What Is Asexuality?

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  • Опубликовано: 18 май 2022
  • What is asexuality? Glad you asked! Someone who is asexual or “Ace” doesn’t experience sexual attraction and/or doesn’t desire sexual contact but may be interested in a romantic relationship. Asexuality is a healthy sexual orientation, just like being gay or straight.
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Комментарии • 83

  • @amazeorg
    @amazeorg  2 года назад +54

    Sometimes people who are asexual identify as ‘ace’, and often they still date and have romantic and emotional relationships. Other people identify as aromantic, sometimes called ‘aro,’ which is when a person doesn’t have romantic feelings for other people and are likely not interested in dating.
    What’s important to know is that people who are asexual or aromantic are not broken and don’t need to be fixed. Being ace or aro is just another sexual orientation, and it is totally normal, just like any other orientation. Remember, sexual orientation is a spectrum, and it can change as we grow and learn more about ourselves and the world around us.

  • @jaydee4697
    @jaydee4697 2 года назад +43

    I didn't come out of the closet; I came out of the deck. 'Cause that's where the aces are.
    Great video! I may end up sending the link to people who don't understand me when I say I'm ace.

    • @josha254
      @josha254 3 месяца назад +1

      Haha, nice one!

  • @TheDemonAscended
    @TheDemonAscended 2 года назад +87

    I’m aromantic. Not asexual, but a few of my friends are. I love seeing acespec videos
    Edit: I am asexual

    • @kinny6823
      @kinny6823 2 года назад +7

      Awesome! I’m also aro, not ace. Aspec vids are interesting to me lol, I need to learn more about myself and others!

    • @amazeorg
      @amazeorg  2 года назад +11

      That's AMAZING! Thanks for sharing this video with your friends.

    • @cattlex
      @cattlex 2 года назад +5

      same

  • @greenbeantm1096
    @greenbeantm1096 2 года назад +50

    As an ace person, this was an amazing explanation

    • @HawkThunder907
      @HawkThunder907 Год назад +1

      I'm too an ace, a pilot ace!

    • @greenbeantm1096
      @greenbeantm1096 Год назад

      @@HawkThunder907 if you don’t mind me asking, what’s a pilot ace? I tried googling it but found nothing.

    • @HawkThunder907
      @HawkThunder907 Год назад

      @GreenBeanTM the Red Baron was a pilot ace for example.

  • @trombonesarecool1
    @trombonesarecool1 Год назад +11

    I’m aroace, and this is amazing! So many people think that asexual means that you don’t have any sexual attraction, but it differs between everybody! I hope more people find this video.

    • @amazeorg
      @amazeorg  Год назад +2

      I'm glad you liked it!

  • @corebelle
    @corebelle 2 года назад +26

    Just to clear one thing up, in the video you said (referring to asexual people) ‘they just don’t have a drive to be sexual in the way most people do’. I suppose this could be interpreted in different ways. Do you mean they don’t feel a drive to be sexual, as in a drive to be sexual with a specific person? Which is essentially saying they don’t experience sexual attraction, which would be correct (at least for asexual people, not everyone on the a-spec though). Or do you mean they simply just don’t have a drive to be sexual, which is the way I found it came across, because that would be incorrect. Asexual people do have a libido/a sex drive, they just don’t experience sexual attraction. Think about it this way, libido is a bit like hunger, as in you are not craving any specific food, you are just hungry in general. Sexual attraction on the other hand would be a craving for a specific food. In this analogy, hunger would be a general sex drive and craving a certain food would be feeling sexual attraction (which would be to a specific person). Though asexual people may have a drive to be sexual in general, they won’t feel a drive/attraction to be sexual with a specific person. I hope this clears things up a bit, it’s something people often get wrong about asexuality.

    • @amazeorg
      @amazeorg  2 года назад +12

      Hi Analyn! Your comment is very informative, and I hope our pinned comment provides more clarity!

  • @moonless3843
    @moonless3843 2 года назад +9

    Sending this to my mom so she'll hopefully understand me being ace

  • @themessiah..
    @themessiah.. Год назад +7

    I'm aromatic and asexual and my mother just does not understand it

    • @amazeorg
      @amazeorg  Год назад +2

      Hi Dakota, I'm sorry that they are not understanding you. You can try to share this link with them for more information. amaze.org/video/sexual-orientation-what-is-asexuality/

  • @zoltanvilliger3868
    @zoltanvilliger3868 2 года назад +12

    I'm an "Aroace" person that means I'm aromantic and asexual that means I don't want to fall in love and I don't like romantic things

  • @Koleyl
    @Koleyl 2 года назад +12

    Thank you now I do believe I am an asexual and I'm okay with it. Thanks for doing this video. It's okay to have romantic feelings and not having sexual desires. But I do hope to find someone one day.

  • @the_diminished_sixth
    @the_diminished_sixth 2 года назад +20

    As an ace who hates chocolate, this was perfect for me 👌🏼

  • @sunsetsav
    @sunsetsav 2 года назад +6

    I know I am very late, but could you guys do a video on demisexuality? I feel like a lot of people don't really understand me and I always have to explain.

  • @wishingstar1980
    @wishingstar1980 2 года назад +6

    I appreciate the attempt, but the definition conflates attraction with desire. Asexuality is an Orientation where the person experiences little to no SEXUAL ATTRACTION or desire for sexual contact. And the description that Asexual people still feel romantic attraction is a missed opportunity to give space to the large number of Asexual people who are also Aromantic. I appreciate the attempt to educate, but you have a very large platform and this conflating of attraction and desire is harmful.

    • @amazeorg
      @amazeorg  2 года назад +4

      Hi Aubri, thank you for your comment. I hope our pinned comment clears up any confusion. You are correct, attraction and desire are not the same.

  • @tylerketchum
    @tylerketchum Год назад +2

    Alt title: what is garlic_bread_lovers

  • @0MN1AC3JESS
    @0MN1AC3JESS 2 года назад +6

    I’m panace

  • @mx.menacing
    @mx.menacing 2 года назад +4

    Great video, thanks for sharing!

  • @Alexis_luvs_u
    @Alexis_luvs_u Месяц назад

    I don’t necessarily know if I’m asexual, but I do know that In relationships I am mainly about romance and have little desire for anything sexual. If I were to have a sexual desire for somebody, it would have to be with someone that I truly connect with and see a future with.

  • @odessawales
    @odessawales Год назад +3

    I'm demisexual.

  • @arlojacare6034
    @arlojacare6034 2 года назад +5

    hey, maybe you could talk about what to do after coming out to your parents? i came out for my mom about being transgender today. she was very quiet about it and i dont want we to pretend this never happenned, but i don't have an idea of how i'm going to talk about it with her. i know it takes time to accept, but i dont really know if she accepted me or not...

    • @amazeorg
      @amazeorg  2 года назад +4

      Hi Arlo, I'm sorry that you are experiencing this. It may take some time for your parents to be supportive. In the meantime, are there any other adults you could reach out to for comfort or support? If you need more support, check this video: ruclips.net/video/ITRdvGnplLU/видео.html

    • @arlojacare6034
      @arlojacare6034 2 года назад +2

      @@amazeorg also, thank you for sending this video!! i loved it!

    • @amazeorg
      @amazeorg  2 года назад +2

      You're Welcome 💜

  • @aaronsaunders6974
    @aaronsaunders6974 Месяц назад

    The distinction between abstinence and asexual is really useful

    • @QWERTY-gp8fd
      @QWERTY-gp8fd Месяц назад

      practically no difference.

    • @normanreviewsgames698
      @normanreviewsgames698 10 дней назад

      @@QWERTY-gp8fd Uh there is a tremendous difference.

    • @QWERTY-gp8fd
      @QWERTY-gp8fd 10 дней назад

      @@normanreviewsgames698 there is none.

    • @normanreviewsgames698
      @normanreviewsgames698 10 дней назад

      @@QWERTY-gp8fd Sure there is. Abstinence simply means that one is not partaking in sex. Asexual means that one does not feel sexual attraction.

    • @QWERTY-gp8fd
      @QWERTY-gp8fd 10 дней назад

      @@normanreviewsgames698 so where is the difference? u are not having sex in both.

  • @Adishakti18
    @Adishakti18 2 года назад +8

    Hey , i like ur videos very much

  • @parisagh7966
    @parisagh7966 2 года назад +5

    Excellent, keep going ✌️

  • @AlejandroRodriguez-lh4we
    @AlejandroRodriguez-lh4we Год назад +1

    I use to think asexuals were in to the letter A

  • @asheditzz
    @asheditzz Год назад +5

    This is very poggers
    I'm aroace and this video is awesome 👌

  • @EpicDreamer_
    @EpicDreamer_ 2 года назад +8

    Beautiful video!

  • @silvaroo
    @silvaroo Год назад +4

    FINALLY!!!

  • @DWitherAlpha
    @DWitherAlpha 8 месяцев назад +2

    Best explanation mam

  • @lh9362
    @lh9362 Год назад +1

    Thank you so much!

  • @Gen_theatre
    @Gen_theatre Год назад +1

    Im using this to explain what asexuality is and it explains it perfectly!

  • @Neth_n
    @Neth_n 2 месяца назад

    Now I know I am asexuele

  • @Abigailwiththememeshow
    @Abigailwiththememeshow 9 месяцев назад +2

    I'm a 12 year old teen this I'm also asexual

  • @leo-unddieAnderen
    @leo-unddieAnderen Год назад +1

    This is somewhat stupid. I find it a ridiculous analogy. Makes no sense.

  • @LGBTGROOMSOURCHILDREN
    @LGBTGROOMSOURCHILDREN 7 месяцев назад +20

    This is so depressing to see the number over people actually believing they are asexual, humans are sexual we do not split to reproduce. Its ok to not have a strong sexual desire, stop feeling the need to make up labels to deal with your personal issues.

    • @LittlesadSeb
      @LittlesadSeb 2 месяца назад +18

      it's what ppl think they and what makes them comfortable you can't decide what they are or what they need to be and no need to support it just respect it .OK?

    • @SleepyMelody_Zzz
      @SleepyMelody_Zzz 2 месяца назад +24

      I genuinely am asexual. Cry about it

    • @LittlesadSeb
      @LittlesadSeb 2 месяца назад +3

      @@SleepyMelody_Zzz cool bro:3

    • @SleepyMelody_Zzz
      @SleepyMelody_Zzz 2 месяца назад +3

      @@LittlesadSeb :3

    • @LittlesadSeb
      @LittlesadSeb 2 месяца назад +3

      @@SleepyMelody_Zzz >:3

  • @Flyingdutchmanda
    @Flyingdutchmanda Месяц назад

    HA am straight am normal😂😂

    • @AgentSocks
      @AgentSocks 7 дней назад

      “heh.. I feel so sigma.. time to release my inner gen alpha!!”