really thinks that men who collect action figures and don't wash too often really want a girlfriend or relationship? Who is he talking to? 7 year olds? Men have completely different problems in terms of getting a girl than his stereotipical examples. There is problem with men, but on more psychological level and also there is problem with women nowadays. Also, there are a lot of girls today that are heavily into for example anime culture etc. They don't mind a guy who is collecting action figures. They like a man with a passion, whatever this passion is. Bill is quite good when he is analyzing political and geopolitical affairs, he is good and mostly right (also being funny at the same time) about social issues and culture war, but his weak point is men-women relationships. He has lived so far away from normal life for so long that he has simply no idea what's going on in the sphere today. But I must admit that doing this like a TED Talk parody was a great idea.
Gen Zers turned this off within 30 seconds, they don't want to hear anything from a Boomer.
Yeah, boomers still believe we are slaves and that the government has the right to send us to a war😂😂
0:32 Because all the women are sleeping with the same man..
Bingo!
exactly and there is nothing wrong with that
@@chesterbelleWomen acting like prostitutes and asking from men to treat them like ladies 😂. Nothing wrong with that?
Exactly. I won't say it's wrong. It's just times have changed. No longer does a woman have to settle for an ugly dude just to keep from starving to death. She can make her own money to survive and go after the good looking men. Good looking men are scoring left and right in this country. It's tough for us not blessed with good looks. I was doing fairly well, but my girl lost her drive after menopause, so I'm in a bad position right now.
It's also because people just bullshit, lie and exaggerate about their situations.
This is BS.
To guys about paying for a date:
If you have a good feeling, pay up.
If you don't think you will see each other again, split.
If she is on a lot of dates just for somebody to buy her dinner, split. Don't let her use you.
If she talks about the patriachy and the importance of feminism, she should pay everything. Break the mold.
Women dont date to get free dinners
LMFAO, keep rubbing those pennies together. I know many women that would show you where to shove your money.
@@charlottesmith2439
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"My concern would be she felt the need to talks about the patriarchy and the importance of feminism", like duh, I would feel insulted that she felt the need to say so. OK, she thinks I do not think females can be humans too??
@@charlottesmith2439 Dump those ones
He didn’t pay off my student loans…and “game” doesn’t work on these women now adays. They don’t care
I think this is all funny Bill, but most men under 30 are not dating, because they don't have money -- and unlike probably 30 or 40 years ago, not having money now won't get you dates. :-)
“She wants you to spell the alphabet with your tongue….” Hilarious!!!!!!!😂😂😂😂😂
He stole that line from Sam Kennison. It was one of the best standup bits of all time. RIP Sam 😢.
and true! come on!!
It really wasn't that funny lol
Was an homage, not bit theft
the last woman I approached threatened to mace me. never again
Bill comes off like a guy that hasn't been in the game for fifteen years here.
Not everyone needs to marry and have children.
Children aren’t pets…they’re complicated and require two parents who are devoted to their welfare…JFC!
@@Dayglodaydreams and those people shouldn't take his advice.
Bill is proof of that, as he has no kids. How about considering that this is for people who are interested in the subject, and care about society?
True. Not everyone has to date either, especially considering what a disastrous toxic mess the modern dating scene has become.
Exactly. If only I could think of an example. Say someone who has a talk show on HBO. Someone giving outdated advice while not being married or having kids...
Thanks so much for Martin Short last week. I laughed so hard I peed, and it felt so good.
He's the guest host on Jimmy Kimmel this week. He's hilarious.
Thanks for sharing, diaper dude.
@@MarvinThiessenmen don't speak this way. Clearly a woman. And someone who probably nodded approvingly at this segment
Wow Bill is sooooo far out of touch with what modern dating actually is nowadays 😅 Honestly he's become more of an arrogant asshole than I've ever seen before, Also I'd like to mention that it's not just young men that have problems, Young women have their own issues that are just as irritating and concerning but nobody ever mentions it unfortunately 😂
Bill Maher, still funny after all these decades!
Yas, , and still funny if he would stop complaining about "woke" (whatever that is ),,...
Are you the guy they planted in the audience
@@HrtlessCloud LMFAO 🤣
He has writers you know, whom he has hired.....
still crazy after all these years. Paul Simon
This was one of the most out of touch takes yet, Bill...
Bill says a lot of truth in this.
The student loans got turned down then he tried to pay off my student loans and it got turned down again it’s illegal. There’s not one student loan getting paid off so stop lying.
Brilliant dating advice for the average young man struggling to settle down and start a family in an economy largely ruined by boomers... from an unmarried, childless multimillionaire in his 60s.
Yup. Who has a reputation of hiring women for "services". Hard pass.
@@drg19841There's nothing wrong with that as long as he doesn't claim to have mad game that would work for an average guy.
@@ranndino well said.
Do you think he got anything wrong?
@@YaelOrel it's the sage wisdom of hunting tips from a vegan.