Hello Petra, first off I’m been a subscriber of yours since you’ve begun your channel and I must say I always appreciate each videos that you post here on RUclips, much appreciated. I also remembered I sent you some comments about my past with my narcissistic, ex fiancé and you give me some advice too. Thank you for this video of Petra, but I wanna mention something that I want to share. Is that narcissistic parents, mother or father will never change how they view their children. Long story short recently 3 years I realize that my mother is actually a covert, spiritual narcissist. In my strong opinion, covert spiritual narcissist are the most dangerous narcissist to be around with, because they always associate people in their religion or church, and they could easily gain favors to their members. My mother is a spiritual narcissist all her life, I won’t mention what religion is because it doesn’t matter because it could happen to any church or religion. But here’s the thing Petra narcissistic parents will always degrade the scapegoat no matter what, no matter how old they are or how young they are. My mother has been love by the member of the church for nearly 5 decades give or take. This is how clever, how powerful and how deceiving a spiritual narcissist are. Recently, I just found out out-of-the -blue that she had died on December of last year 2024…. I just find out that she has passed away five weeks after her passing. I forgot to mention that I grew up in a very toxic family environment, all narcissistic behavior related. So there’s a lot of favoritism within the family, so if you offend one member…you already offend the rest of the family as well. I view my narcissistic family, not as a family, but a pack of wolves. In other words, if you offend one wolf, you already offended the Wolfpack of the family. Unfortunate that’s just the way it is when it comes to family, especially the one who dominates all that could be any member. In my particular case, it was my mother. My daughter of my previous marriage just found out on facebook and that’s when my ex wife, the mother of my daughter told me the news. She called me late at night which surprise me and that’s how I find out. She also told me that she is very surprised that no one in the family, not even my dad gave me a call of her passing. She then ask me if I’m ok. My only response to her is that I’m not surprised and I knew that this is going to happen. Then I told her : This how my family are, lots of toxicity and favoritism. I am not surprised by their behaviors at all. This is who they are. To be honest Petra I’m not saddened about the news but not happy either, cause I don’t wish bad things to anyone or death… not even to my narcissistic mom. But one thing for sure any narcissist can’t escape is KARMA. The truth about the narcissist behavior will reveal in time and this example of my narcissistic family said it all. My ex wife and daughter finally realized how toxic can they be. Thank Petra for your videos and I wanted to share this experience with you how ugly and toxic a spiritual narcissist can be. Many blessings to you! 🕊️🙏
thank you Petra
Hello Petra, first off I’m been a subscriber of yours since you’ve begun your channel and I must say I always appreciate each videos that you post here on RUclips, much appreciated. I also remembered I sent you some comments about my past with my narcissistic, ex fiancé and you give me some advice too. Thank you for this video of Petra, but I wanna mention something that I want to share. Is that narcissistic parents, mother or father will never change how they view their children. Long story short recently 3 years I realize that my mother is actually a covert, spiritual narcissist. In my strong opinion, covert spiritual narcissist are the most dangerous narcissist to be around with, because they always associate people in their religion or church, and they could easily gain favors to their members. My mother is a spiritual narcissist all her life, I won’t mention what religion is because it doesn’t matter because it could happen to any church or religion. But here’s the thing Petra narcissistic parents will always degrade the scapegoat no matter what, no matter how old they are or how young they are. My mother has been love by the member of the church for nearly 5 decades give or take. This is how clever, how powerful and how deceiving a spiritual narcissist are. Recently, I just found out out-of-the -blue that she had died on December of last year 2024…. I just find out that she has passed away five weeks after her passing. I forgot to mention that I grew up in a very toxic family environment, all narcissistic behavior related. So there’s a lot of favoritism within the family, so if you offend one member…you already offend the rest of the family as well. I view my narcissistic family, not as a family, but a pack of wolves. In other words, if you offend one wolf, you already offended the Wolfpack of the family. Unfortunate that’s just the way it is when it comes to family, especially the one who dominates all that could be any member. In my particular case, it was my mother. My daughter of my previous marriage just found out on facebook and that’s when my ex wife, the mother of my daughter told me the news. She called me late at night which surprise me and that’s how I find out. She also told me that she is very surprised that no one in the family, not even my dad gave me a call of her passing. She then ask me if I’m ok. My only response to her is that I’m not surprised and I knew that this is going to happen. Then I told her : This how my family are, lots of toxicity and favoritism. I am not surprised by their behaviors at all. This is who they are. To be honest Petra I’m not saddened about the news but not happy either, cause I don’t wish bad things to anyone or death… not even to my narcissistic mom. But one thing for sure any narcissist can’t escape is KARMA. The truth about the narcissist behavior will reveal in time and this example of my narcissistic family said it all. My ex wife and daughter finally realized how toxic can they be. Thank Petra for your videos and I wanted to share this experience with you how ugly and toxic a spiritual narcissist can be. Many blessings to you! 🕊️🙏