Retired undercover agent Jay Dobyns discusses hardships of family life with Jon Bernthal

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  • Опубликовано: 6 июн 2024
  • Retired undercover agent Jay Dobyns discusses hardships of family life while being undercover, and the toll it took on his loved ones.
    Listen to the full episode on Spotify, Apple, or wherever you listen to your podcasts. Watch the extended video version of the episode on patreon.com/realones
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  • @zozoartstudio4727
    @zozoartstudio4727 Год назад +146

    My dad was an undercover DEA agent, he’d go undercover in HongKong, Istanbul, etc. Got some of the top guys in those locations for heroin.
    He used to say (in the theaters). “You think that’s acting? Acting is when your life depends on it.”

    • @JOJO-sn5zo
      @JOJO-sn5zo Год назад +3

      That’s a fantastic quote

    • @slackerman4161
      @slackerman4161 Год назад +3

      And then everyone clapped

    • @snicklefritz669
      @snicklefritz669 Год назад +7

      And then CHINA Said Fentanyl. Play stupid games..........

    • @alexanderspear9464
      @alexanderspear9464 Год назад +1

      Sounds a bit of a drag if you're just trying to catch a flick. Oh great 👍 Thanks Pops !!! Now, I can't take this fucking movie seriously.

    • @migi9311
      @migi9311 Год назад

      Nice all for nothing drugs are more prevalent than ever and cheaper

  • @RobboRobinson
    @RobboRobinson Год назад +14

    Exactly right what he said at the end, When you're gone nobody cares you are soon forgotten by the organisation and people that you worked with. Only a few are true friends and stay in touch, we are all small cogs in a big wheel that keeps turning. #30yrs a Cop

  • @superiorsportshighlights1025
    @superiorsportshighlights1025 Год назад +67

    Love everything Mr. Bernthal is associated with! Keep it up!

    • @jackdaniels9855
      @jackdaniels9855 Год назад +1

      Such a role model fr

    • @ferdinandbethea3777
      @ferdinandbethea3777 Год назад

      I ABSOLUTELY AGREE!!!! Recently finding out that we grew up in the same area(Washington, DC) Inhanced my fandom!!!!

  • @TrikeLife567
    @TrikeLife567 Год назад +25

    Man the rock
    I felt the explanation in my soul
    I’ve made many errors in growing up now as a dad I see it’s not about me it’s my wife and son I’m living for it’s no longer about my self and it’s about my family as a unit
    Thank you for helping me understand this men sharpen men
    Like iron sharpens iron

  • @hipolitoarrieta873
    @hipolitoarrieta873 Год назад +20

    Damn! This video made me cry! I had a German Shepard who passed away recently and would give me and my family a rock when we used to get home! She was always full of joy and I will remember her because she is my good luck charm! Love & Respect to all you guys!

  • @pjdiver3
    @pjdiver3 Год назад +49

    I remember reading the book and being so angry about what the feds did with this case after everything that this guy and his team put into it

    • @dannymcreynolds1060
      @dannymcreynolds1060 Год назад

      He wanted too badly to become a badass gangster hells angel and couldn't separate being a cop from a club member. Also he perpetuated the criminal element within the club by becoming a faux hitman/drug runner or whatever. Not to mention, how many judges you think 81 has on the payroll?

  • @DarerebeI
    @DarerebeI Год назад +14

    10:27 Man, that just out-right brought me to tears.

  • @Dumpweed971
    @Dumpweed971 Год назад +22

    I read Jays book some years ago and really enjoyed it. It’s so messed up what the ATF did to him.
    I guess it’s important to see that these government agencies not only don’t care about us, they don’t care about their own people as well.

    • @chasewilliams4770
      @chasewilliams4770 Год назад +1

      It wasn't the DEA, it was the ATF.

    • @Dumpweed971
      @Dumpweed971 Год назад

      @@chasewilliams4770 Yeah, don’t know how I messed that up, my bad. Good correction, I appreciate that.

  • @josephboyle3320
    @josephboyle3320 Год назад +27

    Love him owning him mistakes, good man

  • @wlidbill5261
    @wlidbill5261 Год назад +9

    The rock story is amazing .Kids are such a treasure Makes me proud of my son he sometimes teaches me

  • @therevolutionwillnotbeyoutubed
    @therevolutionwillnotbeyoutubed Год назад +4

    There's just something about Jon that's just.... special.

  • @vanweiler9512
    @vanweiler9512 Год назад +5

    Yo Jaybird is a real one! I have read his book twice and watched his docs millions of times!!!! straight savage!!!!!

  • @Akfordmn
    @Akfordmn Год назад +5

    So mush respect for Jay! I'm glad I found your channel Jon, big fan & love your acting!!

  • @Thesaurcery4U2C
    @Thesaurcery4U2C Год назад +3

    What a crazy way to find out what you are truly made of.
    He learned more about himself, than any of us, will ever know, about ourselves.
    What an amazing life.

  • @spiritfulhealing8605
    @spiritfulhealing8605 Год назад +4

    wow, so beautiful. what a great discussion between the two. You can feel the heart . Thank you for this

  • @Mrsmifff
    @Mrsmifff Год назад

    You made Me cry with this story bro. Thank you

  • @busylivnlife2304
    @busylivnlife2304 Год назад +4

    I appreciate the positivity and life lessons that this show brings. Jon Bernthal comes off as a very genuine person and very interested in what his guests are saying as a host. 🙏

  • @rolingarrodriguez2602
    @rolingarrodriguez2602 Год назад

    Hey Jon, I'm new to your channel and the interviews you have done opens my eyes. Thanks you. And the MEN who speak.

  • @sterlingphoenix71
    @sterlingphoenix71 11 месяцев назад

    This one made me cry dad tears.

  • @andrewservis241
    @andrewservis241 Год назад +2

    Keep it up brotha loving the content keep them coming!

  • @kevincolon104
    @kevincolon104 Год назад +2

    I love every movie that Jon Berthal is in!! I stumble across this podcast and I am stoked!!! I even loved seeing him on the show Hot wings!! He kicks ass!!!

  • @dgilly8064
    @dgilly8064 Год назад

    This is one of my new favorite channels!! Good stuff buddy

  • @Davo-gj7gl
    @Davo-gj7gl Год назад

    Awsum interview man 💪🏻👍🏻

  • @bribaker2517
    @bribaker2517 Год назад +2

    Loving these videos jon! Started rewatching twd today cause im addicted to thus Because channel and i couldnt stop thinking about the show haha! My biyfruends now seeing it fir the first time!

  • @Newdaynewlifenewme
    @Newdaynewlifenewme Год назад

    Blessed. Blessed. Blessed.

  • @ikadan
    @ikadan Год назад

    That last bit about the rocks got me! I think i have dirt in my eye.

  • @celuiquipeut6527
    @celuiquipeut6527 Год назад

    That humility, i was not ready for.

  • @kriscotner7105
    @kriscotner7105 Год назад

    After listening to this I immediately went and bought his first book. Cannot wait to read it!

  • @ferdinandbethea3777
    @ferdinandbethea3777 Год назад

    As a dad, this video is POWERFUL!!! I cried, it touched me!!!

  • @LONEWOLF-di3ct
    @LONEWOLF-di3ct Год назад +3

    Jon you just earned a LIKE and a SUBSCRIBER to your channel brother keep it up! Love your content and you as a person, you my friend are a REAL ONE 🤝

    • @LONEWOLF-di3ct
      @LONEWOLF-di3ct Год назад

      @Telegram
      Hey brother are you saying I won the shout listed ??

  • @RamadiTaxiDriver60M
    @RamadiTaxiDriver60M Год назад +1

    Just found your Chanel. Great stuff, been a fan since Platoon.

  • @johnsurgenor6291
    @johnsurgenor6291 Год назад +1

    Jay is very cool. I could listen to him all day.

  • @kastle1972
    @kastle1972 Год назад +17

    If a film is ever made of him Bernthal has to play him🤙

    • @Thesaurcery4U2C
      @Thesaurcery4U2C Год назад +1

      @kastle1972
      @kastle1972...
      I was thinking Keith Jardine.
      He looks just like him.

    • @DaveyFish1
      @DaveyFish1 Год назад

      @@Thesaurcery4U2Cdown to the goatee

  • @DerbyBandit
    @DerbyBandit Год назад

    Dammm RUclips just now showing me this channel 🤷‍♂️🤦‍♂️….sick ass channel! Can’t wait to watch the other full videos!!!! 🙌🙌🙌🙌😎 keep up the great content bro!

  • @flowrider5082
    @flowrider5082 Год назад +1

    Wow! What a great, and sad, story!

  • @roberthudson2607
    @roberthudson2607 Год назад +1

    God, Jon is such a great listener and interviewer.

  • @ShawnQuiQui57
    @ShawnQuiQui57 Год назад +1

    Great episode! Please interview some Vietnam and Korean War veterans, we need more of their stories to be told.

  • @jimmyshookog3509
    @jimmyshookog3509 Год назад

    Great stuff brother.

  • @Darksagan
    @Darksagan Год назад

    This is sooo good.

  • @austingreen5330
    @austingreen5330 Год назад

    Holy shit I love this guy!!! Awesome podcast man!!

  • @jeR-m
    @jeR-m Год назад

    Humbling. Wow

  • @cheyenneasiafoxe292
    @cheyenneasiafoxe292 Год назад +2

    Luv Jay Dobyns! just like Joe Pistone and all the undercovers---what brave brave guys....

  • @MrShanestain
    @MrShanestain Год назад +1

    This is a great interview but my mind can't help but wander to Zoolander no. 2 when Mugatu was in prison! Great channel though, thanks for sharing these great stories.

  • @rolingarrodriguez2602
    @rolingarrodriguez2602 Год назад +1

    After the time I did in the Marines I feel the same. NO ONE REMEMBERS YOU IN THE END.

  • @KingCherifi
    @KingCherifi Год назад

    Keep bringing us this interesting gentlemen's

  • @danskhus
    @danskhus Год назад +4

    Oh man the origin story of the rock brought a tear my eye jeez ❤️

  • @MarioHernandez-wj1iv
    @MarioHernandez-wj1iv Год назад

    Deep bro Sheed a tear brotha

  • @Newdaynewlifenewme
    @Newdaynewlifenewme Год назад

    Wow. Love.

  • @lightsacco
    @lightsacco Год назад

    You have a Great Family jay .

  • @MrUHTiger
    @MrUHTiger Год назад +2

    Love this guy as an actor he’s the man.. Hoping he’s the punisher in the future

  • @DavidSmith-uc7hy
    @DavidSmith-uc7hy Год назад +5

    as a retired cop he nailed it on how selfish we are...neglecting family...I have guilt for that

    • @johnnywishbone932
      @johnnywishbone932 Год назад

      I used to see that all the time. Only a few of us were over 40 and married. And it wasn't me.

  • @FollowProto
    @FollowProto Год назад +2

    Something that seems so silly, but how much thought that boy put into the rocks. That’s pretty special

  • @epicfail36
    @epicfail36 Год назад +1

    I want to hear more of this guy's story

  • @KevinNiven
    @KevinNiven Год назад

    I'm not crying! Its the onions!!

  • @drindy5166
    @drindy5166 Год назад +4

    Such a killer channel! 👊🧡👍

  • @frankielopezzamudio4127
    @frankielopezzamudio4127 Год назад

    Jay is awesome

  • @prosperfromhometvchannel3483
    @prosperfromhometvchannel3483 Год назад

    Dont know that The Punisher has a new mission like this... Bring All the Real Ones to the surface....

  • @seanmcmillz8537
    @seanmcmillz8537 Год назад +1

    Bernthal love real ones and just watched the baltimore film im in baltimore and you killed that role i was up close to the case.but ive been a fan since twd on up of yours

  • @Octai60
    @Octai60 Год назад +2

    Big Respect for this man, Jay Dobyns.

  • @julio4246
    @julio4246 Год назад

    Brother, super gnarly.

  • @nathanocasio5758
    @nathanocasio5758 Год назад +2

    I love how all these actors are trying to get in the podcast game.

  • @gradbuckie
    @gradbuckie Год назад +2

    My Father was a constable with the R.C.M.P. For 30 years the vast majority of that was U.C. He busted drug dealers, stayed in serial killer jail cells, impersonated mob bosses, and anything and everything the Force asked him to do. What Jay has to say here is verbatim to my Dads experience and ours as his children. I once considered joining a police force and after discussions with my Dad I realized that I had “been” a cop for most of my life already. If anyone who is interested in doing this type of work think about it seriously...you will bring it home...your wife/husband and your children will not be “normal” people... some of it bad a lot of it good but all directly tied to the life of law enforcement non the less and without the choice of putting on the uniform.

  • @mohammedkhan6745
    @mohammedkhan6745 Год назад

    WHAT YOU FEED YOURSELF "
    TELLS YOU WHO AND WHAT YOU BECOME "

  • @N3WCHDAGAWD
    @N3WCHDAGAWD Год назад

    Is there a full episode!?!? Can’t find it

  • @steveayala6090
    @steveayala6090 Год назад

    Where is the whole episode???

  • @bigstew9724
    @bigstew9724 Год назад

    To be "general", I know his son... He is just as great as his dad! Turned out to such a great kid!

  • @traphammer7445
    @traphammer7445 Год назад

    Damn it I got some damn sand in my eyes when he was talking about his boy and the rocks

  • @mayeunnaise1213
    @mayeunnaise1213 Год назад

    When’s the full sit down

  • @Copium88
    @Copium88 Год назад

    How don’t these videos have more views.

  • @tay3376
    @tay3376 Год назад

    where’s the full video??

  • @sgtcheetoh8023
    @sgtcheetoh8023 Год назад +1

    I’m in the process to be an Agent. Listening to him reminds me to not make some of the mistakes he regrets.

  • @stuartcampbell739
    @stuartcampbell739 Год назад

    Where's the full interview

  • @cr9477
    @cr9477 Год назад

    where can i watch this full interview?

  • @jaybonin8366
    @jaybonin8366 Год назад

    Brother saying people that are in service, people that are doing time I done both and all you have to do to do is protect your family

  • @mohammedkhan6745
    @mohammedkhan6745 Год назад

    No PURPOSE become your PURPOSE "

  • @pab1381
    @pab1381 Год назад +1

    Isn’t Gerard Butlers character in Den of Thieves based on this guy?? Same with Barry Pepper in Snitch?

  • @sinistercollector9223
    @sinistercollector9223 Год назад

    Powerful stuff here!

  • @mohammedkhan6745
    @mohammedkhan6745 Год назад

    Amazing woman "ANGEL "

  • @jorgeharris6884
    @jorgeharris6884 Год назад

    Hey you came to my bar for Hollywood wrap party for me earl and the dying girl!

  • @larryhill1192
    @larryhill1192 Год назад +1

    I read this guy's book at the most traumatic tumultuous time of my life. It was f****** amazing. Simply amazing book. Then I went to federal prison LOL for real.

  • @alankowalski8781
    @alankowalski8781 Год назад

    I want to have a sit down with the Punisher, how bad ass

  • @mohammedkhan6745
    @mohammedkhan6745 Год назад

    Wow what a 10 yrs

  • @spaceman8839
    @spaceman8839 Год назад +2

    I cant believe Dobyns is still alive

    • @nicksnowden5358
      @nicksnowden5358 Год назад

      ruclips.net/video/yiMIraIxFPA/видео.html

  • @Proxzima
    @Proxzima Год назад

    how am i just now discovering that jon bernthal has a youtube channel

  • @pool.97
    @pool.97 Год назад +1

    Hi Frank

  • @shortykyep3088
    @shortykyep3088 Год назад

    "I wasn't giving them presence" Oh how I know what you mean.....

  • @mikeyb6737
    @mikeyb6737 Год назад

    great stories

  • @BlueMonkee3
    @BlueMonkee3 Год назад

    Where’s the rest

  • @FP19487
    @FP19487 Год назад

    I like how he takes time talking to ordinary peoples instead of movie star like every podcast do..

  • @Mrsmifff
    @Mrsmifff Год назад +3

    My father was a hells angel and "died" in a motorcycle accident right after the HA rock machine battle in Montreal.
    Didn't find out till i was 20 years old that he had been dead my entire life. Crazy organization.

    • @maryjohnson3182
      @maryjohnson3182 Год назад

      Sorry you missed him. I;m sure he was a great guy.

  • @d-vision2426
    @d-vision2426 Год назад

    Jon Bernthal keepin' it real!

  • @cbeaudry4646
    @cbeaudry4646 Год назад +1

    You should try to get Don Frye

  • @grownmantravels
    @grownmantravels Год назад

    Dude’s gotta be related to MIKE ERMENTRAUT from Breaking Bad

  • @slayer666ere
    @slayer666ere Год назад

    🤘❤️🤘

  • @Randall2023
    @Randall2023 Год назад +1

    Dauphin River First Nation Manitoba Canada

  • @stonerguitarist4690
    @stonerguitarist4690 Год назад

    Bro I been in over 40shoot out but never as scared as when my wife get hurt

  • @bryanluntz1603
    @bryanluntz1603 Год назад

    When I left Jim's
    In mid '95
    One of the last things he said to me
    It Riddles me
    Too Much
    He had homes
    A big business
    Wife n kids and his eldest was showing me an ultrasound of supposedly his first grandchild
    That morning I had drove to work with
    KLOS's Frank Songtag
    Playing Hendrix's
    Crosstown Traffic
    I had a shirt on that had tire tracks across the back of it
    Had already been years of tire tracks
    And had felt that Tread
    Before I had even heard Jim's story
    It had me in a shitty place already
    Fighting for my welfare
    No Joke
    It just kept getting meaner every year
    When you are the Son
    Lots of players
    Especially when they think you're some shallow don't know
    Character
    Been under a longtime
    Told Jesse James years ago
    It felt like I was in a decompression chamber
    Then it put me down for almost another
    Ate years now
    There's Major Damage
    Been done over here.

  • @jordanbass2236
    @jordanbass2236 Год назад

    Well, that rock story killed me. Biblical

  • @milocampo5190
    @milocampo5190 Год назад

    How the fuck isn’t this one of the biggest podcast?

  • @ViniciusDeFurio
    @ViniciusDeFurio Год назад

    🇺🇸👊👊