What Backhanded Compliment Have You Received?

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  • Опубликовано: 24 янв 2025

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  • @Lauren_Fields
    @Lauren_Fields 5 лет назад +3958

    “What are you mixed with? You’re too pretty to just be black.”

    • @laurenbri690
      @laurenbri690 5 лет назад +77

      All the time 🙄

    • @MaZiya___
      @MaZiya___ 5 лет назад +10

      Yhoooo

    • @NODE1975
      @NODE1975 5 лет назад +105

      Mine is...are you from the islands because you don't look like a regular black girl 🤨

    • @Suh6727
      @Suh6727 5 лет назад +14

      I get that alot!! 😑

    • @cocoasmooth8382
      @cocoasmooth8382 5 лет назад +76

      Yes I hate that! I’m like you’ve never seen a beautiful black woman?

  • @sarax8644
    @sarax8644 5 лет назад +3471

    The worst backhanded compliment is when someone says you’re pretty for the nationality you are, like you’re really trying to tell me my people are ugly and I’m an exception & you expect me to take that as a compliment how cheeky 🥴😅

    • @floortje368
      @floortje368 5 лет назад +61

      Dee x ikr, stupid ass people

    • @daughteroftheking7617
      @daughteroftheking7617 5 лет назад +99

      Dee x literally this white guy said I didn’t have black features I was very offended

    • @NODE1975
      @NODE1975 5 лет назад +31

      @@daughteroftheking7617 I get that too and I'm dark skinned smh

    • @XDeCoDeX13
      @XDeCoDeX13 5 лет назад +47

      Saadet yeah some white boys have a weird way of trying to tell you they find you attractive

    • @stacyblack5455
      @stacyblack5455 5 лет назад +37

      I know right, the other day someone told me I was pretty for a Nigerian. I felt so insulted.

  • @taylorhaddley5526
    @taylorhaddley5526 5 лет назад +1427

    “you’re hair is so long....is it real” 😂🤦🏾‍♀️it never fails

    • @cbell3922
      @cbell3922 5 лет назад +33

      Taylor Haddley how is that rude? To many of your females be having ten pounds of fake hair on your head. 😂

    • @angiebabe8351
      @angiebabe8351 5 лет назад +24

      Taylor Haddley I do ask that at times. But it’s not to be rude I’m just curious. A lot of woman now a days use wigs, extensions, clip in extensions and so on. So it is rare to see woman out grow their hair anymore to be honest. And if it is real that is very inspiring

    • @taylorhaddley5526
      @taylorhaddley5526 5 лет назад +37

      C Bell okay you sound ignorant. A lot of my “females” don’t wear fake hair and get accused of it. Why would you go up to someone and ask that but if you don’t see the issue with that question then you are apart of the problem

    • @taylorhaddley5526
      @taylorhaddley5526 5 лет назад +23

      Angie Babe but it’s the fact that because in african american, people assume that my hair is not real. It is just a question that I, personally, feel is rude.

    • @taylorhaddley5526
      @taylorhaddley5526 5 лет назад +6

      C Bell and also it’s too not to.

  • @saniyahgeorgessg
    @saniyahgeorgessg 5 лет назад +2527

    “Your lil hair is cute n whatever but have you ever thought about straightening it?” Eternal 🙄

    • @lilmzamerica
      @lilmzamerica 5 лет назад +87

      Right! But whenever they throw that "little" in front, they being shady 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @funmiblue8360
      @funmiblue8360 5 лет назад +22

      I've actually gotten one about hair too. "I like ya hair, but blank and blank has just beautiful natural hair" (The people they were talking about has curly long hair, but my hair is wavy and short.)

    • @reneedooma
      @reneedooma 5 лет назад +1

      Big mood

    • @vsatromp5358
      @vsatromp5358 5 лет назад +11

      Omg! I get you look prettier with straight hair.. i’m like for real? I started saying you are biased because telling my best friend he is an asshole is not very friend-like

    • @zeynand4039
      @zeynand4039 5 лет назад +14

      Please don't. I love your natural hair. I messed up my hair with straightening so I try to warn everyone. Have a nice day!

  • @LoveFinds
    @LoveFinds 5 лет назад +845

    “You can’t be all black” “you’re so well spoken” “keep that hairstyle”

    • @JennHayden
      @JennHayden 5 лет назад +3

      yup

    • @kindakomplicated4537
      @kindakomplicated4537 5 лет назад +46

      CHIIILLLLDD the “I didn’t think you were black, you’re so well spoken” is too close to home

    • @kindakomplicated4537
      @kindakomplicated4537 5 лет назад +3

      Sof BX they couldn’t tell for me smh

    • @spirituallife6296
      @spirituallife6296 5 лет назад +11

      Sof BX Yeah if we allow you to. We can turn on the Caucasian voice but don’t always feel like it 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @angiebabe8351
      @angiebabe8351 5 лет назад

      OurLittleSecretYT that’s a nice compliment actually. In my 28 years I have met maybe a handful of black people who are well spoken. So good for you! I’m pretty sure there is a lot more but not in my area anyway

  • @ShopGurl96
    @ShopGurl96 5 лет назад +926

    Tam and Adrienne do look alike..
    If you tilt your head, squint, close one eye then close the other one

  • @makalaadams4
    @makalaadams4 5 лет назад +1733

    one time someone told me they liked how i don't have "that black accent"

    • @tracey8987
      @tracey8987 5 лет назад +92

      😒

    • @needzmotivation
      @needzmotivation 5 лет назад +175

      Someone said something similar to me too..... It was along the lines of “You’re not from around here are you? You sound educated and not like these other black girls around here”. Had to think about that one 😕

    • @jyn88
      @jyn88 5 лет назад +27

      According to some people, I have some Asian accent. I had friends or random people ask where I was born. I was born here, in USA! It doesn't bother me anymore.

    • @marissar.359
      @marissar.359 5 лет назад +53

      @@needzmotivation Yes! Some Middle Eastern girl in high school told me, "You're not like the other black girls." Ugh.

    • @DanielaGarcia-yc7dt
      @DanielaGarcia-yc7dt 5 лет назад +5

      the ghetto

  • @Lordpraisethe
    @Lordpraisethe 5 лет назад +2566

    You pretty for a Blackgirl. U pretty for a darkskin girl

    • @jasimenmetcalf1870
      @jasimenmetcalf1870 5 лет назад +45

      Lordpraisethe literally the #1 I get smh ... I started calling them
      Out 🤷🏾‍♀️🤣

    • @sapphiremariee4518
      @sapphiremariee4518 5 лет назад +41

      Lordpraisethe i get this one all the time “ You’re so pretty for a black girl “

    • @jasimenmetcalf1870
      @jasimenmetcalf1870 5 лет назад +55

      Mane365 Mrtnz lol awww u must be a kid troll ... doesn’t hurt my feelings boo 😘❤️

    • @taylorwrmn
      @taylorwrmn 5 лет назад +11

      i don’t know what you look like personally but just know that you are beautiful 😌

    • @MsBrooklyn11232
      @MsBrooklyn11232 5 лет назад +29

      The story of a lot of black women's life!

  • @Leshimizu99
    @Leshimizu99 5 лет назад +992

    “Today you don’t look so bad” my grandma

    • @Behappy-rf8gl
      @Behappy-rf8gl 5 лет назад +1

      Leticia Shimizu lmao.... my grandma

    • @vsatromp5358
      @vsatromp5358 5 лет назад +56

      Staph ! My grandma told me once (i live abroad) ‘hey.. you aren’t as fat as your sister’ and my sister was also in the room.. in one sentence she burnT us all

    • @xiamariansupreme72
      @xiamariansupreme72 5 лет назад +29

      @@vsatromp5358
      LMFAOOOO! She gathered you all at once.

    • @vsatromp5358
      @vsatromp5358 5 лет назад +2

      TheDominiquePinkPrint i knoowwww i mean come on you haven’t seen me in half a year and that is one of the first things you tell me?

    • @olubunmi7534
      @olubunmi7534 5 лет назад +2

      “Wow... i ain’t know u cld ever get so pretty.”- my grandpa

  • @goddessofvictory1842
    @goddessofvictory1842 5 лет назад +401

    Them: " You're pretty...for a darkskin"
    Loni (also every darkskin in the world): "...Uh huh..."

  • @jomariaa05
    @jomariaa05 3 года назад +107

    Tamera is a whole comedian and she doesn’t even know it !! 😩😭😭.

  • @cogco4535
    @cogco4535 5 лет назад +226

    A lady at my church told me "For a girl with dyslexia you're really smart"

  • @slickpatt7870
    @slickpatt7870 5 лет назад +354

    "You're pretty for a big girl" no dude I'm just pretty now walk away

    • @Manu-dp4ls
      @Manu-dp4ls 3 года назад +4

      Yess Queen!! 😍😍

  • @morgancoleman7562
    @morgancoleman7562 5 лет назад +198

    Announcing your pregnant to your family, and their response is... "Congratulations, but we wish you would have waited."
    I was 22 and married!

    • @stephanieachane9154
      @stephanieachane9154 5 лет назад +9

      😂😂😂😂😂😂🤗 WOW!!!!! LOL

    • @vsatromp5358
      @vsatromp5358 5 лет назад +58

      Is that a back handed compliment? Feels like a straight to your face insult .. sorry

    • @bookbag6432
      @bookbag6432 5 лет назад +37

      22 is VERY YOUNG

    • @JM-fo2qn
      @JM-fo2qn 5 лет назад +41

      @@bookbag6432 22 is young but is definitely not too young to be married and have a child. I got married at 22 and we had our child a week before my 24th birthday. I'm in my late 20s now and look back with happiness about my decision. You can be mature, financially responsible, and intelligent at 22 years of age. You do not have to wait until you are 35 or 40 to live responsibly and maturely.

    • @bookbag6432
      @bookbag6432 5 лет назад +22

      Jessi M. I graduated college at 21, being 22 and married with a child I wonder if you ever lived by yourself? Paid your own bills alone. Went to vacation by yourself. Experienced the world by yourself. I’m now 25 and I believe everyone needs to experience alone before being tied down by kids and a husband and having to tell them your every move and life for your family. Sometimes a girl just has to book a trip to Europe alone for the hell of it instead of worrying about a babysitter or letting your husband know but to each their own.

  • @ginarose9463
    @ginarose9463 5 лет назад +98

    Sometimes, you don’t even know it’s a “backhanded” compliment until later?

  • @nickshadowNL
    @nickshadowNL 5 лет назад +211

    Jeannie : "Nope, not at all." 😂😂😂

  • @barbraedumanichukwu4481
    @barbraedumanichukwu4481 5 лет назад +387

    This is old. I felt like I was losing my mind or that it was deja Vu when I was watching this. Only to realize that I've seen it before, they just reuploaded it again.

    • @djidjine5082
      @djidjine5082 5 лет назад +1

      Barbra Edumanichukwu I thought so too. I was like...hmm this sounds hella familiar. I thought I was bugging

    • @ahiatt07
      @ahiatt07 5 лет назад +3

      Lol thank god someone said it I felt like I was going crazy

    • @qaaliquruxmedia
      @qaaliquruxmedia 5 лет назад

      Barbra Edumanichukwu this is an old video

    • @oshunyarl
      @oshunyarl 5 лет назад +1

      I knew I wasn't tripping, I checked the date and everything

    • @respectabletampodcast
      @respectabletampodcast 5 лет назад

      Same lol

  • @ashleyyanel1815
    @ashleyyanel1815 5 лет назад +74

    This is an old clip. But I still laughed when Tamara brought up the daughter thing and they all started dying 😂😂

  • @whatsup8635
    @whatsup8635 5 лет назад +253

    Tamera is the real comedian of the show 💀💀😭

  • @Mrs_Theresa_Lynn
    @Mrs_Theresa_Lynn 5 лет назад +127

    Someone told my husband, "You sure are handsome for a brown man." He sure is handsome, period.

    • @goldey3000
      @goldey3000 5 лет назад +2

      Island_Mommy stop lying

    • @bellaloune2655
      @bellaloune2655 4 года назад

      @@goldey3000 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @capriv4227
    @capriv4227 5 лет назад +1173

    Me: “I’m so fat.”
    Friends: “Stop it. You’re beautiful.”
    Me: “I never said I was ugly though” 🤔 lol

    • @enomfonasuquo5454
      @enomfonasuquo5454 5 лет назад +97

      V Lloyd You’re wron on this one cause u saying your fat implies that being fat is bad and if your friends call you beautiful it is because they believe that your body and face is beautiful

    • @carleighnoriega24
      @carleighnoriega24 5 лет назад +7

      🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂

    • @shortcakenyc6984
      @shortcakenyc6984 5 лет назад +6

      R Lloyd they mean that your body is beautiful no matter your weight

    • @empressorius
      @empressorius 5 лет назад +26

      That's not a backhanded compliment. You are being disingenuous by calling yourself "fat", you are trying to trick your friends into saying "No, you are not fat." It is unfair for you to do that to people. People can be fat and beautiful or skinny and ugly or vice versa. If a person is skinny, fat, tall, short, pink, purple or whatever, I am not going to lie to them and say they are the opposite just to make them feel better. Love yourself as is or change what you can SAFELY!!

    • @Yvp13
      @Yvp13 5 лет назад +2

      R Lloyd yea this comment just makes no sense

  • @chanyisme
    @chanyisme 5 лет назад +211

    I see that they kinda look alike. But, I feel like Essence Atkins, the girl that played Tahj's sister in Smart Guy looks a lot like Tia and Tamera.

    • @zoeorzoey
      @zoeorzoey 5 лет назад +3

      iloveu85 I agree

    • @saddiyaharmstrong102
      @saddiyaharmstrong102 5 лет назад +4

      Yeah she definitely reminds me of Tia

    • @saniyahgeorgessg
      @saniyahgeorgessg 5 лет назад +5

      Doja cat kinda resembles tamera

    • @Clonehalle
      @Clonehalle 5 лет назад +7

      I've always thought that Essence resembles Tia and Tamera. Even her voice and mannerisms. She was perfect to play Tahj's sister.

    • @LilacStar82
      @LilacStar82 4 года назад +2

      I think that's why they picked Essence to play Tahj's sister.

  • @jelenajeanine8493
    @jelenajeanine8493 5 лет назад +69

    Never forget the: "is that all your hair?" So rude.

    • @madisonbates0107
      @madisonbates0107 5 лет назад +2

      Jelena Jeanine I love my mother in law to death but the first time I met her she asked if my hair was all mine and started feeling it. I’m white just have thick ass hair.

  • @tahdahloo4884
    @tahdahloo4884 5 лет назад +29

    “I see you’ve lost a few pounds! But you’ve still got a few more to go!”

  • @zjazjaaa
    @zjazjaaa 5 лет назад +28

    “And low key, they don’t be cute” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @MajesticMyronn
    @MajesticMyronn 5 лет назад +163

    I swear whenever I hear “ you look... for a ... “ it’s literally the dumbest thing ever because that person is giving what they think is a compliment without even realizing the “back-handnesses” of their choice of words which to me doesn’t make it a compliment ! But I give it a pass if they have good intentions !

    • @JennHayden
      @JennHayden 5 лет назад

      what do the "..." represent? I am asking because i have never hear that phrase used any other way other than in reference to black / dark skin. i don't see it used in a variety of ways. personally speaking. you with healthy for a fat girl? idk lol how else that would it be used?

    • @MajesticMyronn
      @MajesticMyronn 5 лет назад +2

      J. Jo oh there’s many of ways it can be used... I hate when people say “ you got s lot a junk in the trunk for a white girl “ like based off stereotypes is how they generally perceive all people and when they see all people of that “ certain type of race ” aren’t ... they genuinely are shocked and give a compliment ( in their head which sounds good but sounds bad when you hear it ) and genuinely feel it’s ok

  • @stephaniebelyavskaya4791
    @stephaniebelyavskaya4791 5 лет назад +528

    “If it ain’t cute.. keep it mute” lol
    Edit: Wait a minute, Tamera & Adrienne look NOTHING alike I don’t see it either 😝

    • @AngelHxze
      @AngelHxze 5 лет назад +7

      stephanie belyavskaya I don't either, really ,(except maybe round faces), but hey, at least they're both cute lol.

  • @cynni16
    @cynni16 5 лет назад +85

    When I have my natural hair out:
    When I wear a wig: “Oh I love your hair, you should always wear it like that” 🙄

  • @bellaxm0ua
    @bellaxm0ua 5 лет назад +129

    Random auntie: Oh your sisters are so pretty! You...you're so tall and funny.
    Me: .... Thank you ???

    • @GoodOlAllisonHarvard
      @GoodOlAllisonHarvard 5 лет назад +12

      LMAO I felt that!!! 😂😭🙌🏾

    • @bellaxm0ua
      @bellaxm0ua 5 лет назад +11

      @@GoodOlAllisonHarvard Right?? Like did I need to know this, auntie?
      No. Not really.

  • @marianna1513
    @marianna1513 5 лет назад +50

    "Your so pretty for a big girl" so because someone is overweight they're automatically ugly? Like I am an exception or something lol. Stood with me my whole life.

  • @debrakimberly5279
    @debrakimberly5279 5 лет назад +28

    Loni, keeps it 💯. “ I don’t see it”!😂😂😂

  • @kennedymeador1015
    @kennedymeador1015 5 лет назад +67

    “You have such long hair for a black girl...is it real?”

  • @faithmckenzie7923
    @faithmckenzie7923 5 лет назад +6

    2:37 had me dying "you look just like my daughter, and then you see her and your like💀" 😂😂

  • @ritadepeeves
    @ritadepeeves 5 лет назад +10

    Worst I've had is "I really like the suit you're wearing. I wouldn't wear it or choose it but you make it work" 😂😂😂😂

  • @danielsimmich1858
    @danielsimmich1858 5 лет назад +408

    ‘We could be cousins’ anybody could be cousins lmao. I don’t see the resemblance

    • @aleorozco1994
      @aleorozco1994 5 лет назад +27

      True true. I have zero recemblence with my cousins.

    • @nikkidee9383
      @nikkidee9383 5 лет назад +3

      Hahaha soooo true

  • @FelipeCharmingTV
    @FelipeCharmingTV 5 лет назад +31

    “I like your type of gay, you’re not a messy one”

  • @yasminepadilla
    @yasminepadilla 5 лет назад +96

    Loni took the show today the makeup the jewelry and outfit👏.

  • @chrisnicoleofficial
    @chrisnicoleofficial 5 лет назад +11

    *Yeooo, Adrienne was dying wen Tamera spoke 😂*

  • @sarahhamdan5470
    @sarahhamdan5470 5 лет назад +25

    When I straighten my hair I get: Oh NOW you look pretty!!!

  • @representationmatters
    @representationmatters 5 лет назад +10

    Tam tam got the best one‼️ she aint lying 😂😂

  • @j3nnyrapp3r
    @j3nnyrapp3r 5 лет назад +14

    The compliments to me have always been “Omg you’re so pretty. If only you would lose some weight”...

  • @willie1000001
    @willie1000001 5 лет назад +7

    Damn. Adrienne started laughing before Tamera could even finish the joke.

  • @escapereality1950
    @escapereality1950 5 лет назад +19

    “You must handle your ADHD really well. You don’t seem insane at all!”
    All. The. Time!

  • @starcherry6814
    @starcherry6814 5 лет назад +18

    “You’re not fat you’re beautiful”
    Ugh why can’t I be fat AND beautiful?

    • @ranitagadling4312
      @ranitagadling4312 5 лет назад +4

      As someone who hears that all the time I just tell them that I'm happily both thanks for noticing 😁

  • @gmcwain
    @gmcwain 5 лет назад +9

    The way they laugh at what Tamera said has me dying laughing😂😂😂😂

  • @RedeBibliaDiaria
    @RedeBibliaDiaria 5 лет назад +13

    Me without makeup: *crickets*
    Me with makeup: "you look so pretty, are you wearing makeup?"

  • @iflynsky6080
    @iflynsky6080 2 года назад +9

    I died at 2:31 omg Tamera always makes my day!! 😂😂😂😂

  • @GoodOlAllisonHarvard
    @GoodOlAllisonHarvard 5 лет назад +25

    @1:49 No shade, but it sounded to me like you were talking from experience with someone you used to work with on this show, Miss Jeannie Mai... 👀

  • @donae8749
    @donae8749 5 лет назад +10

    That “you're pretty for a dark skin" hits hard especially from a friend 🤷

    • @aurora6763
      @aurora6763 2 года назад

      Then they aren’t your friend

  • @ShopGurl96
    @ShopGurl96 5 лет назад +2

    Tam had me weak when she said oh god and starting mouthing @ 2:38 lmaooo

  • @karleynicole8441
    @karleynicole8441 5 лет назад +8

    “You’re pretty for a girl with acne” or “your features really make up for the breakouts” -story of my life

  • @AyahDominique
    @AyahDominique 5 лет назад +2

    Tamara is outta pocket 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @jasi7313
    @jasi7313 5 лет назад +4

    The ways these heffas laughin in this clip, I'm done lmaooo

  • @GlendaTheGW
    @GlendaTheGW 5 лет назад +38

    “You’re so pretty! What are you mixed with?” 🤨😒

    • @Jasmine_887
      @Jasmine_887 5 лет назад +7

      Glenn CoCo omg I get that because I'm darkskin with long hair i tell them black and more black lol

    • @GlendaTheGW
      @GlendaTheGW 5 лет назад +2

      riz1738 Lmaoo exactly!

  • @aprilxandria
    @aprilxandria 5 лет назад +43

    I like to sew so I always get “Did you make that yourself?.. I can tell.” 💀

  • @jennakaufman4471
    @jennakaufman4471 5 лет назад +2

    I once got told from a man while I worked in infants at my store too “ You’re so beautiful how far along are you in the pregnancy”? His wife who was expecting died from embarrassment!

  • @zeinabhassan6071
    @zeinabhassan6071 5 лет назад +10

    tamera always set me in a very good moods...thank you so much mum...more love from Kenya

  • @bayleivorce4210
    @bayleivorce4210 5 лет назад +7

    “You’re pretty for a fat girl!” “You may not be pretty, but you’re smart and that’s what counts!”

  • @mayamartinez5805
    @mayamartinez5805 5 лет назад +10

    “Wow you look so pretty when you look girly.” I hate being told that. I *HATE* IT!

  • @tyreebracey9345
    @tyreebracey9345 5 лет назад +3

    When they all started laughing was so funny now my face hurt from laughing hard 😂😂😂😭

  • @januaryroland3511
    @januaryroland3511 5 лет назад +7

    Mine was " you look like my cousin. But he's a boy." WellGahhhhhdahh... Now I'm offended lol. Carried that with me for twenty years 😂😂

  • @Stephserb
    @Stephserb 5 лет назад +1

    I hate when people tell me. “ it’s a good thing your pretty” growing up family friends would always tell me that.

  • @Jasmine_887
    @Jasmine_887 5 лет назад +11

    I once let a lady skip me in line because I thought she was pregnant she looked at me like I'M NOT PREGNANT 😂

  • @estellacohen7122
    @estellacohen7122 5 лет назад +1

    I saw my cousin for the first time in 10+ years and she said "...you look so prosperous ".

  • @annalisesmith2333
    @annalisesmith2333 5 лет назад +7

    "You look like you are gonna be pretty when you are older"

  • @meganthomason3497
    @meganthomason3497 5 лет назад +6

    “You’re so pretty....for a big girl” 🙄
    All the time.

  • @BBMYHAIR
    @BBMYHAIR 5 лет назад +7

    "your so pretty for a black girl" get it all the time people say it all the time and don't realize how hurtful it is.
    -A black girl

  • @judithaguirre2956
    @judithaguirre2956 5 лет назад +6

    Loni you're not alone I always get the "you're so much prettier in person" 🙄

  • @Karen-pk3uv
    @Karen-pk3uv 5 лет назад +4

    When I was 18, I went on a camping trip with my then boyfriend and all his friends. When he introduced me to one of his friends, before he even shook my hand, he waved his hand kind of gesturing at my whole body and said "I'll never forget you, your just so...so...umm....so unique looking. Yeah that's it. Your unique looking". I had on normal clothes, purple sunglasses and I had bright red hair. I wasn't even the most "unique looking" person when I graduated. Lol

  • @robertlawson2660
    @robertlawson2660 2 года назад +2

    Adrienne had one of those uncontrollable laughes

  • @superbluerock8327
    @superbluerock8327 5 лет назад +3

    "Your skin is perfect, but you're wearing makeup though"
    ... Ouch. Some days I don't wear makeup, they still think I'm wearing makeup. Smh.

  • @JayyFixed
    @JayyFixed 5 лет назад +9

    “You’re smarter than you look”

  • @kwilliams6707
    @kwilliams6707 5 лет назад +6

    "I've dated some beautiful girls I mean they looked like models but I really like you I don't know why it's just something about you" 😒

  • @MoisesVentura13
    @MoisesVentura13 Год назад

    “Your English is so good, where are you from?” Hate it with a passion

  • @phiagirl6284
    @phiagirl6284 5 лет назад +4

    At prom: "that dress is soooo pretty!! It just doesn't look good on you but oh well"

  • @amberdickson7230
    @amberdickson7230 5 лет назад +1

    i told a girl her outfit was cute and she said “thanks so much! i wish i wore something like you, you look so comfortable!”

  • @tyrahwilliams1
    @tyrahwilliams1 5 лет назад +6

    I had a t-shirt that said melanin queen with a black woman and beautiful curl hair. Mind you im natural. And a white woman looked at me and said i love your shirt it's so funny and she started laughing! I was so offended, i felt like that was low key racist

    • @sweetpeaj1952
      @sweetpeaj1952 5 лет назад +3

      She was throwing shade trust me

    • @spirituallife6296
      @spirituallife6296 5 лет назад +2

      Sof BX No, it’s just a sign on insecurity for someone to feel some type of way about someone else’s confidence. 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @empath3133
      @empath3133 5 лет назад

      Sof BX what a stupid comment

  • @RealSega.G
    @RealSega.G 5 лет назад +1

    "Thanks for dinner, it tastes really good. I was really hungry" - my bf LMAO

  • @zhaylinncroft2876
    @zhaylinncroft2876 5 лет назад +7

    “You’re only pretty because you have pretty hair” and guess who cut all their hair off and still gets compliments like crazy 🙋🏾‍♀️

  • @moneytalk1987
    @moneytalk1987 5 лет назад +2

    But sometimes they really do mean it in a good way , it's just that u take it differently

  • @CruellaDeVil.
    @CruellaDeVil. 5 лет назад +7

    "You're so pretty for a dark skin girl" like damn girl I'm pretty period tf

  • @sarahyork5540
    @sarahyork5540 3 года назад +1

    I get the “oh you have long hair for a black woman is that real or weave?” I’m like it’s my real hair in my head I’m like u never seen a black woman with natural long hair lol

  • @allyceleste9670
    @allyceleste9670 5 лет назад +61

    I don’t think anyone says “pretty for a Latina”

    • @mt3388
      @mt3388 5 лет назад +30

      Ally Celeste right 🙄👀 a whole lie. The word “Latina” holds a title of sexiness and beauty regardless of if you are actually that, or not. What a weird fad / trend.

    • @SimonRegineV
      @SimonRegineV 5 лет назад +13

      I’ve heard people say you’re “pretty for a Mexican” but not “pretty for a Latina”

    • @Samirahsworld1
      @Samirahsworld1 5 лет назад

      Jaynah Purter are Mexicans not Latina ??

    • @spirituallife6296
      @spirituallife6296 5 лет назад +10

      Aliyah ‘ They are but there are different types of Latinos. Puerto Ricans, Dominicans, etc. They come from different countries and don’t all look the same...

    • @SimonRegineV
      @SimonRegineV 5 лет назад

      Aliyah ‘ yes, they are. I’m saying I‘ve never heard the exact words “pretty for a Latina”

  • @-BabyValentine-
    @-BabyValentine- 5 лет назад +2

    I overheard this back when I was in high school “what are you mixed with” “I’m just black” “then how can your hair be so long” I was so mad for the girl...

  • @johannasolis9724
    @johannasolis9724 5 лет назад +27

    I think Adrienne & Tamera should do a face off and do same hair & clothes and do a side by side 😉

  • @natashajoyy4223
    @natashajoyy4223 4 года назад +2

    Someone once told me that my friend was wearing my jacket and then my other friend was like : "oh that's yours? I didnt know you own nice things" 😑

  • @Alemarie2023
    @Alemarie2023 5 лет назад +5

    Tamera says the funniest things.😂😂😂

  • @Roberson780
    @Roberson780 5 лет назад +2

    Loni is me af! "I dont see it" 😂

  • @iAmLisaAnn
    @iAmLisaAnn 5 лет назад +3

    “You have a classic face & are pretty for a big girl” those two are the most common.

  • @ajamama
    @ajamama 4 года назад +1

    I always get “you speak so well” and I’ve received “you’re so pretty what r u mixed with” made me confused about myself for years

  • @Zoe7ww
    @Zoe7ww 5 лет назад +36

    I swear loni gets jealous sometimes when Tamera and Adrienne be acting close ..

    • @saeon4427
      @saeon4427 5 лет назад +1

      U have a problem deal with it

  • @thenostolgicdisneychannelp6628
    @thenostolgicdisneychannelp6628 4 года назад +1

    Backhanded compliment is a front handed insult

  • @folakealliyu7540
    @folakealliyu7540 5 лет назад +4

    loni looks AMAZING in this her team DID THAT😍😍😍💗

  • @midnightmave
    @midnightmave 5 лет назад +1

    I just started working in a small town and it turns out that people have been mistaking me with two other prominent black women in the community. I choose to take it as a compliment because although we look nothing alike, they’re doing great things.

  • @rochellesmith8427
    @rochellesmith8427 5 лет назад +140

    Isn't this old?

  • @r0yaltybaby
    @r0yaltybaby 5 лет назад +2

    “your outfit looks good today” like sis how did it look yesterday. I stay hearing the backhanded comments in my head 🤦🏾‍♂️😭

  • @MrsMills-pb6hs
    @MrsMills-pb6hs 5 лет назад +23

    “ to be your size” (heavy set), you are so neat and pretty....🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @TheSweetForever
      @TheSweetForever 5 лет назад +4

      Lashanda Mills I hate that people always associate confidence or lack of, with bigger people. “I wish I could have that confidence” or “oh my goodness you have so much confidence” okay and? 🙄😒. Why can’t people just be confident haha.

    • @angiebabe8351
      @angiebabe8351 5 лет назад +1

      Lashanda Mills that’s a nice compliment tho. I am a little heavy and I also dress neat and actually buy clothes that fit me. A lot of heavy woman wear clothes 4 sizes smaller and all their rolls are so popping out and the leggings they use are up their butt. And they think they look fabulous. I would love that compliment lol

    • @MrsMills-pb6hs
      @MrsMills-pb6hs 5 лет назад +3

      Angie Babe I don’t like those stereotypical comments, as if heavy set women aren’t cute

    • @angiebabe8351
      @angiebabe8351 5 лет назад

      Lashanda Mills well that’s because many heavy set woman dress really inappropriate and look like slobs. I have seen maybe 2 or 3 heavy set woman that actually look nice and put together.

    • @MrsMills-pb6hs
      @MrsMills-pb6hs 5 лет назад

      The Sweet Forever my thoughts exactly

  • @sojournerwatkins2964
    @sojournerwatkins2964 5 лет назад +2

    I had a pic of me with some lemonade braids I posted on Facebook before. Someone commented and said “your hair is cute but it’s not done all the way” (because my hair wasn’t braided all the way to the end)

  • @melaniehernandez4185
    @melaniehernandez4185 5 лет назад +4

    Omg I thought I was the only one that thought Adrienne and Tamara kinda look alike!! 😂

  • @valenmejia2135
    @valenmejia2135 3 года назад

    "That new hair cut looks great on you, plus now you are going to have to start dressing well!"