Sarah Anderson Yes people’s names absolutely matter. Grammar cop. Also people are human and make mistakes and don’t get crucified for it. Have a wonderful day 🙄
Right? It's so sudden. She'll be talking normally then pause for a second, then next thing you know her voice change her face change and now she got tears down her face.
I feel you Adrienne. You set your standard for what YOU define as mediocre and in this society, people throw the word “basic” around pretty loosely and that’s what this made me think of when it comes to certain ppls appearance, lifestyle and standard of living 🙄 Miss me with that. I will continue to allow God to elevate me at the right time and in the meantime keep striving for greatness. Also Loni, you did a great job as MC @ the Essence Fest! I was there Saturday night when Michelle Obama hit the main stage and had an amazing time!
They need to stop talking over each other! That being said- I LOVED loni’s message at the end. It spoke volumes to me and definitely to many other viewers. Everyone is doing their best 🙏🏻
Loni was on point here. Especially in the beginning, everyone won’t have the opportunity or means to do things. For example, I want to be a writer/filmmaker one day. But I may not ever be the A-list, big blockbuster type. And that’s okay. It doesn’t mean my work or talent is not valid or appreciated. You gotta be happy with yourself wherever you are.
So glad Loni + Adrienne really enabled this convo to go deeper than the direction where Jeannie, whose opinions I still enjoy hearing, was going b/c this was grounded in reality for most people rather than a humble brag about how they're not mediocre at xyz. This is The Real I want!
Sometimes striving for the BEST will stress you out to the point of exhaustion or a stroke. By the time you get half way to BEST you’re too tired to enjoy it. Just try to achieve your personal best and know that’s good enough. If that makes sense
I feel like the topic isn’t necessarily about us being mediocre but more so how we feel about society looking at us or putting a label on a certain type of person based off of certain things that are seen or given from us... like if you want to call me mediocre cuz what I do isn’t your cup of tea... that’s cool ! But realize that nasty and jealous attitude is just as mediocre... so let’s start there !
Loni that message is real. I set very high standards for myself and I never want to be mediocre but I also don’t stress myself out if things don’t go according to plan. It’s a balance. I loved this message.
Thank you Loni I NEEDED this!!!!! 😭😭😭😭 Life has been SO hard and I feel exactly how you said like I can't catch a break. Every day I wake up and I'm pushing through with my kids trying to stay positive, but at night when they are sleeping I crumble and cry.
@Lisa Henderson thank you so much!!!! You know sometimes we block our minds even though we're pushing we block our minds to think positive I needed to hear those words thank you
@@margaritamendoza4285 thank you!!! I will keep that in mind, that's why iv tried to stay strong because I know it's temporary. Some days are just harder than others. But God is good and I trust him
I needed this message today. I have been trying and trying so hard for the wrong reasons, and what y'all have said here has made me completely switch my mindset. Thank you thank you thank you, for this 💜
What Loni hit me so hard. I’ve flunked out of college many times and I feel like my life isn’t going anywhere. I’m working so hard now and I have faith someone will notice me. Thank you Loni.
Loved this. I'm currently trying to start a business but been so scared to not be good enough. Damn Loni making me cry😭 but your words are inspiring and makes me want to work harder to achieve my dreams! 💕😍👠📸
Mishila Ashlyn me too sis! I actually just said gonna stop this week and just accept my life. I want to go forward but it seems like the efforts are in vain! But I’m crying like no I gotta keep pushing! Push sis! Let’s push together!
Awww thank you guys this uplifted me. Love you Loni! 🤗 😍😘 Thats why I love this show you guys bring me back to reality with how real you are. Love you guys so much. God bless! 🤗
I feel like the way people put each other in a box is what frustrates me even more... like who says I have to be like this one or sing like that one or do something like him over there, why can’t I just be me... we need to work on supporting and uplifting one another instead of comparing and tearing down one another !
i really needed this😭 thank you so much. i’m currently doing 11th grade & i’ve gone thru soooo much in the last couple of months that i felt like whatever i did was not good enough 😔 when Loni said that “somebody is going to notice you” , i FELT that cause i’m really trying my level best. THIS MESSAGE WILL FOREVER RING IN MY HEAD WHENEVER I FEEL LIKE GIVING UP. 😭😭❤️❤️ and by the way, i freaking love the show
I was waiting for this segment! This was so profound! I loved it! I'm so in love with those ladies! The love between them is so pure and genuine ! They support each other so much ! 🙏😍😘Thank you ladies for inspiring us! You guys are truly amazing! 😘
Man they are so empowering! I love the real! I love all of y’all! Keep striving and believing that what you are doing is for the best of you and not for nobody else!! ❤️❤️👏🏻👏🏻
Loni message is amazing. Seriously don’t focus on peoples opinion keep doing you and strive for the best you can be. Don’t set your goals based on others opinion
I love it when Loni demonstrates vulnerability! ❤️✨ I'm a single mom of 3 in Graduate school trying to figure out life before I reach the top of the hill. Loni this was A WORD! 👏🙏 And I RECEIVE it! 😘
Don’t allow anyone to make you feel less than. Just pay attention to you and do what fulfills you. Make decisions that are truly going to make you happy, not to impress family or friends.
I love this talk ladies! Such a real refreshing and transparent conversation. Loniiiiiii, thank you for the encouragement! I'm 25 and I feel l I'm not where I need to be but I'm striving daily. I will continue to give my best!
Definitely needed to hear that word Loni..if you're wondering if anyone out here caught what you were serving up, just know a Mom, who's building her own business, Workin on her marriage, has two kids and about to deliver two more.. just know I heard you. I appreciate you. I'm a HUGE fan of yours and I pray one day I get to be a part of the audience at The Real. ❤️❤️❤️
How do you even judge whether someone is mediocre or not? You have to compare them to someone else, and that is the thief of joy. Measure your life by standards YOU have set. What looks a like a blessing to someone else, might be a burden to you. What do YOU want? Why do you want it? If the answer is because so and so has it, or because people will think less of me if I don’t have it, then you need to realign your priorities. Pursue your peace. Just because the world calls something great doesn’t mean it is. It’s okay if you feel like you’re okay without all the fluff. You go be happy and show gratitude for what you have. Enjoy your life. Just felt like someone needed to read this.❤️❤️❤️
They should’ve let Jeannie talk more. There is absolutely a difference between being mediocre and trying your best. I feel Jeannie 100% because there are some things in your life that you are completely comfortable with being mediocre at because they’re not your passion. But when you are passionate about your work, marriage kids, etc, you should always strive to be your best. Even with the example that Loni was giving about the mechanic - if he couldn’t open the shop bc he didn’t have the money, he’s not mediocre! He’s trying his best and one day his hard work will pay off because he has the passion to open up his own shop. People have to realize that if you’re passionate enough about something, you will never be okay with being mediocre. You just gotta find what your passion is, and what you’re great at doing.
Everyone is so wrapped up with competing with the rest of the world that it becomes all too consuming and overly stressful. At the end of the day it should really only be 'you versus you'.
It's so sad that Loni cried but I believe that this was more about the things that she has not been able to accomplish as a comedian and I feel for her. Her encouragement was not just towards people, but for herself. She has always wanted more in that field and her colleagues surpassed her.😔
THANK YOU LONI! I NEED THIS AND I AM CRYING THERE TOO. I GOT SO BROKEN THREE YEARS AGO REALLY REALLY BAD BY LOTS OF MEN AND IM STILL STRIVING TO FIND REMNANTS OF ME THAT I HEAR OF PEOPLES DESCRIPTION OF THE ME BEFORE THAT I DONT REMEMEBR FOR MYSELF. AND I PROBABLY FEEL LIKE A SCRUB OR A LOSER WHEN I USED TO BE SO SUCCESSSFUL, I AM NEVER HEARD AND ALWAYS DISMISSED CUZ IM MENTALLY ILL.. BUT IM STILL BREATHING, IM FINDING MYSELF AGAIN. #IAmHangingInThereTOO XOXO
Sometimes you have to realize that you're just not there yet. It doesn't mean you'll never get there. More time the people calling you basic are failures themselves. I totally agree that it's an opinion
Awwww Lonnie! She’s always thinking about people that are struggling because she’s been there. So inspiring. Thank you Lonnie ♥️😭
Ingrid I agree. But her name is "Loni"
Aysel Novruzova Ok grammar cop 🙄😂
I love that Loni always thinks about everyday people.
@@ingrid8994 it's not about being a grammar cop, people's names matter.
Sarah Anderson Yes people’s names absolutely matter. Grammar cop. Also people are human and make mistakes and don’t get crucified for it. Have a wonderful day 🙄
Loni always relating it to the average person and I love that!
Yes, and because she's the oldest on the show too.
Loni catches me off guard when she starts crying, we love you loni ❤️
A typical trait of a cancer...it's us poking outside of our shell
Right? It's so sudden. She'll be talking normally then pause for a second, then next thing you know her voice change her face change and now she got tears down her face.
BecomingTia But a lot of cancers are extremely self absorbed, like Tamera, Amanda Seales and Wendy Williams for example.
@@BecomingTia I legit thought you meant cancer, the illness, i was scared
I feel you Adrienne. You set your standard for what YOU define as mediocre and in this society, people throw the word “basic” around pretty loosely and that’s what this made me think of when it comes to certain ppls appearance, lifestyle and standard of living 🙄 Miss me with that. I will continue to allow God to elevate me at the right time and in the meantime keep striving for greatness.
Also Loni, you did a great job as MC @ the Essence Fest! I was there Saturday night when Michelle Obama hit the main stage and had an amazing time!
They need to stop talking over each other!
That being said- I LOVED loni’s message at the end. It spoke volumes to me and definitely to many other viewers. Everyone is doing their best 🙏🏻
3:12 "Guys we're in our fifth season and we don't even have Kleenex" 😂😂😂
Right tho?? 🤣🤣🤣
@@bsbgirl85 Kim Kardashian, Kevin Hart, and Mel B are D-List guests?
Alexia Spiteri Kevin Hart is A list, although he wasn't on the show really. They filmed him on location.
@@zora99ny kim k and mel b are tho
@@as19J01 jlo as well
Loni was on point here. Especially in the beginning, everyone won’t have the opportunity or means to do things. For example, I want to be a writer/filmmaker one day. But I may not ever be the A-list, big blockbuster type. And that’s okay. It doesn’t mean my work or talent is not valid or appreciated. You gotta be happy with yourself wherever you are.
Even Queen Bey’s Freckles have DREAMS! Lol ❤️💯❤️
Ricardo Cintron lmaaoo🤣 this made my day thanks♥️
Lonnie gurl u make me so damn emotional when u cry. I legit cant not cry if u crying.
So true! ♥️
So glad Loni + Adrienne really enabled this convo to go deeper than the direction where Jeannie, whose opinions I still enjoy hearing, was going b/c this was grounded in reality for most people rather than a humble brag about how they're not mediocre at xyz. This is The Real I want!
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I love how passionate Adrienne is here 💖
It’s also a breathe of fresh air to hear them talk about this!
Sometimes striving for the BEST will stress you out to the point of exhaustion or a stroke. By the time you get half way to BEST you’re too tired to enjoy it. Just try to achieve your personal best and know that’s good enough. If that makes sense
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Delayva love it!
Absolutely!
When Loni gets real, she gets real. Always representing people who are working hard to get out of the struggle
I feel like the topic isn’t necessarily about us being mediocre but more so how we feel about society looking at us or putting a label on a certain type of person based off of certain things that are seen or given from us... like if you want to call me mediocre cuz what I do isn’t your cup of tea... that’s cool ! But realize that nasty and jealous attitude is just as mediocre... so let’s start there !
👍yuup👏RIGHT
Loni that message is real. I set very high standards for myself and I never want to be mediocre but I also don’t stress myself out if things don’t go according to plan. It’s a balance. I loved this message.
I agree with Loni with whatever you're doing....it will be recognized the time it should be.
If I saw Adrienne while grocery shopping, I would definitely say hi and talk to her and get a pic ☺️
I love this side of loni😩❤️❤️❤️ik she hates to show her emotional side but it’s ok to it’s normal😭
Loni has be crying my eyes out! Such a great message - and one that I really needed to hear today. Love this show ❤️
Thank you Loni I NEEDED this!!!!! 😭😭😭😭 Life has been SO hard and I feel exactly how you said like I can't catch a break. Every day I wake up and I'm pushing through with my kids trying to stay positive, but at night when they are sleeping I crumble and cry.
@Lisa Henderson thank you so much!!!! You know sometimes we block our minds even though we're pushing we block our minds to think positive I needed to hear those words thank you
It's ok to cry we are all human ❤ please remember all situations are temporary nothing is permanent. You got this mama!
@@margaritamendoza4285 thank you!!! I will keep that in mind, that's why iv tried to stay strong because I know it's temporary. Some days are just harder than others. But God is good and I trust him
@@rosaazul88 so true! trust the journey you will get there. Each day is a blessing in some way. ❤🙏
I love Ms. Loni. She has such a big heart.
Loni yes! Thank you. A message to the regular people out there trying hard, she didn't make it about herself. Great message Loni.
God bless Loni that was a beautiful message when they finally let her talk
Adrienne is the realest person ever. Love her. She cracked me up with the “d-list celebrity”. She’s far from mediocre ❤️
I needed this message today. I have been trying and trying so hard for the wrong reasons, and what y'all have said here has made me completely switch my mindset. Thank you thank you thank you, for this 💜
Ugh. These ladies get me everytime. I always feel like I'm sitting right there talking and crying with them. 💕 Pass the paper towels please. ♥️😭💋♥️
How can loni cry and make people laugh at the same time?? 'are u sure u didn't spit in this?' 'where u got that from?' 😂😂😂 3:05
What Loni hit me so hard. I’ve flunked out of college many times and I feel like my life isn’t going anywhere. I’m working so hard now and I have faith someone will notice me. Thank you Loni.
Yes! Some of us needed to hear that. Thank you Lonnie and Adrienne!❤️
My Adrienne! Always speaking THE TRUTH!!! ❤
Loved this. I'm currently trying to start a business but been so scared to not be good enough. Damn Loni making me cry😭 but your words are inspiring and makes me want to work harder to achieve my dreams! 💕😍👠📸
Mishila Ashlyn me too sis! I actually just said gonna stop this week and just accept my life. I want to go forward but it seems like the efforts are in vain! But I’m crying like no I gotta keep pushing! Push sis! Let’s push together!
I agree with Adrienne! 100% focus on some things first. And phew Loni is all emotional up in here 😢
Loni had just touched my heart.❤Thank you Loni, i needed this.
Girls your discussions are always on point... could really relate cause you real and open all the time
I don’t like when Loni is trying to speak and jeannie is making a joke !!! I love when Loni opens up like this
Did you see that Loni does it too?
Loni does it ALL the time too.
Lonie does it in every clip ESPECIALLY to ms.mai!!! Lmao
Something about when Adrienne said “little mediocre body” I just died 😂 that’s legit how I’d describe myself as I choose 8 tacos over sit-ups.
Awww thank you guys this uplifted me. Love you Loni! 🤗 😍😘 Thats why I love this show you guys bring me back to reality with how real you are. Love you guys so much. God bless! 🤗
I feel like the way people put each other in a box is what frustrates me even more... like who says I have to be like this one or sing like that one or do something like him over there, why can’t I just be me... we need to work on supporting and uplifting one another instead of comparing and tearing down one another !
GOOD JOB MILK🍼🍼 & COOKIES 🍪😜🍪
Thank you Loni!!! ❤❤❤❤ I needed to hear that! That was so sweet!!
Y'all are so inspiring! Please let this show continue for 5 seasons AND BEYOND!
Goal in life should not be: not to be mediocure, but to be satisfied with what you have 🌿🌷
*How they left Tamera hanging on the toast is how my friends leave me hanging when I tell a joke and no one laughs* 😂😂
Thank you so much Loni for those encouraging words...you were speaking to me I really needed to hear this
i really needed this😭 thank you so much. i’m currently doing 11th grade & i’ve gone thru soooo much in the last couple of months that i felt like whatever i did was not good enough 😔 when Loni said that “somebody is going to notice you” , i FELT that cause i’m really trying my level best. THIS MESSAGE WILL FOREVER RING IN MY HEAD WHENEVER I FEEL LIKE GIVING UP. 😭😭❤️❤️ and by the way, i freaking love the show
Adrienne and Loni totally are real and get the topic and not trying to defend themselves like Jeannie n Tamera
I was waiting for this segment! This was so profound! I loved it! I'm so in love with those ladies! The love between them is so pure and genuine ! They support each other so much ! 🙏😍😘Thank you ladies for inspiring us! You guys are truly amazing! 😘
Man they are so empowering! I love the real! I love all of y’all! Keep striving and believing that what you are doing is for the best of you and not for nobody else!! ❤️❤️👏🏻👏🏻
Thank you Lonnie! I needed to hear that 😢 you have a great heart for people ❤️
"someone will notice you"
Thank you Loni❤️❤️❤️
This segment gave me perspective for sure! Thank you ladies!
Loni message is amazing. Seriously don’t focus on peoples opinion keep doing you and strive for the best you can be. Don’t set your goals based on others opinion
Jeannie is such a good thinker. Yes be mediocre but not at everything.
When I tell you I love Loni! HALLELUJAH. Thank God for Loni.
Loni has such a big heart! Thanks for this message, some days are hard but it's good to have some hope every now and then
I love it when Loni demonstrates vulnerability! ❤️✨ I'm a single mom of 3 in Graduate school trying to figure out life before I reach the top of the hill. Loni this was A WORD! 👏🙏 And I RECEIVE it! 😘
Thank you ladies I needs to hear this message I was about to give up
I love that loni said that , it was something I think a lot of us needed to hear❤️
Thank you for that. I needed that. You guys just motivated me so much more!!
Don’t allow anyone to make you feel less than. Just pay attention to you and do what fulfills you. Make decisions that are truly going to make you happy, not to impress family or friends.
Loni you made me cry, I love you! Thank you for that message, I needed it ❤
Loni, I heard you, thank you. I’m crying my eyes out ♥️
I love this talk ladies! Such a real refreshing and transparent conversation.
Loniiiiiii, thank you for the encouragement! I'm 25 and I feel l I'm not where I need to be but I'm striving daily. I will continue to give my best!
Mannnn when loni cries I cry 😭
Henna Sahota and tam girl I cried we in this together 💜
Honestly the message loni gave was very well needed. 😭
Definitely needed to hear that word Loni..if you're wondering if anyone out here caught what you were serving up, just know a Mom, who's building her own business, Workin on her marriage, has two kids and about to deliver two more.. just know I heard you. I appreciate you. I'm a HUGE fan of yours and I pray one day I get to be a part of the audience at The Real. ❤️❤️❤️
Lonnie 😍! That’s the motivational words I needed to hear! Wow. Right on time!
Thank you Lonnie 😘😘😘 Many blessings!! I truly needed to hear those words!! No one knows your story til you tell it!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I think I really needed to hear this,thank you so much for uploading and thanks to the real family!!!! Love you all so much ❤️
How do you even judge whether someone is mediocre or not? You have to compare them to someone else, and that is the thief of joy. Measure your life by standards YOU have set. What looks a like a blessing to someone else, might be a burden to you. What do YOU want? Why do you want it? If the answer is because so and so has it, or because people will think less of me if I don’t have it, then you need to realign your priorities. Pursue your peace. Just because the world calls something great doesn’t mean it is. It’s okay if you feel like you’re okay without all the fluff. You go be happy and show gratitude for what you have. Enjoy your life. Just felt like someone needed to read this.❤️❤️❤️
I am 52 and I am starting over. Thank you Loni for making me cry and being at this small moment ... encouraged.😚
They should’ve let Jeannie talk more. There is absolutely a difference between being mediocre and trying your best. I feel Jeannie 100% because there are some things in your life that you are completely comfortable with being mediocre at because they’re not your passion. But when you are passionate about your work, marriage kids, etc, you should always strive to be your best. Even with the example that Loni was giving about the mechanic - if he couldn’t open the shop bc he didn’t have the money, he’s not mediocre! He’s trying his best and one day his hard work will pay off because he has the passion to open up his own shop. People have to realize that if you’re passionate enough about something, you will never be okay with being mediocre. You just gotta find what your passion is, and what you’re great at doing.
Thank you Loni! 🙏🏾❤️
Lonnie cries, I cry.. every dam time. She is amazing!
Loni you made me shed a tear girl !!💜
Awwww lonie always have me bawling most relatable i find always comes back down to Earth
Girlll😭😭 i seriously needed this!!! Like right now at this very moment!!! before i punch my fiances family in the face!
Everyone is so wrapped up with competing with the rest of the world that it becomes all too consuming and overly stressful. At the end of the day it should really only be 'you versus you'.
I just love Loni, she is the cheerleader for all of us. Much love you all you ladies
love you Loni! This really spoke to me
Thank you Loni! I won't give up.
Love them all even when they have there moments when they disagree with each other perspectives they manage to get a good point across ♥️👸🏻
This video makes me tear up everytime I see it 😩 I needed to hear that right now 🙌🙏
Go off Adrienne! That’s what’s up
DAMMIT Loni , You had me in tears there...:(
Loni and Adrienne are preaching the REALS today!
Loni is making me cry man 😭😭😭 thank you Loni I won’t give up!! One day if I’m successful I’ll shout you out!! 😂
*when you're successful ☺️💕
If you're reading this, you're beautiful baby. Aww thanks girl 💕💕💕
It's so sad that Loni cried but I believe that this was more about the things that she has not been able to accomplish as a comedian and I feel for her. Her encouragement was not just towards people, but for herself. She has always wanted more in that field and her colleagues surpassed her.😔
As a perfectionist this is so hard but I’m trying
Lonis heart is soo big it’s inspirational ❤️
I got so excited, but then I realized this was already posted.
Awww loni 💕💕💕💕 we love you. I hate seeing her cry.
THEY ALWAYS PREACHING MAJOR FACTSS
Thank you Loni! I needed that soooo much.
THANK YOU LONI! I NEED THIS AND I AM CRYING THERE TOO. I GOT SO BROKEN THREE YEARS AGO REALLY REALLY BAD BY LOTS OF MEN AND IM STILL STRIVING TO FIND REMNANTS OF ME THAT I HEAR OF PEOPLES DESCRIPTION OF THE ME BEFORE THAT I DONT REMEMEBR FOR MYSELF. AND I PROBABLY FEEL LIKE A SCRUB OR A LOSER WHEN I USED TO BE SO SUCCESSSFUL, I AM NEVER HEARD AND ALWAYS DISMISSED CUZ IM MENTALLY ILL.. BUT IM STILL BREATHING, IM FINDING MYSELF AGAIN. #IAmHangingInThereTOO XOXO
Sometimes you have to realize that you're just not there yet. It doesn't mean you'll never get there. More time the people calling you basic are failures themselves. I totally agree that it's an opinion
Totally agree!!!
I love these women. 😍😘. Thanks Loni❤
No one starts great. You have to get through mediocre on your way to greatness. Keep growing, keep learning, keep improving. Don’t settle.
Oh Loni... i sooo needed to hear that!!!!
Loni made me cry oh my god .........Loni i feel what u are saying............love u Loni😭😭😭😭😥😢
Thank you Loni. Thank you!!😭😭😭
I was crying until Loni said “I don’t know WHERE you got that from” to Tamera. Then I just died laughing 😂😂❤️