Why You Feel Anxious About Money (with Dr. John Delony)

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  • Опубликовано: 12 окт 2023
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    In this episode, I’m joined by relationship and mental health expert, Dr. John Delony, to talk about the connection between anxiety and personal finance. (Trust me, he’s not a normal doctor.)
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    George Kamel is a personal finance expert and co-host of The Ramsey Show. Following Ramsey’s proven money plan, George went from negative net worth to a millionaire in under 10 years. His goal is to help people spend less, save more, and avoid money traps so they can live a life with more margin, options and freedom.
    This channel will simplify complex money topics, bust money myths with actual facts, and debunk the stupid financial advice you're seeing in your social media feed. All with a healthy dose of pop culture, humor, and snark.

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  • @sallyprzybil2404
    @sallyprzybil2404 9 месяцев назад +177

    I just had a high anxiety moment. My landlord just raised my rent by $200 a month. I’m retired and on a fixed income. I had just readjusted my budget, chopping my food budget mercilessly, and now I “felt unsafe” in my finances. He’s also very demeaning when he talks to me. I’ve been at this place 10 years and never late with rent. All of a sudden I was having a stomach ache, chest tightness and couldn’t breathe. I had just finished Johns book. So I remembered this anxiety was only a symptom. So I sat down and thought about it, logically looked at my options. And I called a realtor, I found a house, a better area for a retiree, and this will drop my monthly payments by a lot. And the Realtor treated me with such respect and humanity. Looks like my Christmas present this year might be a different, more affordable, house.

    • @victorblas3483
      @victorblas3483 9 месяцев назад +16

      That's amazing, glad you found that house and it should reducce/remove that anxiety!

    • @AdamConstantine
      @AdamConstantine 8 месяцев назад +3

      Congrats! That’s a good outcome!! 😊

    • @furryplantsandcoins9070
      @furryplantsandcoins9070 8 месяцев назад +1

      Congrats 🎉

    • @conanthelib1
      @conanthelib1 8 месяцев назад +2

      Some irony here.

    • @kirushraveen8564
      @kirushraveen8564 8 месяцев назад +2

      ♥️♥️🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 wishing you all the very best! 🎉🎉🎉

  • @punkbassandcovers
    @punkbassandcovers 9 месяцев назад +81

    I wish Dr. John and George were paired up more often. Love these guys, even better when they're together🤘

    • @abrareads
      @abrareads 9 месяцев назад +4

      I was thinking the same thing!

    • @kaylasalvino4930
      @kaylasalvino4930 8 месяцев назад

      Amen!!

    • @HeathenwoodOfficial
      @HeathenwoodOfficial 8 месяцев назад

      🤘🤘 Rock & Thrash

    • @Cowgirl77Hikes
      @Cowgirl77Hikes 8 месяцев назад

      Three days later…Rapid Fire! But that’s twice, GC- I almost spit out my tea WHILE driving when you said exploding diaper-I think that’s worth a book, when you write one. Btw, one of the most enjoyable podcasts i’ve heard. Great job y’all.

    • @joyfully8802
      @joyfully8802 Месяц назад

      Super amusing! More of these please 😂

  • @BoostedBoxer1776
    @BoostedBoxer1776 9 месяцев назад +16

    The way Dr. John used German Schmear is exactly the way I would have used German Schmear

  • @EM3Finance
    @EM3Finance 9 месяцев назад +13

    Because Money is how most people have power over their lives

  • @BasicBeachCommunity1
    @BasicBeachCommunity1 9 месяцев назад +10

    You two are good together. Honest for the younger generation. Inflation, and currency devaluation, overpriced housing. Debt based healthcare and education are trash.

  • @loganmedia1142
    @loganmedia1142 8 месяцев назад +5

    You don't even need to be in debt. You can still lose the house you own if you lose your job. We also have to pay for schooling, clothes, food, car maintenance. etc. Savings only go so far. When I lost my job I had to sit down and calculate how long I had to find another job before my children would be kicked out of school and I'd no longer be able to feed them.

  • @Yeandle31
    @Yeandle31 9 месяцев назад +8

    "Straight A's can be trauma too, George" Ooof...my inner child 😮‍💨

  • @sophie20001
    @sophie20001 6 месяцев назад +2

    When you grew up/live in chaos for so long your mind cannot comprehend stability. You have to re-set your brain to learn that you are safe. Dave Ramsay’s philosophy is a good place to start.

  • @barrywertz6274
    @barrywertz6274 4 месяца назад +2

    Anxiety is fear of the future (events that have yet to come). Depression is past events affecting the present. Once you know the difference, it easier to help. Fear of the future is real. We see it in almost all patients in the hospital. Money fear- is anxiety that the next bill will have a wolf at the door asking for all of it back now.

  • @kimw7574
    @kimw7574 9 месяцев назад +4

    The classic looking radio, the Marshall radio in the background 😍

  • @kelliconlan8133
    @kelliconlan8133 8 месяцев назад +9

    Team work is the dream work!! Great job, Jon and George. Thanks for the needed information brought with humor.

  • @autumnlange1220
    @autumnlange1220 8 месяцев назад +7

    God I love John. He is pure happiness and joy. So smart but very warm. George is so trendy and fun.

  • @mikeseverson333
    @mikeseverson333 8 месяцев назад +3

    John was awesome, best episode I've seen on the channel

  • @josephlabranche4889
    @josephlabranche4889 9 месяцев назад +4

    Dr john is the man you guys are great duo

  • @EleanorRoseRyan
    @EleanorRoseRyan 8 месяцев назад

    I really like how we all know that choices compound…. It’s up to us to choose what’s best for our future.

  • @ashleyc7251
    @ashleyc7251 3 месяца назад +1

    Oh my word I didn’t know I needed this in my life!

  • @AlexandriaBozza
    @AlexandriaBozza 8 месяцев назад +2

    We need more of these two together! So fun!!

  • @hollybingeman2290
    @hollybingeman2290 8 месяцев назад +3

    I do love the book shelving behing you two.

  • @LoveOnTheEdge1705
    @LoveOnTheEdge1705 8 месяцев назад +2

    Love these two!

  • @GiftingJoy01
    @GiftingJoy01 8 месяцев назад +3

    This is hilarious! You two! You should do this often!

  • @TinyBritches1
    @TinyBritches1 7 месяцев назад

    This was an excellent episode and you guys have a great dynamic!

  • @flashthecorgi2053
    @flashthecorgi2053 9 месяцев назад +4

    Dream team!!! I love you guys, please do more collabs! 🫶🔥

  • @blueskyeclipse1200
    @blueskyeclipse1200 8 месяцев назад +4

    “….hug it like a dog nature never intended!”😂😂😂😂😂

  • @iaf4454
    @iaf4454 8 месяцев назад +2

    Love this!!!

  • @JRmintful
    @JRmintful 8 месяцев назад +2

    i love these guys together :) good topic too!

  • @susanb9400
    @susanb9400 8 месяцев назад +6

    My two favourite Ramsey personalities, wow I feel spoiled. Thank you George and John for yet another great episode. ❤

  • @ericlarson6470
    @ericlarson6470 8 месяцев назад +4

    Thanks to these guys and the whole Ramsey network for helping me get my life back. With your guidance I’ve fixed my money, relationships and mental health. You’ve changed my family tree, thank you.

  • @actuallyterry
    @actuallyterry 9 месяцев назад +3

    This was a great show.

  • @justsarah5085
    @justsarah5085 8 месяцев назад +6

    What a great episode! Love when these 2 are together. So fun.

  • @user-ni4lm3mc6r
    @user-ni4lm3mc6r 8 месяцев назад +3

    I don’t have instagram, but I would love that copy of the book because a young women in my life just came forward and stopped her softball scholarship and is moving home because of mental health. I gave my copy of his book I pre-ordered to her.

  • @JBrown-gh6zy
    @JBrown-gh6zy 8 месяцев назад +1

    I saw your crystal ball Styx album and I believe John delony has the exact album

  • @Superhyperaktive
    @Superhyperaktive 8 месяцев назад +5

    No, we are broken human beings. We can fix ourselves with psychology. Everything we will ever need l, God has already provided for us in the finished work of Christ on Calvary.

  • @Kgirl691
    @Kgirl691 8 месяцев назад

    He took the book!

  • @truthseeker6370
    @truthseeker6370 8 месяцев назад +4

    🤣🤣🤣 Perfect dog comment at the end by Dr D!

  • @diannebee
    @diannebee 9 месяцев назад +2

    Love dr John. ❤ and George. 😊 lol

  • @iMissNintendo
    @iMissNintendo 5 месяцев назад +3

    Soooooooo cute John makes it so funny!!!!!!

  • @coffeendogs
    @coffeendogs 8 месяцев назад +2

    This was great 😂❤

  • @jeannettejinny
    @jeannettejinny 8 месяцев назад +5

    Dream Team 🎊 Great work guys , keep up the hard work 👍🏻

  • @cristinap7133
    @cristinap7133 9 месяцев назад +4

    You 2 so funny ❤

  • @JLS_2023
    @JLS_2023 8 месяцев назад +3

    “Oh I saw delony do this part of the studio first and George ripped it off, books yours”

    • @JLS_2023
      @JLS_2023 8 месяцев назад

      @jack.scafide

  • @lizettemtz4484
    @lizettemtz4484 9 месяцев назад +2

    OMG u all had me cracking up!! 😂

  • @tomc4132
    @tomc4132 8 месяцев назад +7

    This was probably the best content I’ve seen from this channel! All of it’s been wonderful but you and Jon together made some a plus content today, thank you!

  • @user-yo5my1py4c
    @user-yo5my1py4c 8 месяцев назад +2

    Your Ficus needs more light. Looking at them turn yellow gives me anxiety ❤

  • @jasondima1411
    @jasondima1411 8 месяцев назад +2

    DreamTeam!!!

  • @denisemckinney3973
    @denisemckinney3973 8 месяцев назад +2

    I am with you George. No trash in my car. Paid for car. I can fit 7 people in my mom van and everyone can be comfortable in my fresh clean car. ❤

  • @russlea6383
    @russlea6383 8 месяцев назад +3

    Coming Soon -- Self-help Happy Hour 🙃🍻🤣

  • @saysthetedd
    @saysthetedd 9 месяцев назад +5

    Love the channel, George, not a fan of the word watching. Just let the guest speak from the heart.

  • @oliviafox6745
    @oliviafox6745 8 месяцев назад +3

    I thought a German smear related to mustard. 🤪

  • @charlotteohara3330
    @charlotteohara3330 8 месяцев назад +1

    Baby steps

  • @Lynnie-the-Pooh
    @Lynnie-the-Pooh 8 месяцев назад +2

    “I can change my own diaper.” 😂😂😂😂

  • @mixedbagclips2511
    @mixedbagclips2511 8 месяцев назад +4

    This is fun…
    Is it?
    *Anxiety triggers*

  • @user-lf3yu3vz4l
    @user-lf3yu3vz4l 9 месяцев назад +3

    @paxtond1, man I swore that John Delony has the same setup in his studio. Did he steal that from George?! lol

  • @maureenbenner7588
    @maureenbenner7588 8 месяцев назад

    16:58 to the end

  • @lisakoffler3732
    @lisakoffler3732 8 месяцев назад +3

    I really have a hard time when Dr. Jon jokingly puts others down. It just feels icky. I get it’s his own protective mechanism, but I find it off putting. Otherwise. Content is great. Really like George and this channel.

    • @ryebread447
      @ryebread447 8 месяцев назад +1

      Do u have an example from this video?

  • @corylemons7242
    @corylemons7242 8 месяцев назад +2

    My finances and mental health are the worst they ever been. Can I fix this at 34?

    • @frenchtruffle4730
      @frenchtruffle4730 8 месяцев назад

      Let's hope so. I'm 41 😅

    • @sharonoddlyenough
      @sharonoddlyenough 7 месяцев назад +1

      Yes you can. It takes work, and it's not easy, but it can be done

  • @MrBSchmitty
    @MrBSchmitty 8 месяцев назад

    @bschmitty2
    Ripped off the records and guitars lol

  • @jeffsanderson2737
    @jeffsanderson2737 9 месяцев назад +1

    That’s too much work to figure that out

  • @charlotteohara3330
    @charlotteohara3330 8 месяцев назад

    What

  • @ankitakamat9424
    @ankitakamat9424 8 месяцев назад +10

    Hey george. Love your content. But hate your word game. It gets very distracting from the main content. As in, you already keep the content fun and light. You dnt need these extra distractions. Instead of paying attention to what your guest was saying, I kept waiting for the word.

    • @autumnlange1220
      @autumnlange1220 8 месяцев назад +2

      I agree completely. Very distracting when talking about a serious topic. Love them both though ❤

  • @francoisnguyen6623
    @francoisnguyen6623 8 месяцев назад +1

    Since ‘83?
    Weren’t you born in ‘89?

  • @Flownthecoup23
    @Flownthecoup23 9 месяцев назад +10

    Know Jesus, know peace. No Jesus, No peace 😁

    • @wolfpackflt670
      @wolfpackflt670 8 месяцев назад +1

      Lol. Whatever helps you sleep at night.

    • @sharonoddlyenough
      @sharonoddlyenough 7 месяцев назад

      ​@wolfpackflt670 the majority of the audience here is Christian, so try to let it slide like water off a duck

  • @busigator96
    @busigator96 7 месяцев назад

    Book shelves

  • @nae4830
    @nae4830 9 месяцев назад +7

    That bowl with words game is HORRIBLE.

  • @RussellRonnebaum
    @RussellRonnebaum 8 месяцев назад +1

    I tried to watch this video for help with my own anxiety, but you kept interrupting yourselves with the contrived word game… 😢

  • @normantheforeman9866
    @normantheforeman9866 8 месяцев назад

    We got here because we invented labels for anxiety. It’s called life, it’s normal

  • @USCMM09
    @USCMM09 8 месяцев назад +3

    Not a fan of the "word watching". I think it harms the integrity of the conversation because everyone is more concerned about inserting the word rather than giving clear advice.

  • @bythebook1548
    @bythebook1548 Месяц назад

    Like your mom choosing reality with you. 😂😂😂

  • @saeedhossain6099
    @saeedhossain6099 9 месяцев назад +2

    40m, way to patholagize for the benefit of pharma companies....

  • @jonimitchell6962
    @jonimitchell6962 8 месяцев назад +1

    The word game is very distracting.

  • @JakeSpradlin2
    @JakeSpradlin2 9 месяцев назад +3

    George ripped off the dark tones in the studio, as well as the bookshelf in the background! Both are great sets, but are similar for two stellar dudes @JakeSpradlin

  • @sgtmaj2705
    @sgtmaj2705 8 месяцев назад +1

    Everybody wants Instagram, twitter, facebook , to be in the contests. I'm old and live in the country. I barely have internet and carry a flip phone.

  • @janelle7778
    @janelle7778 9 месяцев назад +3

    It’s nice that George decorated his studio with a lot of books in the background which is really similar to how Dr. John always keeps books and records in the background on his show! @janelleogramma

  • @laneyluneva
    @laneyluneva 9 месяцев назад +2

    George totally ripped off the aesthetic of the studio. It's dark and wood themed, very masculine. Also, if I win then George better sign it too! 🤣🤣 @LaneyLune

  • @kendallhaines323
    @kendallhaines323 8 месяцев назад +1

    Oh! I saw Dr Delony have books in his office first!!! @kendallhainesandfam

  • @ronpanaligan9862
    @ronpanaligan9862 9 месяцев назад +2

    outfits are always black @rpanaligan

  • @sophiejohnson969
    @sophiejohnson969 8 месяцев назад +1

    Ripped off the all black clothing! @sophcjohnson

  • @nick_fitch
    @nick_fitch 9 месяцев назад +2

    Ripped off the amp in the background. @nick_fitch

  • @chriskaye3520
    @chriskaye3520 8 месяцев назад +2

    The shelves and books, but most of all George is trying to steal our viewership from John 😂 @chriskaye6

  • @ecsimmy
    @ecsimmy 9 месяцев назад +2

    Ripped off the records. @ericsimcoe

  • @Joel-hp4hh
    @Joel-hp4hh 8 месяцев назад +1

    I genuinely did not understand what it takes to get that book. So respectfully, please give it to me ♡
    @joelisaacthomas